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I was born in 1993
in the northern part of North Korea,
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in a town called Hyesan,
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which is on the border with China.
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I had loving parents
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and one older sister.
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Before I was even 10 years old,
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my father was sent to a labor camp
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for engaging in illegal trading.
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Now, by "illegal trading" --
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he was selling clocks, sugar,
rice and later copper
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to feed us.
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In 2007, my sister and I
decided to escape.
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She was 16 years old,
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and I was 13 years old.
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I need you to understand
what the word "escape" means
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in the context of North Korea.
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We were all starving,
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and hunger means death in North Korea.
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So it was the only option for us.
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I didn't even understand
the concept of escape,
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but I could see the lights
from China at night,
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and I wondered if I go where the light is,
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I might be able to find a bowl of rice.
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It's not like we had a grand plan or maps.
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We did not know anything
about what was going to happen.
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Imagine your apartment
building caught fire.
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I mean, what would you do?
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Would you stay there to be burned,
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or would you jump off out of the window
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and see what happens?
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That's what we did.
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We jumped out of the house
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instead of the fire.
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North Korea is unimaginable.
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It's very hard for me
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when people ask me
what it feels like to live there.
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To be honest,
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I tell you:
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you can't even imagine it.
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The words in any language can't describe,
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because it's a totally different planet,
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as you cannot imagine
your life on Mars right now.
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For example, the word "love"
has only one meaning:
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love for the Dear Leader.
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There's no concept
of romantic love in North Korea.
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And if you don't know the words,
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that means you don't
understand the concept,
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and therefore, you don't even realize
that concept is even a possibility.
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Let me give you another example.
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Growing up in North Korea,
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we truly believed that our Dear Leader
is an almighty god
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who can even read my thoughts.
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I was even afraid to think in North Korea.
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We are told that he's starving for us,
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and he's working tirelessly for us,
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and my heart just broke for him.
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When I escaped to South Korea,
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people told me that
he was actually a dictator,
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he had cars,
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many, many resorts,
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and he had an ultraluxurious life.
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And then I remember
looking at a picture of him,
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realizing for the first time
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that he is the largest guy in the picture.
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(Laughter)
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And it hit me.
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Finally, I realized he wasn't starving.
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But I was never able to see that before,
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until someone told me that he was fat.
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(Laughter)
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Really, someone had to teach me
that he was fat.
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If you have never practiced
critical thinking,
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then you simply see
what you're told to see.
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Biggest question also people ask me
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is why there is no revolution
inside North Korea.
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Are we dumb?
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Why is there no revolution
for 70 years of this oppression?"
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And I say,
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if you don't know you're a slave,
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if you don't know
you're isolated or oppressed,
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how do you fight to be free?
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I mean, if you know you're isolated,
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that means you are not isolated.
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Not knowing is the true
definition of isolation,
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and that's why I never knew
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I was isolated when I was in North Korea.
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I literally thought I was
in the center of the universe.
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So here is my idea worth spreading:
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a lot of people think
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humans inherently know
what is right and wrong,
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the difference between
justice and injustice,
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what we deserve and we don't deserve.
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I tell them, BS.
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(Laughter)
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(Applause)
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Everything,
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everything must be taught,
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including compassion.
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If I see someone dying
on the street right now,
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I will do anything to save that person.
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But when I was in North Korea,
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I saw people dying
and dead on the streets.
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I felt nothing.
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Not because I'm a psychopath,
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but because I never learned
the concept of compassion.
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Only, I felt compassion,
empathy and sympathy in my heart.
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After, I learned the word
"compassion" and the concept,
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and I feel them now.
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Now I live in the United States
as a free person.
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(Applause)
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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And recently,
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the leader of our free country,
our President Trump,
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met with my former god.
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And he decided human rights
is not important enough
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to include in his agendas,
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and he did not talk about it.
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And it scares me.
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We live in a world right now
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where a dictator can be praised
for executing his uncle,
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for killing his half-brother,
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killing thousands of North Koreans.
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And that was worthy of praise.
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And also it made me think:
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perhaps we all need to be taught
something new about freedom now.
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Freedom is fragile.
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I don't want to alarm you, but it is.
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It only took three generations
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to make North Korea into
George Orwell's "1984."
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It took only three generations.
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If we don't fight for human rights
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for the people who are oppressed
right now who don't have a voice,
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as free people here,
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who will fight for us
when we are not free?
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Machines? Animals? I don't know.
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I think it's wonderful
that we care about climate change,
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animal rights, gender equality,
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all of these things.
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The fact that we care
about animals' rights,
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that means that's
how beautiful our heart is,
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that we care about someone
who cannot speak for themselves.
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And North Koreans right now
cannot speak for themselves.
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They don't have internet
in the 21st century.
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We don't have electricity,
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and it is the darkest place
on Earth right now.
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Now I want to say something
to my fellow North Koreans
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who are living in that darkness.
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They might not believe this,
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but I want to tell them
that an alternative life is possible.
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Be free.
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From my experience,
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literally anything is possible.
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I was bought,
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I was sold as a slave.
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But now I'm here,
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and that is why I believe in miracles.
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The one thing that I learned from history
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is that nothing is forever in this world.
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And that is why we have
every reason to be hopeful.
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Thank you.
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(Applause)