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I spend most of my time
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thinking about little girls,
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which is kind of a weird thing
for a grown man in our society to say.
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But I do. I spend most of my time
thinking about little girls,
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and I think it's primarily
because I have one.
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This one's mine, and I think
you would really like her.
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She is smart and funny
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and kind to people and a good friend.
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But when I talk about my daughter,
the word I find myself saying most
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is "athlete."
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My kid's athletic.
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She is strong and fast
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and has great balance
and good body control.
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She is a three-time,
back-to-back-to-back state champion
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in Shaolin Kempo.
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At nine years old, she is already
halfway to a black belt.
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My daughter is athletic.
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Now, when a man who is six feet two
and 265 pounds stands in front of you
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and says his daughter is athletic,
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you might think
that's a reflection of him.
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It is not.
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(Laughter)
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My wife in high school
was a two-time all-state soccer player
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and a two-time all-state
volleyball player,
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and I played "Dungeons and Dragons."
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And that is why,
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although my daughter is an athlete,
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she's also a huge nerd, which I love.
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She walks around our house
in a cloak of flames
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that she made herself.
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She sits on the Iron Throne --
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(Laughter)
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even though she has never
seen "Game of Thrones,"
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primarily because we are not
the worst parents who ever lived.
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But she knows there's someone
called the Mother of Dragons,
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and she calls herself that
and she loves it.
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She's a huge comic book fan.
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Right now, her favorite
character is Groot.
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She loves Groot.
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She adores The Incredible Hulk.
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But my daughter really at heart,
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her thing is Star Wars.
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My kid is a Jedi.
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Although some days she's also a Sith,
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which is a choice that I can respect.
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(Laughter)
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But here's the question
that I have to ask.
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Why is it that when
my daughter dresses up,
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whether it's Groot or The Incredible Hulk,
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whether it's Obi-Wan Kenobi or Darth Maul,
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why is every character
she dresses up as a boy?
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And where are all the female superheroes?
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And that is not actually the question,
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because there's plenty
of female superheroes.
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My question really is,
where is all the female superhero stuff?
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Where are the costumes?
Where are the toys?
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Because every day when my daughter
plays when she dresses up,
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she's learning stuff
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through a process that,
in my own line of work,
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as a professor of media studies,
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we refer to as public pedagogy.
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That is, it is how societies
are taught ideologies.
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It's how you learned what it meant
to be a man or a woman,
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what it meant to behave
yourself in public,
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what it meant to be a patriot
and have good manners.
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It's all the constituent social relations
that make us up as a people.
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It's, in short, how we learn
what we know about other people
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and about the world.
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But we live in a 100-percent
media-saturated society.
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What that means is that every single
aspect of your human existence
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outside of your basic bodily functions
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is in some way touched by media.
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From the car that you drive
to the food that you eat
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to the clothes that you wear
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to the way you construct
your relationships
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to the very language
you use to formulate thought --
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all of that is in some way mediated.
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So the answer in our society
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to how do we learn what we know
about other people and about the world
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is largely through media.
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Well, there's a wrinkle in that,
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in that our society,
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media don't simply exist as information
distribution technologies and devices.
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They also exist as corporate entities.
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And when the distribution of information
is tied to financial gain,
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there's a problem.
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How big of a problem?
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Well think about this:
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in 1983, 90 percent of American media
were owned by 50 companies.
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In any market, 50 companies
doing something is a lot of companies.
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It's a lot of different worldviews.
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In 2015, that number has shrunk to six,
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six companies.
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They are NBCUniversal Comcast,
AOL Time Warner,
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the Walt Disney Company, News Corp,
Viacom and the CBS Corporation.
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These six companies produce
nine out of every 10 movies you watch,
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nine out of every 10 television shows,
nine out of every 10 songs,
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nine out of every 10 books.
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So my question to you is,
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if six companies control
90 percent of American media,
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how much influence do you think they have
over what you're allowed to see every day?
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Because in media studies,
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we spend a lot of time saying
that media can't tell us what to think,
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and they can't; they're terrible at that.
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But that's not their job.
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Media don't tell us what to think.
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Media tell us what to think about.
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They control the conversation,
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and in controlling the conversation,
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they don't have to get you
to think what they want you to think.
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They'll just get you thinking about
the things they want you to think about,
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and more importantly, not thinking about
the things they don't you to think about.
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They control the conversation.
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How does this work in practice?
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Let's just take one of those companies.
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We'll do an easy one.
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Let's talk about the Walt Disney
Company for a second.
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The reason why I always pick
the Walt Disney Company is this.
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Is there a single person in this room
who has never seen a Disney movie?
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Look around. Exactly.
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I picked Disney because they have
what we call 100 percent penetration
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in our society.
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Every single person
has been exposed to Disney,
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so it's an easy one for me to use.
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Since 1937, Disney has made most
of its money selling princesses to girls.
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It's made a huge chunk of its money.
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Unless, of course, the princess
your daughter is interested in,
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as my daughter is, is this one.
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See, in 2012,
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Disney purchased LucasFilm
for the sum of four billion dollars,
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and immediately they flooded
the Disney stores with Han Solo
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and Obi-Wan Kenobi, with Darth Vader
and Luke Skywalker and Yoda
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and not Princess Leia.
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Why? Because this princess
messes up the public pedagogy
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for these princesses.
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So Disney did not put Princess Leia
merchandise in the store,
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and when people went to Disney and said,
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"Hey, where's all
the Princess Leia stuff?"
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Disney said, "We have no intention
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of putting Princess Leia
merchandise in the store."
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And fans were angry
and they took to Twitter
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with the hashtag #WeWantLeia.
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And Disney said,
"Wait, that's not what we meant.
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What we meant was,
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we don't have any Princess Leia
merchandise yet, but we will."
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And that was in 2012, and it is 2015,
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and if you go to the Disney Store,
as I recently have,
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and look for Princess Leia merchandise,
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do you know how many Princess Leia
items there are in the Disney Store?
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Zero, because Disney has no intention
of putting Princess Leia in the store.
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And we shouldn't be surprised
because we found out that was their policy
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when they bought Marvel in 2009
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for the sum of 4.5 billion dollars.
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Because when you make a lot of money
selling princesses to girls,
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you also kind of want
to make money from boys.
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And so what better to sell boys
than superheroes?
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So now Disney had access
to Captain America and to Thor,
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The Incredible Hulk,
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and they had access even
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to a group of superheroes
no one had ever even heard of.
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That's how good Marvel was
at selling superheroes.
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Last year, they released a film
called "Guardians of the Galaxy."
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It's a film that absolutely
should not work.
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Nobody knew who they were
except for comic book nerds like me.
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One of the characters is a talking tree.
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One of the characters
is an anthropomorphic raccoon.
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It should not work.
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And they made a killing
off of "Guardians of the Galaxy."
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This character here in the middle,
her name is Gamora.
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She's played by Zoe Saldana,
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and she is strong and smart and fast
and fights like a ninja,
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and she is played
by a beautiful black woman,
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and my daughter fell in love with her.
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So like any good nerd dad,
I went to buy my daughter Gamora stuff,
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and when I got to the store,
I learned a very interesting thing.
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If I wanted to buy her a Gamora backpack,
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well, Gamora's not on it.
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They probably should have marketed this
as "some" of the Guardians of the Galaxy.
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(Laughter)
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And if I wanted to buy her a lunchbox,
she wasn't on it,
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and if I wanted to buy her a t-shirt,
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she wasn't on it.
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And as a matter of fact,
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if I went to the store, as I did,
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and looked at the display,
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you would find a small picture
of Gamora right here,
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but if you look at any
of the actual merchandise on that shelf,
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Gamora is not on any of it.
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Now, I could have taken to Twitter
with the hashtag #WheresGamora,
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like millions of fans did
across the world,
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but the truth was
I wasn't even really that surprised,
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because I was there
when Disney had released "The Avengers."
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And just this year, we got
a new Avengers movie, the "Age of Ultron,"
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and we were very excited,
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because there was not one
but two female superheroes,
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Scarlet Witch and Black Widow.
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And we were very excited.
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But here's the real thing about this.
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Even though Scarlett Johansson,
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who is one of the most popular
actresses in America, plays Black Widow,
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and Black Widow is the star
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of not one, not two,
but five different Marvel movies,
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there is not a single piece
of Black Widow merchandise available.
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Not one.
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And if you go to the Disney store
and look for a Black Widow costume,
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what you will find, is you will find
Captain America and The Incredible Hulk.
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You will find Iron Man and Thor.
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You will even find War Machine,
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who isn't even really
in the movie that long.
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Who you will not find is Black Widow.
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And I could have gone to Twitter
with the hashtag, as many people did,
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# WheresNatasha.
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But I'm tired of doing that.
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I'm tired of having to do that.
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All over the country right now,
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there are kids playing
with the Cycle Blast Quinjet play set,
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where Captain America
rides a motorcycle out of a moving jet
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and it's really awesome.
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You know how awesome it is?
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So awesome that when
it happened in the movie,
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it was Black Widow that did it.
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Not only has she been erased,
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but she has been replaced
with a male figure.
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And so what is this teaching us?
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I mean, over the next five years,
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Disney and Warner Bros.
and a bunch of movie studios
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are going to release
over 30 feature-length films
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with comic book characters,
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and of those 30 feature-length films,
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exactly two of them
will have female solo leads.
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Two.
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Now, there will be females
in the rest of these movies,
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but they will be sidekicks,
they will be love interests,
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they will be members of teams.
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They will not be the main character.
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And if what we learn, what we know
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about other people and about the world
we learn through media,
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then these companies are teaching
my daughter that even if she is strong
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and smart and fast
and fights like a ninja,
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all four of which are true of her,
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it doesn't matter.
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She will either be ignored like Gamora
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or erased and replaced with a boy
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like Black Widow.
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And it's not fair.
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It's not fair to her and it's not fair
to your sons and daughters either.
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But here's the thing:
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I'm raising a little girl,
and she has a little tomboy in her,
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which by the way is
a terrible thing to call a girl.
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What that basically is saying is,
those traits that define you,
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they're not really yours,
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they're just on loan to you
for a little while from boys.
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But do you know how much grief
she's going to take in her life
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for having a little tomboy in her?
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Zero. None.
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People will think it's cute.
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They'll call her feisty,
because in our society,
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adding so-called male traits to girls
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is seen as an upgrade, seen as a bonus.
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I'm not raising a little boy, like Mike.
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Mike is a little boy in Florida.
He's 11 years old,
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and the thing that he loves
most in the world
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is a show called "My Little Pony:
Friendship is Magic,"
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like millions of other children
across America.
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Now, the show is marketed to girls
ages five to nine,
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but there are millions of boys
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and grown men
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who enjoy "My Little Pony:
Friendship is Magic."
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They have a club.
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They call themselves Bronies,
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pony bros, guys who like ponies.
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I happen to be one of them.
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And what are Mike and myself
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and millions of other boys and men
learning in this feminine,
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sissified world of "My Little Pony?"
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Well, they're learning to study hard
and to work hard and to party hard
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and to look good and to feel good
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and to do good,
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and heaven preserve us from teaching
these wussified concepts to boys.
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So the other kids in his neighborhood
pick on Mike and they beat him up
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and they make fun of him,
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and at 11 years old, Mike goes home,
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finds a belt, wraps it around his neck,
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and hangs himself
from the top bunk of his bed.
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Because we have developed a society
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in which you would rather be dead as a boy
than thought of as liking stuff for girls.
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And that is not Mike's fault.
That is our fault.
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We have failed him.
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We have failed our children.
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And we have to do better for them.
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We have to stop making it
so that the only female superheroes
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appear on shirts that are pink
and cut for girls.
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We have to stop.
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And when I was putting this together,
people said to me,
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"Well, that's never going to happen."
And I said, "Oh really?"
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Because just this year, Target announced
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that they were going to stop
gendering their toy aisles.
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They were going to mix it up.
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Now, before we break our shoulders
patting Target on the back,
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just this week they released a shirt
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in which one of the most
iconic scenes in "Star Wars: A New Hope"
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where Princess Leia stands up
to the Dark Lord of the Sith,
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was released on a t-shirt
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in which she's mysteriously
replaced by Luke.
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So let's don't pat ourselves
on the back too much.
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Just this week also,
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Disney announced it was no longer
going to gender its Halloween costumes,
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which I say, "Thank you, Disney,
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except the only costumes you make
are of male superheroes,
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so does it matter
who you have wearing them?"
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Just this week, Mattel, who makes Barbie,
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announced they're going to release
a line of DC superhero girls.
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And the funny thing is,
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they met with girls
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and asked them what they
wanted to see in dolls,
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and you can see, they have calves
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and elbows that bend
so they can do superhero stuff.
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And please buy them.
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And don't just buy them
for your daughters,
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buy them for your sons.
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Because it's important that boys
play with and as female superheroes
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just as my daughter plays
with and as male superheroes.
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As a matter of fact, what I would love
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is a world in which every person
who goes to the store
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goes with a little flowchart in their head
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of whether or not they should buy
this toy for a boy or a girl,
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and it's a real simple flowchart
because it only has one question on it.
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It says, "Is this toy
operated with you genitals?"
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(Laughter)
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If the answer is yes,
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then that is not a toy for children.
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(Laughter)
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And if the answer is no,
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then it's for boys and girls.
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It's really simple.
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Because today is about the future
of the future, and in my future,
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boys and girls are equally respected,
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equally valued, and most importantly,
equally represented.
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Thank you.
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(Applause)