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A pro wrestler's guide to confidence

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    Picture it:
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    a big, sweaty, tatooed-man
    in a cowboy hat and chaps,
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    and send him in the ring
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    as the arena,
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    full of fans cheer him on.
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    Their hero.
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    Cowboy Gator McGraw.
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    Gator bounces off the ropes
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    and is quickly body-slammed to the mat.
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    His wild opponent leaps into the air,
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    crashing down onto Gator's rib cage.
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    Gator struggles to breathe,
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    wondering, "Is this really what
    my father wanted for me?"
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    That wild man in the chaps ...
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    was me.
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    (Applause)
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    And the answer to the question,
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    surprisingly is yes.
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    (Laughter)
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    I grew up watching professional
    wrestling with my dad.
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    And like him, I loved everything about it:
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    the showmanship,
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    the athletic skill,
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    the drama.
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    I'd be this little boy,
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    bouncing all over our living room,
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    pretending to be my favorite
    wrestlers from TV.
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    My dad actually reminded me
    a little bit of Hulk Hogan,
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    but I was Hulk Hogan
    and he was Andre the Giant.
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    I'd get all serious on him,
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    and say things like, "Dad,
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    someday I am going to be
    world heavyweight champion."
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    And we would usually smile
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    and very calmly say, "OK,
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    then I guess I can count on you
    to be my retirement fund."
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    (Laughter)
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    When I was 16,
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    a small wrestling show came to my
    little town in Minnesota,
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    and I couldn't believe it.
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    Nothing like that had ever
    come to my town before.
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    So of course I got to the arena
    early in the morning the day of the show,
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    waiting out in the parking lot
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    to see if I could spot some wrestlers
    pulling up in their cars.
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    It wasn't as creepy as it sounds.
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    But I could definitely tell
    who the wrestlers were
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    just the way the walked.
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    They were tall and confident
    and intimidating
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    with their tank tops,
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    and [zoobas] and fanny packs.
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    (Laughter)
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    Why wouldn't I want to be them?
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    (Laughter)
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    All I could think about was,
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    who are these people,
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    and what are they like?
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    How did they become wrestlers?
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    So before the show started,
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    I walking into this tiny area --
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    more like a gymnasium --
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    and I asked them if I could help
    set up the wrestling ring.
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    "Sure, kid. No problem."
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    And then I pleaded with them
    to show me some wrestling moves.
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    "Sure, kid. No problem."
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    Man, they would just punch and kick me --
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    hard.
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    But I never complained.
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    They would come to my town for one night
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    every couple of months that year,
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    and poof --
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    next day they were gone.
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    By the next year,
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    they finally told me about an actual
    wrestling training camp
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    that one of the wrestlers was running,
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    and I begged my parents to sign me up.
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    Next thing I knew,
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    I was a high school senior by day
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    and wrestling in front of live
    audiences by night.
Title:
A pro wrestler's guide to confidence
Speaker:
Mike Kinney
Description:

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Video Language:
English
Team:
closed TED
Project:
TEDTalks
Duration:
13:27

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