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Dear Thay, dear Sangha,
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my name is Jenna and I am here with
my daughter and her baby,
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my grandbaby for this retreat.
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And I am a new grandmother.
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And what has happened for me
is something that I've never expected,
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which is my heart has got me even bigger
and filled with so much love
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for this little baby girl
and this little baby boy.
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I feel very very deeply
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and I feel a very big responsibility,
a sacred responsibility for --
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a future to be possible for them.
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So, I try to do what I have learnt,
which is to breathe and enjoy the beauty
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and the joy of these babies in this life
and in this world.
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But even reading your book recently,
'Love Letters to Mother Earth'
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and I am an activist, so the research
that I have done about what is predicted
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for life on this planet
is very painful for me to live with.
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And part of that is
because I feel quite alone
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and as I move through life,
I look around and I wonder
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if other people are feeling and
thinking the same things as I am
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because it feels very confusing to me
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that more people are not talking
about the positive things we can do.
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And so, I do take the actions
that I need to
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and I am helping preserve tigers
and the wild.
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And the good news is
there are more coming back.
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Maybe they won't go extinct in the wild.
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And where I live in the Pacific Northwest,
there are changes happening politically
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around prevention of coal coming
into the area to go to Asia to be burned.
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But I don't feel like there are a lot
of places where I can talk about this.
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I don't want to be angry about it,
I want to talk from my heart about it.
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I want to talk without a ruse about how
to make positive changes that we can.
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And what I am wondering is
how we can do that in the Sangha
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because it seems even some reservations
that perhaps talking about this thing
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is too political or too social and
I feel alone in my suffering around this.
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Thank you.
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(Sr.) Dear Thay, dear Sangha,
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our friend is here on the retreat
with her daughter and her grandbaby.
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And she is a very happy grandmother
of two young babies
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and her heart has gotten bigger
as a grandmother.
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But she is very worried for the future
for her grandchildren.
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She is an activist, she has been reading
Thay's recent book
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'Love Letters to Mother Earth', and
she has done her own research and
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she knows that the prognosis does not look
good for the future for her grandchildren.
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She is doing her best to cherish them
in the present moment and to cherish life.
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But she has this fear for them coming up
and she feels alone in this.
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She feels isolated,
she does not want to be angry,
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she would like to speak and
act out of love
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but she doesn't know how or where
and in what way to do that.
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She is active in protecting wild tigers
and other projects
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and she knows that in this way,
she can make an impact.
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Within her own Sangha, she also sometimes
feels that there is not enough space
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to talk about these issues or to work
on these issues together
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because they are seen perhaps
is political or social.
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And so, the essence of her question
is this, how to go forward. Thank you.
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Sangha building is a very important work.
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Sangha means harmonious community
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and the main task of the Sangha
is not to organize events
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even events of practice of the practice.
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The main purpose of the Sangha is to build
brotherhood and sisterhood, harmony.
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That is why,the practice of deep listening
and loving speech is so important.
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We should be able to communicate
with each other easily.
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We share our views, we can come easily
to agreement, collective insight.
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And you feel that sitting in the Sangha,
you feel nourished, you feel stronger
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and that is the real Sangha building,
not organize.
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And with Sangha like that,
everything is possible.
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Because you feel nourished, you don't lose
your hope and we have sensible time
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even a Buddha cannot do much
without the Sangha.
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Sangha building,you need a lot of patience
and patience is a mark of true love.
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In Plum Village, we spend a lot of time
and energy building a Sangha.
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We have enough time to sit together,
to eat together, to drink together,
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to walk together,
exchange views and so on.
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Because we know, that
if we do not have enough harmony
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and happiness in our Sangha,
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it could not mean anything
to organize a retreat
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for other people to come
and have practice.
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The Buddha spent a lot of time
building his Sangha
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and he was a perfect Sangha builder.
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It is not easy to build a Sangha
and the Buddha felt the same.
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But with compassion and patience,
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he was able to build a beautiful Sangha.
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When the Buddha was 80,
he met King Prasenajit for the last time,
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the King was also 80,
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And the king saw the Buddha was travelling
and enjoying and he imitated the Buddha
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and also left the politics to his son
to enjoy visiting the country
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and one day, by chance they met,
in the northern part of the country
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and on that occasion, King Prasenajit
praised the Buddha and he said:
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"Dear teacher,
everytime I see the Sangha,
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I appreciate you much more.
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As I contemplate the Sangha moving,
sitting, doing Dharma works,
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I see your real insight, your real value,
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and today, I would like to bow to you
because you have such a beautiful Sangha.
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In this trip, I remembered, once
I went to a place with two carpenters,
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and they were your disciples,
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and that night we were sleeping
in the same room.
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They turned their head to the direction
they believed you were
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and they turned their feet towards me.
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They fear you more
than they fear the King,
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so I know that you are loved daily
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by members of your Sangha,
foremost Sangha.
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And today I would like to tell you
that the Sangha is a jewel
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and with the Sangha, you can accomplish
much in the world.
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So King Prasenajit as well as the Buddha
recognized that the Sangha building
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is the most important thing to do.
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With the happy Sangha, many people
can come and take refuge
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and benefit from the collective energy
of peace and happiness
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and compassion and mindfulness.
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With the Sangha like that,
you can nourish your grandchildren.
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That is the safest place
for your children to be.
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If children are nourished and
raised in such an environment,
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they will become instruments of peace
and we have to believe in our children.
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Our children have Buddha nature in them.
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And what we can do today is not to worry
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but to focus our efforts in watering
the seeds of love, compassion,
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talent in them and we should
believe in our children,
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investing and transmitting the best
we have to our children
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and not to worry about future.
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Taking good care, the best care
of the present moment
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is about everything you can do
for the future
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so instead of spending energy
to worry about future,
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invest all your energies
into the present and
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nourish our children and grandchildren
with the energy of hope,
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compassion and insight.
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(Half bell)
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