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(Half bell)
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(Bell)
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Dear Thay,
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two months ago,
I recognized a lump on my breast.
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It's a benign tumor,
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so it is not life threatening,
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and I am really relieved from it.
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But, at the beginning,
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I was really shocked,
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because it was there
from one moment to the other.
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Now, my question is:
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How can Buddhism help
with severe physical illnesses?
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(Sister) How Buddhism can help
with severe physical illnesses?
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Can you repeat the whole question?
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Dear Thay,
our friend said that
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two months ago, she found a lump
in her breast.
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And fortunately,
it turned out to be benign.
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So it is not life threatening.
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But it caused her some concerns.
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And thus, she comes
to the question:
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how Buddhism can help
with serious illnesses?
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Is that right?
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(Nods)
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The practice of mindful breathing,
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especially when you practice
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breathing deeper,
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can help strengthen your lungs,
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make them stronger.
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And, when your lungs are stronger,
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they can resist infections and
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things like that.
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And, not only the practice
of mindful breathing
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can help your lungs,
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but it can help your whole body,
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every cell of your body.
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When Vietnam, my country,
was divided into North and South,
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my mother passed away,
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and I had a depression.
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And, doctors could not help,
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but with the practice
of mindful breathing,
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I got out of the situation.
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The practice of mindful breathing
is wonderful.
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It can heal many diseases.
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During the time I had that depression,
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I practiced mindful breathing
and mindful walking.
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In the hospital also, I found the way
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to do walking meditation every day.
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Any time that was available
for the practice,
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I would take in order to do
walking and breathing.
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Especially when the air
is pure, of good quality,
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then the practice of breathing
can help the body very much.
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And, when you have some trouble
in your body,
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and you have not seen
what you should do,
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and the doctor has not told you
what to do
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in order to relieve that problem
in your body,
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then you know that mindful breathing
is what you can do right away.
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Take up the practice and breathe.
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Every breath can be healing.
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That is my conviction,
my practice.
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Every breath can be nourishing.
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Every breath can be healing.
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Every breath can help not only your lungs,
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but also your kidneys,
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your liver, all the cells in your body.
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This is very clear.
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Walking meditation,
breathing meditation
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you practice in such a way that
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the in-breath is pleasant,
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the step you make is pleasant.
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And, you know that every step,
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every breath can help with the illness.
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This is something very certain for Thay.
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And, then, the other thing is that
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you should not allow the energy
of worry to take over.
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This is very important.
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The lump is benign, but
if you imagine too much,
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you think "I am going to die very soon!"
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and it makes the situation much worse.
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So, to worry is not good.
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And there are ways in order
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to deal with worries.
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The Buddha talked
about the "second arrow",
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which is a very good teaching.
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He said that someone is struck
by an arrow,
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and the pain, the suffering is there.
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But, if a second arrow comes and
strikes exactly in the same spot,
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then, the pain will not only double,
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but it can be 10 times or more intense.
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So, don't let the second arrow come.
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And, that second arrow is worry.
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If we let the anger and the worry
to take hold of us,
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we suffer 100 times more.
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And, that is why we practice,
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in order not to let your anger,
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your protest,
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your despair and your fear
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to take over.
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That is the second arrow.
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It is very harmful, the second arrow.
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So, with mindful breathing,
mindful walking,
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you look deeply and
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you recognize the thing as it is.
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Do not exaggerate.
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Do not exaggerate.
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And, if needed,
we can consult a physician,
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a Dharma teacher,
a psychotherapist,
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and never imagine too much,
and exaggerate too much.
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That is the second arrow!
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These are two things that every one
of us can take up and practice,
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to deal with what is not going well
in our body and in our mind.
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And, the third thing is the meditation
on birth and death.
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Even if you are in terminal illness,
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you can practice,
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so that joy can still be possible.
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Our true nature is the nature
of no birth and no death.
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When we look into a cloud,
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we see that a cloud can never die.
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The cloud can become a rain
or snow, or ice,
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or river, or teeth,
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but a cloud can never become nothing.
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It is so beautiful
to be in the form of a cloud,
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but it is equally beautiful
to be in the form of the rain, or a river.
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So, to die is not something possible.
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You can change the form of manifestation,
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but you cannot die.
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And, when a person is in the phase
of a terminal illness,
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and she or he is instructed by a teacher
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to meditate like that,
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she or he will not be afraid of dying.
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Because they will be manifesting again,
in another form.
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So, in Buddhism we learn many things
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in order to deal
with the problem of illness.
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And, remember, first of all,
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mindful breathing, mindful walking,
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with joy and serenity
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can help prevent illness,
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and bring relief,
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and allow the healing
to take place more quickly.
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The second teaching is not to allow
the second arrow to strike us.
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(Helf bell)
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(Bell)