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it's hard it's hard as hell there's no
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easy answer to this there's no like okay
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well every morning at six o'clock you
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know wake up and meditate for ten
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minutes and tell yourself you're
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beautiful and then go like it's not it
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doesn't work like that it's a constant
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battle and you're gonna have moments of
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complete and total defeat where it's
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just like what am i doing like why do I
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keep trying to do this look don't look
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at my story you don't look at someone
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else's story what's the story you want
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everyone's different you know cuz
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everyone has a different story and I
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think we get locked into like the
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horrific stories it's like really easy
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to say oh wow but that's such a
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triumphant moment that he came out of
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that you know and whatever but there are
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a lot of kids who are struggling in
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freakin La Jolla California or Beverly
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Hills California or whatever zip code
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that is doing really well on this planet
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they're still struggling with self-worth
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they're still struggling with identity
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so just because it may not be that they
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come from a really bad background they
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still are having issues with reality and
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what is what is something that they can
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hold on to and what is something that
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can anchor to and so the first step is
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what do you want and and that question
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becomes like a rabbit hole for figuring
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out and pulling and dissecting and
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coming through and then when we finally
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get there then we see certain things in
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their lives that have given them that
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want or that desire or that curiosity
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and then you just start working through
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that and the more layers of success that
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they can create the stronger their house
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becomes right more bricks you are this
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person you are this this individual and
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people may not like that but this is who
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you are and go out and be you it has
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nothing to do with what you do
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externally or what people say is how you
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view yourself and what you do inside
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you know put the put the victim to bed
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and wake the hero up instead and the
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next part of that is you have to be a
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hero to yourself before you can save the
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world and so you have to have that
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moment of I am Who I am I'm comfortable
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and who that is and I'm gonna go out and
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use Who I am in the world in the best
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way possible but I think that most
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people they know what's holding them
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back at some level and they just don't
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want to be honest with it and then do a
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lot to bury it and the older you get the
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more it gets buried but I think if you
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really look back on your life you can
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say okay that's it and I just don't want
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to take ownership of that and a lot of
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times it's just like I said that shame
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whether it happened to you or you did
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you know it's that shame of just let go
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shame like if anything we've proven in
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this world like we're a world of
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forgiveness like we will forgive people
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who are honest and vulnerable and real
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but you've got to be that first in order
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for us to you know but you got to do
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that for yourself first you got to
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forgive yourself failure I think it's
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more of our egos that we don't want to
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say like failure exists it's like no
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failure doesn't exist it's a learning
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learning moment no you screwed up you
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fail like let's just own that like
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there's nothing wrong with that and yes
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you should learn from those failures if
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there's something you've been holding
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and and heal through it and then share
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it because guarantee there's somebody
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else who's going through something
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similar and you will be able to reach
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them
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the simplicity of just knowing that
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you're not alone is is really not simple
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it's it's massive because in those dark
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moments you are alone
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for the most part you are physically
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alone and so then it's not that hard to
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take it from a physical to a mental
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state understanding that you're in
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control you control your destiny you can
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create what you want to create you have
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gifts that nobody else on the planet has
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you have talent you have everything
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everything you need to become whatever
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you want is right here right and and I
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don't care what the limitations are
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physical mental spiritual I don't care
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any everything is there for you you're
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better than you think you are all you
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need is belief the belief that you can
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succeed the belief that you can learn
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educate yourself you have the power the
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power to push the part of you that
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sheltered yourself from this progress
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that didn't allow you to grow and get
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stronger you can be better you can
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change to be better to be stronger and
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become the person you need to be
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transformed into the person with respect
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respect for themselves respect for the
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decisions you make appreciation for the
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progress you're making how are you going
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to make this transition are you willing
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to change do you want to change
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in order for you to succeed you need to
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switch your mindset you need to know
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that you want it be honest with yourself
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be honest with your mistakes you have
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one tool it's called time taste the
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opportunity and feel the success feel
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the power rise above you you have this
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believe that you can know that you can
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be the person you want to become in
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reality you are your only limit are you
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looking for success are you on that
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journey to success already do you know
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what path you're even on there's only
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one way to know if someone's holding you
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back if there are limits know that that
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means you're making progress because you
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know that you are working for it you're
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gonna know when you're where you need to
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be because you've been working for
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limits shouldn't set you back
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you need to struggle in order to succeed
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you have the power to push past the
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struggle push past the limits and to
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learn from them and to learn from
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yourself in the process you're on the
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right path you're taking the journey so
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you're immediately on the right path all
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you need to do now is keep taking the
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next step
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embrace the mistakes and embrace these
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challenges make this your time to make
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your life somewhere that you find is
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worth living build your empire build
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your empire into something constructed
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of your mistakes and then watch yourself
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rise above them because limits shouldn't
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make you any less of a person than you
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want to be you're more than your
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mistakes and you're even more than your
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successes
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you need to be you limits struggles
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failures and successes at all in order
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to take that path to make your life a
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better place you don't realize the
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privilege you have if you still have
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time left to make a mark and if you
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still have time left to live your dreams
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then you will have no regrets and if
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you're still able to work on your goals
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and ideas there are a billion people
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wasting that they were you stop with the
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regret start feeling gifted and start
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feeling blessed you have a chance to go
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out there and make a mark you still have
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the opportunity that so many don't
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understand that you have the privilege
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to succeed in life everyone wants to be
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successful until they see what it takes
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do you want to have it the spark of
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inspiration the beauty of determination
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the Landmarks towards success we all
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want it you have to be brave enough to
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take it can you be brave can you stand
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up to the risks to the hurdles that
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takes courage courage to face it rather
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than running towards it with your eyes
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closed that takes nothing anyone can do
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that walk towards it with your eyes wide
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open
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be brave use your courage this is why
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not everyone is successful only the ones
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who have what it takes but you have what
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it takes you have the potential the
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potential to drive straight through the
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hurdles become someone someone you
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actually aspire to be someone your kids
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can look up to or work and strength your
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parents will take pride in you
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can become that person you have what it
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takes you need to want it have the
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craving to succeed aspiration to want to
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move away from your past self and move
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forward towards the future you the
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future you can become someone make it
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happen make the time to move move
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forward now
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don't wait waiting just waste time what
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are you waiting for waiting for the
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circumstances to change change them
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yourself only you can make that happen
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someone successful someone who has
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purpose someone who has grown the time
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is now to face the discipline fight
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through the pain to reach power within
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and to ultimately become an improved
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person cross the bridge fight each day
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for the success you've been waiting for
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fight for the opportunity to thrive
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outside your comfort zone these choices
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don't come easily and definitely don't
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come twice hard work pays off but in
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order for that to happen you have to
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fight through the pain the rejection and
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the heartbreak
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wake up each day with attitude to change
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today you will walk with confidence
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knowing that today will be the day you
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face your fears of failure with that
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attitude tomorrow or the next day
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progress will be accomplished you will
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know you faced the discipline and fought
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your way out of your comfort zone
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we need to feel pain to feel happiness
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the pain drives us to strive for chains
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just know that when life becomes hard
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someday it's guaranteed that it will get
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better maybe not right now but as long
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as you try the chance of change and
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success increases don't wait for the
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opportunity to be handed to you on a
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plate only you and just you can make
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that happen
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bend time willing and completing your
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goals because nothing is impossible
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progress can finally be made the barrier
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can finally be broken happiness can
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finally be seen in the horizon and your
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mindset can finally be changed