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How to stop being bored and start being bold

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    When I was in the 6th grade,
    my friends and I,
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    at such a pivotal moment in our lives,
    realized how bored we were.
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    There was a lack of excitement
    in our adventures,
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    we had found that we had done everything
    we could possibly think of
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    to fill in an empty space of time.
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    We'd have sleepovers, play video games,
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    watch movies,
    walk around the neighborhood,
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    and even after all of this,
    we were still bored.
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    And the worst part about this
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    was that we knew that other kids
    felt the same thing, too.
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    So after talking and discussing
    amongst ourselves,
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    we realized that as much as we try
    to fix our boredom,
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    we weren't doing anything
    substantial about it.
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    That's why we decided
    that we wanted to make people laugh.
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    We wanted to make funny videos
    that joked about things
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    that no one really joked about.
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    We wanted to joke about our quirky,
    quiet town of Alton, Texas.
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    Now, I'd love to tell you that I'm here
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    to share that my videos
    have millions of views
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    and that I've sold tons of merchandise
    worldwide,
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    but unfortunately,
    like many of the ideas that we have,
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    we never made our videos,
    our idea, a reality.
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    I know right now there's probably
    at least one of you who's like,
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    "Man, this guy's depressing.
    Is he going to keep talking like this?"
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    But there's a reason.
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    As time went on, more and more of us
    left the group
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    until eventually all of us left the group.
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    All of us, except for one.
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    My friend couldn't let go of his idea,
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    so after we all left in the 6th grade,
    he decided to make a team.
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    Members would come in,
    and leave out, fluctuate,
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    he learned how to use complex
    computer software
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    and he learned how to work with cameras.
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    He would make videos on drama,
    comedy, things here and there,
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    and I didn't know any of this
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    because I hadn't seen or talked to him
    in six years.
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    My friend, the one who never gave up
    on his idea,
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    has now launched his own
    videography company.
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    Like him and the rest of the world,
    we all have tons of ideas every day.
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    And there was something different
    about him
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    because six years ago, my group
    of friends and I,
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    we all had the same idea,
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    but he was the only one
    who actually saw it through.
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    How many of you ever feel
    a drive inside of you
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    that tells you "Take a chance.
    What if? Why not?"
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    For many of us, while we're
    sitting down at work,
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    eating lunch
    or waiting to drift off to sleep,
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    we get a sense of that feeling,
    that drive that we had.
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    And then, after a few minutes
    of reminiscing,
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    we continue doing what we're doing.
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    For some of us, that feeling
    comes around often.
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    It makes us remember how we always
    wanted to start our own band,
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    take a road trip with our friends,
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    or even something small
    like clean up the trash in our local park.
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    And it sucks because the thing that you
    remember the most out of everything
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    is the fact that you didn't do it.
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    My friends and I, while we were in
    the process of making these videos,
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    we had so many opportunities
    to get something done.
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    I can remember how many times
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    an adult came up to us
    and told us,
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    "Hey, I actually might know some things,"
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    a kid would come and tell us,
    "I know how to edit videos,"
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    or even amongst ourselves,
    we would tell each other,
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    "You can come over to my house
    we'll work on it."
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    All opportunities that we never
    actually took.
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    As time went on, I realized that I had
    to stop giving up my ideas.
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    Years and years went by,
    and we never met up
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    I never had the opportunity
    to explore that idea.
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    I had many ideas each day,
    but they would all pass by,
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    until eventually, I came upon an idea
    that I couldn't afford to let go of,
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    an idea that I couldn't afford to regret.
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    That idea was
    the South Texas Ideas Festival, STXI.
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    I come from a place where typically
    youth are not encouraged to do better.
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    They are discouraged.
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    They feel that they can't do the things
    that many other people can do,
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    and this was a problem because
    we didn't want this to happen anymore,
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    we didn't want people to feel
    like they needed to leave our home
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    to do something better.
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    Our festival was student-led.
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    With a team of high school students,
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    we put on a festival that hosted
    300 students from across our region.
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    And it was great, we received a ton
    of commendations for it.
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    And I know it sounds like
    an overnight success story,
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    but it really wasn't,
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    and one of the main questions
    that people would ask us was,
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    "Where did you get the drive to do this?"
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    When I was a little kid, I learned a lot
    from what was going on around me.
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    I came from a home where
    the only way to make a living
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    was to pick up plastic bottles and cans
    and sell them to processing plants.
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    My first real job was helping
    a woman set up her booth at a flea market
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    from seven in the morning
    to three in the afternoon for $20.
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    My neighbor's son learned how to cut hair
    when he was eight years old
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    because it was the only way
    he and his family could afford a haircut.
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    At such a momentous time in my life,
    I thought that I was limited,
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    that my community was limited,
    my neighborhood was limited,
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    all because of our circumstances.
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    And then came my crazy grandpa.
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    I went home and one day he was watching TV
    and he told me,
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    "Michael, look. I want this."
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    Not the horse, the pole.
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    It's a horse patience pole. It basically
    teaches a horse to be patient.
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    And he told me, "I want this,"
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    and I asked him, "How are you going to
    afford it when you don't have the money?"
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    And he said, "I'll find a way."
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    So I forgot about it,
    I was walking around the house,
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    And during that time, he left and he got
    a wheelchair from I have no idea where
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    and giant metal pole
    from I have no idea where,
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    and when I got back home,
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    I went into the backyard
    and this is what I saw.
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    My crazy grandpa had cut
    the wheelchair in half,
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    attached it to the top of the pole,
    stood it upright,
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    and tied the horse to it.
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    And in just three days, we not only
    taught the horse how to stand still,
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    we taught it how to run in circles.
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    And I remember when I saw this,
    my mind was blown away
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    because I had never seen someone
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    take that initiative to do something
    despite the odds.
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    And thinking about it now that I'm older,
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    I realize that I'm not that impressed
    in the actual pole
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    because at the end of the day,
    its just a pole.
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    I was more impressed in the fact
    that my grandpa went out and did it.
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    He didn't let resources get in
    the way of his idea.
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    He didn't find a reason not to do it.
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    He didn't choose to experience regret.
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    If you feel that idea, that tug,
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    then I'm telling you
    do what my grandpa did
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    because that same drive that he had
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    is what made
    the South Texas Ideas Festival possible.
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    It was a team of high school students,
    we had no idea what we were doing.
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    We just knew that we wanted
    to present a big festival
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    to the people of our community
    to show them everything we got.
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    If you feel like an idea
    is worth something,
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    be it yours or someone else's,
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    if you feel that an idea is worth time
    constraints, rejections, and failures,
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    then let me give you a piece of advice:
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    Stop what you're doing,
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    put down your phone,
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    pause the TV show that you're watching,
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    hold off on that nap
    for five more minutes,
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    and think.
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    You're bored, right?
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    Well now is the perfect opportunity
    for you to take that road trip,
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    the perfect opportunity
    for you to start that band,
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    the perfect opportunity
    to clean up some trash.
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    Now, the next time that you're bored,
    I beg of you, I implore you,
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    to get excited
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    because you might just be on to
    you next best idea.
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    Thank you.
Title:
How to stop being bored and start being bold
Description:

Michael Mireles and his friends used to think their town was boring, and to entertain themselves, they would dream up ways to shake things up. Then something happened: Michael realized that what was actually boring was having an endless supply of ideas...that never went anywhere. So in an effort to turn these ideas into actions, Michael started the South Texas Ideas Festival and discovered just how much there is worth celebrating about his small, often overlooked rural community and the people who live there.

The TED-Ed Clubs program supports students in discovering, exploring and presenting their big ideas in the form of short, TED-style talks. In TED-Ed Clubs, students work together to discuss and celebrate creative ideas. Club Leaders receive TED-Ed's flexible curriculum to guide their Members in developing presentation literacy skills to help inspire tomorrow's TED speakers and future leaders.

To learn more about TED-Ed Clubs or to start your own club, go to http://ed.ted.com/clubs

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Video Language:
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Duration:
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