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Relationship Advice: Settle your differences QUICKLY!

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    I want to ask you a very simple question.
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    Are you a perfect person?
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    No.
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    Thank you.
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    Sir, are you a perfect person?
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    No.
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    Sir, are you a perfect person?
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    No, sir.
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    Are you a perfect person?
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    No, sir.
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    Are you a perfect person?
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    Not at all.
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    We are living in a world where there is
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    no such thing as a perfect relationship.
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    Why then do you see an imperfect person
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    moving with an imperfect person
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    and you expect perfect results?
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    It’s not in this world.
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    Why am I saying this?
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    Because it's common today among us -
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    when someone offends us,
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    you see the way people react.
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    People are shocked. People are surprised.
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    People are bewildered
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    as if they are the only one in this world
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    that has been wronged,
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    as if no one else in this world has been wronged,
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    as if they themselves
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    have never wronged anyone.
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    People of God - everyone has been wronged
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    and everyone gets it wrong.
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    That is the reason why
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    forgiveness is so important.
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    Because there's no such thing
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    as a perfect relationship.
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    What is happening today?
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    Today, when you insult me, I take offence.
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    ‘How can he insult me!’
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    But me - I insult others.
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    When you embarrass me -
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    ‘How can you embarrass me?
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    What is the meaning of this?’
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    You take offence - but you embarrass others.
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    This person - you lied against me.
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    How can you lie against me?
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    But you, if you check yourself,
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    you've lied against others.
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    Tell your neighbour,
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    ‘I have no ground to hold offence against you.
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    You have no ground to hold offence against me.’
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    Settle your differences quickly.
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    You will receive in a moment
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    what you have been seeking for years
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    the moment you let go of offence.
Title:
Relationship Advice: Settle your differences QUICKLY!
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Video Language:
English
Team:
God's Heart TV
Duration:
02:10

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