< Return to Video

The transformative power of classical music

  • 0:00 - 0:04
    Probably a lot of you know
    the story of the two salesmen
  • 0:04 - 0:06
    who went down to Africa in the 1900s.
  • 0:06 - 0:09
    They were sent down to find
    if there was any opportunity
  • 0:09 - 0:10
    for selling shoes,
  • 0:10 - 0:13
    and they wrote telegrams
    back to Manchester.
  • 0:13 - 0:15
    And one of them wrote,
  • 0:15 - 0:18
    "Situation hopeless. Stop.
    They don't wear shoes."
  • 0:18 - 0:20
    And the other one wrote,
  • 0:20 - 0:23
    "Glorious opportunity.
    They don't have any shoes yet."
  • 0:23 - 0:24
    (Laughter)
  • 0:24 - 0:27
    Now, there's a similar situation
    in the classical music world,
  • 0:27 - 0:31
    because there are some people who think
    that classical music is dying.
  • 0:32 - 0:36
    And there are some of us
    who think you ain't seen nothing yet.
  • 0:37 - 0:40
    And rather than go
    into statistics and trends,
  • 0:40 - 0:43
    and tell you about all the orchestras
    that are closing,
  • 0:43 - 0:45
    and the record companies that are folding,
  • 0:45 - 0:49
    I thought we should do
    an experiment tonight.
  • 0:49 - 0:52
    Actually, it's not really an experiment,
    because I know the outcome.
  • 0:52 - 0:54
    (Laughter)
  • 0:54 - 0:55
    But it's like an experiment.
  • 0:56 - 0:57
    Now, before we start --
  • 0:57 - 1:00
    (Laughter)
  • 1:00 - 1:02
    Before we start, I need to do two things.
  • 1:02 - 1:07
    One is I want to remind you
    of what a seven-year-old child
  • 1:07 - 1:09
    sounds like when he plays the piano.
  • 1:09 - 1:11
    Maybe you have this child at home.
  • 1:11 - 1:12
    He sounds something like this.
  • 1:12 - 1:15
    (Music)
  • 1:30 - 1:32
    (Music ends)
  • 1:32 - 1:34
    I see some of you recognize this child.
  • 1:35 - 1:39
    Now, if he practices for a year
    and takes lessons, he's now eight
  • 1:39 - 1:40
    and he sounds like this.
  • 1:40 - 1:41
    (Music)
  • 1:46 - 1:47
    (Music ends)
  • 1:47 - 1:50
    He practices for another year
    and takes lessons -- he's nine.
  • 1:50 - 1:52
    (Music)
  • 1:55 - 1:57
    (Music ends)
  • 1:57 - 2:00
    Then he practices for another year
    and takes lessons -- now he's 10.
  • 2:00 - 2:02
    (Music)
  • 2:05 - 2:06
    (Music ends)
  • 2:06 - 2:08
    At that point, they usually give up.
  • 2:08 - 2:09
    (Laughter)
  • 2:09 - 2:11
    (Applause)
  • 2:11 - 2:15
    Now, if you'd waited for one more year,
    you would have heard this.
  • 2:15 - 2:17
    (Music)
  • 2:23 - 2:24
    (Music ends)
  • 2:24 - 2:28
    Now, what happened was not
    maybe what you thought,
  • 2:28 - 2:30
    which is, he suddenly
    became passionate, engaged,
  • 2:30 - 2:34
    involved, got a new teacher,
    he hit puberty, or whatever it is.
  • 2:34 - 2:38
    What actually happened
    was the impulses were reduced.
  • 2:38 - 2:41
    You see, the first time, he was playing
    with an impulse on every note.
  • 2:42 - 2:44
    (Music)
  • 2:44 - 2:47
    And the second,
    with an impulse every other note.
  • 2:47 - 2:49
    (Music)
  • 2:49 - 2:51
    You can see it by looking at my head.
  • 2:51 - 2:53
    (Laughter)
  • 2:53 - 2:56
    The nine-year-old put
    an impulse on every four notes.
  • 2:56 - 2:58
    (Music)
  • 2:58 - 3:00
    The 10-year-old, on every eight notes.
  • 3:00 - 3:02
    (Music)
  • 3:02 - 3:05
    And the 11-year-old,
    one impulse on the whole phrase.
  • 3:05 - 3:08
    (Music)
  • 3:08 - 3:11
    I don't know how
    we got into this position.
  • 3:11 - 3:13
    (Laughter)
  • 3:13 - 3:16
    I didn't say, "I'm going to move
    my shoulder over, move my body."
  • 3:16 - 3:17
    No, the music pushed me over,
  • 3:17 - 3:20
    which is why I call it
    one-buttock playing.
  • 3:20 - 3:22
    (Music)
  • 3:22 - 3:23
    It can be the other buttock.
  • 3:23 - 3:26
    (Music)
  • 3:26 - 3:30
    You know, a gentleman was once
    watching a presentation I was doing,
  • 3:30 - 3:32
    when I was working with a young pianist.
  • 3:32 - 3:34
    He was the president
    of a corporation in Ohio.
  • 3:34 - 3:36
    I was working with
    this young pianist, and said,
  • 3:36 - 3:39
    "The trouble with you
    is you're a two-buttock player.
  • 3:39 - 3:41
    You should be a one-buttock player."
  • 3:41 - 3:43
    I moved his body while he was playing.
  • 3:43 - 3:45
    And suddenly, the music took off.
    It took flight.
  • 3:45 - 3:48
    The audience gasped
    when they heard the difference.
  • 3:48 - 3:50
    Then I got a letter from this gentleman.
  • 3:50 - 3:51
    He said, "I was so moved.
  • 3:51 - 3:53
    I went back and I transformed
    my entire company
  • 3:53 - 3:55
    into a one-buttock company."
  • 3:55 - 3:58
    (Laughter)
  • 3:58 - 4:01
    Now, the other thing I wanted
    to do is to tell you about you.
  • 4:01 - 4:03
    There are 1,600 people, I believe.
  • 4:03 - 4:07
    My estimation is that probably 45 of you
  • 4:07 - 4:10
    are absolutely passionate
    about classical music.
  • 4:10 - 4:14
    You adore classical music.
    Your FM is always on that classical dial.
  • 4:14 - 4:17
    You have CDs in your car,
    and you go to the symphony,
  • 4:17 - 4:19
    your children are playing instruments.
  • 4:19 - 4:22
    You can't imagine your life
    without classical music.
  • 4:22 - 4:24
    That's the first group, quite small.
  • 4:24 - 4:25
    Then there's another bigger group.
  • 4:26 - 4:28
    The people who don't mind classical music.
  • 4:28 - 4:29
    (Laughter)
  • 4:29 - 4:31
    You know, you've come home
    from a long day,
  • 4:31 - 4:33
    and you take a glass of wine,
    and you put your feet up.
  • 4:33 - 4:36
    A little Vivaldi in the background
    doesn't do any harm.
  • 4:36 - 4:37
    That's the second group.
  • 4:37 - 4:39
    Now comes the third group:
  • 4:39 - 4:41
    people who never listen
    to classical music.
  • 4:41 - 4:43
    It's just simply not part of your life.
  • 4:43 - 4:46
    You might hear it like second-hand
    smoke at the airport ...
  • 4:46 - 4:47
    (Laughter)
  • 4:47 - 4:49
    -- and maybe a little bit
    of a march from "Aida"
  • 4:49 - 4:51
    when you come into the hall.
  • 4:51 - 4:52
    But otherwise, you never hear it.
  • 4:52 - 4:54
    That's probably the largest group.
  • 4:54 - 4:56
    And then there's a very small group.
  • 4:56 - 4:59
    These are the people
    who think they're tone-deaf.
  • 4:59 - 5:01
    Amazing number of people think
    they're tone-deaf.
  • 5:01 - 5:04
    Actually, I hear a lot,
    "My husband is tone-deaf."
  • 5:04 - 5:05
    (Laughter)
  • 5:05 - 5:07
    Actually, you cannot be tone-deaf.
  • 5:07 - 5:08
    Nobody is tone-deaf.
  • 5:08 - 5:11
    If you were tone-deaf,
    you couldn't change the gears
  • 5:11 - 5:12
    on your car, in a stick shift car.
  • 5:12 - 5:14
    You couldn't tell the difference between
  • 5:14 - 5:16
    somebody from Texas
    and somebody from Rome.
  • 5:17 - 5:19
    And the telephone. The telephone.
  • 5:19 - 5:20
    If your mother calls
  • 5:20 - 5:24
    on the miserable telephone,
    she calls and says, "Hello,"
  • 5:24 - 5:26
    you not only know who it is,
    you know what mood she's in.
  • 5:27 - 5:31
    You have a fantastic ear.
    Everybody has a fantastic ear.
  • 5:31 - 5:33
    So nobody is tone-deaf.
  • 5:33 - 5:34
    But I tell you what.
  • 5:34 - 5:37
    It doesn't work for me
    to go on with this thing,
  • 5:37 - 5:40
    with such a wide gulf
    between those who understand,
  • 5:40 - 5:43
    love and are passionate
    about classical music,
  • 5:43 - 5:46
    and those who have
    no relationship to it at all.
  • 5:46 - 5:48
    The tone-deaf people,
    they're no longer here.
  • 5:48 - 5:50
    But even between those three categories,
  • 5:50 - 5:51
    it's too wide a gulf.
  • 5:51 - 5:56
    So I'm not going to go on
    until every single person in this room,
  • 5:56 - 6:01
    downstairs and in Aspen,
    and everybody else looking,
  • 6:01 - 6:04
    will come to love
    and understand classical music.
  • 6:05 - 6:07
    So that's what we're going to do.
  • 6:07 - 6:12
    Now, you notice that there is not
    the slightest doubt in my mind
  • 6:12 - 6:15
    that this is going to work,
    if you look at my face, right?
  • 6:15 - 6:19
    It's one of the characteristics
    of a leader that he not doubt
  • 6:19 - 6:23
    for one moment the capacity
    of the people he's leading
  • 6:23 - 6:25
    to realize whatever he's dreaming.
  • 6:26 - 6:29
    Imagine if Martin Luther King
    had said, "I have a dream.
  • 6:29 - 6:31
    Of course, I'm not sure
    they'll be up to it."
  • 6:31 - 6:34
    (Laughter)
  • 6:34 - 6:36
    All right. So I'm going
    to take a piece of Chopin.
  • 6:36 - 6:39
    This is a beautiful prelude by Chopin.
  • 6:39 - 6:41
    Some of you will know it.
  • 6:42 - 6:45
    (Music)
  • 7:11 - 7:13
    Do you know what I think
    probably happened here?
  • 7:13 - 7:16
    When I started, you thought,
    "How beautiful that sounds."
  • 7:16 - 7:19
    (Music)
  • 7:29 - 7:31
    "I don't think we should
    go to the same place
  • 7:31 - 7:33
    for our summer holidays next year."
  • 7:33 - 7:36
    (Laughter)
  • 7:36 - 7:37
    It's funny, isn't it?
  • 7:37 - 7:42
    It's funny how those thoughts
    kind of waft into your head.
  • 7:42 - 7:43
    And of course --
  • 7:43 - 7:45
    (Applause)
  • 7:45 - 7:48
    Of course, if the piece is long
    and you've had a long day,
  • 7:48 - 7:50
    you might actually drift off.
  • 7:50 - 7:52
    Then your companion
    will dig you in the ribs
  • 7:52 - 7:55
    and say, "Wake up! It's culture!"
    And then you feel even worse.
  • 7:55 - 7:56
    (Laughter)
  • 7:56 - 7:59
    But has it ever occurred to you
    that the reason you feel sleepy
  • 7:59 - 8:02
    in classical music is not
    because of you, but because of us?
  • 8:02 - 8:04
    Did anybody think while I was playing,
  • 8:04 - 8:06
    "Why is he using so many impulses?"
  • 8:06 - 8:09
    If I'd done this with my head you
    certainly would have thought it.
  • 8:09 - 8:11
    (Music)
  • 8:15 - 8:16
    (Music ends)
  • 8:16 - 8:19
    And for the rest of your life,
    every time you hear classical music,
  • 8:19 - 8:23
    you'll always be able to know
    if you hear those impulses.
  • 8:23 - 8:25
    So let's see what's really going on here.
  • 8:25 - 8:28
    We have a B. This is a B.
  • 8:28 - 8:29
    The next note is a C.
  • 8:30 - 8:32
    And the job of the C is to make the B sad.
  • 8:32 - 8:34
    And it does, doesn't it?
  • 8:34 - 8:35
    (Laughter)
  • 8:35 - 8:37
    Composers know that.
  • 8:37 - 8:39
    If they want sad music,
    they just play those two notes.
  • 8:39 - 8:43
    (Music)
  • 8:43 - 8:46
    But basically, it's just a B,
    with four sads.
  • 8:46 - 8:48
    (Laughter)
  • 8:48 - 8:49
    Now, it goes down to A.
  • 8:51 - 8:52
    Now to G.
  • 8:52 - 8:54
    And then to F.
  • 8:54 - 8:56
    So we have B, A, G, F.
  • 8:56 - 8:58
    And if we have B, A, G, F,
  • 8:58 - 9:00
    what do we expect next?
  • 9:00 - 9:03
    (Music)
  • 9:03 - 9:05
    That might have been a fluke.
  • 9:05 - 9:06
    Let's try it again.
  • 9:06 - 9:09
    (Music)
  • 9:09 - 9:11
    Oh, the TED choir.
  • 9:11 - 9:14
    (Laughter)
  • 9:14 - 9:17
    And you notice nobody is tone-deaf, right?
  • 9:17 - 9:18
    Nobody is.
  • 9:18 - 9:20
    You know, every village in Bangladesh
  • 9:20 - 9:25
    and every hamlet in China
    -- everybody knows:
  • 9:25 - 9:27
    da, da, da, da -- da.
  • 9:27 - 9:29
    Everybody knows, who's expecting that E.
  • 9:29 - 9:31
    Chopin didn't want to reach the E there,
  • 9:31 - 9:33
    because what will have happened?
  • 9:34 - 9:36
    It will be over, like Hamlet.
    Do you remember?
  • 9:36 - 9:37
    Act One, scene three,
  • 9:37 - 9:39
    he finds out his uncle killed his father.
  • 9:39 - 9:42
    He keeps on going up
    to his uncle and almost killing him.
  • 9:42 - 9:45
    And then he backs away,
    he goes up to him again, almost kills him.
  • 9:45 - 9:47
    The critics sitting in the back row there,
  • 9:48 - 9:51
    they have to have an opinion,
    so they say, "Hamlet is a procrastinator."
  • 9:51 - 9:54
    Or they say, "Hamlet has
    an Oedipus complex."
  • 9:54 - 9:56
    No, otherwise the play
    would be over, stupid.
  • 9:56 - 9:57
    (Laughter)
  • 9:57 - 10:00
    That's why Shakespeare puts
    all that stuff in Hamlet --
  • 10:00 - 10:02
    Ophelia going mad,
    the play within the play,
  • 10:02 - 10:04
    and Yorick's skull, and the gravediggers.
  • 10:04 - 10:05
    That's in order to delay --
  • 10:05 - 10:07
    until Act Five, he can kill him.
  • 10:07 - 10:09
    It's the same with the Chopin.
  • 10:09 - 10:11
    He's just about to reach the E,
  • 10:11 - 10:14
    and he says, "Oops, better
    go back up and do it again."
  • 10:15 - 10:16
    So he does it again.
  • 10:17 - 10:18
    Now, he gets excited.
  • 10:18 - 10:20
    (Music)
  • 10:20 - 10:22
    That's excitement, don't worry about it.
  • 10:22 - 10:25
    Now, he gets to F-sharp,
    and finally he goes down to E,
  • 10:26 - 10:27
    but it's the wrong chord --
  • 10:27 - 10:29
    because the chord
    he's looking for is this one,
  • 10:31 - 10:32
    and instead he does ...
  • 10:33 - 10:35
    Now, we call that a deceptive cadence,
  • 10:35 - 10:36
    because it deceives us.
  • 10:36 - 10:39
    I tell my students,
    "If you have a deceptive cadence,
  • 10:39 - 10:41
    raise your eyebrows,
    and everybody will know."
  • 10:41 - 10:43
    (Laughter)
  • 10:43 - 10:47
    (Applause)
  • 10:47 - 10:48
    Right.
  • 10:48 - 10:50
    He gets to E, but it's the wrong chord.
  • 10:50 - 10:52
    Now, he tries E again.
  • 10:52 - 10:53
    That chord doesn't work.
  • 10:53 - 10:56
    Now, he tries the E again.
    That chord doesn't work.
  • 10:56 - 10:58
    Now, he tries E again,
    and that doesn't work.
  • 10:58 - 10:59
    And then finally ...
  • 11:02 - 11:05
    There was a gentleman
    in the front row who went, "Mmm."
  • 11:05 - 11:06
    (Laughter)
  • 11:06 - 11:10
    It's the same gesture
    he makes when he comes home
  • 11:10 - 11:12
    after a long day, turns off
    the key in his car and says,
  • 11:12 - 11:14
    "Aah, I'm home."
  • 11:14 - 11:15
    Because we all know where home is.
  • 11:15 - 11:19
    So this is a piece which goes
    from away to home.
  • 11:19 - 11:22
    I'm going to play it all the way through
    and you're going to follow.
  • 11:22 - 11:23
    B, C, B, C, B, C, B --
  • 11:23 - 11:25
    down to A, down to G, down to F.
  • 11:25 - 11:28
    Almost goes to E, but otherwise
    the play would be over.
  • 11:28 - 11:30
    He goes back up to B,
    he gets very excited.
  • 11:30 - 11:31
    Goes to F-sharp. Goes to E.
  • 11:31 - 11:33
    It's the wrong chord.
    It's the wrong chord.
  • 11:33 - 11:36
    And finally goes to E, and it's home.
  • 11:36 - 11:39
    And what you're going to see
    is one-buttock playing.
  • 11:39 - 11:41
    (Laughter)
  • 11:41 - 11:44
    Because for me, to join the B to the E,
  • 11:44 - 11:50
    I have to stop thinking
    about every single note along the way,
  • 11:50 - 11:55
    and start thinking about the long,
    long line from B to E.
  • 11:56 - 12:00
    You know, we were just in South Africa,
    and you can't go to South Africa
  • 12:00 - 12:03
    without thinking of Mandela
    in jail for 27 years.
  • 12:03 - 12:05
    What was he thinking about? Lunch?
  • 12:06 - 12:09
    No, he was thinking
    about the vision for South Africa
  • 12:09 - 12:11
    and for human beings.
  • 12:11 - 12:14
    This is about vision.
    This is about the long line.
  • 12:14 - 12:16
    Like the bird who flies over the field
  • 12:16 - 12:20
    and doesn't care about the fences
    underneath, all right?
  • 12:20 - 12:23
    So now, you're going to follow
    the line all the way from B to E.
  • 12:23 - 12:26
    And I've one last request before I play
    this piece all the way through.
  • 12:27 - 12:30
    Would you think of somebody who you adore,
  • 12:30 - 12:32
    who's no longer there?
  • 12:33 - 12:35
    A beloved grandmother, a lover --
  • 12:35 - 12:39
    somebody in your life
    who you love with all your heart,
  • 12:39 - 12:41
    but that person is no longer with you.
  • 12:42 - 12:44
    Bring that person into your mind,
  • 12:44 - 12:46
    and at the same time,
  • 12:46 - 12:50
    follow the line all the way from B to E,
  • 12:50 - 12:53
    and you'll hear everything
    that Chopin had to say.
  • 12:58 - 13:01
    (Music)
  • 14:45 - 14:47
    (Music ends)
  • 14:48 - 14:51
    (Applause)
  • 14:57 - 14:59
    Now, you may be wondering --
  • 14:59 - 15:02
    (Applause)
  • 15:04 - 15:05
    (Applause ends)
  • 15:05 - 15:07
    You may be wondering why I'm clapping.
  • 15:07 - 15:09
    Well, I did this at a school in Boston
  • 15:09 - 15:12
    with about 70 seventh
    graders, 12-year-olds.
  • 15:12 - 15:14
    I did exactly what I did with you,
  • 15:14 - 15:16
    and I explained the whole thing.
  • 15:16 - 15:18
    At the end, they went crazy, clapping.
  • 15:18 - 15:20
    I was clapping. They were clapping.
  • 15:20 - 15:22
    Finally, I said, "Why am I clapping?"
  • 15:22 - 15:24
    And one of them said,
    "Because we were listening."
  • 15:24 - 15:28
    (Laughter)
  • 15:28 - 15:31
    Think of it. 1,600 people, busy people,
  • 15:31 - 15:34
    involved in all sorts of different things,
  • 15:34 - 15:37
    listening, understanding and being moved
  • 15:37 - 15:39
    by a piece by Chopin.
  • 15:40 - 15:41
    Now, that is something.
  • 15:41 - 15:43
    Am I sure that every single
    person followed that,
  • 15:44 - 15:45
    understood it, was moved by it?
  • 15:45 - 15:46
    Of course, I can't be sure.
  • 15:46 - 15:49
    But I'll tell you what happened
    to me in Ireland
  • 15:49 - 15:50
    during the Troubles, 10 years ago,
  • 15:50 - 15:53
    and I was working with some Catholic
    and Protestant kids
  • 15:53 - 15:56
    on conflict resolution.
  • 15:56 - 15:58
    And I did this with them --
  • 15:58 - 16:00
    a risky thing to do,
    because they were street kids.
  • 16:01 - 16:03
    And one of them came to me
    the next morning
  • 16:03 - 16:05
    and he said,
  • 16:05 - 16:08
    "You know, I've never listened
    to classical music in my life,
  • 16:08 - 16:10
    but when you played
    that shopping piece ..."
  • 16:10 - 16:12
    (Laughter)
  • 16:12 - 16:15
    He said, "My brother was shot last year
    and I didn't cry for him.
  • 16:16 - 16:18
    But last night,
    when you played that piece,
  • 16:18 - 16:20
    he was the one I was thinking about.
  • 16:21 - 16:23
    And I felt the tears
    streaming down my face.
  • 16:23 - 16:25
    And it felt really
    good to cry for my brother."
  • 16:26 - 16:28
    So I made up my mind at that moment
  • 16:28 - 16:32
    that classical music is for everybody.
  • 16:33 - 16:34
    Everybody.
  • 16:35 - 16:37
    Now, how would you walk --
  • 16:38 - 16:41
    my profession, the music profession
    doesn't see it that way.
  • 16:42 - 16:45
    They say three percent of the population
    likes classical music.
  • 16:45 - 16:48
    If only we could move it to four percent,
    our problems would be over.
  • 16:48 - 16:49
    (Laughter)
  • 16:49 - 16:53
    How would you walk?
    How would you talk? How would you be?
  • 16:53 - 16:56
    If you thought, "Three percent
    of the population likes classical music,
  • 16:56 - 16:58
    if only we could move it to four percent."
  • 16:58 - 17:01
    How would you walk or talk?
    How would you be?
  • 17:01 - 17:03
    If you thought, "Everybody
    loves classical music --
  • 17:03 - 17:05
    they just haven't found out about it yet."
  • 17:05 - 17:08
    See, these are totally different worlds.
  • 17:08 - 17:11
    Now, I had an amazing experience.
  • 17:11 - 17:12
    I was 45 years old,
  • 17:12 - 17:14
    I'd been conducting for 20 years,
  • 17:14 - 17:16
    and I suddenly had a realization.
  • 17:17 - 17:20
    The conductor of an orchestra
    doesn't make a sound.
  • 17:20 - 17:23
    My picture appears
    on the front of the CD --
  • 17:23 - 17:26
    (Laughter)
  • 17:26 - 17:28
    But the conductor doesn't make a sound.
  • 17:28 - 17:30
    He depends, for his power,
  • 17:30 - 17:33
    on his ability to make
    other people powerful.
  • 17:33 - 17:35
    And that changed everything for me.
  • 17:35 - 17:37
    It was totally life-changing.
  • 17:37 - 17:39
    People in my orchestra said,
  • 17:39 - 17:41
    "Ben, what happened?"
    That's what happened.
  • 17:41 - 17:46
    I realized my job was to awaken
    possibility in other people.
  • 17:47 - 17:49
    And of course, I wanted to know
    whether I was doing that.
  • 17:49 - 17:51
    How do you find out?
  • 17:51 - 17:52
    You look at their eyes.
  • 17:52 - 17:55
    If their eyes are shining,
    you know you're doing it.
  • 17:56 - 17:58
    You could light up a village
    with this guy's eyes.
  • 17:58 - 17:59
    (Laughter)
  • 17:59 - 18:03
    Right. So if the eyes are shining,
    you know you're doing it.
  • 18:03 - 18:05
    If the eyes are not shining,
    you get to ask a question.
  • 18:05 - 18:07
    And this is the question:
  • 18:07 - 18:09
    who am I being
  • 18:09 - 18:12
    that my players' eyes are not shining?
  • 18:12 - 18:13
    We can do that with our children, too.
  • 18:13 - 18:16
    Who am I being,
  • 18:16 - 18:19
    that my children's eyes are not shining?
  • 18:19 - 18:21
    That's a totally different world.
  • 18:21 - 18:27
    Now, we're all about to end
    this magical, on-the-mountain week,
  • 18:27 - 18:28
    we're going back into the world.
  • 18:29 - 18:33
    And I say, it's appropriate
    for us to ask the question,
  • 18:33 - 18:37
    who are we being as we go back
    out into the world?
  • 18:38 - 18:40
    And you know, I have
    a definition of success.
  • 18:40 - 18:41
    For me, it's very simple.
  • 18:41 - 18:43
    It's not about wealth and fame and power.
  • 18:43 - 18:46
    It's about how many shining eyes
    I have around me.
  • 18:46 - 18:49
    So now, I have one last thought,
  • 18:49 - 18:53
    which is that it really makes
    a difference what we say --
  • 18:53 - 18:55
    the words that come out of our mouth.
  • 18:56 - 18:58
    I learned this from a woman
    who survived Auschwitz,
  • 18:58 - 19:00
    one of the rare survivors.
  • 19:00 - 19:03
    She went to Auschwitz
    when she was 15 years old.
  • 19:04 - 19:05
    And ...
  • 19:07 - 19:09
    And her brother was eight,
  • 19:09 - 19:11
    and the parents were lost.
  • 19:12 - 19:16
    And she told me this, she said,
  • 19:16 - 19:19
    "We were in the train going to Auschwitz,
  • 19:19 - 19:22
    and I looked down and saw
    my brother's shoes were missing.
  • 19:22 - 19:25
    I said, 'Why are you so stupid,
    can't you keep your things together
  • 19:25 - 19:27
    for goodness' sake?'"
  • 19:27 - 19:29
    The way an elder sister might speak
    to a younger brother.
  • 19:31 - 19:34
    Unfortunately, it was the last
    thing she ever said to him,
  • 19:34 - 19:36
    because she never saw him again.
  • 19:36 - 19:37
    He did not survive.
  • 19:37 - 19:40
    And so when she came out
    of Auschwitz, she made a vow.
  • 19:40 - 19:41
    She told me this.
  • 19:41 - 19:45
    She said, "I walked out
    of Auschwitz into life
  • 19:45 - 19:46
    and I made a vow.
  • 19:47 - 19:48
    And the vow was,
  • 19:48 - 19:53
    "I will never say anything that couldn't
    stand as the last thing I ever say."
  • 19:55 - 19:56
    Now, can we do that? No.
  • 19:56 - 19:59
    And we'll make ourselves wrong
    and others wrong.
  • 20:00 - 20:03
    But it is a possibility to live into.
  • 20:04 - 20:05
    Thank you.
  • 20:05 - 20:08
    (Applause)
  • 20:11 - 20:13
    Shining eyes.
  • 20:13 - 20:14
    (Applause)
  • 20:14 - 20:16
    Shining eyes.
  • 20:16 - 20:19
    (Applause)
  • 20:22 - 20:24
    Thank you, thank you.
Title:
The transformative power of classical music
Speaker:
Benjamin Zander
Description:

Benjamin Zander has two infectious passions: classical music, and helping us all realize our untapped love for it -- and by extension, our untapped love for all new possibilities, new experiences, new connections.

more » « less
Video Language:
English
Team:
closed TED
Project:
TEDTalks
Duration:
20:26

English subtitles

Revisions Compare revisions