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(music "Forget Me Not", by Baulander)
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I want to suggest you
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to allow ourselves
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to LEARN to RELEARN.
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Basically three points
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will lead my speech.
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Fear, brain ...
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and creativity.
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And... about fear,
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that can be awakened
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through different processes...
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I want to focus on a specific:
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Fear, according to Dean Burnett,
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is generated by our brain,
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that even after millions of years
of evolution,
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it still has as its main purpose
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our survival.
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But it acts as we were still
living in the old times.
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And..., for this primal part of our brain,
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if there is something crucial
for our survival,
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is that we are part of a group,
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in other words,
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one of the most common fears that
our brain awakes on us
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is the fear to be secluded from
social groups.
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To be left behind.
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Which millions of years ago,
would mean death.
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And to be still really connected
to those times,
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the brain gets into an alert state.
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Whenever it thinks there's any risk ..
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(echo) of us to be rejected.
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Burnett also explains that even when
facing imaginary dangers
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our brain activates a tool
that stimulates us to whether
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RUN AWAY or FIGHT.
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Escaping, which is easy to be perceived
in situations such as
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when we think of vanishing,
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of hiding ourselves,
faking we are sick.
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You spectators,
do you remember any situation...
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that has taken you out
of your comfort zone?
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That has demanded you
to do something different
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that made you feel afraid?
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It can be something simple,
as a public speech,
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to ask for earnings raise,
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to get your driver's license,
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or to make the decision
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to start chatting with someone
that you had a crush on...
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I always keep thinking to myself
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(echo)
"What if they laugh at me"?
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(echo)
"What if I forget everything"?
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The fact is
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I also suffer from the fear
of being secluded by the group
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And it makes me afraid to make mistakes,
to be rejected...
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afraid of criticism.
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A fear that is better known as shyness.
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Now, imagine me being a College teacher,
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teaching majors such as Design,
Photography, Advertising and Marketing.
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Delivering lectures, workshops.
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I have already heard several times:
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(echo) "No way you are shy"!
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But I am.
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Well, between to FIGHT or to RUN AWAY,
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my choice was to take the risk.
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I believe that if I had not
chosen this path
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I would have spent the rest of my life
asking myself :
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"What if I had left Accountancy?"
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"Had been an intern at 26"
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"Had asked my boss
to be the art director"
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"Was admitted in College at 32"
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"Would have taken the chances
as a creative director"
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"Gotten into a partnership"
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"Being a teacher at 40"
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"Finished my Masters degree"
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(echo)
"What if I accepted to lecture at TEDx?"
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Maybe it doesn't look like...
but it's not easy to me.
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I am always trembling my legs out,
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my will is to run away,
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My heart beats like crazy.
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It's just that...
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life teaches you along the way.
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And when we face our fears
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we realize that
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it's not possible to terminate them.
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Fear is inside the packet of being human
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And many times, due to this fear
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we prefer to keep enduring things
that are no good for us
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for a long time.
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We keep waiting for things to get better,
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but it only happens because our brain
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has the ability to adapt.
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And that´s why, when we are...
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outside of the situation,
we ask ourselves:
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(echo)
"How come someone tolerate that much?"
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For better understanding
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read this text:
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Notice that in the beginning
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It takes some time
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to understand the code.
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But the brain adapts itself
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and starts reading faster.
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I believe that its important to
understand better
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how our fear shows itself on us.
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And that can help us to learn
how to negociate...
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And to show ourselves
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another version of the situation.
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Much more positive than the one
created by our survival instinct.
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And we know, don't we?
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How good is our brain in convincing us...
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that there's a danger around the corner.
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It knows ourselves better than we do.
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Not to mention that, due to fear,
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It's harder for us to change our path.
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In his book "Future Shock",
Alvin Toffler says
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the act of learning demands energy
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and to relearn demands even more energy.
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Because to relearn we
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must leave a lightened, sinalized path
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to take the chances into a detour
that has no guarantee
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we are going to get somewhere.
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Reconsider.
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Relearn.
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Restate.
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(echo) "It's all about taking risks."
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When we have to face any sort of changes
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Our survival instinct won't be comfortable
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How many times a change of pace
had bothered us?
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I'm not talking about:
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(echo) "Oh! I don't like monotony."
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I'm talking about things that take us
out of our usual way.
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That take us out of what we are used to.
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Facts that demand us to do something
in a very different way,
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even worst:
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that don't allow us to do whatever
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the way we've always done.
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This annoyance feeling
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also suits to comprehend something.
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Creativity,
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is so desired,
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admired,
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praised,
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but it also
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annoys.
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Creativity scares.
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Because it demands us the opening to learn
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And it's not about that creativity
everybody takes
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because it won't change anything.
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I'm talking about the one
that overpass
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questions,
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restates.
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The one innovative
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that develops different ways
to do the things.
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Creativity that takes us out
of our comfort zone.
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Usually when a new idea actually comes up
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it suffers resistance.
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Even because it takes people out of
their safe place,
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of the way they learned.
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And, due to our survival instinct,
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it afraids even who had the idea.
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It's because
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people rates us.
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The group judges us.
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(echo) "What they will think about me?"
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An example, that may be used
to understand how do we feel
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when we are forced to change,
it's this pandemic.
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Not getting into sensitive points,
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but observing some changes in our habits
and manners.
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(echo) "It messed up our routine"
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We had to relearn,
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to adapt,
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to change our way to work, to dress,
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and to relate.
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Other day, a lady's grocery fell near me
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and I couldn't help.
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