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DON'T WAIT TO BE GREAT - Best Study Motivation Compilation for Success & Students

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    You had an extra job or two
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    but you're here
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    for a lot of you.
    Even though you made it up the hill,
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    You carry the baggage of rejection
    with you
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    but you're here.
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    So many people are waiting
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    you're waitting for things to be perfect.
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    You're waiting for everyone to get
    themselves together.
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    Imagine you read one hour a day
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    about history
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    How much you will learn after 365 hours
    in one year?
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    Think about if you study about the history
    of musicians of composers.
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    How much you would know?
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    You went to Indiana University?
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    Right, now you got a lot of people
    that say forget about school.
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    They're idiots.
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    So you think they're idiots?
    They're idiots
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    I bet most of your people
    who've sat in this chair.
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    It's not about what college they went to
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    It's about their own initiative, their own drive,
    their own ambitions, their own curiosity.
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    Purpose is an essential element of you.
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    It is the reason you are on the planet
    at this particular time in history.
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    You're waiting for someone
    to give you the opportunity
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    You're waiting for everything to line up
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    You're waiting for all the situations
    to come together perfectly
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    and I'm telling you, you cannot wait.
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    You gotta start working right now.
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    Whatever you choose for a career path
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    remember the struggles along the way
    are only meant to shape you
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    for your purpose.
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    YOUR LIFE MATTERS.
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    YOUR VOICE MATTERS.
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    YOUR NAME MATTERS.
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    Sometimes you need to feel the pain
    and sting of defeat
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    to activate the real passion and purpose
    that God predestined
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    inside of you.
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    Imagine you read one hour a day
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    about history.
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    How much you will learn after 365 hours
    in one year?
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    Think about if you study about the history
    of musicians of composers,
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    how much you would know ?
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    Imagine if you would work on the business
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    on some business that
    you want to develop every day for an hour.
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    Imagine how further along
    you will go and get?
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    So drive me nuts because we have
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    when people say we don't have the time.
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    We have 24 hours a day.
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    We sleep 6 hours a day.
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    So that gives you still 18 hours.
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    There's someone shaking
    their head out here in front
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    they say probably
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    I don't sleep 6 hours I sleep 8 hours, right?
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    Well just sleep faster.
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    So we have 18 hours a day.
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    The average person works around
    8 to 10 hours.
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    So let's assume it's 10 hours
    so if you have 8 hours left
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    then you travel around an hour a day
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    maybe 2 hours a day.
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    So now you have still 6 hours left.
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    So what do you do with your 6 hours?
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    What do you do with your 6 hours?
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    Maybe eat a little bit
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    maybe shmooze a little bit
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    talk a little bit to people
    and all that stuff.
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    But you can see how much time there is available
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    If you organize your day.
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    So you've got to work hard.
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    I mean let me tell you something
    when I went to America
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    I went to college.
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    I went and worked out 5 hours a day
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    and I was working in construction
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    because in those days in bodybuilding
    there was no money.
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    I didn't have the money
    for food supplements ar anything
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    So I had to go to work.
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    So I worked in construction.
    I went to college
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    I worked out in the gym and at night
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    from 8 o'clock at night to 12 midnight
    I went to acting class
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    4 times a week.
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    So I did all that.
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    There was not one single minute
    that I wasted
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    and this is why I'm standing here today.
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    Now is the time
    to start building your marrige
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    Now is the time to start teaching
    and investing in your kids.
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    Now is the time
    to start piecing your money together
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    and getting yourself out if debt
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    Now is the time
    to start pursuing something greater.
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    Now is the time to start to building the vision
    that God put in your heart.
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    Now is the time
    to start saving up for the home.
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    Now is the time
    to start making those investments in yourself.
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    You cannot wait.
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    Don't wait another day,
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    don't wait another minute,
    don't wait another moment
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    NOW IS YOUR TIME.
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    How long are you going to complain
    about what you don't have?
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    How long are you going to complain
    about who didn't do it and
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    who didn't take care of you and
    who didn't call you and who don't like you
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    and what they said and what they think?
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    Who cares what they think? Who cares what they said ?
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    This is not about them
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    This is about ME.
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    This is about what God wants to do in me.
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    This is about the legacy
    that he wants me to build.
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    This is about the impact
    he wants me to make.
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    Why am I going to
    put my legacy to the side to
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    in order to appease a person
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    who don't know
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    who I really am.
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    You gotta get to a place
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    where you recognize
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    that I'm not just here passing time
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    I'm not just here just having fun
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    but I'm here to build legacy.
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    I'm here to make things happen.
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    I'm here to change the world.
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    NOW IS YOUR TIME.
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    My experience is with people that we're probably running at about 51% of our compacity
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    something I mean you can think about this yourselves
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    I often ask undergraduates:
    How many hours a day you waste?
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    or How many hours a week you waste?
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    The classic answer something like
    4 to 6 hours a day
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    You know, inefficient studying,
    watching things on Youtube
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    that not only do you want to watch
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    that you don't even care about
    that make you feel horrible
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    about watching after you're done.
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    That probably 4 hours right there.
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    You know, you think well
    that's 20-25 hours a week
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    It's 100 hours a month
    that's two and a half full work week.
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    It's half a year of the workweeks
    per year.
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    And if your time is worth
    20 dollars an hour which is a radical underestimate
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    it's probably more like 50
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    if you think about it
    in term of deferred wages
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    If you're wasting 20 hours a week,
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    your wasting 50,000 dollars a year
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    and you are doing that right now
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    and it's because you're
    young wasting 50,000 dollars a year
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    is a way bigger catastrophe
    than it would be for me to waste it
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    because I'm not going to last nearly as long.
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    And so if your life isn't everything
    it could be you could ask yourself
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    what would happen if
    you just stopped wasting the opportunity
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    that are in front of you.
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    You be who knows how much more efficient?
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    10 times more efficient,
    20 times more efficient
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    that's the Pareto distribution.
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    You have no idea how efficient
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    efficient people get.
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    It's completely it's off the charts.
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    The best thing you can do is
    teach to write
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    because there's no difference
    between that and thinking.
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    And one of these things that
    just blow me away about universities
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    is that no one ever tells students
    why they should write something.
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    So it's why you have to do an assignment ?
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    Why you are writing? Why you need a grade?
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    It's no you need to learn to think
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    because thinking makes you act
    effectively in the world.
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    thinking make you win the battle
    you undertakes and
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    those could be battles for good things.
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    If you can think and speak and write
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    you are absolutely deadly
    nothing can get in your way.
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    So that's why you learn
    to write it's like
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    Well, I can't believe that people aren't just told that
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    it's it's it's like
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    it's the most powerful weapon
    you can possibly provide someone with
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    and I mean I know lots of people
    who've been staggering successful
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    and watched them throughout of my life
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    I mean those people
    you don't want to have an argument with them
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    they'll just slash you in the pieces
    and they're not in a malevolent way
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    it's like if you are going to
    make your point and
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    they're going to make their point
    you better have your point organized
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    because otherwise, you're going to look like
    and be an absolute idiot
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    You're not going to get anywhere
    and if you can formulate your argument coherently
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    and make a presentation
    if you can speak to people
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    if you can lay out a proposal
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    God, people give you money,
    they give you opportunities
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    you have influence.
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    Make it schedule and stick to it.
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    So what the rule with the schedule?
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    It's not at the blood prison.
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    That's the first thing
    that people do wrong they say
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    Well I don't like to have followed a schedule
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    It's like well what kind of shedule are you setting up?
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    Well I have to do this then
    I have to do this then I have to do this
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    You know and then I just go play video games
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    because who wants to do all these things
    I have to do.
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    It's like wrong
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    Set the schedule up
    so that you have the day you want.
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    That's a trick.
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    It's like ok I've got tomorrow
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    If I was going to set it up it was
    the best possible day I could have.
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    Practically speaking
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    What would it look like?
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    When you schedule that and obviously
    there's a bit of responsibility
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    that's going to go along with that
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    because you have any sense
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    one of these things that you're going to insist upon is that
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    at the end of these days
    you're not in worse shape than you were
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    that than at the beginning of the day right
    because that's a stupid day.
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    If you have a bunch of those in a row you just dig
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    you know you dig yourself a hole and then bury yourself in
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    it's like, sorry that's just not
    a good strategy it's a bad strategy.
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    so maybe 20% of your day has to be
    responsibility and obligational
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    or maybe it's more than that depending on
    how far behind you are
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    but even that you can you can ask yourself
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    Well OK, I've got these responsibilities. I've scheduled the things
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    in what's the right ratio of responsibility to reward.
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    And you can ask yourself that
    just like you'd negotiate with someone
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    who is working for you it's like
    ok you got work tomorrow.
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    OK, So I want you to work tomorrow and you might say
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    OK Well what are you going to do for me
    that makes it likely that
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    I'll work for you well you can ask yourself that you know.
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    So maybe you do an hour responsibility
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    and then you play a video game for 15 minutes
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    I don't know whatever turns your crank man but
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    you know you have to negotiate with yourself
    and not tyrannize yourself
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    like you're negotiating with someone that you care for
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    that you would like to be productive and have a good life
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    and and that's how you make the schedule it's like
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    and then you look at the day and you think
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    well if I had that day that'd be good.
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    Great. You know, you you're useless and horrible
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    so you'll probably only hit it with about 70% accuracy
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    but that beats the hell out of the zero.
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    Right and If you hit even with
    50% accuracy another rule is well aim
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    for 51%the next week or 50
    and a half 50% for God's seek
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    because you're you're going to hit that the position
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    where things start to loop back
    positively and spiral you upward.
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    On my tombstone, I want the epitaph
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    be ashamed to die
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    until you have scored some victory
    for humanity.
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    Many people, look for meaning in life.
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    As though it's going to be under the rock.
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    Or behind a tree.
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    Oh there's my meaning!
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    You have more power than that.
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    You have the power
    to create meaning in your life.
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    Rather than passively look for it
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    Meaning to me is
    Do I know more about the world today
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    than I did yesterday?
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    That enhances meaning for me.
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    And if that accumulates and
    accrues daily in a month
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    you know way more than you did
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    than just that day later
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    so that you continute to grow.
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    My first question of me wasn't
    where do I find meaning.
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    It was how do I create meaning
    and that started early.
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    Early teens.
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    You can draw a line in the sand between people
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    who transgress
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    but do not hold power over you.
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    There's a famous quote from
    Martin Luther King
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    "You can only be ridden if your back is bent".
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    When I grew up
    it was very common to hear the phrase
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    "Stick and stones can break my bones
    but words will never hurt me"
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    I haven't heard that phrase in a long time.
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    I don't hear it resighted
    in the elementry schools.
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    What I think has happened over the year
    is we came to learn
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    as a civilization that words can be hurtful.
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    That an advance in mental health.
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    What I see on the flip of that coin however is
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    people are less able to deal with
    the very same people who around today
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    who were around back then
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    who are calling you names.
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    I can say from the era
    in which I grew up
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    I don't give a rat's ass
    what you say to me.
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    unless you are between me and some goal
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    then I'll have to navigate that someway.
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    If there's a racist person or a sexist person,
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    or a person with some kind of cultrual bias.
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    I want to know that actually,
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    I want you to say everything
    you want to say.
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    Then I'll say OK that's who you are,
    that's how your thinking.
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    So now what do I need to do
    because you're in my way.
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    Do I dig under you, go around you,
    leap over you?
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    Or do I go this way and
    then come out the other side
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    yeah, it's longer, it's more effort,
    it's more energy.
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    But on some level, it's sort of
    the same s different day.
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    I can't say you're being racist,
    you're being I that't not
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    you got to navigate it.
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    I think high school that's
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    where you learn how to deal with difficult people.
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    There are people who are nasty
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    you're going to have to navigate them.
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    There are people who you cannot interact with
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    for whatever reason or another
    their going to be in the cubical next to you
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    in your workplace.
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    So, I think we undervalue the total social pot
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    that
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    people are tossed into in their high school experience.
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    You want to ssau oh I could have learned more
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    but I had to deal with all these people.
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    Hey, having to deal with all these people
    is now in your portfolio.
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    Your motivation for the guests that you have in this couch
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    they, they had some vision statement
    and they have grit.
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    Okay, they got knocked down, they stood back up they tried another way
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    they got knocked down again. Then they were successfull
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    either measured by wealth or influence or
    or just joy in their lives passions.
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    For me, what I do for the public,
    80 plus percent of it
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    is driven by duty...
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    not by ambition.
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    That's how I view it.
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    If that were the case.
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    This is how I ended up
    hosting Cosmos in 2014, and Dream.
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    The widow of Carl Sagan.
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    hugely talented.
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    She approached me and said
    would you consider hosting cosmos?
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    I said I don't there's a dozen people
    maybe have a dozen others
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    who would jump at this opportunity
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    I don't need to do this
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    I really don't then
    I though about it and I said
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    Well I met Carl Sagan when I was 17.
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    I was applying to colleges
    he was at Cornell.
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    I had been excepted to Cornell
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    but didn't know what college I wanted to go to.
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    And the admissions office saw that I wasn't
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    totally in the moment there.
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    They had forwarded my application to him
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    For his reaction.
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    And he sent me a letter.
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    And I get this letter and I open it it says I understand you like
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    the same stuff I like do you want to come visit the campus
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    to help you decide if you want to go to Cornell?
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    He met me outside his building on a Saturda.
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    He did something really cool
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    he reached back grabbed a book off the shelf
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    it was one of his book
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    and he signed it to me
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    Neil Tyson future astronomer signed Carl.
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    Later in the day I'm to go back to New York
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    It begins to snow as it does often in December in Ithaca.
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    And he says, here's my home number
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    if the bus can't get through from the snow,
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    spend the night with my family and go back tomorrow.
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    I'm thinking who am I why I'm nobody
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    but I was somebody to hime.
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    And I said to myself
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    if I am ever as remotely famous as he is
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    I will treat students the way he has treated me.
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    Thanks for watching. Subtitle by Keres.
Title:
DON'T WAIT TO BE GREAT - Best Study Motivation Compilation for Success & Students
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Video Language:
English
Duration:
17:45

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