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    I changed virtually everything in my
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    life from my emotions to my finances
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    from my confidence to my physical health
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    how do they do it well I use what I call
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    the ultimate success formula and here's
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    what it is it has four steps if you want
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    to create the success in your life it
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    always comes back to this you can use
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    whatever technology you want to
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    reprogram yourself but these are the
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    four steps for success step number one
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    you've got to know your outcome in any
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    situation in life you've got to decide
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    right now what do I want out of this
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    situation in my life the more clear you
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    are on what you want the more you
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    empower your brain to come up with
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    answers there's an old phrase that may
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    have been overused but I think it's
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    pretty accurate
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    it says clarity is power you must get
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    focused on what you want and in this
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    tape program we have a goal-setting
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    workshop it's going to help you to get
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    precisely clear and what you want in
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    your life mentally emotionally socially
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    spiritually intellectually so that you
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    have something that's the driving force
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    behind your behavior how can you use
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    this first formula to make a difference
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    in your life right now how could just
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    getting clear and knowing your outcome
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    help you well I believe when you know
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    your outcome you've empowered yourself I
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    mean let's say for example you're in the
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    middle of an argument and have you ever
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    gotten caught up in an argument we're so
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    caught up in it that you forgot what
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    you're even arguing for but you knew you
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    had to win I know I've been there see if
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    in the middle of that argument you would
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    ask the question hey what's my outcome
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    in this situation you're going to
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    probably find out your outcome is not to
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    argue the outcome you want is to resolve
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    something when you get focused on what
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    you really want out of a situation you
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    empower your brain to use its resources
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    to produce results right now so get into
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    that habit the habit of asking yourself
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    what's my outcome and throughout these
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    30 days I'm going to constantly ask you
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    how can you use this what I just said
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    what's useful about that for your life
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    what is your outcome and applying this
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    in your own life it's critical to
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    continually focus on your target even if
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    you're just going to buy to visit with a
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    friend on the way over to see a friend
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    ask yourself what's my outcome maybe the
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    answer is we'll just have fun or to make
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    my friend feel really appreciated and
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    loved now if you know that your outcome
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    your chances of having more fun or
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    making
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    friends feel love go up a thousand
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    percent versus if you just go over and
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    hang out and wonder why you're bored now
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    I'm not saying you have to be so
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    goal-oriented that every minute you're
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    trying to achieve something I'm just
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    saying it's useful to let your brain
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    know the direction that you're heading
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    and everyone I know who succeeded had to
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    start with getting clear on exactly what
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    they wanted your step to the ultimate
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    success form by the way step one I did I
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    decided what I wanted physically
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    financially emotionally in my business I
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    looked at everything spiritually once I
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    knew I had the first stage of my
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    personal power
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    step two - tapping your power is you've
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    got to use it that is you've got to get
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    yourself to take action and move towards
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    the achievement of your goals now what
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    most people tell me is but I don't know
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    what to do I don't know I'd never ever
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    what if I try and it doesn't work all I
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    can say Dee is this if you try it it
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    doesn't work you got an education you're
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    better off than where you were before
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    because you now know what doesn't work
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    and you'll probably make a distinction
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    or two that'll help you succeed even
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    more most people life have no idea what
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    they want but worse a few people know
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    what they want but they don't do
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    anything about it
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    they just sit around and hope or say
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    someday honey we'll do this someday is
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    now some day is here I remember hearing
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    a phrase years ago that said the road to
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    someday leads to a town of nowhere it's
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    a place you don't want to end up in so
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    you got to get yourself to take action
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    how do you do that you decide
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    I hear people all the time saying well
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    gosh how do I change my life and my
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    answer is decide to make a decision
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    right now you're not willing to settle
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    for anything less than you can be that
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    you're not willing to live the way
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    you're living right now no matter how
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    good it may seem but you're going to
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    push yourself to the next level
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    demanding more from yourself than
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    anybody else could possibly expect is
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    true power and all it takes is deciding
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    remember the word decision in its
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    original Latin root means to cut off
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    from when you decide you cut off from
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    any other possibility the biggest trap
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    that keeps people from taking action is
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    their fear their fear of failure their
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    fear of success their fear of rejection
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    their fear of pain if you're the unknown
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    the only way to deal with fear is face
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    it look at I - I and take action in
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    spite of it I'm sure you've probably
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    heard of some of the seminar
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    I do in which we teach people how to
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    break through their fears and take
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    action and at the end of the seminar
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    they get a chance to use what they've
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    learned to overcome a major fear and
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    literally walk through fire between 800
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    and 2,000 degrees Fahrenheit now a lot
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    of people think it's crazy but why would
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    you do a thing like that well it's not
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    to teach people new picnic skills and if
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    not mind over matter right now you could
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    walk through fire I'm not encouraging
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    you to make sure you hear me but you
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    could it's absolutely possible you don't
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    need me to do it you could also be up at
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    6 o'clock a.m. with total passion for
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    living you could also have the person of
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    your dreams be in your life right now
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    you could also be earning what you're
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    worth you could also have more influence
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    on your children than virtually anyone
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    else but few people do it's not what we
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    can do in life that makes the difference
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    it's what we will do and we don't follow
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    through because we don't know what we
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    want oftentimes and when we know we're
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    afraid to take action listen fear can
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    service fear isn't all bad it'll make us
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    pay attention as long as fear is a
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    counselor and not a jailer make sure
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    that you listen to your fear make some
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    more distinctions and get yourself to
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    take action in spite of it and I got to
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    tell you breaking through fear is like
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    anything else it's like a muscle in the
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    beginning if you try and lift a heavy
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    weight boy you might say gosh I can't do
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    this but if you start small and you
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    build every single day for like 30 days
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    for example and what's going to happen
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    is every day you get a little stronger
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    and pretty soon it becomes effortless to
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    do what used to feel like it was
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    impossible it's time for you to develop
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    the muscle of making decisions quickly
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    and easily and following through on them
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    here's the third key element to the
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    ultimate success formula once you know
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    what you want and you get yourself to
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    take action do your actions always work
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    of course not
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    most people might fail much more often
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    they succeed in fact the most successful
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    people are the most successful people
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    because they failed more than anybody
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    else I mean think about it
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    think about any baseball in baseball a
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    Hall of Famer someone who's the best in
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    the world at what they do in the area of
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    baseball they fail 7 times out of 10
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    how'd you like to have a life like that
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    bottom line is to get in the Hall of
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    Fame they only succeed about 30% of the
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    time they failed more than 70% of the
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    time and you know
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    that's how life is - he listened and
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    doing this taping with you and talking
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    you personally I may not sound elegant
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    all the time because I don't care what I
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    want to do is get across you I want you
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    to get the message in your gut that's
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    what matters me if I say something
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    doesn't work I just move on to something
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    else
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    and I ask you to try the same thing in
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    life most people life has a fear of
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    failure don't try anything at all that's
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    ultimate failure you got to get yourself
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    to take action you got to get yourself
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    to follow through and you've got to be
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    willing to notice whether it's working
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    or not that's step three notice what
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    you're getting from your actions in
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    other words you know what you want you
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    got yourself to take action now notice
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    is it working am I getting closer to my
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    goal or further away don't kid yourself
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    or just keep taking action because after
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    all you work so hard to do it this way I
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    might as well keep on doing it so you
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    don't want to get locked in a tunnel
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    vision
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    remember flexibility is power what
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    you've got to do those know what you're
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    getting I mean a standard example is
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    have you ever had somebody come up and
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    talk to you and they're going on and on
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    and on and you're trying to be very
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    polite and they mistake you're being
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    polite there's a way to speed up this
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    formula and that way is this instead of
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    just knowing what you want and taking
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    random actions you can use what I call
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    role modeling to accelerate the pace of
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    your success what I did is I said okay
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    what do I want I'm 38 pounds overweight
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    I want to lose this weight I want to be
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    38 pounds lighter and I want to have
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    more energy I want to feel more vibrant
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    in my life you can tell by my energy
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    level that I'm real low energy person
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    now compared to I was then seriously I
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    decided what I wanted and then what I
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    did is I said okay I got to take action
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    but what action should I take I didn't
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    know I tried dieting a zillion times and
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    you know what it would work I would lose
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    weight then I gained it right back again
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    and I'd lose weight and gain it back
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    again so what I decided to do is instead
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    of just taking some actions and sooner
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    or later figuring it out I decided to
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    use a role model I said let me find
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    someone who's already getting the
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    results that I want let me find out what
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    that person is doing and do the same
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    things not as I believe that success
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    leaves clues that if people succeed it's
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    because they're doing certain things
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    over and over and over again and if we
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    do the same kinds of things if we plant
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    the same kinds of seeds we're going to
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    reap the same kind
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    regardless of our age or a background or
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    religion or color or a gender none of
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    that matters what matters is the law
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    works for everyone and if you apply it
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    it'll work but you got to know what to
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    do and so this program is the result of
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    me going out and modeling people that
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    are successful that is instead of
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    reinventing the wheel and having you and
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    I keep doing trial and error on
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    everything I said hey let me find some
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    he's already in the results find out
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    what they do do the same thing get the
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    same results speed up time you gotta
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    remember knowledge is not power
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    knowledge is potential power I mean
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    don't you know someone who knows what
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    they should do with their life knows
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    they should change your life knows how
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    they can change the life and they still
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    don't do it you know somebody like that
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    may be intimately like maybe you for
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    example at times then the bottom line is
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    knowledge is not enough we got to get
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    ourselves to follow through so what did
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    I do
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    I found somebody who had been overweight
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    like me had become thin and stayed thin
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    for years I found out what this person
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    did and I did the same things I'm going
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    to teach you in this program what to do
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    to do that it wasn't just dieting that's
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    not enough that's a result of following
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    through and taking the same actions I
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    lost 30 pounds in 30 days
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    I lost all 38 pounds in about 7 weeks
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    and I haven't gone back and the reason
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    is I didn't just change my diet I
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    learned to mentally conditioned myself
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    to feel differently about certain foods
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    I was addicted to so I no longer had a
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    desire for them the things that used to
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    push me over the edge I did the same
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    thing in the area of relationships I
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    found a man who had the woman of my
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    dreams and I talked to her today
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    how did you attract this woman and I
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    talked to her and said why do you like
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    this guy you know why are you in a
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    relationship with him and I began to
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    find out certain things he did that made
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    that relationship work and I start
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    applying some of the same things and I
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    did the same thing financially I went
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    from a place where I had no confidence
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    in myself emotionally feeling depressed
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    to a place of total strength and
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    financially I mean a measurable change
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    to say the least I was broke living in
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    my for mid square-foot bachelor
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    apartment what happened in less than 12
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    months I moved my 1,200 square foot
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    apartment major progress at the time 3
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    times bigger
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    to about 4 months later I moved to a
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    10,000 square foot castle literally a
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    castle built in 1925 with a big
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    three-story turret
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    we're looking the crashing waves of Del
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    Mar California I don't tell you this to
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    impress you I tell it to impress upon
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    you how quickly you can make changes in
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    your life if you learn to master this
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    incredible computer between your ears
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    called your brain that's we're going to
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    study we're going to study neurosciences
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    the sciences of success conditioning
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    that's what this whole program is about
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    we're going to do it a little piece at a
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    time so it's simple if you will do that
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    the culmination of the 30 days you will
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    find you've gone on a mental diet that
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    will change your life forever if success
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    is really this simple if you could go
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    from being where I was years ago broken
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    every sense of the word
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    emotionally broke physically broke
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    socially broke and financially broke to
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    wealthy in all those areas meeting my
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    dreams becoming a millionaire in less
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    than 12 months that's really possible if
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    it's really as simple as using your
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    personal power and being flexible in
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    your approach and modeling those
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    successful people if it's really that
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    simple how come everybody doesn't do
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    this that's a good question a lot of
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    things in life are really simple that
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    people don't apply them because they get
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    caught up in day to day stuff like well
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    you know I've got to pay my dues I get
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    caught up in making that living it's
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    better designing the life and they come
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    to the end of their life and find out
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    they lived only 1/10 of it not because
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    they weren't intelligent simply because
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    they didn't get clear about what they
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    wanted they didn't get themselves to
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    consistently take action and develop
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    that decision-making massive action
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    muscle in an emotional body they didn't
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    vary their behaviors and now they're
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    stuck it's not a place I think you want
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    to be otherwise you wouldn't invested in
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    this program and you wouldn't be taking
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    the time to listen now so what I'm
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    asking to do is break through those
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    fears that stop you and you know the
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    biggest one that comes up again and
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    again we've already mentioned is failure
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    I want you to know that failure can be
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    your best friend I mean think about it
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    the greatest successes in the world are
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    people who often have so much pain from
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    a failure that drove them to much
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    greater success did you know those
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    little 3m stickers for example those
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    ones that you see that you can put there
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    I think they're called post-it notes you
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    can write on and put them on something
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    and take it right off instantly do you
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    know that was a result of a massive
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    failure by the chemist he was working at
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    the time to create and he civ that would
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    last forever something that you could
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    never pry things apart
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    and as a result he came up with a stuff
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    that didn't work at all but he was smart
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    enough to say hey what can I use this
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    for how could I use the supposed failure
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    and he turned it into a
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    multimillion-dollar business
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    Lee Iacocca most people would agree with
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    one of the more successful role models
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    in our country now I got a question for
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    you how come he so successful because
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    he's a wonder kid well yeah you could
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    say that he worked for a company called
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    Ford Motor Company and he worked his way
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    through the ranks right up to the top
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    worked his tail off was driven what
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    really marked him his ability to get
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    people to take action his personal power
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    he develops skill because he's one to
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    try almost anything he wouldn't accept
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    no for an answer but you know what he
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    had a little run-in with a guy by the
  • 13:56 - 14:02
    name of Ford and he fired him and burned
  • 13:59 - 14:03
    him pretty good now I got a question for
  • 14:02 - 14:05
    you do you think when this company named
  • 14:03 - 14:07
    Chrysler came by and they look like for
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    sure there was no way they could have
  • 14:07 - 14:10
    turned around do you think if he hadn't
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    been fired by Ford that he would have
  • 14:10 - 14:14
    taken it you might say oh of course he
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    would that's the way Lee is well I don't
  • 14:14 - 14:18
    know according to his wife she said at
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    the time he said honey I don't think
  • 14:18 - 14:22
    anybody could turn this thing around she
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    said boy well I bet mr. Ford will be
  • 14:22 - 14:27
    real happy to hear that that's all it
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    took he was so angry from the pain and
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    failure of his past quote unquote
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    failure that he was going to show him it
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    wasn't his failure that mr. Ford made
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    the mistake another company to mention
  • 14:35 - 14:40
    IBM it all started he's a guy by the
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    name of Tom Watson who worked for a
  • 14:40 - 14:45
    competing company called NCR got fired
  • 14:42 - 14:47
    by the CEO there also he got so mad he
  • 14:45 - 14:50
    said I'm going to develop a company that
  • 14:47 - 14:53
    will dwarf your someday see welcome
  • 14:50 - 14:54
    frustration I got to tell you something
  • 14:53 - 14:55
    when I get frustrated I've learned to
  • 14:54 - 14:57
    get excited I learned to literally
  • 14:55 - 14:59
    condition myself so that frustration
  • 14:57 - 15:00
    great excitement you know why because
  • 14:59 - 15:02
    I'm frustrated I know I'm about to have
  • 15:00 - 15:04
    a breakthrough it means my brain is
  • 15:02 - 15:06
    searching if I get confused about some
  • 15:04 - 15:08
    things that are going I'll never learn
  • 15:06 - 15:10
    this my response to that is hey I'm
  • 15:08 - 15:12
    about to learn something because my
  • 15:10 - 15:13
    brain is searching for a new answer and
  • 15:12 - 15:13
    if it keeps searching it's going to come
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    up with one
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    I believe the emotions that many of us
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    consider negative like frustration and
  • 15:17 - 15:22
    rejection and pain can be our greatest
  • 15:20 - 15:24
    friends because they can drive us to
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    success you know what I think one of the
  • 15:24 - 15:26
    things that happens for a lot of people
  • 15:25 - 15:28
    make it successful is it gets
  • 15:26 - 15:29
    superstitious it's like they work so
  • 15:28 - 15:30
    hard for the success they now finally
  • 15:29 - 15:31
    haven't so all of a sudden they don't
  • 15:30 - 15:33
    change they don't vary
  • 15:31 - 15:35
    maybe they kind of like want to stay the
  • 15:33 - 15:36
    way things are they get incredibly
  • 15:35 - 15:39
    conservative and they miss out on the
  • 15:36 - 15:41
    juice of life stay out of the trap
  • 15:39 - 15:44
    listen when people succeed they tend to
  • 15:41 - 15:47
    party when they fail they tend to ponder
  • 15:44 - 15:50
    now the pondering many times we create
  • 15:47 - 15:52
    our greatest successes in life just
  • 15:50 - 15:54
    remember it's impossible to fail if you
  • 15:52 - 15:56
    try something it doesn't work just try
  • 15:54 - 15:58
    something else and learn something from
  • 15:56 - 16:00
    what you just did as long as you learn
  • 15:58 - 16:02
    something you've succeeded something
  • 16:00 - 16:04
    else I want to remind you of as well and
  • 16:02 - 16:05
    that is sometimes people say well gosh
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    I'm gonna do these exercises I know I'm
  • 16:05 - 16:08
    going to be better physically and
  • 16:06 - 16:09
    emotionally and psychologically and I'll
  • 16:08 - 16:11
    feel more confident but I want to work
  • 16:09 - 16:14
    on my career I want to take my business
  • 16:11 - 16:15
    next level I want a business program let
  • 16:14 - 16:17
    me tell you what personal power is one
  • 16:15 - 16:19
    of the most powerful business programs
  • 16:17 - 16:21
    because it deals with the source of all
  • 16:19 - 16:23
    your business which is you when you're
  • 16:21 - 16:24
    in better shape suddenly you negotiate
  • 16:23 - 16:26
    more effectively when you're in better
  • 16:24 - 16:27
    shape your creativity flows when you're
  • 16:26 - 16:29
    in better shape you're a better manager
  • 16:27 - 16:31
    of people that's why if you saw the
  • 16:29 - 16:33
    infomercial which is how I assume you
  • 16:31 - 16:36
    got to this program then you saw people
  • 16:33 - 16:38
    like for example Bill Farley of Farley
  • 16:36 - 16:39
    industries endorsing this program saying
  • 16:38 - 16:40
    is one of the best business programs
  • 16:39 - 16:42
    they ever went through
  • 16:40 - 16:45
    well that's because bill became a
  • 16:42 - 16:46
    billionaire before the age of 40 all by
  • 16:45 - 16:48
    using these personal power type of
  • 16:46 - 16:50
    techniques so I want you know this is
  • 16:48 - 16:52
    very business oriented or a Bill
  • 16:50 - 16:54
    Nicholson it was a turn around expert
  • 16:52 - 16:56
    from major corporations you know in the
  • 16:54 - 16:59
    early 80s he took on a major corporation
  • 16:56 - 17:01
    losing a million dollars a day and
  • 16:59 - 17:03
    turned it around so within four years it
  • 17:01 - 17:05
    was doing more than four billion dollars
  • 17:03 - 17:07
    in revenue in the highest net returns of
  • 17:05 - 17:08
    the history of the company so I want you
  • 17:07 - 17:09
    to know that these people endorses
  • 17:08 - 17:12
    because it works so if you're a little
  • 17:09 - 17:14
    bit skeptical I understand that but
  • 17:12 - 17:16
    understand changing yourself is the
  • 17:14 - 17:19
    first place to change in your career and
  • 17:16 - 17:21
    changing your business right now as this
  • 17:19 - 17:23
    tape ends I want you to do your first
  • 17:21 - 17:25
    assignment really simple remember I told
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    you the way to build a muscle so that
  • 17:25 - 17:28
    you're really strong it starts small and
  • 17:26 - 17:30
    build so we're gonna start with
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    something really simple I want you to
  • 17:30 - 17:35
    think of two actions you've been putting
  • 17:32 - 17:36
    off two things that you should do two
  • 17:35 - 17:38
    things that you need to do but you keep
  • 17:36 - 17:40
    putting it off maybe it's a phone call
  • 17:38 - 17:42
    or two maybe it's somebody you've had
  • 17:40 - 17:43
    some poor communication with and you
  • 17:42 - 17:45
    need to clean it up but you're not
  • 17:43 - 17:47
    it may be it's just going in the house
  • 17:45 - 17:49
    and cleaning it up right now maybe it's
  • 17:47 - 17:52
    some kind of report you need to do I
  • 17:49 - 17:53
    don't know what it is but right now I
  • 17:52 - 17:55
    want you to think of what are two
  • 17:53 - 17:57
    actions you've been putting off that if
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    you were to take them now it would
  • 17:57 - 18:00
    increase the quality of your life either
  • 17:58 - 18:01
    simply would just increase the quality
  • 18:00 - 18:02
    of your self-esteem because you feel
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    good because you actually follow through
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    or maybe even more powerfully what are
  • 18:05 - 18:09
    two decisions or two actions you could
  • 18:07 - 18:12
    take right now that would immediately
  • 18:09 - 18:14
    change the quality of your life maybe
  • 18:12 - 18:16
    it's to stop smoking maybe it's to
  • 18:14 - 18:17
    eliminate certain kinds of food but if
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    you were going to do something right now
  • 18:17 - 18:20
    there's going to change your life what
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    are those two actions and what I want
  • 18:20 - 18:24
    you to do is decide
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    remember to decide means to cut off any
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    of the possibility to resolve once and
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    for all this is it there's tremendous
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    power in that start with something small
  • 18:31 - 18:35
    if you want and then build but right now
  • 18:33 - 18:37
    right down to decisions you've made and
  • 18:35 - 18:39
    then take action on them immediately I
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    mean right now I mean even before I
  • 18:39 - 18:43
    finish talking here stop the day pick up
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    the phone and make that call you've been
  • 18:43 - 18:46
    waiting for do not put it off another
  • 18:44 - 18:49
    minute I don't care what it takes
  • 18:46 - 18:50
    there's power and momentum I'm a big
  • 18:49 - 18:52
    believer that once you set a goal once
  • 18:50 - 18:54
    you make a decision you should
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    immediately in that moment do something
  • 18:54 - 18:58
    to start making progress towards it that
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    way you can't cop out later on or get
  • 18:58 - 19:02
    caught up or lose your momentum so
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    please do it now I know not all things
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    can be done right now so maybe it's
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    something that to do tomorrow morning
  • 19:05 - 19:08
    but whatever you're going to do make the
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    decision and then commit to
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    follow-through and then check in
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    tomorrow because this is the first step
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    to grabbing your personal power and
  • 19:14 - 19:17
    remember there's no way to fail you
  • 19:16 - 19:19
    might simple gosh what if I do this and
  • 19:17 - 19:21
    it doesn't work what if I try this and
  • 19:19 - 19:25
    it doesn't happen hey what if I screw up
  • 19:21 - 19:26
    then screw up big go for do a big screw
  • 19:25 - 19:29
    up because then you'll learn something
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    hey remember success in life is the
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    result of good judgment
  • 19:30 - 19:36
    good judgment is usually the result of
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    experience experience is usually the
  • 19:36 - 19:41
    result of bad judgment so if you got
  • 19:39 - 19:42
    some bad judgment it doesn't work out
  • 19:41 - 19:44
    you'll learn something it'll make you
  • 19:42 - 19:46
    more successful in the future just go
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    for it don't be afraid make it happen
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    you may say wow that's such a little
  • 19:48 - 19:50
    thing to do I'll do it later if it's
  • 19:50 - 19:54
    little then do it now
  • 19:50 - 19:56
    don't put it off okay I'm on your side
  • 19:54 - 19:57
    hey what I'm trying to be here for you
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    is a good
  • 19:57 - 20:02
    you know I don't care how successful you
  • 19:59 - 20:02
    are we all need a coach
  • 20:08 - 20:10
    you
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