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Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.33,0:00:03.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You had an extra job or two
Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.04,0:00:07.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you're here
Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.31,0:00:09.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for a lot of you. \NEven though you made it up the hill,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.87,0:00:13.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You carry the baggage of rejection \Nwith you
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.42,0:00:15.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you're here.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.17,0:00:19.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So many people are waiting
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.50,0:00:21.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're waitting for things to be perfect.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.15,0:00:25.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're waiting for everyone to get\Nthemselves together.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.07,0:00:29.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine you read one hour a day
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.19,0:00:31.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about history
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.10,0:00:37.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How much you will learn after 365 hours\Nin one year?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.01,0:00:42.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about if you study about the history \Nof musicians of composers.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.38,0:00:44.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How much you would know?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.55,0:00:45.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You went to Indiana University?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.85,0:00:49.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right, now you got a lot of people\Nthat say forget about school.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.15,0:00:51.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're idiots.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.24,0:00:52.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you think they're idiots?\NThey're idiots
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.54,0:00:56.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I bet most of your people \Nwho've sat in this chair.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.25,0:00:58.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not about what college they went to
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.47,0:01:02.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's about their own initiative, their own drive,\Ntheir own ambitions, their own curiosity.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.32,0:01:07.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Purpose is an essential element of you.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.34,0:01:11.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is the reason you are on the planet\Nat this particular time in history.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.45,0:01:14.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're waiting for someone\Nto give you the opportunity
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.42,0:01:16.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're waiting for everything to line up
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.83,0:01:20.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're waiting for all the situations\Nto come together perfectly
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.41,0:01:22.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm telling you, you cannot wait.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.57,0:01:24.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You gotta start working right now.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.94,0:01:27.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whatever you choose for a career path
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.21,0:01:32.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remember the struggles along the way\Nare only meant to shape you
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.02,0:01:33.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for your purpose.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.97,0:01:36.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,YOUR LIFE MATTERS.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.06,0:01:38.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,YOUR VOICE MATTERS.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.02,0:01:40.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,YOUR NAME MATTERS.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.34,0:01:44.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes you need to feel the pain \Nand sting of defeat
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.55,0:01:49.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to activate the real passion and purpose \Nthat God predestined
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.50,0:01:50.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,inside of you.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.70,0:01:56.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine you read one hour a day
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.56,0:01:58.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about history.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.30,0:02:09.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How much you will learn after 365 hours\Nin one year?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.26,0:02:13.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about if you study about the history\Nof musicians of composers,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.88,0:02:16.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how much you would know ?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.26,0:02:22.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine if you would work on the business
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.02,0:02:25.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on some business that\Nyou want to develop every day for an hour.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.59,0:02:30.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine how further along \Nyou will go and get?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.15,0:02:34.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So drive me nuts because we have
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.13,0:02:36.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when people say we don't have the time.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.60,0:02:38.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have 24 hours a day.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.68,0:02:41.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We sleep 6 hours a day.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.59,0:02:46.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that gives you still 18 hours.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.06,0:02:47.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's someone shaking \Ntheir head out here in front
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.85,0:02:48.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they say probably
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.90,0:02:51.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't sleep 6 hours I sleep 8 hours, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.21,0:02:54.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well just sleep faster.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.100,0:03:01.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we have 18 hours a day.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.23,0:03:05.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The average person works around\N8 to 10 hours.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.88,0:03:08.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So let's assume it's 10 hours \Nso if you have 8 hours left
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.01,0:03:11.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you travel around an hour a day
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.77,0:03:13.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe 2 hours a day.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.74,0:03:16.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So now you have still 6 hours left.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.80,0:03:19.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what do you do with your 6 hours?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.61,0:03:21.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do you do with your 6 hours?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.62,0:03:23.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe eat a little bit
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.19,0:03:25.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe shmooze a little bit
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.41,0:03:28.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talk a little bit to people \Nand all that stuff.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.93,0:03:32.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you can see how much time there is available
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.25,0:03:35.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you organize your day.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.37,0:03:37.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you've got to work hard.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.33,0:03:45.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean let me tell you something\Nwhen I went to America
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.67,0:03:47.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went to college.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.84,0:03:51.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went and worked out 5 hours a day
Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.76,0:03:55.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I was working in construction
Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.72,0:04:00.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because in those days in bodybuilding \Nthere was no money.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.47,0:04:03.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't have the money\Nfor food supplements ar anything
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.86,0:04:05.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I had to go to work.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.49,0:04:08.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I worked in construction.\NI went to college
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.22,0:04:10.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I worked out in the gym and at night
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.74,0:04:14.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from 8 o'clock at night to 12 midnight \NI went to acting class
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.40,0:04:16.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,4 times a week.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.57,0:04:19.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I did all that.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.73,0:04:23.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was not one single minute \Nthat I wasted
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.83,0:04:27.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this is why I'm standing here today.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.93,0:04:42.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now is the time\Nto start building your marrige
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.13,0:04:45.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now is the time to start teaching\Nand investing in your kids.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.89,0:04:49.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now is the time \Nto start piecing your money together
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.03,0:04:50.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and getting yourself out if debt
Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.96,0:04:54.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now is the time \Nto start pursuing something greater.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.34,0:04:58.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now is the time to start to building the vision\Nthat God put in your heart.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.40,0:05:00.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now is the time \Nto start saving up for the home.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.96,0:05:04.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now is the time\Nto start making those investments in yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.82,0:05:06.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You cannot wait.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.13,0:05:07.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't wait another day,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.58,0:05:10.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't wait another minute,\Ndon't wait another moment
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.31,0:05:13.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,NOW IS YOUR TIME.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.58,0:05:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How long are you going to complain\Nabout what you don't have?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.81,0:05:21.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How long are you going to complain \Nabout who didn't do it and
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.81,0:05:25.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who didn't take care of you and \Nwho didn't call you and who don't like you
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.81,0:05:29.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what they said and what they think?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.66,0:05:35.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who cares what they think? Who cares what they said ?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.11,0:05:37.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is not about them
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.27,0:05:38.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is about ME.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.61,0:05:41.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is about what God wants to do in me.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.51,0:05:44.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is about the legacy \Nthat he wants me to build.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.82,0:05:47.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is about the impact\Nhe wants me to make.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.64,0:05:51.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why am I going to\Nput my legacy to the side to
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.10,0:05:53.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to appease a person
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.20,0:05:54.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who don't know
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.40,0:05:55.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who I really am.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.13,0:06:03.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You gotta get to a place
Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.12,0:06:05.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you recognize
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.29,0:06:08.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I'm not just here passing time
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.41,0:06:12.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not just here just having fun
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.41,0:06:15.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I'm here to build legacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.43,0:06:17.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm here to make things happen.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.75,0:06:20.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm here to change the world.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.11,0:06:22.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,NOW IS YOUR TIME.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.85,0:06:41.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My experience is with people that we're probably running at about 51% of our compacity
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.92,0:06:44.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something I mean you can think about this yourselves
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.36,0:06:48.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I often ask undergraduates: \NHow many hours a day you waste?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.21,0:06:50.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or How many hours a week you waste?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.52,0:06:53.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The classic answer something like \N4 to 6 hours a day
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.74,0:06:57.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, inefficient studying, \Nwatching things on Youtube
Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.66,0:06:59.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that not only do you want to watch
Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.34,0:07:01.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you don't even care about \Nthat make you feel horrible
Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.74,0:07:03.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about watching after you're done.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.44,0:07:05.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That probably 4 hours right there.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.69,0:07:09.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, you think well \Nthat's 20-25 hours a week
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.03,0:07:12.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's 100 hours a month\Nthat's two and a half full work week.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.43,0:07:15.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's half a year of the workweeks\Nper year.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.27,0:07:19.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if your time is worth \N20 dollars an hour which is a radical underestimate
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.27,0:07:21.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's probably more like 50
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.13,0:07:23.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you think about it \Nin term of deferred wages
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.67,0:07:25.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're wasting 20 hours a week,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.85,0:07:28.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your wasting 50,000 dollars a year
Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.32,0:07:30.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you are doing that right now
Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.29,0:07:33.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's because you're \Nyoung wasting 50,000 dollars a year
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.27,0:07:36.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a way bigger catastrophe\Nthan it would be for me to waste it
Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.05,0:07:38.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I'm not going to last nearly as long.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.31,0:07:41.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so if your life isn't everything \Nit could be you could ask yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.12,0:07:44.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what would happen if \Nyou just stopped wasting the opportunity
Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.77,0:07:46.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are in front of you.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.43,0:07:49.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You be who knows how much more efficient?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.16,0:07:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,10 times more efficient,\N20 times more efficient
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.70,0:07:54.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's the Pareto distribution.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.60,0:07:56.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have no idea how efficient
Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.49,0:07:57.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,efficient people get.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.68,0:08:00.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's completely it's off the charts.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.02,0:08:06.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The best thing you can do is\Nteach to write
Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.56,0:08:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because there's no difference\Nbetween that and thinking.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.04,0:08:12.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And one of these things that\Njust blow me away about universities
Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.12,0:08:16.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that no one ever tells students \Nwhy they should write something.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.56,0:08:23.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it's why you have to do an assignment ?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.05,0:08:25.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why you are writing? Why you need a grade?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.29,0:08:28.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's no you need to learn to think
Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.32,0:08:32.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because thinking makes you act\Neffectively in the world.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.09,0:08:34.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thinking make you win the battle \Nyou undertakes and
Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.57,0:08:36.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,those could be battles for good things.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.42,0:08:38.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you can think and speak and write
Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.20,0:08:42.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are absolutely deadly \Nnothing can get in your way.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.49,0:08:45.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that's why you learn \Nto write it's like
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.56,0:08:49.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, I can't believe that people aren't just told that
Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.82,0:08:51.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's it's it's like
Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.33,0:08:56.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's the most powerful weapon \Nyou can possibly provide someone with
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.62,0:08:59.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I mean I know lots of people \Nwho've been staggering successful
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.92,0:09:01.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and watched them throughout of my life
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.45,0:09:04.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean those people \Nyou don't want to have an argument with them
Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.19,0:09:08.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they'll just slash you in the pieces \Nand they're not in a malevolent way
Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.19,0:09:10.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's like if you are going to \Nmake your point and
Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.27,0:09:13.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're going to make their point \Nyou better have your point organized
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.95,0:09:18.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because otherwise, you're going to look like\Nand be an absolute idiot
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.89,0:09:23.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're not going to get anywhere \Nand if you can formulate your argument coherently
Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.05,0:09:26.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and make a presentation \Nif you can speak to people
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.49,0:09:28.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you can lay out a proposal
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.74,0:09:31.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God, people give you money,\Nthey give you opportunities
Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.83,0:09:34.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have influence.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.36,0:09:38.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Make it schedule and stick to it.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.12,0:09:40.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what the rule with the schedule?
Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.44,0:09:42.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not at the blood prison.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.38,0:09:44.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's the first thing\Nthat people do wrong they say
Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.54,0:09:46.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well I don't like to have followed a schedule
Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.88,0:09:49.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like well what kind of shedule are you setting up?
Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.20,0:09:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well I have to do this then \NI have to do this then I have to do this
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.70,0:09:54.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know and then I just go play video games
Dialogue: 0,0:09:54.34,0:09:56.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because who wants to do all these things\NI have to do.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.80,0:09:57.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like wrong
Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.79,0:10:01.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Set the schedule up \Nso that you have the day you want.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.22,0:10:03.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's a trick.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.30,0:10:05.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like ok I've got tomorrow
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.04,0:10:09.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I was going to set it up it was\Nthe best possible day I could have.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.93,0:10:11.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Practically speaking
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.42,0:10:13.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would it look like?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.29,0:10:16.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you schedule that and obviously \Nthere's a bit of responsibility
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.49,0:10:17.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's going to go along with that
Dialogue: 0,0:10:17.80,0:10:19.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you have any sense
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.49,0:10:22.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one of these things that you're going to insist upon is that
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.03,0:10:25.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at the end of these days\Nyou're not in worse shape than you were
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.38,0:10:28.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that than at the beginning of the day right \Nbecause that's a stupid day.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.02,0:10:31.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you have a bunch of those in a row you just dig
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.15,0:10:34.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know you dig yourself a hole and then bury yourself in
Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.08,0:10:37.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's like, sorry that's just not \Na good strategy it's a bad strategy.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.83,0:10:42.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so maybe 20% of your day has to be \Nresponsibility and obligational
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.44,0:10:45.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or maybe it's more than that depending on\Nhow far behind you are
Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.20,0:10:47.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but even that you can you can ask yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.57,0:10:51.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well OK, I've got these responsibilities. I've scheduled the things
Dialogue: 0,0:10:51.55,0:10:55.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in what's the right ratio of responsibility to reward.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.11,0:10:58.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you can ask yourself that \Njust like you'd negotiate with someone
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.34,0:11:00.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is working for you it's like\Nok you got work tomorrow.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.97,0:11:03.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,OK, So I want you to work tomorrow and you might say
Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.79,0:11:07.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,OK Well what are you going to do for me\Nthat makes it likely that
Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.23,0:11:10.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll work for you well you can ask yourself that you know.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:10.38,0:11:13.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So maybe you do an hour responsibility
Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.41,0:11:15.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then you play a video game for 15 minutes
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.49,0:11:18.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know whatever turns your crank man but
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.03,0:11:22.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know you have to negotiate with yourself \Nand not tyrannize yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.38,0:11:25.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like you're negotiating with someone that you care for
Dialogue: 0,0:11:25.51,0:11:28.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you would like to be productive and have a good life
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.07,0:11:30.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and and that's how you make the schedule it's like
Dialogue: 0,0:11:30.46,0:11:31.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then you look at the day and you think
Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.84,0:11:33.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well if I had that day that'd be good.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:33.95,0:11:36.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Great. You know, you you're useless and horrible
Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.78,0:11:39.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so you'll probably only hit it with about 70% accuracy
Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.59,0:11:42.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but that beats the hell out of the zero.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.41,0:11:47.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right and If you hit even with\N50% accuracy another rule is well aim
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.37,0:11:51.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for 51%the next week or 50 \Nand a half 50% for God's seek
Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.54,0:11:54.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you're you're going to hit that the position
Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.87,0:11:58.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where things start to loop back\Npositively and spiral you upward.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.72,0:12:04.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On my tombstone, I want the epitaph
Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.08,0:12:06.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be ashamed to die
Dialogue: 0,0:12:07.44,0:12:10.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until you have scored some victory\Nfor humanity.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.46,0:12:15.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Many people, look for meaning in life.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:15.57,0:12:18.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As though it's going to be under the rock.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:18.15,0:12:19.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or behind a tree.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:19.70,0:12:21.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh there's my meaning!
Dialogue: 0,0:12:21.100,0:12:24.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have more power than that.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:24.64,0:12:28.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have the power \Nto create meaning in your life.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.53,0:12:32.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rather than passively look for it
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.72,0:12:35.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Meaning to me is\NDo I know more about the world today
Dialogue: 0,0:12:35.98,0:12:37.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than I did yesterday?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.80,0:12:40.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That enhances meaning for me.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:40.90,0:12:44.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if that accumulates and\Naccrues daily in a month
Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.90,0:12:46.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know way more than you did
Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.46,0:12:47.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than just that day later
Dialogue: 0,0:12:47.90,0:12:49.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that you continute to grow.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.80,0:12:52.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My first question of me wasn't\Nwhere do I find meaning.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.80,0:12:55.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was how do I create meaning\Nand that started early.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.20,0:12:56.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Early teens.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.40,0:12:58.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can draw a line in the sand between people
Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.80,0:13:00.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who transgress
Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.86,0:13:03.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but do not hold power over you.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:03.04,0:13:05.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's a famous quote from \NMartin Luther King
Dialogue: 0,0:13:05.84,0:13:09.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You can only be ridden if your back is bent".
Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.94,0:13:13.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I grew up\Nit was very common to hear the phrase
Dialogue: 0,0:13:13.96,0:13:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Stick and stones can break my bones \Nbut words will never hurt me"
Dialogue: 0,0:13:17.58,0:13:19.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I haven't heard that phrase in a long time.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:19.97,0:13:23.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't hear it resighted\Nin the elementry schools.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:23.29,0:13:27.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I think has happened over the year \Nis we came to learn
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.22,0:13:29.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a civilization that words can be hurtful.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:29.93,0:13:33.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That an advance in mental health.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:33.29,0:13:36.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I see on the flip of that coin however is
Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.48,0:13:42.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people are less able to deal with \Nthe very same people who around today
Dialogue: 0,0:13:42.20,0:13:43.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who were around back then
Dialogue: 0,0:13:43.68,0:13:45.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who are calling you names.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:45.29,0:13:47.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can say from the era\Nin which I grew up
Dialogue: 0,0:13:47.26,0:13:49.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't give a rat's ass \Nwhat you say to me.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.09,0:13:51.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unless you are between me and some goal
Dialogue: 0,0:13:51.45,0:13:54.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then I'll have to navigate that someway.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:54.10,0:13:56.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If there's a racist person or a sexist person,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.99,0:14:00.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or a person with some kind of cultrual bias.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:01.24,0:14:03.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to know that actually,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:03.73,0:14:06.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want you to say everything\Nyou want to say.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:06.19,0:14:09.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then I'll say OK that's who you are, \Nthat's how your thinking.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:09.35,0:14:12.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So now what do I need to do\Nbecause you're in my way.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:12.68,0:14:16.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do I dig under you, go around you,\Nleap over you?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:16.04,0:14:19.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or do I go this way and \Nthen come out the other side
Dialogue: 0,0:14:19.46,0:14:22.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yeah, it's longer, it's more effort, \Nit's more energy.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:23.28,0:14:26.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But on some level, it's sort of\Nthe same s different day.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:26.32,0:14:28.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't say you're being racist, \Nyou're being I that't not
Dialogue: 0,0:14:28.86,0:14:30.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you got to navigate it.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:30.94,0:14:34.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think high school that's
Dialogue: 0,0:14:34.10,0:14:36.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you learn how to deal with difficult people.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:36.51,0:14:38.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are people who are nasty
Dialogue: 0,0:14:38.86,0:14:40.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're going to have to navigate them.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:40.84,0:14:44.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are people who you cannot interact with
Dialogue: 0,0:14:44.29,0:14:47.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for whatever reason or another\Ntheir going to be in the cubical next to you
Dialogue: 0,0:14:47.20,0:14:48.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in your workplace.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.38,0:14:52.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I think we undervalue the total social pot
Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.38,0:14:54.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that
Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.34,0:14:57.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people are tossed into in their high school experience.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.77,0:14:59.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You want to ssau oh I could have learned more
Dialogue: 0,0:14:59.56,0:15:01.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I had to deal with all these people.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:01.21,0:15:04.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hey, having to deal with all these people\Nis now in your portfolio.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:04.09,0:15:07.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your motivation for the guests that you have in this couch
Dialogue: 0,0:15:07.55,0:15:11.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they, they had some vision statement \Nand they have grit.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:12.14,0:15:15.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, they got knocked down, they stood back up they tried another way
Dialogue: 0,0:15:15.36,0:15:17.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they got knocked down again. Then they were successfull
Dialogue: 0,0:15:17.83,0:15:23.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,either measured by wealth or influence or\Nor just joy in their lives passions.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:23.93,0:15:27.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For me, what I do for the public,\N80 plus percent of it
Dialogue: 0,0:15:27.81,0:15:31.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is driven by duty...
Dialogue: 0,0:15:31.62,0:15:33.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not by ambition.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:33.75,0:15:35.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's how I view it.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:35.08,0:15:35.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If that were the case.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:35.99,0:15:39.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is how I ended up\Nhosting Cosmos in 2014, and Dream.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.99,0:15:42.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The widow of Carl Sagan.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:42.13,0:15:44.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hugely talented.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.26,0:15:47.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She approached me and said \Nwould you consider hosting cosmos?
Dialogue: 0,0:15:47.89,0:15:51.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said I don't there's a dozen people\Nmaybe have a dozen others
Dialogue: 0,0:15:51.95,0:15:54.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who would jump at this opportunity
Dialogue: 0,0:15:54.19,0:15:55.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't need to do this
Dialogue: 0,0:15:55.57,0:15:58.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I really don't then \NI though about it and I said
Dialogue: 0,0:15:58.11,0:16:00.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well I met Carl Sagan when I was 17.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:00.09,0:16:02.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was applying to colleges\Nhe was at Cornell.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:02.29,0:16:04.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had been excepted to Cornell
Dialogue: 0,0:16:04.05,0:16:06.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but didn't know what college I wanted to go to.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:06.18,0:16:08.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the admissions office saw that I wasn't
Dialogue: 0,0:16:08.80,0:16:10.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,totally in the moment there.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:10.26,0:16:12.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They had forwarded my application to him
Dialogue: 0,0:16:12.40,0:16:13.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For his reaction.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.77,0:16:15.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he sent me a letter.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:15.82,0:16:18.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I get this letter and I open it it says I understand you like
Dialogue: 0,0:16:18.88,0:16:22.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the same stuff I like do you want to come visit the campus
Dialogue: 0,0:16:22.30,0:16:24.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help you decide if you want to go to Cornell?
Dialogue: 0,0:16:24.50,0:16:28.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He met me outside his building on a Saturda.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:30.30,0:16:31.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He did something really cool
Dialogue: 0,0:16:31.46,0:16:32.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he reached back grabbed a book off the shelf
Dialogue: 0,0:16:32.88,0:16:34.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was one of his book
Dialogue: 0,0:16:34.02,0:16:35.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he signed it to me
Dialogue: 0,0:16:35.20,0:16:38.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Neil Tyson future astronomer signed Carl.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:38.32,0:16:40.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Later in the day I'm to go back to New York
Dialogue: 0,0:16:40.44,0:16:43.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It begins to snow as it does often in December in Ithaca.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:43.98,0:16:46.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he says, here's my home number
Dialogue: 0,0:16:46.33,0:16:49.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if the bus can't get through from the snow,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:49.48,0:16:52.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,spend the night with my family and go back tomorrow.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:52.04,0:16:55.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm thinking who am I why I'm nobody
Dialogue: 0,0:16:56.23,0:16:57.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I was somebody to hime.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:57.87,0:16:59.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I said to myself
Dialogue: 0,0:16:59.44,0:17:02.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if I am ever as remotely famous as he is
Dialogue: 0,0:17:02.23,0:17:05.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will treat students the way he has treated me.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:05.56,0:17:09.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thanks for watching. Subtitle by Keres.