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There's something I've been thinking about recently -
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we have to check our hearts
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because in a world that's
ever increasingly divisive,
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polemic, do we find our
hearts slowly slipping
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into being judgemental?
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Divisive? finding it difficult to forgive?
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finding it difficult to be compassionate?
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judging people?
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And I think that's one of the greatest
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temptations that we face,
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to put ourselves in the position of judge
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whereas that's not a
position that God gives us
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as children of God.
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Whilst we're on this earth,
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it's not our place to judge
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because God is the judge.
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And I think so many of us,
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maybe consciously or subconsciously
find ourselves slipping
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into that judgemental position.
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What can you say about this?
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What is judgement?
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Well, when we judge someone's motives
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or think that we know the reason
why someone does something
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and say whether it's good or bad.
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Thank you for saying motive.
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We need to understand
when it comes to judgement,
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Jesus' standard of judgement is different
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from man's judgement.
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That the Lord does not judge what we say,
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what we do on face value.
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The Lord always looks at our heart
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to judge the motivation of
why we are doing this.
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And that's the purpose
that brings God's approval
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or the reproof of God in our actions
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and decisions every day.
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As you said today,
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God is all about relationship.
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We should not forget that the heart
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of the matter of this Bible is to restore
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the relationship between God and man.
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And that's the love relationship.
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Absolutely.
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Not only between God and man,
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to other fellow human beings.
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I say mankind.
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Today relationships are
under repair, everywhere.
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Not only towards God,
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but towards our neighbour,
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towards our brothers, towards our sisters,
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towards our friends and towards those
who are not our friends.
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Why we are saying this.
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Jesus said, ‘you should
love the Lord your God,
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with all your heart,
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with all your mind, with
all your strength and?
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Love your neighbour as yourself’.
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Good - as yourself.
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That love starts first
with the love of God.
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And that's the love of God in us,
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as the Bible says ‘it’s poured
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by the Holy Spirit in our heart’.
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Romans 5:5, that overflows.
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If I have a cup of water,
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you cannot quench my
thirst with a cup of water.
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You share it with me, that's why Jesus said.
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If you know who is speaking to you
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and what is the gift of God in John 4,
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you would've asked me and I will give you?
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Living water.
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Living waters.
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And the water I give you will?
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Well up within you.
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Will well up, overflow
to everlasting life.
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Oh my God!
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God has set a table before us
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and He wants us to be blessed abundantly
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so we can have something
to share with others.
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It means our request, when we come before God
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should not be self-centred.
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If we ask for God's sake,
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the blessing will overflow.
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If you ask for God's sake,
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God knows you are not
asking just for you,
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but for your neighbour.
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That means one of the major obstacles
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is actually selfishness.
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Absolutely.
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And that makes us also
want to judge people.
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That is a problem we have.
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That's why James says,
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when we come into God's presence,
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we ask and we don't
receive because we ask-
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Wrongly.
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Wrongly, why?
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We ask for selfish,
classic, and material reasons.
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The motivation God approves
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is when the reason behind the
action is for God's sake.
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And it is only God that
can see that motive.
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We can't see people’s motives.
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God can only see it
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and that's what is important
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because we are not asking man,
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we are asking God.
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You want God to hear you.
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We want God to answer our prayers.
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So remember, when we come
to Him with our lips,
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He listens to our heart.
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Can we go to Matthew 15:8
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that will lay down the
principle of this message.
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Matthew 15:8.
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Let's listen to what Jesus Christ,
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the righteous judge said.
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But don't forget the Bible calls Jesus,
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the judge of the living and of the dead.
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Let's listen to the judgement of Christ.
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"These people draw near
to me with their mouth
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and honour me with their lips,
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but their heart is far from me."
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"And in vain they worship me,
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teaching as doctrines,
the commandments of men."
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In vain we pray,
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in vain we ask when we
come with our mouth alone,
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but our hearts are far from God.
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How sad that is,
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that people think they're worshiping
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but actually it's in vain.
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Yes, because our heart is far from God.
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Means when we come to God,
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we should bring our heart
first before our mouth.
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We should not be too quick to speak.
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When you bring your heart,
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when you engage your heart before God,
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the scriptures say we
don't know what to ask.
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We don't know what to pray for.
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Romans 8:26-27.
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That's why the Holy Spirit intercedes.
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Absolutely.
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In words we cannot...
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Yes, go ahead.
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Those we cannot.
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We cannot comprehend.
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Thank you.
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When the Holy Spirit comes,
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He will take you to God's presence first
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and then He will help you
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how to pray and what to pray for.
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We often hear that prayer changes things.
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That's not entirely true.
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Yes.
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Prayer changes us.
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Prayer changes us and?
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And faith changes things.
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Faith causes things to happen.
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Let's break that one down.
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Prayer changes me.
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Because it takes our focus off ourselves.
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We all enter God's presence
because we have trouble.
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Because nobody comes to
Jesus in comfort, am I right?
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Very often we come because of our burden.
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But the Bible says don't be too quick
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to ask for solution.
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Try to find out what God
is saying in the matter.
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That's why we bring all
burdens before Jesus to God
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and ask Him to know God's
opinion on the matter.
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This is God's opinion on the matter
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that will reveal His will on the matter.
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Jesus walking towards the
cross was not for Himself,
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it was for you and I, for humankind
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because He said, "Nobody takes my life,
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I lay it down myself.
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I have the power to give my
life and to take it back.
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That's the command of my father."
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So it is the motivation that is important.
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When Peter heard what Jesus said,
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"I'm going to Jerusalem,
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they will arrest me,
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they will spit on me
and they will kill me.
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On the third day I will rise."
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Peter said, "What? God forbid.
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It will never happen to you."
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Why? selfishness.
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Peter was focusing on
himself, on the natural side
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with emotion, with love for Jesus.
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But Jesus was thinking
the thoughts of God,
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not the thoughts of man.
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So when we judge situations
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and others from a human point of view,
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it's actually a selfish
attitude, is that right?
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Absolutely, because very often
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we judge people because we have a mindset,
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a negative mindset,
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pre-judgement against others
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and that is not good.
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Remember in John 8:11,
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when they brought the
adulterous woman before Jesus.
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The Pharisees, the Sadducees,
the teachers of the law
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who brought that woman
to Jesus for judgement.
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That's why they brought her for judgement.
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Because the law of Moses said,
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anybody who committed sin
must be stoned to death.
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So their decision was made already.
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They had a prejudgement
on that woman already.
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They judged her in their hearts already.
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They just wanted confirmation.
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And when they brought her to Jesus, they said,
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"Master, the law of Moses said,
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if we catch any person in
the act of doing adultery,
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that such a person should
be stoned to death."
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That's what the law of Moses said.
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They were trying to trick Him.
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You, what do you say?
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So when we take the
situation on literal senses,
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on the letter, you are going to stone the woman.
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That's what the letter says.
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That's why even a judge,
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when you go to any court today,
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no judge will go by the face value.
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They do investigation to find out
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what was the motivation of the person.
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You will never condemn any person
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if you learn the person
has a psychiatric problem.
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The first thing is if the person has his own mind.
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Has he done this act wilfully,
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consciously with all of his mind?
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That's when guilt can come.
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Because if the person is out of his mind,
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because he has a psychiatric problem,
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you cannot say he expresses will.
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He doesn't know what he's doing.
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So rather than judge
him, and take him to prison,
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they would take him to
hospital for treatment
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and that was the right judgement, right?
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But in the case we're talking about,
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when they brought the woman to Jesus,
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Jesus looked at them and said,
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"If any of you has never committed sin,
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be the first to throw the stone."
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I just love that word that Jesus spoke
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because it just shows
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that Jesus is the father of every heart,
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every heart from now
till the end of the ages.
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And everyone has to answer to Him,
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whether we understand it or not,
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or we realize it or not.
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We do have to answer to Him
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and that is why He knew
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what had happened in each person's heart
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because He knew the motive.
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And that's why only He was in the position
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to say that judgement.
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Rightful judgement is to get
into the heart of the matter.
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And you can't do that
without the Holy Spirit.
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No, because the Holy Spirit
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always gets into the heart of the matter.
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He never judges a situation
by face value, over hearsay,
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or by what a situation looks like.
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He looks beyond, to the heart
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to find out the motivation of the person
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behind that action.
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And we should not be quick to judge.
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Not be too quick to judge.
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If the rightful judge who sees the heart
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does not rush into judgement,
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why should we rush into judgement?
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That's why many relationships
have been so strained
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because we judge people on today
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and we don't know what tomorrow brings.
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Husband and wife.
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Today we have many.
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If I ask, if we are honest,
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we have so many marriages, relationships,
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marital relationships that are strained today
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because of this mindset.
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Marriage is a unity of
heart and purpose, and mind.
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The heart agrees, right?
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If our heart agrees,
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we should not have any
division in our hearts.
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And that's why God said
in the Book of Malachi 2,
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"I am the witness of your wedding."
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That's what God said.
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"Be careful that in your
heart you will not betray
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your wife or your husband."
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The heart, that's why Jesus say,
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‘if a man looks at a woman
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in his heart without saying any word,
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but desires to have
relationship with a woman,
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he has committed adultery in his heart’.
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Jesus always gets into
the heart of the matter,
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the heart, and He said,
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"If any of you has not committed any sin,
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be the first to throw."
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He just demonstrated
with just that sentence
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that He's the father of every heart.
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Absolutely, by saying this,
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the motivation, what brought
that woman to that act
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however sinful it is,
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the same temptation
everybody's faced with today.
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The hierarchy of sin can
only be determined by Jesus.
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Sin is sin.
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Lying is sin, killing is sin.
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The sin of Adam, just disobeying.
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The sin of Adam that
disobedience of eating a fruit,
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I say, How can this bring death to him?
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Not only to him, but to the whole world.
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What matters is not the action,
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but the motivation behind the action.
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We'll have time to talk about it in depth.
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But if you see..
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Yeah, because he wilfully disobeyed God
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and he had chance to repent and he didn't.
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Good.
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If I see you doing something
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which does not seem right to me,
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which does not seem,
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instead of me praying over it or asking you,
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I come to a conclusion
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because I expect you
to do the right thing.
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So I say, "Ah, what she did
it seems strange to me."
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Instead of enquiring
from God or finding out,
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you come to a quick mindset and judgement.
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That's why mindset is a problem.
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Negative mindset.
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Negative mindset,
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bad feeling towards others.
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Prejudgement which is fed by pure ignorance
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can come to a judgement, wrong judgement.
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That's why I was thinking of,
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well, I said at the beginning
that we as believers,
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we are supposed to be with a difference.
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We're in this world but not part of it.
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So we should refrain
from allowing our hearts
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to be drawn to division, to judgement,
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to anger, to bitterness
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when we see or hear things
that are happening around us.
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And rather we should do what is good
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to change the bad we see,
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be a force for love.
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Judgement is a double-edged sword.
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You can judge what is not right,
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but you must have a sense of
judgement to do what is right,
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and that is what I want to say.
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If I have judgement, it’s not just to say
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"This is bad, this is bad."
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But rightful judgement says, "This is good,
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This is what we should do."
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Yes, it is double sided.
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What I mean.
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Okay, when I enter into a
relationship with a person,
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what is the motivation to say
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this is the person, this is this.
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Before you go, the Bible
says, ‘Enquire from God’.
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When you enquire from God,
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you have the rightful
judgement of anything you do.
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You will know the right place to go,
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the right type of people to meet,
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the right type of job to have.
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That's rightful judgement
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we need to have the positive side of it.
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If we have rightful judgement
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and that cannot happen without
enquiring from the Holy Spirit,
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then we should guard
against judging people.
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Because no one is righteous, not even one.
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Without the Holy Ghost we cannot get
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into the heart of the matter.
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If you ask anyone who
is honest and sincere,
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what type of person they want to marry,
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they want to live with,
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they will mention criteria
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that are all based on the outside.
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Beautiful eyes, beautiful nose,
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beautiful body, tall, whatever.
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Everybody has his own,
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How do you call it? Preferences.
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But,
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The most important is the inside.
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Who will talk about the heart?
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A man or woman that fears God.
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That's the heart.
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Our heart does things before our mouth.
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That's the motivation.
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That's why the Bible says,
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‘When you think negatively,
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you are bound to speak
negatively and act negatively’.
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That's why the Lord warns
everybody in that Matthew 15:8,
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‘That what defiles us is
what comes from our mouth.
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All our motivation, anger,
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resentment, divorce, separation, attack
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always comes from the heart of a person.
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That's why, remember when Peter said
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to Ananias in Act 5,
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that's a clear example of judgement.
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Let's take the example.
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At the early church in the beginning,
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the disciples were selling
all their properties
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and bringing them in common to the Treasury.
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So, anybody who was in need
received help, right?
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Yeah.
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We have Ananias and Sapphira,
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they came to the apostle,
they sold their property.
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It was their own property.
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They had the right to do
whatever they wanted to do with it.
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They sold their property.
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Let's say the house was 1 million.
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They said, "Let's tell them (disciples)that
the house was half, 500,000."
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They came and said, "Okay,
our house was sold for 500,000.
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This is the 500,000."
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And the rest, they kept it.
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That's what they did.
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It was their property.
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They could have said, "Okay, I give you 500."
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If they said to Peter,
the house is 1 million,
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I get 500 and I give.
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Nothing would've happened I really believe
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because you're free.
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It's your free will
offering from your heart.
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But they were trying to, they lied.
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They kept that entirely from Jesus and said that
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the house is sold at this price.
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Peter was a man led by the Holy Ghost
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with rightful judgement.
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He enquired from the Holy Spirit,
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And the Holy Spirit revealed him the truth,
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that the price of the
house is not what they said.
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This is the real price.
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When Peter heard this, what did he say?
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He said, ‘You have sinned
against the Holy Spirit’.
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Why did you allow satan to fill your heart
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so that you can lie to the Holy Spirit.
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You have not lied to man but to God.
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That was the judgement.
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And when we read the Bible they got scared
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by the judgement that came.
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And immediately what happened to them?
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they fell dead.
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Anytime I read that passage,
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I get extremely scared.
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I say, thank God, we don't have this.
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But there was a sense of
judgement, rightful judgement,
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which was extremely clear
on the motivation of actions.
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And also knowing that the
Holy Spirit is there
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in every single decision that you make,
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every single thought in your heart,
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the Holy Spirit is witness to that.
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Thank you for saying this.
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Now, if you have awareness,
if I have awareness that
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the Holy Ghost is inside of me,
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I should be extremely
careful of my thoughts
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first before I talk about my words,
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because everything starts in the thoughts.
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That's why as a Christian, a believer
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should be careful of what he looks at,
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what he sees, what he touches
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that can influence his thoughts.
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Bad feelings, negative
thoughts start from here.
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You don't need to express it,
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but God hears it
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and it matters to the Holy Spirit.
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That's why when we have the sensitivity
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of God's presence in our
heart through the Holy Ghost,
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anytime our mind begins to drift
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towards something that's not right,
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your conscious will judge you immediately
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because of who?
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Because the Holy Ghost
will prompt your heart
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before you step into action.
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That's why we need
to always be sensitive
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to the voice of our conscience,
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because that's how the
Holy Spirit speaks to us.
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Absolutely, that's why James said,
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‘Nobody can tempt God, God cannot be tempted’.
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But sin is when we are
attracted by our own desires,
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by our own will that we are enticed
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to fall into the temptation
of pre-judging others.
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The question is, the person
you are judging today,
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no matter how bad the person may seem
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or look to you on human judgement,
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ask yourself, what does Jesus
think about that person?
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Because we're not God.
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We have to keep reminding ourselves that.
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God's standard of judgement
is different from our own.
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God tests our heart to reward us
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because His focus is the
motive behind what we do.
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Exactly.
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Saul, you know Saul?
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Who was Saul?
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Well, Saul was the one
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who was persecuting all the Christians.
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Yes, terribly in a very harsh way.
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Forcing them to blaspheme,
persecuting them.
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Yet God said he was His chosen vessel.
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Yes, though when he was
going to persecute the people
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in Damascus having
letters of recommendation
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from the teachers of
the law with full force.
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Even Stephen, he stood
there as Stephen was killed
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and stoned to death.
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Yes, that was his zeal.
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But he had a zeal for the law of Moses,
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but zeal marked with
ignorance of spiritual things.
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He judged the situation on the letter.
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He judged the situation on the letter.
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For the Word of God, when we
approach it in the letter,
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we have the wrong judgement.
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There's the letter of the Word,
There’s the spirit of the Word.
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Wait, say that again.
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There's the letter of the Word
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and we have the spirit of the Word.
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The divine meaning of the Word.
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So you can be very committed,
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zealous towards the letter of the Word
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and yet completely missing the point.
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If it's not in spirit, it's not in truth
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and so it's all nothing.
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That's what Jesus said to them.
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If you know that I delight in mercy,
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you'll never condemn innocent people.
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That's what Jesus said.
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Jesus met Ananias, one of the disciples
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who knew who Saul was in the dream.
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And when Jesus mentioned the name of Saul,
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he said, "Hey Lord, this man is a wolf.
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He's a terrible person."
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No, I mean just think
about it in today's society,
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if someone who's publicly
persecuting people
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that believe in Jesus,
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and then suddenly God reveals to you
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that, ‘Oh, this is actually
the one I want to use
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as my chosen vessel’. Wow!
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And that's what happened.
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And I mean, yeah.
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The motivation behind the action
of Saul was pure ignorance.
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He had a zeal without knowledge.
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And he even said it in
that Book of Timothy 1.
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But now, what was the
answer of Jesus to him?
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He's my chosen vessel.
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God does not consider our now,
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our past to determine our future.
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We need to understand that.
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Because Jesus is a tomorrow thinker,
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He has vision.
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Thank you.
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Jesus is looking at your tomorrow.
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Thank you.
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Even your 10 years from now.
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Thank you.
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Your 20 years from now.
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This is what matters to Jesus.
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But we are so concentrated
on now, now, now
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and even not now but yesterday.
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The pain of the past,
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the betrayal of the past,
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the disappointment of the past,
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the scars of the past we're
so full of all these scars
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that we find it difficult
to even live today,
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let alone trust our tomorrow
in the hands of Jesus.
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And yet Jesus knows what
we can become tomorrow
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if we fully submit to Him
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and that's what he's looking at.
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I always remember Prophet TB Joshua
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was such a man of vision.
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He looked at us, a situation where
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when we came so many years ago,
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there was no way,
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all of this was in our mind.
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No, we just wanted to not miss salvation.
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Yet God knew, God knew
because God knew the plan
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He had for every single person.
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Jesus never, never,
never considers your past
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to determine your future.
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Jesus came to change our lives,
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to change our focus.
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We humans, we keep record
of the offenses of the past.
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We keep a record of
every wrong done to us.
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That's why we find it
so difficult to forgive.
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‘Ah, you have done it again, again’.
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We keep record of the past.
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But the Bible says,
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‘Loves keeps no record of wrong.
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When Jesus looked at you and I,
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as He did for the Samaritan woman,
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His purpose is to give
you a new focus of the future.
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Satan the devil we all know,
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always speaks about our
past, our unworthy past.
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No one was born righteous, no one.
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But Jesus has come to remove that past
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and give you a new future that can change.
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And He can do it for you,
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He can do it for someone else as well
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that you are currently looking
at with the eyes of judgement.
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If Jesus can remove our past
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and point us to the future,
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then he can do it for everyone.
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That is why we shouldn't judge
anyone on account of today
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because tomorrow is a mystery.
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So, when the Pharisees brought that lady,
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they were considering her past.
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But you say rightfully,
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tomorrow is a mystery that only God knows.
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When Jesus is correcting
you and me, all of us,
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it's because of the future.
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When God says, "Don't do this."
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You may not do it today,
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but you may do it tomorrow.
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Correction, judgement,
everything God has spoken
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through the mouth of
the prophet as a warning
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is for the future.
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When God said to the prophet Jeremiah,
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‘Tell them that if they
continue to do this,
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I will send the enemy.
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Nebuchadnezzar will come,
He will burn the city.
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He will kill everybody’.
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But God was saying this to
trigger a sense of repentance.
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So they can say, “Hey God, sorry, we come back,
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we stop doing evil, we come back to you."
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That's true, because it's how we respond
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to that correction or that judgement
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that is actually what Jesus
is looking at as well.
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That will determine your future.
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Your response to correction
determines your future.
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And when we talk about correction here,
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we mean correction in the
power of the Holy Spirit.
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Absolutely.
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You know, when you read your Bible
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and something comes to your heart,
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that can be God correcting you
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because the Word of God has power.
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Power, for converting
power, purifying power.
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It's a double-edged sword.
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So, you mentioned correction.
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How do you do correction?
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Correction is not judgement.
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There's a difference between
correction and judgement.
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Judgement is a mindset,
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a preset judgement in your mind already.
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You have decided to
judge the person already.
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But correction
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is to help someone.
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Is to help the person to change.
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How do you correct a person?
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Don't say, "Hey, this is bad.
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You are this, you are this."
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That's condemnation.
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Do what is good in the sight of the person
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to change the bad you see,
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That's why the Bible
tells us in Galatians 6
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that we should be gentle
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in our correction.
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That is be a leader by example.
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Example means let your character show.
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Let the person see in the way you speak,
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act, a reason to come to
you to say, "I'm sorry."
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Do what is good in the sight of God
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to change the bad you see.
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If the person is an angry person, be gentle.
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Let him see your gentleness.
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So, he can say, I'm sorry.
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If the person has pride,
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we don't respond by pride.
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Let him see humility.
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Let your humility convince him to say,
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"I'm sorry."
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Two wrongs cannot make what?
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A right.
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So, what do you do?
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The weapons of righteousness.
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The Bible says, when we see a situation,
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don't be too quick to judge.
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You should find out from God's perspective
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what is the mind of God about
that situation we judge.
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Today we arrogate the position
of God to judge people.
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Correction is our duty,
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but judgement is God's duty.
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Correction in love.
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In love of course.
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And with the right motivation.
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Correction, not to see someone fall down,
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but to help someone.
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In fact, I really really
appreciate all those
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throughout my journey
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who took time to correct
me for God's sake.
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I really see the product of that,
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the consequence of that,
the result of that.
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And that's why the Bible
says in the Book of Proverbs,
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if you are wise, you should
not despise correction.
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You should appreciate correction
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in the power of the Holy Spirit.
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When you say the
power of Holy Spirit, it means
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judgement leads to punishment, right?
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But correction leads to amendment,
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repentance and reconciliation.
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There are two ways of
approaching this Holy Bible.
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Jesus, His attitude was
constant correction,
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showing God's standard of doing things.
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showing God's standard of doing things.
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When the Pharisees were opposing Him,
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asking Him questions,
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Jesus responded with the wisdom of God.
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He spoke what is right
in the sight of God.
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When you think right,
speak right and act right
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in the sight of God,
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you are correcting everybody.
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People are reading you.
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We talk about Prophet
TB Joshua, well you are right.
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His lifestyle was a constant
correction to everyone of us.
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Why correction?
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You will see the way he
attended to the simple people,
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to the poor, to even those offending him.
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His reaction towards them.
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You would never see him fighting people,
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answering back, never.
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His attitude, humility,
doing what is right
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in the sight of God to
change the bad you see.
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So now the weapons of righteousness
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are the fruit of the spirit.
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So, exercise the fruit of the spirit
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in the face of the fruit of the flesh
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and that's the change we're talking about.
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Let your character reflect Christ’s character.
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If people insult you, don't insult back.
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If you insult back what's the difference?
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Jesus said, "If you love
only those who you love,
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even those you say are unjust,
they love the children.
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Anybody can do it, but love your enemy.
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Pray for those who persecute you.
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Bless, do not curse.
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That's the weapons of
righteousness we're talking about.
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And that will actually disarm those
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who have a bad judgement of you.
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This does not mean
correction will not take place.
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Correction is our duty.
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If we see something wrong, correct in love
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by telling the truth,
by showing the truth.
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Leadership by example.
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That's what brings change.
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You know that person will now
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listen to the voice of the
Holy Spirit in their heart,
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prompting their conscience to know that
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what they're doing is wrong.
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Christian means?
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Christ likeness.
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Okay, the question.
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Anytime you face a
situation of opposition,
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ask yourself, how would Jesus
react in such a situation?
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Somebody embarrasses you, insult you.
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Remember, Jesus was embarrassed,
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constantly insulted,
constantly opposed, constantly.
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They even said he cast out demons by Beelzebub.
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They even said He was demon
possessed, He was demonized.
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There's nothing they did
not say against Jesus.
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But how did He respond?
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He responded with forgiveness.
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And when the truth was
ignored, He was silent
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Because He knew the people were ignorant of the truth.
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Truth is hidden.
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Truth is not intellectual; it needs
to be perceived spiritually.
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So, your integrity,
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no matter how good you are on the inside,
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can never be perceived intellectually.
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It has to be discerned.
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Integrity cannot be understood,
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perceived intellectually but spiritually.
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Meaning you cannot know the heart of man
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if you're not helped by the Holy Ghost.
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Ask God to help you to get into the heart
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of the matter of a situation
before coming to judgement.
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Ask Him to show you the heart,
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the motivation of the heart of the person
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so you can have rightful judgement.
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This being said, we have the avenue,
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the weapons of righteousness
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that can heal your
relationship with everyone.
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Service your relationship.
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Absolutely, service it.
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We will talk about that,
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do you service your relationship?
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You have to take care
of each relationship.
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You should not take it
for granted because-
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Because what gives us joy,
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wealth, health in life
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is all about relationship.
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How do you
service your relationship?
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How do we service it?
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It's true, but how do we service it?
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You know your vehicle,
you drive your vehicle
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and you have a computer to
tell you in 100 miles,
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you have to take it to the garage.
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A computer will help you
to take it for service,
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to change the oil, to clean this,
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to keep it, to maintain it.
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Relationship needs to be maintained.
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You don't wait till
situations emerge to act.
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Love never waits for a situation
to come, it anticipates.
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That's why we need to service.
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Don't wait for the person to
ask you to do this, to do that.
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Do it spontaneously for God's sake.
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Don't wait for someone to ask for help.
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Do it spontaneously from your heart.
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Ask God, what can I do to help somebody?
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Everybody wants to change somebody,
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they don't know how to go about it.
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But did you yield your
heart to be a servant?
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For the Holy Ghost to use you to bless others?
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Remember what makes us
human is what, is not?
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Our ability to think,
but our ability to love.
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Which kind of love, everybody
has somebody to love,
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but everybody has somebody to say,
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"I don't love this person."
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“I don't like this.”
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When you look at a person on the outside,
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it will not take long to see
something you don't like.
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Nobody's perfect.
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But it takes a lifetime to see
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the beauty in the heart of the person
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beyond what you can see.
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You say, "Don't reject
anybody because of today,
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tomorrow is mystery."
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Okay, when Ananias was
saying Paul was a bad person,
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but Jesus saw the future,
the future apostle.
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He said, "He's my chosen vessel."
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God is not looking at our
kindness, our obedience now,
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but obedience in 20
years, in 50 years to come.
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Somebody can be good today,
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but tomorrow (it’s a mystery), can be bad.
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You can pretend for a long time,
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but eventually the real-
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Somebody cane be bad today
and be wonderful tomorrow.
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The real character will come out.
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That's why we should
not rush into decision
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to judge too quickly.
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People judged Jesus on the outside.
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In John 7:12, some said he's a good person.
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Some said He's a bad person,
He deceives people.
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Even those who said He's good
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and welcomed Him on Palm
Sunday, saying hosanna, hosanna -
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the same people said -
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Crucify Him, crucify Him, crucify Him.
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So, we shouldn't,
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Yeah, that's another thing.
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We shouldn't be so concerned about
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people's opinion about us,
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even people that we don't know.
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What should matter to us
is God's opinion about us.
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And God tests our heart to reward us.
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The purpose of the
gospel of Jesus Christ,
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The purpose of salvation,
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the purpose of the Holy Bible,
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can be summed up in one
word, righteousness.
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What is righteousness?
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Right standing before God,
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not right standing before man.
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Right standing means rightful
judgement for God's sake.
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God said to Abraham, "Walk
before me blamelessly
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by doing what is right."
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Thinking right, speaking
right, acting right
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according to the mind of God
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every single day of our lives.
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We are made to be like Jesus.
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We have to behave like
Him and the task is huge.
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That's what Jesus said, "Carry
your cross and follow me."
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What is your cross?
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Your cross is not the wood,
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your cross is your body.
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The cross is myself.
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Self-will, self-will.
My will, my self-will.
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That's always wanting to go
opposite to what God wants.
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Absolutely, if my flesh is crucified
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and I carry the cross,
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asking Jesus to help me.
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I will walk in the footsteps
of Christ in righteousness
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every single day of life.
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If you do so,
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you will have capacity to
bless people around you.
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You will never destroy any
relationship beyond repair
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for tomorrow is mystery.
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There will always be room for forgiveness
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and your marriage, your
relationship, your friends,
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you will never lose a friend.
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You will never destroy any
relationship beyond repair.
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People may leave you,
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but you'll never leave anybody.
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But Jesus will service that relationship.
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Thank you.
Amen.
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So thank you so much for joining us
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and how to service our relationship,
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how not to judge on a human level,
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but correct in God's love.
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We can't do any of this without
the help of the Holy Spirit.
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So, let's continue to ask the Holy Spirit
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to give us more of Him
and take more of us,
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in Jesus’ name.
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Thank you, that's the right prayer.
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Take more of me and give me
more of you, Holy Spirit.
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Take more of my lies and
give me more of your truth.
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Holy Spirit of truth forgive my lies,
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help me to be truthful.
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Holy Spirit of humility forgive my pride
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and give me your humility.
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Lead me to humility.
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These are the things we should pray for,
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to put on Christ as our
righteousness every single day.
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And by doing that,
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you're servicing your heart
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and if you service your heart,
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then definitely your
relationships are serviced
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because you relate with
others through your heart.
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By doing so,
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you are asking the Holy Ghost to fill you.
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And when He fills you,
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He will fill you and that
love will overflow to others.
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In Jesus’ name.
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Amen.