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you have to be the hero of your own
story and you can do that 90% of is just
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showing up get there and start working
like you're not gonna feel perfect every
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day
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there's got to be those days you push
through and there they're probably gonna
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be more numerous than the days you don't
and so the benefit of discipline in my
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eyes has always been that through
discipline I get things done write down
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everything you want to do this is what I
want you to do write down what you would
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like to fix about your life and then
just if you're 30 pounds overweight you
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want to lose 30 pounds do it the right
way
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go start eating vegetables monitor your
calories write down what you eat
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exercise every day force yourself to do
it the brain is the general the troops
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of the body and you get up and you do it
and then you get to write it down our
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bodies for whatever reason most people
their associations are to avoid anything
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that's uncomfortable
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it's so illogical because when you look
at comfort and you look at success and
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progress and in eventual the feelings of
accomplishment and of getting past
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certain hurdles and in terms of like how
you feel about life a lot of those are
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connected to discomfort like discomfort
is your friend it really it a discomfort
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and and not being happy and content with
certain situations in life or certain
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feelings in life one of the big problems
is sitting down and doing the work and
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he labels it like an enemy he calls it
resistance you know and that you have to
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sit down you have to overcome resistance
and that the pro goes to work and it
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doesn't matter if you're sick doesn't
matter if you have kids it doesn't
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matter what you you're a pro and you go
to work and that and that just it puts
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it in your head that this is what I do
you have pride in that and then when you
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are in front of that keyboard and you're
you got you look down the count it's set
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for the files more than you yeah you
you're doing the work and out of that
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work gems blossom and it's about
resistance that people feel when you
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know you should write or you know you
should paint or whatever you should
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sculpt whatever these things are you
pursue and that there's this thing that
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comes up that tries to keep you from
doing this
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this resistance
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you're not a hero in your own eyes
you're not you're not someone who you
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respect you know you're doing what you
got to do to get by but ultimately
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you're not respecting yourself and I
think we all have a certain amount of
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appreciation and respect for hero
figures you know like we all look at
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like the guy who never lies and it
always does the right thing and fucking
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helps everybody out and that's the John
Wayne character you know that's that's
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the ultimate hero and he's like this is
a battle that you will fight for the
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rest of your life but the key is to
fight it not to give in don't give in to
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that resistance to fuck just to fight
that resistance and in doing so every
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day you do so you have won the battle
for that day and you will continue to
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fight that battle and when you look at
your own life and you don't stack up
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you're a thief you stole money from your
wife's purse and you know you don't want
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to smoke cigarettes but you fucking have
to you can't deal with the stress and
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smoke you devalue yourself you slowly
start devaluing yourself you look at
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yourself you realize that if you were
judging yourself you would judge
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yourself unfavorably
so no matter who you you can't pretend
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you're the hero of your story
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you can be the hero of your own story
that woke up today you could be the hero
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of your own story that at forty years of
age stopped got out of bed and said I'm
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not doing this anymore
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only by my instincts and only by my
morals and my ideals and my mind and I'm
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gonna be dead honest with myself because
I'm realizing this is not gonna last
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forever and I'm gonna get myself in
shape but I'm gonna eat healthy and I'm
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gonna do this because this is this is me
now
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I decide that this is me
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and people have to realize that you are
not your past you are not all the times
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you fucked up they're not all the times
you were drunk that's not you what you
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you are the person who's learned from a
great deal of experience when you're
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alone with your thoughts you get an idea
of what your thoughts actually are you
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live your life just acting constantly on
the momentum of other people's
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expectations of you wanting to be liked
by these other people you can run into a
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trap
and you you you set up a life that you
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didn't really want your life is
certainly some sort of a journey it's
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certainly some sort of a journey
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you're trapped in this situation where
you have a mortgage
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you've got credit-card bills you've got
student loans you have to pay you have a
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bunch of shit going on you have to
continue to feed and all that and
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especially if you have a family and you
have to feed them oh my goodness
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then you're fully locked in you can't
take any chances whatsoever and
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oftentimes people make the mistake of
getting stuck and it is just a tactical
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mistake just like it would be a mistake
if you got stuck on a video game just
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like it would be a mistake if you
followed a map incorrectly and you get
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stuck in the woods your life is
certainly some sort of a journey it's
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certainly some sort of a journey and we
have to all be aware that when we're
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making journeys we're not going to
always make the right steps and
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sometimes you have to back up and try
again and if you're in a position where
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you can't back up and try again you've
trapped yourself as people define
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themselves by the past instead of
thinking about who they are now and said
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if they still look back at a mistake
they made and don't just get past that
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mistake grow and learn but dwell on
think it defines them
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I mean there's definitely pitfalls in
life you're gonna run into him we all
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are
no you didn't learn and grow if you
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survive somewhere along the line they
didn't face enough of the adversity to
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realize that there's sometimes you just
got to get up and get shit done there's
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sometimes we have to fucking pull
yourself up and you have to push forward
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even if you want to stay in bed having
that safety net just provided him with a
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way to stay in bed kept him weak have an
opportunity every time things go wrong
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every time things feel terrible you have
an opportunity to learn from whatever
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makes you feel terrible and never allow
it to happen again
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push forward the system will set out
honey pots for people to get trapped in
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the system will set out the ideas of
retirement the ideas of the Golden Ears
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providing you benefits providing you a
healthy work environment why well
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because they want people to work for
them they don't want people to realize
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their own dreams and escape they want to
set it up so that you stick around stick
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around some sort of an unsatisfying
world it's up to you to see that video
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game problem to see that issue as it
comes up on the map and known I think
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this is a right turn to see all the
problems that could potentially lay in
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front of you and calculate your your
future and then also look around all the
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people that didn't do it and look at the
misery that they're in and learn you
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don't want to be like them
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and most people get stuck in these
patterns or they define themselves on
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the person who doesn't follow through on
their ideas or a person who doesn't
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pursue the real interests and loves you
define yourself by that well you know I
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guess when I start things and I quit no
you don't know you have started things
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and you quit and it gives you a horrible
sense of regret that's made you define
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yourself by that you don't have to do
that I look back on anything I've ever
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done mistakes ever made
a pass that I you know what something I
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put out that I didn't quite yeah maybe I
waited three months before I released
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that or maybe I should have you know
rieta to that blog post a couple more
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times before I put it online or things
that I've done have driven me crazy but
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yelling at someone I didn't have to yell
at them for whatever but the most
-
important thing is always for all people
to recognize that you're not who you
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were a year ago you're not who you were
five years ago you're not who you were
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last week so you gotta regulate how much
you dwell on regrets of the past you
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really got to be careful
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it's also directly proportionate to the
amount of hardships that people face in
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life their ability to face hardships you
know and there's a lot of folks that
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live life on a cushy cloud of
marshmallows and bullshit and then one
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day something goes wrong and then look
at the people that are have kind of
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taken chances and navigated their way
what did they do differently
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what insight into their own mistakes are
they willing to delve into that you're
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not that you step back and go you know I
don't I just don't want to look at
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myself that closely but the person who's
able to look at themselves the closest
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it's gonna get the more rational results