Evolution's gift of play, from bonobo apes to humans

With never-before-seen video, primatologist Isabel Behncke Izquierdo shows how bonobo ape society learns from constantly playing -- solo, with friends, even as a prelude to sex. Indeed, play appears to be the bonobos' key to problem-solving and avoiding conflict. If it works for our close cousins, why not for us?

I just came back from a community

that holds the secret to human survival.

It's a place where women run the show,

have sex to say hello,

and play rules the day --

where fun is serious business.

And no, this isn't Burning Man

or San Francisco.

(Laughter)

Ladies and gentlemen, meet your cousins.

This is the world of wild bonobos

in the jungles of Congo.

Bonobos are, together with chimpanzees,

your living closest relative.

That means we all share a common ancestor,

an evolutionary grandmother,

who lived around six million years ago.

Now, chimpanzees are well-known

for their aggression.

(Laughter)

But unfortunately,

we have made too much of an emphasis

of this aspect

in our narratives of human evolution.

But bonobos show us

the other side of the coin.

While chimpanzees

are dominated by big, scary guys,

bonobo society

is run by empowered females.

These guys have really worked something out,

since this leads to a highly tolerant society

where fatal violence

has not been observed yet.

But unfortunately,

bonobos are the least understood

of the great apes.

They live in the depths of the Congolese jungle,

and it has been very difficult to study them.

The Congo is a paradox --

a land of extraordinary biodiversity and beauty,

but also the heart of darkness itself --

the scene of a violent conflict

that has raged for decades

and claimed nearly as many lives

as the First World War.

Not surprisingly,

this destruction also endangers bonobo survival.

Bushmeat trades and forest loss

means we couldn't fill a small stadium

with all the bonobos that are left in the world --

and we're not even sure of that to be honest.

Yet, in this land of violence and chaos,

you can hear hidden laughter

swaying the trees.

Who are these cousins?

We know them as the "make love, not war" apes

since they have frequent, promiscuous

and bisexual sex

to manage conflict

and solve social issues.

Now, I'm not saying this is the solution

to all of humanity's problems --

since there's more to bonobo life

than the Kama Sutra.

Bonobos, like humans,

love to play throughout their entire lives.

Play is not just child's games.

For us and them,

play is foundational for bonding relationships

and fostering tolerance.

It's where we learn to trust

and where we learn about the rules of the game.

Play increases creativity

and resilience,

and it's all about the generation of diversity --

diversity of interactions,

diversity of behaviors,

diversity of connections.

And when you watch bonobo play,

you're seeing the very evolutionary roots

of human laughter, dance

and ritual.

Play is the glue

that binds us together.

Now, I don't know how you play,

but I want to show you a couple of unique clips

fresh from the wild.

First, it's a ball game bonobo-style --

and I do not mean football.

So here,

we have a young female and a male

engaged in a chase game.

Have a look what she's doing.

It might be the evolutionary origin of the phrase,

"she's got him by the balls."

(Laughter)

Only I think that he's rather loving it here, right?

Yeah.

(Laughter)

So sex play is common

in both bonobos and humans.

And this video is really interesting

because it shows --

this video's really interesting

because it shows the inventiveness

of bringing unusual elements into play --

such as testicles --

and also how play both requires trust

and fosters trust --

while at the same time being tremendous fun.

But play's a shapeshifter.

(Laughter)

Play's a shapeshifter,

and it can take many forms,

some of which are more quiet,

imaginative, curious --

maybe where wonder is discovered anew.

And I want you to see,

this is Fuku, a young female,

and she is quietly playing with water.

I think, like her,

we sometimes play alone,

and we explore the boundaries

of our inner and our outer worlds.

And it's that playful curiosity

that drives us to explore, drives us to interact,

and then the unexpected connections we form

are the real hotbed for creativity.

So these are just small tasters

into the insights that bonobo give us

to our past and present.

But they also hold a secret for our future,

a future where we need to adapt

to an increasingly challenging world

through greater creativity

and greater cooperation.

The secret is that play is the key

to these capacities.

In other words,

play is our adaptive wildcard.

In order to adapt successfully

to a changing world,

we need to play.

But will we make the most of our playfulness?

Play is not frivolous.

Play's essential.

For bonobos and humans alike,

life is not just red in tooth and claw.

In times when it seems least appropriate to play,

it might be the times when it is most urgent.

And so, my fellow primates,

let us embrace this gift from evolution

and play together,

as we rediscover creativity,

fellowship and wonder.

Thank you.

(Applause)