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Dear friends,
welcome to the retreat for educators.
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This is a retreat,
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therefore we will be
practicing mindfulness.
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Mindfulness of breathing,
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mindfulness of walking,
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mindfulness of eating and so on.
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The practice of mindfulness...
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...like your regrets...
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... because your mind is focusing, only,
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on one thing, it is our in-breath.
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At the same time we release our fear,
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our uncertainty about the future.
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And we are freer, much freer.
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So three or four seconds of breathing in
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can bring us quite a bit of freedom.
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Freedom from the past,
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freedom from the future,
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freedom from our projects,
our anger and so on
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because while breathing in
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we focus our attention
only on our in-breath.
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And you don't have to suffer
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while we breathe in.
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In fact, it's very pleasant to breathe in.
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We have lungs, still in good condition,
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the air is not too bad,
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so it is a pleasure to breathe in.
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And there is the energy of mindfulness
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that is born during the
time you breathe in.
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Is it OK?
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Mindfulness is always
mindfulness of something
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and when you practice
breathing in and out mindfully
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that is called mindfulness of breathing.
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When you practice walking mindfully
that is called mindfulness of walking.
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And when you eat your breakfast mindfully
that is called mindfulness of eating.
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The energy of mindfulness
generated by the breathing or the walking
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helps you to be there,
well established in the present moment.
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So breathing in you bring
your mind home to your body
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and you need only 2, 3 seconds
in order to do that:
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bringing our mind home to our body.
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When mind and body are together
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you are well established
in the present moment.
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And life, joy, happiness and peace
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are available in the present moment.
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Life with all the wonders and all
refreshing and healing elements
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are available in the present moment.
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Because the past is already gone
and the future is not yet there
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that is why the present moment is the only
moment when you can be truly alive.
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You are not lost in the past,
you are not lost in the future.
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To go home to the present moment,
that's easy.
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You need to breathe in mindfully and
bring your mind home to your body
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and you are in touch with all
the wonders of life that are there.
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Breathing in can be a
very pleasant thing to do.
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Those of us who are used to
the practice of mindful breathing,
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we find breathing in mindfully
very pleasant.
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And when you breathe in mindfully
you get in touch with something,
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you get in touch with your body.
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When you spend two hours
with your computer
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you forget entirely that you have a body.
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And when mind is not with the body,
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you are not truly alive, you are lost
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in your work, in your worry, your fear,
in your projects.
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So to breathe in mindfully and bring mind
home to our body.
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You become fully alive,
fully present.
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Then you are in the situation to
touch the wonders of life.
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And our body
is the first wonder of life.
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It contains mother earth, father
son, the stars and everything,
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including our ancestors.
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Breathing in I know I have a body
and our body is a wonder.
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So you can enjoy having a body.
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But while breathing in you notice that
there is tension and pain in your body.
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You would like to do something in order to
help your body feel better
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because we may have allowed tension to be
accumulated a little too much in our body.
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We have worked our body too hard.
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So when while breathing in if we notice
there is tension in our body,
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then while breathing out we may like
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to allow the tension
to be released from our body.
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That is one of the most
practiced exercises of mindful breathing.
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Breathing in I am aware of my body
and the tension in my body,
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breathing out I release
the tension in my body.
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And this practice is possible when you sit
in a car, when you sit in a train.
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Everywhere you can practice
mindful breathing
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to be aware of your body
and to release the tension in your body.
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Of course, this exercise can be practiced
in any kind of position -
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sitting, lying down, walking, standing.
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You can always enjoy the practice of
mindful breathing
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and release the tension in our body.
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And if we do it well we can transmit the
practice to our students
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because they also have a lot of tension
in their bodies.
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There are school teachers
who begin the class
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by breathing in and out
mindfully with their students.
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It takes a few minutes;
one or two or three.
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They are trying together to be there
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and to release
the tension in their bodies.
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It helps the work
of teaching and learning.
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We know that we don't have
to be a Buddhist
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in order to breathe in mindfully,
breathe out mindfully.
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There is another energy that goes along
with mindfulness.
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That is concentration.
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When you are mindful of something,
when you are very mindful something,
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you are naturally concentrated
on that something.
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Look at that flower.
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If we focus our mind on the flower,
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we are mindful that the flower
is there as a wonder.
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Breathing in I'm aware
of the presence of that flower.
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If you continue
to be mindful of the flower
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you are concentrated on it.
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So the energy of concentration is born
from the energy of mindfulness
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and that make us focus more attention.
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Insight is a kind of understanding,
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is a kind of awakening.
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An insight may happen
in just a few seconds
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of mindfulness and concentration.
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Suppose we practice
breathing in mindfully.
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Breathing in mindfully, I know I'm alive.
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I am alive is an insight.
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Many people are there but they are not
aware that they are there, they are alive.
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Albert Camus, the French novelist,
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he spoke about a person
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who was about to be executed
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because he had killed someone.
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Spending time in his cell in prison,
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suddenly he saw
the blue sky through the skylight.
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It was the first time
he saw the blue sky like that.
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Of course he had seen
the blue sky many times,
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but this is the first time
he saw the blue sky so deeply
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because he had that kind of awareness.
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(French) One moment of awareness.
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He only had a few days in order to
live before the execution.
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A Catholic priest came
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in order to perform the ritual that is
needed for a dying person.
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He did not want
to allow the priest to come
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because he believed that he is awake.
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He is alive but the priest,
he is not alive.
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That mindfulness inhabits him
but not the priest.
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He said there are people
who live like dead people.
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It becomes a morgue.
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There are people around us
but they are not truly alive.
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They carry their dead body
and circulate around us
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because they are not inhabited
by the energy of mindfulness.
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So when you breathe in
that insight comes:
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'Breathing in, I know I'm alive.'
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Knowing that you are alive
is already an insight.
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To be alive is a miracle.
It is a miracle to be alive.
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That is the greatest of all miracles.
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A person that is already
dead does not breathe in anymore.
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You who are breathing in,
you are alive.
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So just breathing in
you touch the wonder,
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the fact that you are alive.
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That is an insight,
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and that insight liberates you
from forgetfulness, anger, fear.
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Because life is so precious.
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When you breathe out you can already
celebrate the fact that you are alive.
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Breathing in, I know I am alive.
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Breathing out, I smile to life
in me and around me.
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That is a celebration of life.
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You need only 2, 3 seconds in order to
wake up to the fact that you are alive.
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You are walking on this beautiful planet
and every minute is precious.
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Mindfulness allows you to live deeply
every moment that is given you to live.
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Mindfulness brings
concentration and insight.
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That insight has the power to liberate you
from the things that are not so important.
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You realize that to be alive
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and to witness the wonders of life
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that are fully present
in the here and the now
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is what you want the most.
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Breathing in, I know I have a body.
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Breathing out, I smile to my body,
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because my body
is my first true home.
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Breathing in, I know
there is tension in my body.
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Breathing out, I allow the tension
in my body to be released.
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That is something everyone can do.
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At any time of the day.
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And it can become a habit,
the habit of being relaxed.
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The habit of being peace, peaceful.
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Then more insight will come.
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When you bring your mind
home to your body,
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your mind becomes one with your body.
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This state of oneness
between body and mind
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you can recognize
the many conditions of happiness
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that are already there.
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Many of us think
that happiness is not possible now.
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They don't believe it.
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They think you should
run into the future
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and get some more
conditions for happiness.
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Most of us think and behave like that.
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But with mindfulness we can establish
ourselves in the present moment
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and we can realize that we have
so many conditions of happiness
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that are already available.
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More than enough for us
to be joyful and to be happy,
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right here and right now.
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If we take a sheet of paper and write down
the conditions of happiness that you have,
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one page is not enough,
two pages are not enough,
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three pages are not enough,
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ten pages are not enough.
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We are very lucky, we are much luckier
than many people on this planet.
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So mindfulness allows us to recognize
the many conditions of happiness
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that are available.
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That makes you generate
a feeling of joy,
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a feeling of happiness
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easily and right away.
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Suppose we practice
mindfulness of the eyes.
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Breathing in, I'm aware of my eyes.
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Breathing out, I smile to my eyes.
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When I'm mindful of my eyes
I discover the insight
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that I have eyes
still in good condition.
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If I open my eyes I can get in touch
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with the paradise of forms and colors.
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A paradise of forms and colors
is available to me
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in the present moment.
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Because I have eyes,
still in good condition.
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For those of us
who have lost our eyesight
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our deepest desire may be
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to recover our eyesight
in order to enjoy,
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just contemplate the paradise
of forms and colors.
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So our eyes, in good condition,
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is one of the conditions of happiness.
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Breathing in, becoming aware,
mindful of our eyes
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helps us to recognize
one condition of happiness.
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If we continue like that,
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we see thousands
of conditions of happiness
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in our body;
our heart still operates normally,
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our lungs, our feet are strong enough
for us to walk and climb.
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So many conditions of happiness
inside of us and around us.
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More than enough for you
to generate a feeling of joy,
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a feeling of happiness,
right here and right now.
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You don't need to run into the future
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to look for more
conditions of happiness.
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A good practitioner of mindfulness
should be able to create a feeling of joy,
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a feeling of happiness whenever she wants.
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For her enjoyment, for her nourishment
and healing.
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Schoolteachers can afford
joy and happiness
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by the practice of mindfulness
of breathing, of walking.
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From your parking lot,
walking to your school.
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You can enjoy every step.
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You can enjoy the practice
of mindful walking.
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You can combine
your breath and your steps.
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Breathing in you may like
to make two steps.
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You pay attention to the contact
between your foot and the ground.
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Don't let your mind here,
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bring it down
to the sole of your foot
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and touch the ground mindfully.
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Walk as if you kiss the Earth,
Mother Earth, with your feet.
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You are mindful of Mother Earth.
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You are mindful of your touching
of Mother Earth with your foot.
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That can be very pleasant.
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You don't have to suffer.
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You don't have to make
a special effort in order to do so.
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While you touch the ground with your foot
you can say, "I have arrived."
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"I have arrived."
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You can combine
your in breath with two steps.
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"I have arrived, I have arrived."
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I have arrived at the destination of life
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because life
is in the here and the now.
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I have arrived in the here and the now
where life is available.
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So, "I have arrived" means I have arrived
in the present moment,
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In the here and the now
where life is available.
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You arrive with every step,
you arrive with every breath.
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Because we have been running
for our whole life.
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We have been sacrificing
the present moment
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for the sake of the future.
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We are not capable of being happy
right in the present moment.
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So now this is a kind of revolution.
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A kind of a resistance.
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You resist the running.
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You don't want to run anymore.
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You feel comfortable and at peace
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in the present moment,
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and that is why
you pronounce the words,
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"I have arrived in the here
and the now, where life is.
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I don't want to run anymore."
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Mindfulness gives us enough strength
in order to resist the running.
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The running has become
a strong habit for most of us.
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So we stop running with every step,
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I have arrived,
I have arrived.
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For those of us
who are used to the practice
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we can arrive 100%
to the here and the now.
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When you can arrive 100%
to the here and the now
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you feel peace
and happiness right away.
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In the beginning we might like to try
slow walking meditation.
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Breathing in you just make one step,
not two steps.
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And you say, "I have arrived."
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Invest all your mind and body
into the step
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and try to arrive 100%
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into the here and the now.
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If you have not arrived 100%,
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you might have arrived
only 20%, 25%.
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In that case don't make another step.
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Stand here, breathe out
and breathe in again.
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Challenge yourself.
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Until you can arrive 100%
in the here and the now.
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Then you smile, the smile of victory
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and then you make another step.
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I have arrived, I am home.
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My home is right here
in the present moment.
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If you know how to walk like that,
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touching the present moment deeply
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you will find out, like us,
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that the Kingdom of God is available
in the here and the now on Earth.
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You don't need to die in order to go
to the Kingdom of God,
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it may be too late.
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But if you are inhabited
by the energy of mindfulness,
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concentration and insight
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one step is enough for you
to touch the Kingdom of God
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in the here and the now.
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It is very healing, very nourishing.
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From the parking lot,
walking to your classroom
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you can walk like that.
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Every step releases
the tension in your body,
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every step helps you
to enjoy your body,
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the blue sky, the white cloud,
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the beautiful trees.
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You are in the Kingdom of God.
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That flower belongs
to the Kingdom for me.
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If you look deeply into a flower
you see the Kingdom inside.
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You see the Kingdom of God
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and you see God in it.
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A flower, a tree, a cloud,
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everything is a manifestation
from the Kingdom of God.
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If you get in touch deeply with
mindfulness and concentration
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you get insight,
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you know that
the Kingdom is available
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in the here and the now.
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If you have
some mindfulness, concentration,
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then you have the Kingdom.
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The Kingdom is available,
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the problem is whether
you are available to the Kingdom.
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You don't have to go
and look for the Kingdom elsewhere
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or in the future.
It is right there.
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To make yourself
available to the Kingdom,
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that's not too difficult.
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Just breathe in mindfully,
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concentrating on your step
and you touch the Kingdom.
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With the practice,
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you touch the Kingdom
deeper and deeper every day.
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The Kingdom is happiness.
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You realize that true happiness
is made of mindfulness,
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concentration and insight.
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True happiness
is not made of fame,
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power, wealth and sex.
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Because there are those
who have plenty of these four things
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but they suffer very deeply.
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True happiness is made
of understanding, insight and love.
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The energy of mindfulness,
concentration and insight
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brings you understanding,
compassion, love and joy.
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So a practitioner of mindfulness
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is capable of generating
a feeling of joy,
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a feeling of happiness
whenever he wants.
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Because the energy
of mindfulness helps him
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to get in touch with
the many conditions of happiness
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which are already available,
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even the Kingdom is available.
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The practice of mindfulness
is the practice of joy.
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It is an art of living.
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With mindfulness,
concentration and insight
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you can always generate
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a feeling of joy
and happiness for yourself.
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Then with the energy of mindfulness
you can also handle a painful feeling,
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a painful emotion.
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If you do not have
the energy of mindfulness,
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you'll be afraid of
being overwhelmed by the pain,
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the suffering inside.
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That is why many of us are trying
to run away from ourselves.
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We think that
if we go home to ourselves
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we have to encounter a block of pain,
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sorrow, fear and despair in us.
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That is why most of us
are trying to run away from ourselves.
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We try to consume in order to
cover up the suffering inside.
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We try to eat something,
we try to listen to music,
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we try to go to the Internet.
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We try to pick up a newspaper,
we try to do everything
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in order to get busy
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and not to have to
encounter the loneliness,
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the despair, the anger inside of us.
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We are afraid of our own suffering.
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But those of us
who know the practice of mindfulness,
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we are not afraid.
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Because generating
the energy of mindfulness
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we can go home with strength,
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with that energy of mindfulness
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we can recognize the pain
and embrace it tenderly.
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You can smile to your pain,
your sorrow, your fear.
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The suffering inside yourself,
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you know how to handle it.
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So mindfulness, beside the power to help
you to create joy and happiness,
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it helps you know how to suffer,
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how to handle pain,
sorrow and fear in us.
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The way a mother does,
holding her baby.
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When the baby suffers,
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the mother picks the baby up
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and holds the baby tenderly like this.
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The mother is made of tenderness.
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The mother does not know yet
why the baby suffers.
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But the fact that she's holding
the baby tenderly, like this,
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can help the baby suffer less.
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Already.
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The practitioner of mindfulness
does very much the same.
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First of all, he recognizes
the pain inside of him,
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and secondly he holds,
he embraces that pain tenderly.
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Breathing in
I know that anger is in me,
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that despair is in me.
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Breathing out,
I smile and hold my anger,
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mindfully and tenderly.
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If you continue to breathe
and to walk like that,
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embracing your fear,
your anger, you suffer less.
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After a few minutes of practice
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like the baby
being held by the mother
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suffers less.
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The fact is
that if we know how to suffer
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we suffer much less
than other people.
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We are not overwhelmed
by the suffering.
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And the way is simple.
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With the practice
of mindful breathing, mindful walking
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you have enough
of that energy called mindfulness.
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And with that energy
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you will not be overwhelmed
by the pain inside.
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With that energy
you can recognize your pain
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and embrace it.
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Maybe in the beginning
we need someone else to support us.
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Someone else sitting with us,
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walking with us,
breathing in mindfully,
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walking mindfully.
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who lends us
his or her energy of mindfulness.
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Because if we are
a beginner in the practice
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our mindfulness
might not be strong enough
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to do the work of recognizing
and holding the pain.
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So with a friend, with a co-practitioner
doing the same, we are stronger.
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If you have 3 friends, 4, 5 doing that
then it is much easier for you
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to recognize the pain in you
and to embrace the pain
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and suffer less
after a few minutes of practice.
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If schoolteachers know how to do that,
they can teach their students.
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Because although they are still young,
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but already they have a lot of pain
and suffering in them.
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We can, as teachers,
breathe in and out
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generating the energy of mindfulness
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and help our students to suffer less.
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That is a very beautiful thing to see.
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If teachers know how to do that,
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they can transmit the practice
to the students.
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And then, holding the suffering
and listening to our suffering
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we'll come to understand
the nature of our suffering.
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Understanding suffering
will always bring about compassion.
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And compassion
is the fourth kind of energy
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born from mindfulness,
concentration and insight.
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Compassion has the power to heal.
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It can transform anger.
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Anger makes us sick.
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Compassion is the antidote for anger.
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When you look at him or her,
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if you are mindful enough,
concentrated enough,
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you can see
a lot of suffering in that person.
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That person has a lot of suffering
in him or in her,
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but does not know
how to handle the suffering,
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does not know how to suffer less.
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That person continues to be
a victim of his own suffering.
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No one, so far,
has helped him to suffer less.
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That is why he continues to be
the victim of his suffering.
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And if you suffer
you are the victim number 2.
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Because when you suffer
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and you don't know
how to handle your suffering,
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you make the people
around you suffer also,
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even if it is the closest people to you.
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So when you have time and mindfulness
to look into that person
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and if you can recognize
the suffering in that person,
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the difficulties in that person,
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seeing that he's the victim
of his own suffering,
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he's helpless,
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anger in you is dissolved.
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Because your insight about suffering
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has brought in
compassion in your heart.
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So getting in touch with suffering
always helps us to be compassionate.
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That is mindfulness of suffering.
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Mindfulness of suffering
is a kind of practice
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that can generate
the energy of compassion.
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When you are mindful
of his or her suffering,
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you begin to understand
the suffering in him or in her.
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And that understanding
removes the anger from inside of you.
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You don't have the intention
to punish him anymore.
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To say something or to do something
to punish him,
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because he has dared
to make you suffer.
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So it is clear
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that understanding suffering always
brings the energy of compassion.
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And the energy of compassion
always heals and you suffer less.
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When you suffer,
you look at him or her
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and don't suffer anymore.
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It means you already have
compassion in your heart.
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Now you can practice deep listening,
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compassionate listening
to help him suffer less.
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The other person may be our partner,
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our husband,
our wife, our colleague.
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When you have seen
the suffering in that person,
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you are motivated by a desire
to help him or her suffer less.
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Mindfulness of speaking,
mindfulness of listening
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helps you to do so.
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Compassionate listening and loving speech
can restore communication
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and help you to reconcile
with that person.
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So if you can see the suffering
in him or in her,
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you just come to that person and say,
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"My friend, darling,
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I know you have suffered quite a lot
during the past many years.
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I have not been able
to help you to suffer less.
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In fact, I have reacted in such a way
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that made you suffer more.
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I'm sorry.
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It is not my intention
to make you suffer, darling,
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just because I did not see
and understand your suffering.
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If I had understood your suffering,
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I would not have reacted
the way I have.
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So please help me,
tell me what is in your heart.
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Tell me of your suffering,
your difficulties,
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help me to understand."
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That is the kind of talking
we call loving speech.
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If you have some amount
of compassion in your heart,
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you can talk like that.
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In the beginning you don't believe
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that you can
talk to him or to her like that,
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because you are so angry at that person.
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But now, as you have seen and understood
the suffering in that person,
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you are motivated by a desire
to help him or her suffer less.
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So you can talk like that
with him or her
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in a language called loving speech,
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compassionate speech.
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That can always open the heart,
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open the door
of the heart of someone.
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Then you can sit there and listen.
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During the time of listening,
-
you maintain compassion alive
in your heart
-
so you can listen for one hour or more.
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Because compassion protects you.
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While telling you things
the other person may be bitter, angry.
-
What the other person says
-
may be full of bitterness,
full of wrong perceptions.
-
What you hear might touch
on the anger and irritation in you,
-
and you lose your capacity of listening.
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But if you practice mindful breathing
-
and preserve compassion in you,
you are protected.
-
Breathing in and out
you remind yourself
-
that I listen to him
with only one purpose,
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to help him empty his heart
and suffer less.
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Therefore, even if he says wrong things,
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I will not interrupt him and correct him.
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Because if I did,
-
I would transform the session
into a debate
-
and I ruin the session.
-
Later on, in a few days,
-
I may offer him or her
some information
-
to help him or her
to correct his perceptions.
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But not now.
-
Now is only listening.
-
If you can breathe in and out
and maintain that awareness alive,
-
you are protected by compassion
-
and you can listen
for the whole hour deeply.
-
That will be very healing
to him or to her.
-
The practice of listening to the suffering
has to begin with ourselves.
-
We have to go home
and listen to our own suffering.
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Then, when we have suffered less,
-
when we have enough compassion,
-
we begin to listen to the other person.
-
The other person is our partner,
-
or our father or mother
-
or whoever lives with us
in the same house.
-
Then, when we have
restored communication
-
and reconciled with that person,
-
we are stronger.
-
Then we can bring the practice
to our school.
-
We can practice
with our colleagues in school
-
and our students,
-
because all of them suffer.
-
The students may believe
-
that their teachers do not suffer,
-
only they suffer, not their teachers.
-
We should tell them
that that's not the truth.
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We, schoolteachers, we suffer like you.
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But as I have learned
how to handle my suffering,
-
I suffer less now.
-
If you want,
I can help you to practice
-
in order to suffer less.
-
You have difficulties with your parents,
-
with your family, with your studies.
-
We can spend time together
and help each other to suffer less.
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So that kind of deep listening
and loving speech,
-
practiced with our students,
-
helps remove the obstacles
between teachers and students.
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If they understand your suffering,
-
they will not continue
to make you suffer anymore.
-
If we understand their suffering,
-
we will know how
to help them to suffer less.
-
Together we improve the quality
of teaching and of learning,
-
and the classroom becomes
a very pleasant place to be
-
for both sides.
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(Bell)
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(Bell)
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Dear friends, you may massage your feet
if you like.
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I draw a circle,
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representing the schoolteacher.
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The schoolteacher has his partner,
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his son and daughter and so on.
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So we are eager to help our partner,
other members of our family
-
to suffer less.
-
And we are eager also
-
to help our colleagues in schools
and our students
-
to suffer less.
-
We have the tendency
of trying to do something.
-
"I want to do something
to improve the situation."
-
That's what we want.
-
But according to this practice,
-
we should not be too eager
to do something right away.
-
The first thing
is to go home to us.
-
With the practice of mindful breathing,
-
with the practice of mindful walking,
-
we can calm down
our feelings, our emotions,
-
we can bring in a feeling of joy
and happiness to nourish us.
-
We can listen to our own suffering
-
in order to allow
the energy of compassion
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to be born and to heal.
-
That is what we should begin with.
-
We can do that with the support
of co-practitioners.
-
Those who share
the same kind of insight
-
as how to improve the situation.
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When you have enough peace,
joy and compassion,
-
and you suffer less,
-
you can go to him or to her, your partner,
-
the person who is closest to you
-
and help him or her
to do the same.
-
Of course, the other person
has to do like you.
-
You help him or her
to go back to herself
-
and take care of the things inside.
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How to release the tension in the body,
-
how to generate
a feeling of joy or happiness,
-
how to listen to the suffering inside
-
and understand the suffering inside.
-
The suffering inside of us
carries within itself
-
the suffering of our father,
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of our mother, of our ancestors,
of our nation.
-
If we understand our suffering,
-
we understand the suffering
of our father, our mother,
-
our ancestors, our nation.
-
We suffer less.
-
We have enough compassion to help.
-
After having helped the people
in our own family,
-
we have a stronger support at home.
-
Now we can begin to go
-
and help the people in our workplace,
-
our colleagues and our students.
-
The principle is very much the same,
-
helping them to go home
to themselves and take care.
-
Always we have to begin like this.
-
They can also help you
to help other people.
-
The principle is:
the way out is in.
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The way out is in.
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Tomorrow we shall have
walking meditation together.
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There are those of us
who know the practice.
-
We shall practice
-
and support those of us
who are new in the practice.
-
Every step can generate
the energy of peace.
-
Every step can release
the tension in our body,
-
every step can help us get in touch
-
with the wonders of life
that can nourish and heal.
-
If we have enough
mindfulness and concentration,
-
we can touch Mother Earth,
-
we can touch the Kingdom of God
with every step.
-
Later on,
-
we can walk like that
on the railway station,
-
on the airport,
-
from the parking lot to our school,
-
and enjoy the Kingdom
with every step.
-
I have arrived,
-
I have arrived.
-
Two steps while breathing in.
-
If you like,
you can make three steps.
-
I have arrived,
-
arrived, arrived.
-
I have arrived is not a statement.
-
That is a realization,
-
because you have to arrive truly
in the here and the now
-
with every step.
-
We have to train ourselves
walking in the Kingdom of God.
-
If you make two steps
while breathing in,
-
then you may like to make
three steps while breathing out.
-
You say, "I am home,
-
I am home, home."
-
So the rhythm is 2-3.
-
I have arrived,
I have arrived,
-
I am home,
I am home, I am home.
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In Plum Village we teach
the children to do the same.
-
We begin saying...
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to teach them how to say 'yes'.
-
Breathing in, you say
-
(French) 'yes, yes'.
-
Teaching the children to say 'yes'.
-
Because many of them say no, no, no.
-
(Laughter)
-
There are so many things
that you have to say yes to.
-
The blue sky, the flowers,
-
many things you have to say yes to.
-
So breathing in, they make two steps
-
and they say,
-
(French) 'yes, yes'.
-
While breathing out, they say,
-
(French) 'thank you,
thank you, thank you.'
-
So you can invent
your own words
-
in order to help you to concentrate.
-
I have arrived, I have arrived,
-
I am home, home, home,
-
are words that can help you
to concentrate
-
so that you can arrive truly.
-
I have arrived, I am home.
-
Later on you may change,
-
"In the here, in the here,
-
in the now, now, now."
-
Because that is the address of life,
-
the address of the Kingdom of God.
-
Later on, you may say,
-
"I am solid, solid.
-
I am free, free, free."
-
That is not autosuggestion.
-
Because if you are mindful
-
and making steps
and arriving at every step,
-
you are truly solid.
-
You are anchored,
-
you are established
in the here and the now,
-
you are not being pulled away
by the past or by the future.
-
Every step helps you
-
to cultivate more solidity.
-
"I am solid, I am solid.
-
I am free, I am free, I am free."
-
This is not political freedom.
-
This is freedom from the past,
the future, our worries.
-
Because as you are solidly
established in the here and the now,
-
you are free from the regrets,
the sorrow concerning the past,
-
the fear, the uncertainty
concerning the future.
-
You walk as a free person.
-
From the parking lot,
-
walking to your school,
-
you walk as a free person.
-
You stop all the thinking.
-
Because the thinking removes you
from the here and the now.
-
That is Noble Silence.
-
There is a radio
that is going on all the time
-
called NST,
Non Stop Thinking.
-
While sitting, breathing and walking,
-
we turn off that radio,
Non Stop Thinking,
-
and we enjoy more
every step, every breath.
-
The healing and the nourishment
take place much more easily
-
than with the thinking.
-
That is the mental discourse
always going on in our head.
-
If you are truly focused
on your breath, on your steps,
-
you stop the thinking easily
-
and you enjoy the Kingdom of God
with every step.
-
It is a habit.
-
It is like when you learn
playing ping-pong,
-
or tennis,
-
you need some training.
-
This is the same.
-
You get the habit
-
of enjoying the breathing
and the walking.
-
We have that song,
-
"I have arrived,
-
I am home,
-
in the here, in the now.
-
I am solid, I am free."
-
Solidity and freedom
make you a happy person.
-
A person who does not have
stability and solidity
-
cannot be a happy person.
-
A person who does not have any freedom
-
from anger, fear,
the past and the future
-
cannot be a happy person.
-
I am solid, I am free.
-
That is a conformation.
-
In the ultimate I dwell,
-
in the Kingdom of God I walk.
-
Shall we sing together?
-
# I have arrived, I am home,
-
# in the here and in the now.
-
# I have arrived, I am home,
-
# in the here and in the now.
-
# I am solid, I am free,
-
# I am solid, I am free.
-
# In the ultimate I dwell.
-
# In the ultimate I dwell.
-
# I have arrived, I am home,
-
# in the here and in the now.
-
# I have arrived, I am home,
-
# in the here and in the now.
-
# I am solid, I am free.
-
# I am solid, I am free.
-
# In the ultimate I dwell.
-
# In the ultimate I dwell. #
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(Bell)
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So during the walking,
-
not only we do not speak,
-
but we also do not think.
-
Because the thinking
removes you
-
from the here and the now.
-
I think,
therefore I am not there.
-
You observe what we call Noble Silence.
-
This is a kind of silence
that is very eloquent.
-
It allows you to be fully alive,
fully present
-
and enjoy every step,
enjoy every breath.
-
When every one of us
breathes and walks together like that
-
we can generate
a very powerful collective energy.
-
That will penetrate into everyone
-
and help with the healing
and the transformation.
-
The same thing is true
-
with sitting together
and breathing together.
-
The next thing we do
-
is to share a meal together.
-
That is called mindful eating.
-
We allow the talking to stop,
-
we allow the thinking to stop.
-
We just enjoy
our togetherness
-
and the meal.
-
Because everyone can participate,
-
can contribute
-
to the collective energy
of mindfulness and joy.
-
During the time we have dinner,
-
we focus our attention
only on two things.
-
First of all,
-
is the food that we are serving,
that we are eating.
-
We breathe in and out
-
and become aware
of the vegetables,
-
of the rice,
-
of whatever we are eating.
-
When I pick up a piece of carrot,
-
I do it mindfully
-
and I take one second
to look at the piece of carrot.
-
Only one second.
-
One second is enough
-
to see that there is
the sunshine in the carrot,
-
there is the rain in the carrot,
-
there is the good earth in the carrot,
-
time, space, the farmer,
the transporter and so on.
-
The piece of carrot
carries within itself
-
the whole cosmos.
-
One second of looking mindfully
-
can put you in touch
with the whole cosmos.
-
One second only.
-
Then you put it into your mouth mindfully.
-
Don't put anything else,
-
like your worries, your projects.
-
Just the piece of carrot.
-
Get in touch with the piece of carrot
that represents the cosmos.
-
In the Catholic tradition,
-
celebrating the Eucharist
-
you see the piece of bread
as the body of Jesus.
-
But in this practice,
-
we see the piece of bread
as the body of the cosmos.
-
Not very far.
It is the same thing.
-
You get in touch
with the wonders of life.
-
The stars, the sun,
Mother Earth
-
and the cosmos
that have come to you
-
in the form of a piece of carrot
to nourish you.
-
That is love.
-
And when you chew,
you chew only the piece of carrot
-
and not our projects,
our anger, our fear.
-
Not good for our health.
-
So we can enjoy eating each morsel
of our dinner in that way.
-
Thankful, joyful,
-
grateful.
-
The second object of our mindfulness
-
is the presence of
other practitioners around us.
-
They are eating the same way,
-
generating the energy
of mindfulness and joy
-
so that we will be nourished
not only by the food,
-
but by the collective energy
of brotherhood, sisterhood,
-
peace and joy.
-
Because eating like that
can be very joyful.
-
Although we are silent.
-
But a Noble Silence is very eloquent.
-
It speaks a lot about
togetherness,
-
brotherhood, sisterhood and so on.
-
In Plum Village we always enjoy
our breakfast, our lunch,
-
our dinner together.
-
Eating like that can be nourishing
-
for the body and for the spirit
at the same time.
-
Every time we hear the bell,
-
the bell is a reminder.
-
It helps us to stop the thinking,
-
to stop the talking
-
and begin to be,
-
to be alive in the here and the now.
-
To come home to the here and the now.
-
Sister Dao
-
will offer us
-
half a sound of the bell.
-
(Bell)
-
That is a half sound.
-
Again please.
-
(Bell)
-
That is a half sound.
-
When you hear the half sound,
-
you know that a full sound
is going to happen very soon.
-
So you have about 8 seconds
to prepare yourself
-
to receive the full sound.
-
When you hear a half sound,
-
you stop talking, you stop thinking,
-
you begin to breathe in mindfully
and breathe out mindfully.
-
It takes 6, 7, 8 seconds.
-
Then you are ready
to receive the full sound.
-
The bell master,
after the half sound,
-
allows you to have enough time
-
to prepare for the reception
of the full sound.
-
Please.
-
(Bell)
-
(Bell)
-
That sound does not exactly come
from the outside.
-
It comes from the inside.
-
It is the voice
from the Buddha from within
-
calling us to go home to ourselves.
-
It is the voice of Jesus Christ
-
calling us to go home to ourselves,
-
to be alive again.
-
To be resurrected again.
-
Without mindfulness
we are not alive.
-
We live like dead people.
-
The bell helps us
-
to come home to ourselves
with mindfulness.
-
Mindfulness is the Holy Spirit.
-
When we have mindfulness in ourselves,
-
we are fully alive,
-
we are fully present
to live our life.
-
Mindfulness has the power to heal.
-
Jesus is inhabited
by the Holy Spirit.
-
In the Buddhist tradition,
-
we see that the Holy Spirit
is made of three elements:
-
mindfulness,
concentration, insight.
-
That will bring compassion to you.
-
So it is not something vague, abstract.
-
With the practice
we can generate
-
mindfulness,
concentration and insight.
-
We can allow the Holy Spirit
to inhabit us
-
for the healing and
the transformation to be possible.
-
During the time we sit together,
-
and listen and breathe together,
-
the bell helps us
to go home to the here and the now.
-
There is a practice called
deep listening.
-
We don't listen just with our ears.
-
We can invite
all the cells in our body
-
to join us in listening.
-
The sound of the bell will penetrate deep
into every cell of our body.
-
That is possible.
-
We know that all our ancestors,
-
blood and spiritual ancestors,
-
they are fully present
in every cell of our body.
-
We may like to invite all of them
-
to join us in listening to the bell.
-
And become alive again.
-
We think that our ancestors
are no longer alive.
-
That is not true.
-
They are always alive
in every cell of our body.
-
We can get in touch with them
at any time we want.
-
We can talk to them.
-
We can invite them to walk with us,
-
to breathe with us
-
and to listen to the bell with us.
-
When you hear the bell,
-
you may like to invite
all your ancestors in you
-
to join you in listening.
-
Listening like that
can be very healing,
-
transforming also.
-
The bell master is there to help us
-
to go home to ourselves
-
and enjoy breathing.
-
Usually when you hear
the full sound of the bell,
-
you practice breathing in
and out three times.
-
Breathing in you say,
-
"I listen, I listen."
-
And if you have
all your ancestors listening with you,
-
you say, "We listen, we listen."
-
This is not an "I",
this is a "we".
-
"We listen, we listen."
-
And while breathing out, you say,
-
"This wonderful sound
-
brings us back
to our true home."
-
Our true home
is here and now.
-
Our true home
is the Kingdom of God.
-
Breathing in, I say,
-
"We listen, we are truly listening."
-
Breathing out, I say,
-
"This wonderful sound
brings us back
-
to our true home,
to the Kingdom of God."
-
You enjoy breathing in
and out three times.
-
Then the bell master
may invite the second sound.
-
And every one of us
have a chance to enjoy
-
three more in-breaths
and out-breaths that way.
-
Three sounds of the bell mean
-
nine in-breaths and out-breaths.
-
A good bell master
would allow ourselves
-
enough time to enjoy...
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-
that will help to heal us.
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(Bell)
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(Bell)
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(Bell)
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(Bell)
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The energy is good.
-
(Laughter)
-
Now let us massage our feet
-
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