"Healing" The Emotional Body - Teal Swan
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0:00 - 0:32♪ Intro Music ♪
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0:32 - 0:35In truth, there is no High or Low
in this Universe -
0:35 - 0:37but for the sake of our understanding,
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0:37 - 0:39at the highest level of this Universe,
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0:39 - 0:42all is integrated, all is one;
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0:42 - 0:43at the lower levels,
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0:43 - 0:45there are different dimensions
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0:45 - 0:48and different facets of this Universe.
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0:48 - 0:51The Universe is essentially un-integrated.
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0:51 - 0:54And you are no different than
the Universe. -
0:55 - 0:59In fact, you mirror and reflect
the Universe. -
0:59 - 1:03At your highest level, all is integrated,
all is one. -
1:04 - 1:08Your physical, aetheric, feeling,
thinking and spiritual bodies -
1:08 - 1:09are all one.
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1:09 - 1:11They're all just Energy expressing Itself.
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1:12 - 1:13At a lower level,
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1:13 - 1:16these aspects of you are like different
dimensions of you. -
1:16 - 1:19They are different expressions
of the same consciousness. -
1:19 - 1:21They are overlaid upon one another.
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1:21 - 1:25Today I'm going to talk to you about
the Feeling Body. -
1:25 - 1:29The Feeling Body is what most people
call the Emotional Body. -
1:29 - 1:32So you can use these two terms
interchangeably. -
1:32 - 1:35Your Feeling Body is the truth of who
you are at a feeling-level. -
1:35 - 1:40This layer of you contains the imprints of
the emotional aspect of your memories -
1:40 - 1:43as well as your current emotional state.
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1:43 - 1:47It is the bridge between our Physical
Selves and our Thinking Selves. -
1:47 - 1:51The Feeling Body interprets and translates
the thoughts projected forth by both, -
1:51 - 1:56your Consciousness and also, by your
Human Mind - into feeling-states -
1:56 - 2:00or feeling-signatures.
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2:00 - 2:03This is the first step that takes
place for a Being to have -
2:03 - 2:07a first-hand Experience of a Thought.
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2:07 - 2:13This enables the Thought to be actualized
instead of remain abstract, which in turn -
2:13 - 2:17enables us to learn and gain awareness
better (and faster) and enables universal -
2:17 - 2:20as well as Personal Expansion.
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2:20 - 2:25Because of the Emotional Body, Man
is able to experience their own thoughts. -
2:27 - 2:30The thoughts are converted into
feeling-impressions. -
2:30 - 2:34The physical body then interprets those
feeling-impressions, -
2:34 - 2:35as if translating the message.
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2:35 - 2:39It converts those feeling-messages
into neuropeptides and hormones -
2:40 - 2:43that cause the physical reactions in our
body that we call emotions. -
2:44 - 2:49Emotions ranging from anger to fear,
to stress, to irritation, to love, -
2:49 - 2:54compassion, hope and happiness.
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2:56 - 2:58The Feeling Body specializes in feeling.
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2:59 - 3:01Feeling is not only about emotion,
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3:01 - 3:04it is about sensation and perception.
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3:05 - 3:07Even though emotion does not exist
beyond the physical body, -
3:08 - 3:10feeling does exist beyond
the physical body. -
3:11 - 3:15An emotion is a physiological
experience of a feeling. -
3:15 - 3:19A Feeling is a sensation-based perception
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3:19 - 3:21and form of awareness.
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3:21 - 3:25The Feeling Body is not an actual
tangible body -
3:25 - 3:28like the physical body is.
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3:28 - 3:32But it can be understood and represented
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3:32 - 3:36through the format of an 'actual' body.
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3:36 - 3:38Often you will find that the Emotional
Body -
3:38 - 3:41represents itself symbolically to you
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3:41 - 3:44in dream-time or in an Out-of-Body
Experience, -
3:44 - 3:48through the context
of an actual 'body'. -
3:48 - 3:51With practice you won't
need to facilitate -
3:51 - 3:54an altered-consciousness experience,
like meditation, -
3:54 - 3:56in order to see someone's Emotional Body
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3:56 - 4:00or, at least the symbolic representation
of their Emotional Body. -
4:00 - 4:02You can switch your focus at will
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4:02 - 4:05and see that layer of a person's
Consciousness. -
4:06 - 4:08Here's an example of the first time
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4:08 - 4:11I asked for the Emotional
Body of one of my relatives -
4:11 - 4:14to convery itself as an
actual body-image. -
4:14 - 4:16I had always considered myself to be
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4:16 - 4:19more unstable and affected than
this particular relative of mine. -
4:19 - 4:21After all he is stoic,
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4:21 - 4:23he believes in hard work,
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4:23 - 4:25he has a confident, independent air
about him, -
4:25 - 4:29he has a "Gotta break some eggs to
make an omelette" attitude about life. -
4:29 - 4:31But when his Feeling Body revealed
itself to me, -
4:31 - 4:33it was gray-blue in color,
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4:33 - 4:35it was hunched-over
at the shoulders, -
4:35 - 4:38it was leaning lopsidedly to its left,
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4:38 - 4:39its gaze was towards the floor,
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4:39 - 4:41its movements were contained,
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4:41 - 4:43and most shockingly of all,
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4:43 - 4:47it was covered
(especially the left-side of its face) -
4:47 - 4:50with large, disfiguring, raised-scars.
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4:50 - 4:52Scars bad-enough
that it was as if they -
4:52 - 4:54had been caused by a meat-grinder.
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4:54 - 4:58The energy of my
relative's Emotional Body -
4:58 - 5:00was the energy of Suppression
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5:00 - 5:02and deeply imprisoned Grief.
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5:03 - 5:06Inherent within this experience is
a general tendency -
5:06 - 5:08that you see within the Universe ...
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5:08 - 5:10that is, that when we
have a severe wound -
5:10 - 5:13that is made to one level of our
Consciousness, -
5:13 - 5:16the other level will compensate.
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5:17 - 5:18For example:
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5:18 - 5:20Somebody who is wounded on
an emotional level -
5:20 - 5:22will compensate with their body.
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5:22 - 5:24Someone who has a very weak
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5:24 - 5:27or an unhealthy Emotional Body
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5:27 - 5:30might have a very
strong and confident -
5:30 - 5:33exterior body ('physical' body).
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5:33 - 5:35Or, that same scenario -
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5:36 - 5:39someone that has a weakened Emotional Body
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5:39 - 5:41might display an extreme strength
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5:41 - 5:43in their Spiritual Body -
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5:43 - 5:47they may be able to induce out-of-body
experiences at will, -
5:47 - 5:50they may be able to switch into a more
enlightened Perspective. -
5:50 - 5:52But this compensation that's done
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5:52 - 5:55on one level or another, of a Being,
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5:55 - 5:57creates a fractured Self.
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5:57 - 5:58It creates a Consciousness
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5:58 - 6:02that is in a state of Non-Integration.
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6:02 - 6:06So why is the Feeling Body so important?
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6:06 - 6:07It is the translator
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6:07 - 6:12between the observer-based consciousness
of the Mind and first-person physical -
6:12 - 6:16experience-based consciousness
of the Person. -
6:16 - 6:19It is what makes us able us to experience
Thought as 'real'. -
6:19 - 6:21In fact, without your feelings
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6:21 - 6:24nothing about your physical reality
would seem real. -
6:24 - 6:25Your sense of Life,
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6:25 - 6:28and feeling-based conclusions about Life,
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6:28 - 6:30are contained within the Feeling Body.
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6:30 - 6:32Your interpretations
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6:32 - 6:34are contained within the Feeling Body.
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6:34 - 6:35Your emotional trauma
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6:35 - 6:38is contained within the Emotional Body.
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6:38 - 6:41If your interpretations of Life
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6:41 - 6:43are experienced as painful emotions,
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6:43 - 6:45and if your sense of Life is painful,
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6:45 - 6:47and if the feeling-based conclusions
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6:47 - 6:48you've drawn about Life are painful,
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6:48 - 6:51and if the feeling-state of your memories
are painful, -
6:51 - 6:54and your feelings dictate what is real
and what is not, -
6:54 - 6:57then your Feeling Body will continue
to convey -
6:57 - 7:00those painful messages to the body -
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7:00 - 7:03which will be interpreted as
unpleasant emotion -
7:03 - 7:04within the body.
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7:04 - 7:06This leads to an unhappy life.
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7:06 - 7:08This leads to addiction.
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7:08 - 7:10This leads to failed relationships.
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7:10 - 7:14Basically, this leads to the physical
reflection of those emotional states. -
7:14 - 7:16And you can not stop reliving,
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7:16 - 7:19and reliving, the trauma.
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7:19 - 7:21This means you can't ever be
in the present moment. -
7:21 - 7:24You can't ever be fully present with
yourself in the here and now. -
7:24 - 7:26Because the past trauma
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7:26 - 7:29continues to come up again and again
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7:29 - 7:31in order to reintegrate itself.
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7:31 - 7:33It is asking you to become Whole.
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7:33 - 7:34This means
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7:34 - 7:36that if I experienced an interaction
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7:36 - 7:38with my father when I was young
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7:38 - 7:39where I felt abandoned -
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7:39 - 7:43I will continue to create and manifest
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7:43 - 7:45more and more and more scenarios
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7:45 - 7:46over the course of my life
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7:46 - 7:49where I feel abandoned.
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7:49 - 7:51If healing must occur
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7:51 - 7:54on the emotional and feeling level
of your life, -
7:54 - 7:57then you must address those issues
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7:57 - 8:00on the feeling and emotional level,
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8:00 - 8:02no other level.
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8:02 - 8:04But here's the catch -
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8:04 - 8:06The minute that you decide you need
to heal -
8:06 - 8:09something about your emotions,
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8:09 - 8:12you have now made an
enemy of your emotions. -
8:12 - 8:14You have made them not OK.
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8:14 - 8:18You've decided that you need to fix
something about them. -
8:18 - 8:21And so, you are in a state of Resistance
to them. -
8:21 - 8:24The minute you say "I need to heal"
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8:24 - 8:28this implies you have to change or fix
something about yourself, -
8:28 - 8:31which means that you disapprove
of yourself. -
8:31 - 8:34The best way to damage yourself
emotionally -
8:34 - 8:36is to look at yourself, as if something
needs to change. -
8:36 - 8:40You know how painful it is to have someone
tell you that you are not OK -
8:40 - 8:42the way you are,
that you have to be different. -
8:42 - 8:44This is how the Feeling Body feels
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8:44 - 8:46when we convey that it is not OK,
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8:46 - 8:48that It needs to be different.
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8:48 - 8:49If we approach our Feeling Body
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8:49 - 8:51with an attitude of "I need to fix you!",
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8:51 - 8:54you have just taken a serrated knife
to a wound. -
8:54 - 8:57You have not healed anything.
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8:57 - 8:59So what's the alternative?
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8:59 - 9:02The alternative it to completely embrace
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9:02 - 9:04your emotions and your feelings,
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9:04 - 9:07no matter how painful or uncomfortable
they may be. -
9:08 - 9:11The alternative is to completely be
present with -
9:11 - 9:15and to sit with your emotions.
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9:15 - 9:16It's to learn from them -
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9:16 - 9:18to hear what they want you to hear,
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9:18 - 9:20to see what they want you to see.
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9:20 - 9:21It is to be fully present,
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9:21 - 9:23without asking them to change.
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9:23 - 9:27We call this the process of Integration
instead of 'Healing'. -
9:27 - 9:31Every day, for 20 minutes at least and
any time you have a particularly intense -
9:31 - 9:35emotional reaction to something,
find a quiet and comfortable place -
9:35 - 9:38to completely be with how you feel.
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9:38 - 9:41Observe the sensations and feelings
and emotions in your body. -
9:41 - 9:45They will intensify as you focus on them.
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9:46 - 9:50Breath continuously without unnecessary
pauses between-breaths, -
9:50 - 9:53breathing in and out the nose.
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9:53 - 9:55Notice the way you feel.
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9:56 - 9:59Your entire goal is to be with
your feelings, -
9:59 - 10:01which is to fully be with yourself.
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10:01 - 10:02If you like,
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10:02 - 10:07you can repeat one sentence to your
emotions, like a mantra -
10:07 - 10:10"I am completely here with you now".
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10:10 - 10:12Keep in mind
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10:12 - 10:15that this process is not only
for negative emotional states, -
10:15 - 10:17it's also for positive emotional states.
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10:17 - 10:19It just so happens
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10:19 - 10:21that we most often suppress,
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10:21 - 10:23and try to distance ourselves from,
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10:23 - 10:24negative emotional states.
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10:24 - 10:27That's why they are un-integrated.
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10:27 - 10:28But some people find
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10:28 - 10:30that being with their positive emotions
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10:31 - 10:32is in fact, more difficult
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10:32 - 10:34than being with their negative ones.
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10:34 - 10:37After you have been with the emotion
completely -
10:37 - 10:39no matter how uncomfortable it is,
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10:39 - 10:42and you feel like you want to know more
about the emotion, -
10:42 - 10:45ask yourself three questions.
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10:45 - 10:48The first question is: "How do I feel?"
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10:49 - 10:51This is the opportunity
to bring the feelings -
10:51 - 10:53to your conscious awareness,
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10:53 - 10:56and name what is
occurring within you. -
10:56 - 11:02Two: "When did I last experience
this exact same feeling?" -
11:02 - 11:04Without looking for the answer,
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11:04 - 11:06allow your Being to offer-up the answer
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11:06 - 11:10like a stream washing something
downstream to you. -
11:11 - 11:16Three: "When did I first experience
this same feeling in my life?" -
11:16 - 11:18Again, without looking for the answer,
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11:18 - 11:20allow your Being to offer-up the answer,
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11:20 - 11:23like a stream washing something
downstream to you. -
11:24 - 11:27If nothing comes,
be patient with that. -
11:27 - 11:30The most important thing to realize
about this process -
11:30 - 11:33is that it will unfold
exactly as it's meant to. -
11:33 - 11:36The most crucial part
of doing this process -
11:36 - 11:38is to trust the process fully,
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11:38 - 11:39because that's to trust Yourself
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11:40 - 11:42to know what It needs to do
to re-integrate, -
11:42 - 11:44which It does.
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11:44 - 11:48Oftentimes, when we, in our feeling-state,
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11:48 - 11:50our charged feeling-state,
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11:50 - 11:53experience that traumatic memory,
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11:53 - 11:55the memory happened at such a young age
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11:55 - 11:58that we did not have our cognitive
understanding yet. -
11:58 - 12:00Our brain was not fully formed.
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12:01 - 12:04We were in the Emotional Self instead of
in the Mental Self, -
12:04 - 12:09because the Mental Self begins to kick-in
around 8-years old. -
12:09 - 12:11So if you have integrated,
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12:11 - 12:13or are in the process of integrating,
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12:13 - 12:15a memory that happened before age 8,
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12:15 - 12:17then you will know
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12:17 - 12:21that you may not get solid images in
association with a memory. -
12:21 - 12:24You may literally only be dealing with
emotions -
12:25 - 12:27that you have no context for.
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12:27 - 12:28That's OK.
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12:28 - 12:29Trust yourself.
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12:29 - 12:32You not need to have cognitive
understanding -
12:32 - 12:36unless you're meant to have cognitive
understanding. -
12:36 - 12:39Unless having that cognitive
understanding, -
12:39 - 12:40that logical understanding,
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12:40 - 12:43of what is occurring within you
emotionally -
12:43 - 12:46is a part of you integrating and healing
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12:46 - 12:47the Emotional Body.
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12:48 - 12:50If you find yourself experiencing
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12:50 - 12:52an emotionally-traumatic memory,
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12:52 - 12:54observe the memory, and then,
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12:54 - 12:56mentally alter the memory
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12:56 - 12:58in a way that feels emotionally positive.
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12:58 - 13:00This is what they call Inner-Child Work.
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13:01 - 13:02For example:
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13:02 - 13:04If you're taken into a memory where
your father left you, -
13:05 - 13:08imagine the Adult-You approaching
the Child-You, -
13:08 - 13:11and, enabling the Child to feel better.
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13:11 - 13:13Either become the stable parent
for your Inner Child -
13:13 - 13:17or give the Child a reliable father figure
of their choice, -
13:17 - 13:20or explain the entire situation
objectively to the Child, -
13:20 - 13:24and help them to not take
the experience so personally. -
13:24 - 13:26Altering a memory in this way
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13:26 - 13:30actually changes the causation
of that trauma. -
13:30 - 13:33All things you experience in your life,
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13:33 - 13:34are in essence,
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13:34 - 13:36an effect of the original trauma
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13:36 - 13:39which you experienced in your childhood.
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13:39 - 13:41When you go back in your mind,
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13:41 - 13:45and you alter the experience in memory,
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13:45 - 13:47you alter all of the branches
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13:47 - 13:49that are coming off of that root.
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13:49 - 13:51All of the symptoms,
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13:51 - 13:54which are the surface events
that you are experiencing, -
13:54 - 13:57will change as a result of it.
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13:57 - 14:00You are affecting the blueprint
of your entire reality, -
14:00 - 14:04because we live in a Universe where
Time does not exist. -
14:04 - 14:06To demonstrate this process,
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14:06 - 14:09I'm gonna have Blake show us how
it's done. -
14:09 - 14:11I'll be leading him through the process.
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14:11 - 14:15But, in reality, you're going to be
leading yourself through this very same -
14:15 - 14:18process - after you have sat with,
and been with, your emotion completely. -
14:18 - 14:21You wanna do this whenever you have
a charged emotion. -
14:21 - 14:24In other words, you wanna do this
whenever something in your reality -
14:24 - 14:26upsets you.
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14:26 - 14:30But you can also do it, in general,
as a check-in with Yourself. -
14:30 - 14:32That's what we're gonna be doing with
Blake today. -
14:32 - 14:35T: So, what I want you to do is
to close your eyes. -
14:35 - 14:37T: and I want you to
continuously breath. -
14:37 - 14:39T: So this is what it
should sound like. -
14:39 - 14:41T: «breathes in and
out, to demonstrate» -
14:41 - 14:46T: «breathes in and out, to demonstrate»
B: «follows Teal» -
14:46 - 14:49We want no unnecessary pauses
between breaths. -
14:49 - 14:50This allows our Consciousness
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14:50 - 14:52to come to the present moment.
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14:52 - 14:54Those unnecessary pauses
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14:54 - 14:56happens only when the Consciousness
is disconnected -
14:56 - 14:58from the present moment.
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14:58 - 15:00When we are breathing in,
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15:00 - 15:01that takes a bit of effort,
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15:01 - 15:05but it takes no effort «exhales»
to release that breath. -
15:07 - 15:10T: So tell us what you are feeling
in your body. -
15:14 - 15:16B: Calm ... a little bit of anxiety ...
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15:16 - 15:19T: Where is the anxiety?
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15:19 - 15:22B: Kind of, like, in the center
of my body ... -
15:22 - 15:24B: Like in front of my spine ...
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15:24 - 15:25B: Up my spine ...
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15:25 - 15:28T: How do you know it's anxiety?
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15:28 - 15:32B: Because it feels like ... unease ...
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15:33 - 15:35Teal: Did you see as he just
touched his face? -
15:35 - 15:37Teal: What that means
is he's trying to -
15:37 - 15:40Teal: get rid off his attention
on that painful emotion. -
15:40 - 15:42Teal: That's why a lot of times
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15:42 - 15:43Teal: when we are in meditation,
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15:43 - 15:45Teal: we feel the
urge to scratch. -
15:45 - 15:47Teal: That's our body and our Being
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15:47 - 15:48Teal: trying to distract us
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15:48 - 15:50Teal: from being with
that painful emotion. -
15:50 - 15:52Teal: So when you're
doing this Process -
15:52 - 15:54Teal: try to refrain from doing that.
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15:59 - 16:02T: Express to us, as if you were
describing in a poem, -
16:02 - 16:05T: what Anxiety feels like.
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16:06 - 16:10B: Uh, it feels like static on the top
of water ... -
16:14 - 16:17T: Now I want you to internally,
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16:17 - 16:19T: to recite to yourself,
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16:20 - 16:25T: "I am completely here with you now"
to that feeling. -
16:26 - 16:28B: Out loud?
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16:28 - 16:31T: You'll be doing it internally, mentally
when you're doing this process. -
16:31 - 16:35T: You could say it out loud right now,
if you want ... -
16:39 - 16:43B: "I am completely here with you
in this Process" -
16:45 - 16:50T: Now, I want you to ask that
feeling-sensation within your body: -
16:50 - 16:54T: "When was the last time I
experienced this?" -
16:55 - 17:01T: "When was the last time that this
signature came to be?" -
17:01 - 17:03B: When was the last time
or when was the first time? -
17:03 - 17:05T: Last time.
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17:07 - 17:10B: Over on the table over there ...
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17:12 - 17:15T: Does the emotion want you
to know anything -
17:15 - 17:17T: about when you were
over on the table? -
17:17 - 17:19T: Any images or ... ?
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17:22 - 17:24The answer might be NO,
it doesn't matter. -
17:24 - 17:27What we're doing right now is becoming
completely present -
17:27 - 17:29with that particular emotion.
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17:29 - 17:31We're getting to know it better.
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17:33 - 17:35B: It wants me to stop drinking coffee ...
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17:36 - 17:38T: Interesting ...
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17:39 - 17:41B: Or, that it is, coffee ...
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17:41 - 17:44T: «laughs»
B: «laughs» -
17:46 - 17:48B: Hell, I don't know
how to tell it apart ... -
17:49 - 17:50T: That's OK ...
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17:50 - 17:54We don't want to take our thinking
mind into the emotions. -
17:54 - 17:55We want the emotions to come up
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17:55 - 17:57and meet the thinking mind,
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17:57 - 17:59if it wants to.
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18:00 - 18:01T: So then I want you to ask yourself:
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18:01 - 18:04T: "When was the first
time I ever experienced " -
18:04 - 18:06T: "this particular emotion?"
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18:06 - 18:09B: "When was the first time I ever
experienced this emotion?" -
18:09 - 18:12Keeping in mind that your,
your thinking mind will want -
18:12 - 18:14to give you a laid-out scenario,
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18:14 - 18:17but, don't let your mind go looking
for that scenario. -
18:17 - 18:19Sit with this ...
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18:19 - 18:20If you're meant to receive images,
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18:20 - 18:23or if you're meant to receive any
cognitive understanding -
18:23 - 18:25of that particular emotion,
it will come to you. -
18:25 - 18:28Otherwise, you're most likely
dealing with something -
18:28 - 18:29you've experienced at
such a young age -
18:29 - 18:32that you had no way of cognitively
understanding your experience, -
18:32 - 18:35only emotionally understanding
your experience. -
18:35 - 18:36B: In the crib ...
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18:36 - 18:39B: Uh, wondering if someone's
going to come back ... -
18:40 - 18:42T: OK - so how did that come to you?
-
18:43 - 18:45T: Were you ... was it
first-person perspective? -
18:45 - 18:47T: Was it third-person perspective?
-
18:47 - 18:49B: Third-person ...
-
18:49 - 18:51T: So you were watching yourself?
-
18:51 - 18:52B: Yeah ...
-
18:52 - 18:53What that means,
-
18:53 - 18:55is that this particular memory
-
18:55 - 18:56was traumatic enough
-
18:56 - 18:58that the Consciousness separated
-
18:58 - 19:01from its first-person experience of it.
-
19:01 - 19:05This is the heart of Suppressed Memory.
-
19:05 - 19:07B: It was a mix - I saw both ...
-
19:08 - 19:10T: That's good - that
means that you, -
19:10 - 19:12T: when you're re-integrating
with first-person -
19:12 - 19:14T: perspective, that means you're
coming back into -
19:14 - 19:16T: welcoming the experience.
-
19:16 - 19:18B: Totally experiencing Bulbous/Tiny right now.
-
19:18 - 19:20T: OK, well close your eyes -
we want that. -
19:20 - 19:24Bulbous/Teeny is an experience
that you have, on a physiological level, -
19:24 - 19:27or oftentimes when we're dealing with
emotions that are too intense. -
19:27 - 19:29It's the feeling of being
very, very large -
19:29 - 19:31and then very, very small ...
-
19:32 - 19:35So he's having a physiological reaction to
-
19:35 - 19:37the reintegration of this particular
-
19:37 - 19:39traumatic memory and emotion.
-
19:41 - 19:44B: Hey, just be here ...
T: Sit with it ... -
19:44 - 19:46T: Do you see that Child?
-
19:47 - 19:49T: Now that you have been with that
emotion, -
19:49 - 19:53T: as long as you're not wanting to
escape from that emotion, -
19:53 - 19:56T: It's time for you to alter that memory.
-
19:57 - 19:58T: This is your opportunity to do
-
19:58 - 20:01T: whatever you need to do to make
that Child -
20:01 - 20:03T: feel emotionally different ...
-
20:06 - 20:06B: To?
-
20:06 - 20:07T: Or to be ...
-
20:07 - 20:09T: Rather than say that - let's say
-
20:09 - 20:12T: "To be completely with that Child's
emotion" -
20:12 - 20:14T: Do we need to pick the Child up?
-
20:14 - 20:16B: Yeah ...
-
20:17 - 20:18T: Then, do ...
-
20:18 - 20:20B: Myself, or somebody else?
-
20:20 - 20:22T: Which feels better?
-
20:24 - 20:26B: «amused , laughs»
-
20:26 - 20:31B: Uh, I think ... I can't understand
myself pickup up myself ... -
20:33 - 20:36T: Who would the Child want to
have ... pick it up? -
20:36 - 20:41T: An Angel, a Guide? ... ... Who?
-
20:41 - 20:43B: Sure - a Light Being ...
-
20:43 - 20:45T: OK, now imagine a Light Being
going over -
20:45 - 20:47T: and picking up that baby ...
-
20:47 - 20:50T: and comforting the baby and
telling the baby that its not alone... -
20:50 - 20:52T: Whatever words
need to be conveyed -
20:52 - 20:53T: or emotions,
-
20:53 - 20:56T: or actions need to be conveyed
-
20:56 - 20:58T: in order to be present with that Child
-
20:58 - 20:59T: in that state of emotion -
-
20:59 - 21:02T: that's what we want to do ...
-
21:02 - 21:04B: I dunno what will make ...
-
21:04 - 21:06B: I mean this ... Bulbous/Teeny
is ... intense ... -
21:06 - 21:08T: Then be with that emotion
-
21:08 - 21:09T: See right now, it's so intense
-
21:09 - 21:12T: that you want to escape
from the emotion ... -
21:12 - 21:14But that's what we do when
we smoke cigarettes, -
21:14 - 21:16that's what we do when
we try to exercise, -
21:16 - 21:18that's what we do when
we get other people -
21:18 - 21:20to act in a way that
makes us feel better. -
21:20 - 21:22We're trying to escape the emotion ...
-
21:22 - 21:24which doesn't allow for integration.
-
21:27 - 21:31T: Breath ... continuously
into that emotion ... -
21:32 - 21:34T: «breathes»
-
21:37 - 21:39B: It's feeling better ...
-
21:40 - 21:42B: It's OK ...
-
21:44 - 21:45T: Now can you watch the Child
-
21:45 - 21:47T: being picked up by the Light Being?
-
21:47 - 21:50T: Enable that Light Being to tell the
Child -
21:50 - 21:52T: that its never going to be left behind.
-
21:52 - 21:55B: I'm trying to feel like,
what that would feel like - -
21:55 - 21:57B: being 'picked up' But
I can't really get there -
21:57 - 22:02B: because I'm still in this ...
other feeling ... -
22:02 - 22:05T: Well, do you feel like you need to sit
-
22:05 - 22:07T: with that emotion longer?
-
22:07 - 22:08B: Yeah.
-
22:08 - 22:10T: Then do that.
-
22:15 - 22:18T: Don't forget to breath ...
-
22:25 - 22:27The minute we stop
continuously breathing, -
22:27 - 22:29we have gone back into time
-
22:29 - 22:31instead of bringing time forward into
-
22:31 - 22:32where we are.
-
22:32 - 22:36We are no longer in the present.
-
22:38 - 22:42B: Oh, words of affirmation ought
to make It feel better. -
22:42 - 22:43T: Good.
-
22:43 - 22:46B: Which is weird, because
I'm usually so resistant to that. -
22:46 - 22:49T: That's part of why you're
so resistant to that. -
22:50 - 22:51B: Why? Because ... ?
-
22:51 - 22:54T: No, that's for another
day ... «giggles» -
22:54 - 22:56T: You will find out the Why of your life,
-
22:56 - 22:59T: and the Meaning of your
life, and the coincidence, -
22:59 - 23:01T: and the coherence, I should say,
-
23:01 - 23:02T: between everything
-
23:02 - 23:05T: once you start doing this Process.
-
23:05 - 23:07T: So what I ... what I ...
I want you to try something ... -
23:07 - 23:08B: OK ...
-
23:08 - 23:10T: This is an Intuitive-thing for me ...
-
23:10 - 23:12T: I want you to try picking that baby up
-
23:12 - 23:15T: and fashioning a carrier
around that aspect -
23:15 - 23:17T: of your Consciousness,
your Adult Consciousness -
23:17 - 23:20T: A carrier around your body,
like a baby carrier -
23:20 - 23:22T: Put that baby inside of the carrier
-
23:22 - 23:24T: and say - "I'm never going to
put you down" -
23:24 - 23:28T: "You're never going to
be in a crib again". -
23:29 - 23:31B: OK ...
-
23:32 - 23:34T: How do you feel emotionally?
-
23:35 - 23:38B: Uhm, not sure I trusted that ...
-
23:41 - 23:44T: What is it going to take for the
Child to trust that? -
23:44 - 23:46T: Time?
-
23:48 - 23:50B: I suppose ... i don't know ...
-
23:50 - 23:51T: Ask the Child ...
-
23:51 - 23:54T: Even though they can't use words,
cause they're that young -
23:54 - 23:56T: they can convey emotions.
-
23:56 - 23:59T: It was you,
you'll have an internal knowing -
24:01 - 24:04B: Uhm, 'play' or something ...
-
24:04 - 24:06T: Then do that ...
-
24:11 - 24:13This is our opportunity as adults
-
24:13 - 24:16to meet our child's, internal child's,
needs. -
24:16 - 24:19This is our opportunity ... to ...
-
24:19 - 24:22be completely with them in
the feeling that they feel. -
24:22 - 24:26To enable them to feel
emotionally better. -
24:26 - 24:28B: I've experienced this ...
-
24:28 - 24:31B: ... this Bulbous/Teeny, like,
throughout my whole life. -
24:31 - 24:35B: More so, when I was, like ...
under 10? ... -
24:37 - 24:41B: Ah, but I've never felt it this
intense. -
24:41 - 24:47B: Maybe ... back then, was when
I felt it most intensely, -
24:47 - 24:50B: but right now, it's just ...
so heavy ... -
24:50 - 24:53T: That means that that feeling
is it's own feeling-signature -
24:53 - 24:55T: which is attached
to the other one -
24:55 - 24:57T: which you originally
went looking for, -
24:57 - 24:59T: and this is the one that wants
to be re-integrated now. -
24:59 - 25:00B: OK ...
-
25:00 - 25:01T: So what you wanna do
-
25:01 - 25:03T: is stay completely with
the Bulbous/Teeny ... -
25:03 - 25:03B: Yeah ...
-
25:03 - 25:07T: ... Itself and ask those same
questions, of It ... -
25:07 - 25:09T: "When was the last time I felt this?"
-
25:09 - 25:11T: "When was the first time I felt this?"
-
25:11 - 25:13B: Last time I felt this ...
-
25:14 - 25:16B: ... it's a few months ago ...
a year ago ... -
25:16 - 25:18T: Conditions?
-
25:21 - 25:24B: Oh, I don't know ...
maybe in bed distressed ... -
25:24 - 25:26B: ... or stressed about the situation ...
-
25:26 - 25:28T: That's why its linked to stress.
B: Yeah ... -
25:28 - 25:29T: OK - so let's go back ...
-
25:29 - 25:34T: "When was the first time I
experienced this experience?" -
25:36 - 25:39B: I feel like if I put a number on it,
it's like, 2 ... -
25:39 - 25:40T: Don't put a number on it.
-
25:40 - 25:42T: I just want you to be
with those emotions. -
25:42 - 25:44T: You may not ...
this may be so young, -
25:44 - 25:47T: that you don't have any
cognitive understanding -
25:47 - 25:48T: of this emotion.
-
25:48 - 25:49B: Probably ...
-
25:49 - 25:51T: Just go all ... go back ...
-
25:51 - 25:53T: When you ask yourself that question,
-
25:53 - 25:55T: instantly your Being will transport you
-
25:55 - 25:57T: to that original ... emotion.
-
25:57 - 26:01B: I almost feel like I've never
felt like this before ... -
26:02 - 26:04T: OK, explain it, describe it ...
-
26:04 - 26:06B: I ... it just ... uhm, I don't know,
-
26:06 - 26:11B: my hand feels like it's ...
it's like ... a building ... -
26:11 - 26:12B: ... and I'm ...
-
26:12 - 26:15T: Good, continue to
breath into that feeling ... -
26:16 - 26:19B: This is so heavy ...
-
26:23 - 26:25T: "I am completely
here with you now" -
26:26 - 26:29B: «whispers» "I am completely
here with you now" -
26:32 - 26:36T: Ask if there's anything this feeling
wants you to know ... -
26:37 - 26:39Keep in mind that this Process
-
26:39 - 26:43may be very long for you to do.
-
26:43 - 26:45Somebody like Blake, who's been
in the practice -
26:45 - 26:48of identifying their emotions,
and being with their emotions, -
26:48 - 26:49for a great many years,
-
26:49 - 26:53will be able to facilitate this
process much quicker. -
26:53 - 26:55So, don't be upset with yourself
-
26:55 - 26:58if this takes you a long time to do.
-
26:58 - 27:04B: "Is there anything this feeling wants
me to know right now?" -
27:05 - 27:06T: Or see ...
-
27:07 - 27:09T: Or hear ...
-
27:10 - 27:13B: I feel like I'm swimming
around in, like, -
27:13 - 27:17B: infant-memories kinda ...
maybe even birth ... -
27:17 - 27:18T: Mmm-hmmm ...
-
27:19 - 27:20B: It might be birth ...
-
27:20 - 27:21T: It might be in-utero ...
-
27:21 - 27:22B: Yeah ...
-
27:22 - 27:25B: Maybe right ...
right before birth ... -
27:25 - 27:26T: Yes ...
-
27:28 - 27:30B: Yeah - like coming out ...
T: Mmm-hmmm -
27:30 - 27:32B: of the womb, I guess ...
B: Whoa! -
27:32 - 27:34T: «giggles»
T: Yeah ... -
27:34 - 27:38B: I thought it was impossible to remember
something like this? -
27:38 - 27:40T: Hell, no ...
-
27:40 - 27:44T: In fact, we all remember it, we've
just suppressed the memory. -
27:44 - 27:46B: Uh, yeah - it's coming out ...
-
27:46 - 27:48T: Do you believe in
Suppressed Memory yet? -
27:48 - 27:50B: Unh ... ... guess so ...
-
27:50 - 27:53T: «laughs»
-
27:56 - 27:59B: Yeah, it's like the feeling of birth.
-
27:59 - 28:01B: It's like falling out ...
-
28:01 - 28:04B: It's like I'm so heavy that I'm
falling out ... or ... -
28:04 - 28:06B: ... so suppressed ...
-
28:06 - 28:08T: Well, when the waters break,
-
28:08 - 28:11T: that's the first time you will
actually feel the pull of gravity. -
28:11 - 28:12B: Yeah ...
-
28:12 - 28:13T: Did that occur to you?
-
28:13 - 28:15B: Yeah, it feels like gravity ...
-
28:15 - 28:18B: Feels like I'm going to fall
through the floor ... -
28:18 - 28:20T: «laughs» Yeah ...
-
28:20 - 28:21B: Okay ...
-
28:23 - 28:24B: Yeah, it sucks ...
-
28:26 - 28:27T: «laughs»
-
28:36 - 28:38T: So how do you support this baby?
-
28:38 - 28:39B: Ah...
-
28:40 - 28:43T: Just re-experience it ... go through
the birth process ... -
28:51 - 28:52B: How do I support it?
-
28:53 - 28:55B: «mumbles»
-
28:57 - 29:01T: Just be with it, you're not ready yet,
can you feel that? -
29:03 - 29:05T: The first, well it
wasn't the very first, -
29:05 - 29:09T: but one of the first times
you abandoned yourself, emotionally, -
29:09 - 29:12T: is when you were experiencing that
and you wanted to pull back from that. -
29:12 - 29:15T: So, right now,
in the process of re-integration -
29:15 - 29:18T: has you going back through
that process with yourself. -
29:18 - 29:23B: «whispers» Sure ... OK ... ... So ...
-
29:26 - 29:27T: «laughs»
-
29:27 - 29:29T: Can you ...
-
29:29 - 29:33B: No, I'm just like shaking ...
and heavy and ... -
29:33 - 29:35B: So now, I'm cold ...
-
29:35 - 29:37T: Hmmmm ...
-
29:37 - 29:39T: Classic birth experience.
-
29:42 - 29:45B: «jokingly» "It's cold out here!"
-
29:48 - 29:50T: Do you feel like you wanna
be with those emotions, -
29:50 - 29:53T: or would you like to change
the causation? -
29:53 - 29:55B: What do you mean?
-
29:55 - 29:58T: Changing the causation means
to make some alteration -
29:58 - 30:00T: to the causation of that emotion.
-
30:00 - 30:04T: How could you make that experience ...
different? -
30:04 - 30:06B: Uh, understanding?
-
30:07 - 30:08T: Yes.
-
30:08 - 30:10It's important that
he just said that -
30:10 - 30:12because even the act of observing
-
30:12 - 30:13and being with this,
-
30:13 - 30:14has altered it forever.
-
30:17 - 30:20T: Do you feel like you need
to do anything more -
30:20 - 30:21T: with the memory?
-
30:21 - 30:24T: Do feel like you need
to witness the baby -
30:24 - 30:27T: being supported and comforted and
in a space of warmth? -
30:27 - 30:29T: What needs to happen?
-
30:29 - 30:30B: I don't think so, actually ...
-
30:30 - 30:32T: Nice ...
-
30:33 - 30:36B: Yeah, just kind of
going through that, -
30:36 - 30:39B: and maybe knowing
what it is now ... -
30:40 - 30:42B: That was really good ...
-
30:42 - 30:44T: Keep ... keep breathing ...
-
30:44 - 30:49B: It was like a ... ... ... relief?
-
30:49 - 30:52T: That's because your were completely
present with yourself. -
30:52 - 30:56T: This was one of the first times you
did not abandon yourself. -
30:57 - 31:00Teal: Which you do, abandon yourself,
-
31:00 - 31:02Teal: any time you
want to get away from -
31:02 - 31:04Teal: an emotion that you're feeling,
-
31:04 - 31:05Teal: or change it,
-
31:05 - 31:06Teal: or fix it.
-
31:07 - 31:10Teal: Uh-oh, the whole Self-Help
Industry is out-the-window! -
31:10 - 31:13T: «laughs»
B: «laughs» -
31:13 - 31:16T: So now, with your cognitive
understanding, -
31:16 - 31:18T: seeing as how you experienced
-
31:18 - 31:19T: that feeling we just went into
-
31:19 - 31:21T: as something that's
happening in real time, -
31:21 - 31:23T: because it was 'triggered'?
-
31:23 - 31:25T: That memory - your
birth-trauma memory, -
31:25 - 31:28T: was triggered by something
happening today -
31:28 - 31:30T: which is nothing but
a reflection - a mirror - -
31:30 - 31:32T: of that original experience.
-
31:32 - 31:34T: So, what experience do you find
-
31:34 - 31:37T: keeps replicating itself
throughout your life, -
31:37 - 31:40T: as a mirror of that original
birth experience? -
31:40 - 31:43T: Cause that is a feeling-signature
that continues, when ... ? -
31:43 - 31:45B: Stress!
-
31:45 - 31:49T: Uh-huh ... and why are you in
stress right now? -
31:50 - 31:52B: I have no idea ... «laughs»
-
31:52 - 31:53T: Are you kidding me?
-
31:53 - 31:55B: What ... just filming?
-
31:55 - 31:56T: We're moving ...
-
31:56 - 31:59B: Yeah, we're moving ...
away from home ... -
31:59 - 32:02T: «laughs»
-
32:03 - 32:05B: «laughs»
-
32:05 - 32:09T: That, my friend, is to be present
with yourself, completely. -
32:09 - 32:11T: Thank you, Blake ...
-
32:11 - 32:13Writing about your
experience with being -
32:13 - 32:15with your Feeling
Body is a good idea -
32:15 - 32:17because it will not only make
your Emotional Body -
32:17 - 32:19feel as if you care about it,
-
32:19 - 32:22it will help you to understand
and integrate the experience -
32:22 - 32:23you have just had.
-
32:23 - 32:24Keep this in mind
-
32:24 - 32:27as you go about your life and your day.
-
32:27 - 32:28Anytime you experience something
-
32:28 - 32:31as upsetting or uncomfortable,
-
32:31 - 32:35it is a triggered memory.
-
32:35 - 32:38You are not, in fact, living anything
new in your life. -
32:38 - 32:41You are experiencing nothing
but reflections -
32:41 - 32:43from your childhood.
-
32:43 - 32:46There is no exceptions to this rule.
-
32:46 - 32:49The reason that we are so reactive,
-
32:49 - 32:50we get upset,
-
32:50 - 32:51we blame the person
-
32:51 - 32:52who is coming towards us,
-
32:52 - 32:55and 'causing' us to feel that way -
-
32:55 - 32:56is because we are unwilling
-
32:56 - 32:58to fully be with our Emotional Body,
-
32:58 - 33:00to be with our feeling-impressions,
-
33:01 - 33:03and to reintegrate them.
-
33:03 - 33:05So don't shoot the messenger.
-
33:06 - 33:07These experiences which cause
-
33:07 - 33:10extreme emotion to arise within us
-
33:10 - 33:12are messengers from our subconscious.
-
33:13 - 33:15They're begging you to reintegrate
-
33:15 - 33:17your Emotional Body.
-
33:17 - 33:18They're begging you
-
33:18 - 33:22to reintegrate and become
whole with yourself. -
33:22 - 33:23So listen to them,
-
33:23 - 33:25and be with them,
-
33:25 - 33:26and have a good week ...
-
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33:53 - 34:13♪ Outtro Music ♪
- Title:
- "Healing" The Emotional Body - Teal Swan
- Description:
-
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In this episode, Teal explains that your feeling body (what most people call the emotional body) is the truth of who you are at a feeling level. This layer of you contains the imprints of the emotional aspect of your memories as well as your current emotional state. It is the bridge between your physical self and our thinking self. The feeling body interprets and translates the thoughts projected forth by your eternal consciousness perspective and also by your human perspective into feeling states or "feeling signatures". This translation is the first step that takes place in order to enable a being to have a first hand experience of a thought. This enables the thought to be actualized instead of remain abstract. This actualization of thoughts enables us to learn and gain awareness better and faster and this in turn enables personal and universal expansion. Because of the emotional body, man is able to experience their own thoughts. The thoughts are converted into feeling impressions. The physical body interprets those feeling impressions and as if translating the message, converts those feeling states into the neuropeptides and hormones that cause the physical reactions in our body that we call "emotions"; emotions ranging from fear, anger and stress to love, compassion and happiness.
The feeling body is not an actual body. It is etheric in nature. But it can be understood and visualized symbolically like an actual body (in fact it often is both out of body and in dream time). You can ask to be shown the visual representation of your feeling body in meditation of you like. With practice, you will no longer need to facilitate an altered state of consciousness like meditation to switch your perspective in order to see the layer of a person's emotional/feeling body at will. You could observe it as energy, or you could observe it as the representation of an actual body.
In the second half of this episode, Teal explains how to facilitate "integration" of the emotional body.
Ask Teal Website - http://www.askteal.com
Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel - used by permission http://www.sacreddream.com - Video Language:
- English, British
- Duration:
- 34:14
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