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[The bell is awoken.]
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[The bell is invited.]
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[The bell is invited.]
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[The bell is invited.]
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Dear Sangha, this autumn the topic that
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we will be looking into is the
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Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings
of the Order of Interbeing.
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And last week we heard a Dharma Talk
from Sister Doan Nghiem
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about the origin of,... the founder of
the school to which we belong in the
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Plum Village tradition, called the
Lieu Quan School.
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And so today, we will continue by looking
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at some of the foundations of ethics which
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lie at the basis of the
Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings,
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in Buddhism and in the Plum Village Tradition.
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So if you were here last week,
you can remember that Master Lieu Quan
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wrote a poem, or a gatha, which was what
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we call a lineage poem, and each word of
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that poem represents one generation of the
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continuation of Master Lieu Quan,
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his spiritual continuation in the Lieu Quan
School, the Lieu Quan line.
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So the first name is his own name,
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and the second word...
the first word is his own name,
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and the second one is the name he gave
his own disciples in his lifetime.
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And the third word is the disciples of
his disciples.
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So we belong to the ninth generation,
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so we are, ...
we have the name "tâm", meaning heart.
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If you have received the Five Mindfulness
Trainings,
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you'll have the name "heart" in it.
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So that is the ninth word of the poem.
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And now I would like to look at that line.
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The poem has four words to a line.
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So we now look at that line of the poem.
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And today I have an opportunity to
practice walking meditation.
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So the source of mind penetrates everywhere.
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From the roots of virtue springs compassion.
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Something like that.
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That is Thầy's translation that you will
see if you receive the
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Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings
and you have the certificate,
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I think in English you will see
something like that.
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So, it's like you have a source of water
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on the mountain, and the water goes
everywhere down the mountain,
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and it penetrates into the earth,
in many, many places.
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And, here, it really says
"the roots of virtue".
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And this word here, "phong", this word
means something like...
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You have it in Vietamese or Chinese in
"phong tục ?", "phong ?".
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So it means something like a custom.
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A custom, or a way, or a tradition.
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And this word here, "từ" is usually
translated as loving kindness,
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but Thầy translates as compassion,
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because the word stands for "từ bi",
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which means loving kindness and compassion.
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So, from the roots of virtue, we have
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the custom of compassion,
of loving kindness,
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the tradition of compassion or
loving kindness.
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And sometimes we have a movement,
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like the movement, the Wake-up movement
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is called the young Buddhists and
non-Buddhists for a compassionate society.
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So here the idea is compassion of a whole
society, compassion of a tradition,
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or a custom of compassion.
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Nowadays, people use the word compassion
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quite a lot. And neuroscientists are very
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interested in compassion.
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And those neuroscientists who are familiar
with Tibetan Buddhism and have
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talked to the Dalai Lama,
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they also are very interested in where you
can find compassion in your brain.
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Whereabouts compassion comes from,
in your brain.
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And if the human brain has compassion,
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does it mean that animal brain also has
compassion?
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Because people used to say that human beings
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are capable of ethical behavior,
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human beings are capable of compassion,
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and that is where they differ from animals.
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But now we see that the human is really
just another animal.
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And so the human brain is a continuation
of the animal brain.
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And it's not very different from the
animal brain.
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So that is another thing that we need to
look into.
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We usually think that as human beings,
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we're something quite exclusive.
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And, is that better?
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We're quite exclusive, and we have
something special
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that the animals don't have.
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So I remember once, some neuroscientists
were doing an experiment to prove that
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rats had compassion.
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So they taught the rat how to open the cage.
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And they had one rat that's free,
not in a cage.
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And another rat is in the cage.
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And they saw that the rat who was free,
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he knew how to open the cage,
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and he let the rat out, the other rat out.
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So it was free.
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So the scientist was happy, and he said,
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"Oh, now we know that the animals, they
also have compassion for each other.
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The rat didn't want the other rat to
suffer in the cage, so he let him out."
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And then another scientist came along and
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said, "How do you know?"
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"Maybe he just wanted a friend to play with,
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so he was letting it out for his own
selfish motivation."
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So we always can find a way to prove that
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human beings are a little bit special.
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But it's very important, how, how can we,
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how can we found, how can we establish,
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how can we help establish a compassionate
society,
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where the custom, the culture, is a culture
of compassion.
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And if compassion is something that is
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innate in our brain, then we just need to
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find ways in order to be able to help that,
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that seed as we call it in Buddhism,
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to flourish, to grow into a plant in
human beings.
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So if we come back again to neuroscience.
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So scientists use the word empathy.
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I wanted to find out what that word is
in Vietnamese, and I haven't found it.
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All I found was "thấu cảm"(?).
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,But I think it doesn't mean empathy,
so I won't write it down.
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But empathy is something that animals have
in their ...
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They've found the place in the brain
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where empathy comes from.
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And empathy means that you can feel the
suffering of another person.
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You can know that another person
is suffering.
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And it has an effect on you.
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When you see another person suffering,
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you also feel uncomfortable.
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You don't feel happy.
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So that is what is called empathy.
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And you see another person happy,
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you can also feel happy.
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So, if we have empathy,
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we have the possibility also to have
compassion.
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But empathy itself is not compassion.
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So empathy belongs to some region of
the brain, and then it's linked up with
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compassion, which lights up another region
of the brain.
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So scientists say that empathy can result
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in two different things.
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And one is compassion.
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And the other they call
empathetic distress.
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So when you have compassion,
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then your feeling is directed to
the other person.
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And in this case, this is called
self-directed.
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And then, your emotion here,
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where there is compassion, the emotion is
one of loving kindness or happiness
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or both.
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So in this case, the emotion is
one of stress.
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And that is suffering.
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And these things lead to health.
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And these things lead to ill-health.
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I think this is what we've heard Thầy
say for a long time.
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That when we have a thought of compassion,
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it immediately brings us health,
and it brings more health to the world.
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And without compassion, we cannot have
real happiness.
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Compassion brings us a lot of happiness.
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And when you feel compassion for
another person,
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the first one who benefits from that feeling
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of compassion is the person who feels it,
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even before they have done something
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to help the other person,
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they already feel better, because of
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the compassion in their heart.
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So, another thing they say here is
"approach"
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and here is "withdrawal".
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So I think that it is easy for us when
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we are in touch with another person who
is suffering, or an animal who is suffering,
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or any kind of suffering in society,
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to be able to tell,
what is arising in us?
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Is compassion arising? Or is what is
called empathetic distress arising in us?
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That is, we want to withdraw.
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It's too much for us:
the suffering is too much for us,
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of the other person.
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And this is kind of when we have burn-out.
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People who are working in the
environmental movement, or
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some other movement to help the world.
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And they feel that they're not making any
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progress, then rather than feel compassion
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when looking at the suffering,
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they feel distress.
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And frustration.
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So now, many psychotherapists will teach
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their patients to practise loving kindness
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meditation, compassion meditation.
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Because they see that happiness is possible
when we can feel compassion.
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And they have done, neuroscientists have
done research,
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and even people who only practise
loving kindness meditation for 7 days,
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they already see a change in their
neuro-pathways.
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So just like mindfulness has become
something very widespread
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in society now, without being called a
Buddhist practice,
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a practice that anyone can do whether
they have religion or not,
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loving kindness meditation is also
becoming like that.
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You don't have to be a Buddhist to do it,
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although it began in Buddhism.
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So you know that when you do
loving kindness meditation,
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the first object of your meditation is
yourself.
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"May I be peaceful, happy and light
in body and spirit."
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You have to really feel that for yourself.
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That is something you really want.
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And when you can have it, you can have
a lot of happiness.
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And if you don't feel it for yourself,
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then it's not easy to feel it for another person.
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And then the next part of the
loving kindness meditation is
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"May I be safe and free from accident."
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That is something we all want.
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We all want to be able to feel absolutely
safe, where nothing can harm us.
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Whether we can find a place like that
or not is another matter.
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But we have a deep desire to safe and free
from accident.
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So we have to recognize that desire.
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And then we recognize that everyone else
also has that desire.
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And so then we go on to someone who is
a friend of ours.
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"May he, or may she, be happy, peaceful and
light in body and in spirit."
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"May he or she be safe and free from
accident."
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And that is also quite easy for us to do
for a friend of ours.
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And then we take as the object someone
who is neutral to us --
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somebody who you don't particularly like
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or somebody you don't have any
bad feeling about.
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But somebody you meet from time to time.
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And you wish it for them.
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And the interesting thing is that is when
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you wish for a person who is neutral to you,
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"May he or she be happy, peaceful and
light in body and spirit"
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suddenly that person is no longer neutral.
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That person becomes, through your
meditation,
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somebody you have friendly feelings to.
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And then we should take, we should take
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someone who causes us difficulties.
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And while we meditate,
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"May he or she be happy, peaceful and
light"
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we come into contact with the body and
the feelings of that person
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that we are meditating on, and we begin
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to understand them better.
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We understand that just as we have a
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deep need to be safe,
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that person who causes us to suffer,
has a deep need to be safe also.
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And we will be able through that kind
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of meditation to change our way of thinking
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about the person who makes us suffer.
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And this change, it actually can be noticed
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by neuroscientists who do FMRI on the
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brain of the practionner.
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It is a way of developing happiness.
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It's a way of developing health.
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And when I first came to Buddhism,
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I thought that everything we did,
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every practice we did,
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was to be able to help other people.
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So metta meditation is not for my benefit,
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but for the benefit of other beings.
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And
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then you realize that it is also
benefitting yourself.
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And now, when metta meditation is becoming
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something widespread, it's really done
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with the idea that it is to help yourself.
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That is what comes first.
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First of all, it will help you, and then,
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as a kind of spinoff,
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it will help other people as well.
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So the motivation is a little bit different.
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But however, once you begin to practise,
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then your motivation also begins to change.
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It's like once you begin to practise
mindfulness, at first you do it
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just for yourself. But then you see that
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practising mindfulness, you're helping
others as well,
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and your motivation becomes one
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to help others too --- it's what you
want to do, is to help others.
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In the beginning, you just wanted to help yourself.
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So when I consider these things that are
happening in our society,
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even though we may be doing it for
ourself in the first place,
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I also consider that we are going in
the right direction,
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to try and form a compassionate society,
a compassionate culture.
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[The bell is awoken.]
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[The bell is invited.]
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And people also talk about two kinds of
compassion.
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But I don't know if it's quite correct
to do that.
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On the one hand, compassion that
is emotional and intuitive.
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And on the other hand, compassion that
is more rational and more explicit.
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That is something that you can talk about
more.
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As human beings, we have both these sides
to us.
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We have both the rational side,
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and we have the emotional side.
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And as far as I understand it, compassion
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should contain both of those elements.
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We often have moral dilemmas.
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We don't quite know what we should do
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in a certain situation.
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And sometimes we use our reasoning.
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And sometimes we use our emotions more
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when we want to decide what to do.
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Not long ago, on a retreat,
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my younger sister asked me
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"Should I go and help this layperson?"
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"Should I go on my own and help this
layperson?
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"Or should I stay in the retreat and be
present at the Dharma Sharing?"
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So, when I was asked that question,
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of course my training immediately came up:
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you should stay in the Dharma Sharing,
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because in the Dharma Sharing you will
help many people.
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But if you just go on your own and help
one layperson,
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you will only help one person.
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So with my rational mind, it was clear
what we should do.
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But as I followed my breathing,
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and I looked, just stopped all my thinking,
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then I suddenly felt there is something
not right.
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And, eh, I didn't know why.
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But intuitively and emotionally, I felt
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I should let my sister go and help
that layperson.
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And my sister said,
" I don't mind either way."
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"If you tell me to stay,
I'll be happy to stay."
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"If you tell me to go,
I'll be happy to go."
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So, sometimes, we have a moral dilemma
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like that and we, we don't know whether
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to use more of our rational side
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or more of our emotional side.
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But I have a lot trust in the
Store Consciousness.
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That is the more unconscious side
of my mind.
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Sometimes, of course, from our
Store Consciousness,
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we have an intuition which comes from
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habit energy in our Store Consciousness.
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Because we've done it like that for so long,
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we intuitively want to do that out of our
habit energy.
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But if our mind is clear,
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if we follow our breathing
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and empty our mind of all thinking,
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it's an opportunity for an
intuitive insight to come up.
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And we can sometimes use that
in making a moral decision.
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But we have to make sure that we
are very calm, and very clear
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when the insight comes up.
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And then we feel, "yes, I've done my best.
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I've looked into the rational side.
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I've also allowed the emotional side.
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And then, I've asked both sides to be quiet,
and allowed the intuition to come up.
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And that is the wonderful thing about
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Buddhist ethics is that every situation
is a little bit different.
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We cannot have a blueprint and say
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it's always wrong to do this;
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it's always right to do something else.
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And it's also the difficulty about
Buddhist ethics.
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Sometimes if you have what is called
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a deontological ethic, which says
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you have to do this or you can't do this
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and you have to do that, it's easy.
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You just say, "Oh, I'll do that."
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But then you feel it's not quite right.
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But in Buddhism, every situation
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we have to use our compassion,
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our deep looking,
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our mindfulness, concentration and insight
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in order to be able to make a decision.
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And of course, to make a decision on
your own is not the best thing.
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It's far better to do it together,
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as a Sangha.
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When it's a difficult, moral dilemma,
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one pair of eyes, one intuition from
one Store Consciousness,
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is not nearly as sure and as safe
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as an intuition that comes from many,
many people.
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[The bell is awoken.]
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[The bell is invited.]
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When I received the 14 Mindfulness
Trainings in 1988,
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they were very different from how
they are now.
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The spirit was not different at all,
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but the wording was very different.
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So a training would start off with
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"không thể", you cannot, you should not.
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And then more recently,
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the trainings have been revised.
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And each one begins with the word "aware".
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Very often it's "Aware of the suffering..."
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"Aware of the suffering created by
fanaticism and intolerance,
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I am determined to...
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I don't know .. to let go of my...
I can't remember, never mind.
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And then the second one,
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"Aware of the suffering created by
attachment to views and wrong perceptions,
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I am determined to listen deeply to
other people."
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And the third Mindfulness Training:
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"Aware of the suffering created when I
cannot, no, by forcing others to accept
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my viewpoint, something like that.
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"Aware of the suffering created when we
impose our views on others,
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and aware that lack of communication
always brings suffering...
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And the Ninth Mindfulness Training:
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"Aware that words can create suffering
or happiness...
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And the Eleventh Mindfulness Training:
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"Aware that great violence and injustice have
been done to our environment and society...
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"Aware that much suffering is created
by war and by conflict...
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"Aware that sex motivated by craving
will create more suffering...
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So, at the basis of ethics is the
awareness of suffering,
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the first Noble Truth.
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And that is something that we can
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practise rationally with our intellectual
mind
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to look deeply and see the suffering.
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But we have to allow our emotional mind,
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our emotional part, also to feel the
suffering.
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before we really can make the determination
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to do something in order to help
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alleviate the suffering that we have seen.
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And every two weeks, we read the
Mindfulness Trainings together,
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we recite them or every month.
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And every time you can become more aware
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of suffering and you can become more
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determined to do something to help
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alleviate the suffering.
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So compassion is an important part
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of ethical behavior. And we can develop
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compassion by our way of thinking,
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our way of speaking, in our daily life.
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We should never say that person has no
compassion.
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We should never say of ourself
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"I have no compassion."
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Be sure you do.
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Compassion is a little bit linked to
the maternal instinct.
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It's the same kind of region of the brain:
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maternal love and compassion.
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And if you read the Discourse on Love,
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we see that the Buddha did not need
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to have MRI in order to be able to see that
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just as a mother loves and protects
her own child,
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at the risk of her own life, so we should
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develop compassion for all living beings.
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So we all have compassion.
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And what we need to do is we need
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to find ways in order for the compassion
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in us to be able to manifest.
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And if we've given ourselves too many
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opportunities to be in touch with too much
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suffering, then we may have fallen into
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what we saw before is called
"empathetic distress".
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And it doesn't matter if we've fallen
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into that way.
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But it is very important that we are mindful,
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and that we realize that has happened,
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and we do our best to take care of
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the happiness. And look on the other side.
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Look at what is going right, rather than
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what is going wrong.
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So if you are in a situation with another
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person, and you feel that when you listen
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to their suffering that you want to withdraw,
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you feel the stress in yourself,
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then you have the right to withdraw.
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Because you know that you cannot help that
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person. So you have to withdraw,
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in order to take care of yourself.
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To feel compassion for yourself.
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And if possible, to find someone else
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who can help the person who is suffering.
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Sometimes people look at babies, and they
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see the baby is compassionate.
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And another time, the people look and they
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see the baby is greedy and demanding.
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So it depends who is looking at the baby,
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what they see.
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And with two-year old children, they do an
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experiment, and they give one child..
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They have a group of children, and they
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give one child something that the other
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children don't have, something that can
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be shared, and the child, the two-year old,
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will naturally take it around
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and share it with everyone.
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If you have your own grandchildren,
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nieces in my case, your own children,
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grandchildren, nieces and nephews,
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you see that happen very often.
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You give one something, and they
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go around and share it with others.
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So that is the practice of loving kindness,
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which seems to be there, already, in us.
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In 1993, in Chicago, there was a
World Parliament of Religions,
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a conference.
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And our teacher, Thầy, was invited
to go there.
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And there were 200 delegates, I think.
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And they stayed in a very fancy hotel.
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And it was the 100th anniversary of the
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World Parliament of Religions.
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In 1893, they had their first session,
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and they have it every 3 or 2 years
or something.
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And in 1893, those represented were
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Hinduism, Buddhism, Islam, different
Christian schools including
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the Eastern and the Russian Orthodox.
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And that was about... Judaism.
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That was about it.
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But in 1993 they decided to ask for
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representatives of the Native American
spiritual paths and Shamanism.
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And some of the delegates were very upset.
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They said, these religions, they don't
have any proper "ism",
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they don't have any proper name.
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And they left. Yes, they left.
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So, it wasn't an entirely harmonious thing.
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Thầy was there.
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I think the person who kind of brought
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it all together was a Swiss theologian
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called Hans Küng...I think
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Kung, Kung, Kung?Kung?Kung?
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Not meaning to be disrespectful.
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My German pronunciation is not very good.
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A Catholic theologian.
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This year I think he is 90...
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He's about the same age as Thầy is.
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90 something, 92 or something.
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So really, he's dedicated his life to
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reforming, trying to bring about reform
in the Catholic Church.
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And so's he's not...
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and also into developing a global ethic.
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So he has a lot of, a lot of deep
motivation for a global ethic.
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Thầy also.
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Thầy once said in a Dharma Talk,
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that when practising sitting meditation
in the Upper Hamlet,
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at the end of the sitting meditation session,
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everybody touches the Earth three times.
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And when Thầy touches the Earth,
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Thầy makes the deep aspiration,
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"May Thầy and the Sangha be able to
contribute to a global ethic
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so that we can relieve a great deal
of suffering in the world.
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So as I said in 1993, there were present
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at the Parliament of Religions, a number
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of representatives of the American Indian.
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And they don't have something that is
called a religion as such,
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but they care very much about the Earth.
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And have a lot of respect and care for
the Earth, for Mother Earth.
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And recently in a book,
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Love Letters to the Earth,
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in the appendix to that book,
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Thầy says we need to find a global
spirituality.
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And maybe that spirituality will be based
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in our reverence and our awe for
the natural world, for Mother Earth,
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for the galaxies, for the cosmos.
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Because all human beings feel a deep
kind of awe when they look at
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the cosmos, at the...
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So in order to find something that we
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all have in common,
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and then to agree on how to word it,
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is not easy.
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I think in that Parliament of Religions,
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they all agreed about what the suffering
is that we're facing.
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But they could not agree on how to word,
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like the Five Mindfulness Trainings
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or something like that,
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to help people relieve that suffering.
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So that is a work that we still have to do.
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And we want, we really want,
to continue Thầy,
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and continue this effort in
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sometimes letting go of what we hold to
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in order to be able to contribute to a
global ethic.
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And when we contribute to a global ethic,
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we also need to look into other forms
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of ethics than Buddhist ethics, to try and
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find out what is it that the human mind
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can agree on, which all humans
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can agree on.
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So there, in 1993, most people, nearly everybody
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but not everybody, they agreed on 4 points,
four commitments that they wanted to make.
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And the first commitment was
to protect life.
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"A commitment to a culture of non-violence
and respect for life."
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So when we look at the 14 Mindfulness
Trainings of the Order of Interbeing
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we see that there are roots to our inability
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to protect life, there are roots to our
violence.
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And those things like fanaticism, dogmatism.
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When we cling to a dogma, when we say that
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we are right and you are wrong,
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that is contribution to violence.
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And so when we commit ourselves to
non-violence,
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on the one hand we commit ourselves
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to looking deeply into the seeds of
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violence we have in ourselves, and how
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not to water the violence we have in
ourselves.
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But at the same time,
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we want to find out, what is it
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that makes people violent.
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And when I stick to my dogma,
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and you stick to your dogma,
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and neither of us can accept the dogma
of the other,
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then that will also lead to violence
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that we commit together.
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And the second commitment they have
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is commitment to a culture of solidarity
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and just economic order.
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So solidarity here means, like "đoàn kết"
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it means that we stand together.
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East stands together with West.
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And if in the West we see that South or
the East is suffering,
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we know that that is also our suffering.
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So we want to help.
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The North wants to help the South,
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wants to stand together with the South.
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That is a culture of solidarity.
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And just economic order, like "?? nền kinh tế".
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"?? nền kinh tế công bằng?"
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So that also means that we want to
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be able to let go of our consumerism.
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We want to be able to let go of our
material comforts
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in order to be able to share our riches
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with the countries that don't have
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the riches we have.
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And the third commitment that they nearly
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came to agree with each other
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is commitment to a culture of tolerance
and truth.
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The ability to embrace each other.
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Tolerance is "bao dung".
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And to be truthful, to be authentic
with each other.
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And the fourth is a commitment to
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a culture of equal rights and partnership
between men and women.
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Equal rights is "bình quyền" and
partnership here is ?"sự hợp tác".
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Between men and women.
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But in that, in the details of that
commitment,
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it talks a lot about sexuality and not
exploiting sex,
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not selling sex, that kind of thing.
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So the theologian Hans Küng also
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spent much of his life in talking to
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business men about global ethics.
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When we read the second chapter of the
anguttara nikaya,
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the Buddha says, there are two things,
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monks, that protect the world,
that preserve the world.
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What are those two things?
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They are hiri and ottapa.
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So usually when you look in the Pali
dictionary,
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this how these two words are translated.
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Maybe moral shame, moral dread, it
doesn't sound very... um..
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To say that these two things protect
the world, preserve the world,
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may not sound so positive to you.
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Moral shame: it means that when I do
something I recognize that it
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brings about suffering for myself,
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and I feel ashamed.
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And so I don't do it.
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And, moral dread means I'm very afraid
of doing something wrong.
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I'm afraid to do that.
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I'm afraid to do something that will
make myself suffer and make
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other people suffer.
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And sometimes, we're afraid to do things
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because we think we will go to hell.
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Or we think that we will be punished.
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So, maybe you'd be afraid to rob a bank
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because you think you might be put
in prison.
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And sometimes in Buddhist temples, you
have fresco or paintings of the
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terrible punishments that happen in hell.
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Like being thrown in to a cauldron of oil,
boiling oil or something like that.
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for some wrong deed that you did.
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Well, the idea about that is make you afraid
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so you don't do it.
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But the thing is that in Plum Village,
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we don't really believe in hell,
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like place you go after you die,
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to be punished for what you've done
while you were alive.
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But we believe that hell is more like
a state of mind.
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And you can go there very easily while
you are still alive,
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if you choose to think in a certain way
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or act in a certain way.
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Like when you feel angry, it's a kind of
hell -- you feel very hot.
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But here, it means like a deep aspiration
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"I don't want to suffer and I don't want
to make other suffer."
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So I have a ... I draw back, I draw back
from doing things
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And when I do something that makes me
suffer and makes others suffer,
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I recognize that I made a mistake.
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And I feel ashamed.
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And I either come and confess to somebody
else or I confess to myself,
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and the words I use are something like
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I made a mistake; I made you suffer;
I made myself suffer.
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And I'm not going to do that again.
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I am very sorry.
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And then it is finished.
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If it doesn't finish there, and I keep
reminding myself,
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"I did that terrible thing.
I can't forget it"
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then it becomes guilt.
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And guilt is a complex, and
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it's not something positive like shame is.
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Shame is positive, because it helps me to
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get over what I've done wrong and helps
me not to make the same mistake again.
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The philosopher Mencius,
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Mạnh Tử,
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said that human beings are innately good.
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They have innate compassion.
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And he talked about four things,
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which he called four beginnings,
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which lead to living a moral life.
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trắc ẩn tu ô' ???
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This is these two, I think.
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Tu here means to be shy, to feel ashamed.
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So it's like Hiri. This is Mencius.
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And ô' means to hate.
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So you hate, you hate doing wrong.
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It's a little bit like being afraid of
doing wrong.
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You don't like doing wrong.
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This means compassion.
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These means something you can translate
as compassion.
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And Mencius said that if you are inside,
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and you see a child climb onto the edge
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of a well outside, then you immediately want
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to run out and take the child in your arms
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so the child doesn't fall into the well.
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And if the door is locked, and you can't
get out, you will be very
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you will feel very bad, very frustrated.
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You won't know what to do.
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So that is the natural compassion
that we have, that we want
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to save the life of others.
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And this means that we are ashamed to
do something wrong.
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And this means that we don't want,
we don't like to do something wrong.
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từ như ??
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The last one I remember... Easy.
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thị phi ... từ nhượng
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So từ nhượng means that you say good-bye
to something.
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Like in "từ ?", you say good-bye.
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You refrain, you don't do that.
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You see that you can let go and not do it.
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And "nhượng" means to yield.
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You can let go, you don't hold on to...
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If something is necessary is to be done,
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you will do it.
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If it is something you shouldn't do,
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you can say good-bye to it and not do it.
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You can refrain from doing something.
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Like somebody comes to me and they say
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"Oh, you know, I love very much somebody
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who is my workplace. And she has a husband
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and children, I have a wife and children...
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But I know that I just have to give up
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that love for the person, because I have
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to care of my family, I have to take care
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of my wife, and she has to take care
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of her family and husband."
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So that is to give up.
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And then when we see something that needs
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to be done, we do it.
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And this means we have the capacity to
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discriminate between what is right, and
what is wrong.
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But like we said before, we have to..
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In Buddhism, we don't know in advance
-
what is right and what is wrong.
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We have to use our mindfulness,
concentration and insight in every
-
situation to know what is right and wrong.
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With the Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings,
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the Five Mindfulness Traingings,
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we have basic guidelines to help us go
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in that direction.
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But finally, we have to use mindfulness,
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concentration, insight and the collective
wisdom of the Sangha
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in order to know what is right and wrong
in this situation.
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And that is why when we do our meditation
-
in the evening, we say
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there is no more thought of right and wrong.
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Because in your meditation,
-
you don't want to be thinking
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oh, should I do this or should I do that?
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In our meditation, we need to be able to
-
to come back to our breathing,
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to let go of all our thinking
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and then refresh our mind and
-
look deeply.
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Yes. So that is a little bit of
-
talking about meta-ethics in Buddhism.
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We have ethics, which is "đạo đức học"
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but we also have meta-ethics
-
which is "siêu đạo đức học".
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So what lies at the base of ethics?
-
And, it may be the no thought of
right and wrong.
-
What lies at the base of ethics is
the awareness of suffering,
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the awareness of happiness,
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and also the ability to let go of
all ideas of right and wrong.
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In order to be able to discover
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what will lead to the greatest happiness
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and the least suffering in this particular
circumstance.
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I think Jeremy Bentham and John Stuart Mill
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in the 19th century, they talk about
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the greatest happiness of the greatest
number
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as being the basis for ethics.
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And in Buddhism we could agree
also with that.
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We want, that is what we feel
-
we want the least amount of suffering.
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But we also know that suffering is
-
essential for there to be compassion.
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And compassion is essential for
-
there to be happiness.
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But there will always be suffering.
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We don't know to worry that one day,
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there will be no more suffering.
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We just don't want to make more suffering
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than what is already offering itself to us.
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[The bell is awoken.]
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[The bell is invited.]
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And I think that Jeremy Bentham and
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John Stuart Mill, they talked a lot about
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material happiness.
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There's a lot of poverty.
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There still is a lot of poverty.
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And obviously to be able to eradicate
-
poverty would bring material happiness,
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which will then lead to spiritual happiness.
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Because when people are so poor,
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they don't have the time, they don't
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have the opportunity to develop their
spiritual life.
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And so that is a basic step.
-
But we also see that spiritual happiness
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is very important.
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And when I lived in India, in a place that
was very poor,
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I used to see the children there.
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They had no clothes, really,
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a few ragged clothes sometimes.
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But they were happy.
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They'd play with each other, although
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they didn't have any toys,
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they didn't have proper clothes to wear.
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But they had a kind of happiness that
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sometimes in children who have clothes and
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have many toys, you don't see.
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But that also has something to do with
-
our sharing our wealth, so that
-
everybody has enough, but not more
-
than they need.
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One German economist said it is perfectly
-
possible for everyone to have a wage that
-
is the same -- everybody earns the same
amount of money.
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So during the three months
of the Autumn Retreat,
-
we have an opportunity for us to be able
-
to look into how the Fourteen Mindfulness
Trainings affect our own life.
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And how we can help, how they can help us
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to develop our compassion.
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And we have plenty of opportunity
-
in our sitting meditation to practise
-
loving kindness meditation if we want to
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so that we can more easily bring up the
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innate compassion that we all have.
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[The bell is invited.]
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[The bell is invited.]
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[The small bell is invited.]