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it's hard it's hard as hell there's no

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easy answer to this there's no like okay

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well every morning at six o'clock you

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know wake up and meditate for ten

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minutes and tell yourself you're

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beautiful and then go like it's not it

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doesn't work like that it's a constant

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battle and you're gonna have moments of

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complete and total defeat where it's

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just like what am i doing like why do I

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keep trying to do this look don't look

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at my story you don't look at someone

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else's story what's the story you want

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[Music]

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everyone's different you know cuz

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everyone has a different story and I

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think we get locked into like the

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horrific stories it's like really easy

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to say oh wow but that's such a

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triumphant moment that he came out of

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that you know and whatever but there are

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a lot of kids who are struggling in

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freakin La Jolla California or Beverly

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Hills California or whatever zip code

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that is doing really well on this planet

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they're still struggling with self-worth

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they're still struggling with identity

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so just because it may not be that they

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come from a really bad background they

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still are having issues with reality and

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what is what is something that they can

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hold on to and what is something that

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can anchor to and so the first step is

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what do you want and and that question

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becomes like a rabbit hole for figuring

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out and pulling and dissecting and

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coming through and then when we finally

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get there then we see certain things in

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their lives that have given them that

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want or that desire or that curiosity

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and then you just start working through

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that and the more layers of success that

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they can create the stronger their house

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becomes right more bricks you are this

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person you are this this individual and

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people may not like that but this is who

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you are and go out and be you it has

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nothing to do with what you do

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externally or what people say is how you

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view yourself and what you do inside

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you know put the put the victim to bed

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and wake the hero up instead and the

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next part of that is you have to be a

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hero to yourself before you can save the

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world and so you have to have that

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moment of I am Who I am I'm comfortable

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and who that is and I'm gonna go out and

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use Who I am in the world in the best

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way possible but I think that most

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people they know what's holding them

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back at some level and they just don't

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want to be honest with it and then do a

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lot to bury it and the older you get the

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more it gets buried but I think if you

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really look back on your life you can

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say okay that's it and I just don't want

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to take ownership of that and a lot of

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times it's just like I said that shame

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whether it happened to you or you did

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you know it's that shame of just let go

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shame like if anything we've proven in

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this world like we're a world of

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forgiveness like we will forgive people

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who are honest and vulnerable and real

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but you've got to be that first in order

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for us to you know but you got to do

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that for yourself first you got to

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forgive yourself failure I think it's

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more of our egos that we don't want to

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say like failure exists it's like no

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failure doesn't exist it's a learning

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learning moment no you screwed up you

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fail like let's just own that like

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there's nothing wrong with that and yes

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you should learn from those failures if

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there's something you've been holding

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and and heal through it and then share

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it because guarantee there's somebody

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else who's going through something

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similar and you will be able to reach

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them

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the simplicity of just knowing that

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you're not alone is is really not simple

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it's it's massive because in those dark

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moments you are alone

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for the most part you are physically

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alone and so then it's not that hard to

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take it from a physical to a mental

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state understanding that you're in

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control you control your destiny you can

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create what you want to create you have

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gifts that nobody else on the planet has

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you have talent you have everything

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everything you need to become whatever

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you want is right here right and and I

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don't care what the limitations are

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physical mental spiritual I don't care

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any everything is there for you you're

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better than you think you are all you

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need is belief the belief that you can

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succeed the belief that you can learn

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educate yourself you have the power the

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power to push the part of you that

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sheltered yourself from this progress

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that didn't allow you to grow and get

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stronger you can be better you can

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change to be better to be stronger and

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become the person you need to be

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transformed into the person with respect

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respect for themselves respect for the

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decisions you make appreciation for the

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progress you're making how are you going

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to make this transition are you willing

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to change do you want to change

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in order for you to succeed you need to

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switch your mindset you need to know

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that you want it be honest with yourself

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be honest with your mistakes you have

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one tool it's called time taste the

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opportunity and feel the success feel

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the power rise above you you have this

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believe that you can know that you can

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be the person you want to become in

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reality you are your only limit are you

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looking for success are you on that

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journey to success already do you know

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what path you're even on there's only

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one way to know if someone's holding you

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back if there are limits know that that

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means you're making progress because you

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know that you are working for it you're

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gonna know when you're where you need to

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be because you've been working for

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limits shouldn't set you back

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you need to struggle in order to succeed

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you have the power to push past the

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struggle push past the limits and to

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learn from them and to learn from

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yourself in the process you're on the

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right path you're taking the journey so

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you're immediately on the right path all

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you need to do now is keep taking the

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next step

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embrace the mistakes and embrace these

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challenges make this your time to make

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your life somewhere that you find is

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worth living build your empire build

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your empire into something constructed

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of your mistakes and then watch yourself

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rise above them because limits shouldn't

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make you any less of a person than you

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want to be you're more than your

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mistakes and you're even more than your

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successes

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you need to be you limits struggles

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failures and successes at all in order

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to take that path to make your life a

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better place you don't realize the

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privilege you have if you still have

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time left to make a mark and if you

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still have time left to live your dreams

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then you will have no regrets and if

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you're still able to work on your goals

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and ideas there are a billion people

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wasting that they were you stop with the

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regret start feeling gifted and start

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feeling blessed you have a chance to go

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out there and make a mark you still have

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the opportunity that so many don't

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understand that you have the privilege

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to succeed in life everyone wants to be

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successful until they see what it takes

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do you want to have it the spark of

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inspiration the beauty of determination

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the Landmarks towards success we all

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want it you have to be brave enough to

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take it can you be brave can you stand

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up to the risks to the hurdles that

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takes courage courage to face it rather

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than running towards it with your eyes

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closed that takes nothing anyone can do

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that walk towards it with your eyes wide

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open

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be brave use your courage this is why

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not everyone is successful only the ones

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who have what it takes but you have what

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it takes you have the potential the

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potential to drive straight through the

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hurdles become someone someone you

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actually aspire to be someone your kids

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can look up to or work and strength your

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parents will take pride in you

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can become that person you have what it

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takes you need to want it have the

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craving to succeed aspiration to want to

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move away from your past self and move

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forward towards the future you the

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future you can become someone make it

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happen make the time to move move

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forward now

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[Music]

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don't wait waiting just waste time what

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are you waiting for waiting for the

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circumstances to change change them

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yourself only you can make that happen

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someone successful someone who has

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purpose someone who has grown the time

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is now to face the discipline fight

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through the pain to reach power within

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and to ultimately become an improved

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person cross the bridge fight each day

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for the success you've been waiting for

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fight for the opportunity to thrive

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outside your comfort zone these choices

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don't come easily and definitely don't

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come twice hard work pays off but in

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order for that to happen you have to

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fight through the pain the rejection and

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the heartbreak

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wake up each day with attitude to change

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today you will walk with confidence

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knowing that today will be the day you

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face your fears of failure with that

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attitude tomorrow or the next day

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progress will be accomplished you will

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know you faced the discipline and fought

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your way out of your comfort zone

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we need to feel pain to feel happiness

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the pain drives us to strive for chains

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just know that when life becomes hard

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someday it's guaranteed that it will get

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better maybe not right now but as long

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as you try the chance of change and

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success increases don't wait for the

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opportunity to be handed to you on a

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plate only you and just you can make

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that happen

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bend time willing and completing your

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goals because nothing is impossible

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progress can finally be made the barrier

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can finally be broken happiness can

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finally be seen in the horizon and your

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mindset can finally be changed