1 00:00:03,799 --> 00:00:08,040 We have control of our minute, our hour 2 00:00:08,040 --> 00:00:13,250 our day. our week, our month and our year. 3 00:00:13,250 --> 00:00:16,230 Stop running around being on the 4 00:00:16,230 --> 00:00:18,840 receiving end of whatever people want to 5 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:22,170 dump on you. You showed up you accepted 6 00:00:22,170 --> 00:00:24,449 that invite you invited these people to 7 00:00:24,449 --> 00:00:26,310 your house you're in a relationship with 8 00:00:26,310 --> 00:00:28,320 that man you're in a relationship with 9 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:32,250 that woman. That's you so how do you feel 10 00:00:32,250 --> 00:00:34,800 at the end of your night? How easy and 11 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,620 how convenient is it for us to blame 12 00:00:37,620 --> 00:00:40,590 everything and everybody for the things 13 00:00:40,590 --> 00:00:44,250 that we have going on in our lives. There 14 00:00:44,250 --> 00:00:47,489 is a such thing as you being a positive 15 00:00:47,489 --> 00:00:49,920 and a great person with the best of 16 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,739 intentions towards everybody and shit is 17 00:00:52,739 --> 00:00:55,559 rough and you just can't get a break but 18 00:00:55,559 --> 00:00:59,789 most of you most of you are waking up 19 00:00:59,789 --> 00:01:03,120 every day looking for pain, dysfunction 20 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,790 drama, unemployment, being broke 21 00:01:05,790 --> 00:01:08,760 struggling, dropping every excuse in the 22 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:10,500 book about your childhood and the 23 00:01:10,500 --> 00:01:12,330 problems and dysfunction that you grew 24 00:01:12,330 --> 00:01:14,610 up in that's stopping you from becoming 25 00:01:14,610 --> 00:01:17,460 successful. You don't like your friends 26 00:01:17,460 --> 00:01:19,950 so why are you still with them? You don't trust 27 00:01:19,950 --> 00:01:22,619 your managers agents and lawyers so why 28 00:01:22,619 --> 00:01:24,390 are they still there? Do you really expect 29 00:01:24,390 --> 00:01:27,119 your life and career to be any different 30 00:01:27,119 --> 00:01:30,570 from messing with the same things people 31 00:01:30,570 --> 00:01:35,970 and situations. That's all I'm saying. Are 32 00:01:35,970 --> 00:01:38,130 the things that you're doing the people 33 00:01:38,130 --> 00:01:39,509 that you're hanging out with and the 34 00:01:39,509 --> 00:01:41,040 places and the circles that you're 35 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:44,340 traveling in does that reflect a person 36 00:01:44,340 --> 00:01:47,159 that actually loves themself? If you 37 00:01:47,159 --> 00:01:49,140 love yourself why would you fuck with 38 00:01:49,140 --> 00:01:51,780 those type of people? You know what 39 00:01:51,780 --> 00:01:53,130 they're saying about you behind your 40 00:01:53,130 --> 00:01:54,960 back you know they're jealous and 41 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:56,729 envious of who you are and the things that 42 00:01:56,729 --> 00:01:58,259 you got going on in your life, in your 43 00:01:58,259 --> 00:02:01,369 career. You know that they don't like you 44 00:02:01,369 --> 00:02:04,680 and they've made it clear they've sent you 45 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,740 every sign imaginable that they could 46 00:02:07,740 --> 00:02:08,910 possibly send 47 00:02:08,910 --> 00:02:11,670 you and because you're so desperate to 48 00:02:11,670 --> 00:02:14,370 have people around you and in your life 49 00:02:14,370 --> 00:02:18,360 you continue to go back you continue to 50 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,640 show up to everything they invite you to 51 00:02:20,640 --> 00:02:25,040 knowing what they're saying about you 52 00:02:25,700 --> 00:02:29,250 I'm not preaching separatism. I don't want a 53 00:02:29,250 --> 00:02:31,860 bunch of people to just be alone at home 54 00:02:31,860 --> 00:02:33,600 doing nothing with no friends no family 55 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:37,290 and nothing to do I'm saying that at 56 00:02:37,290 --> 00:02:39,450 this point you are old enough and mature 57 00:02:39,450 --> 00:02:41,970 enough to understand the difference in 58 00:02:41,970 --> 00:02:44,010 good people and bad people and when 59 00:02:44,010 --> 00:02:46,110 you're hanging out with negative dark 60 00:02:46,110 --> 00:02:48,630 and dysfunctional people you cannot 61 00:02:48,630 --> 00:02:50,400 expect yourself to go to sleep at night 62 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,520 and rest you cannot expect yourself to 63 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,550 feel good about your day when you're 64 00:02:56,550 --> 00:02:58,620 including negative and dysfunctional 65 00:02:58,620 --> 00:03:01,640 people in your day. 66 00:03:04,250 --> 00:03:08,720 Stop being a lazy bum ass person that's 67 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,960 full of excuses sitting around on the 68 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,570 pity party coming up with every excuse 69 00:03:14,570 --> 00:03:16,780 in the world as to why you ain't winning. 70 00:03:16,780 --> 00:03:19,840 You are the reason you're not winning 71 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:24,290 you keep messing with negative evil and 72 00:03:24,290 --> 00:03:26,600 dysfunctional people and expecting 73 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,750 positive results it's time you get off 74 00:03:29,750 --> 00:03:32,450 the pity party stop complaining about 75 00:03:32,450 --> 00:03:34,760 being out of shape when you never go to 76 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,100 the gym stop looking at your stomach 77 00:03:37,100 --> 00:03:39,200 when you get out of the shower and your 78 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,390 body and complaining about the way you 79 00:03:41,390 --> 00:03:43,280 look when you're eating everything in 80 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:46,790 sight and never going to the gym. You are 81 00:03:46,790 --> 00:03:48,620 the reason you look the way you look 82 00:03:48,620 --> 00:03:50,480 you're the reason you're unemployed 83 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,910 you're the reason why your surroundings 84 00:03:52,910 --> 00:03:55,700 are so dysfunctional and negative you can 85 00:03:55,700 --> 00:03:58,550 still be in the hood broke and fucked up 86 00:03:58,550 --> 00:04:03,430 and living a peaceful life. It's a choice 87 00:04:05,350 --> 00:04:08,870 we are being raised in a generation of 88 00:04:08,870 --> 00:04:11,630 people that come up with every excuse in 89 00:04:11,630 --> 00:04:14,720 the book as to why they are not winning 90 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,510 you have every excuse in the reason the 91 00:04:17,510 --> 00:04:19,790 book why you're not spending time with 92 00:04:19,790 --> 00:04:23,950 your kids. Fathers, i'm talking to you 93 00:04:23,950 --> 00:04:26,330 because you're able to create a child 94 00:04:26,330 --> 00:04:28,910 doesn't mean that you're a father it 95 00:04:28,910 --> 00:04:30,440 doesn't mean that you understand the 96 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:34,190 concept of fatherhood it's time to stop 97 00:04:34,190 --> 00:04:37,130 coming up with excuses why five six 98 00:04:37,130 --> 00:04:39,890 seven months and even years have went by 99 00:04:39,890 --> 00:04:42,680 without you seeing your child it's wrong 100 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,330 and it's only the kids that are 101 00:04:44,330 --> 00:04:47,360 suffering in the end I got drama I got 102 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,820 issues my shit is public knowledge I'm 103 00:04:49,820 --> 00:04:52,970 doing any means necessary to spend time 104 00:04:52,970 --> 00:04:57,050 with my little girl. Period. Say whatever 105 00:04:57,050 --> 00:04:59,660 you want to say say whatever you want to 106 00:04:59,660 --> 00:05:01,729 say and you can read whatever you want 107 00:05:01,729 --> 00:05:05,790 to read I am, fully committed 108 00:05:05,790 --> 00:05:10,820 to spending time with my little one. Period. 109 00:05:10,820 --> 00:05:13,290 Excuses sound best to the people that's 110 00:05:13,290 --> 00:05:16,470 making them up you got every excuse in 111 00:05:16,470 --> 00:05:19,830 the world that's why your shit ain't 112 00:05:19,830 --> 00:05:22,350 moving. That's why nothing changed and 113 00:05:22,350 --> 00:05:25,290 nothing will change because you have 114 00:05:25,290 --> 00:05:28,290 convinced yourself that everything is 115 00:05:28,290 --> 00:05:30,600 wrong everything is negative and 116 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,940 nothing will change and guess what it 117 00:05:32,940 --> 00:05:36,510 won't change. Change your mind and it 118 00:05:36,510 --> 00:05:40,050 will change your life change if nothing 119 00:05:40,050 --> 00:05:42,930 around you changes change the things 120 00:05:42,930 --> 00:05:48,260 that are around you. I'm tired of it I'm 121 00:05:48,260 --> 00:05:50,730 frustrated with the amount of people 122 00:05:50,730 --> 00:05:53,280 that are not successful because they 123 00:05:53,280 --> 00:05:55,590 have thought their way into a depression 124 00:05:55,590 --> 00:05:57,540 you have thought your way into 125 00:05:57,540 --> 00:06:00,060 negativity and misery you have thought 126 00:06:00,060 --> 00:06:03,510 your way into holding on to a dude or a 127 00:06:03,510 --> 00:06:05,670 girl that you broke up with a year or 128 00:06:05,670 --> 00:06:07,380 two ago and you're still sad and 129 00:06:07,380 --> 00:06:09,560 miserable and they've moved on with their life. 130 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:14,910 It's all in the mind change your mind 131 00:06:14,910 --> 00:06:17,820 and it will change your life you just 132 00:06:17,820 --> 00:06:21,180 have to you just have to wake up you 133 00:06:21,180 --> 00:06:24,180 just have to break that negative spirit 134 00:06:24,180 --> 00:06:27,180 you have to break through all of that 135 00:06:27,180 --> 00:06:30,060 shit that your in care of. I don't want to 136 00:06:30,060 --> 00:06:32,230 I don't feel sorry for you 137 00:06:32,230 --> 00:06:35,230 you feel sorry for yourself that's the 138 00:06:35,230 --> 00:06:38,350 problem even when positive people are 139 00:06:38,350 --> 00:06:39,880 trying to give you all this good energy 140 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:43,810 you have tricked your mind to turn every 141 00:06:43,810 --> 00:06:46,480 positive thing that they say into something 142 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:49,300 negative every time they say anything to 143 00:06:49,300 --> 00:06:52,000 try and motivate you and inspire you you 144 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,520 you turn every negative thought and 145 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,430 every you turn every positive thought 146 00:06:57,430 --> 00:07:00,400 every positive intention everything that 147 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,920 they trying to to boost your spirits up 148 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:07,570 you flip it shake it manipulate it and 149 00:07:07,570 --> 00:07:10,870 you if you are so determined to be 150 00:07:10,870 --> 00:07:15,420 negative and miserable it's unbelievable. 151 00:07:16,710 --> 00:07:21,310 So what you grew up with them? So what they're 152 00:07:21,310 --> 00:07:25,050 childhood friends? So what they're family? 153 00:07:25,050 --> 00:07:28,210 We have a responsibility to walk in the 154 00:07:28,210 --> 00:07:31,480 direction of peace I want to laugh I 155 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,920 want to smile, I wanna enjoy myself. I 156 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:38,740 actually want to feel good about the 157 00:07:38,740 --> 00:07:41,620 people that are around me because you're 158 00:07:41,620 --> 00:07:43,450 inviting me doesn't mean I want to show 159 00:07:43,450 --> 00:07:45,040 up because you're calling me doesn't 160 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,320 mean I'm going to call you back because 161 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,240 you want me to be there doesn't mean 162 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,550 that I want to be there because we're 163 00:07:51,550 --> 00:07:53,890 family because we're friends because we 164 00:07:53,890 --> 00:07:55,450 grew up together doesn't mean that I 165 00:07:55,450 --> 00:07:57,010 want to be a part of any and everything 166 00:07:57,010 --> 00:07:59,640 that you want me to be a part of. Why? 167 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:04,120 Because my experience with you hasn't 168 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,520 necessarily made me feel good about my 169 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,620 life or my experience at the end of 170 00:08:08,620 --> 00:08:12,340 every night because you go to sleep at 171 00:08:12,340 --> 00:08:17,979 night doesn't mean you're resting. Because you 172 00:08:17,979 --> 00:08:20,440 close your eyes at night and you are 173 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,750 asleep physically doesn't mean that you're 174 00:08:22,750 --> 00:08:26,020 actually resting and the reason that you 175 00:08:26,020 --> 00:08:28,110 don't rest is because while you're awake 176 00:08:28,110 --> 00:08:31,360 everything and everybody thats in and around 177 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:35,500 your life is so full of issues problems insecurities 178 00:08:35,500 --> 00:08:40,510 dysfunction negativity your mind 179 00:08:40,510 --> 00:08:45,100 is and your spirit is in turmoil. Issues 180 00:08:45,100 --> 00:08:48,430 problems arguments yelling screams 181 00:08:48,430 --> 00:08:51,430 dysfunction I want you to stop playing 182 00:08:51,430 --> 00:08:56,860 the victim you are not the victim you 183 00:08:56,860 --> 00:09:01,600 decided that those are your friends you 184 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:03,400 decided that those are the people that 185 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,010 you want to spend time with you decided 186 00:09:06,010 --> 00:09:08,350 this is what you wanted to do with your 187 00:09:08,350 --> 00:09:11,040 day when you get invited to places 188 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:15,100 doesn't mean you have to show up no one 189 00:09:15,100 --> 00:09:17,980 wants to be alone but why spend the rest of 190 00:09:17,980 --> 00:09:20,880 your life being miserable frustrated and 191 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:24,880 insecure? Not really feeling as good as 192 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,650 you have a responsibility to feel 193 00:09:28,650 --> 00:09:31,690 feeling good isn't just an opportunity 194 00:09:31,690 --> 00:09:35,290 feeling good is a responsibility that we 195 00:09:35,290 --> 00:09:38,589 all have for ourselves and guess what I 196 00:09:38,589 --> 00:09:40,209 actually don't care what you say about 197 00:09:40,209 --> 00:09:42,910 me I don't remember the last time I lost 198 00:09:42,910 --> 00:09:44,740 sleep over a hater and the things that 199 00:09:44,740 --> 00:09:46,420 people are running around saying blogs 200 00:09:46,420 --> 00:09:50,589 websites conversations tweets and I don't 201 00:09:50,589 --> 00:09:52,270 lose sleep over haters. Why? Because 202 00:09:52,270 --> 00:09:54,750 I know exactly how I feel about me and 203 00:09:54,750 --> 00:09:57,640 even if something appears to be very 204 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,830 different than what it really is I don't 205 00:09:59,830 --> 00:10:01,390 even mind that you're talking shit about 206 00:10:01,390 --> 00:10:03,580 the things that you're assuming that's 207 00:10:03,580 --> 00:10:06,240 really going on 208 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,730 the question is are you just going to 209 00:10:09,730 --> 00:10:12,940 look at this video and decide wow that 210 00:10:12,940 --> 00:10:17,340 was some powerful shit and do the same thing? 211 00:10:17,340 --> 00:10:23,850 But it's a new day... it's a new day.