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Hey everyone.
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Today I'm going to talk with you
about five tips to beat anxiety.
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So stay tuned.
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So like I said.
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Today I want to talk with you about five
helpful tips to beat anxiety.
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I've heard from so many of you,
that you struggle with this.
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And there are so many ways that we can help ourselves.
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And this is only five.
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There are tons of ways.
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But these are just some helpful tips to get you started.
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Number one.
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Keeping busy all day.
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I know that sounds really silly and simple.
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But often times our anxiety loves and lives in the quiet.
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When we have nothing to do.
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And we are sitting at home.
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And we are moping about.
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It kind of takes a mole hill and turns it into a mountain.
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When we have time to ruminate and think about things.
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It can make it so much worse.
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But if we are just going about our day.
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We're doing things.
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We're making deals.
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We're breaking hearts.
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We don't have time to think about it.
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So I would encourage you, if you are able,
plan your days out.
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Make sure you have things happening.
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Back to back to back.
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You're scooting on through.
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The second helpful tip is what we call 'feeling focusing'.
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And this is something that we can
do no matter where we are.
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Which I love about tips.
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Because we never know when the anxiety may strike.
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And feeling focusing is when we focus on the area in our body where we feel the anxiety.
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For some of us it might be our throat.
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Our chest.
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Our stomach.
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It could be in our shoulders.
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Wherever you feel it physically.
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I want you to focus on that spot.
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And I want you to slowly breath into it.
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And if you find your mind wandering.
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Bring it back to that spot.
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Keep breathing.
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Slowly.
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And I know this is just one of those things where you are like, 'Kati that sounds really weird.'
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But I promise you by drawing your focus
back to the area in your body.
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Back to that area.
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Over and over.
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Your anxiety will diminish.
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It's because our mind can't go out searching
for more things to worry us with.
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It slowly dissipates.
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The third helpful tip is exercise.
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Now obviously I don't want you to
do anything to an extreme.
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But taking a thirty minute walk.
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If you like to run and it's not unhealthy.
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You go for a run.
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Maybe you jump some rope.
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Maybe you take your dog out.
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Maybe you walk with a friend.
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Maybe you do yoga.
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Whatever it is.
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If you play tennis.
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Play basketball.
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There's so many things to do.
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Just last week I went to Target and got Sean and I some tennis rackets and basketballs.
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So we can play.
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Anything you can do to exert some physical energy.
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Can help with anxiety.
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Often times when we have a lot of pent up energy.
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Anxiety thrives.
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So having an outlet for that.
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Even if it's just nervous energy.
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Having an outlet like exercise.
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Can really help bring it down.
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The fourth helpful tip is phoning a friend.
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I feel like we are on
Who Wants To Be a Millionaire?
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But it's really important to contact people and to have people on what I always talk to my clients about,
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on your 'emergency call list'.
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And this isn't a real, this isn't like an emergency
'I'm going to the ER I'm bleeding, I broke a bone.'
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This is 'I'm feeling stressed, I'm feeling overwhelmed,
I don't know what to do right now.'
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We need to have at least five people on this list if you can.
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Because we never know who can pick up, right.
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Some people might be in class.
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Some people might be asleep.
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Some people might be at work.
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We don't know.
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But we want to make sure we have
people that we can contact.
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Even if it's a text.
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I know now we text more than we actually call.
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But I want you to reach out to people.
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Because having someone on the line.
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Having someone talking to us.
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I think calling is the best.
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Because hearing someone's voice can be so soothing.
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And sometimes when we feel like we are
a ten on our anxiety scale.
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It can help bring us back down to maybe a six.
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Or a five.
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And the more we talk with them.
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And the more we kind of vent to them
about what's going on with us.
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The better we will start to feel.
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The fifth and final tip.
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Is something that I don't really
talk that much about on my channel.
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And that is going to see a psychiatrist.
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And the reason that I wanted to put this in here.
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Is because there are those of us who doing these things.
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This feeling focusing, we're exercising,
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We're trying everything to help ourselves.
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We're seeing our own therapist.
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And nothing gives.
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It's not getting better.
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And sometimes it's getting worse.
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And seeing a psychiatrist,
they can offer medications that can help with it.
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Now obviously I'm a
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.
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I'm not a physician.
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I don't prescribe medication.
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But it can be so helpful and so pivotal in your recovery.
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And don't be ashamed of it.
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Many people seek help from psychiatrists.
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How else would they even exist?
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They wouldn't have a job or career.
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People see them.
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When we can't do enough ourselves.
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The medication can help us get there.
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I often tell my clients, and this still rings true.
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All research shows that therapy and medication gives us the best possible outcome.
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Because sometimes our mind is running so quickly.
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Things are happening so fast.
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That we can't even think about doing
anything to help ourselves.
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We're just trying to stay afloat.
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It's so overwhelming.
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And medication can help with that.
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Bring that anxiety level down enough.
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That we can actually take action.
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We can start making steps towards our recovery.
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Putting things in place.
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Creating plans.
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It can give us that little bit of squish we need to get started.
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So I would encourage you.
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If you have tried a lot of things.
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And that's not helping.
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Reach out to your psychiatrist.
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Or your general practitioner doctor.
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And let's start working on recovery.
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As always don't forget to subscribe to my channel.
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And you don't want to miss them.
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And if you have any tips and tricks of your own.
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That have helped with your anxiety.
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Can you let us know below.
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Because we're a wonderful community.
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Sharing in our experience.
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And together we're getting better.
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And we are towards a healthy mind and a healthy body.
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And keep working with me.
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Towards a healthy mind and a healthy body.
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The snaps don't bug the,
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Okay.
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I like to snap.