1 00:00:00,470 --> 00:00:01,705 (Half bell) 2 00:00:06,395 --> 00:00:13,067 (Bell) 3 00:00:28,826 --> 00:00:30,622 Dear Thay, 4 00:00:31,691 --> 00:00:36,822 two months ago, I recognized a lump on my breast. 5 00:00:39,952 --> 00:00:42,756 It's a benign tumor, 6 00:00:43,395 --> 00:00:46,571 so it is not life threatening, 7 00:00:47,112 --> 00:00:50,177 and I am really relieved from it. 8 00:00:51,213 --> 00:00:52,512 But, at the beginning, 9 00:00:52,571 --> 00:00:53,924 I was really shocked, 10 00:00:55,264 --> 00:00:59,895 because it was there from one moment to the other. 11 00:01:00,769 --> 00:01:02,662 Now, my question is: 12 00:01:03,041 --> 00:01:11,209 How can Buddhism help with severe physical illnesses? 13 00:01:13,169 --> 00:01:16,582 (Sister) How Buddhism can help with severe physical illnesses? 14 00:01:18,755 --> 00:01:20,739 Can you repeat the whole question? 15 00:01:20,869 --> 00:01:23,479 Dear Thay, our friend said that 16 00:01:23,599 --> 00:01:28,529 two months ago, she found a lump in her breast. 17 00:01:29,619 --> 00:01:32,959 And fortunately, it turned out to be benign. 18 00:01:32,989 --> 00:01:34,799 So it is not life threatening. 19 00:01:35,099 --> 00:01:39,480 But it caused her some concerns. 20 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,370 And thus, she comes to the question: 21 00:01:42,580 --> 00:01:45,940 how Buddhism can help with serious illnesses? 22 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:48,440 Is that right? 23 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:49,570 (Nods) 24 00:01:58,780 --> 00:02:01,602 The practice of mindful breathing, 25 00:02:04,322 --> 00:02:06,382 especially when you practice 26 00:02:09,206 --> 00:02:10,694 breathing deeper, 27 00:02:12,736 --> 00:02:16,235 can help strengthen your lungs, 28 00:02:16,984 --> 00:02:18,677 make them stronger. 29 00:02:21,334 --> 00:02:24,053 And, when your lungs are stronger, 30 00:02:26,213 --> 00:02:33,493 they can resist infections and 31 00:02:33,892 --> 00:02:35,650 things like that. 32 00:02:37,495 --> 00:02:40,715 And, not only the practice of mindful breathing 33 00:02:41,594 --> 00:02:42,886 can help your lungs, 34 00:02:42,964 --> 00:02:44,781 but it can help your whole body, 35 00:02:45,481 --> 00:02:47,062 every cell of your body. 36 00:02:58,791 --> 00:03:04,064 When Vietnam, my country, was divided into North and South, 37 00:03:04,683 --> 00:03:06,362 my mother passed away, 38 00:03:06,718 --> 00:03:08,454 and I had a depression. 39 00:03:11,106 --> 00:03:12,702 And, doctors could not help, 40 00:03:12,705 --> 00:03:14,806 but with the practice of mindful breathing, 41 00:03:15,445 --> 00:03:17,300 I got out of the situation. 42 00:03:18,056 --> 00:03:20,756 The practice of mindful breathing is wonderful. 43 00:03:21,115 --> 00:03:24,482 It can heal many diseases. 44 00:03:28,635 --> 00:03:31,208 During the time I had that depression, 45 00:03:31,950 --> 00:03:35,475 I practiced mindful breathing and mindful walking. 46 00:03:37,232 --> 00:03:42,327 In the hospital also, I found the way 47 00:03:42,411 --> 00:03:45,804 to do walking meditation every day. 48 00:03:47,306 --> 00:03:51,973 Any time that was available for the practice, 49 00:03:52,292 --> 00:03:59,194 I would take in order to do walking and breathing. 50 00:04:04,771 --> 00:04:11,680 Especially when the air is pure, of good quality, 51 00:04:11,747 --> 00:04:16,265 then the practice of breathing can help the body very much. 52 00:04:19,683 --> 00:04:27,037 And, when you have some trouble in your body, 53 00:04:31,779 --> 00:04:35,973 and you have not seen what you should do, 54 00:04:37,831 --> 00:04:41,056 and the doctor has not told you what to do 55 00:04:41,230 --> 00:04:46,352 in order to relieve that problem in your body, 56 00:04:48,283 --> 00:04:52,295 then you know that mindful breathing is what you can do right away. 57 00:04:53,515 --> 00:04:55,725 Take up the practice and breathe. 58 00:04:56,228 --> 00:04:57,941 Every breath can be healing. 59 00:05:01,084 --> 00:05:03,410 That is my conviction, my practice. 60 00:05:04,860 --> 00:05:06,956 Every breath can be nourishing. 61 00:05:07,271 --> 00:05:10,356 Every breath can be healing. 62 00:05:13,015 --> 00:05:15,542 Every breath can help not only your lungs, 63 00:05:15,624 --> 00:05:17,719 but also your kidneys, 64 00:05:24,157 --> 00:05:28,305 your liver, all the cells in your body. 65 00:05:30,251 --> 00:05:32,295 This is very clear. 66 00:05:34,538 --> 00:05:38,147 Walking meditation, breathing meditation 67 00:05:40,708 --> 00:05:44,975 you practice in such a way that 68 00:05:46,324 --> 00:05:48,691 the in-breath is pleasant, 69 00:05:48,893 --> 00:05:50,787 the step you make is pleasant. 70 00:05:51,017 --> 00:05:53,262 And, you know that every step, 71 00:05:53,977 --> 00:05:57,848 every breath can help with the illness. 72 00:05:59,544 --> 00:06:02,297 This is something very certain for Thay. 73 00:06:04,639 --> 00:06:06,277 And, then, the other thing is that 74 00:06:06,849 --> 00:06:15,290 you should not allow the energy of worry to take over. 75 00:06:17,638 --> 00:06:19,704 This is very important. 76 00:06:22,453 --> 00:06:26,939 The lump is benign, but if you imagine too much, 77 00:06:27,373 --> 00:06:29,350 you think "I am going to die very soon!" 78 00:06:29,778 --> 00:06:32,020 and it makes the situation much worse. 79 00:06:32,999 --> 00:06:34,795 So, to worry is not good. 80 00:06:35,986 --> 00:06:38,004 And there are ways in order 81 00:06:38,004 --> 00:06:39,393 to deal with worries. 82 00:06:44,239 --> 00:06:46,915 The Buddha talked about the "second arrow", 83 00:06:48,918 --> 00:06:51,025 which is a very good teaching. 84 00:06:51,712 --> 00:06:54,794 He said that someone is struck by an arrow, 85 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,420 and the pain, the suffering is there. 86 00:06:59,131 --> 00:07:03,505 But, if a second arrow comes and strikes exactly in the same spot, 87 00:07:04,834 --> 00:07:07,915 then, the pain will not only double, 88 00:07:08,432 --> 00:07:13,120 but it can be 10 times or more intense. 89 00:07:15,678 --> 00:07:18,363 So, don't let the second arrow come. 90 00:07:18,773 --> 00:07:22,103 And, that second arrow is worry. 91 00:07:24,093 --> 00:07:28,410 If we let the anger and the worry to take hold of us, 92 00:07:29,322 --> 00:07:31,119 we suffer 100 times more. 93 00:07:33,116 --> 00:07:35,718 And, that is why we practice, 94 00:07:36,036 --> 00:07:38,146 in order not to let your anger, 95 00:07:39,246 --> 00:07:40,685 your protest, 96 00:07:42,245 --> 00:07:44,743 your despair and your fear 97 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:47,981 to take over. 98 00:07:48,252 --> 00:07:49,788 That is the second arrow. 99 00:07:50,590 --> 00:07:52,577 It is very harmful, the second arrow. 100 00:07:55,046 --> 00:07:58,101 So, with mindful breathing, mindful walking, 101 00:07:58,412 --> 00:08:00,189 you look deeply and 102 00:08:00,461 --> 00:08:03,138 you recognize the thing as it is. 103 00:08:03,433 --> 00:08:05,078 Do not exaggerate. 104 00:08:08,448 --> 00:08:10,726 Do not exaggerate. 105 00:08:12,568 --> 00:08:16,514 And, if needed, we can consult a physician, 106 00:08:19,683 --> 00:08:22,507 a Dharma teacher, a psychotherapist, 107 00:08:24,203 --> 00:08:27,518 and never imagine too much, and exaggerate too much. 108 00:08:28,152 --> 00:08:30,400 That is the second arrow! 109 00:08:37,422 --> 00:08:41,660 These are two things that every one of us can take up and practice, 110 00:08:43,466 --> 00:08:47,673 to deal with what is not going well in our body and in our mind. 111 00:08:50,703 --> 00:08:56,994 And, the third thing is the meditation on birth and death. 112 00:09:00,405 --> 00:09:07,606 Even if you are in terminal illness, 113 00:09:09,552 --> 00:09:11,078 you can practice, 114 00:09:12,596 --> 00:09:15,263 so that joy can still be possible. 115 00:09:18,247 --> 00:09:22,640 Our true nature is the nature of no birth and no death. 116 00:09:27,349 --> 00:09:31,866 When we look into a cloud, 117 00:09:35,423 --> 00:09:38,912 we see that a cloud can never die. 118 00:09:41,684 --> 00:09:46,717 The cloud can become a rain or snow, or ice, 119 00:09:48,731 --> 00:09:50,267 or river, or teeth, 120 00:09:51,494 --> 00:09:54,431 but a cloud can never become nothing. 121 00:09:55,847 --> 00:09:58,959 It is so beautiful to be in the form of a cloud, 122 00:10:00,111 --> 00:10:08,118 but it is equally beautiful to be in the form of the rain, or a river. 123 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,847 So, to die is not something possible. 124 00:10:15,087 --> 00:10:19,051 You can change the form of manifestation, 125 00:10:19,406 --> 00:10:20,699 but you cannot die. 126 00:10:23,050 --> 00:10:29,246 And, when a person is in the phase of a terminal illness, 127 00:10:31,003 --> 00:10:37,195 and she or he is instructed by a teacher 128 00:10:38,042 --> 00:10:39,630 to meditate like that, 129 00:10:40,953 --> 00:10:42,901 she or he will not be afraid of dying. 130 00:10:43,254 --> 00:10:46,717 Because they will be manifesting again, in another form. 131 00:10:49,812 --> 00:10:52,322 So, in Buddhism we learn many things 132 00:10:52,457 --> 00:10:55,303 in order to deal with the problem of illness. 133 00:10:56,493 --> 00:10:58,181 And, remember, first of all, 134 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,434 mindful breathing, mindful walking, 135 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:04,388 with joy and serenity 136 00:11:04,942 --> 00:11:08,926 can help prevent illness, 137 00:11:11,650 --> 00:11:12,963 and bring relief, 138 00:11:13,297 --> 00:11:16,907 and allow the healing to take place more quickly. 139 00:11:18,523 --> 00:11:23,945 The second teaching is not to allow the second arrow to strike us. 140 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:33,623 (Helf bell) 141 00:11:37,028 --> 00:11:45,545 (Bell)