it's hard it's hard as hell there's no

easy answer to this there's no like okay

well every morning at six o'clock you

know wake up and meditate for ten

minutes and tell yourself you're

beautiful and then go like it's not it

doesn't work like that it's a constant

battle and you're gonna have moments of

complete and total defeat where it's

just like what am i doing like why do I

keep trying to do this look don't look

at my story you don't look at someone

else's story what's the story you want

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everyone's different you know cuz

everyone has a different story and I

think we get locked into like the

horrific stories it's like really easy

to say oh wow but that's such a

triumphant moment that he came out of

that you know and whatever but there are

a lot of kids who are struggling in

freakin La Jolla California or Beverly

Hills California or whatever zip code

that is doing really well on this planet

they're still struggling with self-worth

they're still struggling with identity

so just because it may not be that they

come from a really bad background they

still are having issues with reality and

what is what is something that they can

hold on to and what is something that

can anchor to and so the first step is

what do you want and and that question

becomes like a rabbit hole for figuring

out and pulling and dissecting and

coming through and then when we finally

get there then we see certain things in

their lives that have given them that

want or that desire or that curiosity

and then you just start working through

that and the more layers of success that

they can create the stronger their house

becomes right more bricks you are this

person you are this this individual and

people may not like that but this is who

you are and go out and be you it has

nothing to do with what you do

externally or what people say is how you

view yourself and what you do inside

you know put the put the victim to bed

and wake the hero up instead and the

next part of that is you have to be a

hero to yourself before you can save the

world and so you have to have that

moment of I am Who I am I'm comfortable

and who that is and I'm gonna go out and

use Who I am in the world in the best

way possible but I think that most

people they know what's holding them

back at some level and they just don't

want to be honest with it and then do a

lot to bury it and the older you get the

more it gets buried but I think if you

really look back on your life you can

say okay that's it and I just don't want

to take ownership of that and a lot of

times it's just like I said that shame

whether it happened to you or you did

you know it's that shame of just let go

shame like if anything we've proven in

this world like we're a world of

forgiveness like we will forgive people

who are honest and vulnerable and real

but you've got to be that first in order

for us to you know but you got to do

that for yourself first you got to

forgive yourself failure I think it's

more of our egos that we don't want to

say like failure exists it's like no

failure doesn't exist it's a learning

learning moment no you screwed up you

fail like let's just own that like

there's nothing wrong with that and yes

you should learn from those failures if

there's something you've been holding

and and heal through it and then share

it because guarantee there's somebody

else who's going through something

similar and you will be able to reach

them

the simplicity of just knowing that

you're not alone is is really not simple

it's it's massive because in those dark

moments you are alone

for the most part you are physically

alone and so then it's not that hard to

take it from a physical to a mental

state understanding that you're in

control you control your destiny you can

create what you want to create you have

gifts that nobody else on the planet has

you have talent you have everything

everything you need to become whatever

you want is right here right and and I

don't care what the limitations are

physical mental spiritual I don't care

any everything is there for you you're

better than you think you are all you

need is belief the belief that you can

succeed the belief that you can learn

educate yourself you have the power the

power to push the part of you that

sheltered yourself from this progress

that didn't allow you to grow and get

stronger you can be better you can

change to be better to be stronger and

become the person you need to be

transformed into the person with respect

respect for themselves respect for the

decisions you make appreciation for the

progress you're making how are you going

to make this transition are you willing

to change do you want to change

in order for you to succeed you need to

switch your mindset you need to know

that you want it be honest with yourself

be honest with your mistakes you have

one tool it's called time taste the

opportunity and feel the success feel

the power rise above you you have this

believe that you can know that you can

be the person you want to become in

reality you are your only limit are you

looking for success are you on that

journey to success already do you know

what path you're even on there's only

one way to know if someone's holding you

back if there are limits know that that

means you're making progress because you

know that you are working for it you're

gonna know when you're where you need to

be because you've been working for

limits shouldn't set you back

you need to struggle in order to succeed

you have the power to push past the

struggle push past the limits and to

learn from them and to learn from

yourself in the process you're on the

right path you're taking the journey so

you're immediately on the right path all

you need to do now is keep taking the

next step

embrace the mistakes and embrace these

challenges make this your time to make

your life somewhere that you find is

worth living build your empire build

your empire into something constructed

of your mistakes and then watch yourself

rise above them because limits shouldn't

make you any less of a person than you

want to be you're more than your

mistakes and you're even more than your

successes

you need to be you limits struggles

failures and successes at all in order

to take that path to make your life a

better place you don't realize the

privilege you have if you still have

time left to make a mark and if you

still have time left to live your dreams

then you will have no regrets and if

you're still able to work on your goals

and ideas there are a billion people

wasting that they were you stop with the

regret start feeling gifted and start

feeling blessed you have a chance to go

out there and make a mark you still have

the opportunity that so many don't

understand that you have the privilege

to succeed in life everyone wants to be

successful until they see what it takes

do you want to have it the spark of

inspiration the beauty of determination

the Landmarks towards success we all

want it you have to be brave enough to

take it can you be brave can you stand

up to the risks to the hurdles that

takes courage courage to face it rather

than running towards it with your eyes

closed that takes nothing anyone can do

that walk towards it with your eyes wide

open

be brave use your courage this is why

not everyone is successful only the ones

who have what it takes but you have what

it takes you have the potential the

potential to drive straight through the

hurdles become someone someone you

actually aspire to be someone your kids

can look up to or work and strength your

parents will take pride in you

can become that person you have what it

takes you need to want it have the

craving to succeed aspiration to want to

move away from your past self and move

forward towards the future you the

future you can become someone make it

happen make the time to move move

forward now

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don't wait waiting just waste time what

are you waiting for waiting for the

circumstances to change change them

yourself only you can make that happen

someone successful someone who has

purpose someone who has grown the time

is now to face the discipline fight

through the pain to reach power within

and to ultimately become an improved

person cross the bridge fight each day

for the success you've been waiting for

fight for the opportunity to thrive

outside your comfort zone these choices

don't come easily and definitely don't

come twice hard work pays off but in

order for that to happen you have to

fight through the pain the rejection and

the heartbreak

wake up each day with attitude to change

today you will walk with confidence

knowing that today will be the day you

face your fears of failure with that

attitude tomorrow or the next day

progress will be accomplished you will

know you faced the discipline and fought

your way out of your comfort zone

we need to feel pain to feel happiness

the pain drives us to strive for chains

just know that when life becomes hard

someday it's guaranteed that it will get

better maybe not right now but as long

as you try the chance of change and

success increases don't wait for the

opportunity to be handed to you on a

plate only you and just you can make

that happen

bend time willing and completing your

goals because nothing is impossible

progress can finally be made the barrier

can finally be broken happiness can

finally be seen in the horizon and your

mindset can finally be changed