A celebration of natural hair

I am from the southside of Chicago,

and in seventh grade,

I had a best friend named Jenny

who lived on the southwest
side of Chicago.

Jenny was white,

and if you know anything about
the segragated demographics of Chicago,

you know that there are not
too many black people

who live on the southwest side of Chicago.

But Jenny was my girl,

and so we would hang out
every so often after school

and on the weekends.

And so one day we were
hanging out in her living room

talking about 13-year-old things,

and Jenny's little sister Rosie
was in the room with us,

and she was sitting behind me
just kind of playing with my hair,

and I wasn't thinking too much
about what she was doing.

But at a pause in the conversation,

Rosie tapped me on the shoulder.

She said, "Can I ask you a question?"

I said, "Yeah, Rosie, sure."

"Are you black?"

(Laughter)

The room froze.

Silence.

Jenny and Rosie's mom
was not too far away,

she was in the kitchen,

and she overheard the conversation,

and she was mortified.

(Laughter)

She said, "Rosie! You can't ask
people questions like that."

And Jenny was my friend,

and I know she was really embarrassed.

I felt kind of bad for her,

but actually I was not offended.

I figured it wasn't Rosie's fault that on
her 10 short years on this earth,

living on the southwest side of Chicago,

she wasn't 100 percent sure
what a black person looked like.

That's fair.

But what was more surprising to me was,

in all of this time I had spent
with Jenny and Rosie's family,

hanging out with them,

playing with them,

even physically interacting with them,

it was not until Rosie
put her hands in my hair

that she thought to ask me if I was black.

That was the first time I would realize

how big of a role the texture of my hair
played in confirming my ethnicity,

but also that it would play a key role
in how I'm viewed by others in society.

Garrett A. Morgan and Madame C.J. Walker
were pioneers in the black hair care

and beauty industry in the early 1900s.

They're best known as the inventors
of chemically-based hair cremes

and heat straightening tools

designed to permanently,
or semi-permanently,

alter the texture of black hair.

Oftentimes when we think about
the history of blacks in America,

we think about the heinous acts

and numerous injustices
that we experienced

as people of color because
of the color of our skin,

when in fact,

in post-Civil War America,

it was the hair of an
African-American male or female

that was the known as the most
"telling feature" of negro status,

more so than the color of the skin.

And so before they were staples of the
multi-milliion dollor hair-care industry,

our dependency on tools and products,

like the hair relaxer
and the pressing comb,

were more about our survival
and advancement as a race

in post-slavery America.

Over the years,

we grew accustomed to this idea

that straighter and longer
hair meant better and more beautiful.

We became culturally obsessed

with this idea of having
what we like to call, "good hair."

This essentially means the looser
the curl pattern,

the better the hair.

And we let these institutionalized ideas
form a false sense of hierarchy

that would determine what was considered
a good grade of hair and what was not.

What's worse is

that we let these false ideologies
invade our perceptions of ourselves,

and they still continue to effect
our cultural identity

as African-American women today.

So what did we do?

We went to the hair salon every
six-to-eight weeks,

without fail,

to subject our scalps to harsh
straightening chemicals

beginning at a very young age --

sometimes eight, 10 --

that would result in hair loss,

bald spots,

sometimes even burns on the scalp.

We fry our hair at temperatures
of 450 degrees farhenheit or higher

almost daily,

to maintain the straight look.

Or we simply cover our hair up
with wigs and weaves,

only to let our roots breathe in private

where no one knows what's really
going on under there.

We adopted these practices
in our own communities,

and so it's no wonder why today
the typical ideal vision

of a professional black woman,

especially in corporate America,

tends to look like this,

rather than like this.

And she certainly doesn't look like this.

In September of this year,

a federal court ruled it lawful
for a company to discriminate

against hiring an empoloyee based
on if she or he wears dreadlocks.

In the case,

the hiring manager in Mobile, Alabama,

is on record as saying,

"I'm not saying yours are messy,

but ...

you know what I'm talking about."

Well, what was she talking about?

Did she think that they were ugly?

Or maybe they were just
a little too Afro-centric

and pro-black-looking for her taste.

Or maybe it's not about Afro-centricity,

and it's more just about it being a little
too "urban" for the professional setting.

Perhaps she had a genuine concern
in that they looked "scary"

and that they would "intimdate"
the clients and their customer base.

All of these orse are ones that are
too often associated with the stigma

attached to natural hairstyles.

And this ...

this has got to change.

In 2013,

a white paper published by the Deloitte
Center for Leadership and Inclusion,

studied 3,000 individuals
in executive leadership roles

on the concept of covering
in the workplace

based on appearance, advocacy,
affiliation and association.

When thinking about
appearance-based covering,

the study showed that 67 percent
of women of color cover in the workplace

based on their appearnace.

Of the total respondents who
admitted to appearance-based covering,

82 percent said that it was "somewhat
to extremely important"

for them to do so for their
professional advancement.

Now this is Ursala Burns.

She is the first African-American,
female CEO of a Fortune 500 Company,

of Xerox.

She's known by her signature look,

the one that you see here.

A short, nicely trimmed,
well-manicured afro.

Ms. Burns is what we like to call
a "natural girl."

And she is paving the way
and showing what's possible

for African American women
seeking to climb the corporate ladder

but still wish to wear natural hairstyles.

But today the majority
of African-American women

who we still look to as leaders,
icons and role models,

still opt for a straight hair look.

Now, maybe it's because they want to --

this is authentically
how they feel best --

but maybe --

and I bet --

that a part of them felt like they had to

in order to reach the level of success
that they have attained today.

There is a natural hair movement
that is sweeping the country,

and also in some places in Europe.

Millions of women are exploring what
it means to transition to natural hair,

and they're cutting off years and years
of dry, damaged ends

in order to restore
their natural curl pattern.

I know because I have been an advocate
and an ambassador for this movement

for roughly the last three years.

After 27 years of excessive heat
and harsh chemicals,

my hair was beginning to show
extreme signs of wear and tear.

It was breaking off,

it was thinning,

looking just extremely dry and brittle.

All those years of chasing
that conventional image of beauty

that we saw earlier,

was finally beginning to take its toll.

I wanted to do something about it,

and so I started what I call
the "no heat challenge,"

where I would refrain from using
heat styling tools on my hair for 6 months

and like a good millenial,

I documented it on social media.

(Laughter)

I documented as I reluctantly cut off
three-to-four inches of my beloved hair.

I documented as I struggled to master
these natural hairstyles,

and also as I struggled to embrace them

and think that they actually looked good.

And I documented as my hair texture
slowly began to change.

By sharing this journey openly,

I learned that I was not the only
woman going through this,

and that in fact there were thousands
and thousands of other women

who were longing to do the same.

So they would reach out to me
and they would say,

"Cheyenne,

how did you do that natural hairstyle
that I saw you with the other day?

What new products have you started using

that might be a little better
for my hair texture

as it begins to change.

Or what are some
of the natural hair routines

that I should begin to adopt
to slowly restore the health of my hair?"

But I also found that there were
a large number of women

who were extremely hesistant
to take that first step

because they were paralyzed by fear.

Fear of the unknown --

what would they now look like?

How would they feel about themselves
with these natural hairstyles?

And most importantly to them,

how would others view them?

Over the last three years
of having numerous conversations

with friends of mine and also complete
strangers from around the world,

I learned some really important things

about how African-American women
identify with their hair.

And so when I think back
to that hiring manager in Mobile, Alabama,

I'd say, "Actually no,

we don't know what you're talking about.

But here are some things that we do know.

We know that when black women
embrace their love for their natural hair,

it helps to undo generations of teaching

that black in its natural state
is not beautiful,

or something to be hidden or covered up.

We know that black women
express their idividuality,

and experience feelings of empowerment

by experimenting with different
hairstyles regularly.

And we also know that when we're invited
to wear our natural hair in the workplace,

it reinforces that we are uniquely valued,

and thus helps us to flourish
and advance professionally."

I leave you with this.

In a time of racial and social tension,

embracing this movement,

and others like this,

help us to rise above the confines
of the status quo.

So when you see a woman with braids
or locks draping down her back,

or you notice your colleague who has
stopped straightening her hair to work,

do no simply approach her and admire
and ask her if you can touch it --

(Laughter)

Really appreciate her.

Applaud her.

Hey, even high-five her if that's what
you feel so inclined to do.

Because this --

this is more than about a hairstyle.

It's about self-love and self-worth.

It's about being brave enough

not to fold under the pressure
of others' expectations.

And about knowing that making
the decision to stray from the norm

does not define who we are,

but it simply reveals who we are.

And finally,

being brave is easier

when we can count on
the compassion of others.

So after today,

I certainly hope that we can count on you.

Thank you.

(Applause)