WEBVTT 00:00:03.799 --> 00:00:08.040 We have control of our minute, our hour 00:00:08.040 --> 00:00:13.250 our day. our week, our month and our year. 00:00:13.250 --> 00:00:16.230 Stop running around being on the 00:00:16.230 --> 00:00:18.840 receiving end of whatever people want to 00:00:18.840 --> 00:00:22.170 dump on you. You showed up you accepted 00:00:22.170 --> 00:00:24.449 that invite you invited these people to 00:00:24.449 --> 00:00:26.310 your house you're in a relationship with 00:00:26.310 --> 00:00:28.320 that man you're in a relationship with 00:00:28.320 --> 00:00:32.250 that woman. That's you so how do you feel 00:00:32.250 --> 00:00:34.800 at the end of your night? How easy and 00:00:34.800 --> 00:00:37.620 how convenient is it for us to blame 00:00:37.620 --> 00:00:40.590 everything and everybody for the things 00:00:40.590 --> 00:00:44.250 that we have going on in our lives. There 00:00:44.250 --> 00:00:47.489 is a such thing as you being a positive 00:00:47.489 --> 00:00:49.920 and a great person with the best of 00:00:49.920 --> 00:00:52.739 intentions towards everybody and shit is 00:00:52.739 --> 00:00:55.559 rough and you just can't get a break but 00:00:55.559 --> 00:00:59.789 most of you most of you are waking up 00:00:59.789 --> 00:01:03.120 every day looking for pain, dysfunction 00:01:03.120 --> 00:01:05.790 drama, unemployment, being broke 00:01:05.790 --> 00:01:08.760 struggling, dropping every excuse in the 00:01:08.760 --> 00:01:10.500 book about your childhood and the 00:01:10.500 --> 00:01:12.330 problems and dysfunction that you grew 00:01:12.330 --> 00:01:14.610 up in that's stopping you from becoming 00:01:14.610 --> 00:01:17.460 successful. You don't like your friends 00:01:17.460 --> 00:01:19.950 so why are you still with them? You don't trust 00:01:19.950 --> 00:01:22.619 your managers agents and lawyers so why 00:01:22.619 --> 00:01:24.390 are they still there? Do you really expect 00:01:24.390 --> 00:01:27.119 your life and career to be any different 00:01:27.119 --> 00:01:30.570 from messing with the same things people 00:01:30.570 --> 00:01:35.970 and situations. That's all I'm saying. Are 00:01:35.970 --> 00:01:38.130 the things that you're doing the people 00:01:38.130 --> 00:01:39.509 that you're hanging out with and the 00:01:39.509 --> 00:01:41.040 places and the circles that you're 00:01:41.040 --> 00:01:44.340 traveling in does that reflect a person 00:01:44.340 --> 00:01:47.159 that actually loves themself? If you 00:01:47.159 --> 00:01:49.140 love yourself why would you fuck with 00:01:49.140 --> 00:01:51.780 those type of people? You know what 00:01:51.780 --> 00:01:53.130 they're saying about you behind your 00:01:53.130 --> 00:01:54.960 back you know they're jealous and 00:01:54.960 --> 00:01:56.729 envious of who you are and the things that 00:01:56.729 --> 00:01:58.259 you got going on in your life, in your 00:01:58.259 --> 00:02:01.369 career. You know that they don't like you 00:02:01.369 --> 00:02:04.680 and they've made it clear they've sent you 00:02:04.680 --> 00:02:07.740 every sign imaginable that they could 00:02:07.740 --> 00:02:08.910 possibly send 00:02:08.910 --> 00:02:11.670 you and because you're so desperate to 00:02:11.670 --> 00:02:14.370 have people around you and in your life 00:02:14.370 --> 00:02:18.360 you continue to go back you continue to 00:02:18.360 --> 00:02:20.640 show up to everything they invite you to 00:02:20.640 --> 00:02:25.040 knowing what they're saying about you 00:02:25.700 --> 00:02:29.250 I'm not preaching separatism. I don't want a 00:02:29.250 --> 00:02:31.860 bunch of people to just be alone at home 00:02:31.860 --> 00:02:33.600 doing nothing with no friends no family 00:02:33.600 --> 00:02:37.290 and nothing to do I'm saying that at 00:02:37.290 --> 00:02:39.450 this point you are old enough and mature 00:02:39.450 --> 00:02:41.970 enough to understand the difference in 00:02:41.970 --> 00:02:44.010 good people and bad people and when 00:02:44.010 --> 00:02:46.110 you're hanging out with negative dark 00:02:46.110 --> 00:02:48.630 and dysfunctional people you cannot 00:02:48.630 --> 00:02:50.400 expect yourself to go to sleep at night 00:02:50.400 --> 00:02:53.520 and rest you cannot expect yourself to 00:02:53.520 --> 00:02:56.550 feel good about your day when you're 00:02:56.550 --> 00:02:58.620 including negative and dysfunctional 00:02:58.620 --> 00:03:01.640 people in your day. 00:03:04.250 --> 00:03:08.720 Stop being a lazy bum ass person that's 00:03:08.720 --> 00:03:11.960 full of excuses sitting around on the 00:03:11.960 --> 00:03:14.570 pity party coming up with every excuse 00:03:14.570 --> 00:03:16.780 in the world as to why you ain't winning. 00:03:16.780 --> 00:03:19.840 You are the reason you're not winning 00:03:19.840 --> 00:03:24.290 you keep messing with negative evil and 00:03:24.290 --> 00:03:26.600 dysfunctional people and expecting 00:03:26.600 --> 00:03:29.750 positive results it's time you get off 00:03:29.750 --> 00:03:32.450 the pity party stop complaining about 00:03:32.450 --> 00:03:34.760 being out of shape when you never go to 00:03:34.760 --> 00:03:37.100 the gym stop looking at your stomach 00:03:37.100 --> 00:03:39.200 when you get out of the shower and your 00:03:39.200 --> 00:03:41.390 body and complaining about the way you 00:03:41.390 --> 00:03:43.280 look when you're eating everything in 00:03:43.280 --> 00:03:46.790 sight and never going to the gym. You are 00:03:46.790 --> 00:03:48.620 the reason you look the way you look 00:03:48.620 --> 00:03:50.480 you're the reason you're unemployed 00:03:50.480 --> 00:03:52.910 you're the reason why your surroundings 00:03:52.910 --> 00:03:55.700 are so dysfunctional and negative you can 00:03:55.700 --> 00:03:58.550 still be in the hood broke and fucked up 00:03:58.550 --> 00:04:03.430 and living a peaceful life. It's a choice 00:04:05.350 --> 00:04:08.870 we are being raised in a generation of 00:04:08.870 --> 00:04:11.630 people that come up with every excuse in 00:04:11.630 --> 00:04:14.720 the book as to why they are not winning 00:04:14.720 --> 00:04:17.510 you have every excuse in the reason the 00:04:17.510 --> 00:04:19.790 book why you're not spending time with 00:04:19.790 --> 00:04:23.950 your kids. Fathers, i'm talking to you 00:04:23.950 --> 00:04:26.330 because you're able to create a child 00:04:26.330 --> 00:04:28.910 doesn't mean that you're a father it 00:04:28.910 --> 00:04:30.440 doesn't mean that you understand the 00:04:30.440 --> 00:04:34.190 concept of fatherhood it's time to stop 00:04:34.190 --> 00:04:37.130 coming up with excuses why five six 00:04:37.130 --> 00:04:39.890 seven months and even years have went by 00:04:39.890 --> 00:04:42.680 without you seeing your child it's wrong 00:04:42.680 --> 00:04:44.330 and it's only the kids that are 00:04:44.330 --> 00:04:47.360 suffering in the end I got drama I got 00:04:47.360 --> 00:04:49.820 issues my shit is public knowledge I'm 00:04:49.820 --> 00:04:52.970 doing any means necessary to spend time 00:04:52.970 --> 00:04:57.050 with my little girl. Period. Say whatever 00:04:57.050 --> 00:04:59.660 you want to say say whatever you want to 00:04:59.660 --> 00:05:01.729 say and you can read whatever you want 00:05:01.729 --> 00:05:05.790 to read I am, fully committed 00:05:05.790 --> 00:05:10.820 to spending time with my little one. Period. 00:05:10.820 --> 00:05:13.290 Excuses sound best to the people that's 00:05:13.290 --> 00:05:16.470 making them up you got every excuse in 00:05:16.470 --> 00:05:19.830 the world that's why your shit ain't 00:05:19.830 --> 00:05:22.350 moving. That's why nothing changed and 00:05:22.350 --> 00:05:25.290 nothing will change because you have 00:05:25.290 --> 00:05:28.290 convinced yourself that everything is 00:05:28.290 --> 00:05:30.600 wrong everything is negative and 00:05:30.600 --> 00:05:32.940 nothing will change and guess what it 00:05:32.940 --> 00:05:36.510 won't change. Change your mind and it 00:05:36.510 --> 00:05:40.050 will change your life change if nothing 00:05:40.050 --> 00:05:42.930 around you changes change the things 00:05:42.930 --> 00:05:48.260 that are around you. I'm tired of it I'm 00:05:48.260 --> 00:05:50.730 frustrated with the amount of people 00:05:50.730 --> 00:05:53.280 that are not successful because they 00:05:53.280 --> 00:05:55.590 have thought their way into a depression 00:05:55.590 --> 00:05:57.540 you have thought your way into 00:05:57.540 --> 00:06:00.060 negativity and misery you have thought 00:06:00.060 --> 00:06:03.510 your way into holding on to a dude or a 00:06:03.510 --> 00:06:05.670 girl that you broke up with a year or 00:06:05.670 --> 00:06:07.380 two ago and you're still sad and 00:06:07.380 --> 00:06:09.560 miserable and they've moved on with their life. 00:06:09.560 --> 00:06:14.910 It's all in the mind change your mind 00:06:14.910 --> 00:06:17.820 and it will change your life you just 00:06:17.820 --> 00:06:21.180 have to you just have to wake up you 00:06:21.180 --> 00:06:24.180 just have to break that negative spirit 00:06:24.180 --> 00:06:27.180 you have to break through all of that 00:06:27.180 --> 00:06:30.060 shit that your in care of. I don't want to 00:06:30.060 --> 00:06:32.230 I don't feel sorry for you 00:06:32.230 --> 00:06:35.230 you feel sorry for yourself that's the 00:06:35.230 --> 00:06:38.350 problem even when positive people are 00:06:38.350 --> 00:06:39.880 trying to give you all this good energy 00:06:39.880 --> 00:06:43.810 you have tricked your mind to turn every 00:06:43.810 --> 00:06:46.480 positive thing that they say into something 00:06:46.480 --> 00:06:49.300 negative every time they say anything to 00:06:49.300 --> 00:06:52.000 try and motivate you and inspire you you 00:06:52.000 --> 00:06:54.520 you turn every negative thought and 00:06:54.520 --> 00:06:57.430 every you turn every positive thought 00:06:57.430 --> 00:07:00.400 every positive intention everything that 00:07:00.400 --> 00:07:02.920 they trying to to boost your spirits up 00:07:02.920 --> 00:07:07.570 you flip it shake it manipulate it and 00:07:07.570 --> 00:07:10.870 you if you are so determined to be 00:07:10.870 --> 00:07:15.420 negative and miserable it's unbelievable. 00:07:16.710 --> 00:07:21.310 So what you grew up with them? So what they're 00:07:21.310 --> 00:07:25.050 childhood friends? So what they're family? 00:07:25.050 --> 00:07:28.210 We have a responsibility to walk in the 00:07:28.210 --> 00:07:31.480 direction of peace I want to laugh I 00:07:31.480 --> 00:07:34.920 want to smile, I wanna enjoy myself. I 00:07:34.920 --> 00:07:38.740 actually want to feel good about the 00:07:38.740 --> 00:07:41.620 people that are around me because you're 00:07:41.620 --> 00:07:43.450 inviting me doesn't mean I want to show 00:07:43.450 --> 00:07:45.040 up because you're calling me doesn't 00:07:45.040 --> 00:07:47.320 mean I'm going to call you back because 00:07:47.320 --> 00:07:49.240 you want me to be there doesn't mean 00:07:49.240 --> 00:07:51.550 that I want to be there because we're 00:07:51.550 --> 00:07:53.890 family because we're friends because we 00:07:53.890 --> 00:07:55.450 grew up together doesn't mean that I 00:07:55.450 --> 00:07:57.010 want to be a part of any and everything 00:07:57.010 --> 00:07:59.640 that you want me to be a part of. Why? 00:07:59.640 --> 00:08:04.120 Because my experience with you hasn't 00:08:04.120 --> 00:08:06.520 necessarily made me feel good about my 00:08:06.520 --> 00:08:08.620 life or my experience at the end of 00:08:08.620 --> 00:08:12.340 every night because you go to sleep at 00:08:12.340 --> 00:08:17.979 night doesn't mean you're resting. Because you 00:08:17.979 --> 00:08:20.440 close your eyes at night and you are 00:08:20.440 --> 00:08:22.750 asleep physically doesn't mean that you're 00:08:22.750 --> 00:08:26.020 actually resting and the reason that you 00:08:26.020 --> 00:08:28.110 don't rest is because while you're awake 00:08:28.110 --> 00:08:31.360 everything and everybody thats in and around 00:08:31.360 --> 00:08:35.500 your life is so full of issues problems insecurities 00:08:35.500 --> 00:08:40.510 dysfunction negativity your mind 00:08:40.510 --> 00:08:45.100 is and your spirit is in turmoil. Issues 00:08:45.100 --> 00:08:48.430 problems arguments yelling screams 00:08:48.430 --> 00:08:51.430 dysfunction I want you to stop playing 00:08:51.430 --> 00:08:56.860 the victim you are not the victim you 00:08:56.860 --> 00:09:01.600 decided that those are your friends you 00:09:01.600 --> 00:09:03.400 decided that those are the people that 00:09:03.400 --> 00:09:06.010 you want to spend time with you decided 00:09:06.010 --> 00:09:08.350 this is what you wanted to do with your 00:09:08.350 --> 00:09:11.040 day when you get invited to places 00:09:11.040 --> 00:09:15.100 doesn't mean you have to show up no one 00:09:15.100 --> 00:09:17.980 wants to be alone but why spend the rest of 00:09:17.980 --> 00:09:20.880 your life being miserable frustrated and 00:09:20.880 --> 00:09:24.880 insecure? Not really feeling as good as 00:09:24.880 --> 00:09:28.650 you have a responsibility to feel 00:09:28.650 --> 00:09:31.690 feeling good isn't just an opportunity 00:09:31.690 --> 00:09:35.290 feeling good is a responsibility that we 00:09:35.290 --> 00:09:38.589 all have for ourselves and guess what I 00:09:38.589 --> 00:09:40.209 actually don't care what you say about 00:09:40.209 --> 00:09:42.910 me I don't remember the last time I lost 00:09:42.910 --> 00:09:44.740 sleep over a hater and the things that 00:09:44.740 --> 00:09:46.420 people are running around saying blogs 00:09:46.420 --> 00:09:50.589 websites conversations tweets and I don't 00:09:50.589 --> 00:09:52.270 lose sleep over haters. Why? Because 00:09:52.270 --> 00:09:54.750 I know exactly how I feel about me and 00:09:54.750 --> 00:09:57.640 even if something appears to be very 00:09:57.640 --> 00:09:59.830 different than what it really is I don't 00:09:59.830 --> 00:10:01.390 even mind that you're talking shit about 00:10:01.390 --> 00:10:03.580 the things that you're assuming that's 00:10:03.580 --> 00:10:06.240 really going on 00:10:07.080 --> 00:10:09.730 the question is are you just going to 00:10:09.730 --> 00:10:12.940 look at this video and decide wow that 00:10:12.940 --> 00:10:17.340 was some powerful shit and do the same thing? 00:10:17.340 --> 00:10:23.850 But it's a new day... it's a new day.