WEBVTT 00:00:01.352 --> 00:00:05.204 [Translated and captioned by ShibaSubs] 00:00:06.104 --> 00:00:10.324 [Translated and timed by fang, arissari, & jackie] 00:00:10.324 --> 00:00:13.572 Welcome back everyone to Shanghai Share Life, part 2 of episode 1! 00:00:13.572 --> 00:00:17.485 We're observing a group of young people living inside a nice house for 105 days. 00:00:17.485 --> 00:00:20.074 Let's review what happened from last episode. 00:00:20.487 --> 00:00:24.059 In the last episode, 6 young adults arrived at the house for the first time. 00:00:24.059 --> 00:00:30.070 During grocery shopping, Curry showed off his "leadership skill" 00:00:30.070 --> 00:00:33.847 and got complaints from all the girls. 00:00:35.033 --> 00:00:37.091 - Not just the girls though. - The guys too. 00:00:37.091 --> 00:00:39.490 - The guys too. - No one has let him off the hook. 00:00:39.490 --> 00:00:41.154 Everyone complained about him. 00:00:41.457 --> 00:00:44.135 It looks like Tianqi doesn't like to be under Curry's rule. 00:00:44.472 --> 00:00:46.340 Can we not have this meeting right now? 00:00:47.168 --> 00:00:51.251 No, we have to settle this because the money is everyone's money. 00:00:51.251 --> 00:00:52.440 This is unnecessary. 00:00:52.440 --> 00:00:54.489 We have to figure this out together. 00:00:54.489 --> 00:00:56.600 Why can't we just do it when we go shopping? 00:00:56.600 --> 00:00:59.857 Nana was asked to do the dishes but didn't have time to do it that night. 00:00:59.857 --> 00:01:03.366 The next morning, Carmon wanted to help but Curry stopped her. 00:01:03.366 --> 00:01:06.086 - Should I wash them? - No, why would you do it for them? 00:01:06.203 --> 00:01:11.500 When Nana and Tianqi came back after work, a big argument broke out because of the dishes. 00:01:11.883 --> 00:01:14.030 Did you remember that you were supposed to do the dishes today? 00:01:14.030 --> 00:01:16.700 You didn't think to help her do it while you've just been sitting here? 00:01:16.700 --> 00:01:17.868 Why would I do that? 00:01:17.868 --> 00:01:21.975 You think no one else has anything to do but you two? 00:01:21.975 --> 00:01:26.631 But you could just be a gentleman and help out the girls a bit, can't you? 00:01:27.009 --> 00:01:30.435 It's nothing, it's just dishes. I needed to do it anyway. 00:01:30.435 --> 00:01:32.108 Exactly, it should be her. 00:01:34.744 --> 00:01:38.379 As for relationships, it's clear that Nana and Tianqi are starting to flirt. 00:01:38.917 --> 00:01:42.217 The scene where they wash dishes together somehow seemed romantic. 00:01:43.110 --> 00:01:46.750 - It's not "starting" to flirt. - It's 99.9% flirting! 00:01:46.750 --> 00:01:48.724 Yeah, seems like they're already there. 00:01:48.724 --> 00:01:50.872 Let's see how it progresses in this episode. 00:01:57.945 --> 00:02:01.711 Episode 2, Week 1 "Invisible Ruler" 00:02:09.288 --> 00:02:10.808 You're by yourself? 00:02:14.356 --> 00:02:15.726 How's it going? 00:02:17.477 --> 00:02:20.900 We just got here, I think the space is pretty nice. 00:02:21.354 --> 00:02:22.074 How about you? 00:02:22.946 --> 00:02:26.500 I... just feel like I'm still not used to living here yet. 00:02:26.500 --> 00:02:27.560 How come? 00:02:28.115 --> 00:02:30.082 Well, I have a dog... 00:02:31.675 --> 00:02:34.367 I didn't bring him here because everything is still new. 00:02:36.564 --> 00:02:39.198 I know that he'd probably have a hard time adjusting. 00:02:41.997 --> 00:02:44.357 - I have a dog too. - You have a dog too? 00:02:44.357 --> 00:02:49.747 So right now I'm living here, but I had to leave him at the pet hotel. 00:02:50.660 --> 00:02:51.990 Yeah so... 00:02:52.783 --> 00:02:55.033 [panelist] They have something in common! 00:02:56.355 --> 00:03:00.830 I actually don't really like being away from my dog. 00:03:02.037 --> 00:03:06.616 Me neither. Because I never.. because he's 4 years old now, 00:03:06.616 --> 00:03:08.877 We've never spent more than a day apart. 00:03:09.736 --> 00:03:12.366 - What kind of dog do you have? - I have a shiba inu. 00:03:12.366 --> 00:03:13.547 What's their name? 00:03:13.547 --> 00:03:14.744 "Er Lang." (it means "second son") 00:03:14.744 --> 00:03:15.771 What about yours? 00:03:17.108 --> 00:03:19.520 Mine is named Popsicle. 00:03:19.520 --> 00:03:20.394 Popsicle. 00:03:20.890 --> 00:03:25.402 He's a mutt, let me find some pictures for you. 00:03:25.920 --> 00:03:27.867 He looks like this. 00:03:27.867 --> 00:03:31.216 This is when he first got sent to the pet hotel, poor guy. 00:03:32.481 --> 00:03:33.784 He looks pretty skinny. 00:03:34.315 --> 00:03:36.500 I think he's about 10kg. 00:03:36.500 --> 00:03:40.415 My dog is about 15kg, he's really fat. 00:03:41.671 --> 00:03:42.973 Let me show you. 00:03:43.502 --> 00:03:49.402 In all the companies that I started and all my projects, I use my dog as the logos. 00:03:49.402 --> 00:03:53.009 - This is something I drew recently. - So cute! 00:03:53.009 --> 00:03:54.995 Yeah, he's a fat dummy. 00:03:55.124 --> 00:03:57.922 Chubby to the point where he has a humpback when he sits. 00:03:58.328 --> 00:03:59.913 So fat. 00:04:00.744 --> 00:04:02.077 He does look pretty goofy. 00:04:03.717 --> 00:04:05.113 Do you miss him? 00:04:05.493 --> 00:04:06.548 What do you think? 00:04:07.276 --> 00:04:11.065 I miss him so much. I used to even take him with me on my work trips. 00:04:12.282 --> 00:04:13.691 We're always together. 00:04:15.300 --> 00:04:18.654 The thing with my dog is... if he stays at the pet hotel for too long 00:04:18.654 --> 00:04:22.598 I'm afraid there will be some emotional problems or something. 00:04:23.503 --> 00:04:25.207 Do you want to bring your dog here? 00:04:25.531 --> 00:04:28.161 - I... I'm actually thinking about it. - Same here. 00:04:28.161 --> 00:04:31.246 - Lately my dog has been refusing to eat. - Refusing to eat?! 00:04:31.246 --> 00:04:34.283 Yeah, his mood and appetite have been really bad lately. 00:04:36.528 --> 00:04:40.226 I feel like maybe we can talk to our housemates and see what they think? 00:04:40.226 --> 00:04:41.426 Yes, yes! 00:04:41.426 --> 00:04:46.742 We can let them meet our dogs first, then ask them if they like them or not, right? 00:05:21.815 --> 00:05:24.927 Chu Mengna (NaNa) Student, 22 years old 00:05:25.472 --> 00:05:27.919 Chen Xiaowei (Binshen) Professional gamer, 23 years old 00:05:28.522 --> 00:05:31.328 Jin Yujie Model, 22 years old 00:05:31.853 --> 00:05:35.293 Liu Keli (Curry) Social media entrepreneur, 29 years old 00:05:35.909 --> 00:05:38.676 Wu Kawen (Carmon) Designer, 29 years old 00:05:39.295 --> 00:05:41.775 Wang Tianqi Salesperson, 26 years old 00:06:05.241 --> 00:06:07.259 [coworker] What's like to be on that show? 00:06:08.095 --> 00:06:12.971 It's just... you know, 3 guys and 3 girls living together. 00:06:12.971 --> 00:06:14.734 So how do you feel about them? 00:06:14.734 --> 00:06:16.344 The guys or the girls? 00:06:16.344 --> 00:06:19.047 Of course the girls! Why would I ask about the guys? 00:06:20.045 --> 00:06:21.110 The girls... 00:06:23.946 --> 00:06:26.306 I feel like I don't hang out with them too much. 00:06:26.306 --> 00:06:28.660 There's one girl I think is pretty cute, though. 00:06:29.323 --> 00:06:31.528 - We'll see. - Then you must be pretty shy. 00:06:31.528 --> 00:06:34.748 Not shy exactly, just taking time to get to know them. 00:06:34.748 --> 00:06:36.637 So there's one cute girl, huh? 00:06:36.637 --> 00:06:39.007 Yeah, just an initial feeling. 00:06:41.799 --> 00:06:45.707 - I think he's talking about Nana. - Right, the cute one. 00:06:45.707 --> 00:06:49.246 I don't think he's taking time though, he already asked her out! 00:06:51.634 --> 00:06:53.814 Did you see the pay stub for this month? 00:06:53.814 --> 00:06:56.307 Yeah. I got deducted 1000 yuan... 00:06:57.638 --> 00:06:58.998 Seems kind of excessive. 00:06:59.949 --> 00:07:03.405 - What about you? - I got four or five hundred deducted. 00:07:03.405 --> 00:07:07.478 The base pay is already low, then it gets deducted if you're late by one minute.. 00:07:07.478 --> 00:07:09.225 Who doesn't rush to get to work? 00:07:09.225 --> 00:07:13.365 I agree, I feel like one day our pay stub will be negative. 00:07:13.365 --> 00:07:16.530 Don't even bother paying me, I'll just pay the boss to work. 00:07:34.566 --> 00:07:35.686 Welcome home. 00:07:38.237 --> 00:07:39.167 Hello! 00:07:52.035 --> 00:07:54.711 [Curry huffing heavily] 00:08:03.791 --> 00:08:06.294 You came back late, did you just get off work? 00:08:08.479 --> 00:08:09.824 I just got off, yeah. 00:08:10.542 --> 00:08:11.615 What's wrong? 00:08:14.312 --> 00:08:18.074 Today I got my pay stub for this month. 00:08:18.074 --> 00:08:21.671 And we get deducted 10 yuan for every minute we're late to work. 00:08:21.671 --> 00:08:23.726 - Huh? - 10 yuan for 1 minute. 00:08:24.501 --> 00:08:26.782 I got deducted 1000 yuan this month. 00:08:27.954 --> 00:08:30.077 That's kind of....I think that's excessive. 00:08:30.517 --> 00:08:34.508 It's outrageous, really. I don't know what the company is thinking. 00:08:35.296 --> 00:08:39.178 I feel like the company takes every chance they get to oppress their employees, 00:08:39.178 --> 00:08:41.182 and take every penny from you. 00:08:41.182 --> 00:08:45.651 I feel like...I mean, although it's not good to be late for work, 00:08:45.651 --> 00:08:48.017 your company's policy a bit too much. 00:08:50.640 --> 00:08:51.370 It's nothing. 00:08:53.746 --> 00:08:55.321 It's just a bit of money. 00:08:56.905 --> 00:09:01.000 I mean... you don't make much in the first place, it's not a small amount 00:09:03.760 --> 00:09:04.483 [sigh] 00:09:04.483 --> 00:09:08.203 Don't be upset, let's just not be late from now, right? 00:09:08.944 --> 00:09:10.208 [panelist] Haha, as if. 00:09:11.639 --> 00:09:14.008 I'll try my best, I don't want to either. 00:09:15.503 --> 00:09:17.386 [panelist] He's here, get ready for another lesson. 00:09:17.386 --> 00:09:18.276 What's up? 00:09:18.950 --> 00:09:21.028 I got deducted 1000 yuan from my paycheck. 00:09:21.028 --> 00:09:23.361 For every minute late, you get 10 yuan deducted. 00:09:25.237 --> 00:09:27.641 I guess it means you've been late a lot lately. 00:09:27.641 --> 00:09:29.844 Maybe, but they count literally every minute. 00:09:29.844 --> 00:09:33.695 If something happens one day and you're late by a lot, in the end it all adds up. 00:09:35.194 --> 00:09:39.055 But I think that's a pretty normal practice for legitimate companies. 00:09:39.055 --> 00:09:41.664 No, I know late-to-work deductions are normal 00:09:41.664 --> 00:09:45.158 but it's my first time working at a place where they do it by the minute. 00:09:45.158 --> 00:09:47.687 And there's no limit to the amount they can deduct. 00:09:48.063 --> 00:09:52.608 But for a company, one of the most important management policies is 00:09:52.608 --> 00:09:54.675 making sure employees are punctual. 00:09:55.421 --> 00:09:56.179 Really? 00:09:56.179 --> 00:10:01.950 Yeah. If you can't make sure that your employees come to work on time, 00:10:01.950 --> 00:10:05.071 it's really difficult to manage everything else on the team. 00:10:05.071 --> 00:10:08.451 But don't you think this policy is too extreme? 00:10:08.451 --> 00:10:12.084 Well... if they treat you this way, they probably treat everyone else the same way. 00:10:12.951 --> 00:10:15.239 And maybe you have been late too many times. 00:10:15.239 --> 00:10:19.465 So you're saying that if there's an unreasonable policy that gets applied equally to everyone, 00:10:19.465 --> 00:10:20.885 it becomes reasonable? 00:10:21.392 --> 00:10:24.072 From my point of view, I can at least understand why they do it. 00:10:25.165 --> 00:10:27.722 I can also understand that you just moved here, 00:10:27.722 --> 00:10:31.725 maybe your commute became farther and it takes extra time in the morning 00:10:31.962 --> 00:10:35.765 but I would still suggest that you take the responsibility to adjust to the environment. 00:10:36.702 --> 00:10:41.482 Oh, so you mean there's nothing wrong with the policy, it's all my fault, right? 00:10:41.962 --> 00:10:45.813 Well you chose this job, right, and you love this line of work. 00:10:45.813 --> 00:10:48.270 Being in the fashion industry is your dream. 00:10:49.791 --> 00:10:50.571 Right? 00:10:50.571 --> 00:10:52.213 Okay, got it. 00:10:56.958 --> 00:10:59.509 I'm going back to the room. 00:11:22.322 --> 00:11:24.983 - I think Tianqi is mad. - Yeah, he is. 00:11:24.983 --> 00:11:26.693 I'm mad at him! 00:11:26.693 --> 00:11:27.517 [laughter] 00:11:27.517 --> 00:11:29.371 I feel like... Curry is right though. 00:11:29.371 --> 00:11:31.009 - Yeah, he was spot on. - Yeah. 00:11:31.009 --> 00:11:34.717 Tianqi is great at blaming others, but he never examines himself. 00:11:34.717 --> 00:11:38.717 He even said "it's all my fault" so passive aggressively. 00:11:38.717 --> 00:11:42.154 - Of course it's your fault! - You're one to talk when you're late! 00:11:42.647 --> 00:11:45.177 If you can't change the policy you can at least change yourself! 00:11:45.177 --> 00:11:47.181 There's no issue if you're not late. 00:12:05.217 --> 00:12:06.918 [friend] What are you doing here? 00:12:06.918 --> 00:12:10.011 What are you doing here? It's been so long! 00:12:10.011 --> 00:12:12.446 - Same! - You haven't contacted me in a while! 00:12:12.446 --> 00:12:16.155 - What are you doing here, working? - Yeah, we're trying on the outfits. 00:12:16.568 --> 00:12:20.347 Where's your boyfriend? Doesn't he usually come to these things? 00:12:23.356 --> 00:12:26.337 Um.. I don't know, maybe today was inconvenient. 00:12:26.337 --> 00:12:28.807 Hasn't he come with you to every show? 00:12:29.681 --> 00:12:31.716 It's nothing. 00:12:31.716 --> 00:12:33.497 - Does he have work? - No. 00:12:35.221 --> 00:12:36.242 What is it? 00:12:37.223 --> 00:12:38.631 We broke up. 00:12:39.527 --> 00:12:40.645 Why? 00:12:41.534 --> 00:12:42.354 He cheated. 00:12:43.406 --> 00:12:46.823 I would have forgotten about it already if you hadn't brought it up! It's fine. 00:12:46.824 --> 00:12:50.594 - You don't have to always pretend to be strong. - I'm not, I'm not. 00:12:51.647 --> 00:12:55.522 Make sure you're eating and taking care of yourself. I worry about you. 00:12:55.522 --> 00:12:57.498 - You too. - You know? 00:12:57.962 --> 00:13:00.059 - I have to go now. - Okay, call me. 00:13:00.059 --> 00:13:02.134 - Bye bye. - Go, go. Call me. 00:13:19.629 --> 00:13:21.894 Pay attention to the music when you're walking. 00:13:25.855 --> 00:13:30.834 Lift your head. You forgot again. Lift your head. 00:13:30.834 --> 00:13:31.968 Don't move your hands. 00:13:32.289 --> 00:13:35.223 Don't sway your hands, how many times do I have to say it? 00:13:35.223 --> 00:13:37.950 Don't move your hands, do you want me to switch you out? 00:13:37.950 --> 00:13:38.810 Walk. 00:14:03.247 --> 00:14:06.314 - This segment was heavy. - Yes, it was serious. 00:14:06.314 --> 00:14:08.557 Only the second episode and it's already gotten so personal. 00:14:09.557 --> 00:14:14.596 After seeing this, my opinion of Curry has improved. 00:14:14.596 --> 00:14:17.361 - He's decent. - Yeah, he's actually a pretty caring person. 00:14:17.361 --> 00:14:19.310 He's really gotten Yang Li's attention. 00:14:19.815 --> 00:14:21.891 This wasn't the part that moved Yang Li. 00:14:23.112 --> 00:14:28.115 When he was working out.. I felt like that was an accurate portrayal of who he is. 00:14:28.115 --> 00:14:29.620 Really exhausting. 00:14:32.330 --> 00:14:34.115 - Thankless. - Yeah. 00:14:34.115 --> 00:14:39.167 He thinks that Tianqi isn't happy because he doesn't understand workplace norms, 00:14:39.167 --> 00:14:43.169 when really Tianqi just can't accept them. He thinks it's unfair. 00:14:43.598 --> 00:14:48.308 I didn't think the work thing was even so unreasonable. It's his problem. 00:14:48.308 --> 00:14:52.184 - I don't think so either. - Time management is really important. 00:14:52.184 --> 00:14:53.984 Yeah. You can always quit. 00:14:54.192 --> 00:14:57.297 You can also decide when onboarding that you don't want the job if you can't accept the policy. 00:14:57.297 --> 00:14:58.813 - It's your own choice. - Right. 00:14:58.813 --> 00:15:03.465 You wanted this job, why are you only saying now that it's unreasonable? 00:15:04.571 --> 00:15:08.911 One day, maybe when he has his own staff, he'll understand. 00:15:08.911 --> 00:15:11.419 - I don't think he'll have his own workers. - Yeah. 00:15:11.419 --> 00:15:13.400 There's no way he'll have his own. 00:15:13.400 --> 00:15:21.199 That Tianqi not very self-critical. He thinks the world should rotate around him. 00:15:21.954 --> 00:15:27.309 I think he's driven by emotion, whereas Curry is more driven by logic. 00:15:27.309 --> 00:15:32.579 - The way he expresses concern for others can make them resent him. - It feels oppressive. 00:15:32.585 --> 00:15:37.023 If he changed his manner, they could stomach it. But he won't, he can only use this type of-- 00:15:37.023 --> 00:15:39.170 - Logical reasoning. - Right, logic. 00:15:39.170 --> 00:15:42.200 So they'll always have this friction. 00:15:43.042 --> 00:15:46.685 But how do you advise someone like Tianqi? What would sink in? 00:15:46.685 --> 00:15:48.215 Look at how Nana does it. 00:15:48.397 --> 00:15:52.382 Nana's in a sticky spot, it would be difficult for her if she really wanted to date him. 00:15:52.382 --> 00:15:56.549 But I feel like this happens all the time with relationships. 00:15:58.254 --> 00:16:00.801 Relationships can be a trap. 00:16:00.801 --> 00:16:02.510 It's an awkward position. 00:16:02.510 --> 00:16:04.716 - Yeah. - Very awkward. 00:16:04.716 --> 00:16:09.787 I think Nana is a pretty naive person. She doesn't know how things like this work, either. 00:16:09.787 --> 00:16:16.833 That's why the two of them were responsible for the mess last episode, not helping with dinner or the dishes. 00:16:16.833 --> 00:16:19.252 The actions match the people. 00:16:19.252 --> 00:16:23.097 Curry would never be late, he would never let someone else dock his pay. 00:16:23.097 --> 00:16:25.882 He's very principled, but he's also rigid and unyielding. 00:16:25.882 --> 00:16:27.672 He never goes with the flow. 00:16:27.672 --> 00:16:29.521 - He's just never happy. - Yeah. 00:16:29.521 --> 00:16:32.410 - Even though he makes no mistakes, he'll never be happy. - Yeah. 00:16:32.410 --> 00:16:35.848 They're always messing up, but they're always happy! 00:16:35.848 --> 00:16:40.573 It's so hard! How do you choose? 00:16:41.294 --> 00:16:43.788 They seemed pretty happy when they were talking about their dogs. 00:16:43.788 --> 00:16:46.975 - That was the first time that boy-- - Seemed human. 00:16:46.975 --> 00:16:51.228 He laughed! He became soft. 00:16:51.753 --> 00:16:54.322 - He wasn't so stiff and stern anymore. - Or awkward. 00:16:54.322 --> 00:16:56.864 I would think, I could actually tolerate this person. 00:16:57.135 --> 00:17:00.508 But I can't stand the type of guy that calls his dog "doggy." 00:17:01.716 --> 00:17:02.916 So stern. 00:17:02.916 --> 00:17:07.498 You seem to have a thing for high-powered business types, not cutesy guys. 00:17:07.498 --> 00:17:09.730 Yeah, you don't have to be a tyrant over CEO types. 00:17:10.066 --> 00:17:11.571 CEOs can say "doggy," too. 00:17:16.058 --> 00:17:19.657 Oh, we also saw a heartbroken Yujie. 00:17:19.657 --> 00:17:22.297 - Oh, the model. - So she was dumped. 00:17:22.297 --> 00:17:27.135 For this I'll consult Keni. Is it true that this type of really elegant, aloof-- 00:17:27.135 --> 00:17:32.119 - A high-fashion face. - This kind of cool girl, do they get hurt more easily? 00:17:32.119 --> 00:17:33.774 I'm always seeing this trope. 00:17:33.774 --> 00:17:36.184 - Why not consult me? - Yeah, why not ask her? 00:17:37.434 --> 00:17:39.564 This is the source of her pain! 00:17:40.098 --> 00:17:45.415 Because I understand you! I know you're not that kind of person. 00:17:45.415 --> 00:17:49.340 Everyone says we judge people by their appearance, and it's true, 00:17:49.340 --> 00:17:52.997 lots of people tell me that if they didn't know me they'd think I was scary. 00:17:52.997 --> 00:17:57.355 If I'm standing around not saying anything, they say, "I feel like you look down on me." 00:17:57.355 --> 00:17:59.597 - But I'm not like that. - You don't look down on me? 00:17:59.597 --> 00:18:01.586 - I don't! - Thank you. 00:18:01.586 --> 00:18:05.108 - I'm really warm and I cry a lot. - But you look down on people while crying. 00:18:05.108 --> 00:18:08.750 No! No! I'm honestly pretty sensitive. 00:18:08.750 --> 00:18:13.401 But the more intimidating you look, the more painful it is when you get hurt. 00:18:13.401 --> 00:18:19.919 I don't know if that girl is like me, but I don't like to show that side of me in front of other people. 00:18:19.919 --> 00:18:24.861 It's so sad, even in that kind of mood she has to keep walking back and forth and getting her photo taken 00:18:24.861 --> 00:18:26.125 and get bossed around. 00:18:26.125 --> 00:18:29.326 I also walked in Fashion Week once. 00:18:29.326 --> 00:18:34.320 Modeling really is incredibly difficult, especially walking on a runway. 00:18:35.106 --> 00:18:39.286 It's really scary to be in a show in front of all those professionals, 00:18:39.286 --> 00:18:42.195 and someone is constantly criticizing you into a microphone. 00:18:42.195 --> 00:18:44.836 "You look bad! Why are you swinging your arms!" 00:18:44.836 --> 00:18:50.259 When your teacher is yelling at you on a stage you just think, I have no place. 00:18:50.865 --> 00:18:54.019 I don't want my flaws to be heard by so many people, 00:18:54.019 --> 00:18:56.055 much less in front of all these cameras. 00:18:56.055 --> 00:18:58.907 I feel like she was really emotionally fragile in that scene. 00:19:06.991 --> 00:19:08.513 What did you do today? 00:19:08.513 --> 00:19:11.085 Preparing for Fashion Week. The show is on the 11th. 00:19:11.085 --> 00:19:13.843 Today I bumped into a friend and our conversation wasn't great. 00:19:13.843 --> 00:19:15.492 Do you want to talk about it? 00:19:16.447 --> 00:19:18.114 Not really. 00:19:18.114 --> 00:19:21.016 - That's okay, next time. - Next time. 00:19:21.016 --> 00:19:21.793 Okay. 00:19:26.456 --> 00:19:28.176 Who's back? 00:19:28.176 --> 00:19:29.323 [panelist] They brought the dogs! 00:19:29.323 --> 00:19:30.380 They really brought them! 00:19:35.587 --> 00:19:38.074 - Hello! - Hello. 00:19:38.074 --> 00:19:40.254 You brought Er Lang? 00:19:40.254 --> 00:19:42.982 Why didn't you guys say you were going to bring your dogs home? 00:19:42.982 --> 00:19:47.541 Let's sit over there. Since it's their first time meeting they might get into a fight. 00:19:49.180 --> 00:19:51.060 If you put him here I'll be afraid. 00:19:52.803 --> 00:19:54.033 I'll hold him. 00:19:55.023 --> 00:19:56.043 Is that okay? 00:19:59.870 --> 00:20:02.090 Why didn't you discuss this with everyone? 00:20:02.090 --> 00:20:04.188 Why didn't you tell me first? 00:20:04.188 --> 00:20:05.068 Um... 00:20:07.166 --> 00:20:11.366 Do you want to sit over there? That way you can sit farther from the dogs. 00:20:13.407 --> 00:20:17.206 It's just that her dog was in a pet hotel, 00:20:17.377 --> 00:20:21.567 and my employees were helping me take care of mine. 00:20:21.567 --> 00:20:27.718 A couple days ago we were talking about how unhappy they were. 00:20:28.372 --> 00:20:30.524 My dog had even stopped eating. 00:20:34.196 --> 00:20:38.363 But you still have to ask everyone, in case someone's afraid of dogs. 00:20:38.363 --> 00:20:42.183 We talked about having a conversation with everyone after we came back, 00:20:42.183 --> 00:20:45.448 so that you could see the dogs first before we ask for your opinions. 00:20:45.780 --> 00:20:49.067 - You should have asked before you brought them. - Yeah. 00:20:49.067 --> 00:20:52.215 You couldn't ask for my opinion before you brought them home? 00:20:52.215 --> 00:20:55.964 Now that your dog is here, do I have a choice? 00:20:58.401 --> 00:21:03.033 I've never lived with dogs before, so I don't even know if I'm allergic to them. 00:21:03.432 --> 00:21:11.797 And dogs and cats both smell, you didn't ask if we're okay with that either. 00:21:13.696 --> 00:21:21.111 I was thinking I would just let him stay downstairs. 00:21:21.111 --> 00:21:24.482 It doesn't matter what you were planning, it was wrong to bring them back. 00:21:24.482 --> 00:21:27.460 Because neither of you considered my feelings. 00:21:29.080 --> 00:21:32.454 - You have to be considerate... - It doesn't matter which floor it is, 00:21:32.454 --> 00:21:38.384 I live with Carmon on the 2nd floor. And our shared spaces are on the 1st floor. 00:21:39.153 --> 00:21:41.107 It's out of line. 00:21:41.107 --> 00:21:43.230 Did you ask Binshen if he's allergic? 00:21:43.230 --> 00:21:47.127 Yeah, so our aim in bringing the dogs was just to let you guys see them, 00:21:47.127 --> 00:21:49.328 so we could get everyone's input. 00:21:49.328 --> 00:21:52.195 You should have asked earlier. It's a little late now. 00:21:56.433 --> 00:21:57.574 What do you think? 00:21:58.296 --> 00:22:02.389 I, I...I'll let you all go first. 00:22:03.821 --> 00:22:08.077 If I'm home alone and those two are roaming around freely, 00:22:08.077 --> 00:22:12.566 I can't be upstairs, I can't be downstairs, what am I supposed to do? 00:22:12.566 --> 00:22:16.627 I can bring him on my commute, so he won't be here unless I'm here. 00:22:16.627 --> 00:22:18.899 But now you're making me the bad guy. 00:22:18.899 --> 00:22:22.287 - No, I didn't mean it like that-- - You've put me in an awkward position. 00:22:22.287 --> 00:22:33.350 We just wanted everyone to discuss it objectively. I think you're being a little aggressive. 00:22:33.882 --> 00:22:35.165 You were wrong first. 00:22:35.165 --> 00:22:39.338 Okay, I was wrong first. But can you calm down a little right now? 00:22:39.644 --> 00:22:42.020 - We all live together. - I'm very calm. 00:22:43.602 --> 00:22:46.808 It's fine if you talk to me like this, but Carmon is your roommate. 00:22:46.808 --> 00:22:50.498 You live closely together. I don't think it's right to be so combative. 00:22:51.967 --> 00:22:53.668 [panelist] He's lecturing her again. 00:22:55.110 --> 00:23:02.620 I want to apologize first. I'm sorry for bringing the dog without telling everyone. 00:23:03.753 --> 00:23:09.042 Because of the pandemic, when I went home to my parents this year, I had to leave him in the pet hotel. 00:23:09.042 --> 00:23:13.971 I didn't want to. He was really sensitive when I came back after three weeks. 00:23:13.971 --> 00:23:21.596 So this time I just... wanted to take him out as soon as I could, and talk it over with everyone then. 00:23:22.513 --> 00:23:27.984 But of course I can bring him back. I just wanted to discuss it first. 00:23:29.799 --> 00:23:35.119 I understand Carmon's reasoning. But I want to respond to what you just said. 00:23:35.119 --> 00:23:37.887 - You can say whatever, no problem. - I know I can. 00:23:37.887 --> 00:23:44.911 First, I'm not an aggressive person. I'm angry because you didn't ask for my permission before bringing them. 00:23:44.911 --> 00:23:47.294 And you didn't ask anyone else, either. 00:23:47.294 --> 00:23:53.969 Second, I had a roommate before this. She wanted a dog too, but I didn't agree to it. 00:23:53.969 --> 00:23:55.405 She was also a really close friend. 00:23:57.320 --> 00:24:02.150 I even had a falling out with her over the dog issue. So it makes me really unhappy that you think 00:24:02.150 --> 00:24:06.033 I'm pushy and aggressive just because of my attitude about this. 00:24:08.692 --> 00:24:13.792 The reason I said that was because firstly, we're all equally in charge of this house. 00:24:13.792 --> 00:24:17.320 We're all allowed to do whatever we wish. 00:24:17.320 --> 00:24:21.796 We didn't know if you were afraid of dogs, if you're allergic, if you just hate them. 00:24:21.796 --> 00:24:24.928 If we're all in charge here, why didn't you ask anyone else what they thought? 00:24:24.928 --> 00:24:28.939 We brought them back to ask you what you thought. Even if we didn't let you know beforehand, 00:24:28.939 --> 00:24:35.299 we brought them because we also get a say in this, and each of us can do whatever we choose. 00:24:35.299 --> 00:24:38.640 If you put it that way, I have nothing else to say. I'm done talking. 00:24:57.310 --> 00:24:59.759 [panelist] Aw... little doggy. 00:24:59.759 --> 00:25:01.476 Poor doggy. 00:25:01.476 --> 00:25:05.322 Before, didn't he say that they would discuss it with everyone first? 00:25:05.322 --> 00:25:06.639 He thought wrong. 00:25:06.639 --> 00:25:11.698 - He thought when they brought them back-- - Everyone would say, so cute! 00:25:11.698 --> 00:25:15.042 - He thought the dogs would win them over. - Yeah. 00:25:15.042 --> 00:25:18.900 He probably thought this wasn't even a big deal, unlike the dishes, which were a huge deal. 00:25:18.900 --> 00:25:22.021 It's on the same level at the dishes. He even called her aggressive. 00:25:22.021 --> 00:25:23.700 The dogs are much cuter than the dishes. 00:25:23.700 --> 00:25:27.600 All his hopes right now hinge on how the others feel about dogs. 00:25:28.710 --> 00:25:32.970 But there's no way to arrive at a compromise with someone who hates dogs so much. 00:25:32.970 --> 00:25:33.979 She's scared of them. 00:25:33.979 --> 00:25:37.699 How can she live there if she's scared of them? There's no way, she'd have to leave early. 00:26:06.456 --> 00:26:10.078 What do we do? That was... 00:26:11.670 --> 00:26:12.600 [sigh] 00:26:14.510 --> 00:26:18.197 I do think we messed up a bit. 00:26:18.735 --> 00:26:25.078 Originally we were going to let them know first... and everyone's emotions were running high. 00:26:28.111 --> 00:26:35.331 Do you remember that first day we went out for groceries, I think I mentioned my shiba in the car... 00:26:35.331 --> 00:26:37.624 - I think so, yeah. - Yeah. 00:26:37.624 --> 00:26:44.626 At the time Yujie didn't say she was scared of dogs. So it didn't even cross my mind. 00:26:44.626 --> 00:26:49.397 Maybe she didn't say anything because we'd only just met each other. 00:26:55.179 --> 00:26:59.318 I'm just going to say things from our perspective for now. 00:26:59.318 --> 00:27:03.127 - First of all, we treat our dogs like our children. - Yeah. 00:27:03.801 --> 00:27:11.333 If we neglect our obligations to them for even a day, we feel really guilty. 00:27:11.333 --> 00:27:16.454 So that's why I got upset in that moment. 00:27:16.454 --> 00:27:21.658 It felt like maybe Yujie was showing animosity towards our children. 00:27:21.658 --> 00:27:27.308 So I felt really protective and kind of snapped. 00:27:28.425 --> 00:27:33.986 I can understand why that made you lose your cool, but from Yujie's perspective, 00:27:33.986 --> 00:27:37.776 she sees us as her roommates, so when we did what we did, 00:27:37.776 --> 00:27:43.999 it made her feel that we carelessly threw her concerns aside. That we were inconsiderate. 00:27:43.999 --> 00:27:48.123 Yeah, I can understand that. 00:27:48.123 --> 00:27:50.921 So, I still think we should apologize 00:27:50.921 --> 00:27:55.010 and from now on we'll be more considerate as roommates. 00:27:55.010 --> 00:27:58.041 We should help her feel like that's our intention. 00:27:59.729 --> 00:28:00.989 What do you think? 00:28:02.747 --> 00:28:04.553 Okay. 00:28:06.382 --> 00:28:08.595 Just apologize. 00:28:08.595 --> 00:28:09.283 So difficult. 00:28:09.953 --> 00:28:12.459 - The way Carmon speaks is very agreeable. - Agreed! 00:28:12.459 --> 00:28:15.431 - She speaks very gently. - Very warmly. 00:28:15.431 --> 00:28:18.458 - She's very reasonable. - She communicates well. 00:28:22.282 --> 00:28:23.665 Come in. 00:28:26.611 --> 00:28:28.361 - Hello... - Hi. 00:28:32.751 --> 00:28:33.581 Come sit. 00:28:35.876 --> 00:28:39.906 I'm sorry. We should have come to you first. 00:28:40.981 --> 00:28:43.914 Yes, you should have talked to me first about it. 00:28:43.914 --> 00:28:47.807 Do you... how are you feeling right now? 00:28:47.807 --> 00:28:53.100 I'm fine. It's not an issue of my mood, but rather an issue of right or wrong. 00:28:53.100 --> 00:28:54.155 Okay. 00:28:54.155 --> 00:29:02.355 When we were talking earlier, I didn't really speak up. 00:29:03.127 --> 00:29:08.502 However, the fact is... Let me first try to explain my behavior today. 00:29:08.502 --> 00:29:15.489 I wanted to first bring Popsicle here first, and I didn't ask for anyone's permission beforehand. 00:29:15.489 --> 00:29:22.814 At the same time, it happened to be his last day at the pet hotel, so I thought I could bring him back just to see. 00:29:22.814 --> 00:29:27.942 I think Curry also felt the same, since he's had his dog for 4 years. 00:29:27.942 --> 00:29:32.562 Let's just talk about our own issues, there's no need to involve him. 00:29:32.562 --> 00:29:35.752 He's him and you're you. 00:29:35.752 --> 00:29:36.825 Sure. 00:29:38.284 --> 00:29:43.493 Honestly, as long as you guys can find a suitable place for your dogs, it's fine. 00:29:43.493 --> 00:29:46.202 It's not that I have an issue with the dogs. 00:29:46.202 --> 00:29:51.088 My issue was that it seemed you guys didn't really regard our feelings, 00:29:51.088 --> 00:29:54.205 and that you guys didn't really respect us. 00:29:54.205 --> 00:29:58.129 Maybe my temperament is just like this. My life has always been just work and home, 00:29:58.129 --> 00:30:03.464 so maybe I'm not very good at seeing things from another perspective. 00:30:03.464 --> 00:30:06.264 That's why I had such a strong reaction. 00:30:06.559 --> 00:30:11.352 When I was little, I got chased by a dog, so to some extent I am afraid of them. 00:30:11.352 --> 00:30:13.965 But if you'd discussed it with me, I'd be okay with it. 00:30:13.965 --> 00:30:19.832 Because we have a good relationship, and I really like you. 00:30:19.832 --> 00:30:23.961 I just hope in the future we can communicate more. 00:30:23.961 --> 00:30:25.634 We will. 00:30:25.634 --> 00:30:29.602 That's why I got angry. But I'm not angry at you. 00:30:29.602 --> 00:30:35.013 Okay. I feel better knowing that you're not angry. 00:30:35.737 --> 00:30:39.143 Today I even brought you home a clip that matches mine. 00:30:39.143 --> 00:30:44.746 I bought two, and I thought it would suit you because you have short hair. 00:30:44.746 --> 00:30:45.990 It's so cute, thank you! 00:30:45.990 --> 00:30:52.414 We got tangled up in this argument, and I didn't have time to give it to you. 00:30:53.846 --> 00:30:55.196 - Thank you. - It's nothing. 00:30:55.196 --> 00:31:00.566 - It's so cute. - Let's try to avoid these kinds of conflicts in the future. 00:31:00.566 --> 00:31:08.480 Yeah. And now I feel like everyone knows why everyone else got upset, 00:31:08.480 --> 00:31:11.590 so it'll help prevent this kind of thing from happening again. 00:31:11.590 --> 00:31:16.334 And I was so tired when I got home, maybe I wasn't in a great mood. 00:31:16.334 --> 00:31:20.098 Maybe I brought my work stress home with me. 00:31:20.098 --> 00:31:22.664 Oh, was it your fitting? 00:31:22.664 --> 00:31:28.089 I can't eat much because I'm controlling my diet for Fashion Week. So maybe I've been on edge. 00:31:28.089 --> 00:31:30.220 And the work environment has been really harsh. 00:31:30.220 --> 00:31:33.069 You're so strict with yourself. 00:31:33.069 --> 00:31:37.168 Only when I have to be. Otherwise, I'm pretty indulgent. 00:31:37.168 --> 00:31:41.753 - Really? I'll pay more attention. - We have to find joy where we can. 00:31:41.753 --> 00:31:42.863 Yeah. 00:31:51.724 --> 00:31:53.961 - Oh, you came up? - How's it going? 00:31:54.674 --> 00:31:57.444 Did you come up to talk to me about what happened today? 00:31:57.444 --> 00:32:00.858 Yeah, we wanted to chat with you. 00:32:01.912 --> 00:32:04.114 I don't really want to talk to you right now. 00:32:08.328 --> 00:32:13.645 I don't want to talk about this. Just like how you didn't want to tell me before you brought your dog over. 00:32:14.432 --> 00:32:16.863 Can I just say two things, and then I'll go? 00:32:16.863 --> 00:32:20.484 I don't want to hear it. Let's talk about this another day, maybe tomorrow. 00:32:25.730 --> 00:32:28.401 - It's like this.. - I said I didn't want to hear it. 00:32:28.401 --> 00:32:30.996 - I think we should resolve this today. - I don't want to hear it. 00:32:30.996 --> 00:32:35.449 - Because we already brought the dogs. - You guys deal with it, they're your dogs. 00:32:36.938 --> 00:32:39.911 I have my own things to deal with, I've already had too much to worry about today. 00:32:39.911 --> 00:32:41.971 And I still have some work to deal with. 00:32:41.971 --> 00:32:46.666 So can we just table this, calm down a little and talk about it tomorrow? 00:32:48.682 --> 00:32:52.858 - I just want to say a couple things-- - Forget it, you should both get some rest. 00:32:52.858 --> 00:32:57.521 - I agree. - I think you and I both need to calm down. Okay? 00:33:00.242 --> 00:33:05.743 Why don't we give Yujie some space? She had an exhausting day at work too. 00:33:07.916 --> 00:33:09.226 - Good night. - Okay. 00:33:09.226 --> 00:33:10.096 Let's go. 00:33:11.096 --> 00:33:12.582 Get some rest. 00:33:12.992 --> 00:33:15.682 - You still need to eat if you're hungry. - Okay. 00:33:26.050 --> 00:33:27.280 [laughter] 00:33:28.212 --> 00:33:30.895 Living together doesn't seem to be working out for them. 00:33:30.895 --> 00:33:32.728 We're so invested in this. 00:33:32.728 --> 00:33:34.596 I really like this episode. 00:33:34.596 --> 00:33:41.285 On the surface it's a simple argument about the dogs, but it's actually about a lot of things. 00:33:41.678 --> 00:33:46.882 It's about respect and consideration, which are both serious issues. 00:33:46.882 --> 00:33:53.130 Like at the end, when Curry came in and proclaimed that he wanted to say something, and she said she didn't want to talk. 00:33:53.130 --> 00:33:58.611 There was so much wrapped up in that exchange. How to be a person, how we treat others, how to listen. 00:33:58.611 --> 00:34:05.795 How to help people understand us, this episode touches on all of that. 00:34:05.795 --> 00:34:15.325 I don't know whose side I'm on. I think...I just think...it's so good. 00:34:15.413 --> 00:34:18.721 From a director's standpoint, it's a perfect episode. 00:34:18.888 --> 00:34:21.948 It's gold. 00:34:22.084 --> 00:34:25.398 I felt like we could be watching ourselves. 00:34:25.933 --> 00:34:31.770 Sometimes we're just like them. We do things without considering others and they feel pressured to accept it. 00:34:31.770 --> 00:34:35.569 The reason Curry brought the dog was just to say look, it's already here. 00:34:36.198 --> 00:34:40.144 But you can't do that, you have to tell them first, you have to ask them. 00:34:40.144 --> 00:34:42.932 The dog is innocent. 00:34:42.932 --> 00:34:44.556 It wasn't the heart of the issue. 00:34:44.556 --> 00:34:49.211 Yeah. And Carmon is what I would call an innocent guilty party. 00:34:49.876 --> 00:34:56.036 She made a mistake, but she was innocent. 00:34:56.176 --> 00:35:01.002 The reason this got so blown out of proportion was because of how Curry conducts himself. 00:35:01.743 --> 00:35:05.195 If she says she doesn't like it, you should offer to take it away. 00:35:05.195 --> 00:35:07.235 Or else say it's just for one night. 00:35:07.235 --> 00:35:10.199 - He just has to get his point across. - He won't admit fault. 00:35:10.199 --> 00:35:14.163 "I'm sorry" are the easiest words you can say, but he can't bring himself to do it. 00:35:14.163 --> 00:35:19.642 He's acting the same way that Tianqi did last segment. 00:35:19.642 --> 00:35:24.753 He's not willing to admit that he did something wrong. 00:35:25.136 --> 00:35:29.329 - He won't even give an inch. - He's stubborn and overwhelms you with talk. 00:35:29.329 --> 00:35:33.016 He forces people to do things against their will. He can't keep doing this. 00:35:33.016 --> 00:35:39.240 I think he knows he's in the wrong and he's not trying to hide it. 00:35:39.240 --> 00:35:46.276 He's just not willing to say he's sorry because he's reacting poorly to Yujie's anger. 00:35:46.405 --> 00:35:48.405 Do people really get so obsessive about things? 00:35:48.405 --> 00:35:53.954 - Yes. - You can plainly be in the wrong but keep doubling down on it. 00:35:53.954 --> 00:35:55.934 - You try to explain yourself. - You can't let iet go. 00:35:55.934 --> 00:36:00.460 - Later he was like, this is my son! - These are our children! 00:36:00.460 --> 00:36:03.243 He thinks she doesn't respect his child. 00:36:03.243 --> 00:36:08.619 He upgraded the dog's status from dog to child so he can say she had a bad attitude towards his child. 00:36:08.619 --> 00:36:09.726 It's a plea to emotions. 00:36:09.726 --> 00:36:12.995 With others it's all about his principles, but when it comes to himself he wants to talk emotions. 00:36:12.995 --> 00:36:16.086 Don't you think that's a double standard? 00:36:16.086 --> 00:36:20.478 When it came to the dishwashing incident, he was relentless about Nana washing the dishes 00:36:20.478 --> 00:36:23.316 saying, "You have to do it, you were appointed to do it." 00:36:23.316 --> 00:36:25.805 But with the dog incident, he says "well, I feel..." 00:36:26.087 --> 00:36:29.753 That's his temperament. Whether it's towards others or himself, he acts like that regardless. 00:36:29.753 --> 00:36:30.540 Exactly. 00:36:30.540 --> 00:36:34.600 When I think I'm right, you have to accept that I'm right. 00:36:34.600 --> 00:36:38.423 It's not a double standard. He only goes by one standard, and it's his own. 00:36:38.423 --> 00:36:41.202 Others have to agree with whatever he deems important. 00:36:41.202 --> 00:36:43.163 So we'll have to wait and see about Curry. 00:36:43.163 --> 00:36:44.876 He may not be as principled as we thought. 00:36:45.285 --> 00:36:47.780 - He's not endearing anymore. - You take it back? 00:36:47.780 --> 00:36:50.448 - I changed my mind. - You change your mind so quickly! 00:36:50.448 --> 00:36:52.629 A wise man submits to circumstances. 00:36:53.585 --> 00:36:57.304 After they brought the dogs, I felt so bad for Yujie. 00:36:57.304 --> 00:37:00.165 - If she really is afraid of dogs. - Poor Yujie. 00:37:00.165 --> 00:37:02.920 Yeah, she was sandwiched between two dogs. 00:37:02.920 --> 00:37:06.191 I'd like to say something about this Wang Tianqi fellow. 00:37:06.864 --> 00:37:14.032 When he unkindly "fanned the flames," Teacher Yujie showed plenty of dignity. 00:37:14.446 --> 00:37:16.096 Wang Tianqi was just kind of like... 00:37:17.242 --> 00:37:18.512 Kind of like that. 00:37:18.512 --> 00:37:21.306 Yujie kept her cool, saying: I'm not engaging. And she just left. 00:37:21.306 --> 00:37:22.609 She didn't throw a tantrum. 00:37:22.842 --> 00:37:25.489 - She toughed through a hell of a day. - Yeah. 00:37:25.489 --> 00:37:29.519 She had a terrible day, and then she had to spend the evening with two dogs. 00:37:29.519 --> 00:37:32.659 Surrounded by dogs on all sides. 00:37:32.659 --> 00:37:35.292 Although no one knew how bad her day was, because she didn't say. 00:37:35.292 --> 00:37:37.686 - Yeah. - She just said she didn't want to talk about it. 00:37:37.928 --> 00:37:41.495 I want to talk about the other thing. Why did Curry suddenly transform from 00:37:41.495 --> 00:37:44.662 such a logical person to a someone so influenced by his emotions? 00:37:44.662 --> 00:37:50.619 I think it may be because the girl he's interested in was attacked by this other girl. 00:37:50.619 --> 00:37:53.198 He wanted to show off his manliness, right? 00:37:53.198 --> 00:37:56.115 Right. Wow, you really understand the male brain. 00:37:56.115 --> 00:37:57.204 It really is like that! 00:37:57.204 --> 00:37:59.708 If I'm drinking with Da Xun and we start arguing, we won't have any issues. 00:37:59.708 --> 00:38:01.908 But if there's a woman by my side? 00:38:02.986 --> 00:38:05.379 If you say, Da Xun, don't fight with Li Dan 00:38:05.379 --> 00:38:06.792 Then, immediately! 00:38:08.456 --> 00:38:09.741 Wow, you're so sharp. 00:38:09.741 --> 00:38:13.298 In front of her, you can't lose, and you especially can't apologize. 00:38:13.298 --> 00:38:15.674 - Apologizing is too embarrassing. - Agreed. 00:38:15.674 --> 00:38:17.924 - So this was the explanation? - Yeah, it should be. 00:38:17.924 --> 00:38:22.552 Otherwise he wouldn't so stubbornly refuse to apologize. 00:38:22.552 --> 00:38:25.102 She didn't even let him say his two things. 00:38:26.820 --> 00:38:29.312 How embarrassing, in front of the girl he likes. 00:38:29.312 --> 00:38:33.601 Whether with the girl he's interested in, or with the dogs, 00:38:33.601 --> 00:38:34.983 he lost face in front of everyone. 00:38:35.366 --> 00:38:37.720 - He just couldn't let it go. - Right. 00:38:37.720 --> 00:38:41.575 He cares about everyone except his roommates. 00:38:41.575 --> 00:38:43.722 - Yes, exactly. - You agree? 00:38:43.722 --> 00:38:47.502 Once he decides he cares about someone, everyone else becomes unimportant. 00:38:47.502 --> 00:38:50.492 His stance immediately makes a complete 180. 00:38:50.492 --> 00:38:53.734 Compared to the dishwashing incident he's like two different people. 00:38:55.050 --> 00:39:00.712 Also, when he brought up that Yujie hadn't mentioned beforehand that she was scared of dogs 00:39:00.712 --> 00:39:04.736 That was solely for Carmon, so that she wouldn't have any complaints about his stance. 00:39:05.316 --> 00:39:09.742 In front of others, he wouldn't have even mentioned it, because he already knew he was wrong. 00:39:09.742 --> 00:39:11.963 He only hopes that Carmon won't think poorly of him. 00:39:12.423 --> 00:39:15.256 - He couldn't lose face. 00:39:17.136 --> 00:39:20.579 You've lived with roommates, and you've lived in a dorm before, right? 00:39:20.579 --> 00:39:24.278 I used to live with roommates, but lately I've been doing better, so I moved. 00:39:24.278 --> 00:39:26.373 But before that I only lived with roommates. 00:39:26.792 --> 00:39:28.337 Have you had arguments like these? 00:39:28.807 --> 00:39:29.607 All the time. 00:39:30.552 --> 00:39:34.304 Let me tell you, the less you know each other, the better it is to live together. 00:39:34.304 --> 00:39:37.959 My roommate and I were pretty much strangers, so we didn't have any conflict of interest. 00:39:37.959 --> 00:39:39.769 Every night we would arrive home and go to bed. 00:39:39.769 --> 00:39:42.126 We didn't chat about anything and never bothered each other. 00:39:42.126 --> 00:39:45.532 Even though I've never had roommates, I've traveled with people before. 00:39:45.532 --> 00:39:51.402 When you're traveling with friends, you can't wait last minute to say where you're going or what the plans are. 00:39:51.402 --> 00:39:52.333 Surprise! 00:39:52.333 --> 00:39:54.149 That's not okay. 00:39:54.495 --> 00:39:59.283 You need to communicate your plans so everyone can go together. 00:39:59.283 --> 00:40:02.795 I think this is the most fundamental part of a communal lifestyle. 00:40:02.795 --> 00:40:03.899 Exactly. 00:40:03.899 --> 00:40:08.328 Let's see what happens with the fight the next day. 00:40:08.328 --> 00:40:10.120 Get the popcorn! 00:40:10.120 --> 00:40:11.675 I'm excited. 00:40:14.683 --> 00:40:15.749 Come in. 00:40:16.349 --> 00:40:18.590 - Hello! - How come you're here? 00:40:19.265 --> 00:40:21.237 My training ended, so I wanted to come up. 00:40:21.758 --> 00:40:22.911 Oh, okay. 00:40:23.861 --> 00:40:30.389 I went to the room when I got back and Tianqi told me you guys just had a discussion. 00:40:30.389 --> 00:40:33.488 And that you guys haven't been able to come to an understanding yet. 00:40:34.853 --> 00:40:40.597 - Then let's talk about it when everyone's here. - Some people only want to talk and don't want to listen. 00:40:40.597 --> 00:40:45.538 That's one of the reasons why I'm angry. 00:40:47.103 --> 00:40:48.273 I get that. 00:40:56.785 --> 00:40:58.487 Get some rest tonight. 00:40:58.487 --> 00:41:00.249 - Yeah, you too. - Will do. 00:41:00.249 --> 00:41:02.782 Let's resolve this tomorrow. Okay? 00:41:06.466 --> 00:41:08.296 - Good night, see you later. - Good night. 00:41:15.566 --> 00:41:17.101 Er Lang. 00:41:17.550 --> 00:41:19.165 Er Lang, are you feeling unhappy? 00:41:22.512 --> 00:41:24.928 That girl may not like you, but we like you. 00:41:24.928 --> 00:41:26.800 Is that okay? 00:41:27.388 --> 00:41:29.630 I'm asking you. 00:41:29.630 --> 00:41:30.642 I'm talking to you. 00:41:32.555 --> 00:41:37.860 Tonight we'll sleep in the garden, and tomorrow I'll try to convince the others. 00:41:37.860 --> 00:41:38.317 I'm going to do my best. 00:41:38.902 --> 00:41:40.295 How's that? 00:41:40.295 --> 00:41:41.878 And then we can sleep inside. 00:41:41.878 --> 00:41:43.511 Okay? 00:41:43.511 --> 00:41:44.648 Is that okay? 00:41:49.838 --> 00:41:52.170 It's going to be okay. 00:41:54.670 --> 00:41:56.231 You're so good, they'll all love you. 00:41:56.231 --> 00:41:57.262 Okay? 00:41:58.390 --> 00:41:59.810 Come, give me a hug. 00:42:01.786 --> 00:42:02.496 Good boy. 00:42:11.960 --> 00:42:14.669 - The dog is unhappy to see his owner. - He wants to get out of there. 00:42:14.669 --> 00:42:17.608 He doesn't want to be next to him. He's annoyed with his owner. 00:42:18.814 --> 00:42:21.812 He's like, you've caused me too much trouble. 00:42:21.812 --> 00:42:23.573 You've caused me so much trouble! Ugh! 00:42:23.573 --> 00:42:25.628 Can't you speak properly to other people? 00:42:25.628 --> 00:42:28.139 If I could talk, even I'd be better than you. 00:42:28.639 --> 00:42:32.915 You don't even need to speak. Just go "arf arf" and it'll be a done deal. 00:42:32.915 --> 00:42:34.876 Just give a little whine, and then it'll be done, okay? 00:42:34.876 --> 00:42:35.999 No need to speak. 00:42:35.999 --> 00:42:38.510 I even helped Yujie overcome a traumatic experience. 00:42:38.510 --> 00:42:44.541 This last segment shows that Binshen will likely assume the role of a mediator between those two. 00:42:44.541 --> 00:42:48.400 Yeah, I think he's very sensible. 00:42:48.400 --> 00:42:52.565 I think he can help bring people together. 00:42:53.252 --> 00:42:55.974 But I don't know. We don't even know Binshen very well. 00:42:55.974 --> 00:42:58.648 He's too much of a mystery, this person. 00:42:58.648 --> 00:43:00.702 Added up, we've probably only seen him for maybe a minute. 00:43:00.702 --> 00:43:02.048 The most mysterious guest. 00:43:02.048 --> 00:43:06.734 Still, I think he'll be able to communicate well with both the girl and the boy. 00:43:06.734 --> 00:43:11.424 I think he can shoulder this responsibility. 00:43:11.532 --> 00:43:16.660 These types of people with high EQ tend not to say much. 00:43:16.959 --> 00:43:18.513 "I get you." 00:43:18.513 --> 00:43:20.110 Ta-da, everything's good again. 00:43:20.200 --> 00:43:21.858 -Active listening. -Agreed. 00:43:21.858 --> 00:43:27.558 And, that's what she was trying to say, right? They weren't even trying to listen to her. 00:43:27.558 --> 00:43:33.297 If you just show that you're willing to listen and that you hear her, then that's enough for her. 00:43:33.297 --> 00:43:34.238 I get you. 00:43:34.238 --> 00:43:36.295 It's respecting her feelings. 00:43:36.295 --> 00:43:42.078 She even said she's not actually that scared of dogs, just that she felt disrespected. 00:43:42.078 --> 00:43:43.199 Exactly. 00:43:43.651 --> 00:43:48.446 In reality, it's not hard. Just say, I understand you and I apologize. 00:43:48.446 --> 00:43:50.706 Most things can be resolved from that. 00:43:50.706 --> 00:43:51.913 Many people can't bring themselves to say it. 00:43:51.913 --> 00:43:56.104 She wants a logical reason for why he couldn't admit fault. 00:43:56.104 --> 00:43:58.443 This world isn't logical and has never been logical. 00:43:58.443 --> 00:44:00.700 I quite like Yujie. 00:44:00.700 --> 00:44:03.428 Because I think the other two girls are both very avoidant. 00:44:03.660 --> 00:44:08.872 She did a good job of defending herself. She has reason, strength, and integrity. 00:44:08.872 --> 00:44:10.047 Really great. 00:44:10.047 --> 00:44:14.962 Even when she was upset, everything she said was right. She's great. 00:44:15.440 --> 00:44:17.760 Do you think the dog can stay? 00:44:17.786 --> 00:44:20.251 - I don't think so. - I think so. 00:44:20.251 --> 00:44:26.689 Because I think once Yujie cools down a bit, she's still a caring person at heart. 00:44:26.689 --> 00:44:33.289 If she knows that the dogs aren't eating, they're not doing well, and 00:44:33.289 --> 00:44:38.942 they won't be able to see their owners for months, she'll definitely consider those things. 00:44:38.942 --> 00:44:41.251 She'll evaluate if she's okay with that. 00:44:41.251 --> 00:44:43.341 I think the dogs might be able to stay. 00:44:43.341 --> 00:44:45.121 I think they'll try it. 00:44:45.121 --> 00:44:46.359 I also think they'll stay. 00:44:46.359 --> 00:44:53.210 I think with Binshen's mediation, they will come up with a reasonable solution. 00:44:53.210 --> 00:44:56.196 Maybe it'll be really nice for them! 00:44:56.676 --> 00:44:59.503 Maybe they'll even set up a dog house. 00:45:01.034 --> 00:45:02.583 They could set up a dog house. 00:45:02.583 --> 00:45:04.648 You'll be so frustrated as you watch. 00:45:04.648 --> 00:45:08.810 Maybe they'll have the dogs stay outdoors. I think that's a possibility. 00:45:08.810 --> 00:45:16.190 Ever since the dogs made an appearance, it's caused quite a stir for us. 00:45:16.190 --> 00:45:19.374 So for that reason alone, I think the dogs will stay. 00:45:20.618 --> 00:45:22.333 Makes sense from a director's perspective! 00:45:22.333 --> 00:45:25.477 It'll also encourage personal development from the castmates, you know? 00:45:25.477 --> 00:45:30.062 These dogs are even better than Binshen at bringing everyone together. 00:45:30.062 --> 00:45:36.312 I think it'll be important to see Curry's growth and he how manages the relationship between his dog and his friends. 00:45:36.781 --> 00:45:37.697 Shanghai Share Life 00:45:37.697 --> 00:45:39.939 We look forward to the next episode! 00:45:39.939 --> 00:45:41.999 Bye bye! 00:45:42.718 --> 00:45:47.308 [Translated and timed by fang, arissari, & jackie]