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Welcome back everyone to Shanghai
Share Life, part 2 of episode 1!

We're observing a group of young people
living inside a nice house for 105 days.

Let's review what happened from
last episode.

In the last episode, 6 young adults
arrived at the house for the first time.

During grocery shopping,
Curry showed off his "leadership skill"

and got complaints from all the girls.

- Not just the girls though.
- The guys too.

- The guys too.
- No one has let him off the hook.

Everyone complained about him.

It looks like Tianqi doesn't like
to be under Curry's rule.

Can we not have this meeting right now?

No, we have to settle this because
the money is everyone's money.

This is unnecessary.

We have to figure this out together.

Why can't we just do it
when we go shopping?

Nana was asked to do the dishes but
didn't have time to do it that night.

The next morning, Carmon wanted to help
but Curry stopped her.

- Should I wash them?
- No, why would you do it for them?

When Nana and Tianqi came back after work,
a big argument broke out because of the dishes.

Did you remember that you were supposed
to do the dishes today?

You didn't think to help her do it while
you've just been sitting here?

Why would I do that?

You think no one else has anything to do
but you two?

But you could just be a gentleman and
help out the girls a bit, can't you?

It's nothing, it's just dishes.
I needed to do it anyway.

Exactly, it should be her.

As for relationships, it's clear that
Nana and Tianqi are starting to flirt.

The scene where they wash dishes together
somehow seemed romantic.

- It's not "starting" to flirt.
- It's 99.9% flirting!

Yeah, seems like they're already there.

Let's see how it progresses
in this episode.

Episode 2, Week 1
"Invisible Ruler"

You're by yourself?

How's it going?

We just got here, I think
the space is pretty nice.

How about you?

I... just feel like I'm still not used to
living here yet.

How come?

Well, I have a dog...

I didn't bring him here because
everything is still new.

I know that he'd probably have a
hard time adjusting.

- I have a dog too.
- You have a dog too?

So right now I'm living here, but I had
to leave him at the pet hotel.

Yeah so...

[panelist] They have something
in common!

I actually don't really like
being away from my dog.

Me neither. Because I never..
because he's 4 years old now,

We've never spent more than
a day apart.

- What kind of dog do you have?
- I have a shiba inu.

What's their name?

"Er Lang."
(it means "second son")

What about yours?

Mine is named Popsicle.

Popsicle.

He's a mutt, let me find
some pictures for you.

He looks like this.

This is when he first got sent to the
pet hotel, poor guy.

He looks pretty skinny.

I think he's about 10kg.

My dog is about 15kg, he's really fat.

Let me show you.

In all the companies that I started and
all my projects, I use my dog as the logos.

- This is something I drew recently.
- So cute!

Yeah, he's a fat dummy.

Chubby to the point where he
has a humpback when he sits.

So fat.

He does look pretty goofy.

Do you miss him?

What do you think?

I miss him so much. I used to even
take him with me on my work trips.

We're always together.

The thing with my dog is...
if he stays at the pet hotel for too long

I'm afraid there will be some emotional
problems or something.

Do you want to bring your dog here?

- I... I'm actually thinking about it.
- Same here.

- Lately my dog has been refusing to eat.
- Refusing to eat?!

Yeah, his mood and appetite have been
really bad lately.

I feel like maybe we can talk to our
housemates and see what they think?

Yes, yes!

We can let them meet our dogs first, then
ask them if they like them or not, right?

Chu Mengna (NaNa)
Student, 22 years old

Chen Xiaowei (Binshen)
Professional gamer, 23 years old

Jin Yujie
Model, 22 years old

Liu Keli (Curry)
Social media entrepreneur, 29 years old

Wu Kawen (Carmon)
Designer, 29 years old

Wang Tianqi
Salesperson, 26 years old

[coworker] What's like to be on that show?

It's just... you know, 3 guys and 3 girls
living together.

So how do you feel about them?

The guys or the girls?

Of course the girls!
Why would I ask about the guys?

The girls...

I feel like I don't hang out with them
too much.

There's one girl I think is
pretty cute, though.

- We'll see.
- Then you must be pretty shy.

Not shy exactly, just taking time
to get to know them.

So there's one cute girl, huh?

Yeah, just an initial feeling.

- I think he's talking about Nana.
- Right, the cute one.

I don't think he's taking time though,
he already asked her out!

Did you see the pay stub for
this month?

Yeah. I got deducted 1000 yuan...

Seems kind of excessive.

- What about you?
- I got four or five hundred deducted.

The base pay is already low, then it gets
deducted if you're late by one minute..

Who doesn't rush to get to work?

I agree, I feel like one day our pay stub
will be negative.

Don't even bother paying me,
I'll just pay the boss to work.

Welcome home.

Hello!

[Curry huffing heavily]

You came back late,
did you just get off work?

I just got off, yeah.

What's wrong?

Today I got my pay stub
for this month.

And we get deducted 10 yuan for
every minute we're late to work.

- Huh?
- 10 yuan for 1 minute.

I got deducted 1000 yuan
this month.

That's kind of....I think
that's excessive.

It's outrageous, really.
I don't know what the company is thinking.

I feel like the company takes every chance
they get to oppress their employees,

and take every penny from you.

I feel like...I mean, although it's not
good to be late for work,

your company's policy a bit too much.

It's nothing.

It's just a bit of money.

I mean... you don't make much in the first place,
it's not a small amount

[sigh]

Don't be upset, let's just not
be late from now, right?

[panelist] Haha, as if.

I'll try my best, I don't want to either.

[panelist] He's here, get ready
for another lesson.

What's up?

I got deducted 1000 yuan from my paycheck.

For every minute late, you
get 10 yuan deducted.

I guess it means you've
been late a lot lately.

Maybe, but they count
literally every minute.

If something happens one day and you're
late by a lot, in the end it all adds up.

But I think that's a pretty normal practice
for legitimate companies.

No, I know late-to-work deductions
are normal

but it's my first time working at a place
where they do it by the minute.

And there's no limit to the amount
they can deduct.

But for a company, one of the most
important management policies is

making sure employees are punctual.

Really?

Yeah. If you can't make sure that your
employees come to work on time,

it's really difficult to manage
everything else on the team.

But don't you think this policy
is too extreme?

Well... if they treat you this way, they
probably treat everyone else the same way.

And maybe you have
been late too many times.

So you're saying that if there's an unreasonable policy
that gets applied equally to everyone,

it becomes reasonable?

From my point of view, I can at least
understand why they do it.

I can also understand that
you just moved here,

maybe your commute became farther
and it takes extra time in the morning

but I would still suggest that you take the
responsibility to adjust to the environment.

Oh, so you mean there's nothing wrong
with the policy, it's all my fault, right?

Well you chose this job, right,
and you love this line of work.

Being in the fashion industry
is your dream.

Right?

Okay, got it.

I'm going back to the room.

- I think Tianqi is mad.
- Yeah, he is.

I'm mad at him!

[laughter]

I feel like... Curry is right though.

- Yeah, he was spot on.
- Yeah.

Tianqi is great at blaming others,
but he never examines himself.

He even said "it's all my fault"
so passive aggressively.

- Of course it's your fault!
- You're one to talk when you're late!

If you can't change the policy
you can at least change yourself!

There's no issue if you're not late.

[friend] What are you doing here?

What are you doing here?
It's been so long!

- Same!
- You haven't contacted me in a while!

- What are you doing here, working?
- Yeah, we're trying on the outfits.

Where's your boyfriend?
Doesn't he usually come to these things?

Um.. I don't know, maybe
today was inconvenient.

Hasn't he come with you to every show?

It's nothing.

- Does he have work?
- No.

What is it?

We broke up.

Why?

He cheated.

I would have forgotten about it already
if you hadn't brought it up! It's fine.

- You don't have to always pretend to be strong.
- I'm not, I'm not.

Make sure you're eating and taking
care of yourself. I worry about you.

- You too.
- You know?

- I have to go now.
- Okay, call me.

- Bye bye.
- Go, go. Call me.

Pay attention to the music
when you're walking.

Lift your head. You forgot again.
Lift your head.

Don't move your hands.

Don't sway your hands,
how many times do I have to say it?

Don't move your hands,
do you want me to switch you out?

Walk.

- This segment was heavy.
- Yes, it was serious.

Only the second episode and
it's already gotten so personal.

After seeing this, my opinion
of Curry has improved.

- He's decent.
- Yeah, he's actually a pretty caring person.

He's really gotten Yang Li's attention.

This wasn't the part that moved Yang Li.

When he was working out.. I felt like
that was an accurate portrayal of who he is.

Really exhausting.

- Thankless.
- Yeah.

He thinks that Tianqi isn't happy because
he doesn't understand workplace norms,

when really Tianqi just can't accept them.
He thinks it's unfair.

I didn't think the work thing was even
so unreasonable. It's his problem.

- I don't think so either.
- Time management is really important.

Yeah. You can always quit.

You can also decide when onboarding that
you don't want the job if you can't accept the policy.

- It's your own choice.
- Right.

You wanted this job, why are you only
saying now that it's unreasonable?

One day, maybe when he has his
own staff, he'll understand.

- I don't think he'll have his own workers.
- Yeah.

There's no way he'll have his own.

That Tianqi not very self-critical. He thinks
the world should rotate around him.

I think he's driven by emotion,
whereas Curry is more driven by logic.

- The way he expresses concern for others
can make them resent him.
- It feels oppressive.

If he changed his manner, they could stomach it.
But he won't, he can only use this type of--

- Logical reasoning.
- Right, logic.

So they'll always have this friction.

But how do you advise someone like
Tianqi? What would sink in?

Look at how Nana does it.

Nana's in a sticky spot, it would be difficult
for her if she really wanted to date him.

But I feel like this happens
all the time with relationships.

Relationships can be a trap.

It's an awkward position.

- Yeah.
- Very awkward.

I think Nana is a pretty naive person.
She doesn't know how things
like this work, either.

That's why the two of them were responsible for the
mess last episode, not helping with dinner or the dishes.

The actions match the people.

Curry would never be late, he would never
let someone else dock his pay.

He's very principled, but he's also
rigid and unyielding.

He never goes with the flow.

- He's just never happy.
- Yeah.

- Even though he makes no mistakes, he'll never be happy.
- Yeah.

They're always messing up,
but they're always happy!

It's so hard! How do you choose?

They seemed pretty happy when
they were talking about their dogs.

- That was the first time that boy--
- Seemed human.

He laughed! He became soft.

- He wasn't so stiff and stern anymore.
- Or awkward.

I would think, I could
actually tolerate this person.

But I can't stand the type of guy that
calls his dog "doggy."

So stern.

You seem to have a thing for high-powered
business types, not cutesy guys.

Yeah, you don't have to be a tyrant
over CEO types.

CEOs can say "doggy," too.

Oh, we also saw a heartbroken Yujie.

- Oh, the model.
- So she was dumped.

For this I'll consult Keni. Is it true that
this type of really elegant, aloof--

- A high-fashion face.
- This kind of cool girl, do they get hurt more easily?

I'm always seeing this trope.

- Why not consult me?
- Yeah, why not ask her?

This is the source of her pain!

Because I understand you!
I know you're not that kind of person.

Everyone says we judge people by their
appearance, and it's true,

lots of people tell me that if they
didn't know me they'd think I was scary.

If I'm standing around not saying anything,
they say, "I feel like you look down on me."

- But I'm not like that.
- You don't look down on me?

- I don't!
- Thank you.

- I'm really warm and I cry a lot.
- But you look down on people while crying.

No! No! I'm honestly pretty sensitive.

But the more intimidating you look,
the more painful it is when you get hurt.

I don't know if that girl is like me, but I don't like
to show that side of me in front of other people.

It's so sad, even in that kind of mood she has to keep walking back and forth and getting her photo taken

and get bossed around.

I also walked in Fashion Week once.

Modeling really is incredibly difficult,
especially walking on a runway.

It's really scary to be in a show
in front of all those professionals,

and someone is constantly criticizing you
into a microphone.

"You look bad!
Why are you swinging your arms!"

When your teacher is yelling at you on a stage
you just think, I have no place.

I don't want my flaws to be
heard by so many people,

much less in front of all these cameras.

I feel like she was really
emotionally fragile in that scene.

What did you do today?

Preparing for Fashion Week.
The show is on the 11th.

Today I bumped into a friend and
our conversation wasn't great.

Do you want to talk about it?

Not really.

- That's okay, next time.
- Next time.

Okay.

Who's back?

[panelist] They brought the dogs!

They really brought them!

- Hello!
- Hello.

You brought Er Lang?

Why didn't you guys say you were
going to bring your dogs home?

Let's sit over there. Since it's their first
time meeting they might get into a fight.

If you put him here I'll be afraid.

I'll hold him.

Is that okay?

Why didn't you discuss this with everyone?

Why didn't you tell me first?

Um...

Do you want to sit over there? That way
you can sit farther from the dogs.

It's just that her dog was
in a pet hotel,

and my employees were helping me
take care of mine.

A couple days ago we were talking
about how unhappy they were.

My dog had even stopped eating.

But you still have to ask everyone,
in case someone's afraid of dogs.

We talked about having a conversation
with everyone after we came back,

so that you could see the dogs first
before we ask for your opinions.

- You should have asked before you brought them.
- Yeah.

You couldn't ask for my opinion
before you brought them home?

Now that your dog is here,
do I have a choice?

I've never lived with dogs before, so
I don't even know if I'm allergic to them.

And dogs and cats both smell,
you didn't ask if we're okay with that either.

I was thinking I would just
let him stay downstairs.

It doesn't matter what you were planning,
it was wrong to bring them back.

Because neither of you
considered my feelings.

- You have to be considerate...
- It doesn't matter which floor it is,

I live with Carmon on the 2nd floor.
And our shared spaces are on the 1st floor.

It's out of line.

Did you ask Binshen if he's allergic?

Yeah, so our aim in bringing the dogs
was just to let you guys see them,

so we could get everyone's input.

You should have asked earlier.
It's a little late now.

What do you think?

I, I...I'll let you all go first.

If I'm home alone and those two are
roaming around freely,

I can't be upstairs, I can't be downstairs,
what am I supposed to do?

I can bring him on my commute, so
he won't be here unless I'm here.

But now you're making me the bad guy.

- No, I didn't mean it like that--
- You've put me in an awkward position.

We just wanted everyone to discuss it objectively.
I think you're being a little aggressive.

You were wrong first.

Okay, I was wrong first. But can you
calm down a little right now?

- We all live together.
- I'm very calm.

It's fine if you talk to me like this,
but Carmon is your roommate.

You live closely together. I don't think
it's right to be so combative.

[panelist] He's lecturing her again.

I want to apologize first. I'm sorry for
bringing the dog without telling everyone.

Because of the pandemic, when I went home to my
parents this year, I had to leave him in the pet hotel.

I didn't want to. He was really sensitive
when I came back after three weeks.

So this time I just... wanted to take him out as soon as
I could, and talk it over with everyone then.

But of course I can bring him back.
I just wanted to discuss it first.

I understand Carmon's reasoning.
But I want to respond to what you just said.

- You can say whatever, no problem.
- I know I can.

First, I'm not an aggressive person. I'm angry because
you didn't ask for my permission before bringing them.

And you didn't ask anyone else, either.

Second, I had a roommate before this. She wanted a dog too, but I didn't agree to it.

She was also a really close friend.

I even had a falling out with her over the dog issue.
So it makes me really unhappy that you think

I'm pushy and aggressive just because
of my attitude about this.

The reason I said that was because firstly,
we're all equally in charge of this house.

We're all allowed to do whatever we wish.

We didn't know if you were afraid of dogs,
if you're allergic, if you just hate them.

If we're all in charge here, why didn't
you ask anyone else what they thought?

We brought them back to ask you what you thought.
Even if we didn't let you know beforehand,

we brought them because we also get a say in this,
and each of us can do whatever we choose.

If you put it that way, I have nothing else
to say. I'm done talking.

[panelist] Aw... little doggy.

Poor doggy.

Before, didn't he say that they would
discuss it with everyone first?

He thought wrong.

- He thought when they brought them back--
- Everyone would say, so cute!

- He thought the dogs would win them over.
- Yeah.

He probably thought this wasn't even a big deal,
unlike the dishes, which were a huge deal.

It's on the same level at the dishes.
He even called her aggressive.

The dogs are much cuter than the dishes.

All his hopes right now hinge on
how the others feel about dogs.

But there's no way to arrive at a compromise
with someone who hates dogs so much.

She's scared of them.

How can she live there if she's scared of them?
There's no way, she'd have to leave early.

What do we do? That was...

[sigh]

I do think we messed up a bit.

Originally we were going to let them know first...
and everyone's emotions were running high.

Do you remember that first day we went out for
groceries, I think I mentioned my shiba in the car...

- I think so, yeah.
- Yeah.

At the time Yujie didn't say she was scared
of dogs. So it didn't even cross my mind.

Maybe she didn't say anything because
we'd only just met each other.

I'm just going to say things
from our perspective for now.

- First of all, we treat our dogs like our children.
- Yeah.

If we neglect our obligations to them for
even a day, we feel really guilty.

So that's why I got upset in that moment.

It felt like maybe Yujie was
showing animosity towards our children.

So I felt really protective and kind of snapped.

I can understand why that made you lose
your cool, but from Yujie's perspective,

she sees us as her roommates,
so when we did what we did,

it made her feel that we carelessly threw
her concerns aside. That we were inconsiderate.

Yeah, I can understand that.

So, I still think we should apologize

and from now on we'll be more
considerate as roommates.

We should help her feel like
that's our intention.

What do you think?

Okay.

Just apologize.

So difficult.

- The way Carmon speaks is very agreeable.
- Agreed!

- She speaks very gently.
- Very warmly.

- She's very reasonable.
- She communicates well.

Come in.

- Hello...
- Hi.

Come sit.

I'm sorry. We should have
come to you first.

Yes, you should have talked to me
first about it.

Do you... how are you feeling right now?

I'm fine. It's not an issue of my mood,
but rather an issue of right or wrong.

Okay.

When we were talking earlier,
I didn't really speak up.

However, the fact is...
Let me first try to explain my behavior today.

I wanted to first bring Popsicle here first,
and I didn't ask for anyone's permission beforehand.

At the same time, it happened to be his last day at the
pet hotel, so I thought I could bring him back just to see.

I think Curry also felt the same,
since he's had his dog for 4 years.

Let's just talk about our own issues,
there's no need to involve him.

He's him and you're you.

Sure.

Honestly, as long as you guys can find a
suitable place for your dogs, it's fine.

It's not that I have
an issue with the dogs.

My issue was that it seemed you guys
didn't really regard our feelings,

and that you guys didn't really
respect us.

Maybe my temperament is just like this.
My life has always been just work and home,

so maybe I'm not very good at
seeing things from another perspective.

That's why I had such a strong reaction.

When I was little, I got chased by a dog,
so to some extent I am afraid of them.

But if you'd discussed it with me,
I'd be okay with it.

Because we have a good relationship,
and I really like you.

I just hope in the future
we can communicate more.

We will.

That's why I got angry.
But I'm not angry at you.

Okay. I feel better knowing
that you're not angry.

Today I even brought you home
a clip that matches mine.

I bought two, and I thought it would suit you
because you have short hair.

It's so cute, thank you!

We got tangled up in this argument, and
I didn't have time to give it to you.

- Thank you.
- It's nothing.

- It's so cute.
- Let's try to avoid these kinds of conflicts in the future.

Yeah. And now I feel like everyone knows
why everyone else got upset,

so it'll help prevent this kind of thing
from happening again.

And I was so tired when I got home,
maybe I wasn't in a great mood.

Maybe I brought my work stress
home with me.

Oh, was it your fitting?

I can't eat much because I'm controlling my diet
for Fashion Week. So maybe I've been on edge.

And the work environment
has been really harsh.

You're so strict with yourself.

Only when I have to be.
Otherwise, I'm pretty indulgent.

- Really? I'll pay more attention.
- We have to find joy where we can.

Yeah.

- Oh, you came up?
- How's it going?

Did you come up to talk to me
about what happened today?

Yeah, we wanted to chat with you.

I don't really want to
talk to you right now.

I don't want to talk about this. Just like how you didn't
want to tell me before you brought your dog over.

Can I just say two things,
and then I'll go?

I don't want to hear it. Let's talk about this
another day, maybe tomorrow.

- It's like this..
- I said I didn't want to hear it.

- I think we should resolve this today.
- I don't want to hear it.

- Because we already brought the dogs.
- You guys deal with it, they're your dogs.

I have my own things to deal with, I've
already had too much to worry about today.

And I still have some work to deal with.

So can we just table this, calm down a little
and talk about it tomorrow?

- I just want to say a couple things--
- Forget it, you should both get some rest.

- I agree.
- I think you and I both need to calm down. Okay?

Why don't we give Yujie some space?
She had an exhausting day at work too.

- Good night.
- Okay.

Let's go.

Get some rest.

- You still need to eat if you're hungry.
- Okay.

[laughter]

Living together doesn't seem
to be working out for them.

We're so invested in this.

I really like this episode.

On the surface it's a simple argument about
the dogs, but it's actually about a lot of things.

It's about respect and consideration,
which are both serious issues.

Like at the end, when Curry came in and proclaimed that he wanted to say something, and she said she didn't want to talk.

There was so much wrapped up in that exchange.
How to be a person, how we treat others, how to listen.

How to help people understand us,
this episode touches on all of that.

I don't know whose side I'm on.
I think...I just think...it's so good.

From a director's standpoint,
it's a perfect episode.

It's gold.

I felt like we could be
watching ourselves.

Sometimes we're just like them. We do things without
considering others and they feel pressured to accept it.

The reason Curry brought the dog was just
to say look, it's already here.

But you can't do that, you have to
tell them first, you have to ask them.

The dog is innocent.

It wasn't the heart of the issue.

Yeah. And Carmon is what I would call
an innocent guilty party.

She made a mistake, but she was innocent.

The reason this got so blown out of proportion
was because of how Curry conducts himself.

If she says she doesn't like it,
you should offer to take it away.

Or else say it's just
for one night.

- He just has to get his point across.
- He won't admit fault.

"I'm sorry" are the easiest words you can say,
but he can't bring himself to do it.

He's acting the same way
that Tianqi did last segment.

He's not willing to admit that
he did something wrong.

- He won't even give an inch.
- He's stubborn and overwhelms you with talk.

He forces people to do things against their will.
He can't keep doing this.

I think he knows he's in the wrong
and he's not trying to hide it.

He's just not willing to say he's sorry because
he's reacting poorly to Yujie's anger.

Do people really get so
obsessive about things?

- Yes.
- You can plainly be in the wrong but keep doubling down on it.

- You try to explain yourself.
- You can't let iet go.

- Later he was like, this is my son!
- These are our children!

He thinks she doesn't respect his child.

He upgraded the dog's status from dog to child so he
can say she had a bad attitude towards his child.

It's a plea to emotions.

With others it's all about his principles, but
when it comes to himself he wants to talk emotions.

Don't you think that's a double standard?

When it came to the dishwashing incident,
he was relentless about Nana washing the dishes

saying, "You have to do it,
you were appointed to do it."

But with the dog incident,
he says "well, I feel..."

That's his temperament. Whether it's
towards others or himself, he acts like that regardless.

Exactly.

When I think I'm right,
you have to accept that I'm right.

It's not a double standard. He only goes
by one standard, and it's his own.

Others have to agree with
whatever he deems important.

So we'll have to wait and see about Curry.

He may not be as principled as we thought.

- He's not endearing anymore.
- You take it back?

- I changed my mind.
- You change your mind so quickly!

A wise man submits to circumstances.

After they brought the dogs,
I felt so bad for Yujie.

- If she really is afraid of dogs.
- Poor Yujie.

Yeah, she was sandwiched between two dogs.

I'd like to say something about
this Wang Tianqi fellow.

When he unkindly "fanned the flames,"
Teacher Yujie showed plenty of dignity.

Wang Tianqi was just kind of like...

Kind of like that.

Yujie kept her cool, saying:
I'm not engaging. And she just left.

She didn't throw a tantrum.

- She toughed through a hell of a day.
- Yeah.

She had a terrible day, and then
she had to spend the evening with two dogs.

Surrounded by dogs on all sides.

Although no one knew how bad her day was,
because she didn't say.

- Yeah.
- She just said she didn't want to talk about it.

I want to talk about the other thing.
Why did Curry suddenly transform from

such a logical person to a someone so
influenced by his emotions?

I think it may be because the girl he's interested
in was attacked by this other girl.

He wanted to show off
his manliness, right?

Right. Wow, you really
understand the male brain.

It really is like that!

If I'm drinking with Da Xun and we start arguing,
we won't have any issues.

But if there's a woman by my side?

If you say, Da Xun,
don't fight with Li Dan

Then, immediately!

Wow, you're so sharp.

In front of her, you can't lose, and
you especially can't apologize.

- Apologizing is too embarrassing.
- Agreed.

- So this was the explanation?
- Yeah, it should be.

Otherwise he wouldn't so stubbornly
refuse to apologize.

She didn't even let him say
his two things.

How embarrassing,
in front of the girl he likes.

Whether with the girl he's interested in,
or with the dogs,

he lost face in front of everyone.

- He just couldn't let it go.
- Right.

He cares about everyone
except his roommates.

- Yes, exactly.
- You agree?

Once he decides he cares about someone,
everyone else becomes unimportant.

His stance immediately makes
a complete 180.

Compared to the dishwashing incident
he's like two different people.

Also, when he brought up that Yujie hadn't mentioned
beforehand that she was scared of dogs

That was solely for Carmon, so that she wouldn't
have any complaints about his stance.

In front of others, he wouldn't have even mentioned it,
because he already knew he was wrong.

He only hopes that Carmon won't
think poorly of him.

- He couldn't lose face.

You've lived with roommates, and
you've lived in a dorm before, right?

I used to live with roommates, but lately
I've been doing better, so I moved.

But before that I only lived
with roommates.

Have you had arguments like these?

All the time.

Let me tell you, the less you know each other,
the better it is to live together.

My roommate and I were pretty much strangers,
so we didn't have any conflict of interest.

Every night we would arrive home and go to bed.

We didn't chat about anything
and never bothered each other.

Even though I've never had roommates,
I've traveled with people before.

When you're traveling with friends, you can't wait last
minute to say where you're going or what the plans are.

Surprise!

That's not okay.

You need to communicate your plans
so everyone can go together.

I think this is the most fundamental part
of a communal lifestyle.

Exactly.

Let's see what happens with the fight
the next day.

Get the popcorn!

I'm excited.

Come in.

- Hello!
- How come you're here?

My training ended,
so I wanted to come up.

Oh, okay.

I went to the room when I got back and
Tianqi told me you guys just had a discussion.

And that you guys haven't been
able to come to an understanding yet.

- Then let's talk about it when everyone's here.
- Some people only want to talk and don't want to listen.

That's one of the reasons
why I'm angry.

I get that.

Get some rest tonight.

- Yeah, you too.
- Will do.

Let's resolve this tomorrow. Okay?

- Good night, see you later.
- Good night.

Er Lang.

Er Lang, are you feeling unhappy?

That girl may not like you,
but we like you.

Is that okay?

I'm asking you.

I'm talking to you.

Tonight we'll sleep in the garden,
and tomorrow I'll try to convince the others.

I'm going to do my best.

How's that?

And then we can sleep inside.

Okay?

Is that okay?

It's going to be okay.

You're so good,
they'll all love you.

Okay?

Come, give me a hug.

Good boy.

- The dog is unhappy to see his owner.
- He wants to get out of there.

He doesn't want to be next to him.
He's annoyed with his owner.

He's like, you've caused me too much trouble.

You've caused me so much trouble!
Ugh!

Can't you speak properly to other people?

If I could talk, even I'd be better
than you.

You don't even need to speak.
Just go "arf arf" and it'll be a done deal.

Just give a little whine, and then
it'll be done, okay?

No need to speak.

I even helped Yujie overcome a
traumatic experience.

This last segment shows that Binshen will
likely assume the role of a mediator between those two.

Yeah, I think he's very sensible.

I think he can help bring people together.

But I don't know. We don't even
know Binshen very well.

He's too much of a mystery,
this person.

Added up, we've probably only seen him for
maybe a minute.

The most mysterious guest.

Still, I think he'll be able to communicate well
with both the girl and the boy.

I think he can shoulder
this responsibility.

These types of people with high EQ
tend not to say much.

"I get you."

Ta-da, everything's good again.

-Active listening.
-Agreed.

And, that's what she was trying to say, right?
They weren't even trying to listen to her.

If you just show that you're willing to listen
and that you hear her, then that's enough for her.

I get you.

It's respecting her feelings.

She even said she's not actually that scared
of dogs, just that she felt disrespected.

Exactly.

In reality, it's not hard. Just say,
I understand you and I apologize.

Most things can be resolved from that.

Many people can't bring themselves to say it.

She wants a logical reason for
why he couldn't admit fault.

This world isn't logical and
has never been logical.

I quite like Yujie.

Because I think the other two girls are
both very avoidant.

She did a good job of defending herself.
She has reason, strength, and integrity.

Really great.

Even when she was upset, everything
she said was right. She's great.

Do you think the dog can stay?

- I don't think so.
- I think so.

Because I think once Yujie cools
down a bit, she's still a caring person at heart.

If she knows that the dogs aren't eating,
they're not doing well, and

they won't be able to see their owners for months,
she'll definitely consider those things.

She'll evaluate if she's okay with that.

I think the dogs might be able to stay.

I think they'll try it.

I also think they'll stay.

I think with Binshen's mediation, they will
come up with a reasonable solution.

Maybe it'll be really nice for them!

Maybe they'll even set up a dog house.

They could set up a dog house.

You'll be so frustrated as you watch.

Maybe they'll have the dogs stay outdoors.
I think that's a possibility.

Ever since the dogs made an appearance,
it's caused quite a stir for us.

So for that reason alone, I think the
dogs will stay.

Makes sense from a director's perspective!

It'll also encourage personal development
from the castmates, you know?

These dogs are even better than Binshen
at bringing everyone together.

I think it'll be important to see Curry's growth
and he how manages the relationship between his dog and his friends.

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