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Don't Get Sidetracked | Joel Osteen

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    [Audience applauding]
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    [Joel] God bless you
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    it's great to be with you today and
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    I hope you'll stay connected with us
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    during the week. Our daily podcast,
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    or YouTube channel, social media,
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    and you can come visit us in person.
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    We'd love to have you be apart
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    of one of our services.
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    I like to start with something funny and
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    I heard about these brothers
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    ages 4 and 6.
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    They were spending the night
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    at their grandmothers house and
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    she told them before they went to bed
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    to make sure they said their prayers.
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    They went to their bedroom and
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    got down on their knees and
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    the youngest brother started praying
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    at the top of his lungs.
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    God, I pray for a new bicycle, pray for a
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    PlayStation. I pray for a puppy .
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    His brother stopped and said
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    Why are you screaming?
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    God is not deaf. He said I know that.
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    But grandmother is.
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    [Audience laughing]
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    Say it like you mean it. This is my bible
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    I am what it says I am
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    I have what it says I have
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    I can do what it says I can do.
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    Today I will be taught the word of God.
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    I boldly confess, my mind is alert,
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    my heart is receptive,
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    I will never be the same.
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    In Jesus name. God bless you.
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    I want to talk to you today about
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    not getting sidetracked. God has a best
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    track for all of our lives.
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    A path that leads to our divine purpose.
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    It's filled with opportunity, favor and
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    protection.
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    But along the way their will be forces
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    trying to get us off course.
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    That will compromise.
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    Hanging around the wrong people, living
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    offended. These are all distractions to
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    keep us from our destiny.
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    The enemy cannot stop your purpose
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    but if he can get you sidetracked,
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    entangled, fighting battles that
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    don't matter. Busy doing good things but
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    not the best. Then he can keep you
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    from your purpose.
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    Proverbs 4 says "look straight ahead,
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    stick to the path and stay safe.
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    Do not get sidetracked."
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    God knew there would be all these
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    opportunities to get off course. If your
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    going to reach your highest potential
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    you have to recognize what's a
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    distraction and what's important.
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    What you should spend your time on,
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    what's valuable, what's making you better,
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    causing you to grow and what's dragging
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    you down. Causing you to compromise.
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    Paul said in Ephesians "To make the most
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    of your time, not living vague, but with
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    purpose, in every step."
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    Time is one of the most valuable things
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    that you have.
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    Once we live this day, you can never
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    get it back.
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    Just like you spend your money, you are
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    spending your time.
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    But your time is more valuable than money.
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    You can make more money but you can't
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    make more time.
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    Are you investing your time, living with
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    purpose, on course, pursing your dreams
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    or are you wasting your time?
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    Living vague, distracted playing on
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    social media, taking the easy way out.
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    This day is a gift from God,
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    We have a responsibility to live focused,
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    wisely, making the most of it.
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    On a regular basis, you need to evaluate
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    how you're spending your time.
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    Are you on that best path?
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    Honoring God. Doing what he put in your
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    heart. Or have you gotten sidetracked?
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    Holding a grudge, mad at that
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    family member, jealous of that coworker.
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    Trying to outperform them. Hanging around
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    friends that bring out the work in you.
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    The fact is we've all gotten of course
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    at times. Made mistakes, been distracted.
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    The good news is that you can get back on
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    course. It's not too late. You haven't
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    gotten too far off. You can still become
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    who you were created to be.
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    Now you have to do your part and make
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    a course correction.
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    Recognize what is a distraction.
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    An entanglement, what's got you busy
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    spinning wheels, but not going anywhere.
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    Make the necessary adjustments.
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    You have a destiny to fulfill.
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    There's a calling on your life.
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    An assignment for you to accomplish.
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    How you spend your time, will determine
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    whether you fulfill that best plan, see
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    God do more than you can imagine or
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    whether you get stuck and having to settle
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    for a life mediocrity.
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    In the scripture, Samson's birth was
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    predicted by the prophets. His mother was
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    bearing and an angel appeared.
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    Said she would bear a son and
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    He would leave the Israelites.
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    That his hair was never to be cut.
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    Long hair was a sign that he was dedicated
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    to God.
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    She gave birth to Samson and I can imagine
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    as a little boy. She told him Samson
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    there is a calling on your life.
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    An angel appeared to me, you're going
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    to do something great.
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    He'd heard this since he was a child.
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    One time when he was a young man
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    he was walking down a road
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    and this Lion attacked him
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    The scripture says "The spirit of the Lord
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    powerfully took control of him."
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    He ripped the Lion apart with his
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    bare hands.
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    That was the first time he recognized
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    there was something different about him.
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    He knew he had this incredible calling.
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    That God had raised him up to save his
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    people.
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    Whenever you have a great assignment
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    the enemy will always come with
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    distractions, temptations, opportunities
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    to compromise. He will bring people
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    to try to bait you into conflict.
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    That is not a part of your destiny.
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    His goal is to get you sidetracked,
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    of course. Where you're not focusing on
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    what your called to do. You're entangled
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    in things that don't matter.
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    You may wonder why people come against you
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    and you struggle with that same tempation,
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    you don't feel like being disciplined.
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    It's because there is a great calling on
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    your life.
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    The enemy would leave you alone if he
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    didn't know you were a threat.
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    He's not fighting you for where you are,
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    he is fighting you for where you are going
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    He knows there is greatness in you.
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    Sometimes he can see our potential better
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    than we can.
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    He knows you're a giant killer,
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    a history maker, your destined to take
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    your family to new levels.
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    So, what's his strategy?
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    Get you distracted, jealous, compromised,
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    busy doing things that are not a part
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    of your destiny.
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    You would think Samson that since
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    he had this supernatural strength.
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    He heard about the angel prophesize his
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    birth. He would go out of his way to make
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    good decisions, be responsible with God
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    had given him.
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    He let his guard down, started hanging
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    around the wrong people. He married a
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    girl from the city of Tenma.
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    She was a philistine. The philistine's
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    were the ones oppressing the Israelites.
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    He was supposed to deliver the from
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    the philistines instead he's sleeping with
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    a philistine. He had this incredible gift
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    all this power. What does he do?
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    He starts telling riddles to the enemy.
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    He made a bet, if you can figure out
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    my riddle. I'll give you 60 white robes
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    and if not, you give me 60 robes.
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    Playing games, not focused on the
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    destiny, he was called to.
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    This led to all kinds of conflict.
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    He killed 1,000 philistines.
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    He tore the gates of the city and carried
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    them off. They couldn't figure out how
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    to stop him.
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    He fell in love with another philistine
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    women named Delilah.
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    She kept asking him about where
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    his power came from. He would make up
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    things and tease her.
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    Would never tell her the secret was his
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    long hair.
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    she nagged him and nagged him
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    and nagged him. A man can only take so
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    much nagging that he finally gave in.
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    The philistines cut his hair while he was
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    sleeping.
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    They came to capture him.
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    He stood ready to fight but this time
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    there was no supernatural strength.
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    No power to overcome.
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    He had lost what God had given him.
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    I can imagine many times along the way
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    he heard a still small voice saying
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    come on Samson get back on course,
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    quit playing around with your destiny.
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    Be responsible for what I entrusted
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    you with.
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    God will always give us opportunities
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    to have a course correction.
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    He doesn't hold our faults against us
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    he doesn't say man you're done, you
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    made too many mistakes. There will come a
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    time where that window of grace
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    will close.
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    Where if you're not going to be
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    responsible with the gifts, the favor, the
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    opportunity. God will force things
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    to change.
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    Doesn't mean you're not going to have
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    another chance but he is not going
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    to let you stay of course
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    and be comfortable.
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    Just ask Jonah, sitting in the belly
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    of a whale.
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    Samson could always count on this
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    supernatural strength.
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    Thinking I can tell riddles, I can
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    compromise, hangout with the enemy,
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    no big deal. I've got a secret weapon.
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    But Paul said I do not frustrate the
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    grace of God.
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    God will never run out of grace,
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    never run out of mercy but if you take it
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    for granted. It may not be there in the
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    same way.
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    Samson's story is not in the scripture to
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    depress us. It actually has a good ending.
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    It's there to challenge us, to make
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    course corrections.
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    Pay attention to the still small voice.
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    That thing that is bother your conscience
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    You know that friend is not good for you
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    or you need to spend more time with
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    your children. Less on the computer,
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    or you need to ignore that coworker that
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    gets on your nerves.
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    Not let is upset you everyday.
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    That's the enemy trying to get you
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    sidetracked. You don't have time for that.
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    The angel may have not prophesized your
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    birth like Samson but before you were
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    formed in your mother's womb, the most
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    high God knew you and planned out your day
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    he has given you gifts, talents,
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    opportunities. Are you making the most of
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    each day? Spending your time wisely,
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    or have you gotten sidetracked?
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    Like Samson playing with the enemy,
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    compromising, not serious about your gifts
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    This is time for course correction.
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    To get focused, to be on purpose, to make
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    decisions that honor God.
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    Life is going by so fast it seems like
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    just yesterday I graduated from
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    high school. I look up now I'm 39
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    years old. [Audience laughing]
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    We don't have time to be distracted.
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    We have a purpose to fulfill.
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    It's interesting what Jesus told about the
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    talents. One man had 1, another had 2,
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    and the 3rd had 5.
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    They all went out and doubled what
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    they had.
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    Expect the man with 1. He was afraid
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    and hid his talent.
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    The owner said take from him the one
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    and give to the one who has five.
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    The scripture says the man who has used
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    well, what has given him.
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    The point is if you don't use well
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    what's been given to you.
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    Eventually it will be taken away.
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    That is what happened to Samson.
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    He didn't fulfill the best plan.
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    Having his eyes gouged out, the enemy
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    making fun of him. That was not God's best
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    I don't want us to come to the end of life
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    and be like Samson.
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    Man, I made it but were beat up,
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    broke, addicted, lonely.
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    That is not your destiny.
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    Samson would have had a different story
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    if he had not gotten sidetracked.
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    This should stir us up to stay focused.
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    To stay on course, to deal with things
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    that we know are not right.
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    There is no shame in getting of course,
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    were human, we make mistakes.
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    There is shame in staying off course.
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    No matter what you've done, how much
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    time you wasted.
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    You can still get back on course.
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    You are in a window of grace today.
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    You have not missed your chance, you
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    would not be hearing this if God wasn't
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    giving you the mercy, the grace, and the
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    power to make changes.
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    Let's not be a Samson, have all this power
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    favor, anointing, and then get
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    sidetracked.
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    Waste our time, rather than invest it.
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    If you will use well what God has given
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    you. You know what will happen?
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    God will give you more.
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    When he can trust you to be a good
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    steward of your gifts, time, and
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    you stay focused. You get rid of
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    distractions. He will take you further
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    than you ever dreamed.
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    But sometimes it's not the major things,
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    like way we got way off course like Samson
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    It can be little things like time
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    and energy.
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    Jealous of a coworker, competing with them
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    , trying to prove your worth and prove
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    your talent.
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    If you live with that proving mentality,
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    it's like you're on a treadmill that's
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    never going to stop.
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    Because there will always be someone more
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    talented, more attractive, more successful
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    That's a distraction. You're not running
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    their race. The only person you should
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    compete with is yourself.
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    Have a goal to be better next year,
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    than you are right now. Be healthier,
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    smarter, kinder, more generous, to be
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    closer to God.
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    You'll never reach your potential if your
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    competing with others, basing your
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    worth and value on how you measure
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    up to them.
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    Successful people are so focused on what
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    their doing, they don't have time to look
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    around at others.
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    One translation of Proverbs 4 says
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    "Don't look to the left or to the right,
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    stay focused on the goal."
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    Quit competing, quit comparing, and
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    run your race."
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    I talked to a gentleman after service and
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    he told how a relationship he was in
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    didn't last. He had given it his best but
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    the woman had other ideas and walked
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    away. Broke his heart, so angry and bitter
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    I realize that's very painful.
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    Things happen in life that we
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    don't understand. There is a time where we
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    have to heal and give ourselves grace to
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    get strong again.
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    You can't let a season of mourning
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    turn into a lifetime of mourning.
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    If you don't let it go, it will poison
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    your life.
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    He was so upset, I thought it happened
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    a mother ago. I asked him when it happened
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    He said this happened in 1997.
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    I didn't say anything but I calculated in
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    my mind. 2007, 2017, 2020.
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    That was 27 years ago. Yes, we all have
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    hurts. Disappointments, bad breaks but at
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    some point you have to move on with your
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    life. The enemy would love to use that
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    hurt to get you sidetracked.
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    To where you live bitter, bitter, chip
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    on your shoulder, never expecting
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    anything good. The problem with not
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    letting it go is that it's going to poison
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    the next relationship.
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    God said he would give you
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    beauty for those ashes.
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    I've learned you have to let go of the
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    ashes before you'll see the beauty.
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    You're not making the most of each day
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    if you're holding on to unforgiveness
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    trying to pay people back. They hurt you
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    once, don't let them continue to hurt you.
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    It takes a lot of emotional energy
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    to think about what they did and how
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    that wasn't right. You need that energy
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    to love the people God had given you now.
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    To play with your children, to purse your
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    dreams.
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    Maybe the course correction for you is
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    to forgive the person who did you wrong.
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    Forgive your parents for what they
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    did not give you.
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    Forgive the business partner that cheated
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    you.
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    Life's too short to carry around
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    the bitterness.
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    You'll always have these offences, people
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    saying things that aren't true, somebody
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    walks away. You can't stop that from com-
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    ing but you don't have to let it stop you.
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    You don' have to get sidetracked, you can
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    stay on the best path and trust God to
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    make it up to you.
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    Years ago, I was driving with a friend
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    to his house after we came from the gym.
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    He invited some of us over and I jumped in
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    the car to ride with him. He had a real
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    nice sports car. Kept it super clean.
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    On the way to his house, I noticed that
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    he took the long way. 3 or 4 miles out of
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    the way. I asked him why?
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    He said my ex-girlfriend lives on this
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    street.
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    I always drive by to make sure she sees
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    what she missed out on.
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    They had been broken up for years but
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    he was still driving by every chance
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    he got.
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    Trying to prove he was worthy, successful
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    and trying to prove he could make it
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    without her.
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    He couldn't see it but he was distracted.
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    spending time and energy on something
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    that didn't matter. Don't let that be you.
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    Are you using well what God has given you?
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    Or have you gotten sidetracked?
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    Trying to prove to people who you are
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    jealous of that friend, offended by that
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    coworker. Your time is too valuable for
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    that.
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    The funny thing about my friend is that he
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    found out later that his ex-girlfriend
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    had moved to another state.
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    [Audience laughing]
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    He had been driving by that house 2 years
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    and she wasn't even there.
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    God has a sense of humor.
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    My prayer is God show us any areas
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    that we need to have a course correction,
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    where we don't realize.
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    Verse Samual 25. David and his 6 men were
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    living out in the countryside. This is
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    when Saul was chasing David.
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    There was a wealthy man named Nabel that
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    lived right next door. He had thousands
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    of sheep and cattle. David and his army
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    had been protecting Nabel by just being
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    that area. When bandits came and they saw
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    David's forces, they would naturally back
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    down. It was time for sheering the sheep,
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    the harvest season. David sent
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    messengers to Nabel since they have
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    watched over his property.
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    Nabel what very rude and harsh.
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    His name means fool and he lived up to it.
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    He said who is this man David?
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    I don't even know him. You tell him I am
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    not going to give him a penny.
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    He insulted David. When the men came back
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    with report David was furious.
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    He told his men to pack up their
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    belongings. They were going to go
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    take care of Nabel.
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    Your not supposed to fight every battle.
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    Many of the things that come against us
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    are simply distractions. If that battle
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    is not between you and your destiny
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    you need to ignore it.
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    That's the enemy trying to get
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    you sidetracked.
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    Involved in conflict that doesn't matter.
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    You have to ask yourself, are there any
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    spoils? If you win is it going to move you
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    towards your purpose?
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    or is it just going to feed your ego?
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    Make you feel better.
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    You don't have time to respond to every
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    critic. To try to straighten out
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    every coworker, make that friend stop
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    saying things that aren't true.
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    One of the enemy's favorite tools is
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    to bait you into conflict.
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    Get you stirred up. Don't fall into
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    that trap.
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    You're time in valuable, your energy,
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    your emotions. You have to be selective
  • 20:07 - 20:08
    what you give that to.
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    If you make the mistake of fighting
  • 20:11 - 20:11
    every battle.
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    Your not going to have the time or
  • 20:13 - 20:17
    the emotional energy to reach your purpose
  • 20:17 - 20:19
    The scripture says God will silence
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    the lying lips.
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    If you ignore it, God will take care of
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    your enemies.
  • 20:24 - 20:27
    David headed toward Nabel's house
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    so upset, full speed ahead.
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    About to make a mistake, that would affect
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    his destiny. Here's how good God is
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    Nabel's wife met David on the road with
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    all kinds of food and provision.
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    She bowed down before him. In verse 24
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    she said David, you were called to be the
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    king of Israel. Why would you even fight
  • 20:48 - 20:51
    with this fool? Don't let this needless
  • 20:51 - 20:53
    battle be a blemish on your record.
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    Notice she called it a needless battle.
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    He knew it was a distraction. David came
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    to his senses. He said Abagael the Lord
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    God Isreal has sent you to me today
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    for you have not kept me from
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    carrying out vengeance, not one of your
  • 21:10 - 21:13
    family members would be alive.
  • 21:13 - 21:15
    We're all going to encounter Nabel's
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    in life.
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    People that are rude, hard to along with,
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    stir up trouble. I'll ask you what
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    Abigail asked David.
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    Why are fighting with a fool?
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    Why are you in conflict with someone
  • 21:27 - 21:29
    that is not between you and your destiny?
  • 21:29 - 21:32
    They are a distraction. Trying to get you
  • 21:32 - 21:34
    off course. Wasting valuable
  • 21:34 - 21:37
    time and energy that you need to for
  • 21:37 - 21:38
    your dreams.
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    Had Abigail not intervened and kept David
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    out of that conflict.
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    We might not be talking about David
  • 21:45 - 21:48
    God will always send you an Abigail
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    to warn you when you're about to get
  • 21:50 - 21:51
    sidetracked.
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    Maybe today, I'm that Abigail.
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    God sent me to remind you not to get
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    baited into conflict.
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    You could be upset, offended, trying
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    to pay them back. All that is going
  • 22:04 - 22:06
    to do is get you off course.
  • 22:06 - 22:08
    and keep you from the great things God
  • 22:08 - 22:09
    has in store.
  • 22:09 - 22:11
    What they say can't stop your purpose.
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    They may be loud, jealous, noisy. Their
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    just a Nabel.
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    You keep running your race, focused on
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    what God's called you to do.
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    And got will take care of the Nabel's in
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    your life.
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    [Audience applauding ]
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    Elijah in the scripture had an assistant
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    named Elijah. He left his family business
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    as a young man to take care of Elijah.
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    He served him faithfully through the years
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    When Elijah was about to pass, he asked
  • 22:39 - 22:42
    Elijah what he wanted. Elijah said
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    a double portion of his spirt.
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    That is what he received.
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    There are twice as many miracles recorded
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    for Elijah than Elijah.
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    Eljah had an assistant name Ghazia.
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    He served Elijah year after year.
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    Everything was going great. He was next
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    in line to do amazing things.
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    Being mentored by this great prophet.
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    One day a Capitan of the Syrian Army
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    came to Elijah. He had leprosy.
  • 23:11 - 23:14
    Elijah told him to go wash in the
  • 23:14 - 23:16
    Jordan River seven times and he would
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    be healed.
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    When he did, his skin was perfectly normal
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    He came back to Elijah so grateful,
  • 23:22 - 23:25
    so happy. He tried to pay him.
  • 23:25 - 23:27
    Do something to show his gratitude but
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    Elijah wouldn't take it.
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    He knew it was God that healed him
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    and not him.
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    The Capitan pleaded with him and said
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    please let me leave you some gold
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    or silver or something to help you.
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    Again, Elijah refused. Well, Ghazia
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    was there overhearing all this.
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    Captain and his entourage headed back home
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    Ghazia snuck out of the camp without
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    Elijah knowing. He caught up with him,
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    they were so surprised and
  • 23:55 - 23:56
    said what's wrong?
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    He said nothing, but we had some
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    unexpected guests show up. Elijah changed
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    his mind and would like some of those
  • 24:02 - 24:03
    gifts that you offered.
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    He got the money and headed back to the
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    house.
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    Thinking nobody knew anything but God sees
  • 24:09 - 24:12
    everything. He is the one that controls
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    the universe. Promotion doesn't come
  • 24:14 - 24:16
    from people, it comes from God.
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    Elijah called him in and said Ghazia
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    where have you been?
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    He said nowhere, I've just been here
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    hanging out.
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    The scripture says immediately,
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    Ghazia's skin was filled with leprosy.
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    What's interesting is you never read
  • 24:33 - 24:35
    anything more about Ghazia in
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    the scripture.
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    We hear all about Elijah, how great he was
  • 24:39 - 24:42
    Elijah and all the miracles he performed.
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    Ghazia was next in line. He should have
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    had 4 times the anointing of Elijah.
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    But distractions can keep you from your
  • 24:50 - 24:51
    purpose.
  • 24:52 - 24:55
    Being sidetracked can stop your destiny.
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    Ghazia thought man if I can get a few of
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    these gifts, without anybody knowing.
  • 25:01 - 25:03
    That will put me way ahead.
  • 25:03 - 25:05
    He didn't realize, God would have blessed
  • 25:05 - 25:08
    him in much greater ways by being a person
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    of honor.
  • 25:09 - 25:12
    Staying on that high road.
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    My father had a message about Ghazia
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    called the man who could've been.
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    Don't miss the greatness God put in you
  • 25:20 - 25:22
    because you got sidetracked.
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    Listen to the still small voice, pay
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    attention when your conscience is
  • 25:26 - 25:29
    bothering you. Learn to deal with
  • 25:29 - 25:31
    those things God brings to life.
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    We're not going to be here forever, let's
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    make the most of each day.
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    Well Joel, I think it's too late for me.
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    I'm like Ghazia, I think I missed
  • 25:41 - 25:43
    my chance. Let me show you
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    the beauty of our God.
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    Samson made mistakes year after year,
  • 25:47 - 25:49
    wasn't a good steward with what God gave
  • 25:49 - 25:52
    him, ended up lying, in captivity.
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    The scripture says, the spirt of God
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    came on Samson one more time.
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    Samson defeated more Philistines in his
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    death than he did his whole life.
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    That's what happens when you get back
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    on course.
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    God doesn't hold your mistakes against
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    you. Is there any area you need to make
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    a course correction?
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    Holding on to unforgiveness, trying
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    to prove your worth. Like Samson
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    playing around with your gift.
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    Don't go another week like that, you put
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    it off a week. It will turn into a year.
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    A year into twenty years.
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    You can get back on course today.
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    God's mercy, his grace is available.
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    You just have to tap into it.
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    If you do this, I believe and declare
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    God's going to help you get back
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    on the best path for your life.
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    The favor, the ability, the blessing.
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    You will fulfill your purpose and
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    become all you were created to be.
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    In Jesus name
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    and if you receive it, can you say amen
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    I'd like to give you an opportunity to
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    make Jesus the Lord of your life.
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    Would you pray with me?
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    Just say, Lord Jesus I repent of my sins
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    come into my heart, I make you my
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    Lord and Savior.
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    If you prayed that simple prayer,
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    we believe you got born again.
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    We'd love to send you some free
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    information on your new walk with the
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    Lord. You can text the number on the
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    screen or go to the website.
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    I hope you'll get into a good bible
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    based church.
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    and keep God first place.
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Don't Get Sidetracked | Joel Osteen
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