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How did you tell your family?

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    How did you tell your family and friends
    about the diagnosis?
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    We were in America
    at the time
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    when Ruby was diagnosed.
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    We had been in hopsital
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    a couple of weeks, almost
    a month.
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    My family back home
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    knew that she was very sick,
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    was having uncontrollable
    seizures.
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    It wasn't until we took
    her home
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    and then a few weeks later
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    that Ruby was actually
    diagnosed
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    with having Sandhoff disease.
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    I told my mum
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    immediately on the phone
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    because they were waiting,
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    by the phone for news.
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    I actually couldn't tell
    anybody else
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    at the time.
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    She spread the news to
    my sisters and my
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    immediate family and at
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    that time we kept it
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    to my immediate family.
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    In the US, where we were,
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    we told, immediate family
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    who were asking
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    but that's how far we
    kept it until
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    we could come to
    terms with
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    the diagnosis.
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    I told my family
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    on the same day I got
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    the diagnosis.
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    My friends, I told a
    while later
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    because I couldn't
    talk about it.
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    When Isabella was first
    diagonsed
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    we originally speak to
    each member of our
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    family by the telephone.
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    We then directed them to
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    a website to explain more and
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    for them to read about it,
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    rather than us have to
    emotionally tell them.
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    We had pre-warned them
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    of the type of diagnosis it
    would be.
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    We, knew that Amelie had
    a metabolic condition
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    when we were staying in
    hospital.
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    So, we had a pretty bad diagnosis
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    knowing that it would be one of
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    seventy diseases or so.
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    We waited about two to three
    weeks for,
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    blood tests that were a
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    bit complicated, given our DNA.
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    When we found out it was Tay-Sachs
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    we called our friends and family
    to let them know.
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    The close people first.
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    Then it went by word of mouth.
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    We told my parents who
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    were there at the diagnosis,
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    that she had Tay-Sachs.
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    Then we told all of my family so
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    we didn't have to field
    all of the phone calls
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    about how she was getting on.
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    One of my closest friends was
    with me
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    on diagnosis day.
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    The rest of them I told
    over the phone from
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    Great Ormond Street Hospital,
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    as we got the diagnosis.
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    Everybody was absolutely
    heartbroken.
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    Unfortunately, it was out
    of our control.
Title:
How did you tell your family?
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Video Language:
English
Team:
The CATS Foundation
Duration:
03:27

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