0:00:00.010,0:00:04.570 it's hard it's hard as hell there's no 0:00:02.350,0:00:06.100 easy answer to this there's no like okay 0:00:04.570,0:00:07.930 well every morning at six o'clock you 0:00:06.100,0:00:08.950 know wake up and meditate for ten 0:00:07.930,0:00:10.660 minutes and tell yourself you're 0:00:08.950,0:00:12.370 beautiful and then go like it's not it 0:00:10.660,0:00:14.650 doesn't work like that it's a constant 0:00:12.370,0:00:16.059 battle and you're gonna have moments of 0:00:14.650,0:00:18.610 complete and total defeat where it's 0:00:16.059,0:00:20.710 just like what am i doing like why do I 0:00:18.610,0:00:22.210 keep trying to do this look don't look 0:00:20.710,0:00:26.580 at my story you don't look at someone 0:00:22.210,0:00:26.580 else's story what's the story you want 0:00:27.260,0:00:30.550 [Music] 0:00:28.500,0:00:32.649 everyone's different you know cuz 0:00:30.550,0:00:34.899 everyone has a different story and I 0:00:32.649,0:00:36.399 think we get locked into like the 0:00:34.899,0:00:38.339 horrific stories it's like really easy 0:00:36.399,0:00:40.449 to say oh wow but that's such a 0:00:38.339,0:00:43.030 triumphant moment that he came out of 0:00:40.449,0:00:44.940 that you know and whatever but there are 0:00:43.030,0:00:47.379 a lot of kids who are struggling in 0:00:44.940,0:00:49.389 freakin La Jolla California or Beverly 0:00:47.379,0:00:51.429 Hills California or whatever zip code 0:00:49.389,0:00:53.289 that is doing really well on this planet 0:00:51.429,0:00:54.549 they're still struggling with self-worth 0:00:53.289,0:00:57.789 they're still struggling with identity 0:00:54.549,0:00:59.769 so just because it may not be that they 0:00:57.789,0:01:02.379 come from a really bad background they 0:00:59.769,0:01:04.090 still are having issues with reality and 0:01:02.379,0:01:05.440 what is what is something that they can 0:01:04.090,0:01:07.900 hold on to and what is something that 0:01:05.440,0:01:10.210 can anchor to and so the first step is 0:01:07.900,0:01:12.610 what do you want and and that question 0:01:10.210,0:01:14.200 becomes like a rabbit hole for figuring 0:01:12.610,0:01:16.000 out and pulling and dissecting and 0:01:14.200,0:01:17.800 coming through and then when we finally 0:01:16.000,0:01:19.300 get there then we see certain things in 0:01:17.800,0:01:21.850 their lives that have given them that 0:01:19.300,0:01:23.740 want or that desire or that curiosity 0:01:21.850,0:01:27.070 and then you just start working through 0:01:23.740,0:01:28.420 that and the more layers of success that 0:01:27.070,0:01:31.780 they can create the stronger their house 0:01:28.420,0:01:33.940 becomes right more bricks you are this 0:01:31.780,0:01:36.100 person you are this this individual and 0:01:33.940,0:01:38.320 people may not like that but this is who 0:01:36.100,0:01:40.120 you are and go out and be you it has 0:01:38.320,0:01:42.100 nothing to do with what you do 0:01:40.120,0:01:45.920 externally or what people say is how you 0:01:42.100,0:01:48.480 view yourself and what you do inside 0:01:45.920,0:01:50.370 you know put the put the victim to bed 0:01:48.480,0:01:52.140 and wake the hero up instead and the 0:01:50.370,0:01:54.090 next part of that is you have to be a 0:01:52.140,0:01:55.860 hero to yourself before you can save the 0:01:54.090,0:01:58.770 world and so you have to have that 0:01:55.860,0:02:00.300 moment of I am Who I am I'm comfortable 0:01:58.770,0:02:01.950 and who that is and I'm gonna go out and 0:02:00.300,0:02:06.270 use Who I am in the world in the best 0:02:01.950,0:02:08.280 way possible but I think that most 0:02:06.270,0:02:10.440 people they know what's holding them 0:02:08.280,0:02:11.850 back at some level and they just don't 0:02:10.440,0:02:13.470 want to be honest with it and then do a 0:02:11.850,0:02:15.390 lot to bury it and the older you get the 0:02:13.470,0:02:17.130 more it gets buried but I think if you 0:02:15.390,0:02:18.900 really look back on your life you can 0:02:17.130,0:02:20.790 say okay that's it and I just don't want 0:02:18.900,0:02:22.230 to take ownership of that and a lot of 0:02:20.790,0:02:24.360 times it's just like I said that shame 0:02:22.230,0:02:27.000 whether it happened to you or you did 0:02:24.360,0:02:29.580 you know it's that shame of just let go 0:02:27.000,0:02:31.350 shame like if anything we've proven in 0:02:29.580,0:02:32.820 this world like we're a world of 0:02:31.350,0:02:35.160 forgiveness like we will forgive people 0:02:32.820,0:02:38.100 who are honest and vulnerable and real 0:02:35.160,0:02:39.840 but you've got to be that first in order 0:02:38.100,0:02:41.100 for us to you know but you got to do 0:02:39.840,0:02:47.190 that for yourself first you got to 0:02:41.100,0:02:48.690 forgive yourself failure I think it's 0:02:47.190,0:02:50.370 more of our egos that we don't want to 0:02:48.690,0:02:51.630 say like failure exists it's like no 0:02:50.370,0:02:53.940 failure doesn't exist it's a learning 0:02:51.630,0:02:55.830 learning moment no you screwed up you 0:02:53.940,0:02:57.330 fail like let's just own that like 0:02:55.830,0:03:00.480 there's nothing wrong with that and yes 0:02:57.330,0:03:01.769 you should learn from those failures if 0:03:00.480,0:03:05.010 there's something you've been holding 0:03:01.769,0:03:06.930 and and heal through it and then share 0:03:05.010,0:03:08.010 it because guarantee there's somebody 0:03:06.930,0:03:09.540 else who's going through something 0:03:08.010,0:03:11.810 similar and you will be able to reach 0:03:09.540,0:03:11.810 them 0:03:12.360,0:03:16.890 the simplicity of just knowing that 0:03:14.280,0:03:19.980 you're not alone is is really not simple 0:03:16.890,0:03:21.870 it's it's massive because in those dark 0:03:19.980,0:03:23.820 moments you are alone 0:03:21.870,0:03:25.950 for the most part you are physically 0:03:23.820,0:03:27.360 alone and so then it's not that hard to 0:03:25.950,0:03:31.170 take it from a physical to a mental 0:03:27.360,0:03:33.510 state understanding that you're in 0:03:31.170,0:03:35.340 control you control your destiny you can 0:03:33.510,0:03:37.350 create what you want to create you have 0:03:35.340,0:03:39.390 gifts that nobody else on the planet has 0:03:37.350,0:03:41.400 you have talent you have everything 0:03:39.390,0:03:44.190 everything you need to become whatever 0:03:41.400,0:03:45.420 you want is right here right and and I 0:03:44.190,0:03:48.000 don't care what the limitations are 0:03:45.420,0:03:52.770 physical mental spiritual I don't care 0:03:48.000,0:03:55.740 any everything is there for you you're 0:03:52.770,0:04:00.120 better than you think you are all you 0:03:55.740,0:04:02.930 need is belief the belief that you can 0:04:00.120,0:04:07.110 succeed the belief that you can learn 0:04:02.930,0:04:09.030 educate yourself you have the power the 0:04:07.110,0:04:11.030 power to push the part of you that 0:04:09.030,0:04:14.580 sheltered yourself from this progress 0:04:11.030,0:04:18.180 that didn't allow you to grow and get 0:04:14.580,0:04:21.350 stronger you can be better you can 0:04:18.180,0:04:24.710 change to be better to be stronger and 0:04:21.350,0:04:27.450 become the person you need to be 0:04:24.710,0:04:30.870 transformed into the person with respect 0:04:27.450,0:04:34.080 respect for themselves respect for the 0:04:30.870,0:04:36.690 decisions you make appreciation for the 0:04:34.080,0:04:39.570 progress you're making how are you going 0:04:36.690,0:04:43.580 to make this transition are you willing 0:04:39.570,0:04:47.150 to change do you want to change 0:04:43.580,0:04:49.610 in order for you to succeed you need to 0:04:47.150,0:04:51.890 switch your mindset you need to know 0:04:49.610,0:04:56.720 that you want it be honest with yourself 0:04:51.890,0:05:01.160 be honest with your mistakes you have 0:04:56.720,0:05:04.220 one tool it's called time taste the 0:05:01.160,0:05:07.690 opportunity and feel the success feel 0:05:04.220,0:05:11.900 the power rise above you you have this 0:05:07.690,0:05:16.690 believe that you can know that you can 0:05:11.900,0:05:22.760 be the person you want to become in 0:05:16.690,0:05:25.040 reality you are your only limit are you 0:05:22.760,0:05:27.530 looking for success are you on that 0:05:25.040,0:05:30.080 journey to success already do you know 0:05:27.530,0:05:31.880 what path you're even on there's only 0:05:30.080,0:05:35.480 one way to know if someone's holding you 0:05:31.880,0:05:37.730 back if there are limits know that that 0:05:35.480,0:05:40.880 means you're making progress because you 0:05:37.730,0:05:42.680 know that you are working for it you're 0:05:40.880,0:05:46.270 gonna know when you're where you need to 0:05:42.680,0:05:48.590 be because you've been working for 0:05:46.270,0:05:50.480 limits shouldn't set you back 0:05:48.590,0:05:53.120 you need to struggle in order to succeed 0:05:50.480,0:05:55.670 you have the power to push past the 0:05:53.120,0:05:57.080 struggle push past the limits and to 0:05:55.670,0:06:00.020 learn from them and to learn from 0:05:57.080,0:06:02.090 yourself in the process you're on the 0:06:00.020,0:06:05.180 right path you're taking the journey so 0:06:02.090,0:06:07.430 you're immediately on the right path all 0:06:05.180,0:06:08.770 you need to do now is keep taking the 0:06:07.430,0:06:11.480 next step 0:06:08.770,0:06:14.840 embrace the mistakes and embrace these 0:06:11.480,0:06:17.060 challenges make this your time to make 0:06:14.840,0:06:20.510 your life somewhere that you find is 0:06:17.060,0:06:22.760 worth living build your empire build 0:06:20.510,0:06:24.980 your empire into something constructed 0:06:22.760,0:06:27.170 of your mistakes and then watch yourself 0:06:24.980,0:06:29.060 rise above them because limits shouldn't 0:06:27.170,0:06:30.920 make you any less of a person than you 0:06:29.060,0:06:33.230 want to be you're more than your 0:06:30.920,0:06:35.120 mistakes and you're even more than your 0:06:33.230,0:06:38.419 successes 0:06:35.120,0:06:41.210 you need to be you limits struggles 0:06:38.419,0:06:43.430 failures and successes at all in order 0:06:41.210,0:06:47.240 to take that path to make your life a 0:06:43.430,0:06:49.669 better place you don't realize the 0:06:47.240,0:06:51.740 privilege you have if you still have 0:06:49.669,0:06:53.960 time left to make a mark and if you 0:06:51.740,0:06:56.750 still have time left to live your dreams 0:06:53.960,0:06:58.520 then you will have no regrets and if 0:06:56.750,0:07:01.490 you're still able to work on your goals 0:06:58.520,0:07:05.510 and ideas there are a billion people 0:07:01.490,0:07:08.510 wasting that they were you stop with the 0:07:05.510,0:07:12.020 regret start feeling gifted and start 0:07:08.510,0:07:15.020 feeling blessed you have a chance to go 0:07:12.020,0:07:17.620 out there and make a mark you still have 0:07:15.020,0:07:20.000 the opportunity that so many don't 0:07:17.620,0:07:24.680 understand that you have the privilege 0:07:20.000,0:07:26.900 to succeed in life everyone wants to be 0:07:24.680,0:07:30.139 successful until they see what it takes 0:07:26.900,0:07:32.930 do you want to have it the spark of 0:07:30.139,0:07:35.990 inspiration the beauty of determination 0:07:32.930,0:07:39.320 the Landmarks towards success we all 0:07:35.990,0:07:42.349 want it you have to be brave enough to 0:07:39.320,0:07:44.979 take it can you be brave can you stand 0:07:42.349,0:07:48.950 up to the risks to the hurdles that 0:07:44.979,0:07:50.570 takes courage courage to face it rather 0:07:48.950,0:07:53.780 than running towards it with your eyes 0:07:50.570,0:07:57.560 closed that takes nothing anyone can do 0:07:53.780,0:07:58.130 that walk towards it with your eyes wide 0:07:57.560,0:08:02.630 open 0:07:58.130,0:08:06.530 be brave use your courage this is why 0:08:02.630,0:08:10.460 not everyone is successful only the ones 0:08:06.530,0:08:13.039 who have what it takes but you have what 0:08:10.460,0:08:15.080 it takes you have the potential the 0:08:13.039,0:08:18.110 potential to drive straight through the 0:08:15.080,0:08:21.080 hurdles become someone someone you 0:08:18.110,0:08:23.930 actually aspire to be someone your kids 0:08:21.080,0:08:26.090 can look up to or work and strength your 0:08:23.930,0:08:30.169 parents will take pride in you 0:08:26.090,0:08:33.740 can become that person you have what it 0:08:30.169,0:08:37.370 takes you need to want it have the 0:08:33.740,0:08:40.190 craving to succeed aspiration to want to 0:08:37.370,0:08:42.860 move away from your past self and move 0:08:40.190,0:08:45.980 forward towards the future you the 0:08:42.860,0:08:49.160 future you can become someone make it 0:08:45.980,0:08:51.820 happen make the time to move move 0:08:49.160,0:08:54.969 forward now 0:08:51.820,0:08:54.969 [Music] 0:08:57.980,0:09:05.780 don't wait waiting just waste time what 0:09:02.300,0:09:08.180 are you waiting for waiting for the 0:09:05.780,0:09:14.510 circumstances to change change them 0:09:08.180,0:09:18.020 yourself only you can make that happen 0:09:14.510,0:09:24.890 someone successful someone who has 0:09:18.020,0:09:28.010 purpose someone who has grown the time 0:09:24.890,0:09:30.650 is now to face the discipline fight 0:09:28.010,0:09:33.560 through the pain to reach power within 0:09:30.650,0:09:38.300 and to ultimately become an improved 0:09:33.560,0:09:40.700 person cross the bridge fight each day 0:09:38.300,0:09:42.950 for the success you've been waiting for 0:09:40.700,0:09:45.950 fight for the opportunity to thrive 0:09:42.950,0:09:49.040 outside your comfort zone these choices 0:09:45.950,0:09:55.640 don't come easily and definitely don't 0:09:49.040,0:09:58.130 come twice hard work pays off but in 0:09:55.640,0:10:00.530 order for that to happen you have to 0:09:58.130,0:10:02.710 fight through the pain the rejection and 0:10:00.530,0:10:06.370 the heartbreak 0:10:02.710,0:10:09.070 wake up each day with attitude to change 0:10:06.370,0:10:11.440 today you will walk with confidence 0:10:09.070,0:10:14.890 knowing that today will be the day you 0:10:11.440,0:10:17.440 face your fears of failure with that 0:10:14.890,0:10:20.980 attitude tomorrow or the next day 0:10:17.440,0:10:23.740 progress will be accomplished you will 0:10:20.980,0:10:25.860 know you faced the discipline and fought 0:10:23.740,0:10:29.230 your way out of your comfort zone 0:10:25.860,0:10:32.140 we need to feel pain to feel happiness 0:10:29.230,0:10:34.990 the pain drives us to strive for chains 0:10:32.140,0:10:38.380 just know that when life becomes hard 0:10:34.990,0:10:41.290 someday it's guaranteed that it will get 0:10:38.380,0:10:43.930 better maybe not right now but as long 0:10:41.290,0:10:46.779 as you try the chance of change and 0:10:43.930,0:10:49.000 success increases don't wait for the 0:10:46.779,0:10:52.510 opportunity to be handed to you on a 0:10:49.000,0:10:53.350 plate only you and just you can make 0:10:52.510,0:10:55.510 that happen 0:10:53.350,0:10:58.230 bend time willing and completing your 0:10:55.510,0:11:01.870 goals because nothing is impossible 0:10:58.230,0:11:05.200 progress can finally be made the barrier 0:11:01.870,0:11:08.290 can finally be broken happiness can 0:11:05.200,0:11:13.500 finally be seen in the horizon and your 0:11:08.290,0:11:13.500 mindset can finally be changed