0:00:03.799,0:00:08.040 We have control of our minute, our hour 0:00:08.040,0:00:13.250 our day. our week, our month and our year. 0:00:13.250,0:00:16.230 Stop running around being on the 0:00:16.230,0:00:18.840 receiving end of whatever people want to 0:00:18.840,0:00:22.170 dump on you. You showed up you accepted 0:00:22.170,0:00:24.449 that invite you invited these people to 0:00:24.449,0:00:26.310 your house you're in a relationship with 0:00:26.310,0:00:28.320 that man you're in a relationship with 0:00:28.320,0:00:32.250 that woman. That's you so how do you feel 0:00:32.250,0:00:34.800 at the end of your night? How easy and 0:00:34.800,0:00:37.620 how convenient is it for us to blame 0:00:37.620,0:00:40.590 everything and everybody for the things 0:00:40.590,0:00:44.250 that we have going on in our lives. There 0:00:44.250,0:00:47.489 is a such thing as you being a positive 0:00:47.489,0:00:49.920 and a great person with the best of 0:00:49.920,0:00:52.739 intentions towards everybody and shit is 0:00:52.739,0:00:55.559 rough and you just can't get a break but 0:00:55.559,0:00:59.789 most of you most of you are waking up 0:00:59.789,0:01:03.120 every day looking for pain, dysfunction 0:01:03.120,0:01:05.790 drama, unemployment, being broke 0:01:05.790,0:01:08.760 struggling, dropping every excuse in the 0:01:08.760,0:01:10.500 book about your childhood and the 0:01:10.500,0:01:12.330 problems and dysfunction that you grew 0:01:12.330,0:01:14.610 up in that's stopping you from becoming 0:01:14.610,0:01:17.460 successful. You don't like your friends 0:01:17.460,0:01:19.950 so why are you still with them? You don't trust 0:01:19.950,0:01:22.619 your managers agents and lawyers so why 0:01:22.619,0:01:24.390 are they still there? Do you really expect 0:01:24.390,0:01:27.119 your life and career to be any different 0:01:27.119,0:01:30.570 from messing with the same things people 0:01:30.570,0:01:35.970 and situations. That's all I'm saying. Are 0:01:35.970,0:01:38.130 the things that you're doing the people 0:01:38.130,0:01:39.509 that you're hanging out with and the 0:01:39.509,0:01:41.040 places and the circles that you're 0:01:41.040,0:01:44.340 traveling in does that reflect a person 0:01:44.340,0:01:47.159 that actually loves themself? If you 0:01:47.159,0:01:49.140 love yourself why would you fuck with 0:01:49.140,0:01:51.780 those type of people? You know what 0:01:51.780,0:01:53.130 they're saying about you behind your 0:01:53.130,0:01:54.960 back you know they're jealous and 0:01:54.960,0:01:56.729 envious of who you are and the things that 0:01:56.729,0:01:58.259 you got going on in your life, in your 0:01:58.259,0:02:01.369 career. You know that they don't like you 0:02:01.369,0:02:04.680 and they've made it clear they've sent you 0:02:04.680,0:02:07.740 every sign imaginable that they could 0:02:07.740,0:02:08.910 possibly send 0:02:08.910,0:02:11.670 you and because you're so desperate to 0:02:11.670,0:02:14.370 have people around you and in your life 0:02:14.370,0:02:18.360 you continue to go back you continue to 0:02:18.360,0:02:20.640 show up to everything they invite you to 0:02:20.640,0:02:25.040 knowing what they're saying about you 0:02:25.700,0:02:29.250 I'm not preaching separatism. I don't want a 0:02:29.250,0:02:31.860 bunch of people to just be alone at home 0:02:31.860,0:02:33.600 doing nothing with no friends no family 0:02:33.600,0:02:37.290 and nothing to do I'm saying that at 0:02:37.290,0:02:39.450 this point you are old enough and mature 0:02:39.450,0:02:41.970 enough to understand the difference in 0:02:41.970,0:02:44.010 good people and bad people and when 0:02:44.010,0:02:46.110 you're hanging out with negative dark 0:02:46.110,0:02:48.630 and dysfunctional people you cannot 0:02:48.630,0:02:50.400 expect yourself to go to sleep at night 0:02:50.400,0:02:53.520 and rest you cannot expect yourself to 0:02:53.520,0:02:56.550 feel good about your day when you're 0:02:56.550,0:02:58.620 including negative and dysfunctional 0:02:58.620,0:03:01.640 people in your day. 0:03:04.250,0:03:08.720 Stop being a lazy bum ass person that's 0:03:08.720,0:03:11.960 full of excuses sitting around on the 0:03:11.960,0:03:14.570 pity party coming up with every excuse 0:03:14.570,0:03:16.780 in the world as to why you ain't winning. 0:03:16.780,0:03:19.840 You are the reason you're not winning 0:03:19.840,0:03:24.290 you keep messing with negative evil and 0:03:24.290,0:03:26.600 dysfunctional people and expecting 0:03:26.600,0:03:29.750 positive results it's time you get off 0:03:29.750,0:03:32.450 the pity party stop complaining about 0:03:32.450,0:03:34.760 being out of shape when you never go to 0:03:34.760,0:03:37.100 the gym stop looking at your stomach 0:03:37.100,0:03:39.200 when you get out of the shower and your 0:03:39.200,0:03:41.390 body and complaining about the way you 0:03:41.390,0:03:43.280 look when you're eating everything in 0:03:43.280,0:03:46.790 sight and never going to the gym. You are 0:03:46.790,0:03:48.620 the reason you look the way you look 0:03:48.620,0:03:50.480 you're the reason you're unemployed 0:03:50.480,0:03:52.910 you're the reason why your surroundings 0:03:52.910,0:03:55.700 are so dysfunctional and negative you can 0:03:55.700,0:03:58.550 still be in the hood broke and fucked up 0:03:58.550,0:04:03.430 and living a peaceful life. It's a choice 0:04:05.350,0:04:08.870 we are being raised in a generation of 0:04:08.870,0:04:11.630 people that come up with every excuse in 0:04:11.630,0:04:14.720 the book as to why they are not winning 0:04:14.720,0:04:17.510 you have every excuse in the reason the 0:04:17.510,0:04:19.790 book why you're not spending time with 0:04:19.790,0:04:23.950 your kids. Fathers, i'm talking to you 0:04:23.950,0:04:26.330 because you're able to create a child 0:04:26.330,0:04:28.910 doesn't mean that you're a father it 0:04:28.910,0:04:30.440 doesn't mean that you understand the 0:04:30.440,0:04:34.190 concept of fatherhood it's time to stop 0:04:34.190,0:04:37.130 coming up with excuses why five six 0:04:37.130,0:04:39.890 seven months and even years have went by 0:04:39.890,0:04:42.680 without you seeing your child it's wrong 0:04:42.680,0:04:44.330 and it's only the kids that are 0:04:44.330,0:04:47.360 suffering in the end I got drama I got 0:04:47.360,0:04:49.820 issues my shit is public knowledge I'm 0:04:49.820,0:04:52.970 doing any means necessary to spend time 0:04:52.970,0:04:57.050 with my little girl. Period. Say whatever 0:04:57.050,0:04:59.660 you want to say say whatever you want to 0:04:59.660,0:05:01.729 say and you can read whatever you want 0:05:01.729,0:05:05.790 to read I am, fully committed 0:05:05.790,0:05:10.820 to spending time with my little one. Period. 0:05:10.820,0:05:13.290 Excuses sound best to the people that's 0:05:13.290,0:05:16.470 making them up you got every excuse in 0:05:16.470,0:05:19.830 the world that's why your shit ain't 0:05:19.830,0:05:22.350 moving. That's why nothing changed and 0:05:22.350,0:05:25.290 nothing will change because you have 0:05:25.290,0:05:28.290 convinced yourself that everything is 0:05:28.290,0:05:30.600 wrong everything is negative and 0:05:30.600,0:05:32.940 nothing will change and guess what it 0:05:32.940,0:05:36.510 won't change. Change your mind and it 0:05:36.510,0:05:40.050 will change your life change if nothing 0:05:40.050,0:05:42.930 around you changes change the things 0:05:42.930,0:05:48.260 that are around you. I'm tired of it I'm 0:05:48.260,0:05:50.730 frustrated with the amount of people 0:05:50.730,0:05:53.280 that are not successful because they 0:05:53.280,0:05:55.590 have thought their way into a depression 0:05:55.590,0:05:57.540 you have thought your way into 0:05:57.540,0:06:00.060 negativity and misery you have thought 0:06:00.060,0:06:03.510 your way into holding on to a dude or a 0:06:03.510,0:06:05.670 girl that you broke up with a year or 0:06:05.670,0:06:07.380 two ago and you're still sad and 0:06:07.380,0:06:09.560 miserable and they've moved on with their life. 0:06:09.560,0:06:14.910 It's all in the mind change your mind 0:06:14.910,0:06:17.820 and it will change your life you just 0:06:17.820,0:06:21.180 have to you just have to wake up you 0:06:21.180,0:06:24.180 just have to break that negative spirit 0:06:24.180,0:06:27.180 you have to break through all of that 0:06:27.180,0:06:30.060 shit that your in care of. I don't want to 0:06:30.060,0:06:32.230 I don't feel sorry for you 0:06:32.230,0:06:35.230 you feel sorry for yourself that's the 0:06:35.230,0:06:38.350 problem even when positive people are 0:06:38.350,0:06:39.880 trying to give you all this good energy 0:06:39.880,0:06:43.810 you have tricked your mind to turn every 0:06:43.810,0:06:46.480 positive thing that they say into something 0:06:46.480,0:06:49.300 negative every time they say anything to 0:06:49.300,0:06:52.000 try and motivate you and inspire you you 0:06:52.000,0:06:54.520 you turn every negative thought and 0:06:54.520,0:06:57.430 every you turn every positive thought 0:06:57.430,0:07:00.400 every positive intention everything that 0:07:00.400,0:07:02.920 they trying to to boost your spirits up 0:07:02.920,0:07:07.570 you flip it shake it manipulate it and 0:07:07.570,0:07:10.870 you if you are so determined to be 0:07:10.870,0:07:15.420 negative and miserable it's unbelievable. 0:07:16.710,0:07:21.310 So what you grew up with them? So what they're 0:07:21.310,0:07:25.050 childhood friends? So what they're family? 0:07:25.050,0:07:28.210 We have a responsibility to walk in the 0:07:28.210,0:07:31.480 direction of peace I want to laugh I 0:07:31.480,0:07:34.920 want to smile, I wanna enjoy myself. I 0:07:34.920,0:07:38.740 actually want to feel good about the 0:07:38.740,0:07:41.620 people that are around me because you're 0:07:41.620,0:07:43.450 inviting me doesn't mean I want to show 0:07:43.450,0:07:45.040 up because you're calling me doesn't 0:07:45.040,0:07:47.320 mean I'm going to call you back because 0:07:47.320,0:07:49.240 you want me to be there doesn't mean 0:07:49.240,0:07:51.550 that I want to be there because we're 0:07:51.550,0:07:53.890 family because we're friends because we 0:07:53.890,0:07:55.450 grew up together doesn't mean that I 0:07:55.450,0:07:57.010 want to be a part of any and everything 0:07:57.010,0:07:59.640 that you want me to be a part of. Why? 0:07:59.640,0:08:04.120 Because my experience with you hasn't 0:08:04.120,0:08:06.520 necessarily made me feel good about my 0:08:06.520,0:08:08.620 life or my experience at the end of 0:08:08.620,0:08:12.340 every night because you go to sleep at 0:08:12.340,0:08:17.979 night doesn't mean you're resting. Because you 0:08:17.979,0:08:20.440 close your eyes at night and you are 0:08:20.440,0:08:22.750 asleep physically doesn't mean that you're 0:08:22.750,0:08:26.020 actually resting and the reason that you 0:08:26.020,0:08:28.110 don't rest is because while you're awake 0:08:28.110,0:08:31.360 everything and everybody thats in and around 0:08:31.360,0:08:35.500 your life is so full of issues problems insecurities 0:08:35.500,0:08:40.510 dysfunction negativity your mind 0:08:40.510,0:08:45.100 is and your spirit is in turmoil. Issues 0:08:45.100,0:08:48.430 problems arguments yelling screams 0:08:48.430,0:08:51.430 dysfunction I want you to stop playing 0:08:51.430,0:08:56.860 the victim you are not the victim you 0:08:56.860,0:09:01.600 decided that those are your friends you 0:09:01.600,0:09:03.400 decided that those are the people that 0:09:03.400,0:09:06.010 you want to spend time with you decided 0:09:06.010,0:09:08.350 this is what you wanted to do with your 0:09:08.350,0:09:11.040 day when you get invited to places 0:09:11.040,0:09:15.100 doesn't mean you have to show up no one 0:09:15.100,0:09:17.980 wants to be alone but why spend the rest of 0:09:17.980,0:09:20.880 your life being miserable frustrated and 0:09:20.880,0:09:24.880 insecure? Not really feeling as good as 0:09:24.880,0:09:28.650 you have a responsibility to feel 0:09:28.650,0:09:31.690 feeling good isn't just an opportunity 0:09:31.690,0:09:35.290 feeling good is a responsibility that we 0:09:35.290,0:09:38.589 all have for ourselves and guess what I 0:09:38.589,0:09:40.209 actually don't care what you say about 0:09:40.209,0:09:42.910 me I don't remember the last time I lost 0:09:42.910,0:09:44.740 sleep over a hater and the things that 0:09:44.740,0:09:46.420 people are running around saying blogs 0:09:46.420,0:09:50.589 websites conversations tweets and I don't 0:09:50.589,0:09:52.270 lose sleep over haters. Why? Because 0:09:52.270,0:09:54.750 I know exactly how I feel about me and 0:09:54.750,0:09:57.640 even if something appears to be very 0:09:57.640,0:09:59.830 different than what it really is I don't 0:09:59.830,0:10:01.390 even mind that you're talking shit about 0:10:01.390,0:10:03.580 the things that you're assuming that's 0:10:03.580,0:10:06.240 really going on 0:10:07.080,0:10:09.730 the question is are you just going to 0:10:09.730,0:10:12.940 look at this video and decide wow that 0:10:12.940,0:10:17.340 was some powerful shit and do the same thing? 0:10:17.340,0:10:23.850 But it's a new day... it's a new day.