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Participant 1: Shut up [laughs]
Participant 2: What? Wait, wait.
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Participant 3: Oh he's gonna be so embarrassed.
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[title music]
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Julian Huguet: What makes you happy?
Having fun?
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Hanging out with friends?
Delicious food?
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Making money?
Well consider this. Psychologists have scientifically
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proven that one of the greatest contributing
factors to overall happiness in your life
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is how much gratitude you show.
Yup. Think about that.
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Go ahead and marinate on that for a second.
You can thank me later if you want.
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It will make you feel better according to
this study.
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You go ahead and click on it and read it if
you want.
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Or, you can keep watching because we read
it, we thought it might be fun to test out
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for ourselves.
We gathered a selection of volunteers to act
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as our subjects.
First we gave them a test.
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They didn't know what we were looking for.
But they gave us a pretty good idea of their
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current level of happiness.
We asked them to close their eyes and think
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of somebody who was really influential in
their life.
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Somebody who did something really amazing
or important for them.
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We had them write down as much as they could
about why this person was so important.
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Now a lot of them thought at this point the
experiment was over until we really put them
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on the spot and tried to get them to call
that person and read what they wrote about
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them.
Thank you Jessica. We are going to have to
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have you call your mother.
So who was that right person for you?
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Participant 1: The person is my sister Erica.
JH: We're gonna give Erica a call.
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Participant 1: [laughs] Okay.
JH: Who'd you end up picking?
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Participant 3: Friend of mine, Greg Haines.
Participant 4: Her name is Dora.
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Participant 5: My college accounting instructor.
JH: Really! Is this someone you're still in
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touch with today?
P 5: No I'm assuming that he is passed on.
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JH: That's a shame.
P5: To the great beyond.
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JH: You up for it?
P3: Um, uh yes.
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JH: What would you say if we called up Dora?
P4: We can try but she lives in Britain.
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JH: In Britain?
P2: I don't know her number by heart, this
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is awful.
JH: That's fine, I don't know my mom's phone
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number by heart.
P5: If it's true that those who are gone
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on are looking down on us, maybe he'll recognize
he is great.
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[on phone]: Hi sweetheart!
P2: Hey how you doing. Um you gotta second?
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Where you at, the hotel?
[phone]: I am, I'm in the hotel. You scared
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me when you asked if I had a second, I thought
something was wrong
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P2: No I'm on this little TV show and they
told me to talk about the person that influenced
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me the most, and I picked you and they're
making me call, they're making me call you.
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[phone]: Oh wonderful!
[phone dialing]
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[voicemail]
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[phone dialing]
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P1: Oh come on.
[phone]: Hello?
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P1: Hi! Erica, it's me.
P2: Alright so I gotta read you this paragraph,
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can you hear me?
[phone]: Yes I can. Go ahead sweetheart.
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P2: Alright. The person that influenced me
the most would be my mother, Marlow Dawson.
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She is a single mother of two, she is a very
hard-worker and dedicated to her family.
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P3: Hey Craig, this is Lowy. Um, this is gonna
be a funny little voicemail so I hope you
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enjoy it.
P4: I'm so sorry for calling you at 4 o'clock
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in the morning!
P1: I have to read this to you okay? You can't
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say anything or I don't know. You can respond
but, I probably will just keep going [laughs]
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okay?
[phone]: Is everything okay?
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P1: Yes! But I have to read this out loud
to you.
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P5: The person who has had the biggest impact
on my life, outside of Jesus Christ who is
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responsible for my existence, was my college
accounting instructor. He had a joy and enthusiasm
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for his job like no other teacher I have ever
known.
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P2: I love her to death, and she keeps me
going with positive talk, she is a woman that
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knows what she wants and won't give up until
it is achieved.
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[phone]: Oh pumpkin, I don't know what to,
I'm about to cry because that's so beautiful.
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I have to say that's just wonderful.
P3: I first met Craig on an independent feature
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film set in Whitefish, Montana. I recently
have been sending Craig a lot of positive
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thoughts as he suffered a series of health
problems. Despite his medical problems, he's
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continued to work and take pleasure in the
small things in life like sitting quietly
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with his wife Jeanine on the porch.
P1: Erica is my older sister and my best friend.
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Sometimes it even feels like we are twins!
She is my number one fan and my number one
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supporter. She makes me happy because despite
all my mistakes and my decisions, she still
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loves me no matter what.
P4: Your friendship is everything. And you
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are one of the most important person in my
life.
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P1: Even when she has a kid and many children
I will love her more than her kids! Okay,
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maybe not. I will never forget when she flew
3000 miles at the drop of a phone call to
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save me from a break-up.
[phone]: I'm being blessed by having a son
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like you. I love you.
P3: Bye!
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[phone]: Why did you do this to me?
P1: [laughs] I don't know because they made
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me do it!
P4: Thank you for picking up, bye sweetie!
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P1: And then they're like here you're gonna
write this letter and then I wrote like this
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whole long-ass letter which you know I don't
write. And then all of a sudden they're like
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"hey guess what you're gonna call her and
you're gonna read her this letter and it was
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like what the [expletive] [laughs].
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JH: Before we let them go we gave our subjects
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one more happiness test. Now we mixed up and
rephrased the questions so they didn't know
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they were taking the same test twice. For
those who took the time to actually write
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something down but couldn't make the phone
call for whatever reason we saw happiness
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increase between 2 and 4 percent. Good, but
not exactly mind-blowing. Now for those who
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actually picked up the phone and personally
expressed their gratitude, we saw increases
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between 4 and 19 percent. So either way! Expressing
your gratitude will making you a happier person.
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But you want to know something really interesting?
The person who experienced the biggest jump
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in happiness was the least happy person who
walked in the door. What does that mean? That
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means if you're having a particularly tough
time, trying this out will more likely have
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a greater impact on you. Trust me! I'm in
a lab coat. In fact, while you're at it, film
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it and upload it to us and we'll do something
awesome with it. I'm Julian and this has been
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The Science of Happiness.
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