1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,000 I just came back from a community 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:05,000 that holds the secret to human survival. 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:09,000 It's a place where women run the show, 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,000 have sex to say hello, 5 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,000 and play rules the day -- 6 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:16,000 where fun is serious business. 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,000 And no, this isn't Burning Man 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,000 or San Francisco. 9 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,000 (Laughter) 10 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,000 Ladies and gentlemen, meet your cousins. 11 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:28,000 This is the world of wild bonobos 12 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,000 in the jungles of Congo. 13 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,000 Bonobos are, together with chimpanzees, 14 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:36,000 your living closest relative. 15 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:39,000 That means we all share a common ancestor, 16 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,000 an evolutionary grandmother, 17 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:44,000 who lived around six million years ago. 18 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,000 Now, chimpanzees are well-known 19 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,000 for their aggression. 20 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,000 (Laughter) 21 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,000 But unfortunately, 22 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,000 we have made too much of an emphasis 23 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,000 of this aspect 24 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:01,000 in our narratives of human evolution. 25 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,000 But bonobos show us 26 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,000 the other side of the coin. 27 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,000 While chimpanzees 28 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,000 are dominated by big, scary guys, 29 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,000 bonobo society 30 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,000 is run by empowered females. 31 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,000 These guys have really worked something out, 32 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,000 since this leads to a highly tolerant society 33 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,000 where fatal violence 34 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:27,000 has not been observed yet. 35 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,000 But unfortunately, 36 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,000 bonobos are the least understood 37 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,000 of the great apes. 38 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,000 They live in the depths of the Congolese jungle, 39 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,000 and it has been very difficult to study them. 40 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:42,000 The Congo is a paradox -- 41 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:46,000 a land of extraordinary biodiversity and beauty, 42 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:49,000 but also the heart of darkness itself -- 43 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,000 the scene of a violent conflict 44 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,000 that has raged for decades 45 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,000 and claimed nearly as many lives 46 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:00,000 as the First World War. 47 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,000 Not surprisingly, 48 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:07,000 this destruction also endangers bonobo survival. 49 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:10,000 Bushmeat trades and forest loss 50 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,000 means we couldn't fill a small stadium 51 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,000 with all the bonobos that are left in the world -- 52 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:18,000 and we're not even sure of that to be honest. 53 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:23,000 Yet, in this land of violence and chaos, 54 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,000 you can hear hidden laughter 55 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,000 swaying the trees. 56 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,000 Who are these cousins? 57 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:35,000 We know them as the "make love, not war" apes 58 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,000 since they have frequent, promiscuous 59 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,000 and bisexual sex 60 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,000 to manage conflict 61 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,000 and solve social issues. 62 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:45,000 Now, I'm not saying this is the solution 63 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:48,000 to all of humanity's problems -- 64 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,000 since there's more to bonobo life 65 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,000 than the Kama Sutra. 66 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,000 Bonobos, like humans, 67 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,000 love to play throughout their entire lives. 68 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,000 Play is not just child's games. 69 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,000 For us and them, 70 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,000 play is foundational for bonding relationships 71 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,000 and fostering tolerance. 72 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,000 It's where we learn to trust 73 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,000 and where we learn about the rules of the game. 74 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,000 Play increases creativity 75 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:16,000 and resilience, 76 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,000 and it's all about the generation of diversity -- 77 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,000 diversity of interactions, 78 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,000 diversity of behaviors, 79 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,000 diversity of connections. 80 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,000 And when you watch bonobo play, 81 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,000 you're seeing the very evolutionary roots 82 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,000 of human laughter, dance 83 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,000 and ritual. 84 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,000 Play is the glue 85 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,000 that binds us together. 86 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,000 Now, I don't know how you play, 87 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,000 but I want to show you a couple of unique clips 88 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,000 fresh from the wild. 89 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,000 First, it's a ball game bonobo-style -- 90 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:52,000 and I do not mean football. 91 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,000 So here, 92 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,000 we have a young female and a male 93 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:59,000 engaged in a chase game. 94 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,000 Have a look what she's doing. 95 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,000 It might be the evolutionary origin of the phrase, 96 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:05,000 "she's got him by the balls." 97 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,000 (Laughter) 98 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,000 Only I think that he's rather loving it here, right? 99 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,000 Yeah. 100 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,000 (Laughter) 101 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,000 So sex play is common 102 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,000 in both bonobos and humans. 103 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,000 And this video is really interesting 104 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,000 because it shows -- 105 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,000 this video's really interesting 106 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,000 because it shows the inventiveness 107 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:31,000 of bringing unusual elements into play -- 108 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:34,000 such as testicles -- 109 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:37,000 and also how play both requires trust 110 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,000 and fosters trust -- 111 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,000 while at the same time being tremendous fun. 112 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,000 But play's a shapeshifter. 113 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,000 (Laughter) 114 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,000 Play's a shapeshifter, 115 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,000 and it can take many forms, 116 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,000 some of which are more quiet, 117 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,000 imaginative, curious -- 118 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:58,000 maybe where wonder is discovered anew. 119 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,000 And I want you to see, 120 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,000 this is Fuku, a young female, 121 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,000 and she is quietly playing with water. 122 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,000 I think, like her, 123 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,000 we sometimes play alone, 124 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,000 and we explore the boundaries 125 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,000 of our inner and our outer worlds. 126 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,000 And it's that playful curiosity 127 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:18,000 that drives us to explore, drives us to interact, 128 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:22,000 and then the unexpected connections we form 129 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,000 are the real hotbed for creativity. 130 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,000 So these are just small tasters 131 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,000 into the insights that bonobo give us 132 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,000 to our past and present. 133 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:37,000 But they also hold a secret for our future, 134 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,000 a future where we need to adapt 135 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,000 to an increasingly challenging world 136 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,000 through greater creativity 137 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,000 and greater cooperation. 138 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:49,000 The secret is that play is the key 139 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,000 to these capacities. 140 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,000 In other words, 141 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,000 play is our adaptive wildcard. 142 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,000 In order to adapt successfully 143 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,000 to a changing world, 144 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:02,000 we need to play. 145 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:06,000 But will we make the most of our playfulness? 146 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,000 Play is not frivolous. 147 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,000 Play's essential. 148 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,000 For bonobos and humans alike, 149 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:16,000 life is not just red in tooth and claw. 150 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,000 In times when it seems least appropriate to play, 151 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:22,000 it might be the times when it is most urgent. 152 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:26,000 And so, my fellow primates, 153 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:29,000 let us embrace this gift from evolution 154 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,000 and play together, 155 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:34,000 as we rediscover creativity, 156 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,000 fellowship and wonder. 157 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,000 Thank you. 158 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,000 (Applause)