NO EXCUSES - Best Motivational Video 2017

We have control of our minute, our hour

our day. our week, our month and our year.

Stop running around being on the

receiving end of whatever people want to

dump on you. You showed up you accepted

that invite you invited these people to

your house you're in a relationship with

that man you're in a relationship with

that woman. That's you so how do you feel

at the end of your night? How easy and

how convenient is it for us to blame

everything and everybody for the things

that we have going on in our lives. There

is a such thing as you being a positive

and a great person with the best of

intentions towards everybody and shit is

rough and you just can't get a break but

most of you most of you are waking up

every day looking for pain, dysfunction

drama, unemployment, being broke

struggling, dropping every excuse in the

book about your childhood and the

problems and dysfunction that you grew

up in that's stopping you from becoming

successful. You don't like your friends

so why are you still with them? You don't trust

your managers agents and lawyers so why

are they still there? Do you really expect

your life and career to be any different

from messing with the same things people

and situations. That's all I'm saying. Are

the things that you're doing the people

that you're hanging out with and the

places and the circles that you're

traveling in does that reflect a person

that actually loves themself? If you

love yourself why would you fuck with

those type of people? You know what

they're saying about you behind your

back you know they're jealous and

envious of who you are and the things that

you got going on in your life, in your

career. You know that they don't like you

and they've made it clear they've sent you

every sign imaginable that they could

possibly send

you and because you're so desperate to

have people around you and in your life

you continue to go back you continue to

show up to everything they invite you to

knowing what they're saying about you

I'm not preaching separatism. I don't want a

bunch of people to just be alone at home

doing nothing with no friends no family

and nothing to do I'm saying that at

this point you are old enough and mature

enough to understand the difference in

good people and bad people and when

you're hanging out with negative dark

and dysfunctional people you cannot

expect yourself to go to sleep at night

and rest you cannot expect yourself to

feel good about your day when you're

including negative and dysfunctional

people in your day.

Stop being a lazy bum ass person that's

full of excuses sitting around on the

pity party coming up with every excuse

in the world as to why you ain't winning.

You are the reason you're not winning

you keep messing with negative evil and

dysfunctional people and expecting

positive results it's time you get off

the pity party stop complaining about

being out of shape when you never go to

the gym stop looking at your stomach

when you get out of the shower and your

body and complaining about the way you

look when you're eating everything in

sight and never going to the gym. You are

the reason you look the way you look

you're the reason you're unemployed

you're the reason why your surroundings

are so dysfunctional and negative you can

still be in the hood broke and fucked up

and living a peaceful life. It's a choice

we are being raised in a generation of

people that come up with every excuse in

the book as to why they are not winning

you have every excuse in the reason the

book why you're not spending time with

your kids. Fathers, i'm talking to you

because you're able to create a child

doesn't mean that you're a father it

doesn't mean that you understand the

concept of fatherhood it's time to stop

coming up with excuses why five six

seven months and even years have went by

without you seeing your child it's wrong

and it's only the kids that are

suffering in the end I got drama I got

issues my shit is public knowledge I'm

doing any means necessary to spend time

with my little girl. Period. Say whatever

you want to say say whatever you want to

say and you can read whatever you want

to read I am, fully committed

to spending time with my little one. Period.

Excuses sound best to the people that's

making them up you got every excuse in

the world that's why your shit ain't

moving. That's why nothing changed and

nothing will change because you have

convinced yourself that everything is

wrong everything is negative and

nothing will change and guess what it

won't change. Change your mind and it

will change your life change if nothing

around you changes change the things

that are around you. I'm tired of it I'm

frustrated with the amount of people

that are not successful because they

have thought their way into a depression

you have thought your way into

negativity and misery you have thought

your way into holding on to a dude or a

girl that you broke up with a year or

two ago and you're still sad and

miserable and they've moved on with their life.

It's all in the mind change your mind

and it will change your life you just

have to you just have to wake up you

just have to break that negative spirit

you have to break through all of that

shit that your in care of. I don't want to

I don't feel sorry for you

you feel sorry for yourself that's the

problem even when positive people are

trying to give you all this good energy

you have tricked your mind to turn every

positive thing that they say into something

negative every time they say anything to

try and motivate you and inspire you you

you turn every negative thought and

every you turn every positive thought

every positive intention everything that

they trying to to boost your spirits up

you flip it shake it manipulate it and

you if you are so determined to be

negative and miserable it's unbelievable.

So what you grew up with them? So what they're

childhood friends? So what they're family?

We have a responsibility to walk in the

direction of peace I want to laugh I

want to smile, I wanna enjoy myself. I

actually want to feel good about the

people that are around me because you're

inviting me doesn't mean I want to show

up because you're calling me doesn't

mean I'm going to call you back because

you want me to be there doesn't mean

that I want to be there because we're

family because we're friends because we

grew up together doesn't mean that I

want to be a part of any and everything

that you want me to be a part of. Why?

Because my experience with you hasn't

necessarily made me feel good about my

life or my experience at the end of

every night because you go to sleep at

night doesn't mean you're resting. Because you

close your eyes at night and you are

asleep physically doesn't mean that you're

actually resting and the reason that you

don't rest is because while you're awake

everything and everybody thats in and around

your life is so full of issues problems insecurities

dysfunction negativity your mind

is and your spirit is in turmoil. Issues

problems arguments yelling screams

dysfunction I want you to stop playing

the victim you are not the victim you

decided that those are your friends you

decided that those are the people that

you want to spend time with you decided

this is what you wanted to do with your

day when you get invited to places

doesn't mean you have to show up no one

wants to be alone but why spend the rest of

your life being miserable frustrated and

insecure? Not really feeling as good as

you have a responsibility to feel

feeling good isn't just an opportunity

feeling good is a responsibility that we

all have for ourselves and guess what I

actually don't care what you say about

me I don't remember the last time I lost

sleep over a hater and the things that

people are running around saying blogs

websites conversations tweets and I don't

lose sleep over haters. Why? Because

I know exactly how I feel about me and

even if something appears to be very

different than what it really is I don't

even mind that you're talking shit about

the things that you're assuming that's

really going on

the question is are you just going to

look at this video and decide wow that

was some powerful shit and do the same thing?

But it's a new day... it's a new day.