1 00:00:06,628 --> 00:00:12,333 [The bell is awoken.] 2 00:00:12,333 --> 00:00:32,396 [The bell is invited.] 3 00:00:43,317 --> 00:01:04,799 [The bell is invited.] 4 00:01:16,060 --> 00:01:37,001 [The bell is invited.] 5 00:01:37,001 --> 00:01:41,955 Dear Sangha, this autumn the topic that 6 00:01:41,955 --> 00:01:45,560 we will be looking into is the 7 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:50,854 Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings of the Order of Interbeing. 8 00:01:50,854 --> 00:01:56,058 And last week we heard a Dharma Talk from Sister Doan Nghiem 9 00:01:56,058 --> 00:02:06,923 about the origin of,... the founder of the school to which we belong in the 10 00:02:06,923 --> 00:02:12,680 Plum Village tradition, called the Lieu Quan School. 11 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:18,069 And so today, we will continue by looking 12 00:02:18,069 --> 00:02:25,005 at some of the foundations of ethics which 13 00:02:25,005 --> 00:02:30,212 lie at the basis of the Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings, 14 00:02:30,212 --> 00:02:34,504 in Buddhism and in the Plum Village Tradition. 15 00:02:35,675 --> 00:02:41,890 So if you were here last week, you can remember that Master Lieu Quan 16 00:02:41,890 --> 00:02:46,202 wrote a poem, or a gatha, which was what 17 00:02:46,202 --> 00:02:49,876 we call a lineage poem, and each word of 18 00:02:49,876 --> 00:02:56,588 that poem represents one generation of the 19 00:02:56,588 --> 00:02:59,869 continuation of Master Lieu Quan, 20 00:02:59,869 --> 00:03:07,473 his spiritual continuation in the Lieu Quan School, the Lieu Quan line. 21 00:03:07,615 --> 00:03:10,895 So the first name is his own name, 22 00:03:10,895 --> 00:03:15,418 and the second word... the first word is his own name, 23 00:03:15,740 --> 00:03:22,089 and the second one is the name he gave his own disciples in his lifetime. 24 00:03:22,328 --> 00:03:28,183 And the third word is the disciples of his disciples. 25 00:03:28,183 --> 00:03:34,849 So we belong to the ninth generation, 26 00:03:34,849 --> 00:03:39,152 so we are, ... we have the name "tâm", meaning heart. 27 00:03:39,807 --> 00:03:42,451 If you have received the Five Mindfulness Trainings, 28 00:03:42,451 --> 00:03:45,727 you'll have the name "heart" in it. 29 00:03:46,629 --> 00:03:49,312 So that is the ninth word of the poem. 30 00:03:49,820 --> 00:03:53,451 And now I would like to look at that line. 31 00:03:53,451 --> 00:03:58,271 The poem has four words to a line. 32 00:03:58,583 --> 00:04:02,797 So we now look at that line of the poem. 33 00:04:09,538 --> 00:04:16,521 And today I have an opportunity to practice walking meditation. 34 00:06:46,115 --> 00:06:50,120 So the source of mind penetrates everywhere. 35 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:55,736 From the roots of virtue springs compassion. 36 00:06:55,736 --> 00:06:56,763 Something like that. 37 00:06:56,763 --> 00:07:01,883 That is Thầy's translation that you will see if you receive the 38 00:07:01,883 --> 00:07:07,332 Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings and you have the certificate, 39 00:07:07,332 --> 00:07:10,529 I think in English you will see something like that. 40 00:07:18,649 --> 00:07:25,436 So, it's like you have a source of water 41 00:07:25,436 --> 00:07:31,610 on the mountain, and the water goes everywhere down the mountain, 42 00:07:31,610 --> 00:07:40,311 and it penetrates into the earth, in many, many places. 43 00:07:40,903 --> 00:07:47,454 And, here, it really says "the roots of virtue". 44 00:07:47,454 --> 00:07:55,345 And this word here, "phong", this word means something like... 45 00:07:55,345 --> 00:08:06,590 You have it in Vietamese or Chinese in "phong tục ?", "phong ?". 46 00:08:06,590 --> 00:08:09,524 So it means something like a custom. 47 00:08:09,524 --> 00:08:14,719 A custom, or a way, or a tradition. 48 00:08:16,131 --> 00:08:21,660 And this word here, "từ" is usually translated as loving kindness, 49 00:08:21,660 --> 00:08:24,585 but Thầy translates as compassion, 50 00:08:24,585 --> 00:08:27,699 because the word stands for "từ bi", 51 00:08:27,699 --> 00:08:31,559 which means loving kindness and compassion. 52 00:08:33,855 --> 00:08:41,356 So, from the roots of virtue, we have 53 00:08:41,356 --> 00:08:47,678 the custom of compassion, of loving kindness, 54 00:08:47,678 --> 00:08:52,451 the tradition of compassion or loving kindness. 55 00:08:52,451 --> 00:08:55,378 And sometimes we have a movement, 56 00:08:55,378 --> 00:08:58,909 like the movement, the Wake-up movement 57 00:08:58,909 --> 00:09:11,575 is called the young Buddhists and non-Buddhists for a compassionate society. 58 00:09:11,575 --> 00:09:23,768 So here the idea is compassion of a whole society, compassion of a tradition, 59 00:09:23,768 --> 00:09:27,599 or a custom of compassion. 60 00:09:29,557 --> 00:09:32,962 Nowadays, people use the word compassion 61 00:09:32,962 --> 00:09:37,604 quite a lot. And neuroscientists are very 62 00:09:37,604 --> 00:09:42,254 interested in compassion. 63 00:09:42,254 --> 00:09:51,168 And those neuroscientists who are familiar with Tibetan Buddhism and have 64 00:09:51,168 --> 00:09:53,599 talked to the Dalai Lama, 65 00:09:53,599 --> 00:10:01,853 they also are very interested in where you can find compassion in your brain. 66 00:10:01,853 --> 00:10:07,338 Whereabouts compassion comes from, in your brain. 67 00:10:07,486 --> 00:10:11,445 And if the human brain has compassion, 68 00:10:11,445 --> 00:10:16,462 does it mean that animal brain also has compassion? 69 00:10:16,462 --> 00:10:22,828 Because people used to say that human beings 70 00:10:22,828 --> 00:10:26,768 are capable of ethical behavior, 71 00:10:26,768 --> 00:10:30,421 human beings are capable of compassion, 72 00:10:30,421 --> 00:10:33,988 and that is where they differ from animals. 73 00:10:33,988 --> 00:10:40,579 But now we see that the human is really just another animal. 74 00:10:40,579 --> 00:10:50,780 And so the human brain is a continuation of the animal brain. 75 00:10:50,780 --> 00:10:55,178 And it's not very different from the animal brain. 76 00:10:55,178 --> 00:11:00,242 So that is another thing that we need to look into. 77 00:11:00,242 --> 00:11:02,731 We usually think that as human beings, 78 00:11:02,731 --> 00:11:08,119 we're something quite exclusive. 79 00:11:11,456 --> 00:11:13,895 And, is that better? 80 00:11:13,895 --> 00:11:17,542 We're quite exclusive, and we have something special 81 00:11:17,542 --> 00:11:21,793 that the animals don't have. 82 00:11:21,793 --> 00:11:30,834 So I remember once, some neuroscientists were doing an experiment to prove that 83 00:11:30,834 --> 00:11:34,004 rats had compassion. 84 00:11:34,004 --> 00:11:39,262 So they taught the rat how to open the cage. 85 00:11:39,262 --> 00:11:43,421 And they had one rat that's free, not in a cage. 86 00:11:43,421 --> 00:11:47,602 And another rat is in the cage. 87 00:11:47,602 --> 00:11:51,098 And they saw that the rat who was free, 88 00:11:51,098 --> 00:11:52,787 he knew how to open the cage, 89 00:11:52,787 --> 00:11:58,040 and he let the rat out, the other rat out. 90 00:11:58,040 --> 00:11:59,580 So it was free. 91 00:11:59,580 --> 00:12:01,726 So the scientist was happy, and he said, 92 00:12:01,726 --> 00:12:07,532 "Oh, now we know that the animals, they also have compassion for each other. 93 00:12:08,193 --> 00:12:12,975 The rat didn't want the other rat to suffer in the cage, so he let him out." 94 00:12:12,975 --> 00:12:15,479 And then another scientist came along and 95 00:12:15,479 --> 00:12:17,797 said, "How do you know?" 96 00:12:17,797 --> 00:12:20,595 "Maybe he just wanted a friend to play with, 97 00:12:20,595 --> 00:12:24,711 so he was letting it out for his own selfish motivation." 98 00:12:26,181 --> 00:12:28,592 So we always can find a way to prove that 99 00:12:28,592 --> 00:12:32,963 human beings are a little bit special. 100 00:12:35,944 --> 00:12:41,509 But it's very important, how, how can we, 101 00:12:41,509 --> 00:12:44,150 how can we found, how can we establish, 102 00:12:44,150 --> 00:12:49,904 how can we help establish a compassionate society, 103 00:12:49,904 --> 00:12:58,314 where the custom, the culture, is a culture of compassion. 104 00:12:58,314 --> 00:13:01,561 And if compassion is something that is 105 00:13:01,561 --> 00:13:06,032 innate in our brain, then we just need to 106 00:13:06,032 --> 00:13:10,328 find ways in order to be able to help that, 107 00:13:10,328 --> 00:13:13,884 that seed as we call it in Buddhism, 108 00:13:13,884 --> 00:13:22,023 to flourish, to grow into a plant in human beings. 109 00:13:27,202 --> 00:13:30,977 So if we come back again to neuroscience. 110 00:14:37,635 --> 00:14:41,578 So scientists use the word empathy. 111 00:14:56,020 --> 00:15:01,940 I wanted to find out what that word is in Vietnamese, and I haven't found it. 112 00:15:01,940 --> 00:15:08,334 All I found was "thấu cảm"(?). 113 00:15:08,334 --> 00:15:13,868 ,But I think it doesn't mean empathy, so I won't write it down. 114 00:15:14,190 --> 00:15:24,100 But empathy is something that animals have in their ... 115 00:15:24,100 --> 00:15:26,077 They've found the place in the brain 116 00:15:26,077 --> 00:15:28,076 where empathy comes from. 117 00:15:28,106 --> 00:15:34,280 And empathy means that you can feel the suffering of another person. 118 00:15:35,957 --> 00:15:40,074 You can know that another person is suffering. 119 00:15:40,789 --> 00:15:43,446 And it has an effect on you. 120 00:15:43,446 --> 00:15:47,280 When you see another person suffering, 121 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:50,751 you also feel uncomfortable. 122 00:15:50,751 --> 00:15:52,920 You don't feel happy. 123 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,763 So that is what is called empathy. 124 00:15:55,763 --> 00:15:59,438 And you see another person happy, 125 00:15:59,438 --> 00:16:02,181 you can also feel happy. 126 00:16:02,181 --> 00:16:08,632 So, if we have empathy, 127 00:16:09,229 --> 00:16:15,259 we have the possibility also to have compassion. 128 00:16:15,259 --> 00:16:20,593 But empathy itself is not compassion. 129 00:16:20,593 --> 00:16:26,411 So empathy belongs to some region of the brain, and then it's linked up with 130 00:16:26,411 --> 00:16:31,052 compassion, which lights up another region of the brain. 131 00:16:35,698 --> 00:16:41,034 So scientists say that empathy can result 132 00:16:41,034 --> 00:16:44,813 in two different things. 133 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:50,329 And one is compassion. 134 00:17:02,069 --> 00:17:06,783 And the other they call empathetic distress. 135 00:17:34,256 --> 00:17:37,249 So when you have compassion, 136 00:17:37,249 --> 00:17:42,573 then your feeling is directed to the other person. 137 00:18:02,594 --> 00:18:08,892 And in this case, this is called self-directed. 138 00:18:20,691 --> 00:18:28,215 And then, your emotion here, 139 00:18:28,215 --> 00:18:36,735 where there is compassion, the emotion is one of loving kindness or happiness 140 00:18:39,065 --> 00:18:40,568 or both. 141 00:19:04,168 --> 00:19:09,144 So in this case, the emotion is one of stress. 142 00:19:11,550 --> 00:19:14,264 And that is suffering. 143 00:19:24,018 --> 00:19:28,566 And these things lead to health. 144 00:19:36,052 --> 00:19:39,450 And these things lead to ill-health. 145 00:19:53,735 --> 00:20:00,905 I think this is what we've heard Thầy say for a long time. 146 00:20:00,905 --> 00:20:07,719 That when we have a thought of compassion, 147 00:20:07,719 --> 00:20:17,079 it immediately brings us health, and it brings more health to the world. 148 00:20:17,079 --> 00:20:23,376 And without compassion, we cannot have real happiness. 149 00:20:23,787 --> 00:20:27,233 Compassion brings us a lot of happiness. 150 00:20:27,932 --> 00:20:32,365 And when you feel compassion for another person, 151 00:20:32,365 --> 00:20:36,555 the first one who benefits from that feeling 152 00:20:36,555 --> 00:20:40,266 of compassion is the person who feels it, 153 00:20:40,266 --> 00:20:42,572 even before they have done something 154 00:20:42,572 --> 00:20:44,096 to help the other person, 155 00:20:44,096 --> 00:20:46,575 they already feel better, because of 156 00:20:46,575 --> 00:20:50,030 the compassion in their heart. 157 00:20:59,706 --> 00:21:05,097 So, another thing they say here is "approach" 158 00:21:13,512 --> 00:21:15,839 and here is "withdrawal". 159 00:21:31,037 --> 00:21:34,874 So I think that it is easy for us when 160 00:21:34,874 --> 00:21:42,162 we are in touch with another person who is suffering, or an animal who is suffering, 161 00:21:42,162 --> 00:21:46,196 or any kind of suffering in society, 162 00:21:46,196 --> 00:21:53,070 to be able to tell, what is arising in us? 163 00:21:53,070 --> 00:22:00,732 Is compassion arising? Or is what is called empathetic distress arising in us? 164 00:22:07,542 --> 00:22:10,461 That is, we want to withdraw. 165 00:22:10,461 --> 00:22:17,223 It's too much for us: the suffering is too much for us, 166 00:22:17,223 --> 00:22:19,849 of the other person. 167 00:22:20,534 --> 00:22:24,230 And this is kind of when we have burn-out. 168 00:22:24,230 --> 00:22:29,800 People who are working in the environmental movement, or 169 00:22:30,618 --> 00:22:35,998 some other movement to help the world. 170 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,249 And they feel that they're not making any 171 00:22:38,249 --> 00:22:43,842 progress, then rather than feel compassion 172 00:22:43,842 --> 00:22:47,436 when looking at the suffering, 173 00:22:47,436 --> 00:22:49,558 they feel distress. 174 00:22:49,997 --> 00:22:52,093 And frustration. 175 00:22:56,929 --> 00:23:02,555 So now, many psychotherapists will teach 176 00:23:02,555 --> 00:23:09,900 their patients to practise loving kindness 177 00:23:09,900 --> 00:23:14,065 meditation, compassion meditation. 178 00:23:14,065 --> 00:23:22,452 Because they see that happiness is possible when we can feel compassion. 179 00:23:22,452 --> 00:23:27,159 And they have done, neuroscientists have done research, 180 00:23:27,159 --> 00:23:34,825 and even people who only practise loving kindness meditation for 7 days, 181 00:23:34,825 --> 00:23:40,276 they already see a change in their neuro-pathways. 182 00:23:41,679 --> 00:23:52,009 So just like mindfulness has become something very widespread 183 00:23:52,034 --> 00:23:58,214 in society now, without being called a Buddhist practice, 184 00:23:58,251 --> 00:24:02,801 a practice that anyone can do whether they have religion or not, 185 00:24:03,437 --> 00:24:08,198 loving kindness meditation is also becoming like that. 186 00:24:08,198 --> 00:24:10,788 You don't have to be a Buddhist to do it, 187 00:24:10,931 --> 00:24:15,204 although it began in Buddhism. 188 00:24:16,793 --> 00:24:20,479 So you know that when you do loving kindness meditation, 189 00:24:20,479 --> 00:24:26,643 the first object of your meditation is yourself. 190 00:24:27,112 --> 00:24:37,612 "May I be peaceful, happy and light in body and spirit." 191 00:24:37,612 --> 00:24:40,910 You have to really feel that for yourself. 192 00:24:40,910 --> 00:24:43,851 That is something you really want. 193 00:24:43,851 --> 00:24:50,260 And when you can have it, you can have a lot of happiness. 194 00:24:50,260 --> 00:24:53,855 And if you don't feel it for yourself, 195 00:24:53,855 --> 00:24:59,132 then it's not easy to feel it for another person. 196 00:24:59,777 --> 00:25:05,831 And then the next part of the loving kindness meditation is 197 00:25:05,831 --> 00:25:11,931 "May I be safe and free from accident." 198 00:25:12,115 --> 00:25:14,042 That is something we all want. 199 00:25:14,042 --> 00:25:20,837 We all want to be able to feel absolutely safe, where nothing can harm us. 200 00:25:20,837 --> 00:25:25,870 Whether we can find a place like that or not is another matter. 201 00:25:25,903 --> 00:25:30,153 But we have a deep desire to safe and free from accident. 202 00:25:32,782 --> 00:25:35,943 So we have to recognize that desire. 203 00:25:37,072 --> 00:25:42,217 And then we recognize that everyone else also has that desire. 204 00:25:42,437 --> 00:25:47,391 And so then we go on to someone who is a friend of ours. 205 00:25:47,391 --> 00:25:57,415 "May he, or may she, be happy, peaceful and light in body and in spirit." 206 00:25:57,415 --> 00:26:02,735 "May he or she be safe and free from accident." 207 00:26:02,735 --> 00:26:08,043 And that is also quite easy for us to do for a friend of ours. 208 00:26:08,567 --> 00:26:17,646 And then we take as the object someone who is neutral to us -- 209 00:26:17,646 --> 00:26:21,130 somebody who you don't particularly like 210 00:26:21,179 --> 00:26:25,659 or somebody you don't have any bad feeling about. 211 00:26:26,635 --> 00:26:30,455 But somebody you meet from time to time. 212 00:26:30,574 --> 00:26:32,849 And you wish it for them. 213 00:26:32,849 --> 00:26:35,544 And the interesting thing is that is when 214 00:26:35,544 --> 00:26:39,474 you wish for a person who is neutral to you, 215 00:26:39,474 --> 00:26:45,972 "May he or she be happy, peaceful and light in body and spirit" 216 00:26:45,972 --> 00:26:49,791 suddenly that person is no longer neutral. 217 00:26:49,791 --> 00:26:52,842 That person becomes, through your meditation, 218 00:26:52,842 --> 00:26:57,621 somebody you have friendly feelings to. 219 00:26:57,621 --> 00:27:00,553 And then we should take, we should take 220 00:27:00,553 --> 00:27:04,174 someone who causes us difficulties. 221 00:27:05,658 --> 00:27:07,265 And while we meditate, 222 00:27:07,265 --> 00:27:12,861 "May he or she be happy, peaceful and light" 223 00:27:12,861 --> 00:27:19,596 we come into contact with the body and the feelings of that person 224 00:27:19,596 --> 00:27:23,177 that we are meditating on, and we begin 225 00:27:23,177 --> 00:27:26,003 to understand them better. 226 00:27:26,003 --> 00:27:28,127 We understand that just as we have a 227 00:27:28,127 --> 00:27:31,508 deep need to be safe, 228 00:27:31,906 --> 00:27:37,916 that person who causes us to suffer, has a deep need to be safe also. 229 00:27:38,362 --> 00:27:41,099 And we will be able through that kind 230 00:27:41,099 --> 00:27:44,423 of meditation to change our way of thinking 231 00:27:44,423 --> 00:27:47,740 about the person who makes us suffer. 232 00:27:47,997 --> 00:27:51,641 And this change, it actually can be noticed 233 00:27:51,641 --> 00:27:58,072 by neuroscientists who do FMRI on the 234 00:27:58,072 --> 00:28:01,839 brain of the practionner. 235 00:28:02,672 --> 00:28:07,748 It is a way of developing happiness. 236 00:28:07,748 --> 00:28:11,011 It's a way of developing health. 237 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:23,380 And when I first came to Buddhism, 238 00:28:23,380 --> 00:28:26,068 I thought that everything we did, 239 00:28:26,068 --> 00:28:28,003 every practice we did, 240 00:28:28,003 --> 00:28:31,258 was to be able to help other people. 241 00:28:32,172 --> 00:28:36,996 So metta meditation is not for my benefit, 242 00:28:36,996 --> 00:28:40,251 but for the benefit of other beings. 243 00:28:41,605 --> 00:28:43,074 And 244 00:28:46,403 --> 00:28:50,989 then you realize that it is also benefitting yourself. 245 00:28:52,339 --> 00:28:56,869 And now, when metta meditation is becoming 246 00:28:56,907 --> 00:29:00,936 something widespread, it's really done 247 00:29:00,936 --> 00:29:04,143 with the idea that it is to help yourself. 248 00:29:04,143 --> 00:29:06,409 That is what comes first. 249 00:29:06,409 --> 00:29:09,279 First of all, it will help you, and then, 250 00:29:09,279 --> 00:29:11,049 as a kind of spinoff, 251 00:29:11,049 --> 00:29:13,587 it will help other people as well. 252 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:19,960 So the motivation is a little bit different. 253 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:25,261 But however, once you begin to practise, 254 00:29:25,261 --> 00:29:31,028 then your motivation also begins to change. 255 00:29:32,220 --> 00:29:36,884 It's like once you begin to practise mindfulness, at first you do it 256 00:29:36,884 --> 00:29:40,843 just for yourself. But then you see that 257 00:29:40,843 --> 00:29:44,576 practising mindfulness, you're helping others as well, 258 00:29:44,576 --> 00:29:47,531 and your motivation becomes one 259 00:29:47,531 --> 00:29:51,199 to help others too --- it's what you want to do, is to help others. 260 00:29:51,199 --> 00:29:55,344 In the beginning, you just wanted to help yourself. 261 00:29:58,215 --> 00:30:04,728 So when I consider these things that are happening in our society, 262 00:30:04,728 --> 00:30:09,284 even though we may be doing it for ourself in the first place, 263 00:30:09,284 --> 00:30:14,111 I also consider that we are going in the right direction, 264 00:30:15,221 --> 00:30:22,588 to try and form a compassionate society, a compassionate culture. 265 00:30:22,919 --> 00:30:27,401 [The bell is awoken.] 266 00:30:28,731 --> 00:30:43,144 [The bell is invited.] 267 00:30:43,144 --> 00:30:48,767 And people also talk about two kinds of compassion. 268 00:30:51,465 --> 00:30:54,488 But I don't know if it's quite correct to do that. 269 00:30:54,488 --> 00:31:03,336 On the one hand, compassion that is emotional and intuitive. 270 00:31:06,636 --> 00:31:16,170 And on the other hand, compassion that is more rational and more explicit. 271 00:31:16,170 --> 00:31:19,866 That is something that you can talk about more. 272 00:31:22,676 --> 00:31:26,937 As human beings, we have both these sides to us. 273 00:31:26,937 --> 00:31:28,860 We have both the rational side, 274 00:31:28,860 --> 00:31:31,965 and we have the emotional side. 275 00:31:32,989 --> 00:31:36,106 And as far as I understand it, compassion 276 00:31:36,106 --> 00:31:39,117 should contain both of those elements. 277 00:31:45,958 --> 00:31:48,808 We often have moral dilemmas. 278 00:31:48,808 --> 00:31:51,755 We don't quite know what we should do 279 00:31:51,755 --> 00:31:54,755 in a certain situation. 280 00:31:57,137 --> 00:32:00,481 And sometimes we use our reasoning. 281 00:32:01,314 --> 00:32:04,915 And sometimes we use our emotions more 282 00:32:04,915 --> 00:32:07,247 when we want to decide what to do. 283 00:32:14,834 --> 00:32:20,323 Not long ago, on a retreat, 284 00:32:20,323 --> 00:32:26,325 my younger sister asked me 285 00:32:26,325 --> 00:32:30,856 "Should I go and help this layperson?" 286 00:32:31,073 --> 00:32:34,215 "Should I go on my own and help this layperson? 287 00:32:34,998 --> 00:32:40,950 "Or should I stay in the retreat and be present at the Dharma Sharing?" 288 00:32:42,598 --> 00:32:46,521 So, when I was asked that question, 289 00:32:46,540 --> 00:32:51,398 of course my training immediately came up: 290 00:32:51,398 --> 00:32:54,619 you should stay in the Dharma Sharing, 291 00:32:54,619 --> 00:32:58,798 because in the Dharma Sharing you will help many people. 292 00:32:58,984 --> 00:33:03,041 But if you just go on your own and help one layperson, 293 00:33:03,041 --> 00:33:05,487 you will only help one person. 294 00:33:06,585 --> 00:33:11,692 So with my rational mind, it was clear what we should do. 295 00:33:13,246 --> 00:33:16,901 But as I followed my breathing, 296 00:33:16,901 --> 00:33:21,603 and I looked, just stopped all my thinking, 297 00:33:21,603 --> 00:33:25,055 then I suddenly felt there is something not right. 298 00:33:27,519 --> 00:33:30,613 And, eh, I didn't know why. 299 00:33:30,613 --> 00:33:36,384 But intuitively and emotionally, I felt 300 00:33:36,384 --> 00:33:39,922 I should let my sister go and help that layperson. 301 00:33:41,835 --> 00:33:45,257 And my sister said, " I don't mind either way." 302 00:33:46,102 --> 00:33:48,634 "If you tell me to stay, I'll be happy to stay." 303 00:33:48,634 --> 00:33:52,057 "If you tell me to go, I'll be happy to go." 304 00:33:53,963 --> 00:33:58,933 So, sometimes, we have a moral dilemma 305 00:33:58,933 --> 00:34:03,291 like that and we, we don't know whether 306 00:34:03,291 --> 00:34:05,497 to use more of our rational side 307 00:34:05,497 --> 00:34:07,983 or more of our emotional side. 308 00:34:09,551 --> 00:34:18,466 But I have a lot trust in the Store Consciousness. 309 00:34:18,910 --> 00:34:25,014 That is the more unconscious side of my mind. 310 00:34:25,890 --> 00:34:29,313 Sometimes, of course, from our Store Consciousness, 311 00:34:29,313 --> 00:34:33,297 we have an intuition which comes from 312 00:34:33,297 --> 00:34:36,619 habit energy in our Store Consciousness. 313 00:34:38,034 --> 00:34:40,846 Because we've done it like that for so long, 314 00:34:41,734 --> 00:34:44,583 we intuitively want to do that out of our habit energy. 315 00:34:45,714 --> 00:34:48,398 But if our mind is clear, 316 00:34:48,398 --> 00:34:51,025 if we follow our breathing 317 00:34:51,025 --> 00:34:54,868 and empty our mind of all thinking, 318 00:34:54,868 --> 00:35:01,033 it's an opportunity for an intuitive insight to come up. 319 00:35:01,793 --> 00:35:08,253 And we can sometimes use that in making a moral decision. 320 00:35:09,589 --> 00:35:15,193 But we have to make sure that we are very calm, and very clear 321 00:35:15,193 --> 00:35:17,935 when the insight comes up. 322 00:35:18,439 --> 00:35:22,294 And then we feel, "yes, I've done my best. 323 00:35:22,294 --> 00:35:25,517 I've looked into the rational side. 324 00:35:25,517 --> 00:35:29,092 I've also allowed the emotional side. 325 00:35:29,092 --> 00:35:36,724 And then, I've asked both sides to be quiet, and allowed the intuition to come up. 326 00:35:40,337 --> 00:35:42,511 And that is the wonderful thing about 327 00:35:42,511 --> 00:35:48,980 Buddhist ethics is that every situation is a little bit different. 328 00:35:49,534 --> 00:35:51,709 We cannot have a blueprint and say 329 00:35:51,709 --> 00:35:54,509 it's always wrong to do this; 330 00:35:54,509 --> 00:35:58,016 it's always right to do something else. 331 00:35:58,016 --> 00:36:01,881 And it's also the difficulty about Buddhist ethics. 332 00:36:02,717 --> 00:36:04,882 Sometimes if you have what is called 333 00:36:04,882 --> 00:36:07,757 a deontological ethic, which says 334 00:36:07,757 --> 00:36:11,448 you have to do this or you can't do this 335 00:36:11,448 --> 00:36:13,354 and you have to do that, it's easy. 336 00:36:13,354 --> 00:36:15,762 You just say, "Oh, I'll do that." 337 00:36:15,762 --> 00:36:18,099 But then you feel it's not quite right. 338 00:36:18,099 --> 00:36:20,363 But in Buddhism, every situation 339 00:36:20,363 --> 00:36:23,215 we have to use our compassion, 340 00:36:23,329 --> 00:36:25,470 our deep looking, 341 00:36:25,470 --> 00:36:29,251 our mindfulness, concentration and insight 342 00:36:29,251 --> 00:36:33,038 in order to be able to make a decision. 343 00:36:33,038 --> 00:36:38,795 And of course, to make a decision on your own is not the best thing. 344 00:36:38,991 --> 00:36:42,004 It's far better to do it together, 345 00:36:42,004 --> 00:36:43,761 as a Sangha. 346 00:36:43,761 --> 00:36:47,403 When it's a difficult, moral dilemma, 347 00:36:47,403 --> 00:36:53,596 one pair of eyes, one intuition from one Store Consciousness, 348 00:36:53,596 --> 00:36:57,894 is not nearly as sure and as safe 349 00:36:57,894 --> 00:37:01,895 as an intuition that comes from many, many people. 350 00:37:02,976 --> 00:37:08,618 [The bell is awoken.] 351 00:37:08,618 --> 00:37:27,201 [The bell is invited.] 352 00:37:27,734 --> 00:37:33,933 When I received the 14 Mindfulness Trainings in 1988, 353 00:37:33,933 --> 00:37:37,562 they were very different from how they are now. 354 00:37:37,562 --> 00:37:40,197 The spirit was not different at all, 355 00:37:40,197 --> 00:37:43,053 but the wording was very different. 356 00:37:43,053 --> 00:37:45,503 So a training would start off with 357 00:37:45,503 --> 00:37:52,130 "không thể", you cannot, you should not. 358 00:37:53,732 --> 00:37:57,756 And then more recently, 359 00:37:57,756 --> 00:38:00,196 the trainings have been revised. 360 00:38:00,196 --> 00:38:05,352 And each one begins with the word "aware". 361 00:38:05,352 --> 00:38:09,241 Very often it's "Aware of the suffering..." 362 00:38:09,241 --> 00:38:16,095 "Aware of the suffering created by fanaticism and intolerance, 363 00:38:16,095 --> 00:38:20,334 I am determined to... 364 00:38:20,334 --> 00:38:24,654 I don't know .. to let go of my... I can't remember, never mind. 365 00:38:24,654 --> 00:38:27,061 And then the second one, 366 00:38:27,061 --> 00:38:35,545 "Aware of the suffering created by attachment to views and wrong perceptions, 367 00:38:36,298 --> 00:38:40,818 I am determined to listen deeply to other people." 368 00:38:41,094 --> 00:38:43,862 And the third Mindfulness Training: 369 00:38:43,862 --> 00:38:54,688 "Aware of the suffering created when I cannot, no, by forcing others to accept 370 00:38:54,688 --> 00:38:59,843 my viewpoint, something like that. 371 00:39:01,746 --> 00:39:08,196 "Aware of the suffering created when we impose our views on others, 372 00:39:08,196 --> 00:39:19,176 and aware that lack of communication always brings suffering... 373 00:39:19,176 --> 00:39:20,644 And the Ninth Mindfulness Training: 374 00:39:20,644 --> 00:39:27,433 "Aware that words can create suffering or happiness... 375 00:39:27,716 --> 00:39:30,259 And the Eleventh Mindfulness Training: 376 00:39:30,259 --> 00:39:37,091 "Aware that great violence and injustice have been done to our environment and society... 377 00:39:41,355 --> 00:39:46,355 "Aware that much suffering is created by war and by conflict... 378 00:39:48,727 --> 00:39:55,262 "Aware that sex motivated by craving will create more suffering... 379 00:39:55,792 --> 00:40:04,472 So, at the basis of ethics is the awareness of suffering, 380 00:40:04,472 --> 00:40:07,739 the first Noble Truth. 381 00:40:08,486 --> 00:40:10,307 And that is something that we can 382 00:40:10,307 --> 00:40:14,695 practise rationally with our intellectual mind 383 00:40:14,695 --> 00:40:17,734 to look deeply and see the suffering. 384 00:40:17,931 --> 00:40:21,212 But we have to allow our emotional mind, 385 00:40:21,212 --> 00:40:25,639 our emotional part, also to feel the suffering. 386 00:40:25,639 --> 00:40:29,270 before we really can make the determination 387 00:40:29,270 --> 00:40:33,400 to do something in order to help 388 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:36,784 alleviate the suffering that we have seen. 389 00:40:39,388 --> 00:40:45,190 And every two weeks, we read the Mindfulness Trainings together, 390 00:40:45,190 --> 00:40:48,471 we recite them or every month. 391 00:40:48,471 --> 00:40:52,551 And every time you can become more aware 392 00:40:52,551 --> 00:40:55,359 of suffering and you can become more 393 00:40:55,359 --> 00:40:58,797 determined to do something to help 394 00:40:58,797 --> 00:41:01,716 alleviate the suffering. 395 00:41:09,157 --> 00:41:13,366 So compassion is an important part 396 00:41:13,366 --> 00:41:17,839 of ethical behavior. And we can develop 397 00:41:17,839 --> 00:41:22,360 compassion by our way of thinking, 398 00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:26,401 our way of speaking, in our daily life. 399 00:41:28,833 --> 00:41:32,751 We should never say that person has no compassion. 400 00:41:33,251 --> 00:41:35,111 We should never say of ourself 401 00:41:35,111 --> 00:41:37,853 "I have no compassion." 402 00:41:38,645 --> 00:41:41,254 Be sure you do. 403 00:41:44,128 --> 00:41:49,422 Compassion is a little bit linked to the maternal instinct. 404 00:41:49,709 --> 00:41:52,250 It's the same kind of region of the brain: 405 00:41:52,250 --> 00:41:55,682 maternal love and compassion. 406 00:41:55,682 --> 00:41:58,461 And if you read the Discourse on Love, 407 00:41:58,461 --> 00:42:00,341 we see that the Buddha did not need 408 00:42:00,374 --> 00:42:04,681 to have MRI in order to be able to see that 409 00:42:04,694 --> 00:42:09,513 just as a mother loves and protects her own child, 410 00:42:09,573 --> 00:42:12,811 at the risk of her own life, so we should 411 00:42:13,037 --> 00:42:17,668 develop compassion for all living beings. 412 00:42:24,331 --> 00:42:27,025 So we all have compassion. 413 00:42:27,025 --> 00:42:30,051 And what we need to do is we need 414 00:42:30,051 --> 00:42:33,242 to find ways in order for the compassion 415 00:42:33,242 --> 00:42:36,244 in us to be able to manifest. 416 00:42:39,087 --> 00:42:42,719 And if we've given ourselves too many 417 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:46,596 opportunities to be in touch with too much 418 00:42:46,596 --> 00:42:49,774 suffering, then we may have fallen into 419 00:42:49,774 --> 00:42:56,830 what we saw before is called "empathetic distress". 420 00:42:57,794 --> 00:43:00,237 And it doesn't matter if we've fallen 421 00:43:00,237 --> 00:43:02,301 into that way. 422 00:43:02,301 --> 00:43:05,439 But it is very important that we are mindful, 423 00:43:05,439 --> 00:43:09,026 and that we realize that has happened, 424 00:43:09,026 --> 00:43:12,390 and we do our best to take care of 425 00:43:12,390 --> 00:43:16,307 the happiness. And look on the other side. 426 00:43:16,307 --> 00:43:19,309 Look at what is going right, rather than 427 00:43:19,309 --> 00:43:22,291 what is going wrong. 428 00:43:22,319 --> 00:43:24,929 So if you are in a situation with another 429 00:43:24,929 --> 00:43:27,767 person, and you feel that when you listen 430 00:43:27,767 --> 00:43:31,627 to their suffering that you want to withdraw, 431 00:43:31,627 --> 00:43:34,731 you feel the stress in yourself, 432 00:43:34,731 --> 00:43:37,626 then you have the right to withdraw. 433 00:43:37,626 --> 00:43:40,042 Because you know that you cannot help that 434 00:43:40,042 --> 00:43:42,640 person. So you have to withdraw, 435 00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,444 in order to take care of yourself. 436 00:43:45,444 --> 00:43:48,005 To feel compassion for yourself. 437 00:43:48,005 --> 00:43:51,532 And if possible, to find someone else 438 00:43:51,532 --> 00:43:54,872 who can help the person who is suffering. 439 00:44:03,158 --> 00:44:07,846 Sometimes people look at babies, and they 440 00:44:07,846 --> 00:44:11,207 see the baby is compassionate. 441 00:44:11,207 --> 00:44:13,199 And another time, the people look and they 442 00:44:13,199 --> 00:44:20,077 see the baby is greedy and demanding. 443 00:44:20,077 --> 00:44:21,984 So it depends who is looking at the baby, 444 00:44:21,984 --> 00:44:24,011 what they see. 445 00:44:25,901 --> 00:44:29,752 And with two-year old children, they do an 446 00:44:29,752 --> 00:44:33,698 experiment, and they give one child.. 447 00:44:33,698 --> 00:44:36,887 They have a group of children, and they 448 00:44:36,887 --> 00:44:39,032 give one child something that the other 449 00:44:39,032 --> 00:44:41,542 children don't have, something that can 450 00:44:41,542 --> 00:44:45,095 be shared, and the child, the two-year old, 451 00:44:45,095 --> 00:44:47,125 will naturally take it around 452 00:44:47,125 --> 00:44:49,199 and share it with everyone. 453 00:44:49,199 --> 00:44:51,182 If you have your own grandchildren, 454 00:44:51,182 --> 00:44:54,654 nieces in my case, your own children, 455 00:44:54,654 --> 00:44:57,749 grandchildren, nieces and nephews, 456 00:44:57,749 --> 00:44:59,560 you see that happen very often. 457 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,163 You give one something, and they 458 00:45:01,163 --> 00:45:04,595 go around and share it with others. 459 00:45:04,595 --> 00:45:07,097 So that is the practice of loving kindness, 460 00:45:07,097 --> 00:45:11,853 which seems to be there, already, in us. 461 00:45:16,652 --> 00:45:28,468 In 1993, in Chicago, there was a World Parliament of Religions, 462 00:45:28,468 --> 00:45:30,301 a conference. 463 00:45:31,061 --> 00:45:36,709 And our teacher, Thầy, was invited to go there. 464 00:45:38,616 --> 00:45:42,874 And there were 200 delegates, I think. 465 00:45:44,367 --> 00:45:47,621 And they stayed in a very fancy hotel. 466 00:45:50,230 --> 00:45:55,576 And it was the 100th anniversary of the 467 00:45:55,576 --> 00:45:57,907 World Parliament of Religions. 468 00:45:58,098 --> 00:46:02,598 In 1893, they had their first session, 469 00:46:02,598 --> 00:46:05,808 and they have it every 3 or 2 years or something. 470 00:46:07,155 --> 00:46:11,135 And in 1893, those represented were 471 00:46:11,135 --> 00:46:18,819 Hinduism, Buddhism, Islam, different Christian schools including 472 00:46:18,819 --> 00:46:22,418 the Eastern and the Russian Orthodox. 473 00:46:22,418 --> 00:46:25,451 And that was about... Judaism. 474 00:46:25,451 --> 00:46:27,125 That was about it. 475 00:46:28,407 --> 00:46:31,312 But in 1993 they decided to ask for 476 00:46:31,312 --> 00:46:39,480 representatives of the Native American spiritual paths and Shamanism. 477 00:46:40,533 --> 00:46:43,443 And some of the delegates were very upset. 478 00:46:43,678 --> 00:46:46,489 They said, these religions, they don't have any proper "ism", 479 00:46:46,489 --> 00:46:48,520 they don't have any proper name. 480 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,331 And they left. Yes, they left. 481 00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:57,286 So, it wasn't an entirely harmonious thing. 482 00:46:57,968 --> 00:46:59,828 Thầy was there. 483 00:47:00,828 --> 00:47:03,205 I think the person who kind of brought 484 00:47:03,205 --> 00:47:06,605 it all together was a Swiss theologian 485 00:47:06,605 --> 00:47:09,878 called Hans Küng...I think 486 00:47:09,878 --> 00:47:15,105 Kung, Kung, Kung?Kung?Kung? 487 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:18,057 Not meaning to be disrespectful. 488 00:47:18,468 --> 00:47:22,082 My German pronunciation is not very good. 489 00:47:27,547 --> 00:47:30,530 A Catholic theologian. 490 00:47:32,914 --> 00:47:36,403 This year I think he is 90... 491 00:47:36,403 --> 00:47:39,598 He's about the same age as Thầy is. 492 00:47:39,598 --> 00:47:42,397 90 something, 92 or something. 493 00:47:44,910 --> 00:47:48,176 So really, he's dedicated his life to 494 00:47:48,176 --> 00:47:52,146 reforming, trying to bring about reform in the Catholic Church. 495 00:47:52,390 --> 00:47:54,441 And so's he's not... 496 00:47:54,441 --> 00:47:59,376 and also into developing a global ethic. 497 00:48:02,428 --> 00:48:10,003 So he has a lot of, a lot of deep motivation for a global ethic. 498 00:48:11,940 --> 00:48:13,553 Thầy also. 499 00:48:14,498 --> 00:48:17,203 Thầy once said in a Dharma Talk, 500 00:48:17,203 --> 00:48:22,260 that when practising sitting meditation in the Upper Hamlet, 501 00:48:22,260 --> 00:48:25,767 at the end of the sitting meditation session, 502 00:48:25,767 --> 00:48:29,175 everybody touches the Earth three times. 503 00:48:29,175 --> 00:48:31,664 And when Thầy touches the Earth, 504 00:48:31,664 --> 00:48:33,874 Thầy makes the deep aspiration, 505 00:48:33,874 --> 00:48:38,846 "May Thầy and the Sangha be able to contribute to a global ethic 506 00:48:40,272 --> 00:48:46,402 so that we can relieve a great deal of suffering in the world. 507 00:48:51,938 --> 00:48:56,116 So as I said in 1993, there were present 508 00:48:56,116 --> 00:49:00,282 at the Parliament of Religions, a number 509 00:49:00,282 --> 00:49:04,543 of representatives of the American Indian. 510 00:49:05,435 --> 00:49:10,456 And they don't have something that is called a religion as such, 511 00:49:10,456 --> 00:49:13,643 but they care very much about the Earth. 512 00:49:14,250 --> 00:49:21,010 And have a lot of respect and care for the Earth, for Mother Earth. 513 00:49:25,611 --> 00:49:28,211 And recently in a book, 514 00:49:28,211 --> 00:49:31,662 Love Letters to the Earth, 515 00:49:31,662 --> 00:49:34,844 in the appendix to that book, 516 00:49:34,844 --> 00:49:38,116 Thầy says we need to find a global spirituality. 517 00:49:39,247 --> 00:49:42,860 And maybe that spirituality will be based 518 00:49:42,860 --> 00:49:50,103 in our reverence and our awe for the natural world, for Mother Earth, 519 00:49:50,103 --> 00:49:52,874 for the galaxies, for the cosmos. 520 00:49:52,874 --> 00:49:59,774 Because all human beings feel a deep kind of awe when they look at 521 00:49:59,774 --> 00:50:03,004 the cosmos, at the... 522 00:50:05,352 --> 00:50:07,239 So in order to find something that we 523 00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,721 all have in common, 524 00:50:13,382 --> 00:50:15,757 and then to agree on how to word it, 525 00:50:15,757 --> 00:50:17,544 is not easy. 526 00:50:18,473 --> 00:50:20,722 I think in that Parliament of Religions, 527 00:50:20,722 --> 00:50:25,033 they all agreed about what the suffering is that we're facing. 528 00:50:26,357 --> 00:50:31,892 But they could not agree on how to word, 529 00:50:32,701 --> 00:50:34,606 like the Five Mindfulness Trainings 530 00:50:34,606 --> 00:50:35,992 or something like that, 531 00:50:35,992 --> 00:50:39,679 to help people relieve that suffering. 532 00:50:39,679 --> 00:50:43,047 So that is a work that we still have to do. 533 00:50:44,771 --> 00:50:49,284 And we want, we really want, to continue Thầy, 534 00:50:49,350 --> 00:50:53,490 and continue this effort in 535 00:50:53,793 --> 00:50:57,019 sometimes letting go of what we hold to 536 00:50:57,019 --> 00:51:01,907 in order to be able to contribute to a global ethic. 537 00:51:04,417 --> 00:51:07,467 And when we contribute to a global ethic, 538 00:51:07,467 --> 00:51:12,086 we also need to look into other forms 539 00:51:12,086 --> 00:51:15,966 of ethics than Buddhist ethics, to try and 540 00:51:15,966 --> 00:51:20,535 find out what is it that the human mind 541 00:51:20,535 --> 00:51:23,198 can agree on, which all humans 542 00:51:23,198 --> 00:51:25,093 can agree on. 543 00:51:34,253 --> 00:51:44,927 So there, in 1993, most people, nearly everybody 544 00:51:44,927 --> 00:51:52,037 but not everybody, they agreed on 4 points, four commitments that they wanted to make. 545 00:51:55,770 --> 00:52:00,450 And the first commitment was to protect life. 546 00:52:09,499 --> 00:52:16,047 "A commitment to a culture of non-violence and respect for life." 547 00:52:17,704 --> 00:52:24,848 So when we look at the 14 Mindfulness Trainings of the Order of Interbeing 548 00:52:28,508 --> 00:52:33,002 we see that there are roots to our inability 549 00:52:33,002 --> 00:52:38,521 to protect life, there are roots to our violence. 550 00:52:38,521 --> 00:52:43,632 And those things like fanaticism, dogmatism. 551 00:52:43,632 --> 00:52:46,325 When we cling to a dogma, when we say that 552 00:52:46,325 --> 00:52:50,128 we are right and you are wrong, 553 00:52:50,128 --> 00:52:54,352 that is contribution to violence. 554 00:52:56,992 --> 00:53:01,180 And so when we commit ourselves to non-violence, 555 00:53:01,180 --> 00:53:03,971 on the one hand we commit ourselves 556 00:53:03,971 --> 00:53:08,121 to looking deeply into the seeds of 557 00:53:08,121 --> 00:53:11,573 violence we have in ourselves, and how 558 00:53:11,573 --> 00:53:15,271 not to water the violence we have in ourselves. 559 00:53:16,610 --> 00:53:17,998 But at the same time, 560 00:53:17,998 --> 00:53:21,088 we want to find out, what is it 561 00:53:21,088 --> 00:53:23,961 that makes people violent. 562 00:53:24,963 --> 00:53:29,193 And when I stick to my dogma, 563 00:53:29,193 --> 00:53:32,728 and you stick to your dogma, 564 00:53:32,728 --> 00:53:36,798 and neither of us can accept the dogma of the other, 565 00:53:36,798 --> 00:53:40,496 then that will also lead to violence 566 00:53:40,496 --> 00:53:43,079 that we commit together. 567 00:53:45,788 --> 00:53:48,678 And the second commitment they have 568 00:53:48,678 --> 00:53:52,840 is commitment to a culture of solidarity 569 00:53:57,371 --> 00:54:02,302 and just economic order. 570 00:54:03,161 --> 00:54:13,490 So solidarity here means, like "đoàn kết" 571 00:54:13,490 --> 00:54:16,883 it means that we stand together. 572 00:54:16,883 --> 00:54:20,446 East stands together with West. 573 00:54:20,446 --> 00:54:26,934 And if in the West we see that South or the East is suffering, 574 00:54:26,934 --> 00:54:30,548 we know that that is also our suffering. 575 00:54:30,548 --> 00:54:32,852 So we want to help. 576 00:54:32,852 --> 00:54:36,128 The North wants to help the South, 577 00:54:36,128 --> 00:54:38,423 wants to stand together with the South. 578 00:54:38,423 --> 00:54:42,373 That is a culture of solidarity. 579 00:54:44,258 --> 00:54:52,233 And just economic order, like "?? nền kinh tế". 580 00:54:53,172 --> 00:54:57,072 "?? nền kinh tế công bằng?" 581 00:55:00,912 --> 00:55:04,932 So that also means that we want to 582 00:55:06,518 --> 00:55:10,744 be able to let go of our consumerism. 583 00:55:10,744 --> 00:55:14,999 We want to be able to let go of our material comforts 584 00:55:14,999 --> 00:55:18,796 in order to be able to share our riches 585 00:55:18,796 --> 00:55:22,123 with the countries that don't have 586 00:55:22,123 --> 00:55:24,413 the riches we have. 587 00:55:28,737 --> 00:55:32,131 And the third commitment that they nearly 588 00:55:32,131 --> 00:55:34,101 came to agree with each other 589 00:55:34,101 --> 00:55:40,661 is commitment to a culture of tolerance and truth. 590 00:55:43,406 --> 00:55:47,678 The ability to embrace each other. 591 00:55:48,809 --> 00:55:51,799 Tolerance is "bao dung". 592 00:55:53,542 --> 00:55:59,644 And to be truthful, to be authentic with each other. 593 00:56:01,569 --> 00:56:03,486 And the fourth is a commitment to 594 00:56:03,486 --> 00:56:11,658 a culture of equal rights and partnership between men and women. 595 00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:22,228 Equal rights is "bình quyền" and partnership here is ?"sự hợp tác". 596 00:56:23,128 --> 00:56:25,997 Between men and women. 597 00:56:27,273 --> 00:56:32,308 But in that, in the details of that commitment, 598 00:56:32,308 --> 00:56:45,070 it talks a lot about sexuality and not exploiting sex, 599 00:56:45,070 --> 00:56:48,154 not selling sex, that kind of thing. 600 00:56:57,652 --> 00:57:01,744 So the theologian Hans Küng also 601 00:57:01,744 --> 00:57:08,481 spent much of his life in talking to 602 00:57:08,481 --> 00:57:13,117 business men about global ethics. 603 00:57:14,304 --> 00:57:18,431 [The bell is awoken.] 604 00:57:18,431 --> 00:57:33,579 [The bell is invited.] 605 00:57:33,579 --> 00:57:39,748 When we read the second chapter of the anguttara nikaya, 606 00:57:39,748 --> 00:57:44,921 the Buddha says, there are two things, 607 00:57:44,921 --> 00:57:50,681 monks, that protect the world, that preserve the world. 608 00:57:50,681 --> 00:57:53,581 What are those two things? 609 00:57:53,581 --> 00:57:58,615 They are hiri and ottapa. 610 01:00:04,952 --> 01:00:08,418 So usually when you look in the Pali dictionary, 611 01:00:08,418 --> 01:00:13,483 this how these two words are translated. 612 01:00:26,351 --> 01:00:33,191 Maybe moral shame, moral dread, it doesn't sound very... um.. 613 01:00:36,069 --> 01:00:39,650 To say that these two things protect the world, preserve the world, 614 01:00:39,650 --> 01:00:43,714 may not sound so positive to you. 615 01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:53,626 Moral shame: it means that when I do something I recognize that it 616 01:00:53,626 --> 01:00:55,597 brings about suffering for myself, 617 01:00:55,597 --> 01:00:58,944 and I feel ashamed. 618 01:00:58,944 --> 01:01:01,871 And so I don't do it. 619 01:01:03,414 --> 01:01:10,039 And, moral dread means I'm very afraid of doing something wrong. 620 01:01:10,039 --> 01:01:16,017 I'm afraid to do that. 621 01:01:16,017 --> 01:01:21,723 I'm afraid to do something that will make myself suffer and make 622 01:01:21,723 --> 01:01:24,902 other people suffer. 623 01:01:26,826 --> 01:01:33,078 And sometimes, we're afraid to do things 624 01:01:33,078 --> 01:01:36,626 because we think we will go to hell. 625 01:01:36,980 --> 01:01:41,063 Or we think that we will be punished. 626 01:01:42,016 --> 01:01:45,274 So, maybe you'd be afraid to rob a bank 627 01:01:45,274 --> 01:01:48,251 because you think you might be put in prison. 628 01:01:52,510 --> 01:02:01,434 And sometimes in Buddhist temples, you have fresco or paintings of the 629 01:02:01,434 --> 01:02:05,321 terrible punishments that happen in hell. 630 01:02:05,517 --> 01:02:10,761 Like being thrown in to a cauldron of oil, boiling oil or something like that. 631 01:02:10,761 --> 01:02:13,795 for some wrong deed that you did. 632 01:02:14,471 --> 01:02:17,840 Well, the idea about that is make you afraid 633 01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:19,692 so you don't do it. 634 01:02:22,688 --> 01:02:27,160 But the thing is that in Plum Village, 635 01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:30,349 we don't really believe in hell, 636 01:02:30,349 --> 01:02:33,197 like place you go after you die, 637 01:02:33,197 --> 01:02:37,140 to be punished for what you've done while you were alive. 638 01:02:38,276 --> 01:02:42,093 But we believe that hell is more like a state of mind. 639 01:02:42,093 --> 01:02:47,202 And you can go there very easily while you are still alive, 640 01:02:47,512 --> 01:02:51,354 if you choose to think in a certain way 641 01:02:51,354 --> 01:02:54,111 or act in a certain way. 642 01:02:54,953 --> 01:03:02,069 Like when you feel angry, it's a kind of hell -- you feel very hot. 643 01:03:08,810 --> 01:03:14,688 But here, it means like a deep aspiration 644 01:03:14,688 --> 01:03:20,974 "I don't want to suffer and I don't want to make other suffer." 645 01:03:20,974 --> 01:03:26,535 So I have a ... I draw back, I draw back from doing things 646 01:03:27,091 --> 01:03:33,211 And when I do something that makes me suffer and makes others suffer, 647 01:03:33,211 --> 01:03:36,064 I recognize that I made a mistake. 648 01:03:36,064 --> 01:03:38,320 And I feel ashamed. 649 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:44,233 And I either come and confess to somebody else or I confess to myself, 650 01:03:44,233 --> 01:03:47,502 and the words I use are something like 651 01:03:47,502 --> 01:03:52,002 I made a mistake; I made you suffer; I made myself suffer. 652 01:03:52,002 --> 01:03:55,242 And I'm not going to do that again. 653 01:03:55,297 --> 01:03:56,587 I am very sorry. 654 01:03:56,675 --> 01:03:58,627 And then it is finished. 655 01:03:58,627 --> 01:04:02,855 If it doesn't finish there, and I keep reminding myself, 656 01:04:02,855 --> 01:04:06,648 "I did that terrible thing. I can't forget it" 657 01:04:06,648 --> 01:04:08,348 then it becomes guilt. 658 01:04:08,348 --> 01:04:10,342 And guilt is a complex, and 659 01:04:10,342 --> 01:04:14,854 it's not something positive like shame is. 660 01:04:15,130 --> 01:04:17,860 Shame is positive, because it helps me to 661 01:04:17,860 --> 01:04:24,486 get over what I've done wrong and helps me not to make the same mistake again. 662 01:04:32,706 --> 01:04:43,123 The philosopher Mencius, 663 01:04:58,524 --> 01:05:00,014 Mạnh Tử, 664 01:05:00,747 --> 01:05:09,363 said that human beings are innately good. 665 01:05:11,049 --> 01:05:13,526 They have innate compassion. 666 01:05:15,098 --> 01:05:18,151 And he talked about four things, 667 01:05:18,626 --> 01:05:21,271 which he called four beginnings, 668 01:05:22,466 --> 01:05:28,224 which lead to living a moral life. 669 01:06:03,191 --> 01:06:07,529 trắc ẩn tu ô' ??? 670 01:06:11,312 --> 01:06:15,022 This is these two, I think. 671 01:06:16,804 --> 01:06:21,486 Tu here means to be shy, to feel ashamed. 672 01:06:22,970 --> 01:06:27,599 So it's like Hiri. This is Mencius. 673 01:06:28,679 --> 01:06:31,802 And ô' means to hate. 674 01:06:32,559 --> 01:06:35,760 So you hate, you hate doing wrong. 675 01:06:36,029 --> 01:06:39,285 It's a little bit like being afraid of doing wrong. 676 01:06:39,940 --> 01:06:42,384 You don't like doing wrong. 677 01:06:43,819 --> 01:06:45,957 This means compassion. 678 01:06:45,957 --> 01:06:49,892 These means something you can translate as compassion. 679 01:06:49,892 --> 01:06:55,242 And Mencius said that if you are inside, 680 01:06:55,242 --> 01:06:59,583 and you see a child climb onto the edge 681 01:06:59,583 --> 01:07:02,946 of a well outside, then you immediately want 682 01:07:02,946 --> 01:07:06,427 to run out and take the child in your arms 683 01:07:06,427 --> 01:07:10,231 so the child doesn't fall into the well. 684 01:07:10,231 --> 01:07:14,119 And if the door is locked, and you can't get out, you will be very 685 01:07:14,119 --> 01:07:17,680 you will feel very bad, very frustrated. 686 01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:19,538 You won't know what to do. 687 01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:23,530 So that is the natural compassion that we have, that we want 688 01:07:23,530 --> 01:07:28,147 to save the life of others. 689 01:07:31,213 --> 01:07:35,900 And this means that we are ashamed to do something wrong. 690 01:07:35,900 --> 01:07:41,894 And this means that we don't want, we don't like to do something wrong. 691 01:08:13,744 --> 01:08:17,791 từ như ?? 692 01:08:18,214 --> 01:08:20,954 The last one I remember... Easy. 693 01:08:46,888 --> 01:08:50,376 thị phi ... từ nhượng 694 01:08:50,376 --> 01:08:55,273 So từ nhượng means that you say good-bye to something. 695 01:08:55,273 --> 01:08:58,542 Like in "từ ?", you say good-bye. 696 01:08:58,542 --> 01:09:04,109 You refrain, you don't do that. 697 01:09:04,109 --> 01:09:08,811 You see that you can let go and not do it. 698 01:09:09,429 --> 01:09:13,395 And "nhượng" means to yield. 699 01:09:14,824 --> 01:09:20,383 You can let go, you don't hold on to... 700 01:09:21,274 --> 01:09:24,032 If something is necessary is to be done, 701 01:09:24,032 --> 01:09:25,997 you will do it. 702 01:09:25,997 --> 01:09:28,562 If it is something you shouldn't do, 703 01:09:28,562 --> 01:09:32,187 you can say good-bye to it and not do it. 704 01:09:32,187 --> 01:09:34,812 You can refrain from doing something. 705 01:09:38,210 --> 01:09:40,753 Like somebody comes to me and they say 706 01:09:40,753 --> 01:09:45,519 "Oh, you know, I love very much somebody 707 01:09:45,519 --> 01:09:54,367 who is my workplace. And she has a husband 708 01:09:54,367 --> 01:09:58,826 and children, I have a wife and children... 709 01:09:58,826 --> 01:10:01,482 But I know that I just have to give up 710 01:10:01,482 --> 01:10:05,974 that love for the person, because I have 711 01:10:05,974 --> 01:10:07,688 to care of my family, I have to take care 712 01:10:07,688 --> 01:10:09,594 of my wife, and she has to take care 713 01:10:09,594 --> 01:10:12,923 of her family and husband." 714 01:10:12,923 --> 01:10:17,247 So that is to give up. 715 01:10:17,247 --> 01:10:18,798 And then when we see something that needs 716 01:10:18,798 --> 01:10:20,844 to be done, we do it. 717 01:10:21,999 --> 01:10:26,150 And this means we have the capacity to 718 01:10:26,150 --> 01:10:30,898 discriminate between what is right, and what is wrong. 719 01:10:32,068 --> 01:10:38,889 But like we said before, we have to.. 720 01:10:38,889 --> 01:10:41,509 In Buddhism, we don't know in advance 721 01:10:41,509 --> 01:10:44,869 what is right and what is wrong. 722 01:10:44,869 --> 01:10:51,005 We have to use our mindfulness, concentration and insight in every 723 01:10:51,005 --> 01:10:54,507 situation to know what is right and wrong. 724 01:10:54,507 --> 01:10:57,665 With the Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings, 725 01:10:57,665 --> 01:11:00,094 the Five Mindfulness Traingings, 726 01:11:00,094 --> 01:11:04,123 we have basic guidelines to help us go 727 01:11:04,123 --> 01:11:06,286 in that direction. 728 01:11:06,286 --> 01:11:10,739 But finally, we have to use mindfulness, 729 01:11:10,739 --> 01:11:15,285 concentration, insight and the collective wisdom of the Sangha 730 01:11:15,285 --> 01:11:20,427 in order to know what is right and wrong in this situation. 731 01:11:20,427 --> 01:11:23,307 And that is why when we do our meditation 732 01:11:23,307 --> 01:11:26,511 in the evening, we say 733 01:11:26,511 --> 01:11:30,571 there is no more thought of right and wrong. 734 01:11:30,592 --> 01:11:31,969 Because in your meditation, 735 01:11:31,969 --> 01:11:33,380 you don't want to be thinking 736 01:11:33,380 --> 01:11:36,280 oh, should I do this or should I do that? 737 01:11:37,106 --> 01:11:41,810 In our meditation, we need to be able to 738 01:11:41,810 --> 01:11:43,465 to come back to our breathing, 739 01:11:43,465 --> 01:11:46,655 to let go of all our thinking 740 01:11:46,655 --> 01:11:48,361 and then refresh our mind and 741 01:11:48,361 --> 01:11:50,629 look deeply. 742 01:11:52,019 --> 01:11:55,725 Yes. So that is a little bit of 743 01:11:55,725 --> 01:11:59,721 talking about meta-ethics in Buddhism. 744 01:12:02,345 --> 01:12:07,672 We have ethics, which is "đạo đức học" 745 01:12:07,902 --> 01:12:09,445 but we also have meta-ethics 746 01:12:09,445 --> 01:12:12,586 which is "siêu đạo đức học". 747 01:12:15,812 --> 01:12:20,509 So what lies at the base of ethics? 748 01:12:21,542 --> 01:12:28,643 And, it may be the no thought of right and wrong. 749 01:12:30,925 --> 01:12:37,409 What lies at the base of ethics is the awareness of suffering, 750 01:12:37,409 --> 01:12:41,201 the awareness of happiness, 751 01:12:41,201 --> 01:12:50,099 and also the ability to let go of all ideas of right and wrong. 752 01:12:50,099 --> 01:12:53,986 In order to be able to discover 753 01:12:53,986 --> 01:12:58,127 what will lead to the greatest happiness 754 01:12:58,127 --> 01:13:05,164 and the least suffering in this particular circumstance. 755 01:13:15,687 --> 01:13:22,567 I think Jeremy Bentham and John Stuart Mill 756 01:13:22,754 --> 01:13:29,298 in the 19th century, they talk about 757 01:13:29,298 --> 01:13:35,961 the greatest happiness of the greatest number 758 01:13:35,961 --> 01:13:39,389 as being the basis for ethics. 759 01:13:39,664 --> 01:13:45,201 And in Buddhism we could agree also with that. 760 01:13:45,201 --> 01:13:49,209 We want, that is what we feel 761 01:13:49,209 --> 01:13:52,620 we want the least amount of suffering. 762 01:13:54,567 --> 01:13:57,361 But we also know that suffering is 763 01:13:57,361 --> 01:13:59,735 essential for there to be compassion. 764 01:14:00,249 --> 01:14:02,476 And compassion is essential for 765 01:14:02,476 --> 01:14:04,774 there to be happiness. 766 01:14:05,042 --> 01:14:07,002 But there will always be suffering. 767 01:14:07,002 --> 01:14:09,868 We don't know to worry that one day, 768 01:14:09,868 --> 01:14:11,874 there will be no more suffering. 769 01:14:13,564 --> 01:14:16,133 We just don't want to make more suffering 770 01:14:16,133 --> 01:14:22,752 than what is already offering itself to us. 771 01:14:23,552 --> 01:14:28,732 [The bell is awoken.] 772 01:14:28,732 --> 01:14:41,300 [The bell is invited.] 773 01:14:41,300 --> 01:14:44,192 And I think that Jeremy Bentham and 774 01:14:44,192 --> 01:14:46,911 John Stuart Mill, they talked a lot about 775 01:14:46,911 --> 01:14:49,085 material happiness. 776 01:14:49,618 --> 01:14:51,287 There's a lot of poverty. 777 01:14:51,287 --> 01:14:53,492 There still is a lot of poverty. 778 01:14:53,492 --> 01:14:55,657 And obviously to be able to eradicate 779 01:14:55,657 --> 01:15:00,280 poverty would bring material happiness, 780 01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:03,406 which will then lead to spiritual happiness. 781 01:15:03,406 --> 01:15:05,768 Because when people are so poor, 782 01:15:05,768 --> 01:15:07,459 they don't have the time, they don't 783 01:15:07,459 --> 01:15:11,737 have the opportunity to develop their spiritual life. 784 01:15:12,541 --> 01:15:14,971 And so that is a basic step. 785 01:15:15,162 --> 01:15:19,250 But we also see that spiritual happiness 786 01:15:19,827 --> 01:15:22,080 is very important. 787 01:15:22,212 --> 01:15:29,841 And when I lived in India, in a place that was very poor, 788 01:15:30,394 --> 01:15:32,977 I used to see the children there. 789 01:15:33,486 --> 01:15:35,053 They had no clothes, really, 790 01:15:35,053 --> 01:15:37,930 a few ragged clothes sometimes. 791 01:15:41,151 --> 01:15:44,080 But they were happy. 792 01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:46,057 They'd play with each other, although 793 01:15:46,057 --> 01:15:48,051 they didn't have any toys, 794 01:15:48,051 --> 01:15:50,910 they didn't have proper clothes to wear. 795 01:15:51,451 --> 01:15:53,326 But they had a kind of happiness that 796 01:15:53,326 --> 01:15:56,557 sometimes in children who have clothes and 797 01:15:56,557 --> 01:16:00,349 have many toys, you don't see. 798 01:16:02,501 --> 01:16:04,385 But that also has something to do with 799 01:16:04,385 --> 01:16:07,664 our sharing our wealth, so that 800 01:16:07,664 --> 01:16:11,931 everybody has enough, but not more 801 01:16:11,931 --> 01:16:13,607 than they need. 802 01:16:14,030 --> 01:16:18,009 One German economist said it is perfectly 803 01:16:18,009 --> 01:16:22,380 possible for everyone to have a wage that 804 01:16:22,380 --> 01:16:28,039 is the same -- everybody earns the same amount of money. 805 01:16:38,261 --> 01:16:42,157 So during the three months of the Autumn Retreat, 806 01:16:42,157 --> 01:16:46,716 we have an opportunity for us to be able 807 01:16:46,716 --> 01:16:53,025 to look into how the Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings affect our own life. 808 01:16:55,805 --> 01:16:59,354 And how we can help, how they can help us 809 01:16:59,354 --> 01:17:01,749 to develop our compassion. 810 01:17:03,099 --> 01:17:05,118 And we have plenty of opportunity 811 01:17:05,118 --> 01:17:09,447 in our sitting meditation to practise 812 01:17:09,447 --> 01:17:12,471 loving kindness meditation if we want to 813 01:17:14,278 --> 01:17:19,526 so that we can more easily bring up the 814 01:17:19,526 --> 01:17:24,233 innate compassion that we all have. 815 01:17:25,416 --> 01:17:27,454 [The bell is awoken.] 816 01:17:30,583 --> 01:17:53,107 [The bell is invited.] 817 01:17:58,696 --> 01:18:19,435 [The bell is invited.] 818 01:18:25,140 --> 01:18:50,227 [The bell is invited.] 819 01:18:54,951 --> 01:18:56,544 [The small bell is awoken.] 820 01:18:56,544 --> 01:19:00,850 [The small bell is invited.]