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Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.35,0:00:05.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Translated and \Ncaptioned by ShibaSubs]
Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.10,0:00:10.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Translated and timed by fang,\Narissari, & jackie]
Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.32,0:00:13.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Welcome back everyone to Shanghai \NShare Life, part 2 of episode 1!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.57,0:00:17.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're observing a group of young people \Nliving inside a nice house for 105 days.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.48,0:00:20.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's review what happened from\Nlast episode.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.49,0:00:24.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the last episode, 6 young adults \Narrived at the house for the first time.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.06,0:00:30.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,During grocery shopping, \NCurry showed off his "leadership skill"
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.07,0:00:33.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and got complaints from all the girls.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.03,0:00:37.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Not just the girls though.\N- The guys too.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.09,0:00:39.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- The guys too.\N- No one has let him off the hook.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.49,0:00:41.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everyone complained about him.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.46,0:00:44.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It looks like Tianqi doesn't like\Nto be under Curry's rule.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.47,0:00:46.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can we not have this meeting right now?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.17,0:00:51.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, we have to settle this because\Nthe money is everyone's money.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.25,0:00:52.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is unnecessary.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.44,0:00:54.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have to figure this out together.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.49,0:00:56.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why can't we just do it\Nwhen we go shopping?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.60,0:00:59.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nana was asked to do the dishes but \Ndidn't have time to do it that night.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.86,0:01:03.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The next morning, Carmon wanted to help \Nbut Curry stopped her.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.37,0:01:06.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Should I wash them?\N- No, why would you do it for them?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.20,0:01:11.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Nana and Tianqi came back after work, \Na big argument broke out because of the dishes.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.88,0:01:14.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you remember that you were supposed\Nto do the dishes today?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.03,0:01:16.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You didn't think to help her do it while \Nyou've just been sitting here?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.70,0:01:17.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why would I do that?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.87,0:01:21.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You think no one else has anything to do \Nbut you two?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.98,0:01:26.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you could just be a gentleman and \Nhelp out the girls a bit, can't you?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.01,0:01:30.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's nothing, it's just dishes. \NI needed to do it anyway.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.44,0:01:32.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Exactly, it should be her.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.74,0:01:38.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As for relationships, it's clear that \NNana and Tianqi are starting to flirt.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.92,0:01:42.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The scene where they wash dishes together\Nsomehow seemed romantic.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.11,0:01:46.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- It's not "starting" to flirt.\N- It's 99.9% flirting!
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.75,0:01:48.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, seems like they're already there.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.72,0:01:50.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's see how it progresses \Nin this episode.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.94,0:02:01.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Episode 2, Week 1\N"Invisible Ruler"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.29,0:02:10.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're by yourself?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.36,0:02:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How's it going?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.48,0:02:20.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We just got here, I think \Nthe space is pretty nice.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.35,0:02:22.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How about you?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.95,0:02:26.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I... just feel like I'm still not used to \Nliving here yet.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.50,0:02:27.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How come?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.12,0:02:30.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, I have a dog...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.68,0:02:34.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't bring him here because\Neverything is still new.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.56,0:02:39.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know that he'd probably have a\Nhard time adjusting.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.100,0:02:44.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I have a dog too.\N- You have a dog too?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.36,0:02:49.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So right now I'm living here, but I had \Nto leave him at the pet hotel.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.66,0:02:51.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah so...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.78,0:02:55.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[panelist] They have something \Nin common!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.36,0:03:00.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I actually don't really like\Nbeing away from my dog.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.04,0:03:06.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Me neither. Because I never.. \Nbecause he's 4 years old now,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.62,0:03:08.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We've never spent more than \Na day apart.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.74,0:03:12.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- What kind of dog do you have?\N- I have a shiba inu.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.37,0:03:13.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's their name?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.55,0:03:14.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Er Lang."\N(it means "second son")
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.74,0:03:15.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What about yours?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.11,0:03:19.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mine is named Popsicle.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.52,0:03:20.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Popsicle.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.89,0:03:25.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's a mutt, let me find \Nsome pictures for you.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.92,0:03:27.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He looks like this.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.87,0:03:31.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is when he first got sent to the\Npet hotel, poor guy.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.48,0:03:33.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He looks pretty skinny.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.32,0:03:36.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think he's about 10kg.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.50,0:03:40.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My dog is about 15kg, he's really fat.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.67,0:03:42.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me show you.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.50,0:03:49.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In all the companies that I started and \Nall my projects, I use my dog as the logos.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.40,0:03:53.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- This is something I drew recently.\N- So cute!
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.01,0:03:54.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, he's a fat dummy.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.12,0:03:57.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Chubby to the point where he\Nhas a humpback when he sits.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.33,0:03:59.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So fat.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.74,0:04:02.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He does look pretty goofy.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.72,0:04:05.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you miss him?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.49,0:04:06.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do you think?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.28,0:04:11.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I miss him so much. I used to even \Ntake him with me on my work trips.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.28,0:04:13.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're always together.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.30,0:04:18.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The thing with my dog is...\Nif he stays at the pet hotel for too long
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.65,0:04:22.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm afraid there will be some emotional\Nproblems or something.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.50,0:04:25.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you want to bring your dog here?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.53,0:04:28.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I... I'm actually thinking about it.\N- Same here.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.16,0:04:31.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Lately my dog has been refusing to eat.\N- Refusing to eat?!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.25,0:04:34.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, his mood and appetite have been\Nreally bad lately.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.53,0:04:40.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like maybe we can talk to our \Nhousemates and see what they think?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.23,0:04:41.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, yes!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.43,0:04:46.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can let them meet our dogs first, then\Nask them if they like them or not, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.82,0:05:24.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Chu Mengna (NaNa) \NStudent, 22 years old
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.47,0:05:27.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Chen Xiaowei (Binshen) \NProfessional gamer, 23 years old
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.52,0:05:31.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jin Yujie\NModel, 22 years old
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.85,0:05:35.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Liu Keli (Curry)\NSocial media entrepreneur, 29 years old
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.91,0:05:38.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wu Kawen (Carmon)\NDesigner, 29 years old
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.30,0:05:41.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wang Tianqi\NSalesperson, 26 years old
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.24,0:06:07.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[coworker] What's like to be on that show?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.10,0:06:12.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just... you know, 3 guys and 3 girls\Nliving together.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.97,0:06:14.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So how do you feel about them?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.73,0:06:16.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The guys or the girls?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.34,0:06:19.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course the girls!\NWhy would I ask about the guys?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.04,0:06:21.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The girls...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.95,0:06:26.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like I don't hang out with them\Ntoo much.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.31,0:06:28.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's one girl I think is \Npretty cute, though.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.32,0:06:31.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- We'll see.\N- Then you must be pretty shy.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.53,0:06:34.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not shy exactly, just taking time \Nto get to know them.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.75,0:06:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So there's one cute girl, huh?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.64,0:06:39.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, just an initial feeling.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.80,0:06:45.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I think he's talking about Nana.\N- Right, the cute one.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.71,0:06:49.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't think he's taking time though, \Nhe already asked her out!
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.63,0:06:53.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you see the pay stub for \Nthis month?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.81,0:06:56.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. I got deducted 1000 yuan...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.64,0:06:58.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Seems kind of excessive.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.95,0:07:03.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- What about you?\N- I got four or five hundred deducted.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.40,0:07:07.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The base pay is already low, then it gets \Ndeducted if you're late by one minute..
Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.48,0:07:09.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who doesn't rush to get to work?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.22,0:07:13.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I agree, I feel like one day our pay stub\Nwill be negative.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.36,0:07:16.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't even bother paying me,\NI'll just pay the boss to work.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.57,0:07:35.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Welcome home.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.24,0:07:39.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hello!
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.04,0:07:54.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Curry huffing heavily]
Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.79,0:08:06.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You came back late, \Ndid you just get off work?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.48,0:08:09.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just got off, yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.54,0:08:11.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's wrong?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.31,0:08:18.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today I got my pay stub\Nfor this month.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.07,0:08:21.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we get deducted 10 yuan for \Nevery minute we're late to work.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.67,0:08:23.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Huh?\N- 10 yuan for 1 minute.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.50,0:08:26.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got deducted 1000 yuan\Nthis month.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.95,0:08:30.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's kind of....I think \Nthat's excessive.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.52,0:08:34.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's outrageous, really. \NI don't know what the company is thinking.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.30,0:08:39.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like the company takes every chance \Nthey get to oppress their employees,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.18,0:08:41.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and take every penny from you.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.18,0:08:45.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like...I mean, although it's not \Ngood to be late for work,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.65,0:08:48.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your company's policy a bit too much.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.64,0:08:51.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's nothing.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.75,0:08:55.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just a bit of money.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.90,0:09:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean... you don't make much in the first place, \Nit's not a small amount
Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.76,0:09:04.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[sigh]
Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.48,0:09:08.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't be upset, let's just not \Nbe late from now, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.94,0:09:10.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[panelist] Haha, as if.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.64,0:09:14.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll try my best, I don't want to either.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.50,0:09:17.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[panelist] He's here, get ready \Nfor another lesson.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.39,0:09:18.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's up?
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.95,0:09:21.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got deducted 1000 yuan from my paycheck.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.03,0:09:23.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For every minute late, you \Nget 10 yuan deducted.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.24,0:09:27.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I guess it means you've \Nbeen late a lot lately.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.64,0:09:29.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe, but they count\Nliterally every minute.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.84,0:09:33.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If something happens one day and you're \Nlate by a lot, in the end it all adds up.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.19,0:09:39.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I think that's a pretty normal practice\Nfor legitimate companies.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.06,0:09:41.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, I know late-to-work deductions \Nare normal
Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.66,0:09:45.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's my first time working at a place \Nwhere they do it by the minute.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.16,0:09:47.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there's no limit to the amount \Nthey can deduct.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.06,0:09:52.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But for a company, one of the most \Nimportant management policies is
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.61,0:09:54.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,making sure employees are punctual.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.42,0:09:56.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Really?
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.18,0:10:01.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. If you can't make sure that your\Nemployees come to work on time,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.95,0:10:05.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's really difficult to manage \Neverything else on the team.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.07,0:10:08.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But don't you think this policy\Nis too extreme?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.45,0:10:12.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well... if they treat you this way, they \Nprobably treat everyone else the same way.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.95,0:10:15.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And maybe you have \Nbeen late too many times.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.24,0:10:19.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you're saying that if there's an unreasonable policy \Nthat gets applied equally to everyone,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.46,0:10:20.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it becomes reasonable?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.39,0:10:24.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,From my point of view, I can at least\Nunderstand why they do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.16,0:10:27.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can also understand that\Nyou just moved here,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.72,0:10:31.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe your commute became farther\Nand it takes extra time in the morning
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.96,0:10:35.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I would still suggest that you take the \Nresponsibility to adjust to the environment.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.70,0:10:41.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, so you mean there's nothing wrong\Nwith the policy, it's all my fault, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.96,0:10:45.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well you chose this job, right,\Nand you love this line of work.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.81,0:10:48.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Being in the fashion industry\Nis your dream.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:49.79,0:10:50.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.57,0:10:52.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, got it.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.96,0:10:59.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going back to the room.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.32,0:11:24.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I think Tianqi is mad.\N- Yeah, he is.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.98,0:11:26.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm mad at him!
Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.69,0:11:27.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[laughter]
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.52,0:11:29.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like... Curry is right though.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.37,0:11:31.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yeah, he was spot on.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.01,0:11:34.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tianqi is great at blaming others,\Nbut he never examines himself.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.72,0:11:38.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He even said "it's all my fault"\Nso passive aggressively.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:38.72,0:11:42.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Of course it's your fault!\N- You're one to talk when you're late!
Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.65,0:11:45.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you can't change the policy\Nyou can at least change yourself!
Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.18,0:11:47.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's no issue if you're not late.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.22,0:12:06.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[friend] What are you doing here?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.92,0:12:10.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What are you doing here?\NIt's been so long!
Dialogue: 0,0:12:10.01,0:12:12.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Same! \N- You haven't contacted me in a while!
Dialogue: 0,0:12:12.45,0:12:16.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- What are you doing here, working?\N- Yeah, we're trying on the outfits.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:16.57,0:12:20.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where's your boyfriend? \NDoesn't he usually come to these things?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:23.36,0:12:26.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um.. I don't know, maybe \Ntoday was inconvenient.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.34,0:12:28.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hasn't he come with you to every show?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.68,0:12:31.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's nothing.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:31.72,0:12:33.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Does he have work?\N- No.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:35.22,0:12:36.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is it?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.22,0:12:38.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We broke up.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:39.53,0:12:40.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:41.53,0:12:42.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He cheated.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:43.41,0:12:46.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would have forgotten about it already \Nif you hadn't brought it up! It's fine.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.82,0:12:50.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- You don't have to always pretend to be strong.\N- I'm not, I'm not.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:51.65,0:12:55.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Make sure you're eating and taking \Ncare of yourself. I worry about you.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.52,0:12:57.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- You too.\N- You know?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:57.96,0:13:00.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I have to go now.\N- Okay, call me.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.06,0:13:02.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Bye bye.\N- Go, go. Call me.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:19.63,0:13:21.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pay attention to the music \Nwhen you're walking.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.86,0:13:30.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lift your head. You forgot again. \NLift your head.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.83,0:13:31.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't move your hands.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.29,0:13:35.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't sway your hands, \Nhow many times do I have to say it?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:35.22,0:13:37.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't move your hands, \Ndo you want me to switch you out?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.95,0:13:38.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Walk.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:03.25,0:14:06.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- This segment was heavy.\N- Yes, it was serious.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:06.31,0:14:08.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only the second episode and \Nit's already gotten so personal.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:09.56,0:14:14.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After seeing this, my opinion \Nof Curry has improved.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:14.60,0:14:17.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He's decent.\N- Yeah, he's actually a pretty caring person.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:17.36,0:14:19.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's really gotten Yang Li's attention.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:19.82,0:14:21.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This wasn't the part that moved Yang Li.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:23.11,0:14:28.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When he was working out.. I felt like \Nthat was an accurate portrayal of who he is.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:28.12,0:14:29.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Really exhausting.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:32.33,0:14:34.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Thankless.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:34.12,0:14:39.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He thinks that Tianqi isn't happy because \Nhe doesn't understand workplace norms,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:39.17,0:14:43.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when really Tianqi just can't accept them. \NHe thinks it's unfair.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:43.60,0:14:48.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't think the work thing was even \Nso unreasonable. It's his problem.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.31,0:14:52.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I don't think so either.\N- Time management is really important.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.18,0:14:53.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. You can always quit.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.19,0:14:57.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can also decide when onboarding that \Nyou don't want the job if you can't accept the policy.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.30,0:14:58.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- It's your own choice.\N- Right.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:58.81,0:15:03.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You wanted this job, why are you only \Nsaying now that it's unreasonable?
Dialogue: 0,0:15:04.57,0:15:08.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One day, maybe when he has his\Nown staff, he'll understand.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:08.91,0:15:11.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I don't think he'll have his own workers.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:11.42,0:15:13.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's no way he'll have his own.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:13.40,0:15:21.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That Tianqi not very self-critical. He thinks \Nthe world should rotate around him.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:21.95,0:15:27.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think he's driven by emotion,\Nwhereas Curry is more driven by logic.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:27.31,0:15:32.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- The way he expresses concern for others \Ncan make them resent him.\N- It feels oppressive.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:32.58,0:15:37.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If he changed his manner, they could stomach it. \NBut he won't, he can only use this type of--
Dialogue: 0,0:15:37.02,0:15:39.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Logical reasoning.\N- Right, logic.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.17,0:15:42.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So they'll always have this friction.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:43.04,0:15:46.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But how do you advise someone like \NTianqi? What would sink in?
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.68,0:15:48.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look at how Nana does it.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:48.40,0:15:52.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nana's in a sticky spot, it would be difficult \Nfor her if she really wanted to date him.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:52.38,0:15:56.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I feel like this happens \Nall the time with relationships.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:58.25,0:16:00.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Relationships can be a trap.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:00.80,0:16:02.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's an awkward position.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:02.51,0:16:04.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yeah.\N- Very awkward.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:04.72,0:16:09.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think Nana is a pretty naive person. \NShe doesn't know how things \Nlike this work, either.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:09.79,0:16:16.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's why the two of them were responsible for the \Nmess last episode, not helping with dinner or the dishes.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:16.83,0:16:19.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The actions match the people.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:19.25,0:16:23.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Curry would never be late, he would never \Nlet someone else dock his pay.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:23.10,0:16:25.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's very principled, but he's also \Nrigid and unyielding.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:25.88,0:16:27.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He never goes with the flow.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.67,0:16:29.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He's just never happy.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:29.52,0:16:32.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Even though he makes no mistakes, he'll never be happy.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:32.41,0:16:35.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're always messing up, \Nbut they're always happy!
Dialogue: 0,0:16:35.85,0:16:40.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's so hard! How do you choose?
Dialogue: 0,0:16:41.29,0:16:43.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They seemed pretty happy when \Nthey were talking about their dogs.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:43.79,0:16:46.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- That was the first time that boy--\N- Seemed human.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:46.98,0:16:51.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He laughed! He became soft.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:51.75,0:16:54.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He wasn't so stiff and stern anymore.\N- Or awkward.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:54.32,0:16:56.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would think, I could \Nactually tolerate this person.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:57.14,0:17:00.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I can't stand the type of guy that \Ncalls his dog "doggy."
Dialogue: 0,0:17:01.72,0:17:02.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So stern.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:02.92,0:17:07.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You seem to have a thing for high-powered \Nbusiness types, not cutesy guys.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:07.50,0:17:09.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, you don't have to be a tyrant \Nover CEO types.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:10.07,0:17:11.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,CEOs can say "doggy," too.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:16.06,0:17:19.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, we also saw a heartbroken Yujie.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:19.66,0:17:22.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Oh, the model.\N- So she was dumped.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:22.30,0:17:27.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For this I'll consult Keni. Is it true that \Nthis type of really elegant, aloof--
Dialogue: 0,0:17:27.14,0:17:32.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- A high-fashion face.\N- This kind of cool girl, do they get hurt more easily?
Dialogue: 0,0:17:32.12,0:17:33.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm always seeing this trope.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:33.77,0:17:36.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Why not consult me?\N- Yeah, why not ask her?
Dialogue: 0,0:17:37.43,0:17:39.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the source of her pain!
Dialogue: 0,0:17:40.10,0:17:45.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I understand you! \NI know you're not that kind of person.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.42,0:17:49.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everyone says we judge people by their \Nappearance, and it's true,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:49.34,0:17:52.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lots of people tell me that if they \Ndidn't know me they'd think I was scary.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:52.100,0:17:57.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I'm standing around not saying anything, \Nthey say, "I feel like you look down on me."
Dialogue: 0,0:17:57.36,0:17:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- But I'm not like that.\N- You don't look down on me?
Dialogue: 0,0:17:59.60,0:18:01.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I don't! \N- Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:01.59,0:18:05.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I'm really warm and I cry a lot.\N- But you look down on people while crying.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:05.11,0:18:08.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No! No! I'm honestly pretty sensitive.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:08.75,0:18:13.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the more intimidating you look, \Nthe more painful it is when you get hurt.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:13.40,0:18:19.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know if that girl is like me, but I don't like \Nto show that side of me in front of other people.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:19.92,0:18:24.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's so sad, even in that kind of mood she has to keep walking back and forth and getting her photo taken
Dialogue: 0,0:18:24.86,0:18:26.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and get bossed around.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:26.12,0:18:29.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I also walked in Fashion Week once.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:29.33,0:18:34.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Modeling really is incredibly difficult, \Nespecially walking on a runway.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:35.11,0:18:39.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's really scary to be in a show \Nin front of all those professionals,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:39.29,0:18:42.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and someone is constantly criticizing you \Ninto a microphone.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:42.20,0:18:44.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You look bad! \NWhy are you swinging your arms!"
Dialogue: 0,0:18:44.84,0:18:50.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When your teacher is yelling at you on a stage\Nyou just think, I have no place.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:50.86,0:18:54.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't want my flaws to be \Nheard by so many people,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:54.02,0:18:56.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,much less in front of all these cameras.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:56.06,0:18:58.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like she was really \Nemotionally fragile in that scene.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:06.99,0:19:08.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What did you do today?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:08.51,0:19:11.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Preparing for Fashion Week. \NThe show is on the 11th.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:11.08,0:19:13.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today I bumped into a friend and \Nour conversation wasn't great.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:13.84,0:19:15.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you want to talk about it?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:16.45,0:19:18.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not really.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:18.11,0:19:21.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- That's okay, next time.\N- Next time.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:21.02,0:19:21.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:26.46,0:19:28.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who's back?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:28.18,0:19:29.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[panelist] They brought the dogs!
Dialogue: 0,0:19:29.32,0:19:30.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They really brought them!
Dialogue: 0,0:19:35.59,0:19:38.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Hello!\N- Hello.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:38.07,0:19:40.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You brought Er Lang?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:40.25,0:19:42.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why didn't you guys say you were \Ngoing to bring your dogs home?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:42.98,0:19:47.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's sit over there. Since it's their first \Ntime meeting they might get into a fight.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:49.18,0:19:51.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you put him here I'll be afraid.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:52.80,0:19:54.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll hold him.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:55.02,0:19:56.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is that okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:59.87,0:20:02.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why didn't you discuss this with everyone?
Dialogue: 0,0:20:02.09,0:20:04.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why didn't you tell me first?
Dialogue: 0,0:20:04.19,0:20:05.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um...
Dialogue: 0,0:20:07.17,0:20:11.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you want to sit over there? That way \Nyou can sit farther from the dogs.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:13.41,0:20:17.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just that her dog was \Nin a pet hotel,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:17.38,0:20:21.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my employees were helping me \Ntake care of mine.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:21.57,0:20:27.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A couple days ago we were talking \Nabout how unhappy they were.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:28.37,0:20:30.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My dog had even stopped eating.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:34.20,0:20:38.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you still have to ask everyone, \Nin case someone's afraid of dogs.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:38.36,0:20:42.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We talked about having a conversation \Nwith everyone after we came back,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:42.18,0:20:45.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that you could see the dogs first \Nbefore we ask for your opinions.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:45.78,0:20:49.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- You should have asked before you brought them.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:49.07,0:20:52.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You couldn't ask for my opinion\Nbefore you brought them home?
Dialogue: 0,0:20:52.22,0:20:55.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now that your dog is here,\Ndo I have a choice?
Dialogue: 0,0:20:58.40,0:21:03.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've never lived with dogs before, so \NI don't even know if I'm allergic to them.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:03.43,0:21:11.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And dogs and cats both smell,\Nyou didn't ask if we're okay with that either.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:13.70,0:21:21.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was thinking I would just \Nlet him stay downstairs.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:21.11,0:21:24.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't matter what you were planning, \Nit was wrong to bring them back.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:24.48,0:21:27.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because neither of you \Nconsidered my feelings.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:29.08,0:21:32.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- You have to be considerate...\N- It doesn't matter which floor it is,
Dialogue: 0,0:21:32.45,0:21:38.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I live with Carmon on the 2nd floor. \NAnd our shared spaces are on the 1st floor.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:39.15,0:21:41.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's out of line.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:41.11,0:21:43.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you ask Binshen if he's allergic?
Dialogue: 0,0:21:43.23,0:21:47.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, so our aim in bringing the dogs \Nwas just to let you guys see them,
Dialogue: 0,0:21:47.13,0:21:49.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we could get everyone's input.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:49.33,0:21:52.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You should have asked earlier. \NIt's a little late now.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:56.43,0:21:57.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do you think?
Dialogue: 0,0:21:58.30,0:22:02.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I, I...I'll let you all go first.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:03.82,0:22:08.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I'm home alone and those two are \Nroaming around freely,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:08.08,0:22:12.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't be upstairs, I can't be downstairs, \Nwhat am I supposed to do?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:12.57,0:22:16.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can bring him on my commute, so\Nhe won't be here unless I'm here.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:16.63,0:22:18.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But now you're making me the bad guy.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:18.90,0:22:22.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- No, I didn't mean it like that--\N- You've put me in an awkward position.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:22.29,0:22:33.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We just wanted everyone to discuss it objectively. \NI think you're being a little aggressive.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:33.88,0:22:35.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You were wrong first.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:35.16,0:22:39.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, I was wrong first. But can you\Ncalm down a little right now?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:39.64,0:22:42.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- We all live together.\N- I'm very calm.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:43.60,0:22:46.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's fine if you talk to me like this, \Nbut Carmon is your roommate.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:46.81,0:22:50.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You live closely together. I don't think \Nit's right to be so combative.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:51.97,0:22:53.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[panelist] He's lecturing her again.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:55.11,0:23:02.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to apologize first. I'm sorry for \Nbringing the dog without telling everyone.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:03.75,0:23:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because of the pandemic, when I went home to my \Nparents this year, I had to leave him in the pet hotel.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:09.04,0:23:13.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't want to. He was really sensitive \Nwhen I came back after three weeks.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:13.97,0:23:21.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this time I just... wanted to take him out as soon as \NI could, and talk it over with everyone then.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:22.51,0:23:27.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But of course I can bring him back. \NI just wanted to discuss it first.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:29.80,0:23:35.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I understand Carmon's reasoning. \NBut I want to respond to what you just said.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:35.12,0:23:37.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- You can say whatever, no problem.\N- I know I can.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:37.89,0:23:44.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First, I'm not an aggressive person. I'm angry because \Nyou didn't ask for my permission before bringing them.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:44.91,0:23:47.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you didn't ask anyone else, either.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:47.29,0:23:53.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Second, I had a roommate before this. She wanted a dog too, but I didn't agree to it.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:53.97,0:23:55.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She was also a really close friend.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:57.32,0:24:02.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I even had a falling out with her over the dog issue. \NSo it makes me really unhappy that you think
Dialogue: 0,0:24:02.15,0:24:06.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm pushy and aggressive just because \Nof my attitude about this.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:08.69,0:24:13.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The reason I said that was because firstly, \Nwe're all equally in charge of this house.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:13.79,0:24:17.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're all allowed to do whatever we wish.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:17.32,0:24:21.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We didn't know if you were afraid of dogs, \Nif you're allergic, if you just hate them.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:21.80,0:24:24.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we're all in charge here, why didn't \Nyou ask anyone else what they thought?
Dialogue: 0,0:24:24.93,0:24:28.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We brought them back to ask you what you thought.\NEven if we didn't let you know beforehand,
Dialogue: 0,0:24:28.94,0:24:35.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we brought them because we also get a say in this, \Nand each of us can do whatever we choose.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:35.30,0:24:38.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you put it that way, I have nothing else \Nto say. I'm done talking.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:57.31,0:24:59.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[panelist] Aw... little doggy.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:59.76,0:25:01.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Poor doggy.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:01.48,0:25:05.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Before, didn't he say that they would \Ndiscuss it with everyone first?
Dialogue: 0,0:25:05.32,0:25:06.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He thought wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:06.64,0:25:11.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He thought when they brought them back--\N- Everyone would say, so cute!
Dialogue: 0,0:25:11.70,0:25:15.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He thought the dogs would win them over.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:15.04,0:25:18.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He probably thought this wasn't even a big deal,\Nunlike the dishes, which were a huge deal.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:18.90,0:25:22.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's on the same level at the dishes. \NHe even called her aggressive.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:22.02,0:25:23.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The dogs are much cuter than the dishes.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:23.70,0:25:27.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All his hopes right now hinge on \Nhow the others feel about dogs.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:28.71,0:25:32.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there's no way to arrive at a compromise \Nwith someone who hates dogs so much.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:32.97,0:25:33.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's scared of them.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:33.98,0:25:37.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How can she live there if she's scared of them? \NThere's no way, she'd have to leave early.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:06.46,0:26:10.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do we do? That was...
Dialogue: 0,0:26:11.67,0:26:12.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[sigh]
Dialogue: 0,0:26:14.51,0:26:18.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I do think we messed up a bit.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:18.74,0:26:25.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Originally we were going to let them know first...\Nand everyone's emotions were running high.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:28.11,0:26:35.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you remember that first day we went out for \Ngroceries, I think I mentioned my shiba in the car...
Dialogue: 0,0:26:35.33,0:26:37.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I think so, yeah.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:37.62,0:26:44.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At the time Yujie didn't say she was scared \Nof dogs. So it didn't even cross my mind.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:44.63,0:26:49.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe she didn't say anything because \Nwe'd only just met each other.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:55.18,0:26:59.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm just going to say things \Nfrom our perspective for now.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:59.32,0:27:03.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- First of all, we treat our dogs like our children.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:03.80,0:27:11.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we neglect our obligations to them for \Neven a day, we feel really guilty.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:11.33,0:27:16.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that's why I got upset in that moment.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:16.45,0:27:21.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It felt like maybe Yujie was \Nshowing animosity towards our children.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:21.66,0:27:27.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I felt really protective and kind of snapped.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:28.42,0:27:33.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can understand why that made you lose\Nyour cool, but from Yujie's perspective,
Dialogue: 0,0:27:33.99,0:27:37.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she sees us as her roommates, \Nso when we did what we did,
Dialogue: 0,0:27:37.78,0:27:43.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it made her feel that we carelessly threw \Nher concerns aside. That we were inconsiderate.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:43.100,0:27:48.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, I can understand that.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:48.12,0:27:50.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I still think we should apologize
Dialogue: 0,0:27:50.92,0:27:55.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and from now on we'll be more\Nconsiderate as roommates.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:55.01,0:27:58.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We should help her feel like\Nthat's our intention.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:59.73,0:28:00.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do you think?
Dialogue: 0,0:28:02.75,0:28:04.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:06.38,0:28:08.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just apologize.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:08.60,0:28:09.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So difficult.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:09.95,0:28:12.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- The way Carmon speaks is very agreeable.\N- Agreed!
Dialogue: 0,0:28:12.46,0:28:15.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- She speaks very gently.\N- Very warmly.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:15.43,0:28:18.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- She's very reasonable.\N- She communicates well.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:22.28,0:28:23.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come in.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:26.61,0:28:28.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Hello...\N- Hi.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:32.75,0:28:33.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come sit.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:35.88,0:28:39.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm sorry. We should have \Ncome to you first.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:40.98,0:28:43.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, you should have talked to me \Nfirst about it.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:43.91,0:28:47.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you... how are you feeling right now?
Dialogue: 0,0:28:47.81,0:28:53.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm fine. It's not an issue of my mood, \Nbut rather an issue of right or wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:53.10,0:28:54.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:54.16,0:29:02.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we were talking earlier,\NI didn't really speak up.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:03.13,0:29:08.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,However, the fact is...\NLet me first try to explain my behavior today.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:08.50,0:29:15.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanted to first bring Popsicle here first, \Nand I didn't ask for anyone's permission beforehand.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:15.49,0:29:22.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At the same time, it happened to be his last day at the \Npet hotel, so I thought I could bring him back just to see.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:22.81,0:29:27.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think Curry also felt the same,\Nsince he's had his dog for 4 years.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:27.94,0:29:32.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's just talk about our own issues, \Nthere's no need to involve him.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:32.56,0:29:35.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's him and you're you.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:35.75,0:29:36.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sure.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:38.28,0:29:43.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Honestly, as long as you guys can find a\Nsuitable place for your dogs, it's fine.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:43.49,0:29:46.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not that I have \Nan issue with the dogs.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:46.20,0:29:51.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My issue was that it seemed you guys \Ndidn't really regard our feelings,
Dialogue: 0,0:29:51.09,0:29:54.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that you guys didn't really \Nrespect us.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:54.20,0:29:58.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe my temperament is just like this.\NMy life has always been just work and home,
Dialogue: 0,0:29:58.13,0:30:03.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so maybe I'm not very good at \Nseeing things from another perspective.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:03.46,0:30:06.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's why I had such a strong reaction.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:06.56,0:30:11.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I was little, I got chased by a dog, \Nso to some extent I am afraid of them.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:11.35,0:30:13.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if you'd discussed it with me, \NI'd be okay with it.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:13.96,0:30:19.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because we have a good relationship, \Nand I really like you.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:19.83,0:30:23.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just hope in the future \Nwe can communicate more.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:23.96,0:30:25.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We will.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:25.63,0:30:29.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's why I got angry. \NBut I'm not angry at you.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:29.60,0:30:35.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay. I feel better knowing \Nthat you're not angry.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:35.74,0:30:39.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today I even brought you home \Na clip that matches mine.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:39.14,0:30:44.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I bought two, and I thought it would suit you \Nbecause you have short hair.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:44.75,0:30:45.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's so cute, thank you!
Dialogue: 0,0:30:45.99,0:30:52.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We got tangled up in this argument, and \NI didn't have time to give it to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:53.85,0:30:55.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Thank you.\N- It's nothing.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:55.20,0:31:00.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- It's so cute.\N- Let's try to avoid these kinds of conflicts in the future.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:00.57,0:31:08.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. And now I feel like everyone knows \Nwhy everyone else got upset,
Dialogue: 0,0:31:08.48,0:31:11.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so it'll help prevent this kind of thing \Nfrom happening again.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:11.59,0:31:16.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I was so tired when I got home, \Nmaybe I wasn't in a great mood.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:16.33,0:31:20.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe I brought my work stress \Nhome with me.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:20.10,0:31:22.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, was it your fitting?
Dialogue: 0,0:31:22.66,0:31:28.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't eat much because I'm controlling my diet \Nfor Fashion Week. So maybe I've been on edge.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:28.09,0:31:30.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the work environment \Nhas been really harsh.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:30.22,0:31:33.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're so strict with yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:33.07,0:31:37.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only when I have to be. \NOtherwise, I'm pretty indulgent.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:37.17,0:31:41.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Really? I'll pay more attention.\N- We have to find joy where we can.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:41.75,0:31:42.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:51.72,0:31:53.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Oh, you came up?\N- How's it going?
Dialogue: 0,0:31:54.67,0:31:57.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you come up to talk to me \Nabout what happened today?
Dialogue: 0,0:31:57.44,0:32:00.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, we wanted to chat with you.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:01.91,0:32:04.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't really want to \Ntalk to you right now.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:08.33,0:32:13.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't want to talk about this. Just like how you didn't \Nwant to tell me before you brought your dog over.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:14.43,0:32:16.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I just say two things, \Nand then I'll go?
Dialogue: 0,0:32:16.86,0:32:20.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't want to hear it. Let's talk about this \Nanother day, maybe tomorrow.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:25.73,0:32:28.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- It's like this..\N- I said I didn't want to hear it.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:28.40,0:32:30.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I think we should resolve this today. \N- I don't want to hear it.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:30.100,0:32:35.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Because we already brought the dogs.\N- You guys deal with it, they're your dogs.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:36.94,0:32:39.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have my own things to deal with, I've \Nalready had too much to worry about today.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:39.91,0:32:41.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I still have some work to deal with.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:41.97,0:32:46.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So can we just table this, calm down a little \Nand talk about it tomorrow?
Dialogue: 0,0:32:48.68,0:32:52.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I just want to say a couple things--\N- Forget it, you should both get some rest.
Dialogue: 0,0:32:52.86,0:32:57.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I agree.\N- I think you and I both need to calm down. Okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:33:00.24,0:33:05.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why don't we give Yujie some space? \NShe had an exhausting day at work too.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:07.92,0:33:09.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Good night.\N- Okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:09.23,0:33:10.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's go.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:11.10,0:33:12.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Get some rest.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:12.99,0:33:15.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- You still need to eat if you're hungry.\N- Okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:26.05,0:33:27.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[laughter]
Dialogue: 0,0:33:28.21,0:33:30.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Living together doesn't seem \Nto be working out for them.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:30.90,0:33:32.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're so invested in this.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:32.73,0:33:34.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I really like this episode.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:34.60,0:33:41.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On the surface it's a simple argument about \Nthe dogs, but it's actually about a lot of things.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:41.68,0:33:46.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's about respect and consideration, \Nwhich are both serious issues.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:46.88,0:33:53.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like at the end, when Curry came in and proclaimed that he wanted to say something, and she said she didn't want to talk.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:53.13,0:33:58.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was so much wrapped up in that exchange.\NHow to be a person, how we treat others, how to listen.
Dialogue: 0,0:33:58.61,0:34:05.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How to help people understand us, \Nthis episode touches on all of that.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:05.80,0:34:15.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know whose side I'm on. \NI think...I just think...it's so good.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:15.41,0:34:18.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,From a director's standpoint, \Nit's a perfect episode.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:18.89,0:34:21.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's gold.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:22.08,0:34:25.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I felt like we could be \Nwatching ourselves.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:25.93,0:34:31.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes we're just like them. We do things without \Nconsidering others and they feel pressured to accept it.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:31.77,0:34:35.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The reason Curry brought the dog was just \Nto say look, it's already here.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:36.20,0:34:40.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you can't do that, you have to \Ntell them first, you have to ask them.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:40.14,0:34:42.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The dog is innocent.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:42.93,0:34:44.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It wasn't the heart of the issue.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:44.56,0:34:49.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. And Carmon is what I would call \Nan innocent guilty party.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:49.88,0:34:56.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She made a mistake, but she was innocent.
Dialogue: 0,0:34:56.18,0:35:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The reason this got so blown out of proportion \Nwas because of how Curry conducts himself.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:01.74,0:35:05.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If she says she doesn't like it, \Nyou should offer to take it away.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:05.20,0:35:07.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or else say it's just \Nfor one night.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:07.24,0:35:10.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He just has to get his point across.\N- He won't admit fault.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:10.20,0:35:14.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm sorry" are the easiest words you can say, \Nbut he can't bring himself to do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:14.16,0:35:19.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's acting the same way\Nthat Tianqi did last segment.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:19.64,0:35:24.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's not willing to admit that \Nhe did something wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:25.14,0:35:29.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He won't even give an inch.\N- He's stubborn and overwhelms you with talk.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:29.33,0:35:33.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He forces people to do things against their will.\NHe can't keep doing this.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:33.02,0:35:39.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think he knows he's in the wrong \Nand he's not trying to hide it.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:39.24,0:35:46.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's just not willing to say he's sorry because\Nhe's reacting poorly to Yujie's anger.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:46.40,0:35:48.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do people really get so \Nobsessive about things?
Dialogue: 0,0:35:48.40,0:35:53.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yes.\N- You can plainly be in the wrong but keep doubling down on it.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:53.95,0:35:55.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- You try to explain yourself.\N- You can't let iet go.
Dialogue: 0,0:35:55.93,0:36:00.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Later he was like, this is my son! \N- These are our children!
Dialogue: 0,0:36:00.46,0:36:03.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He thinks she doesn't respect his child.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:03.24,0:36:08.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He upgraded the dog's status from dog to child so he \Ncan say she had a bad attitude towards his child.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:08.62,0:36:09.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a plea to emotions.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:09.73,0:36:12.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,With others it's all about his principles, but\Nwhen it comes to himself he wants to talk emotions.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:12.100,0:36:16.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't you think that's a double standard?
Dialogue: 0,0:36:16.09,0:36:20.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When it came to the dishwashing incident,\Nhe was relentless about Nana washing the dishes
Dialogue: 0,0:36:20.48,0:36:23.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,saying, "You have to do it, \Nyou were appointed to do it."
Dialogue: 0,0:36:23.32,0:36:25.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But with the dog incident, \Nhe says "well, I feel..."
Dialogue: 0,0:36:26.09,0:36:29.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's his temperament. Whether it's\Ntowards others or himself, he acts like that regardless.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:29.75,0:36:30.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Exactly.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:30.54,0:36:34.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I think I'm right, \Nyou have to accept that I'm right.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:34.60,0:36:38.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not a double standard. He only goes \Nby one standard, and it's his own.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:38.42,0:36:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Others have to agree with \Nwhatever he deems important.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:41.20,0:36:43.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we'll have to wait and see about Curry.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:43.16,0:36:44.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He may not be as principled as we thought.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:45.28,0:36:47.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He's not endearing anymore.\N- You take it back?
Dialogue: 0,0:36:47.78,0:36:50.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I changed my mind.\N- You change your mind so quickly!
Dialogue: 0,0:36:50.45,0:36:52.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A wise man submits to circumstances.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:53.58,0:36:57.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After they brought the dogs, \NI felt so bad for Yujie.
Dialogue: 0,0:36:57.30,0:37:00.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- If she really is afraid of dogs.\N- Poor Yujie.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:00.16,0:37:02.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, she was sandwiched between two dogs.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:02.92,0:37:06.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd like to say something about\Nthis Wang Tianqi fellow.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:06.86,0:37:14.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When he unkindly "fanned the flames,"\NTeacher Yujie showed plenty of dignity.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:14.45,0:37:16.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wang Tianqi was just kind of like...
Dialogue: 0,0:37:17.24,0:37:18.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kind of like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:18.51,0:37:21.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yujie kept her cool, saying: \NI'm not engaging. And she just left.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:21.31,0:37:22.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She didn't throw a tantrum.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:22.84,0:37:25.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- She toughed through a hell of a day.\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:25.49,0:37:29.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She had a terrible day, and then \Nshe had to spend the evening with two dogs.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:29.52,0:37:32.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Surrounded by dogs on all sides.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:32.66,0:37:35.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Although no one knew how bad her day was, \Nbecause she didn't say.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:35.29,0:37:37.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yeah.\N- She just said she didn't want to talk about it.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:37.93,0:37:41.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to talk about the other thing. \NWhy did Curry suddenly transform from
Dialogue: 0,0:37:41.50,0:37:44.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,such a logical person to a someone so\Ninfluenced by his emotions?
Dialogue: 0,0:37:44.66,0:37:50.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think it may be because the girl he's interested\Nin was attacked by this other girl.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:50.62,0:37:53.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He wanted to show off \Nhis manliness, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:37:53.20,0:37:56.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right. Wow, you really \Nunderstand the male brain.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:56.12,0:37:57.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It really is like that!
Dialogue: 0,0:37:57.20,0:37:59.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I'm drinking with Da Xun and we start arguing, \Nwe won't have any issues.
Dialogue: 0,0:37:59.71,0:38:01.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if there's a woman by my side?
Dialogue: 0,0:38:02.99,0:38:05.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you say, Da Xun, \Ndon't fight with Li Dan
Dialogue: 0,0:38:05.38,0:38:06.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then, immediately!
Dialogue: 0,0:38:08.46,0:38:09.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wow, you're so sharp.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:09.74,0:38:13.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In front of her, you can't lose, and\Nyou especially can't apologize.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:13.30,0:38:15.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Apologizing is too embarrassing.\N- Agreed.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:15.67,0:38:17.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- So this was the explanation?\N- Yeah, it should be.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:17.92,0:38:22.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Otherwise he wouldn't so stubbornly \Nrefuse to apologize.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:22.55,0:38:25.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She didn't even let him say\Nhis two things.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:26.82,0:38:29.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How embarrassing, \Nin front of the girl he likes.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:29.31,0:38:33.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whether with the girl he's interested in, \Nor with the dogs,
Dialogue: 0,0:38:33.60,0:38:34.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he lost face in front of everyone.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:35.37,0:38:37.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He just couldn't let it go. \N- Right.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:37.72,0:38:41.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He cares about everyone \Nexcept his roommates.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:41.58,0:38:43.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yes, exactly.\N- You agree?
Dialogue: 0,0:38:43.72,0:38:47.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Once he decides he cares about someone, \Neveryone else becomes unimportant.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:47.50,0:38:50.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His stance immediately makes \Na complete 180.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:50.49,0:38:53.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Compared to the dishwashing incident \Nhe's like two different people.
Dialogue: 0,0:38:55.05,0:39:00.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Also, when he brought up that Yujie hadn't mentioned \Nbeforehand that she was scared of dogs
Dialogue: 0,0:39:00.71,0:39:04.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That was solely for Carmon, so that she wouldn't \Nhave any complaints about his stance.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:05.32,0:39:09.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In front of others, he wouldn't have even mentioned it,\Nbecause he already knew he was wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:09.74,0:39:11.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He only hopes that Carmon won't\Nthink poorly of him.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:12.42,0:39:15.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- He couldn't lose face.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:17.14,0:39:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You've lived with roommates, and\Nyou've lived in a dorm before, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:39:20.58,0:39:24.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I used to live with roommates, but lately \NI've been doing better, so I moved.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:24.28,0:39:26.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But before that I only lived \Nwith roommates.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:26.79,0:39:28.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have you had arguments like these?
Dialogue: 0,0:39:28.81,0:39:29.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All the time.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:30.55,0:39:34.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me tell you, the less you know each other,\Nthe better it is to live together.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:34.30,0:39:37.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My roommate and I were pretty much strangers, \Nso we didn't have any conflict of interest.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:37.96,0:39:39.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every night we would arrive home and go to bed.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:39.77,0:39:42.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We didn't chat about anything\Nand never bothered each other.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:42.13,0:39:45.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even though I've never had roommates,\NI've traveled with people before.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:45.53,0:39:51.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you're traveling with friends, you can't wait last \Nminute to say where you're going or what the plans are.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:51.40,0:39:52.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Surprise!
Dialogue: 0,0:39:52.33,0:39:54.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's not okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:54.50,0:39:59.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You need to communicate your plans\Nso everyone can go together.
Dialogue: 0,0:39:59.28,0:40:02.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think this is the most fundamental part\Nof a communal lifestyle.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:02.80,0:40:03.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Exactly.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:03.90,0:40:08.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's see what happens with the fight\Nthe next day.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:08.33,0:40:10.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Get the popcorn!
Dialogue: 0,0:40:10.12,0:40:11.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm excited.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:14.68,0:40:15.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come in.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:16.35,0:40:18.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Hello!\N- How come you're here?
Dialogue: 0,0:40:19.26,0:40:21.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My training ended,\Nso I wanted to come up.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:21.76,0:40:22.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:23.86,0:40:30.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went to the room when I got back and\NTianqi told me you guys just had a discussion.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:30.39,0:40:33.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that you guys haven't been\Nable to come to an understanding yet.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:34.85,0:40:40.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Then let's talk about it when everyone's here.\N- Some people only want to talk and don't want to listen.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:40.60,0:40:45.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's one of the reasons \Nwhy I'm angry.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:47.10,0:40:48.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I get that.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:56.78,0:40:58.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Get some rest tonight.
Dialogue: 0,0:40:58.49,0:41:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yeah, you too.\N- Will do.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:00.25,0:41:02.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's resolve this tomorrow. Okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:41:06.47,0:41:08.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Good night, see you later.\N- Good night.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:15.57,0:41:17.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Er Lang.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:17.55,0:41:19.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Er Lang, are you feeling unhappy?
Dialogue: 0,0:41:22.51,0:41:24.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That girl may not like you, \Nbut we like you.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:24.93,0:41:26.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is that okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:41:27.39,0:41:29.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm asking you.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:29.63,0:41:30.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm talking to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:32.56,0:41:37.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tonight we'll sleep in the garden,\Nand tomorrow I'll try to convince the others.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:37.86,0:41:38.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to do my best.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:38.90,0:41:40.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How's that?
Dialogue: 0,0:41:40.30,0:41:41.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then we can sleep inside.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:41.88,0:41:43.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:41:43.51,0:41:44.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is that okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:41:49.84,0:41:52.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's going to be okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:54.67,0:41:56.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're so good, \Nthey'll all love you.
Dialogue: 0,0:41:56.23,0:41:57.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:41:58.39,0:41:59.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come, give me a hug.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:01.79,0:42:02.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good boy.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:11.96,0:42:14.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- The dog is unhappy to see his owner.\N- He wants to get out of there.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:14.67,0:42:17.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He doesn't want to be next to him.\NHe's annoyed with his owner.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:18.81,0:42:21.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's like, you've caused me too much trouble.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:21.81,0:42:23.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You've caused me so much trouble!\NUgh!
Dialogue: 0,0:42:23.57,0:42:25.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can't you speak properly to other people?
Dialogue: 0,0:42:25.63,0:42:28.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I could talk, even I'd be better\Nthan you.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:28.64,0:42:32.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't even need to speak.\NJust go "arf arf" and it'll be a done deal.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:32.92,0:42:34.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just give a little whine, and then \Nit'll be done, okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:42:34.88,0:42:35.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No need to speak.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:35.100,0:42:38.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I even helped Yujie overcome a \Ntraumatic experience.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:38.51,0:42:44.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This last segment shows that Binshen will\Nlikely assume the role of a mediator between those two.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:44.54,0:42:48.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, I think he's very sensible.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:48.40,0:42:52.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think he can help bring people together.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:53.25,0:42:55.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I don't know. We don't even\Nknow Binshen very well.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:55.97,0:42:58.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's too much of a mystery,\Nthis person.
Dialogue: 0,0:42:58.65,0:43:00.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Added up, we've probably only seen him for\Nmaybe a minute.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:00.70,0:43:02.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The most mysterious guest.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:02.05,0:43:06.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Still, I think he'll be able to communicate well\Nwith both the girl and the boy.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:06.73,0:43:11.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think he can shoulder \Nthis responsibility.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:11.53,0:43:16.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These types of people with high EQ\Ntend not to say much.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:16.96,0:43:18.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I get you."
Dialogue: 0,0:43:18.51,0:43:20.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ta-da, everything's good again.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:20.20,0:43:21.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,-Active listening.\N-Agreed.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:21.86,0:43:27.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, that's what she was trying to say, right?\NThey weren't even trying to listen to her.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:27.56,0:43:33.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you just show that you're willing to listen\Nand that you hear her, then that's enough for her.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:33.30,0:43:34.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I get you.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:34.24,0:43:36.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's respecting her feelings.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:36.30,0:43:42.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She even said she's not actually that scared \Nof dogs, just that she felt disrespected.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:42.08,0:43:43.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Exactly.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:43.65,0:43:48.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In reality, it's not hard. Just say,\NI understand you and I apologize.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:48.45,0:43:50.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most things can be resolved from that.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:50.71,0:43:51.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Many people can't bring themselves to say it.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:51.91,0:43:56.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She wants a logical reason for \Nwhy he couldn't admit fault.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:56.10,0:43:58.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This world isn't logical and \Nhas never been logical.
Dialogue: 0,0:43:58.44,0:44:00.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I quite like Yujie.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:00.70,0:44:03.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I think the other two girls are\Nboth very avoidant.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:03.66,0:44:08.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She did a good job of defending herself.\NShe has reason, strength, and integrity.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:08.87,0:44:10.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Really great.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:10.05,0:44:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even when she was upset, everything \Nshe said was right. She's great.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:15.44,0:44:17.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you think the dog can stay?
Dialogue: 0,0:44:17.79,0:44:20.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I don't think so.\N- I think so.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:20.25,0:44:26.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I think once Yujie cools\Ndown a bit, she's still a caring person at heart.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:26.69,0:44:33.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If she knows that the dogs aren't eating, \Nthey're not doing well, and
Dialogue: 0,0:44:33.29,0:44:38.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they won't be able to see their owners for months,\Nshe'll definitely consider those things.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:38.94,0:44:41.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She'll evaluate if she's okay with that.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:41.25,0:44:43.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think the dogs might be able to stay.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:43.34,0:44:45.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think they'll try it.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:45.12,0:44:46.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I also think they'll stay.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:46.36,0:44:53.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think with Binshen's mediation, they will\Ncome up with a reasonable solution.
Dialogue: 0,0:44:53.21,0:44:56.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe it'll be really nice for them!
Dialogue: 0,0:44:56.68,0:44:59.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe they'll even set up a dog house.
Dialogue: 0,0:45:01.03,0:45:02.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They could set up a dog house.
Dialogue: 0,0:45:02.58,0:45:04.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You'll be so frustrated as you watch.
Dialogue: 0,0:45:04.65,0:45:08.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe they'll have the dogs stay outdoors.\NI think that's a possibility.
Dialogue: 0,0:45:08.81,0:45:16.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ever since the dogs made an appearance,\Nit's caused quite a stir for us.
Dialogue: 0,0:45:16.19,0:45:19.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So for that reason alone, I think the\Ndogs will stay.
Dialogue: 0,0:45:20.62,0:45:22.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Makes sense from a director's perspective!
Dialogue: 0,0:45:22.33,0:45:25.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It'll also encourage personal development \Nfrom the castmates, you know?
Dialogue: 0,0:45:25.48,0:45:30.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These dogs are even better than Binshen\Nat bringing everyone together.
Dialogue: 0,0:45:30.06,0:45:36.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think it'll be important to see Curry's growth\Nand he how manages the relationship between his dog and his friends.
Dialogue: 0,0:45:36.78,0:45:37.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Shanghai Share Life
Dialogue: 0,0:45:37.70,0:45:39.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We look forward to the next episode!
Dialogue: 0,0:45:39.94,0:45:41.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bye bye!
Dialogue: 0,0:45:42.72,0:45:47.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Translated and timed by fang, \Narissari, & jackie]