1 00:00:01,352 --> 00:00:05,204 [Translated and captioned by ShibaSubs] 2 00:00:06,104 --> 00:00:10,324 [Translated and timed by fang, arissari, & jackie] 3 00:00:10,324 --> 00:00:13,572 Welcome back everyone to Shanghai Share Life, part 2 of episode 1! 4 00:00:13,572 --> 00:00:17,485 We're observing a group of young people living inside a nice house for 105 days. 5 00:00:17,485 --> 00:00:20,074 Let's review what happened from last episode. 6 00:00:20,487 --> 00:00:24,059 In the last episode, 6 young adults arrived at the house for the first time. 7 00:00:24,059 --> 00:00:30,070 During grocery shopping, Curry showed off his "leadership skill" 8 00:00:30,070 --> 00:00:33,847 and got complaints from all the girls. 9 00:00:35,033 --> 00:00:37,091 - Not just the girls though. - The guys too. 10 00:00:37,091 --> 00:00:39,490 - The guys too. - No one has let him off the hook. 11 00:00:39,490 --> 00:00:41,154 Everyone complained about him. 12 00:00:41,457 --> 00:00:44,135 It looks like Tianqi doesn't like to be under Curry's rule. 13 00:00:44,472 --> 00:00:46,340 Can we not have this meeting right now? 14 00:00:47,168 --> 00:00:51,251 No, we have to settle this because the money is everyone's money. 15 00:00:51,251 --> 00:00:52,440 This is unnecessary. 16 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,489 We have to figure this out together. 17 00:00:54,489 --> 00:00:56,600 Why can't we just do it when we go shopping? 18 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,857 Nana was asked to do the dishes but didn't have time to do it that night. 19 00:00:59,857 --> 00:01:03,366 The next morning, Carmon wanted to help but Curry stopped her. 20 00:01:03,366 --> 00:01:06,086 - Should I wash them? - No, why would you do it for them? 21 00:01:06,203 --> 00:01:11,500 When Nana and Tianqi came back after work, a big argument broke out because of the dishes. 22 00:01:11,883 --> 00:01:14,030 Did you remember that you were supposed to do the dishes today? 23 00:01:14,030 --> 00:01:16,700 You didn't think to help her do it while you've just been sitting here? 24 00:01:16,700 --> 00:01:17,868 Why would I do that? 25 00:01:17,868 --> 00:01:21,975 You think no one else has anything to do but you two? 26 00:01:21,975 --> 00:01:26,631 But you could just be a gentleman and help out the girls a bit, can't you? 27 00:01:27,009 --> 00:01:30,435 It's nothing, it's just dishes. I needed to do it anyway. 28 00:01:30,435 --> 00:01:32,108 Exactly, it should be her. 29 00:01:34,744 --> 00:01:38,379 As for relationships, it's clear that Nana and Tianqi are starting to flirt. 30 00:01:38,917 --> 00:01:42,217 The scene where they wash dishes together somehow seemed romantic. 31 00:01:43,110 --> 00:01:46,750 - It's not "starting" to flirt. - It's 99.9% flirting! 32 00:01:46,750 --> 00:01:48,724 Yeah, seems like they're already there. 33 00:01:48,724 --> 00:01:50,872 Let's see how it progresses in this episode. 34 00:01:57,945 --> 00:02:01,711 Episode 2, Week 1 "Invisible Ruler" 35 00:02:09,288 --> 00:02:10,808 You're by yourself? 36 00:02:14,356 --> 00:02:15,726 How's it going? 37 00:02:17,477 --> 00:02:20,900 We just got here, I think the space is pretty nice. 38 00:02:21,354 --> 00:02:22,074 How about you? 39 00:02:22,946 --> 00:02:26,500 I... just feel like I'm still not used to living here yet. 40 00:02:26,500 --> 00:02:27,560 How come? 41 00:02:28,115 --> 00:02:30,082 Well, I have a dog... 42 00:02:31,675 --> 00:02:34,367 I didn't bring him here because everything is still new. 43 00:02:36,564 --> 00:02:39,198 I know that he'd probably have a hard time adjusting. 44 00:02:41,997 --> 00:02:44,357 - I have a dog too. - You have a dog too? 45 00:02:44,357 --> 00:02:49,747 So right now I'm living here, but I had to leave him at the pet hotel. 46 00:02:50,660 --> 00:02:51,990 Yeah so... 47 00:02:52,783 --> 00:02:55,033 [panelist] They have something in common! 48 00:02:56,355 --> 00:03:00,830 I actually don't really like being away from my dog. 49 00:03:02,037 --> 00:03:06,616 Me neither. Because I never.. because he's 4 years old now, 50 00:03:06,616 --> 00:03:08,877 We've never spent more than a day apart. 51 00:03:09,736 --> 00:03:12,366 - What kind of dog do you have? - I have a shiba inu. 52 00:03:12,366 --> 00:03:13,547 What's their name? 53 00:03:13,547 --> 00:03:14,744 "Er Lang." (it means "second son") 54 00:03:14,744 --> 00:03:15,771 What about yours? 55 00:03:17,108 --> 00:03:19,520 Mine is named Popsicle. 56 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:20,394 Popsicle. 57 00:03:20,890 --> 00:03:25,402 He's a mutt, let me find some pictures for you. 58 00:03:25,920 --> 00:03:27,867 He looks like this. 59 00:03:27,867 --> 00:03:31,216 This is when he first got sent to the pet hotel, poor guy. 60 00:03:32,481 --> 00:03:33,784 He looks pretty skinny. 61 00:03:34,315 --> 00:03:36,500 I think he's about 10kg. 62 00:03:36,500 --> 00:03:40,415 My dog is about 15kg, he's really fat. 63 00:03:41,671 --> 00:03:42,973 Let me show you. 64 00:03:43,502 --> 00:03:49,402 In all the companies that I started and all my projects, I use my dog as the logos. 65 00:03:49,402 --> 00:03:53,009 - This is something I drew recently. - So cute! 66 00:03:53,009 --> 00:03:54,995 Yeah, he's a fat dummy. 67 00:03:55,124 --> 00:03:57,922 Chubby to the point where he has a humpback when he sits. 68 00:03:58,328 --> 00:03:59,913 So fat. 69 00:04:00,744 --> 00:04:02,077 He does look pretty goofy. 70 00:04:03,717 --> 00:04:05,113 Do you miss him? 71 00:04:05,493 --> 00:04:06,548 What do you think? 72 00:04:07,276 --> 00:04:11,065 I miss him so much. I used to even take him with me on my work trips. 73 00:04:12,282 --> 00:04:13,691 We're always together. 74 00:04:15,300 --> 00:04:18,654 The thing with my dog is... if he stays at the pet hotel for too long 75 00:04:18,654 --> 00:04:22,598 I'm afraid there will be some emotional problems or something. 76 00:04:23,503 --> 00:04:25,207 Do you want to bring your dog here? 77 00:04:25,531 --> 00:04:28,161 - I... I'm actually thinking about it. - Same here. 78 00:04:28,161 --> 00:04:31,246 - Lately my dog has been refusing to eat. - Refusing to eat?! 79 00:04:31,246 --> 00:04:34,283 Yeah, his mood and appetite have been really bad lately. 80 00:04:36,528 --> 00:04:40,226 I feel like maybe we can talk to our housemates and see what they think? 81 00:04:40,226 --> 00:04:41,426 Yes, yes! 82 00:04:41,426 --> 00:04:46,742 We can let them meet our dogs first, then ask them if they like them or not, right? 83 00:05:21,815 --> 00:05:24,927 Chu Mengna (NaNa) Student, 22 years old 84 00:05:25,472 --> 00:05:27,919 Chen Xiaowei (Binshen) Professional gamer, 23 years old 85 00:05:28,522 --> 00:05:31,328 Jin Yujie Model, 22 years old 86 00:05:31,853 --> 00:05:35,293 Liu Keli (Curry) Social media entrepreneur, 29 years old 87 00:05:35,909 --> 00:05:38,676 Wu Kawen (Carmon) Designer, 29 years old 88 00:05:39,295 --> 00:05:41,775 Wang Tianqi Salesperson, 26 years old 89 00:06:05,241 --> 00:06:07,259 [coworker] What's like to be on that show? 90 00:06:08,095 --> 00:06:12,971 It's just... you know, 3 guys and 3 girls living together. 91 00:06:12,971 --> 00:06:14,734 So how do you feel about them? 92 00:06:14,734 --> 00:06:16,344 The guys or the girls? 93 00:06:16,344 --> 00:06:19,047 Of course the girls! Why would I ask about the guys? 94 00:06:20,045 --> 00:06:21,110 The girls... 95 00:06:23,946 --> 00:06:26,306 I feel like I don't hang out with them too much. 96 00:06:26,306 --> 00:06:28,660 There's one girl I think is pretty cute, though. 97 00:06:29,323 --> 00:06:31,528 - We'll see. - Then you must be pretty shy. 98 00:06:31,528 --> 00:06:34,748 Not shy exactly, just taking time to get to know them. 99 00:06:34,748 --> 00:06:36,637 So there's one cute girl, huh? 100 00:06:36,637 --> 00:06:39,007 Yeah, just an initial feeling. 101 00:06:41,799 --> 00:06:45,707 - I think he's talking about Nana. - Right, the cute one. 102 00:06:45,707 --> 00:06:49,246 I don't think he's taking time though, he already asked her out! 103 00:06:51,634 --> 00:06:53,814 Did you see the pay stub for this month? 104 00:06:53,814 --> 00:06:56,307 Yeah. I got deducted 1000 yuan... 105 00:06:57,638 --> 00:06:58,998 Seems kind of excessive. 106 00:06:59,949 --> 00:07:03,405 - What about you? - I got four or five hundred deducted. 107 00:07:03,405 --> 00:07:07,478 The base pay is already low, then it gets deducted if you're late by one minute.. 108 00:07:07,478 --> 00:07:09,225 Who doesn't rush to get to work? 109 00:07:09,225 --> 00:07:13,365 I agree, I feel like one day our pay stub will be negative. 110 00:07:13,365 --> 00:07:16,530 Don't even bother paying me, I'll just pay the boss to work. 111 00:07:34,566 --> 00:07:35,686 Welcome home. 112 00:07:38,237 --> 00:07:39,167 Hello! 113 00:07:52,035 --> 00:07:54,711 [Curry huffing heavily] 114 00:08:03,791 --> 00:08:06,294 You came back late, did you just get off work? 115 00:08:08,479 --> 00:08:09,824 I just got off, yeah. 116 00:08:10,542 --> 00:08:11,615 What's wrong? 117 00:08:14,312 --> 00:08:18,074 Today I got my pay stub for this month. 118 00:08:18,074 --> 00:08:21,671 And we get deducted 10 yuan for every minute we're late to work. 119 00:08:21,671 --> 00:08:23,726 - Huh? - 10 yuan for 1 minute. 120 00:08:24,501 --> 00:08:26,782 I got deducted 1000 yuan this month. 121 00:08:27,954 --> 00:08:30,077 That's kind of....I think that's excessive. 122 00:08:30,517 --> 00:08:34,508 It's outrageous, really. I don't know what the company is thinking. 123 00:08:35,296 --> 00:08:39,178 I feel like the company takes every chance they get to oppress their employees, 124 00:08:39,178 --> 00:08:41,182 and take every penny from you. 125 00:08:41,182 --> 00:08:45,651 I feel like...I mean, although it's not good to be late for work, 126 00:08:45,651 --> 00:08:48,017 your company's policy a bit too much. 127 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:51,370 It's nothing. 128 00:08:53,746 --> 00:08:55,321 It's just a bit of money. 129 00:08:56,905 --> 00:09:01,000 I mean... you don't make much in the first place, it's not a small amount 130 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:04,483 [sigh] 131 00:09:04,483 --> 00:09:08,203 Don't be upset, let's just not be late from now, right? 132 00:09:08,944 --> 00:09:10,208 [panelist] Haha, as if. 133 00:09:11,639 --> 00:09:14,008 I'll try my best, I don't want to either. 134 00:09:15,503 --> 00:09:17,386 [panelist] He's here, get ready for another lesson. 135 00:09:17,386 --> 00:09:18,276 What's up? 136 00:09:18,950 --> 00:09:21,028 I got deducted 1000 yuan from my paycheck. 137 00:09:21,028 --> 00:09:23,361 For every minute late, you get 10 yuan deducted. 138 00:09:25,237 --> 00:09:27,641 I guess it means you've been late a lot lately. 139 00:09:27,641 --> 00:09:29,844 Maybe, but they count literally every minute. 140 00:09:29,844 --> 00:09:33,695 If something happens one day and you're late by a lot, in the end it all adds up. 141 00:09:35,194 --> 00:09:39,055 But I think that's a pretty normal practice for legitimate companies. 142 00:09:39,055 --> 00:09:41,664 No, I know late-to-work deductions are normal 143 00:09:41,664 --> 00:09:45,158 but it's my first time working at a place where they do it by the minute. 144 00:09:45,158 --> 00:09:47,687 And there's no limit to the amount they can deduct. 145 00:09:48,063 --> 00:09:52,608 But for a company, one of the most important management policies is 146 00:09:52,608 --> 00:09:54,675 making sure employees are punctual. 147 00:09:55,421 --> 00:09:56,179 Really? 148 00:09:56,179 --> 00:10:01,950 Yeah. If you can't make sure that your employees come to work on time, 149 00:10:01,950 --> 00:10:05,071 it's really difficult to manage everything else on the team. 150 00:10:05,071 --> 00:10:08,451 But don't you think this policy is too extreme? 151 00:10:08,451 --> 00:10:12,084 Well... if they treat you this way, they probably treat everyone else the same way. 152 00:10:12,951 --> 00:10:15,239 And maybe you have been late too many times. 153 00:10:15,239 --> 00:10:19,465 So you're saying that if there's an unreasonable policy that gets applied equally to everyone, 154 00:10:19,465 --> 00:10:20,885 it becomes reasonable? 155 00:10:21,392 --> 00:10:24,072 From my point of view, I can at least understand why they do it. 156 00:10:25,165 --> 00:10:27,722 I can also understand that you just moved here, 157 00:10:27,722 --> 00:10:31,725 maybe your commute became farther and it takes extra time in the morning 158 00:10:31,962 --> 00:10:35,765 but I would still suggest that you take the responsibility to adjust to the environment. 159 00:10:36,702 --> 00:10:41,482 Oh, so you mean there's nothing wrong with the policy, it's all my fault, right? 160 00:10:41,962 --> 00:10:45,813 Well you chose this job, right, and you love this line of work. 161 00:10:45,813 --> 00:10:48,270 Being in the fashion industry is your dream. 162 00:10:49,791 --> 00:10:50,571 Right? 163 00:10:50,571 --> 00:10:52,213 Okay, got it. 164 00:10:56,958 --> 00:10:59,509 I'm going back to the room. 165 00:11:22,322 --> 00:11:24,983 - I think Tianqi is mad. - Yeah, he is. 166 00:11:24,983 --> 00:11:26,693 I'm mad at him! 167 00:11:26,693 --> 00:11:27,517 [laughter] 168 00:11:27,517 --> 00:11:29,371 I feel like... Curry is right though. 169 00:11:29,371 --> 00:11:31,009 - Yeah, he was spot on. - Yeah. 170 00:11:31,009 --> 00:11:34,717 Tianqi is great at blaming others, but he never examines himself. 171 00:11:34,717 --> 00:11:38,717 He even said "it's all my fault" so passive aggressively. 172 00:11:38,717 --> 00:11:42,154 - Of course it's your fault! - You're one to talk when you're late! 173 00:11:42,647 --> 00:11:45,177 If you can't change the policy you can at least change yourself! 174 00:11:45,177 --> 00:11:47,181 There's no issue if you're not late. 175 00:12:05,217 --> 00:12:06,918 [friend] What are you doing here? 176 00:12:06,918 --> 00:12:10,011 What are you doing here? It's been so long! 177 00:12:10,011 --> 00:12:12,446 - Same! - You haven't contacted me in a while! 178 00:12:12,446 --> 00:12:16,155 - What are you doing here, working? - Yeah, we're trying on the outfits. 179 00:12:16,568 --> 00:12:20,347 Where's your boyfriend? Doesn't he usually come to these things? 180 00:12:23,356 --> 00:12:26,337 Um.. I don't know, maybe today was inconvenient. 181 00:12:26,337 --> 00:12:28,807 Hasn't he come with you to every show? 182 00:12:29,681 --> 00:12:31,716 It's nothing. 183 00:12:31,716 --> 00:12:33,497 - Does he have work? - No. 184 00:12:35,221 --> 00:12:36,242 What is it? 185 00:12:37,223 --> 00:12:38,631 We broke up. 186 00:12:39,527 --> 00:12:40,645 Why? 187 00:12:41,534 --> 00:12:42,354 He cheated. 188 00:12:43,406 --> 00:12:46,823 I would have forgotten about it already if you hadn't brought it up! It's fine. 189 00:12:46,824 --> 00:12:50,594 - You don't have to always pretend to be strong. - I'm not, I'm not. 190 00:12:51,647 --> 00:12:55,522 Make sure you're eating and taking care of yourself. I worry about you. 191 00:12:55,522 --> 00:12:57,498 - You too. - You know? 192 00:12:57,962 --> 00:13:00,059 - I have to go now. - Okay, call me. 193 00:13:00,059 --> 00:13:02,134 - Bye bye. - Go, go. Call me. 194 00:13:19,629 --> 00:13:21,894 Pay attention to the music when you're walking. 195 00:13:25,855 --> 00:13:30,834 Lift your head. You forgot again. Lift your head. 196 00:13:30,834 --> 00:13:31,968 Don't move your hands. 197 00:13:32,289 --> 00:13:35,223 Don't sway your hands, how many times do I have to say it? 198 00:13:35,223 --> 00:13:37,950 Don't move your hands, do you want me to switch you out? 199 00:13:37,950 --> 00:13:38,810 Walk. 200 00:14:03,247 --> 00:14:06,314 - This segment was heavy. - Yes, it was serious. 201 00:14:06,314 --> 00:14:08,557 Only the second episode and it's already gotten so personal. 202 00:14:09,557 --> 00:14:14,596 After seeing this, my opinion of Curry has improved. 203 00:14:14,596 --> 00:14:17,361 - He's decent. - Yeah, he's actually a pretty caring person. 204 00:14:17,361 --> 00:14:19,310 He's really gotten Yang Li's attention. 205 00:14:19,815 --> 00:14:21,891 This wasn't the part that moved Yang Li. 206 00:14:23,112 --> 00:14:28,115 When he was working out.. I felt like that was an accurate portrayal of who he is. 207 00:14:28,115 --> 00:14:29,620 Really exhausting. 208 00:14:32,330 --> 00:14:34,115 - Thankless. - Yeah. 209 00:14:34,115 --> 00:14:39,167 He thinks that Tianqi isn't happy because he doesn't understand workplace norms, 210 00:14:39,167 --> 00:14:43,169 when really Tianqi just can't accept them. He thinks it's unfair. 211 00:14:43,598 --> 00:14:48,308 I didn't think the work thing was even so unreasonable. It's his problem. 212 00:14:48,308 --> 00:14:52,184 - I don't think so either. - Time management is really important. 213 00:14:52,184 --> 00:14:53,984 Yeah. You can always quit. 214 00:14:54,192 --> 00:14:57,297 You can also decide when onboarding that you don't want the job if you can't accept the policy. 215 00:14:57,297 --> 00:14:58,813 - It's your own choice. - Right. 216 00:14:58,813 --> 00:15:03,465 You wanted this job, why are you only saying now that it's unreasonable? 217 00:15:04,571 --> 00:15:08,911 One day, maybe when he has his own staff, he'll understand. 218 00:15:08,911 --> 00:15:11,419 - I don't think he'll have his own workers. - Yeah. 219 00:15:11,419 --> 00:15:13,400 There's no way he'll have his own. 220 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:21,199 That Tianqi not very self-critical. He thinks the world should rotate around him. 221 00:15:21,954 --> 00:15:27,309 I think he's driven by emotion, whereas Curry is more driven by logic. 222 00:15:27,309 --> 00:15:32,579 - The way he expresses concern for others can make them resent him. - It feels oppressive. 223 00:15:32,585 --> 00:15:37,023 If he changed his manner, they could stomach it. But he won't, he can only use this type of-- 224 00:15:37,023 --> 00:15:39,170 - Logical reasoning. - Right, logic. 225 00:15:39,170 --> 00:15:42,200 So they'll always have this friction. 226 00:15:43,042 --> 00:15:46,685 But how do you advise someone like Tianqi? What would sink in? 227 00:15:46,685 --> 00:15:48,215 Look at how Nana does it. 228 00:15:48,397 --> 00:15:52,382 Nana's in a sticky spot, it would be difficult for her if she really wanted to date him. 229 00:15:52,382 --> 00:15:56,549 But I feel like this happens all the time with relationships. 230 00:15:58,254 --> 00:16:00,801 Relationships can be a trap. 231 00:16:00,801 --> 00:16:02,510 It's an awkward position. 232 00:16:02,510 --> 00:16:04,716 - Yeah. - Very awkward. 233 00:16:04,716 --> 00:16:09,787 I think Nana is a pretty naive person. She doesn't know how things like this work, either. 234 00:16:09,787 --> 00:16:16,833 That's why the two of them were responsible for the mess last episode, not helping with dinner or the dishes. 235 00:16:16,833 --> 00:16:19,252 The actions match the people. 236 00:16:19,252 --> 00:16:23,097 Curry would never be late, he would never let someone else dock his pay. 237 00:16:23,097 --> 00:16:25,882 He's very principled, but he's also rigid and unyielding. 238 00:16:25,882 --> 00:16:27,672 He never goes with the flow. 239 00:16:27,672 --> 00:16:29,521 - He's just never happy. - Yeah. 240 00:16:29,521 --> 00:16:32,410 - Even though he makes no mistakes, he'll never be happy. - Yeah. 241 00:16:32,410 --> 00:16:35,848 They're always messing up, but they're always happy! 242 00:16:35,848 --> 00:16:40,573 It's so hard! How do you choose? 243 00:16:41,294 --> 00:16:43,788 They seemed pretty happy when they were talking about their dogs. 244 00:16:43,788 --> 00:16:46,975 - That was the first time that boy-- - Seemed human. 245 00:16:46,975 --> 00:16:51,228 He laughed! He became soft. 246 00:16:51,753 --> 00:16:54,322 - He wasn't so stiff and stern anymore. - Or awkward. 247 00:16:54,322 --> 00:16:56,864 I would think, I could actually tolerate this person. 248 00:16:57,135 --> 00:17:00,508 But I can't stand the type of guy that calls his dog "doggy." 249 00:17:01,716 --> 00:17:02,916 So stern. 250 00:17:02,916 --> 00:17:07,498 You seem to have a thing for high-powered business types, not cutesy guys. 251 00:17:07,498 --> 00:17:09,730 Yeah, you don't have to be a tyrant over CEO types. 252 00:17:10,066 --> 00:17:11,571 CEOs can say "doggy," too. 253 00:17:16,058 --> 00:17:19,657 Oh, we also saw a heartbroken Yujie. 254 00:17:19,657 --> 00:17:22,297 - Oh, the model. - So she was dumped. 255 00:17:22,297 --> 00:17:27,135 For this I'll consult Keni. Is it true that this type of really elegant, aloof-- 256 00:17:27,135 --> 00:17:32,119 - A high-fashion face. - This kind of cool girl, do they get hurt more easily? 257 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:33,774 I'm always seeing this trope. 258 00:17:33,774 --> 00:17:36,184 - Why not consult me? - Yeah, why not ask her? 259 00:17:37,434 --> 00:17:39,564 This is the source of her pain! 260 00:17:40,098 --> 00:17:45,415 Because I understand you! I know you're not that kind of person. 261 00:17:45,415 --> 00:17:49,340 Everyone says we judge people by their appearance, and it's true, 262 00:17:49,340 --> 00:17:52,997 lots of people tell me that if they didn't know me they'd think I was scary. 263 00:17:52,997 --> 00:17:57,355 If I'm standing around not saying anything, they say, "I feel like you look down on me." 264 00:17:57,355 --> 00:17:59,597 - But I'm not like that. - You don't look down on me? 265 00:17:59,597 --> 00:18:01,586 - I don't! - Thank you. 266 00:18:01,586 --> 00:18:05,108 - I'm really warm and I cry a lot. - But you look down on people while crying. 267 00:18:05,108 --> 00:18:08,750 No! No! I'm honestly pretty sensitive. 268 00:18:08,750 --> 00:18:13,401 But the more intimidating you look, the more painful it is when you get hurt. 269 00:18:13,401 --> 00:18:19,919 I don't know if that girl is like me, but I don't like to show that side of me in front of other people. 270 00:18:19,919 --> 00:18:24,861 It's so sad, even in that kind of mood she has to keep walking back and forth and getting her photo taken 271 00:18:24,861 --> 00:18:26,125 and get bossed around. 272 00:18:26,125 --> 00:18:29,326 I also walked in Fashion Week once. 273 00:18:29,326 --> 00:18:34,320 Modeling really is incredibly difficult, especially walking on a runway. 274 00:18:35,106 --> 00:18:39,286 It's really scary to be in a show in front of all those professionals, 275 00:18:39,286 --> 00:18:42,195 and someone is constantly criticizing you into a microphone. 276 00:18:42,195 --> 00:18:44,836 "You look bad! Why are you swinging your arms!" 277 00:18:44,836 --> 00:18:50,259 When your teacher is yelling at you on a stage you just think, I have no place. 278 00:18:50,865 --> 00:18:54,019 I don't want my flaws to be heard by so many people, 279 00:18:54,019 --> 00:18:56,055 much less in front of all these cameras. 280 00:18:56,055 --> 00:18:58,907 I feel like she was really emotionally fragile in that scene. 281 00:19:06,991 --> 00:19:08,513 What did you do today? 282 00:19:08,513 --> 00:19:11,085 Preparing for Fashion Week. The show is on the 11th. 283 00:19:11,085 --> 00:19:13,843 Today I bumped into a friend and our conversation wasn't great. 284 00:19:13,843 --> 00:19:15,492 Do you want to talk about it? 285 00:19:16,447 --> 00:19:18,114 Not really. 286 00:19:18,114 --> 00:19:21,016 - That's okay, next time. - Next time. 287 00:19:21,016 --> 00:19:21,793 Okay. 288 00:19:26,456 --> 00:19:28,176 Who's back? 289 00:19:28,176 --> 00:19:29,323 [panelist] They brought the dogs! 290 00:19:29,323 --> 00:19:30,380 They really brought them! 291 00:19:35,587 --> 00:19:38,074 - Hello! - Hello. 292 00:19:38,074 --> 00:19:40,254 You brought Er Lang? 293 00:19:40,254 --> 00:19:42,982 Why didn't you guys say you were going to bring your dogs home? 294 00:19:42,982 --> 00:19:47,541 Let's sit over there. Since it's their first time meeting they might get into a fight. 295 00:19:49,180 --> 00:19:51,060 If you put him here I'll be afraid. 296 00:19:52,803 --> 00:19:54,033 I'll hold him. 297 00:19:55,023 --> 00:19:56,043 Is that okay? 298 00:19:59,870 --> 00:20:02,090 Why didn't you discuss this with everyone? 299 00:20:02,090 --> 00:20:04,188 Why didn't you tell me first? 300 00:20:04,188 --> 00:20:05,068 Um... 301 00:20:07,166 --> 00:20:11,366 Do you want to sit over there? That way you can sit farther from the dogs. 302 00:20:13,407 --> 00:20:17,206 It's just that her dog was in a pet hotel, 303 00:20:17,377 --> 00:20:21,567 and my employees were helping me take care of mine. 304 00:20:21,567 --> 00:20:27,718 A couple days ago we were talking about how unhappy they were. 305 00:20:28,372 --> 00:20:30,524 My dog had even stopped eating. 306 00:20:34,196 --> 00:20:38,363 But you still have to ask everyone, in case someone's afraid of dogs. 307 00:20:38,363 --> 00:20:42,183 We talked about having a conversation with everyone after we came back, 308 00:20:42,183 --> 00:20:45,448 so that you could see the dogs first before we ask for your opinions. 309 00:20:45,780 --> 00:20:49,067 - You should have asked before you brought them. - Yeah. 310 00:20:49,067 --> 00:20:52,215 You couldn't ask for my opinion before you brought them home? 311 00:20:52,215 --> 00:20:55,964 Now that your dog is here, do I have a choice? 312 00:20:58,401 --> 00:21:03,033 I've never lived with dogs before, so I don't even know if I'm allergic to them. 313 00:21:03,432 --> 00:21:11,797 And dogs and cats both smell, you didn't ask if we're okay with that either. 314 00:21:13,696 --> 00:21:21,111 I was thinking I would just let him stay downstairs. 315 00:21:21,111 --> 00:21:24,482 It doesn't matter what you were planning, it was wrong to bring them back. 316 00:21:24,482 --> 00:21:27,460 Because neither of you considered my feelings. 317 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:32,454 - You have to be considerate... - It doesn't matter which floor it is, 318 00:21:32,454 --> 00:21:38,384 I live with Carmon on the 2nd floor. And our shared spaces are on the 1st floor. 319 00:21:39,153 --> 00:21:41,107 It's out of line. 320 00:21:41,107 --> 00:21:43,230 Did you ask Binshen if he's allergic? 321 00:21:43,230 --> 00:21:47,127 Yeah, so our aim in bringing the dogs was just to let you guys see them, 322 00:21:47,127 --> 00:21:49,328 so we could get everyone's input. 323 00:21:49,328 --> 00:21:52,195 You should have asked earlier. It's a little late now. 324 00:21:56,433 --> 00:21:57,574 What do you think? 325 00:21:58,296 --> 00:22:02,389 I, I...I'll let you all go first. 326 00:22:03,821 --> 00:22:08,077 If I'm home alone and those two are roaming around freely, 327 00:22:08,077 --> 00:22:12,566 I can't be upstairs, I can't be downstairs, what am I supposed to do? 328 00:22:12,566 --> 00:22:16,627 I can bring him on my commute, so he won't be here unless I'm here. 329 00:22:16,627 --> 00:22:18,899 But now you're making me the bad guy. 330 00:22:18,899 --> 00:22:22,287 - No, I didn't mean it like that-- - You've put me in an awkward position. 331 00:22:22,287 --> 00:22:33,350 We just wanted everyone to discuss it objectively. I think you're being a little aggressive. 332 00:22:33,882 --> 00:22:35,165 You were wrong first. 333 00:22:35,165 --> 00:22:39,338 Okay, I was wrong first. But can you calm down a little right now? 334 00:22:39,644 --> 00:22:42,020 - We all live together. - I'm very calm. 335 00:22:43,602 --> 00:22:46,808 It's fine if you talk to me like this, but Carmon is your roommate. 336 00:22:46,808 --> 00:22:50,498 You live closely together. I don't think it's right to be so combative. 337 00:22:51,967 --> 00:22:53,668 [panelist] He's lecturing her again. 338 00:22:55,110 --> 00:23:02,620 I want to apologize first. I'm sorry for bringing the dog without telling everyone. 339 00:23:03,753 --> 00:23:09,042 Because of the pandemic, when I went home to my parents this year, I had to leave him in the pet hotel. 340 00:23:09,042 --> 00:23:13,971 I didn't want to. He was really sensitive when I came back after three weeks. 341 00:23:13,971 --> 00:23:21,596 So this time I just... wanted to take him out as soon as I could, and talk it over with everyone then. 342 00:23:22,513 --> 00:23:27,984 But of course I can bring him back. I just wanted to discuss it first. 343 00:23:29,799 --> 00:23:35,119 I understand Carmon's reasoning. But I want to respond to what you just said. 344 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,887 - You can say whatever, no problem. - I know I can. 345 00:23:37,887 --> 00:23:44,911 First, I'm not an aggressive person. I'm angry because you didn't ask for my permission before bringing them. 346 00:23:44,911 --> 00:23:47,294 And you didn't ask anyone else, either. 347 00:23:47,294 --> 00:23:53,969 Second, I had a roommate before this. She wanted a dog too, but I didn't agree to it. 348 00:23:53,969 --> 00:23:55,405 She was also a really close friend. 349 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:02,150 I even had a falling out with her over the dog issue. So it makes me really unhappy that you think 350 00:24:02,150 --> 00:24:06,033 I'm pushy and aggressive just because of my attitude about this. 351 00:24:08,692 --> 00:24:13,792 The reason I said that was because firstly, we're all equally in charge of this house. 352 00:24:13,792 --> 00:24:17,320 We're all allowed to do whatever we wish. 353 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:21,796 We didn't know if you were afraid of dogs, if you're allergic, if you just hate them. 354 00:24:21,796 --> 00:24:24,928 If we're all in charge here, why didn't you ask anyone else what they thought? 355 00:24:24,928 --> 00:24:28,939 We brought them back to ask you what you thought. Even if we didn't let you know beforehand, 356 00:24:28,939 --> 00:24:35,299 we brought them because we also get a say in this, and each of us can do whatever we choose. 357 00:24:35,299 --> 00:24:38,640 If you put it that way, I have nothing else to say. I'm done talking. 358 00:24:57,310 --> 00:24:59,759 [panelist] Aw... little doggy. 359 00:24:59,759 --> 00:25:01,476 Poor doggy. 360 00:25:01,476 --> 00:25:05,322 Before, didn't he say that they would discuss it with everyone first? 361 00:25:05,322 --> 00:25:06,639 He thought wrong. 362 00:25:06,639 --> 00:25:11,698 - He thought when they brought them back-- - Everyone would say, so cute! 363 00:25:11,698 --> 00:25:15,042 - He thought the dogs would win them over. - Yeah. 364 00:25:15,042 --> 00:25:18,900 He probably thought this wasn't even a big deal, unlike the dishes, which were a huge deal. 365 00:25:18,900 --> 00:25:22,021 It's on the same level at the dishes. He even called her aggressive. 366 00:25:22,021 --> 00:25:23,700 The dogs are much cuter than the dishes. 367 00:25:23,700 --> 00:25:27,600 All his hopes right now hinge on how the others feel about dogs. 368 00:25:28,710 --> 00:25:32,970 But there's no way to arrive at a compromise with someone who hates dogs so much. 369 00:25:32,970 --> 00:25:33,979 She's scared of them. 370 00:25:33,979 --> 00:25:37,699 How can she live there if she's scared of them? There's no way, she'd have to leave early. 371 00:26:06,456 --> 00:26:10,078 What do we do? That was... 372 00:26:11,670 --> 00:26:12,600 [sigh] 373 00:26:14,510 --> 00:26:18,197 I do think we messed up a bit. 374 00:26:18,735 --> 00:26:25,078 Originally we were going to let them know first... and everyone's emotions were running high. 375 00:26:28,111 --> 00:26:35,331 Do you remember that first day we went out for groceries, I think I mentioned my shiba in the car... 376 00:26:35,331 --> 00:26:37,624 - I think so, yeah. - Yeah. 377 00:26:37,624 --> 00:26:44,626 At the time Yujie didn't say she was scared of dogs. So it didn't even cross my mind. 378 00:26:44,626 --> 00:26:49,397 Maybe she didn't say anything because we'd only just met each other. 379 00:26:55,179 --> 00:26:59,318 I'm just going to say things from our perspective for now. 380 00:26:59,318 --> 00:27:03,127 - First of all, we treat our dogs like our children. - Yeah. 381 00:27:03,801 --> 00:27:11,333 If we neglect our obligations to them for even a day, we feel really guilty. 382 00:27:11,333 --> 00:27:16,454 So that's why I got upset in that moment. 383 00:27:16,454 --> 00:27:21,658 It felt like maybe Yujie was showing animosity towards our children. 384 00:27:21,658 --> 00:27:27,308 So I felt really protective and kind of snapped. 385 00:27:28,425 --> 00:27:33,986 I can understand why that made you lose your cool, but from Yujie's perspective, 386 00:27:33,986 --> 00:27:37,776 she sees us as her roommates, so when we did what we did, 387 00:27:37,776 --> 00:27:43,999 it made her feel that we carelessly threw her concerns aside. That we were inconsiderate. 388 00:27:43,999 --> 00:27:48,123 Yeah, I can understand that. 389 00:27:48,123 --> 00:27:50,921 So, I still think we should apologize 390 00:27:50,921 --> 00:27:55,010 and from now on we'll be more considerate as roommates. 391 00:27:55,010 --> 00:27:58,041 We should help her feel like that's our intention. 392 00:27:59,729 --> 00:28:00,989 What do you think? 393 00:28:02,747 --> 00:28:04,553 Okay. 394 00:28:06,382 --> 00:28:08,595 Just apologize. 395 00:28:08,595 --> 00:28:09,283 So difficult. 396 00:28:09,953 --> 00:28:12,459 - The way Carmon speaks is very agreeable. - Agreed! 397 00:28:12,459 --> 00:28:15,431 - She speaks very gently. - Very warmly. 398 00:28:15,431 --> 00:28:18,458 - She's very reasonable. - She communicates well. 399 00:28:22,282 --> 00:28:23,665 Come in. 400 00:28:26,611 --> 00:28:28,361 - Hello... - Hi. 401 00:28:32,751 --> 00:28:33,581 Come sit. 402 00:28:35,876 --> 00:28:39,906 I'm sorry. We should have come to you first. 403 00:28:40,981 --> 00:28:43,914 Yes, you should have talked to me first about it. 404 00:28:43,914 --> 00:28:47,807 Do you... how are you feeling right now? 405 00:28:47,807 --> 00:28:53,100 I'm fine. It's not an issue of my mood, but rather an issue of right or wrong. 406 00:28:53,100 --> 00:28:54,155 Okay. 407 00:28:54,155 --> 00:29:02,355 When we were talking earlier, I didn't really speak up. 408 00:29:03,127 --> 00:29:08,502 However, the fact is... Let me first try to explain my behavior today. 409 00:29:08,502 --> 00:29:15,489 I wanted to first bring Popsicle here first, and I didn't ask for anyone's permission beforehand. 410 00:29:15,489 --> 00:29:22,814 At the same time, it happened to be his last day at the pet hotel, so I thought I could bring him back just to see. 411 00:29:22,814 --> 00:29:27,942 I think Curry also felt the same, since he's had his dog for 4 years. 412 00:29:27,942 --> 00:29:32,562 Let's just talk about our own issues, there's no need to involve him. 413 00:29:32,562 --> 00:29:35,752 He's him and you're you. 414 00:29:35,752 --> 00:29:36,825 Sure. 415 00:29:38,284 --> 00:29:43,493 Honestly, as long as you guys can find a suitable place for your dogs, it's fine. 416 00:29:43,493 --> 00:29:46,202 It's not that I have an issue with the dogs. 417 00:29:46,202 --> 00:29:51,088 My issue was that it seemed you guys didn't really regard our feelings, 418 00:29:51,088 --> 00:29:54,205 and that you guys didn't really respect us. 419 00:29:54,205 --> 00:29:58,129 Maybe my temperament is just like this. My life has always been just work and home, 420 00:29:58,129 --> 00:30:03,464 so maybe I'm not very good at seeing things from another perspective. 421 00:30:03,464 --> 00:30:06,264 That's why I had such a strong reaction. 422 00:30:06,559 --> 00:30:11,352 When I was little, I got chased by a dog, so to some extent I am afraid of them. 423 00:30:11,352 --> 00:30:13,965 But if you'd discussed it with me, I'd be okay with it. 424 00:30:13,965 --> 00:30:19,832 Because we have a good relationship, and I really like you. 425 00:30:19,832 --> 00:30:23,961 I just hope in the future we can communicate more. 426 00:30:23,961 --> 00:30:25,634 We will. 427 00:30:25,634 --> 00:30:29,602 That's why I got angry. But I'm not angry at you. 428 00:30:29,602 --> 00:30:35,013 Okay. I feel better knowing that you're not angry. 429 00:30:35,737 --> 00:30:39,143 Today I even brought you home a clip that matches mine. 430 00:30:39,143 --> 00:30:44,746 I bought two, and I thought it would suit you because you have short hair. 431 00:30:44,746 --> 00:30:45,990 It's so cute, thank you! 432 00:30:45,990 --> 00:30:52,414 We got tangled up in this argument, and I didn't have time to give it to you. 433 00:30:53,846 --> 00:30:55,196 - Thank you. - It's nothing. 434 00:30:55,196 --> 00:31:00,566 - It's so cute. - Let's try to avoid these kinds of conflicts in the future. 435 00:31:00,566 --> 00:31:08,480 Yeah. And now I feel like everyone knows why everyone else got upset, 436 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,590 so it'll help prevent this kind of thing from happening again. 437 00:31:11,590 --> 00:31:16,334 And I was so tired when I got home, maybe I wasn't in a great mood. 438 00:31:16,334 --> 00:31:20,098 Maybe I brought my work stress home with me. 439 00:31:20,098 --> 00:31:22,664 Oh, was it your fitting? 440 00:31:22,664 --> 00:31:28,089 I can't eat much because I'm controlling my diet for Fashion Week. So maybe I've been on edge. 441 00:31:28,089 --> 00:31:30,220 And the work environment has been really harsh. 442 00:31:30,220 --> 00:31:33,069 You're so strict with yourself. 443 00:31:33,069 --> 00:31:37,168 Only when I have to be. Otherwise, I'm pretty indulgent. 444 00:31:37,168 --> 00:31:41,753 - Really? I'll pay more attention. - We have to find joy where we can. 445 00:31:41,753 --> 00:31:42,863 Yeah. 446 00:31:51,724 --> 00:31:53,961 - Oh, you came up? - How's it going? 447 00:31:54,674 --> 00:31:57,444 Did you come up to talk to me about what happened today? 448 00:31:57,444 --> 00:32:00,858 Yeah, we wanted to chat with you. 449 00:32:01,912 --> 00:32:04,114 I don't really want to talk to you right now. 450 00:32:08,328 --> 00:32:13,645 I don't want to talk about this. Just like how you didn't want to tell me before you brought your dog over. 451 00:32:14,432 --> 00:32:16,863 Can I just say two things, and then I'll go? 452 00:32:16,863 --> 00:32:20,484 I don't want to hear it. Let's talk about this another day, maybe tomorrow. 453 00:32:25,730 --> 00:32:28,401 - It's like this.. - I said I didn't want to hear it. 454 00:32:28,401 --> 00:32:30,996 - I think we should resolve this today. - I don't want to hear it. 455 00:32:30,996 --> 00:32:35,449 - Because we already brought the dogs. - You guys deal with it, they're your dogs. 456 00:32:36,938 --> 00:32:39,911 I have my own things to deal with, I've already had too much to worry about today. 457 00:32:39,911 --> 00:32:41,971 And I still have some work to deal with. 458 00:32:41,971 --> 00:32:46,666 So can we just table this, calm down a little and talk about it tomorrow? 459 00:32:48,682 --> 00:32:52,858 - I just want to say a couple things-- - Forget it, you should both get some rest. 460 00:32:52,858 --> 00:32:57,521 - I agree. - I think you and I both need to calm down. Okay? 461 00:33:00,242 --> 00:33:05,743 Why don't we give Yujie some space? She had an exhausting day at work too. 462 00:33:07,916 --> 00:33:09,226 - Good night. - Okay. 463 00:33:09,226 --> 00:33:10,096 Let's go. 464 00:33:11,096 --> 00:33:12,582 Get some rest. 465 00:33:12,992 --> 00:33:15,682 - You still need to eat if you're hungry. - Okay. 466 00:33:26,050 --> 00:33:27,280 [laughter] 467 00:33:28,212 --> 00:33:30,895 Living together doesn't seem to be working out for them. 468 00:33:30,895 --> 00:33:32,728 We're so invested in this. 469 00:33:32,728 --> 00:33:34,596 I really like this episode. 470 00:33:34,596 --> 00:33:41,285 On the surface it's a simple argument about the dogs, but it's actually about a lot of things. 471 00:33:41,678 --> 00:33:46,882 It's about respect and consideration, which are both serious issues. 472 00:33:46,882 --> 00:33:53,130 Like at the end, when Curry came in and proclaimed that he wanted to say something, and she said she didn't want to talk. 473 00:33:53,130 --> 00:33:58,611 There was so much wrapped up in that exchange. How to be a person, how we treat others, how to listen. 474 00:33:58,611 --> 00:34:05,795 How to help people understand us, this episode touches on all of that. 475 00:34:05,795 --> 00:34:15,325 I don't know whose side I'm on. I think...I just think...it's so good. 476 00:34:15,413 --> 00:34:18,721 From a director's standpoint, it's a perfect episode. 477 00:34:18,888 --> 00:34:21,948 It's gold. 478 00:34:22,084 --> 00:34:25,398 I felt like we could be watching ourselves. 479 00:34:25,933 --> 00:34:31,770 Sometimes we're just like them. We do things without considering others and they feel pressured to accept it. 480 00:34:31,770 --> 00:34:35,569 The reason Curry brought the dog was just to say look, it's already here. 481 00:34:36,198 --> 00:34:40,144 But you can't do that, you have to tell them first, you have to ask them. 482 00:34:40,144 --> 00:34:42,932 The dog is innocent. 483 00:34:42,932 --> 00:34:44,556 It wasn't the heart of the issue. 484 00:34:44,556 --> 00:34:49,211 Yeah. And Carmon is what I would call an innocent guilty party. 485 00:34:49,876 --> 00:34:56,036 She made a mistake, but she was innocent. 486 00:34:56,176 --> 00:35:01,002 The reason this got so blown out of proportion was because of how Curry conducts himself. 487 00:35:01,743 --> 00:35:05,195 If she says she doesn't like it, you should offer to take it away. 488 00:35:05,195 --> 00:35:07,235 Or else say it's just for one night. 489 00:35:07,235 --> 00:35:10,199 - He just has to get his point across. - He won't admit fault. 490 00:35:10,199 --> 00:35:14,163 "I'm sorry" are the easiest words you can say, but he can't bring himself to do it. 491 00:35:14,163 --> 00:35:19,642 He's acting the same way that Tianqi did last segment. 492 00:35:19,642 --> 00:35:24,753 He's not willing to admit that he did something wrong. 493 00:35:25,136 --> 00:35:29,329 - He won't even give an inch. - He's stubborn and overwhelms you with talk. 494 00:35:29,329 --> 00:35:33,016 He forces people to do things against their will. He can't keep doing this. 495 00:35:33,016 --> 00:35:39,240 I think he knows he's in the wrong and he's not trying to hide it. 496 00:35:39,240 --> 00:35:46,276 He's just not willing to say he's sorry because he's reacting poorly to Yujie's anger. 497 00:35:46,405 --> 00:35:48,405 Do people really get so obsessive about things? 498 00:35:48,405 --> 00:35:53,954 - Yes. - You can plainly be in the wrong but keep doubling down on it. 499 00:35:53,954 --> 00:35:55,934 - You try to explain yourself. - You can't let iet go. 500 00:35:55,934 --> 00:36:00,460 - Later he was like, this is my son! - These are our children! 501 00:36:00,460 --> 00:36:03,243 He thinks she doesn't respect his child. 502 00:36:03,243 --> 00:36:08,619 He upgraded the dog's status from dog to child so he can say she had a bad attitude towards his child. 503 00:36:08,619 --> 00:36:09,726 It's a plea to emotions. 504 00:36:09,726 --> 00:36:12,995 With others it's all about his principles, but when it comes to himself he wants to talk emotions. 505 00:36:12,995 --> 00:36:16,086 Don't you think that's a double standard? 506 00:36:16,086 --> 00:36:20,478 When it came to the dishwashing incident, he was relentless about Nana washing the dishes 507 00:36:20,478 --> 00:36:23,316 saying, "You have to do it, you were appointed to do it." 508 00:36:23,316 --> 00:36:25,805 But with the dog incident, he says "well, I feel..." 509 00:36:26,087 --> 00:36:29,753 That's his temperament. Whether it's towards others or himself, he acts like that regardless. 510 00:36:29,753 --> 00:36:30,540 Exactly. 511 00:36:30,540 --> 00:36:34,600 When I think I'm right, you have to accept that I'm right. 512 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:38,423 It's not a double standard. He only goes by one standard, and it's his own. 513 00:36:38,423 --> 00:36:41,202 Others have to agree with whatever he deems important. 514 00:36:41,202 --> 00:36:43,163 So we'll have to wait and see about Curry. 515 00:36:43,163 --> 00:36:44,876 He may not be as principled as we thought. 516 00:36:45,285 --> 00:36:47,780 - He's not endearing anymore. - You take it back? 517 00:36:47,780 --> 00:36:50,448 - I changed my mind. - You change your mind so quickly! 518 00:36:50,448 --> 00:36:52,629 A wise man submits to circumstances. 519 00:36:53,585 --> 00:36:57,304 After they brought the dogs, I felt so bad for Yujie. 520 00:36:57,304 --> 00:37:00,165 - If she really is afraid of dogs. - Poor Yujie. 521 00:37:00,165 --> 00:37:02,920 Yeah, she was sandwiched between two dogs. 522 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,191 I'd like to say something about this Wang Tianqi fellow. 523 00:37:06,864 --> 00:37:14,032 When he unkindly "fanned the flames," Teacher Yujie showed plenty of dignity. 524 00:37:14,446 --> 00:37:16,096 Wang Tianqi was just kind of like... 525 00:37:17,242 --> 00:37:18,512 Kind of like that. 526 00:37:18,512 --> 00:37:21,306 Yujie kept her cool, saying: I'm not engaging. And she just left. 527 00:37:21,306 --> 00:37:22,609 She didn't throw a tantrum. 528 00:37:22,842 --> 00:37:25,489 - She toughed through a hell of a day. - Yeah. 529 00:37:25,489 --> 00:37:29,519 She had a terrible day, and then she had to spend the evening with two dogs. 530 00:37:29,519 --> 00:37:32,659 Surrounded by dogs on all sides. 531 00:37:32,659 --> 00:37:35,292 Although no one knew how bad her day was, because she didn't say. 532 00:37:35,292 --> 00:37:37,686 - Yeah. - She just said she didn't want to talk about it. 533 00:37:37,928 --> 00:37:41,495 I want to talk about the other thing. Why did Curry suddenly transform from 534 00:37:41,495 --> 00:37:44,662 such a logical person to a someone so influenced by his emotions? 535 00:37:44,662 --> 00:37:50,619 I think it may be because the girl he's interested in was attacked by this other girl. 536 00:37:50,619 --> 00:37:53,198 He wanted to show off his manliness, right? 537 00:37:53,198 --> 00:37:56,115 Right. Wow, you really understand the male brain. 538 00:37:56,115 --> 00:37:57,204 It really is like that! 539 00:37:57,204 --> 00:37:59,708 If I'm drinking with Da Xun and we start arguing, we won't have any issues. 540 00:37:59,708 --> 00:38:01,908 But if there's a woman by my side? 541 00:38:02,986 --> 00:38:05,379 If you say, Da Xun, don't fight with Li Dan 542 00:38:05,379 --> 00:38:06,792 Then, immediately! 543 00:38:08,456 --> 00:38:09,741 Wow, you're so sharp. 544 00:38:09,741 --> 00:38:13,298 In front of her, you can't lose, and you especially can't apologize. 545 00:38:13,298 --> 00:38:15,674 - Apologizing is too embarrassing. - Agreed. 546 00:38:15,674 --> 00:38:17,924 - So this was the explanation? - Yeah, it should be. 547 00:38:17,924 --> 00:38:22,552 Otherwise he wouldn't so stubbornly refuse to apologize. 548 00:38:22,552 --> 00:38:25,102 She didn't even let him say his two things. 549 00:38:26,820 --> 00:38:29,312 How embarrassing, in front of the girl he likes. 550 00:38:29,312 --> 00:38:33,601 Whether with the girl he's interested in, or with the dogs, 551 00:38:33,601 --> 00:38:34,983 he lost face in front of everyone. 552 00:38:35,366 --> 00:38:37,720 - He just couldn't let it go. - Right. 553 00:38:37,720 --> 00:38:41,575 He cares about everyone except his roommates. 554 00:38:41,575 --> 00:38:43,722 - Yes, exactly. - You agree? 555 00:38:43,722 --> 00:38:47,502 Once he decides he cares about someone, everyone else becomes unimportant. 556 00:38:47,502 --> 00:38:50,492 His stance immediately makes a complete 180. 557 00:38:50,492 --> 00:38:53,734 Compared to the dishwashing incident he's like two different people. 558 00:38:55,050 --> 00:39:00,712 Also, when he brought up that Yujie hadn't mentioned beforehand that she was scared of dogs 559 00:39:00,712 --> 00:39:04,736 That was solely for Carmon, so that she wouldn't have any complaints about his stance. 560 00:39:05,316 --> 00:39:09,742 In front of others, he wouldn't have even mentioned it, because he already knew he was wrong. 561 00:39:09,742 --> 00:39:11,963 He only hopes that Carmon won't think poorly of him. 562 00:39:12,423 --> 00:39:15,256 - He couldn't lose face. 563 00:39:17,136 --> 00:39:20,579 You've lived with roommates, and you've lived in a dorm before, right? 564 00:39:20,579 --> 00:39:24,278 I used to live with roommates, but lately I've been doing better, so I moved. 565 00:39:24,278 --> 00:39:26,373 But before that I only lived with roommates. 566 00:39:26,792 --> 00:39:28,337 Have you had arguments like these? 567 00:39:28,807 --> 00:39:29,607 All the time. 568 00:39:30,552 --> 00:39:34,304 Let me tell you, the less you know each other, the better it is to live together. 569 00:39:34,304 --> 00:39:37,959 My roommate and I were pretty much strangers, so we didn't have any conflict of interest. 570 00:39:37,959 --> 00:39:39,769 Every night we would arrive home and go to bed. 571 00:39:39,769 --> 00:39:42,126 We didn't chat about anything and never bothered each other. 572 00:39:42,126 --> 00:39:45,532 Even though I've never had roommates, I've traveled with people before. 573 00:39:45,532 --> 00:39:51,402 When you're traveling with friends, you can't wait last minute to say where you're going or what the plans are. 574 00:39:51,402 --> 00:39:52,333 Surprise! 575 00:39:52,333 --> 00:39:54,149 That's not okay. 576 00:39:54,495 --> 00:39:59,283 You need to communicate your plans so everyone can go together. 577 00:39:59,283 --> 00:40:02,795 I think this is the most fundamental part of a communal lifestyle. 578 00:40:02,795 --> 00:40:03,899 Exactly. 579 00:40:03,899 --> 00:40:08,328 Let's see what happens with the fight the next day. 580 00:40:08,328 --> 00:40:10,120 Get the popcorn! 581 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:11,675 I'm excited. 582 00:40:14,683 --> 00:40:15,749 Come in. 583 00:40:16,349 --> 00:40:18,590 - Hello! - How come you're here? 584 00:40:19,265 --> 00:40:21,237 My training ended, so I wanted to come up. 585 00:40:21,758 --> 00:40:22,911 Oh, okay. 586 00:40:23,861 --> 00:40:30,389 I went to the room when I got back and Tianqi told me you guys just had a discussion. 587 00:40:30,389 --> 00:40:33,488 And that you guys haven't been able to come to an understanding yet. 588 00:40:34,853 --> 00:40:40,597 - Then let's talk about it when everyone's here. - Some people only want to talk and don't want to listen. 589 00:40:40,597 --> 00:40:45,538 That's one of the reasons why I'm angry. 590 00:40:47,103 --> 00:40:48,273 I get that. 591 00:40:56,785 --> 00:40:58,487 Get some rest tonight. 592 00:40:58,487 --> 00:41:00,249 - Yeah, you too. - Will do. 593 00:41:00,249 --> 00:41:02,782 Let's resolve this tomorrow. Okay? 594 00:41:06,466 --> 00:41:08,296 - Good night, see you later. - Good night. 595 00:41:15,566 --> 00:41:17,101 Er Lang. 596 00:41:17,550 --> 00:41:19,165 Er Lang, are you feeling unhappy? 597 00:41:22,512 --> 00:41:24,928 That girl may not like you, but we like you. 598 00:41:24,928 --> 00:41:26,800 Is that okay? 599 00:41:27,388 --> 00:41:29,630 I'm asking you. 600 00:41:29,630 --> 00:41:30,642 I'm talking to you. 601 00:41:32,555 --> 00:41:37,860 Tonight we'll sleep in the garden, and tomorrow I'll try to convince the others. 602 00:41:37,860 --> 00:41:38,317 I'm going to do my best. 603 00:41:38,902 --> 00:41:40,295 How's that? 604 00:41:40,295 --> 00:41:41,878 And then we can sleep inside. 605 00:41:41,878 --> 00:41:43,511 Okay? 606 00:41:43,511 --> 00:41:44,648 Is that okay? 607 00:41:49,838 --> 00:41:52,170 It's going to be okay. 608 00:41:54,670 --> 00:41:56,231 You're so good, they'll all love you. 609 00:41:56,231 --> 00:41:57,262 Okay? 610 00:41:58,390 --> 00:41:59,810 Come, give me a hug. 611 00:42:01,786 --> 00:42:02,496 Good boy. 612 00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,669 - The dog is unhappy to see his owner. - He wants to get out of there. 613 00:42:14,669 --> 00:42:17,608 He doesn't want to be next to him. He's annoyed with his owner. 614 00:42:18,814 --> 00:42:21,812 He's like, you've caused me too much trouble. 615 00:42:21,812 --> 00:42:23,573 You've caused me so much trouble! Ugh! 616 00:42:23,573 --> 00:42:25,628 Can't you speak properly to other people? 617 00:42:25,628 --> 00:42:28,139 If I could talk, even I'd be better than you. 618 00:42:28,639 --> 00:42:32,915 You don't even need to speak. Just go "arf arf" and it'll be a done deal. 619 00:42:32,915 --> 00:42:34,876 Just give a little whine, and then it'll be done, okay? 620 00:42:34,876 --> 00:42:35,999 No need to speak. 621 00:42:35,999 --> 00:42:38,510 I even helped Yujie overcome a traumatic experience. 622 00:42:38,510 --> 00:42:44,541 This last segment shows that Binshen will likely assume the role of a mediator between those two. 623 00:42:44,541 --> 00:42:48,400 Yeah, I think he's very sensible. 624 00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:52,565 I think he can help bring people together. 625 00:42:53,252 --> 00:42:55,974 But I don't know. We don't even know Binshen very well. 626 00:42:55,974 --> 00:42:58,648 He's too much of a mystery, this person. 627 00:42:58,648 --> 00:43:00,702 Added up, we've probably only seen him for maybe a minute. 628 00:43:00,702 --> 00:43:02,048 The most mysterious guest. 629 00:43:02,048 --> 00:43:06,734 Still, I think he'll be able to communicate well with both the girl and the boy. 630 00:43:06,734 --> 00:43:11,424 I think he can shoulder this responsibility. 631 00:43:11,532 --> 00:43:16,660 These types of people with high EQ tend not to say much. 632 00:43:16,959 --> 00:43:18,513 "I get you." 633 00:43:18,513 --> 00:43:20,110 Ta-da, everything's good again. 634 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,858 -Active listening. -Agreed. 635 00:43:21,858 --> 00:43:27,558 And, that's what she was trying to say, right? They weren't even trying to listen to her. 636 00:43:27,558 --> 00:43:33,297 If you just show that you're willing to listen and that you hear her, then that's enough for her. 637 00:43:33,297 --> 00:43:34,238 I get you. 638 00:43:34,238 --> 00:43:36,295 It's respecting her feelings. 639 00:43:36,295 --> 00:43:42,078 She even said she's not actually that scared of dogs, just that she felt disrespected. 640 00:43:42,078 --> 00:43:43,199 Exactly. 641 00:43:43,651 --> 00:43:48,446 In reality, it's not hard. Just say, I understand you and I apologize. 642 00:43:48,446 --> 00:43:50,706 Most things can be resolved from that. 643 00:43:50,706 --> 00:43:51,913 Many people can't bring themselves to say it. 644 00:43:51,913 --> 00:43:56,104 She wants a logical reason for why he couldn't admit fault. 645 00:43:56,104 --> 00:43:58,443 This world isn't logical and has never been logical. 646 00:43:58,443 --> 00:44:00,700 I quite like Yujie. 647 00:44:00,700 --> 00:44:03,428 Because I think the other two girls are both very avoidant. 648 00:44:03,660 --> 00:44:08,872 She did a good job of defending herself. She has reason, strength, and integrity. 649 00:44:08,872 --> 00:44:10,047 Really great. 650 00:44:10,047 --> 00:44:14,962 Even when she was upset, everything she said was right. She's great. 651 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:17,760 Do you think the dog can stay? 652 00:44:17,786 --> 00:44:20,251 - I don't think so. - I think so. 653 00:44:20,251 --> 00:44:26,689 Because I think once Yujie cools down a bit, she's still a caring person at heart. 654 00:44:26,689 --> 00:44:33,289 If she knows that the dogs aren't eating, they're not doing well, and 655 00:44:33,289 --> 00:44:38,942 they won't be able to see their owners for months, she'll definitely consider those things. 656 00:44:38,942 --> 00:44:41,251 She'll evaluate if she's okay with that. 657 00:44:41,251 --> 00:44:43,341 I think the dogs might be able to stay. 658 00:44:43,341 --> 00:44:45,121 I think they'll try it. 659 00:44:45,121 --> 00:44:46,359 I also think they'll stay. 660 00:44:46,359 --> 00:44:53,210 I think with Binshen's mediation, they will come up with a reasonable solution. 661 00:44:53,210 --> 00:44:56,196 Maybe it'll be really nice for them! 662 00:44:56,676 --> 00:44:59,503 Maybe they'll even set up a dog house. 663 00:45:01,034 --> 00:45:02,583 They could set up a dog house. 664 00:45:02,583 --> 00:45:04,648 You'll be so frustrated as you watch. 665 00:45:04,648 --> 00:45:08,810 Maybe they'll have the dogs stay outdoors. I think that's a possibility. 666 00:45:08,810 --> 00:45:16,190 Ever since the dogs made an appearance, it's caused quite a stir for us. 667 00:45:16,190 --> 00:45:19,374 So for that reason alone, I think the dogs will stay. 668 00:45:20,618 --> 00:45:22,333 Makes sense from a director's perspective! 669 00:45:22,333 --> 00:45:25,477 It'll also encourage personal development from the castmates, you know? 670 00:45:25,477 --> 00:45:30,062 These dogs are even better than Binshen at bringing everyone together. 671 00:45:30,062 --> 00:45:36,312 I think it'll be important to see Curry's growth and he how manages the relationship between his dog and his friends. 672 00:45:36,781 --> 00:45:37,697 Shanghai Share Life 673 00:45:37,697 --> 00:45:39,939 We look forward to the next episode! 674 00:45:39,939 --> 00:45:41,999 Bye bye! 675 00:45:42,718 --> 00:45:47,308 [Translated and timed by fang, arissari, & jackie]