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[Translated and timed by fang,[br]arissari, & jackie]

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Welcome back everyone to Shanghai [br]Share Life, part 2 of episode 1!

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We're observing a group of young people [br]living inside a nice house for 105 days.

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Let's review what happened from[br]last episode.

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In the last episode, 6 young adults [br]arrived at the house for the first time.

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During grocery shopping, [br]Curry showed off his "leadership skill"

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and got complaints from all the girls.

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- Not just the girls though.[br]- The guys too.

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- The guys too.[br]- No one has let him off the hook.

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Everyone complained about him.

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It looks like Tianqi doesn't like[br]to be under Curry's rule.

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Can we not have this meeting right now?

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No, we have to settle this because[br]the money is everyone's money.

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This is unnecessary.

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We have to figure this out together.

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Why can't we just do it[br]when we go shopping?

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Nana was asked to do the dishes but [br]didn't have time to do it that night.

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The next morning, Carmon wanted to help [br]but Curry stopped her.

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- Should I wash them?[br]- No, why would you do it for them?

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When Nana and Tianqi came back after work, [br]a big argument broke out because of the dishes.

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Did you remember that you were supposed[br]to do the dishes today?

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You didn't think to help her do it while [br]you've just been sitting here?

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Why would I do that?

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You think no one else has anything to do [br]but you two?

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But you could just be a gentleman and [br]help out the girls a bit, can't you?

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It's nothing, it's just dishes. [br]I needed to do it anyway.

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Exactly, it should be her.

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As for relationships, it's clear that [br]Nana and Tianqi are starting to flirt.

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The scene where they wash dishes together[br]somehow seemed romantic.

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- It's not "starting" to flirt.[br]- It's 99.9% flirting!

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Yeah, seems like they're already there.

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Let's see how it progresses [br]in this episode.

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Episode 2, Week 1[br]"Invisible Ruler"

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You're by yourself?

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How's it going?

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We just got here, I think [br]the space is pretty nice.

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How about you?

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I... just feel like I'm still not used to [br]living here yet.

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How come?

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Well, I have a dog...

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I didn't bring him here because[br]everything is still new.

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I know that he'd probably have a[br]hard time adjusting.

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- I have a dog too.[br]- You have a dog too?

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So right now I'm living here, but I had [br]to leave him at the pet hotel.

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Yeah so...

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[panelist] They have something [br]in common!

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I actually don't really like[br]being away from my dog.

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Me neither. Because I never.. [br]because he's 4 years old now,

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We've never spent more than [br]a day apart.

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- What kind of dog do you have?[br]- I have a shiba inu.

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What's their name?

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"Er Lang."[br](it means "second son")

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What about yours?

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Mine is named Popsicle.

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Popsicle.

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He's a mutt, let me find [br]some pictures for you.

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He looks like this.

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This is when he first got sent to the[br]pet hotel, poor guy.

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He looks pretty skinny.

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I think he's about 10kg.

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My dog is about 15kg, he's really fat.

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Let me show you.

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In all the companies that I started and [br]all my projects, I use my dog as the logos.

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- This is something I drew recently.[br]- So cute!

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Yeah, he's a fat dummy.

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Chubby to the point where he[br]has a humpback when he sits.

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So fat.

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He does look pretty goofy.

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Do you miss him?

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What do you think?

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I miss him so much. I used to even [br]take him with me on my work trips.

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We're always together.

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The thing with my dog is...[br]if he stays at the pet hotel for too long

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I'm afraid there will be some emotional[br]problems or something.

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Do you want to bring your dog here?

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- I... I'm actually thinking about it.[br]- Same here.

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- Lately my dog has been refusing to eat.[br]- Refusing to eat?!

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Yeah, his mood and appetite have been[br]really bad lately.

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I feel like maybe we can talk to our [br]housemates and see what they think?

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Yes, yes!

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We can let them meet our dogs first, then[br]ask them if they like them or not, right?

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Chu Mengna (NaNa) [br]Student, 22 years old

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Chen Xiaowei (Binshen) [br]Professional gamer, 23 years old

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Jin Yujie[br]Model, 22 years old

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Liu Keli (Curry)[br]Social media entrepreneur, 29 years old

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Wu Kawen (Carmon)[br]Designer, 29 years old

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Wang Tianqi[br]Salesperson, 26 years old

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[coworker] What's like to be on that show?

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It's just... you know, 3 guys and 3 girls[br]living together.

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So how do you feel about them?

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The guys or the girls?

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Of course the girls![br]Why would I ask about the guys?

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The girls...

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I feel like I don't hang out with them[br]too much.

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There's one girl I think is [br]pretty cute, though.

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- We'll see.[br]- Then you must be pretty shy.

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Not shy exactly, just taking time [br]to get to know them.

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So there's one cute girl, huh?

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Yeah, just an initial feeling.

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- I think he's talking about Nana.[br]- Right, the cute one.

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I don't think he's taking time though, [br]he already asked her out!

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Did you see the pay stub for [br]this month?

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Yeah. I got deducted 1000 yuan...

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Seems kind of excessive.

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- What about you?[br]- I got four or five hundred deducted.

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The base pay is already low, then it gets [br]deducted if you're late by one minute..

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Who doesn't rush to get to work?

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I agree, I feel like one day our pay stub[br]will be negative.

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Don't even bother paying me,[br]I'll just pay the boss to work.

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Welcome home.

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Hello!

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[Curry huffing heavily]

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You came back late, [br]did you just get off work?

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I just got off, yeah.

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What's wrong?

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Today I got my pay stub[br]for this month.

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And we get deducted 10 yuan for [br]every minute we're late to work.

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- Huh?[br]- 10 yuan for 1 minute.

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I got deducted 1000 yuan[br]this month.

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That's kind of....I think [br]that's excessive.

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It's outrageous, really. [br]I don't know what the company is thinking.

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I feel like the company takes every chance [br]they get to oppress their employees,

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and take every penny from you.

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I feel like...I mean, although it's not [br]good to be late for work,

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your company's policy a bit too much.

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It's nothing.

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It's just a bit of money.

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I mean... you don't make much in the first place, [br]it's not a small amount

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[sigh]

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Don't be upset, let's just not [br]be late from now, right?

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[panelist] Haha, as if.

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I'll try my best, I don't want to either.

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[panelist] He's here, get ready [br]for another lesson.

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What's up?

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I got deducted 1000 yuan from my paycheck.

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For every minute late, you [br]get 10 yuan deducted.

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I guess it means you've [br]been late a lot lately.

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Maybe, but they count[br]literally every minute.

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If something happens one day and you're [br]late by a lot, in the end it all adds up.

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But I think that's a pretty normal practice[br]for legitimate companies.

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No, I know late-to-work deductions [br]are normal

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but it's my first time working at a place [br]where they do it by the minute.

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And there's no limit to the amount [br]they can deduct.

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But for a company, one of the most [br]important management policies is

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making sure employees are punctual.

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Really?

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Yeah. If you can't make sure that your[br]employees come to work on time,

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it's really difficult to manage [br]everything else on the team.

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But don't you think this policy[br]is too extreme?

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Well... if they treat you this way, they [br]probably treat everyone else the same way.

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And maybe you have [br]been late too many times.

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So you're saying that if there's an unreasonable policy [br]that gets applied equally to everyone,

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it becomes reasonable?

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From my point of view, I can at least[br]understand why they do it.

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I can also understand that[br]you just moved here,

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maybe your commute became farther[br]and it takes extra time in the morning

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but I would still suggest that you take the [br]responsibility to adjust to the environment.

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Oh, so you mean there's nothing wrong[br]with the policy, it's all my fault, right?

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Well you chose this job, right,[br]and you love this line of work.

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Being in the fashion industry[br]is your dream.

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Right?

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Okay, got it.

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I'm going back to the room.

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- I think Tianqi is mad.[br]- Yeah, he is.

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I'm mad at him!

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[laughter]

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I feel like... Curry is right though.

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- Yeah, he was spot on.[br]- Yeah.

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Tianqi is great at blaming others,[br]but he never examines himself.

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He even said "it's all my fault"[br]so passive aggressively.

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- Of course it's your fault![br]- You're one to talk when you're late!

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If you can't change the policy[br]you can at least change yourself!

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There's no issue if you're not late.

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[friend] What are you doing here?

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What are you doing here?[br]It's been so long!

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- Same! [br]- You haven't contacted me in a while!

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- What are you doing here, working?[br]- Yeah, we're trying on the outfits.

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Where's your boyfriend? [br]Doesn't he usually come to these things?

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Um.. I don't know, maybe [br]today was inconvenient.

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Hasn't he come with you to every show?

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It's nothing.

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- Does he have work?[br]- No.

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What is it?

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We broke up.

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Why?

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He cheated.

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I would have forgotten about it already [br]if you hadn't brought it up! It's fine.

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- You don't have to always pretend to be strong.[br]- I'm not, I'm not.

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Make sure you're eating and taking [br]care of yourself. I worry about you.

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- You too.[br]- You know?

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- I have to go now.[br]- Okay, call me.

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- Bye bye.[br]- Go, go. Call me.

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Pay attention to the music [br]when you're walking.

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Lift your head. You forgot again. [br]Lift your head.

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Don't move your hands.

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Don't sway your hands, [br]how many times do I have to say it?

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Don't move your hands, [br]do you want me to switch you out?

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Walk.

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- This segment was heavy.[br]- Yes, it was serious.

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Only the second episode and [br]it's already gotten so personal.

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After seeing this, my opinion [br]of Curry has improved.

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- He's decent.[br]- Yeah, he's actually a pretty caring person.

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He's really gotten Yang Li's attention.

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This wasn't the part that moved Yang Li.

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When he was working out.. I felt like [br]that was an accurate portrayal of who he is.

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Really exhausting.

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- Thankless.[br]- Yeah.

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He thinks that Tianqi isn't happy because [br]he doesn't understand workplace norms,

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when really Tianqi just can't accept them. [br]He thinks it's unfair.

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I didn't think the work thing was even [br]so unreasonable. It's his problem.

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- I don't think so either.[br]- Time management is really important.

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Yeah. You can always quit.

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You can also decide when onboarding that [br]you don't want the job if you can't accept the policy.

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- It's your own choice.[br]- Right.

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You wanted this job, why are you only [br]saying now that it's unreasonable?

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One day, maybe when he has his[br]own staff, he'll understand.

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- I don't think he'll have his own workers.[br]- Yeah.

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There's no way he'll have his own.

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That Tianqi not very self-critical. He thinks [br]the world should rotate around him.

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I think he's driven by emotion,[br]whereas Curry is more driven by logic.

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- The way he expresses concern for others [br]can make them resent him.[br]- It feels oppressive.

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If he changed his manner, they could stomach it. [br]But he won't, he can only use this type of--

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- Logical reasoning.[br]- Right, logic.

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So they'll always have this friction.

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But how do you advise someone like [br]Tianqi? What would sink in?

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Look at how Nana does it.

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Nana's in a sticky spot, it would be difficult [br]for her if she really wanted to date him.

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But I feel like this happens [br]all the time with relationships.

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Relationships can be a trap.

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It's an awkward position.

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- Yeah.[br]- Very awkward.

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I think Nana is a pretty naive person. [br]She doesn't know how things [br]like this work, either.

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That's why the two of them were responsible for the [br]mess last episode, not helping with dinner or the dishes.

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The actions match the people.

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Curry would never be late, he would never [br]let someone else dock his pay.

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He's very principled, but he's also [br]rigid and unyielding.

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He never goes with the flow.

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- He's just never happy.[br]- Yeah.

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- Even though he makes no mistakes, he'll never be happy.[br]- Yeah.

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They're always messing up, [br]but they're always happy!

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It's so hard! How do you choose?

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They seemed pretty happy when [br]they were talking about their dogs.

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- That was the first time that boy--[br]- Seemed human.

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He laughed! He became soft.

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- He wasn't so stiff and stern anymore.[br]- Or awkward.

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I would think, I could [br]actually tolerate this person.

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But I can't stand the type of guy that [br]calls his dog "doggy."

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So stern.

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You seem to have a thing for high-powered [br]business types, not cutesy guys.

0:17:07.498,0:17:09.730
Yeah, you don't have to be a tyrant [br]over CEO types.

0:17:10.066,0:17:11.571
CEOs can say "doggy," too.

0:17:16.058,0:17:19.657
Oh, we also saw a heartbroken Yujie.

0:17:19.657,0:17:22.297
- Oh, the model.[br]- So she was dumped.

0:17:22.297,0:17:27.135
For this I'll consult Keni. Is it true that [br]this type of really elegant, aloof--

0:17:27.135,0:17:32.119
- A high-fashion face.[br]- This kind of cool girl, do they get hurt more easily?

0:17:32.119,0:17:33.774
I'm always seeing this trope.

0:17:33.774,0:17:36.184
- Why not consult me?[br]- Yeah, why not ask her?

0:17:37.434,0:17:39.564
This is the source of her pain!

0:17:40.098,0:17:45.415
Because I understand you! [br]I know you're not that kind of person.

0:17:45.415,0:17:49.340
Everyone says we judge people by their [br]appearance, and it's true,

0:17:49.340,0:17:52.997
lots of people tell me that if they [br]didn't know me they'd think I was scary.

0:17:52.997,0:17:57.355
If I'm standing around not saying anything, [br]they say, "I feel like you look down on me."

0:17:57.355,0:17:59.597
- But I'm not like that.[br]- You don't look down on me?

0:17:59.597,0:18:01.586
- I don't! [br]- Thank you.

0:18:01.586,0:18:05.108
- I'm really warm and I cry a lot.[br]- But you look down on people while crying.

0:18:05.108,0:18:08.750
No! No! I'm honestly pretty sensitive.

0:18:08.750,0:18:13.401
But the more intimidating you look, [br]the more painful it is when you get hurt.

0:18:13.401,0:18:19.919
I don't know if that girl is like me, but I don't like [br]to show that side of me in front of other people.

0:18:19.919,0:18:24.861
It's so sad, even in that kind of mood she has to keep walking back and forth and getting her photo taken

0:18:24.861,0:18:26.125
and get bossed around.

0:18:26.125,0:18:29.326
I also walked in Fashion Week once.

0:18:29.326,0:18:34.320
Modeling really is incredibly difficult, [br]especially walking on a runway.

0:18:35.106,0:18:39.286
It's really scary to be in a show [br]in front of all those professionals,

0:18:39.286,0:18:42.195
and someone is constantly criticizing you [br]into a microphone.

0:18:42.195,0:18:44.836
"You look bad! [br]Why are you swinging your arms!"

0:18:44.836,0:18:50.259
When your teacher is yelling at you on a stage[br]you just think, I have no place.

0:18:50.865,0:18:54.019
I don't want my flaws to be [br]heard by so many people,

0:18:54.019,0:18:56.055
much less in front of all these cameras.

0:18:56.055,0:18:58.907
I feel like she was really [br]emotionally fragile in that scene.

0:19:06.991,0:19:08.513
What did you do today?

0:19:08.513,0:19:11.085
Preparing for Fashion Week. [br]The show is on the 11th.

0:19:11.085,0:19:13.843
Today I bumped into a friend and [br]our conversation wasn't great.

0:19:13.843,0:19:15.492
Do you want to talk about it?

0:19:16.447,0:19:18.114
Not really.

0:19:18.114,0:19:21.016
- That's okay, next time.[br]- Next time.

0:19:21.016,0:19:21.793
Okay.

0:19:26.456,0:19:28.176
Who's back?

0:19:28.176,0:19:29.323
[panelist] They brought the dogs!

0:19:29.323,0:19:30.380
They really brought them!

0:19:35.587,0:19:38.074
- Hello![br]- Hello.

0:19:38.074,0:19:40.254
You brought Er Lang?

0:19:40.254,0:19:42.982
Why didn't you guys say you were [br]going to bring your dogs home?

0:19:42.982,0:19:47.541
Let's sit over there. Since it's their first [br]time meeting they might get into a fight.

0:19:49.180,0:19:51.060
If you put him here I'll be afraid.

0:19:52.803,0:19:54.033
I'll hold him.

0:19:55.023,0:19:56.043
Is that okay?

0:19:59.870,0:20:02.090
Why didn't you discuss this with everyone?

0:20:02.090,0:20:04.188
Why didn't you tell me first?

0:20:04.188,0:20:05.068
Um...

0:20:07.166,0:20:11.366
Do you want to sit over there? That way [br]you can sit farther from the dogs.

0:20:13.407,0:20:17.206
It's just that her dog was [br]in a pet hotel,

0:20:17.377,0:20:21.567
and my employees were helping me [br]take care of mine.

0:20:21.567,0:20:27.718
A couple days ago we were talking [br]about how unhappy they were.

0:20:28.372,0:20:30.524
My dog had even stopped eating.

0:20:34.196,0:20:38.363
But you still have to ask everyone, [br]in case someone's afraid of dogs.

0:20:38.363,0:20:42.183
We talked about having a conversation [br]with everyone after we came back,

0:20:42.183,0:20:45.448
so that you could see the dogs first [br]before we ask for your opinions.

0:20:45.780,0:20:49.067
- You should have asked before you brought them.[br]- Yeah.

0:20:49.067,0:20:52.215
You couldn't ask for my opinion[br]before you brought them home?

0:20:52.215,0:20:55.964
Now that your dog is here,[br]do I have a choice?

0:20:58.401,0:21:03.033
I've never lived with dogs before, so [br]I don't even know if I'm allergic to them.

0:21:03.432,0:21:11.797
And dogs and cats both smell,[br]you didn't ask if we're okay with that either.

0:21:13.696,0:21:21.111
I was thinking I would just [br]let him stay downstairs.

0:21:21.111,0:21:24.482
It doesn't matter what you were planning, [br]it was wrong to bring them back.

0:21:24.482,0:21:27.460
Because neither of you [br]considered my feelings.

0:21:29.080,0:21:32.454
- You have to be considerate...[br]- It doesn't matter which floor it is,

0:21:32.454,0:21:38.384
I live with Carmon on the 2nd floor. [br]And our shared spaces are on the 1st floor.

0:21:39.153,0:21:41.107
It's out of line.

0:21:41.107,0:21:43.230
Did you ask Binshen if he's allergic?

0:21:43.230,0:21:47.127
Yeah, so our aim in bringing the dogs [br]was just to let you guys see them,

0:21:47.127,0:21:49.328
so we could get everyone's input.

0:21:49.328,0:21:52.195
You should have asked earlier. [br]It's a little late now.

0:21:56.433,0:21:57.574
What do you think?

0:21:58.296,0:22:02.389
I, I...I'll let you all go first.

0:22:03.821,0:22:08.077
If I'm home alone and those two are [br]roaming around freely,

0:22:08.077,0:22:12.566
I can't be upstairs, I can't be downstairs, [br]what am I supposed to do?

0:22:12.566,0:22:16.627
I can bring him on my commute, so[br]he won't be here unless I'm here.

0:22:16.627,0:22:18.899
But now you're making me the bad guy.

0:22:18.899,0:22:22.287
- No, I didn't mean it like that--[br]- You've put me in an awkward position.

0:22:22.287,0:22:33.350
We just wanted everyone to discuss it objectively. [br]I think you're being a little aggressive.

0:22:33.882,0:22:35.165
You were wrong first.

0:22:35.165,0:22:39.338
Okay, I was wrong first. But can you[br]calm down a little right now?

0:22:39.644,0:22:42.020
- We all live together.[br]- I'm very calm.

0:22:43.602,0:22:46.808
It's fine if you talk to me like this, [br]but Carmon is your roommate.

0:22:46.808,0:22:50.498
You live closely together. I don't think [br]it's right to be so combative.

0:22:51.967,0:22:53.668
[panelist] He's lecturing her again.

0:22:55.110,0:23:02.620
I want to apologize first. I'm sorry for [br]bringing the dog without telling everyone.

0:23:03.753,0:23:09.042
Because of the pandemic, when I went home to my [br]parents this year, I had to leave him in the pet hotel.

0:23:09.042,0:23:13.971
I didn't want to. He was really sensitive [br]when I came back after three weeks.

0:23:13.971,0:23:21.596
So this time I just... wanted to take him out as soon as [br]I could, and talk it over with everyone then.

0:23:22.513,0:23:27.984
But of course I can bring him back. [br]I just wanted to discuss it first.

0:23:29.799,0:23:35.119
I understand Carmon's reasoning. [br]But I want to respond to what you just said.

0:23:35.119,0:23:37.887
- You can say whatever, no problem.[br]- I know I can.

0:23:37.887,0:23:44.911
First, I'm not an aggressive person. I'm angry because [br]you didn't ask for my permission before bringing them.

0:23:44.911,0:23:47.294
And you didn't ask anyone else, either.

0:23:47.294,0:23:53.969
Second, I had a roommate before this. She wanted a dog too, but I didn't agree to it.

0:23:53.969,0:23:55.405
She was also a really close friend.

0:23:57.320,0:24:02.150
I even had a falling out with her over the dog issue. [br]So it makes me really unhappy that you think

0:24:02.150,0:24:06.033
I'm pushy and aggressive just because [br]of my attitude about this.

0:24:08.692,0:24:13.792
The reason I said that was because firstly, [br]we're all equally in charge of this house.

0:24:13.792,0:24:17.320
We're all allowed to do whatever we wish.

0:24:17.320,0:24:21.796
We didn't know if you were afraid of dogs, [br]if you're allergic, if you just hate them.

0:24:21.796,0:24:24.928
If we're all in charge here, why didn't [br]you ask anyone else what they thought?

0:24:24.928,0:24:28.939
We brought them back to ask you what you thought.[br]Even if we didn't let you know beforehand,

0:24:28.939,0:24:35.299
we brought them because we also get a say in this, [br]and each of us can do whatever we choose.

0:24:35.299,0:24:38.640
If you put it that way, I have nothing else [br]to say. I'm done talking.

0:24:57.310,0:24:59.759
[panelist] Aw... little doggy.

0:24:59.759,0:25:01.476
Poor doggy.

0:25:01.476,0:25:05.322
Before, didn't he say that they would [br]discuss it with everyone first?

0:25:05.322,0:25:06.639
He thought wrong.

0:25:06.639,0:25:11.698
- He thought when they brought them back--[br]- Everyone would say, so cute!

0:25:11.698,0:25:15.042
- He thought the dogs would win them over.[br]- Yeah.

0:25:15.042,0:25:18.900
He probably thought this wasn't even a big deal,[br]unlike the dishes, which were a huge deal.

0:25:18.900,0:25:22.021
It's on the same level at the dishes. [br]He even called her aggressive.

0:25:22.021,0:25:23.700
The dogs are much cuter than the dishes.

0:25:23.700,0:25:27.600
All his hopes right now hinge on [br]how the others feel about dogs.

0:25:28.710,0:25:32.970
But there's no way to arrive at a compromise [br]with someone who hates dogs so much.

0:25:32.970,0:25:33.979
She's scared of them.

0:25:33.979,0:25:37.699
How can she live there if she's scared of them? [br]There's no way, she'd have to leave early.

0:26:06.456,0:26:10.078
What do we do? That was...

0:26:11.670,0:26:12.600
[sigh]

0:26:14.510,0:26:18.197
I do think we messed up a bit.

0:26:18.735,0:26:25.078
Originally we were going to let them know first...[br]and everyone's emotions were running high.

0:26:28.111,0:26:35.331
Do you remember that first day we went out for [br]groceries, I think I mentioned my shiba in the car...

0:26:35.331,0:26:37.624
- I think so, yeah.[br]- Yeah.

0:26:37.624,0:26:44.626
At the time Yujie didn't say she was scared [br]of dogs. So it didn't even cross my mind.

0:26:44.626,0:26:49.397
Maybe she didn't say anything because [br]we'd only just met each other.

0:26:55.179,0:26:59.318
I'm just going to say things [br]from our perspective for now.

0:26:59.318,0:27:03.127
- First of all, we treat our dogs like our children.[br]- Yeah.

0:27:03.801,0:27:11.333
If we neglect our obligations to them for [br]even a day, we feel really guilty.

0:27:11.333,0:27:16.454
So that's why I got upset in that moment.

0:27:16.454,0:27:21.658
It felt like maybe Yujie was [br]showing animosity towards our children.

0:27:21.658,0:27:27.308
So I felt really protective and kind of snapped.

0:27:28.425,0:27:33.986
I can understand why that made you lose[br]your cool, but from Yujie's perspective,

0:27:33.986,0:27:37.776
she sees us as her roommates, [br]so when we did what we did,

0:27:37.776,0:27:43.999
it made her feel that we carelessly threw [br]her concerns aside. That we were inconsiderate.

0:27:43.999,0:27:48.123
Yeah, I can understand that.

0:27:48.123,0:27:50.921
So, I still think we should apologize

0:27:50.921,0:27:55.010
and from now on we'll be more[br]considerate as roommates.

0:27:55.010,0:27:58.041
We should help her feel like[br]that's our intention.

0:27:59.729,0:28:00.989
What do you think?

0:28:02.747,0:28:04.553
Okay.

0:28:06.382,0:28:08.595
Just apologize.

0:28:08.595,0:28:09.283
So difficult.

0:28:09.953,0:28:12.459
- The way Carmon speaks is very agreeable.[br]- Agreed!

0:28:12.459,0:28:15.431
- She speaks very gently.[br]- Very warmly.

0:28:15.431,0:28:18.458
- She's very reasonable.[br]- She communicates well.

0:28:22.282,0:28:23.665
Come in.

0:28:26.611,0:28:28.361
- Hello...[br]- Hi.

0:28:32.751,0:28:33.581
Come sit.

0:28:35.876,0:28:39.906
I'm sorry. We should have [br]come to you first.

0:28:40.981,0:28:43.914
Yes, you should have talked to me [br]first about it.

0:28:43.914,0:28:47.807
Do you... how are you feeling right now?

0:28:47.807,0:28:53.100
I'm fine. It's not an issue of my mood, [br]but rather an issue of right or wrong.

0:28:53.100,0:28:54.155
Okay.

0:28:54.155,0:29:02.355
When we were talking earlier,[br]I didn't really speak up.

0:29:03.127,0:29:08.502
However, the fact is...[br]Let me first try to explain my behavior today.

0:29:08.502,0:29:15.489
I wanted to first bring Popsicle here first, [br]and I didn't ask for anyone's permission beforehand.

0:29:15.489,0:29:22.814
At the same time, it happened to be his last day at the [br]pet hotel, so I thought I could bring him back just to see.

0:29:22.814,0:29:27.942
I think Curry also felt the same,[br]since he's had his dog for 4 years.

0:29:27.942,0:29:32.562
Let's just talk about our own issues, [br]there's no need to involve him.

0:29:32.562,0:29:35.752
He's him and you're you.

0:29:35.752,0:29:36.825
Sure.

0:29:38.284,0:29:43.493
Honestly, as long as you guys can find a[br]suitable place for your dogs, it's fine.

0:29:43.493,0:29:46.202
It's not that I have [br]an issue with the dogs.

0:29:46.202,0:29:51.088
My issue was that it seemed you guys [br]didn't really regard our feelings,

0:29:51.088,0:29:54.205
and that you guys didn't really [br]respect us.

0:29:54.205,0:29:58.129
Maybe my temperament is just like this.[br]My life has always been just work and home,

0:29:58.129,0:30:03.464
so maybe I'm not very good at [br]seeing things from another perspective.

0:30:03.464,0:30:06.264
That's why I had such a strong reaction.

0:30:06.559,0:30:11.352
When I was little, I got chased by a dog, [br]so to some extent I am afraid of them.

0:30:11.352,0:30:13.965
But if you'd discussed it with me, [br]I'd be okay with it.

0:30:13.965,0:30:19.832
Because we have a good relationship, [br]and I really like you.

0:30:19.832,0:30:23.961
I just hope in the future [br]we can communicate more.

0:30:23.961,0:30:25.634
We will.

0:30:25.634,0:30:29.602
That's why I got angry. [br]But I'm not angry at you.

0:30:29.602,0:30:35.013
Okay. I feel better knowing [br]that you're not angry.

0:30:35.737,0:30:39.143
Today I even brought you home [br]a clip that matches mine.

0:30:39.143,0:30:44.746
I bought two, and I thought it would suit you [br]because you have short hair.

0:30:44.746,0:30:45.990
It's so cute, thank you!

0:30:45.990,0:30:52.414
We got tangled up in this argument, and [br]I didn't have time to give it to you.

0:30:53.846,0:30:55.196
- Thank you.[br]- It's nothing.

0:30:55.196,0:31:00.566
- It's so cute.[br]- Let's try to avoid these kinds of conflicts in the future.

0:31:00.566,0:31:08.480
Yeah. And now I feel like everyone knows [br]why everyone else got upset,

0:31:08.480,0:31:11.590
so it'll help prevent this kind of thing [br]from happening again.

0:31:11.590,0:31:16.334
And I was so tired when I got home, [br]maybe I wasn't in a great mood.

0:31:16.334,0:31:20.098
Maybe I brought my work stress [br]home with me.

0:31:20.098,0:31:22.664
Oh, was it your fitting?

0:31:22.664,0:31:28.089
I can't eat much because I'm controlling my diet [br]for Fashion Week. So maybe I've been on edge.

0:31:28.089,0:31:30.220
And the work environment [br]has been really harsh.

0:31:30.220,0:31:33.069
You're so strict with yourself.

0:31:33.069,0:31:37.168
Only when I have to be. [br]Otherwise, I'm pretty indulgent.

0:31:37.168,0:31:41.753
- Really? I'll pay more attention.[br]- We have to find joy where we can.

0:31:41.753,0:31:42.863
Yeah.

0:31:51.724,0:31:53.961
- Oh, you came up?[br]- How's it going?

0:31:54.674,0:31:57.444
Did you come up to talk to me [br]about what happened today?

0:31:57.444,0:32:00.858
Yeah, we wanted to chat with you.

0:32:01.912,0:32:04.114
I don't really want to [br]talk to you right now.

0:32:08.328,0:32:13.645
I don't want to talk about this. Just like how you didn't [br]want to tell me before you brought your dog over.

0:32:14.432,0:32:16.863
Can I just say two things, [br]and then I'll go?

0:32:16.863,0:32:20.484
I don't want to hear it. Let's talk about this [br]another day, maybe tomorrow.

0:32:25.730,0:32:28.401
- It's like this..[br]- I said I didn't want to hear it.

0:32:28.401,0:32:30.996
- I think we should resolve this today. [br]- I don't want to hear it.

0:32:30.996,0:32:35.449
- Because we already brought the dogs.[br]- You guys deal with it, they're your dogs.

0:32:36.938,0:32:39.911
I have my own things to deal with, I've [br]already had too much to worry about today.

0:32:39.911,0:32:41.971
And I still have some work to deal with.

0:32:41.971,0:32:46.666
So can we just table this, calm down a little [br]and talk about it tomorrow?

0:32:48.682,0:32:52.858
- I just want to say a couple things--[br]- Forget it, you should both get some rest.

0:32:52.858,0:32:57.521
- I agree.[br]- I think you and I both need to calm down. Okay?

0:33:00.242,0:33:05.743
Why don't we give Yujie some space? [br]She had an exhausting day at work too.

0:33:07.916,0:33:09.226
- Good night.[br]- Okay.

0:33:09.226,0:33:10.096
Let's go.

0:33:11.096,0:33:12.582
Get some rest.

0:33:12.992,0:33:15.682
- You still need to eat if you're hungry.[br]- Okay.

0:33:26.050,0:33:27.280
[laughter]

0:33:28.212,0:33:30.895
Living together doesn't seem [br]to be working out for them.

0:33:30.895,0:33:32.728
We're so invested in this.

0:33:32.728,0:33:34.596
I really like this episode.

0:33:34.596,0:33:41.285
On the surface it's a simple argument about [br]the dogs, but it's actually about a lot of things.

0:33:41.678,0:33:46.882
It's about respect and consideration, [br]which are both serious issues.

0:33:46.882,0:33:53.130
Like at the end, when Curry came in and proclaimed that he wanted to say something, and she said she didn't want to talk.

0:33:53.130,0:33:58.611
There was so much wrapped up in that exchange.[br]How to be a person, how we treat others, how to listen.

0:33:58.611,0:34:05.795
How to help people understand us, [br]this episode touches on all of that.

0:34:05.795,0:34:15.325
I don't know whose side I'm on. [br]I think...I just think...it's so good.

0:34:15.413,0:34:18.721
From a director's standpoint, [br]it's a perfect episode.

0:34:18.888,0:34:21.948
It's gold.

0:34:22.084,0:34:25.398
I felt like we could be [br]watching ourselves.

0:34:25.933,0:34:31.770
Sometimes we're just like them. We do things without [br]considering others and they feel pressured to accept it.

0:34:31.770,0:34:35.569
The reason Curry brought the dog was just [br]to say look, it's already here.

0:34:36.198,0:34:40.144
But you can't do that, you have to [br]tell them first, you have to ask them.

0:34:40.144,0:34:42.932
The dog is innocent.

0:34:42.932,0:34:44.556
It wasn't the heart of the issue.

0:34:44.556,0:34:49.211
Yeah. And Carmon is what I would call [br]an innocent guilty party.

0:34:49.876,0:34:56.036
She made a mistake, but she was innocent.

0:34:56.176,0:35:01.002
The reason this got so blown out of proportion [br]was because of how Curry conducts himself.

0:35:01.743,0:35:05.195
If she says she doesn't like it, [br]you should offer to take it away.

0:35:05.195,0:35:07.235
Or else say it's just [br]for one night.

0:35:07.235,0:35:10.199
- He just has to get his point across.[br]- He won't admit fault.

0:35:10.199,0:35:14.163
"I'm sorry" are the easiest words you can say, [br]but he can't bring himself to do it.

0:35:14.163,0:35:19.642
He's acting the same way[br]that Tianqi did last segment.

0:35:19.642,0:35:24.753
He's not willing to admit that [br]he did something wrong.

0:35:25.136,0:35:29.329
- He won't even give an inch.[br]- He's stubborn and overwhelms you with talk.

0:35:29.329,0:35:33.016
He forces people to do things against their will.[br]He can't keep doing this.

0:35:33.016,0:35:39.240
I think he knows he's in the wrong [br]and he's not trying to hide it.

0:35:39.240,0:35:46.276
He's just not willing to say he's sorry because[br]he's reacting poorly to Yujie's anger.

0:35:46.405,0:35:48.405
Do people really get so [br]obsessive about things?

0:35:48.405,0:35:53.954
- Yes.[br]- You can plainly be in the wrong but keep doubling down on it.

0:35:53.954,0:35:55.934
- You try to explain yourself.[br]- You can't let iet go.

0:35:55.934,0:36:00.460
- Later he was like, this is my son! [br]- These are our children!

0:36:00.460,0:36:03.243
He thinks she doesn't respect his child.

0:36:03.243,0:36:08.619
He upgraded the dog's status from dog to child so he [br]can say she had a bad attitude towards his child.

0:36:08.619,0:36:09.726
It's a plea to emotions.

0:36:09.726,0:36:12.995
With others it's all about his principles, but[br]when it comes to himself he wants to talk emotions.

0:36:12.995,0:36:16.086
Don't you think that's a double standard?

0:36:16.086,0:36:20.478
When it came to the dishwashing incident,[br]he was relentless about Nana washing the dishes

0:36:20.478,0:36:23.316
saying, "You have to do it, [br]you were appointed to do it."

0:36:23.316,0:36:25.805
But with the dog incident, [br]he says "well, I feel..."

0:36:26.087,0:36:29.753
That's his temperament. Whether it's[br]towards others or himself, he acts like that regardless.

0:36:29.753,0:36:30.540
Exactly.

0:36:30.540,0:36:34.600
When I think I'm right, [br]you have to accept that I'm right.

0:36:34.600,0:36:38.423
It's not a double standard. He only goes [br]by one standard, and it's his own.

0:36:38.423,0:36:41.202
Others have to agree with [br]whatever he deems important.

0:36:41.202,0:36:43.163
So we'll have to wait and see about Curry.

0:36:43.163,0:36:44.876
He may not be as principled as we thought.

0:36:45.285,0:36:47.780
- He's not endearing anymore.[br]- You take it back?

0:36:47.780,0:36:50.448
- I changed my mind.[br]- You change your mind so quickly!

0:36:50.448,0:36:52.629
A wise man submits to circumstances.

0:36:53.585,0:36:57.304
After they brought the dogs, [br]I felt so bad for Yujie.

0:36:57.304,0:37:00.165
- If she really is afraid of dogs.[br]- Poor Yujie.

0:37:00.165,0:37:02.920
Yeah, she was sandwiched between two dogs.

0:37:02.920,0:37:06.191
I'd like to say something about[br]this Wang Tianqi fellow.

0:37:06.864,0:37:14.032
When he unkindly "fanned the flames,"[br]Teacher Yujie showed plenty of dignity.

0:37:14.446,0:37:16.096
Wang Tianqi was just kind of like...

0:37:17.242,0:37:18.512
Kind of like that.

0:37:18.512,0:37:21.306
Yujie kept her cool, saying: [br]I'm not engaging. And she just left.

0:37:21.306,0:37:22.609
She didn't throw a tantrum.

0:37:22.842,0:37:25.489
- She toughed through a hell of a day.[br]- Yeah.

0:37:25.489,0:37:29.519
She had a terrible day, and then [br]she had to spend the evening with two dogs.

0:37:29.519,0:37:32.659
Surrounded by dogs on all sides.

0:37:32.659,0:37:35.292
Although no one knew how bad her day was, [br]because she didn't say.

0:37:35.292,0:37:37.686
- Yeah.[br]- She just said she didn't want to talk about it.

0:37:37.928,0:37:41.495
I want to talk about the other thing. [br]Why did Curry suddenly transform from

0:37:41.495,0:37:44.662
such a logical person to a someone so[br]influenced by his emotions?

0:37:44.662,0:37:50.619
I think it may be because the girl he's interested[br]in was attacked by this other girl.

0:37:50.619,0:37:53.198
He wanted to show off [br]his manliness, right?

0:37:53.198,0:37:56.115
Right. Wow, you really [br]understand the male brain.

0:37:56.115,0:37:57.204
It really is like that!

0:37:57.204,0:37:59.708
If I'm drinking with Da Xun and we start arguing, [br]we won't have any issues.

0:37:59.708,0:38:01.908
But if there's a woman by my side?

0:38:02.986,0:38:05.379
If you say, Da Xun, [br]don't fight with Li Dan

0:38:05.379,0:38:06.792
Then, immediately!

0:38:08.456,0:38:09.741
Wow, you're so sharp.

0:38:09.741,0:38:13.298
In front of her, you can't lose, and[br]you especially can't apologize.

0:38:13.298,0:38:15.674
- Apologizing is too embarrassing.[br]- Agreed.

0:38:15.674,0:38:17.924
- So this was the explanation?[br]- Yeah, it should be.

0:38:17.924,0:38:22.552
Otherwise he wouldn't so stubbornly [br]refuse to apologize.

0:38:22.552,0:38:25.102
She didn't even let him say[br]his two things.

0:38:26.820,0:38:29.312
How embarrassing, [br]in front of the girl he likes.

0:38:29.312,0:38:33.601
Whether with the girl he's interested in, [br]or with the dogs,

0:38:33.601,0:38:34.983
he lost face in front of everyone.

0:38:35.366,0:38:37.720
- He just couldn't let it go. [br]- Right.

0:38:37.720,0:38:41.575
He cares about everyone [br]except his roommates.

0:38:41.575,0:38:43.722
- Yes, exactly.[br]- You agree?

0:38:43.722,0:38:47.502
Once he decides he cares about someone, [br]everyone else becomes unimportant.

0:38:47.502,0:38:50.492
His stance immediately makes [br]a complete 180.

0:38:50.492,0:38:53.734
Compared to the dishwashing incident [br]he's like two different people.

0:38:55.050,0:39:00.712
Also, when he brought up that Yujie hadn't mentioned [br]beforehand that she was scared of dogs

0:39:00.712,0:39:04.736
That was solely for Carmon, so that she wouldn't [br]have any complaints about his stance.

0:39:05.316,0:39:09.742
In front of others, he wouldn't have even mentioned it,[br]because he already knew he was wrong.

0:39:09.742,0:39:11.963
He only hopes that Carmon won't[br]think poorly of him.

0:39:12.423,0:39:15.256
- He couldn't lose face.

0:39:17.136,0:39:20.579
You've lived with roommates, and[br]you've lived in a dorm before, right?

0:39:20.579,0:39:24.278
I used to live with roommates, but lately [br]I've been doing better, so I moved.

0:39:24.278,0:39:26.373
But before that I only lived [br]with roommates.

0:39:26.792,0:39:28.337
Have you had arguments like these?

0:39:28.807,0:39:29.607
All the time.

0:39:30.552,0:39:34.304
Let me tell you, the less you know each other,[br]the better it is to live together.

0:39:34.304,0:39:37.959
My roommate and I were pretty much strangers, [br]so we didn't have any conflict of interest.

0:39:37.959,0:39:39.769
Every night we would arrive home and go to bed.

0:39:39.769,0:39:42.126
We didn't chat about anything[br]and never bothered each other.

0:39:42.126,0:39:45.532
Even though I've never had roommates,[br]I've traveled with people before.

0:39:45.532,0:39:51.402
When you're traveling with friends, you can't wait last [br]minute to say where you're going or what the plans are.

0:39:51.402,0:39:52.333
Surprise!

0:39:52.333,0:39:54.149
That's not okay.

0:39:54.495,0:39:59.283
You need to communicate your plans[br]so everyone can go together.

0:39:59.283,0:40:02.795
I think this is the most fundamental part[br]of a communal lifestyle.

0:40:02.795,0:40:03.899
Exactly.

0:40:03.899,0:40:08.328
Let's see what happens with the fight[br]the next day.

0:40:08.328,0:40:10.120
Get the popcorn!

0:40:10.120,0:40:11.675
I'm excited.

0:40:14.683,0:40:15.749
Come in.

0:40:16.349,0:40:18.590
- Hello![br]- How come you're here?

0:40:19.265,0:40:21.237
My training ended,[br]so I wanted to come up.

0:40:21.758,0:40:22.911
Oh, okay.

0:40:23.861,0:40:30.389
I went to the room when I got back and[br]Tianqi told me you guys just had a discussion.

0:40:30.389,0:40:33.488
And that you guys haven't been[br]able to come to an understanding yet.

0:40:34.853,0:40:40.597
- Then let's talk about it when everyone's here.[br]- Some people only want to talk and don't want to listen.

0:40:40.597,0:40:45.538
That's one of the reasons [br]why I'm angry.

0:40:47.103,0:40:48.273
I get that.

0:40:56.785,0:40:58.487
Get some rest tonight.

0:40:58.487,0:41:00.249
- Yeah, you too.[br]- Will do.

0:41:00.249,0:41:02.782
Let's resolve this tomorrow. Okay?

0:41:06.466,0:41:08.296
- Good night, see you later.[br]- Good night.

0:41:15.566,0:41:17.101
Er Lang.

0:41:17.550,0:41:19.165
Er Lang, are you feeling unhappy?

0:41:22.512,0:41:24.928
That girl may not like you, [br]but we like you.

0:41:24.928,0:41:26.800
Is that okay?

0:41:27.388,0:41:29.630
I'm asking you.

0:41:29.630,0:41:30.642
I'm talking to you.

0:41:32.555,0:41:37.860
Tonight we'll sleep in the garden,[br]and tomorrow I'll try to convince the others.

0:41:37.860,0:41:38.317
I'm going to do my best.

0:41:38.902,0:41:40.295
How's that?

0:41:40.295,0:41:41.878
And then we can sleep inside.

0:41:41.878,0:41:43.511
Okay?

0:41:43.511,0:41:44.648
Is that okay?

0:41:49.838,0:41:52.170
It's going to be okay.

0:41:54.670,0:41:56.231
You're so good, [br]they'll all love you.

0:41:56.231,0:41:57.262
Okay?

0:41:58.390,0:41:59.810
Come, give me a hug.

0:42:01.786,0:42:02.496
Good boy.

0:42:11.960,0:42:14.669
- The dog is unhappy to see his owner.[br]- He wants to get out of there.

0:42:14.669,0:42:17.608
He doesn't want to be next to him.[br]He's annoyed with his owner.

0:42:18.814,0:42:21.812
He's like, you've caused me too much trouble.

0:42:21.812,0:42:23.573
You've caused me so much trouble![br]Ugh!

0:42:23.573,0:42:25.628
Can't you speak properly to other people?

0:42:25.628,0:42:28.139
If I could talk, even I'd be better[br]than you.

0:42:28.639,0:42:32.915
You don't even need to speak.[br]Just go "arf arf" and it'll be a done deal.

0:42:32.915,0:42:34.876
Just give a little whine, and then [br]it'll be done, okay?

0:42:34.876,0:42:35.999
No need to speak.

0:42:35.999,0:42:38.510
I even helped Yujie overcome a [br]traumatic experience.

0:42:38.510,0:42:44.541
This last segment shows that Binshen will[br]likely assume the role of a mediator between those two.

0:42:44.541,0:42:48.400
Yeah, I think he's very sensible.

0:42:48.400,0:42:52.565
I think he can help bring people together.

0:42:53.252,0:42:55.974
But I don't know. We don't even[br]know Binshen very well.

0:42:55.974,0:42:58.648
He's too much of a mystery,[br]this person.

0:42:58.648,0:43:00.702
Added up, we've probably only seen him for[br]maybe a minute.

0:43:00.702,0:43:02.048
The most mysterious guest.

0:43:02.048,0:43:06.734
Still, I think he'll be able to communicate well[br]with both the girl and the boy.

0:43:06.734,0:43:11.424
I think he can shoulder [br]this responsibility.

0:43:11.532,0:43:16.660
These types of people with high EQ[br]tend not to say much.

0:43:16.959,0:43:18.513
"I get you."

0:43:18.513,0:43:20.110
Ta-da, everything's good again.

0:43:20.200,0:43:21.858
-Active listening.[br]-Agreed.

0:43:21.858,0:43:27.558
And, that's what she was trying to say, right?[br]They weren't even trying to listen to her.

0:43:27.558,0:43:33.297
If you just show that you're willing to listen[br]and that you hear her, then that's enough for her.

0:43:33.297,0:43:34.238
I get you.

0:43:34.238,0:43:36.295
It's respecting her feelings.

0:43:36.295,0:43:42.078
She even said she's not actually that scared [br]of dogs, just that she felt disrespected.

0:43:42.078,0:43:43.199
Exactly.

0:43:43.651,0:43:48.446
In reality, it's not hard. Just say,[br]I understand you and I apologize.

0:43:48.446,0:43:50.706
Most things can be resolved from that.

0:43:50.706,0:43:51.913
Many people can't bring themselves to say it.

0:43:51.913,0:43:56.104
She wants a logical reason for [br]why he couldn't admit fault.

0:43:56.104,0:43:58.443
This world isn't logical and [br]has never been logical.

0:43:58.443,0:44:00.700
I quite like Yujie.

0:44:00.700,0:44:03.428
Because I think the other two girls are[br]both very avoidant.

0:44:03.660,0:44:08.872
She did a good job of defending herself.[br]She has reason, strength, and integrity.

0:44:08.872,0:44:10.047
Really great.

0:44:10.047,0:44:14.962
Even when she was upset, everything [br]she said was right. She's great.

0:44:15.440,0:44:17.760
Do you think the dog can stay?

0:44:17.786,0:44:20.251
- I don't think so.[br]- I think so.

0:44:20.251,0:44:26.689
Because I think once Yujie cools[br]down a bit, she's still a caring person at heart.

0:44:26.689,0:44:33.289
If she knows that the dogs aren't eating, [br]they're not doing well, and

0:44:33.289,0:44:38.942
they won't be able to see their owners for months,[br]she'll definitely consider those things.

0:44:38.942,0:44:41.251
She'll evaluate if she's okay with that.

0:44:41.251,0:44:43.341
I think the dogs might be able to stay.

0:44:43.341,0:44:45.121
I think they'll try it.

0:44:45.121,0:44:46.359
I also think they'll stay.

0:44:46.359,0:44:53.210
I think with Binshen's mediation, they will[br]come up with a reasonable solution.

0:44:53.210,0:44:56.196
Maybe it'll be really nice for them!

0:44:56.676,0:44:59.503
Maybe they'll even set up a dog house.

0:45:01.034,0:45:02.583
They could set up a dog house.

0:45:02.583,0:45:04.648
You'll be so frustrated as you watch.

0:45:04.648,0:45:08.810
Maybe they'll have the dogs stay outdoors.[br]I think that's a possibility.

0:45:08.810,0:45:16.190
Ever since the dogs made an appearance,[br]it's caused quite a stir for us.

0:45:16.190,0:45:19.374
So for that reason alone, I think the[br]dogs will stay.

0:45:20.618,0:45:22.333
Makes sense from a director's perspective!

0:45:22.333,0:45:25.477
It'll also encourage personal development [br]from the castmates, you know?

0:45:25.477,0:45:30.062
These dogs are even better than Binshen[br]at bringing everyone together.

0:45:30.062,0:45:36.312
I think it'll be important to see Curry's growth[br]and he how manages the relationship between his dog and his friends.

0:45:36.781,0:45:37.697
Shanghai Share Life

0:45:37.697,0:45:39.939
We look forward to the next episode!

0:45:39.939,0:45:41.999
Bye bye!

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[Translated and timed by fang, [br]arissari, & jackie]