The happy secret to better work
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0:00 - 0:03When I was seven years old and my sister was just five years old,
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0:03 - 0:06we were playing on top of a bunk bed.
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0:06 - 0:08I was two years older than my sister at the time --
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0:08 - 0:11I mean, I'm two years older than her now --
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0:11 - 0:14but at the time it meant she had to do everything that I wanted to do,
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0:14 - 0:16and I wanted to play war.
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0:16 - 0:18So we were up on top of our bunk beds.
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0:18 - 0:20And on one side of the bunk bed,
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0:20 - 0:22I had put out all of my G.I. Joe soldiers and weaponry.
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0:22 - 0:25And on the other side were all my sister's My Little Ponies
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0:25 - 0:27ready for a cavalry charge.
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0:27 - 0:29There are differing accounts of what actually happened that afternoon,
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0:29 - 0:32but since my sister is not here with us today,
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0:32 - 0:34let me tell you the true story --
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0:34 - 0:36(Laughter) --
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0:36 - 0:38which is my sister's a little bit on the clumsy side.
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0:38 - 0:41Somehow, without any help or push from her older brother at all,
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0:41 - 0:43suddenly Amy disappeared off of the top of the bunk bed
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0:43 - 0:45and landed with this crash on the floor.
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0:45 - 0:47Now I nervously peered over the side of the bed
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0:47 - 0:50to see what had befallen my fallen sister
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0:50 - 0:52and saw that she had landed painfully on her hands and knees
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0:52 - 0:54on all fours on the ground.
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0:54 - 0:56I was nervous because my parents had charged me
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0:56 - 0:58with making sure that my sister and I
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0:58 - 1:01played as safely and as quietly as possible.
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1:01 - 1:04And seeing as how I had accidentally broken Amy's arm
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1:04 - 1:06just one week before ...
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1:06 - 1:10(Laughter)
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1:10 - 1:12... heroically pushing her out of the way
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1:12 - 1:15of an oncoming imaginary sniper bullet,
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1:15 - 1:17(Laughter)
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1:17 - 1:19for which I have yet to be thanked,
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1:19 - 1:21I was trying as hard as I could --
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1:21 - 1:23she didn't even see it coming --
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1:23 - 1:25I was trying as hard as I could to be on my best behavior.
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1:25 - 1:27And I saw my sister's face,
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1:27 - 1:29this wail of pain and suffering and surprise
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1:29 - 1:31threatening to erupt from her mouth and threatening to wake
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1:31 - 1:34my parents from the long winter's nap for which they had settled.
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1:34 - 1:36So I did the only thing
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1:36 - 1:39my little frantic seven year-old brain could think to do to avert this tragedy.
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1:39 - 1:41And if you have children, you've seen this hundreds of times before.
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1:41 - 1:43I said, "Amy, Amy, wait. Don't cry. Don't cry.
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1:43 - 1:45Did you see how you landed?
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1:45 - 1:48No human lands on all fours like that.
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1:48 - 1:51Amy, I think this means you're a unicorn."
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1:51 - 1:54(Laughter)
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1:54 - 1:57Now that was cheating, because there was nothing in the world my sister would want more
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1:57 - 1:59than not to be Amy the hurt five year-old little sister,
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1:59 - 2:01but Amy the special unicorn.
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2:01 - 2:04Of course, this was an option that was open to her brain at no point in the past.
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2:04 - 2:07And you could see how my poor, manipulated sister faced conflict,
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2:07 - 2:09as her little brain attempted to devote resources
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2:09 - 2:11to feeling the pain and suffering and surprise
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2:11 - 2:13she just experienced,
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2:13 - 2:15or contemplating her new-found identity as a unicorn.
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2:15 - 2:17And the latter won out.
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2:17 - 2:19Instead of crying, instead of ceasing our play,
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2:19 - 2:21instead of waking my parents,
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2:21 - 2:23with all the negative consequences that would have ensued for me,
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2:23 - 2:25instead a smile spread across her face
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2:25 - 2:28and she scrambled right back up onto the bunk bed with all the grace of a baby unicorn ...
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2:28 - 2:30(Laughter)
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2:30 - 2:32... with one broken leg.
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2:32 - 2:34What we stumbled across
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2:34 - 2:36at this tender age of just five and seven --
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2:36 - 2:38we had no idea at the time --
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2:38 - 2:41was something that was going be at the vanguard of a scientific revolution
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2:41 - 2:44occurring two decades later in the way that we look at the human brain.
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2:44 - 2:47What we had stumbled across is something called positive psychology,
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2:47 - 2:49which is the reason that I'm here today
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2:49 - 2:51and the reason that I wake up every morning.
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2:51 - 2:53When I first started talking about this research
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2:53 - 2:55outside of academia, out with companies and schools,
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2:55 - 2:57the very first thing they said to never do
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2:57 - 2:59is to start your talk with a graph.
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2:59 - 3:01The very first thing I want to do is start my talk with a graph.
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3:01 - 3:03This graph looks boring,
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3:03 - 3:05but this graph is the reason I get excited and wake up every morning.
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3:05 - 3:07And this graph doesn't even mean anything; it's fake data.
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3:07 - 3:09What we found is --
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3:09 - 3:13(Laughter)
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3:13 - 3:16If I got this data back studying you here in the room, I would be thrilled,
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3:16 - 3:18because there's very clearly a trend that's going on there,
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3:18 - 3:20and that means that I can get published,
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3:20 - 3:22which is all that really matters.
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3:22 - 3:24The fact that there's one weird red dot that's up above the curve,
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3:24 - 3:26there's one weirdo in the room --
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3:26 - 3:29I know who you are, I saw you earlier --
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3:29 - 3:31that's no problem.
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3:31 - 3:33That's no problem, as most of you know,
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3:33 - 3:35because I can just delete that dot.
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3:35 - 3:37I can delete that dot because that's clearly a measurement error.
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3:37 - 3:39And we know that's a measurement error
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3:39 - 3:42because it's messing up my data.
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3:42 - 3:44So one of the very first things we teach people
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3:44 - 3:47in economics and statistics and business and psychology courses
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3:47 - 3:50is how, in a statistically valid way, do we eliminate the weirdos.
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3:50 - 3:52How do we eliminate the outliers
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3:52 - 3:54so we can find the line of best fit?
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3:54 - 3:56Which is fantastic if I'm trying to find out
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3:56 - 3:59how many Advil the average person should be taking -- two.
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3:59 - 4:01But if I'm interested in potential, if I'm interested in your potential,
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4:01 - 4:03or for happiness or productivity
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4:03 - 4:05or energy or creativity,
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4:05 - 4:07what we're doing is we're creating the cult of the average with science.
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4:07 - 4:09If I asked a question like,
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4:09 - 4:11"How fast can a child learn how to read in a classroom?"
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4:11 - 4:13scientists change the answer to "How fast does the average child
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4:13 - 4:15learn how to read in that classroom?"
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4:15 - 4:17and then we tailor the class right towards the average.
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4:17 - 4:19Now if you fall below the average on this curve,
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4:19 - 4:21then psychologists get thrilled,
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4:21 - 4:24because that means you're either depressed or you have a disorder,
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4:24 - 4:26or hopefully both.
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4:26 - 4:28We're hoping for both because our business model is,
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4:28 - 4:30if you come into a therapy session with one problem,
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4:30 - 4:32we want to make sure you leave knowing you have 10,
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4:32 - 4:34so you keep coming back over and over again.
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4:34 - 4:36We'll go back into your childhood if necessary,
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4:36 - 4:38but eventually what we want to do is make you normal again.
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4:38 - 4:40But normal is merely average.
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4:40 - 4:42And what I posit and what positive psychology posits
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4:42 - 4:44is that if we study what is merely average,
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4:44 - 4:46we will remain merely average.
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4:46 - 4:48Then instead of deleting those positive outliers,
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4:48 - 4:50what I intentionally do is come into a population like this one
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4:50 - 4:52and say, why?
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4:52 - 4:54Why is it that some of you are so high above the curve
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4:54 - 4:56in terms of your intellectual ability, athletic ability, musical ability,
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4:56 - 4:58creativity, energy levels,
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4:58 - 5:00your resiliency in the face of challenge, your sense of humor?
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5:00 - 5:03Whatever it is, instead of deleting you, what I want to do is study you.
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5:03 - 5:05Because maybe we can glean information --
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5:05 - 5:07not just how to move people up to the average,
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5:07 - 5:10but how we can move the entire average up
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5:10 - 5:12in our companies and schools worldwide.
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5:12 - 5:14The reason this graph is important to me
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5:14 - 5:16is, when I turn on the news, it seems like the majority of the information
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5:16 - 5:18is not positive, in fact it's negative.
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5:18 - 5:21Most of it's about murder, corruption, diseases, natural disasters.
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5:21 - 5:23And very quickly, my brain starts to think
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5:23 - 5:25that's the accurate ratio of negative to positive in the world.
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5:25 - 5:27What that's doing is creating something
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5:27 - 5:29called the medical school syndrome --
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5:29 - 5:31which, if you know people who've been to medical school,
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5:31 - 5:33during the first year of medical training,
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5:33 - 5:35as you read through a list of all the symptoms and diseases that could happen,
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5:35 - 5:37suddenly you realize you have all of them.
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5:37 - 5:40I have a brother in-law named Bobo -- which is a whole other story.
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5:40 - 5:43Bobo married Amy the unicorn.
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5:43 - 5:46Bobo called me on the phone
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5:46 - 5:49from Yale Medical School,
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5:49 - 5:51and Bobo said, "Shawn, I have leprosy."
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5:51 - 5:53(Laughter)
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5:53 - 5:55Which, even at Yale, is extraordinarily rare.
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5:55 - 5:58But I had no idea how to console poor Bobo
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5:58 - 6:00because he had just gotten over an entire week of menopause.
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6:00 - 6:02(Laughter)
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6:02 - 6:05See what we're finding is it's not necessarily the reality that shapes us,
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6:05 - 6:08but the lens through which your brain views the world that shapes your reality.
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6:08 - 6:11And if we can change the lens, not only can we change your happiness,
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6:11 - 6:14we can change every single educational and business outcome at the same time.
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6:14 - 6:16When I applied to Harvard, I applied on a dare.
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6:16 - 6:19I didn't expect to get in, and my family had no money for college.
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6:19 - 6:21When I got a military scholarship two weeks later, they allowed me to go.
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6:21 - 6:24Suddenly, something that wasn't even a possibility became a reality.
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6:24 - 6:27When I went there, I assumed everyone else would see it as a privilege as well,
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6:27 - 6:29that they'd be excited to be there.
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6:29 - 6:31Even if you're in a classroom full of people smarter than you,
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6:31 - 6:33you'd be happy just to be in that classroom, which is what I felt.
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6:33 - 6:35But what I found there
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6:35 - 6:37is, while some people experience that,
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6:37 - 6:39when I graduated after my four years
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6:39 - 6:41and then spent the next eight years living in the dorms with the students --
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6:41 - 6:44Harvard asked me to; I wasn't that guy.
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6:44 - 6:48(Laughter)
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6:48 - 6:51I was an officer of Harvard to counsel students through the difficult four years.
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6:51 - 6:53And what I found in my research and my teaching
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6:53 - 6:55is that these students, no matter how happy they were
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6:55 - 6:58with their original success of getting into the school,
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6:58 - 7:01two weeks later their brains were focused, not on the privilege of being there,
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7:01 - 7:03nor on their philosophy or their physics.
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7:03 - 7:05Their brain was focused on the competition, the workload,
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7:05 - 7:07the hassles, the stresses, the complaints.
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7:07 - 7:09When I first went in there, I walked into the freshmen dining hall,
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7:09 - 7:12which is where my friends from Waco, Texas, which is where I grew up --
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7:12 - 7:14I know some of you have heard of it.
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7:14 - 7:16When they'd come to visit me, they'd look around,
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7:16 - 7:18they'd say, "This freshman dining hall looks like something
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7:18 - 7:20out of Hogwart's from the movie "Harry Potter," which it does.
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7:20 - 7:22This is Hogwart's from the movie "Harry Potter" and that's Harvard.
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7:22 - 7:24And when they see this,
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7:24 - 7:26they say, "Shawn, why do you waste your time studying happiness at Harvard?
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7:26 - 7:28Seriously, what does a Harvard student possibly have
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7:28 - 7:30to be unhappy about?"
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7:30 - 7:32Embedded within that question
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7:32 - 7:34is the key to understanding the science of happiness.
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7:34 - 7:36Because what that question assumes
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7:36 - 7:39is that our external world is predictive of our happiness levels,
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7:39 - 7:41when in reality, if I know everything about your external world,
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7:41 - 7:44I can only predict 10 percent of your long-term happiness.
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7:44 - 7:4690 percent of your long-term happiness
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7:46 - 7:48is predicted not by the external world,
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7:48 - 7:50but by the way your brain processes the world.
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7:50 - 7:52And if we change it,
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7:52 - 7:54if we change our formula for happiness and success,
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7:54 - 7:56what we can do is change the way
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7:56 - 7:58that we can then affect reality.
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7:58 - 8:00What we found is that only 25 percent of job successes
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8:00 - 8:02are predicted by I.Q.
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8:02 - 8:0475 percent of job successes
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8:04 - 8:07are predicted by your optimism levels, your social support
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8:07 - 8:10and your ability to see stress as a challenge instead of as a threat.
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8:10 - 8:13I talked to a boarding school up in New England, probably the most prestigious boarding school,
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8:13 - 8:15and they said, "We already know that.
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8:15 - 8:18So every year, instead of just teaching our students, we also have a wellness week.
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8:18 - 8:21And we're so excited. Monday night we have the world's leading expert
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8:21 - 8:23coming in to speak about adolescent depression.
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8:23 - 8:25Tuesday night it's school violence and bullying.
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8:25 - 8:27Wednesday night is eating disorders.
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8:27 - 8:29Thursday night is elicit drug use.
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8:29 - 8:32And Friday night we're trying to decide between risky sex or happiness."
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8:32 - 8:35(Laughter)
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8:35 - 8:37I said, "That's most people's Friday nights."
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8:37 - 8:40(Laughter)
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8:40 - 8:43(Applause)
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8:43 - 8:45Which I'm glad you liked, but they did not like that at all.
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8:45 - 8:47Silence on the phone.
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8:47 - 8:49And into the silence, I said, "I'd be happy to speak at your school,
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8:49 - 8:52but just so you know, that's not a wellness week, that's a sickness week.
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8:52 - 8:54What you've done is you've outlined all the negative things that can happen,
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8:54 - 8:56but not talked about the positive."
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8:56 - 8:58The absence of disease is not health.
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8:58 - 9:00Here's how we get to health:
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9:00 - 9:03We need to reverse the formula for happiness and success.
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9:03 - 9:05In the last three years, I've traveled to 45 different countries,
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9:05 - 9:07working with schools and companies
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9:07 - 9:09in the midst of an economic downturn.
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9:09 - 9:11And what I found is that most companies and schools
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9:11 - 9:13follow a formula for success, which is this:
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9:13 - 9:15If I work harder, I'll be more successful.
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9:15 - 9:18And if I'm more successful, then I'll be happier.
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9:18 - 9:20That undergirds most of our parenting styles, our managing styles,
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9:20 - 9:22the way that we motivate our behavior.
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9:22 - 9:25And the problem is it's scientifically broken and backwards for two reasons.
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9:25 - 9:28First, every time your brain has a success,
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9:28 - 9:30you just changed the goalpost of what success looked like.
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9:30 - 9:32You got good grades, now you have to get better grades,
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9:32 - 9:34you got into a good school and after you get into a better school,
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9:34 - 9:36you got a good job, now you have to get a better job,
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9:36 - 9:38you hit your sales target, we're going to change your sales target.
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9:38 - 9:41And if happiness is on the opposite side of success, your brain never gets there.
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9:41 - 9:43What we've done is we've pushed happiness
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9:43 - 9:46over the cognitive horizon as a society.
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9:46 - 9:48And that's because we think we have to be successful,
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9:48 - 9:50then we'll be happier.
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9:50 - 9:52But the real problem is our brains work in the opposite order.
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9:52 - 9:55If you can raise somebody's level of positivity in the present,
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9:55 - 9:58then their brain experiences what we now call a happiness advantage,
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9:58 - 10:00which is your brain at positive
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10:00 - 10:02performs significantly better
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10:02 - 10:04than it does at negative, neutral or stressed.
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10:04 - 10:07Your intelligence rises, your creativity rises, your energy levels rise.
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10:07 - 10:09In fact, what we've found
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10:09 - 10:11is that every single business outcome improves.
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10:11 - 10:13Your brain at positive is 31 percent more productive
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10:13 - 10:16than your brain at negative, neutral or stressed.
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10:16 - 10:18You're 37 percent better at sales.
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10:18 - 10:20Doctors are 19 percent faster, more accurate
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10:20 - 10:22at coming up with the correct diagnosis
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10:22 - 10:24when positive instead of negative, neutral or stressed.
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10:24 - 10:26Which means we can reverse the formula.
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10:26 - 10:29If we can find a way of becoming positive in the present,
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10:29 - 10:31then our brains work even more successfully
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10:31 - 10:34as we're able to work harder, faster and more intelligently.
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10:34 - 10:37What we need to be able to do is to reverse this formula
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10:37 - 10:39so we can start to see what our brains are actually capable of.
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10:39 - 10:41Because dopamine, which floods into your system when you're positive,
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10:41 - 10:43has two functions.
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10:43 - 10:45Not only does it make you happier,
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10:45 - 10:47it turns on all of the learning centers in your brain
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10:47 - 10:50allowing you to adapt to the world in a different way.
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10:50 - 10:52We've found that there are ways that you can train your brain
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10:52 - 10:54to be able to become more positive.
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10:54 - 10:57In just a two-minute span of time done for 21 days in a row,
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10:57 - 10:59we can actually rewire your brain,
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10:59 - 11:01allowing your brain to actually work
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11:01 - 11:03more optimistically and more successfully.
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11:03 - 11:05We've done these things in research now
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11:05 - 11:07in every single company that I've worked with,
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11:07 - 11:09getting them to write down three new things that they're grateful for
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11:09 - 11:11for 21 days in a row, three new things each day.
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11:11 - 11:13And at the end of that,
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11:13 - 11:15their brain starts to retain a pattern
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11:15 - 11:18of scanning the world, not for the negative, but for the positive first.
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11:18 - 11:20Journaling about one positive experience you've had over the past 24 hours
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11:20 - 11:22allows your brain to relive it.
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11:22 - 11:25Exercise teaches your brain that your behavior matters.
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11:25 - 11:27We find that meditation allows your brain
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11:27 - 11:30to get over the cultural ADHD that we've been creating
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11:30 - 11:32by trying to do multiple tasks at once
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11:32 - 11:35and allows our brains to focus on the task at hand.
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11:35 - 11:37And finally, random acts of kindness are conscious acts of kindness.
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11:37 - 11:39We get people, when they open up their inbox,
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11:39 - 11:41to write one positive email
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11:41 - 11:43praising or thanking somebody in their social support network.
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11:43 - 11:45And by doing these activities
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11:45 - 11:47and by training your brain just like we train our bodies,
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11:47 - 11:50what we've found is we can reverse the formula for happiness and success,
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11:50 - 11:53and in doing so, not only create ripples of positivity,
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11:53 - 11:55but create a real revolution.
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11:55 - 11:57Thank you very much.
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11:57 - 12:00(Applause)
- Title:
- The happy secret to better work
- Speaker:
- Shawn Achor
- Description:
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We believe that we should work to be happy, but could that be backwards? In this fast-moving and entertaining talk from TEDxBloomington, psychologist Shawn Achor argues that actually happiness inspires productivity.
- Video Language:
- English
- Team:
- closed TED
- Project:
- TEDTalks
- Duration:
- 12:00
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The English transcript was updated on 2/12/2015.