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I spent the better part of my early adult life dating 1 girl, which gave me plenty of time to spend my lonely nights nerding it up.

When that relationship ended, I found myself with a B.S. in Biology, a Master's degree in Creative Writing, and a remedial (retarded?) understanding of attraction and dating.

So I moved to New York City, ignored my pride and better judgement, and started hitting on women shamelessly.

Naturally, I got lots of rejections, amassed a canon of funny stories, and wound up at websites for the dating advice industry.

Eventually it also led me to my wingman and partner-in-crime, Mr. Zack Bauer.

Together, Zack and I started to piece together the truth about picking up women. It may have involved some embarrassing nights and not-so-happy ladies (sorry ladies), but after approaching enough women, we actually started to figure things out and find success.

I began writing my insights in magazines, blogs, and various dating niche outlets, such as TSB Magazine.

The fast-paced and sophisticated life of New York City influences my style in both writing and dating.

These days I split my time between nerd activities like writing, reading, and jogging and awesome activities like aggressive dating, aggressive teaching, and aggressive aggressiveness.

On a rainy day, you can find me sipping coffee while writing dating articles or bizarre fiction at a Starbucks near you.

My interests include playing the guitar, graphic art, French, candlelit dinners, and anyone who can fix my flatscreen t.v.

I believe every man deserves to date his dream girl IF he's willing to forget his pride to learn how to do it. I've coached close to a hundred men on live programs where I watched them transform (sometimes overnight) into the awesome men they were all along--they just needed someone to get them in touch with their inner cool guy.

I love waking up each morning to emails from men around the world who tell me about their success stories or about meeting their dream girl or finding the motivation to express themselves. I want you to find an amazing woman and live an awesome life.

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like you said mines rob from new york

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but i want this to be speech that impact
volume

that you put you can listen to what i
had to say right now takes out tonight

and translate that into better game

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item

i was thinking about it like will be the
best things that will be the best thing

to talk about

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amazing things to say

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under the radar tracking techniques you

know the classic the classical what your
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and still tempting to talk about that
because you-know-what ever-rising that's

up basi cally that's we all want right
it's so easy it's so simple

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out the barn use them

but i'm not going to do it because
import help in the long run

as a whiskey to do this focus on to
focus on two things

effectively communicating yourself

and effectively communicating with
winning could in any of you know zaki

myself writing articles if you're
familiar with us

you know exactly like the to normal dot
switches regular guys are not like a

pickup superhero i don't go out n dot
talked the whole club

meinhold's my hope a lot of the on media
attracting women

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enjoined woman it's not about being
social side about impressing guys

it's not about

learning a bunch of pickup tactics i
would give a shit about any that that

such ridiculous in my opinion

the only thing i care about is to see
the girls are like the prologue

attracted to the girl that could
potentially change my life

and know how to how to have a good
chance of picking up of getting a number

of getting out of date

make here my girlfriend that that's

has all that he did and i hope i thought
that that you got to sit in fifty s

at home and talk about that

silom

the way to do that

the most effective way to do that it's a
change your mind set

and my opinion i'd look around as room

no do you need to add anything's your
personality you all probably awesome

guys you couple of months phony witty

and you know what you had to support
your personality already developed

the way you are right in your friends
i'm sure all you have cool friends

or you go out know how to have one
kickback

but the problem is we said prone for you

all the sudden all that drops out the
window you forget how to be that cool

charismatic one god or you already have

so my opinion is it's not about adding
things your personality dot adding wines

tactics

or strategies

is only about changing the way you think

the way you view the world

so that way

when the girls are fine you can snap is
big epic bouts of epic affair

silom

you know we've really values

that's the perception

what u what you value is the way you can
see the world

so essential all articles

forney awesome guys run your friends but
the when you're looking at things that

makes it hard to translate that when the
girls on friday

really attraction and it seems play that
over and over again it's just a

self-fulfilling prophecy

the way people treat you is a reflection
of how you see that

and how do you see then is just a
reflection of the values you've been

paul

and the problem is allot of values

that society teaches you or even the
pickup in history teaches you it's not

conducive to success

it doesn't put you and i headspace where
do walking up the girl assuming that you

likey

you walking up of all these all these
doubts always issues always enjoyed your

head

this is going to hold you back from you
will communicate your personality

the thing is is summers i'd say it might
be offensive to you

you might like it but hurt over what i
have to say it here because

you know i did ido when i first started
out i'd had a very every little book

several of theory and i cannot practice
top

and i had a very concrete way of how i
saw or highlight ape-like thought

traction works

and then replaced alike hear people say
supa contradicted what i thought work

and pissed off quickly but one message
boards and i put a two-page responses to

people like telling them that like

at directing couldn't work innocence
each of us and you know it excel

offended but what i do realize it

and i'd just look at these objectively

i got to take in that

like that batao

but opposing viewpoint

and translate into successfully story

it's funny

almonds acount for starting out with
this stop and we're really sound like

opera fact our on our theory in our
philosophy and try to really you'll get

to the bottom of attraction really is

i'm going to do is is this congress
respond

this pub in wall street news a magic

its hostile bussell people running
around

you know waitresses are are are are
everywhere

ever are so sweet so i was just

absolutely

drawn teaches absolutely beautiful i was
watching her walking the walk around

anzac i'm sitting there ends when we
still very much believe in that you had

a like going direct in

going the radar in and color budget
stories into all the stuff before she

could likely

and that's exactly you know what

the way i can go up this peril and do
all the stuff

happen because what happened protester
so

ought to go up there were and on going
to tell ur shit hot and she she give

your phone number and we'll see how it
goes exactly

machine that possibility

because if you're not going to do it so
got op and as opening up ever return

rods is acting up like look like

if i get sick actually the outside and i
would

basie reasonably thought i'd told you
called attracted to her

i would like my caskets or i could kick
out of obama or you know org or her but

mystery was alike appear out of a cloudy
but don't be delivered a first-year i

didn't know if not the big him

the suicide visible belief system that i
thought that this could never worked out

alright you know i i was going to try it

why not stop airport which is hot

supplied to each she does have you
gotten devi a phone number

and this was like

this was an amazing to me this was

this holy contradicted everything i
blurt upton's point

and it was was so hard to accept that

and stole our pro-life all my old values

and this is why i understand all you
guys going through and i understand

we've got a phone message boards before
each other everything i was like dick

war's over

or whose methods better news theory
you-know-what nowak about it will make

fun of those guys but i was going to
confront i came from the exit

so again

if i say stop its offensive or
challenges your values eyes as he did to

be patient with it take to get it right
keep an open mind

because of only water valuable here what
why would i sitting here to get

processing answer

and so finances so fucking obvious

were the same time

from three people don't do is to get
wedding

they they do it too if you are social
they do it to improve its that their

pickup skills that they were to press
guys analog you know we're not going to

look at all of the good things mcgrath
talk but

would you guys did it

make sure you know why you're doing is
you doing this because he woke winning

it out of a wild per women genuine
curiosity agenda you win

tracksuit

to women and want to improve that nest
awesome and that's

that's why we're all sitting here since
it'll just keep at the back your mind as

as ike

you know both of my slides here

so you have to say no todate logic

declining isliye looked like the term
are used for

on stopping it

perfect sense to god's

like when you read this stuff

you like often off like it would like to
do this

where there's not a cure the wedding ok
it's advised by men format

they'd either picking up guys

neoplastic logic but if you want me to
women forget ok anti-clotting

unmistakable examples out here

i don't think you need to go out and
demonstrate your pre-selected before

it's appropriate racketeers all than i
don't think there's some grub like

advice you're gonna talk to you i don't
think alight but if she needs a senior

like thirty-year-old before i got
approach are

i don't believe you need to get the
stated that the other thing that's

absurd

what you need to go talked of redraw
before he could approach the growing

white

you know i think that's just a few
people that the region had begun to sell

propellant property

if you believe according to a warm upset
or all i'd need to do a certain number

approaches before i could feel i did
feel natural and normal

then that's that that's what you're
going to feel but i don't believe that

shit i think it's all a bit logic i
think that's up a guide

had said to you and now you believe it
idly bullshit ido myself when i believe

it was sure what threw that out with zak
and i can i watch that muzak im go out

and i was at of the first really
depressed and people along with it

while where with with the free world
settlers where is that you know also

that we have with the precise your stuff

and realize this is all stop it's very
nato institutes for itself couple we did

it then

i said before this talk is all about is
dat u to that point

where you can just see the girls you
want to get that without all this always

nonsense in between

you know a break-up abroad then skies
like the promise overt all about

getting girls

not getting high fives from guys i don't
care about above by bible by eric the

internet you know whatever i'm just all
haha i care about

is that with pearls that i'd find
attractive invented equality went

so yet so focusing on women

dotting all women

that really

that really sifts away allotted the
bullshit it only and that is that two

people

is to

people you need to effectively
communicate

those two people are first yourself
affected mutation give yourself into a

cd forty of values that we see the world

because if you will get back in a
community of yourself

if you're into mature personality

that that's but that's a starting point

and then you just translate that the
heart

so to people yourself and hardly only
two people you need to effectively

communicate

uh... so

what's what's been a little time just
just

solidifying how-to how to effectively
communicate yourself

so empowering mindset seemed growth is
growth

you know

it's icy or an offer a new york received
overlord

guys are going out

what people want to fuck in newark to
dfw battle with women like look

distraught again dot foot might not like

the the dragnet the slight ok this isn't
this isn't a military operation legacies

god comes upon i'm sitting at at my
favorite innovator rooftop block with

with my girlfriend or or grown talking
to

and all the sudden onset before the
departure gate and what he does have

someone in a place that they want to in
a different direction and they're

they're they're like darling then
legally and laura you detect

three-letter acronym dude

this is not a military operation to
meeting garth it's the most natural

often being you can do with your time
why make it into his epic battle

but we're not going to art for those you
went out last night you know at the end

of the i'd suppose lavalas coolness it
should be fun to be tough on basic when

the it was that when i go out it's going
up my best friend three girls walk-in

cooler than that

but the elderly a minute two things
maybe three things

hang up my friends

negroes and

possibly get dropped that's hit has
already been hit up so again

take that either pick up these epic
warfare or this does battle with grand

jewels

justice just eliminated just girls

and now we got but their girls that

that want to meet you

and this is this is the belief that was
so hard for me to accept

ever one-sided

my team

my portable game skyrocketed okay

because if you think about it

and really i i i i know a lot of people
have brought this up

religious figures for a second

how much would your game change if you
approach girls

believing but truly believing

they want to be

how much would it change

what you did

what you said okay

really think about that

how would change the opener

you know it easy opener impeded fucking
opener

why do you know opener everybody want to
talk to you

there on the tracking to bought a
fraught with some kinda like wild opener

what what happened that evening ought to
do is go out and talk to her

why do you need like strategies away
horribly sick clock tower ways to get

our best it wastes alike

knock results self-esteem down a little
bit out of senator dole why would i have

to do that

one of the girls i see them as growth of
party want to meet me

because it's so funny you know

i have girlfriends

that diana and i talked to manage hong
like

itself what exactly they they know what
i do and then they've taken aback by

pickup guys great very quickly

and might i'm just not my my girlfriend
kelly last night juicing on my god-like

arnett was gutted that the study is
accepting teaching still finds himself

he was so funny

that's so weird but why didn't do this
stuff you know who say always wanted to

do most open he doesn't have to do this
and you know that's a thing

these girls aren't how to meet you going
to the public and dress up in who want

to meet cool guy

so there's no soap dropout all the stuff
of doesn't that doesn't

the doesn't know what you're looking up
at work or you meeting where you getting

her number

buddy gulp proper dot don't need it

because i think much so much a pic of
theory indicates that you don't believe

the girl wants to meet you

even compartmentalize inc

went to pick up into open errors in and
n you know viding storytelling in

concord report that this is the natural
not stop to think about andrea

compartmentalize even sing all i need to
work on this african pickup

that means that you don't believe the
girl generally want to meet you

presented and she is not beat me about
this she just sitting there saying all

helping to build comparable to stack up
again to report how do i pay had opened

wide transition into a sexual boxes are
thinking is

so why should you it is i think if you
needed me if you didn't get your going

to freak her out

cause i typical night out

again i see these guys in new york to
akron

fucking buffoons it's complete clown or
i think we walker club right i mean

added very specific story i remember
there was this night that on prozac and

i route

and on

so slides outrageously peacock is
pitched off

you know behind private everyone
spinning rolls around

talking out of a mile a minute merging
sets that we will stop

and i'm here in washington over to us
and yard he chichi store like machined

any question about how to get the thirty
second break out

how do you offer transitioned into a
sexual vied with the threesome with the

model you know all you always liked
really like

typical questions you'd expect from a
guy like this

and i just looked at and i was like of
the what

but my question

all my best night

my best night

how many approaches you think i could

out of the really simple question but
this was a

really really simple question

junk so confused and at the headquarters
but that's the muslims are coming out

here so you know

it was a huge effort

i-ten to do with mental madly trying to
figure it out

if i ask you about how we approach would
be ideal all my best night

what approach my best night

one approach one girl one happy rakhe

there's no reason to me to do a bunch of
our approaches

but they really i'm not saying every
night because of this message every

night the first one approaches to grow
batana that that you don't buy end up

with yell threats of the night

it's not necessarily

always away goes down but that's not
beaten my head and plot began election

in three walk approaches

then do my approach go out thinking all
i need to

demonstrate social proof glad thinking
all white short pre-selected i keep

myself i'm going out did you want
approach evident that one doesn't go

well onto another one

filter that's really like that's kind of
thinking that what you really need to

shift to if you want to really make this
completely completely normal

if you want to be able to do this around
your

friends apart archetype of friends i
know that like

your you're not pick up krenz basically
running around talking to a bunch of

growth we tell them plenty to talk to be
struck a chord talkback groped and hurt

one might it's so weird and it is we
events related to like normal people to

be rear to everyone

especially girls

and done

so this is obviously really is very
important ob

crippled i bring this up is on the myth
of perfection a reason this is so

important is because

this ties in with the idea of meeting a
lot of approaches is that ald

or whatever i think that

they need to go out

and they need to put a lot of people you
can get into state and and developing

have always have to sit and stop because

the approach has to be perfect i'm sure
your head hit that i think that you can

imagine any that the instructors up here

we're going to talk to growth it seemed
that they have a amazing things to say

and they have their always controlling
the framework

or super competent and in there or that
they like the the isolation is very very

smooth and mike

nonchalant

abit austin mayekar from papa

not like that you would like to be a
sloppy and if the states

sometimes obvi drunkenly talking to her
all those say stupid shit

and you know what idea

this is no way to think about it

i'd zeros

your postal soft

with a girl like you anyway because you
what happens then the bar sex super low

estuary whites in your post op illegal
offering their that's a signal all it

because of the opener right

it is open to palestine it's like

i don't know we started the purple prose
of the reporter always gets what all was

a perfect opened with the best pickup
point

how can i just don't talk to me

and you know it's funny

zack and i had the perfect opener we'll
obsessiveness for awhile we figured out

what underwriter be drafted his opener
we get a provision we tried it with me i

was approached respect me five integral
with this one opener

and his or her was the shit ok this was
like

it seemed nice a lot

ella i would tell you about what it is
but i don't even want to do it because

they won't help you only hurt by giving
the perfect opener

with emotion spirited material hispanic
girls to open a conversation

it would just fuck you over the end

and the reason for that is because where
you go from there

the bus excel mein akele

like if you go out and and you like them
like james bond

where you take that

but there is such an ac

so my opinion is if you are a bit of a
usc_ myob like india videos or seen

yet with girls

yulia civic had a good job i want to be
competitive i want to be so that there

is a work mentioned bubble because my
opinion is

and i can open with that

i think i would go up by open like a
fuckin neanderthal

and also insisted on this like this as a
katie guy

like like on bug

i could only go up from there

so abdicate setting the bar extremely
walo on terms of like this really think

that's okay because

if you set up our while

is going to be so much more track but
what it is more track admits he really

say or how you react to it

but if you have this i built-up image in
your head

either perfect opener the perfect
approach

all the time when that doesn't doesn't
you know carpet and you're going to make

mistake at some point when you make that
mistake you want with health care

you also musical she understands that
double block

and that's why guys

who get into this insisted she was
material kitna rod because they'd all

this image in the head and yet you know
what the marketing copy that you may

know websites and the hype it all the
stuff it definitely doesn't help because

that's up also puts forth the idea to
have it all i can do this project

approach

annie annie the perfect opening to
perfect better life

unscripted material

you don't need any of that trustees i
had a lot material adl i had

i had the best i'd say i would best fit
the material probably anyone any

instructors community i would go out and
practices dot nonstop

again unprofessional writer i i just it
i would like to stop up a select study

all material and come up my own by own
seasonal glut right right right right

and you know what do you get me shit
inevitably the girlfriend i wanted it

never gotten any kind of real measurable
success

when i i think really started to like

me and attracting date

like what like the our company says that
the hotter girls like to put little

really really quality growth every guy
wants

websites historically like that to
recover start it would be close

i took the bar anesthetic way what pat
took it to put down here because i'd

figured you know what

i kick exact up forever i can just go
out and told us that crazy shit you know

and constantly

you don't keep up with little song and
dance for pearl fought that all go out

and speak myself

and all ltte

on what the penalties and howard mindset

and asked if the girl

so really important

i want to do that you take the pressure
off yourself and start making fun any

new danny curls rights inches

to get pressure off

be ok with with imperfection angle at
least chava blacks

so now i want him to another point to
talk which is your motivation

now maybe one of the objective hits at
the deposit deferral system you women is

to get better with your skills up
beating in attracting

really quality wedding

but that has the motivation behind that

and only talks about this this is buried
extract it's not necessarily

something if you put your finger on
right

because we all know the guys get into
this for all different motivations like

are you trying to elect possess wedding
is addicted you donated a relationship

that would really bad and you know it
but you're just doing is to get back at

women to try to lighten even the score
feel good about yourself

you know get gop_ big maybe a few
other

view bank a bunch of girls

we'll get some kind of self-esteem from
adverse other derive some kind of

identity from that

mediators looking at them for the pickup
skills

it gives you a sense of power

it you know it he's a belonging

maybe a started running for more social
media like

you know you know your introvert and
something that that's really important

that you've learned how do i think a
more extroverted

baby it's you know you want to press the
guys at the wire you want to

you know look really cool part your
friends

yup went through a lot of motivation dot
and and you know you know it

grammar arabs but there was a point but
i'd be like making out the drama club

edited looking around seeing like if if
the guys i went out with

were receive pseudo because that's not a
good motivation

i've ever there was a point when

although i first got into this where i
broke up my girlfriend of five years and

i just really want to go out

and how to get a list of the revenge
against hard at some of the bodies to do

it you know i want to all this is all
things as i went to it are not getting

up here speaking to you guys

you don't want to launch air from a
vacuum

also i'm talking about the missile
condescending i want to all this

an obstacle because i want to cut a
budget that's what it's like

i wanna like he was a short cuts that
you guys want tonight and and improve

and get the girls you want

what i would put a lid outright

how to figure out what the ke motivation
is

and this is one thing and my philosophy
that guys always connect with me here it

is

they're able to just go out in transit
to success because this and it will be

reproaching siding

this will get you over on any cuttings
that you have that escalating about

moving things forward

is one thing

exchange amortization

and change that motivation

to finding out the truth okay and i know
what celtic ridicule c extracted

philosophical pretentious

really got to think about this

because i've been out with

old blotter amazing dot in this industry
and just regular guys whose awesome with

women and i see the way to interact with
women

and none of these guys are going up
front possess the girl

none of these guided going up front in
front of the guys nobody always in these

guys are doing it

is to find out the truth

whose book what i see a hot girl

i don't see look all id number close
escrow i don't see it all i can to try

it when you open up i don't see it all
and i get the scroll my friends will

think i'm cool you wouldn't five-c_

i see if it did this choose

in that situation

the truth about how to write you to walk
up she did was amazing girl the world

should be

list girl

habit raise personality elephant

and that she cannot buy that may be she
the total bitch

maybe she's in a rush macy's your
personality

you have no idea but until you approach
ur un election

and even tried to see sheep she blows
you oughtn't to sex right chief emilie

to prove shut it down

israel better to put yourself that your
bravery that you're building up over com

adversary it over the back about that
that struggle struggle

you'll find that should not do in her
together right how do you have been

tracked yet

fire chief at winning japan one in
general you know how women react that

way women's day

you can you find that truth abating

the whole reason a lot here is because i
have heights you know i've got out and i

was with the truth bed every night

that would gradually om of learning to
talk about up here

so that's a thing

the truth is all we can really hope that
you can't possessed a girl uk you

don't press your friends you can't do
any good for sex

all predicated other people's reactions
reactions to you

but you can do that truth it's so
important i'm about that one night with

a entropy

anger at this bar bosses at really high
end really nice clogged

and i saw a stroll and entropy summit
ecr actions gorgeous japanese girl

and not sure if there was like

what six like event a fire looking guide
endowed

and to be infected kept subject your act
like well

you got to find out the truth about that
you know kind up kinda baiting me

throughout said to travel philosophy

and you know why i didn't shoot that
situation was out a crow

didn't want to beat me but her computer
apparently was that normally that

situation with would would really

i wouldn't do it because it at two oh
two proteins actin is a coaching you

know what you see see or you know one
girl six guys

six big guys wanted to show that you
don't want to do it but you know the

truth was closed i think they were
called it a bit you know what i don't

like begin what they want bad guys in

she was in a bad girls is just like you
know it's not the truth it what it was

in the right time wasn't the right night
but that's a thing he'll get you over

you're approaching died just bullet like
focus on that one thing

we were all like most people approaching
guiding

build-up in you

stink yourself what's the truth

i need to find out the truth i need to
find out about the struggling to find

out of growth in general

whatever truth you want to focus on

make that your motivation

because that was going to get you to put
that birth but our whose us all

knowledge of all that matters

you put that footballer and all the ones
that apollo and you know he'll walk up

to push sectoral whether it's in the
daytime nighttime day situation freak

situation it doesn't matter

just approach that truth why do you get
that shirt

and i think they've gotta shoot you get
one out by the truth you know sometimes

like i said it doesn't always go great

but what did you find out when it first
of all it's not a big deal and secondly

flat tax free fucking funny you know

i mean i know my favorite stories
approaching girls had nothing to do with

white

the on meeting approaches you to work
for the broth like the help of three

guys that you don't believe that
would've like whatever whatever kind of

insure off some

brag story here

those are not my favorite stories

every stories are the ones we like

and zack and i had a girl screen that
were discussed being you'd all like

doughnuts like you know i don't know i
wrote a book ur wild ones hot some

brought by up to date james bond of
twirling a martini glass and i to my

fingers

and the blacks and whites

and heads i sat on the floor and
everyone the quality of did it depicts

that you don't like seventh-grader wrote
this

at yahoo dot then i noticed it was in
that situation

date set is still pretty fuckin funny
you know

that's a big i i don't care as we will
continue to push the truth it doesn't

matter is that a reflection on you is no
reason to get a lot bended in they all

said and and until like the tallest cell
correct pickups still suck it support

these benefits you think big fucking
deal and part of your wife about later

selloutlive point with that

all right

so we went over why its value

so one significant three-fifths of
yourself

then it's about heart okay so you so you
have an empowering mon-sat you hadn't

waived his way to what the world

if you know it's appropriate to approach
girls in a way it's attracting and you

know i get a month and locking it up
here just a bunch of abstract ways to

think you know to think about

you know in your own head and power and
belief that that that's not my style i'd

like to be very applicable

innovation as well

the feel of the but with the way i look
at this is never the actions primary the

results of secondary that

is more important go open approach the
girl even the police stopped

that it is about actually getting the
propaganda gilroy here because he wanted

a better one pruitt in unproven are
still dating

sela

just like that

yelled so affected communication it

begins with yourself

and ends with a girl there's no middle
man

the da middleman and that is no eight
mods is no due to the internet there's

no you know we man did all that stuff
but i don't have turned on

what you're going to sell and the girl

so now let's talk about the girl's
father how to communicate attractively

because

the way i see it

before

roadways you get if you could to make it
a woman

in a way to track i mean isn't that
funny ways you can communicate with your

mom or your friends or grogan attracted
to

for when you are attracted to women

i put my personality

through likability

you know you know i don't know how white
with their present at a briefing to run

into a rainbow

back-to-back personality group present

and it goes through this and it briefly
before

or different boorda categories behavior

was categories are dry

inspiration

connection and attacked

and i spent all or those things are

but i wanted to do you sense all done

of how that relates to like

your personality is

i think it's nor check in with your
natural personality just eat a balanced

certain things right

most of the state unique with women

they're not mistakes who's doing it the
wrong time

like say for instance you go to a girl
and you try to remember to quickly says

no

you get rejected and it wasn't leading
to the wrong things you have to ask that

growth number sup sup at some point you
tracking these might be made up too soon

say you open a girl and

and you richard iraq's asic creature act
like you out the new weighty sexual and

she got freaked out walked away

here doing a silly role

blatantly nl level but researcher adults
here you have to be sexual at some point

interaction

but the same time you probably didn't
you earlier you too much of it

third-party point where you could have
bounced back with us for more of your

genuine personality he could lighten it
up a little bit cooler

taking the edge of the sexual out you
know off the sexual tension

biking notes body love about the release

you know so again

every mistake you made ido myself when i
first got into this abid mistake i was

making

wasn't always been put the friends own i
was always liked talking to girls and

and unit really nice to them connecting
with them

really wanted to know them

but i wasn't i wasn't moving forward
sexually or romantically

so i was getting put the friends own and
that

connecting with women and being serious
about dan and wanted to know that that's

not

the wrong thing to do it always doing it
the wrong time and i was doing it

without a doubt that was a balancing it
with it but the other three elements

so want to talk about his realities

blues work is the old balance each other
and they're all just artist easy to do

it various times and she's a prism
through which

you could show on your personality

all right so let's start with tom

with dr

this genuine sexual attraction for a
woman

book she knows it

you know it

so it does make it awesome i mean look
nachiket anyone gordon directed she

knows why you're talking to our girls
are not stupid she got a bar there's no

reason why start conversation with her
if you want sexually attracted to it

rather than try to hide it because uh...

do you think i tried to think a lot of
guys charter

trip try to hide their dr

and out

i think

issued a lot of guides is they try to
hide their drive to try to hide it from

them selves we try to hide it from the
girl

rather than like

sittin denial of the back of your
sexually attracted to her

should be okay with it and i'm not
saying you need to go direct that your

style uh... you come down to your
personality

what you should be honest with yourself

and should be a part of the woman and
the way i see it is usually shameless

about it

a lot of the girls are by girlfriend now

show her favorite thing about me is the
fact that like

i'm very i'm very proud about about dot
about like

park il batter

and that's not being needy that's not
being it's not being like you know

whatever work whatever eighty children
ever

survey no

label you are put on it any of that

what that is being copied snowman what
you want you being needy when you need

something from hard when you know what
you the truth

the way i see it is like the accident
rapid growth and

of course that want to know that are of
course

i want to sexual affair because

that's naturalist biologically normal

and i was horrified at myself very
confident about that are very very

shameless about itself

i would definitely advocating all take
that attitude abuse shameless and ob

to be ok with with with that natural
masculine tried that

to inspiration

almost that's an emotional transparency
of your personality okay

you have to understand how to access
your creativity

joke all creative you're all corning
you're already

but the thing is is that

if you don't have sister of mine says it
is you had bility cuny kit that you know

that party personality is never going to
come out

ways to do that is again first of all
said and above all white ahmadi acutally

winds up i use uses used your own
personality

ways to access the creativity of
inspiration

focus upon visual fixed

things that you can see

the living in to talk about

because when you talk about save up to a
girl and you start talking about how

you'd like for hearings or how you like

some some aspects isis some art buchwald
that she's wearing

that is so much better than anyone seen

because first they find something about
heart which is with i don't want to hear

that anyway keep a lot of hearing about
themselves

we're also showing her the wit you
perceive the world

the way that you see her tube the
reasons that you like it because you are

if you like the article clothing

when you can make it back to work that
he needed to pass it to your personality

and the way they drive inspiration work
is a complement each other

on the one hand

uniquely sexual to grow unique dvd let
dr paul would you need to approach ur

you need to show that you're interested
in her

but also to you can't make you can't let
that but wanted to long

because that is to be a creep back

cd that you should see the thing all
you're just like every other gods

approach like that

cd the balance

that element

with the inspiration so so what well i
was allowed to do it is that we do

negative approach direct

duel with a smile doing why acting do in
a way that's fine

that will take unison a sexual that i
could potentially be awkward and bounces

it was something that's very very key
very very easy to get into a very very

easy for girls

to be ok with

that's why girls like will go lot will
like

be open to holy fire with guys like the
record straight on that

if they think it's very good at it seems
fun

but growth and anything it seems fun
anyone with a navy seems fun so that's

basically what balance those two
elements

so that next one connection creating an
emotionally relevant relationship

and i see connection a lot and i think
it's about learning facts about the girl

or tell you'd oversight in your
biological or biographical you know

history or whatever about where you grew
up dot you probably think

not to me that social bullshit

that's up unknowable tional rolled

what building connections really about
that sharing emotions ok and all

experiences that you when the girl can
connect on

when you watch the rigidity wang you had
your first alcoholic drink but i'm not

wholly embarrassed these are things that
happened everyone we're all human all

feely state

and that's how people build connections

that's how reporting copper still she'll
trust you if she sees your you're an

emotionally normal stable person

and please show that

it's like an acting over shared
experiences

so figure out

the experiences that you've had you find
to be emotionally relevant and that's a

start that you should check with women
on apec

with within that the next time

element here is the cat the roadmap for
moving things forward smoothly

with funny is

the communities really great

the vote pickup community and dating
advice literature is this is what i

think really has it's value

because

their are certain things

a woman that overload the way to move
things forward where it's moving the

trip where the transitions are bob but
you know whenever it would likely in

facing physics when everything moved
forward this to be friction

so whenever you move it will be
interaction poet

she's going to push back is to be
friction leadership roadblocks and to

keep mechanics is

taking all the friction adam

out of out of the here all the
awkwardness out interaction that

the way to do that it's like

you know you light

eugene open in a way that out

that like mexico complicated even with
the over the back opening like i mean

it's kind of fourteen albert

it's still it's a way that its case in
the friction as out of you know

uh... ought to strangers meeting

on the way he set up a date right

i mean the idea that you try to set up a
date that on you know if you want to end

you know if the if your hope in the day
ends in you know

up

your bedroom or whatever

you've been you could all quickly
suggested into the date or you can set

up a date where maybe at a candle a
dinner in your apartment and you're

already your are you via one relating
your bedroom so he's always batana

jazz ways of thinking again i wasn't too
much time on this because i think the

community

really have a lot of really good things
to say about the various ways

to take the edge off of bomb

or the movie interaction bullard

with his this is where i had the time is
like you know

there is like one fourth of of your
personality should come in through that

mechanics element should be thinking
about how can i move this forward in a

way that smooth and thought in a way
that sapim put hargarten saka gephardt

c_-one to object to it

i notice it before it balance that's the
best secret to attracting women

each issues four elements it has an
appropriate time

an appropriate place at that

daytime should be

to the sexual there's a time to show
your personality there's a time to take

a plan and

and it's a time

to move things forward

but by going out and buy faxing

you start you start developing intuitive
sense

for what it's time to do it but you know
whatever element is needed in that

moment

so which is the new pick one through
it's typical approaches that go to grow

at a bar

the first thing to do is work on a put
up with all word and the approach for me

starts when you put that first but
falling right because you're already

demonstrated ride here already

your rtc_'s yourself

okay i am sexually attracted to this
girl and i want to meet her she put that

footballer your party acting on your
drives lessened saxony stephanie

approach begins that suddenly don't
approach girl who get pushing dieting

and chicken outdoor push the girl

that the rejection saxony interjected at
that that's a problem

because that means that that you do need
after you drop so the approach begins

right here whom apply put forward at i
walk up the girl

and arthur conduit

i might say october direct sunlight and
i again coming from university opener

because would leave it open or some and
i'd say hey i thought you were out there

adorable i want to come meet you are
having a cute i want to come to you

and proved allison i've i've
demonstrated by dr

now it's important

that i'd that that balance act right
because i said i keep sitting there to

see all the air hot yet baby like

weigel review sexy

that's too much traction with the dog
you know he's

that's creepy so what rumah sakit and
i'm a smile on our bikes are saying all

you know i'd also to you have a

here and a hamburger share ever you know
curls up with a striped shirts unlike

you will really help is often the you
get bold splits with a pander to it

an ashram blacks in our study identity
my personality and i'd buy digital humor

into it

seduction you'll pay that about
allotment that's right now

now i might moving to audit connection
topic i might say

all the way you here with his youth was
like girl's night out you guys out to be

a bit wild

so-called now all the sudden sheet we
can bite on that because they're talking

about all girls night out being out
friends

so those are of motion the relevant
report building bob type things

and and i say all you know it's a little
bit lot of here what what we moved

several of the quiet on the take about a
hand and move her life

you know tends to be with her friends so
we can have a you know more into the

conversation

and also right there of before elvis
emotion and had to meet a great approach

because on the one hand i walked up with
the empowering believes i'd affected

communicate myself i've walked off
assuming this girl wants to meet me

top of that

badly

on top of that

high also and communicating inouye

that's a track of the heart that keep it
that

allows her to accomplish locate with
movie interaction boat

so that's how i like my philosophy in a
nutshell

often

and you know when you learned to
interact with four elements you know

more about yourself

it's so funny

as for the best materials come out now
but unlike the funniest things i've said

or some of the moment i've acted with
the most bravery of ever had or a dumb

things i never thought i could do

moments when i'd approach when it

moments in clubs where ever i did really
well with the grownups talking to a

really liked their and an

discusses was great and it is a pro-life
really enjoying you know interacting

left

i learn about myself

and was so poor that truth is waiting
for all you guys do

there are things that your personality

that you're going to learn just by going
out tonight

adopting empowering mindset

and put you know popularly appointees
four elements

you know again your much more attractive
funny charming witty the new ever give

yourself credit for so you know

at submitted gladden

so landed on tuesday after finding the
truth

apartheid all we have for students but
always ask that layer talks and always

ask even if i am you've got it don't
even know what's about to me but it sure

if we start talking about girls he loves
every guy was talking about women

fragment growth of approached

at always act

how many girls have you regretted
approaching

how many like interns anyone ever
regretted approach and i think and i

think the approach of the great amassing

and how to be at the perfect approach
her

or maybe a girl turned out to be taken
by say what you expected but had you

ever regretted approach

never regretted approach just like your
program going to the gym

you're a great whose approaching girls
healthiest normal put it's what apply

what degree

normal heterosexual guy want to do he
wants what approach women

he want to go out by next route

so i think always keep it back to my
you're never going to regret that

approach i'm never going to have had
some

approached blocked by popping dates and
idon't care

i will never regret for the protesters
always learn something i've always liked

about myself about the situation about
how doctor approach a girl whatever days

i've learned something or put you in
itself

it is so important that that you've
always to get back to martin the new

never going to regret approach in ur

glad by next year

and you know again showed reminding it's
about you bent about heart never action

primary result a secondary

so that it really appreciates coming out
out you know i know really early in the

morning but i am as i think that the
time

you some questions

yet if there's any questions obd

by said i know that this is not she's
kinda more of a yacht abstract talk

but i i i i again i i i have here

just from an

might lead to the community i think a
lot of time doing a lot stop that off

i think they find to be very effective
and it was an intel

i really got to be mind sets that i
don't know if i can result i want itself

that the peso so-so it seems a lot
tracking civil we're just at the time to

cap

register

and

have any questions

one thing you seem to suck a lot about
was doing in being yourself

not doing some other teens not knowing
about openers it seems like a lot of

guys myself included on the takes a lot
of confidence in yourself and self i'd

any self police that u

deserves whatever curly going to and

it seems like

you know especially young guys they
don't have that self-confidence l please

how did you develop

that for yourself

yet that that's a good questions i know
i no it's and i've definitely game

i can for a place probably worse off
than any guys you know i really dont i

really had a lot of allotted negative
beliefs about myself about within about

about

the world and

valsad it was it was not of the
situation i got into this

the way i got over it again it's become
self-fulfilling prophecy it's funny

it might might have to live as will
little bit of time

but lilac that belief is your re because
what's gonna happen is used on one of

two women and

like i said like i look at you i don't
see any reason why a growing

would be attracted you know that i don't
see any reason why

you couldn't go out and meet the growing
you want to meet and white we did and

how it would seen or any kind of

any kind of package reconstruct aside
from just keeping a fourteen-day about

that i'd outlined in mine

i don't see why a girl would ever say
although it is a big i want to meet you

know

and i think it when you accept that
believe these are going out to push a

girl that that would not worrying about
the opener not worrying about ob

doing the right people right time

just like biting at me for perfection
drop at your head that's one all the

sudden

yours are seeing that girls like that in
circulation

it happens little by little but you'll
see that girls like just seem to like

you more the interactions are better the
gross not flaking although all the

sudden girls are calling u that they had
to be trying to kiss you

you also know these things are happening
in your like wait a minute like

this girl really liked me i do any might

awesome routine or

i believe this girl was totally
receptive and open era in have to do

that the ten minute opener that means
act you know

certain crappy over over you know six
months

that day is that so

so i would i would just say really like

trip just try to score outages forget
about all the shit forget about what the

opener and do a lot of

sculpting you're going to do what any
students a lot of time co-op and a

diplomat

go go up and papa doc and let you know
button pics

and they go out to try to screw up and
try to like you'd like

to mess up and those usually draws it
means to spend it higher night with they

don't talk interacting with

who's against a set of barlow

like how much us say that you that you
can walk up to a girl he didn't give a

shit what you say if you see that you
like you

what do you what do you think i can
communicate about the way you see

yourself about your identity about how
that how how much confidence you had

that you didn't care

but it whether the sat_ for like

might my girlfriend's like that on

that go out and it would be neat guys
adam a lot of club but it may be just

pick up guys

was this guy's got one ccc shrine once
he sees that she he's like the good

things to say and he's

hedonism one head

a media lee

she's turned off she's like white white
against white tactics why why can't why

can't you just bought

what has to go this guy why did seem
like he has for funny games prepare for

me sellout dot that's that article one
answer to that

they come into question

anyone else

yet not good

no i don't think i have a good not good

you talked about building confidence and
how hard that is

this to get from to maybe where you
might be coming from as a younger guy to

get where maybe rob is right now

or some other guy

and gap it is hard it's very very

but it's a it's a mountain to climb but
i want to add

what do you think is going to be more
helpful for building confidence and i

want to ask every guy what do you think
is going to be better for building your

confidence to use a line that's not
yours that you read somewhere to whereas

even if a girl like said even if a girl
responds well to that

she's doing it because of this law

putting yourself out

being yourself is cliche does that say

and getting a positive response from
that you just don't know if you saw even

if the bars as

possible putting yourself out there and
she responds positively that maybe she

will but if you go

how do you think that's going to feel
freer confidence what do you think is

going to give you more confidence and
make you feel better about yourself and

continue the snowball rolling in the
right direction

question up

yeah i know i know that that's really
great pointed it out on you know darren

side

jpg broadcast at those that's really
good

you know trying to using the liner
scripted routine

you're actually kinda pleasing your
inner game and i really again at a

really are

release rightfully

the whole in our game dot you know

dichotomy

but i got another rate point because its
so true argue if you're going up and

even though i i beginning in goes beyond
just the wind refusing if you're going

up saying all i need to do this hack to
get her get hurt like me

sleepwear

what when you think that yourself what
what what what's normally send

yeah i know when i bring this up you
know that's a bit of activity i would

just teaches it if that's ok work for me
and i tried i tried for years and i i i

had so much much success pledge dropout
had to say okay you know what light

i'm going to be in perfect but if you
don't deny the point i saw plenty points

when i just think complete gibberish

and unhappy except that and i don't
really care because ice are looking

women is all these girls want to meet me
rather than on trying to go out

possesses perot-like i'll or i i need
seventy two when her over just path

like what that might take a

well it's a way

twenty years

if you get positive reaction off of that

it really helps your self-esteem

but um i'm at the point where my
mechanics

is there a copyright site go out and try
to myself

moving so smoothly

i get a lot more rejections off of that

deposit reactions

or how would you feel about late

like what are your thoughts

hopefully

sows the seeds

just like the game out

reactions

that's better question and you know that
that's why i kinda felt that before all

the system because guys can either a
twenty-seven you can't you could figure

out okay this is where i'm going trough
like my mechanic salman is

is on clunky

you know that's not a problem

on so one thing at opting out you do if
you really feel like that light you're

not quite step eternally you know un
autre wavering problem pathetic it's

like isolating agrawal or

gayi rolla com out you know the whether
it's a texting it was grossly from

flaking or data

then yes it automatically like trying to
fight by some cereal that you might be

fine they can still make enik

i like it when i say drop out my copy
refused a to a girl is always you know

it's a lot of militias who over here

but what i do so i i i i cud read or
heard people say lots lots of funny my

music like all the show you this magical
balcony you know what i would add

whatever it is interesting thing about
him over

so to definitely you want a look at
what's taking taking that edge off of

what you're trying to do

bodog

yes oh so it's a it's a it's a way to do
and what was at a party questions that

i've been carousel man is called the end

all the time

it seems like

more negative reactions then positive
reactions here but um trident like

do away with a lot of the lines and they
had to try to go up and talk

lately

said we deposit reaction reinforces like
yourself who seem fair

align on myself and she lives today

yeah things like is i myself

doesn't like

yeah i don't know what

eight million really probably it's
probably not so much what you like does

not know reflection on you you know if
it's definitely

something that's that's going wrong i'm
sure that like resorting to get a

reaction i'm sure right before and i
give you pinpoint this picture right we

have a negative reaction

of course going to your head like
something might be but on ebay something

it is totally hot and the process

unify concert that night i've seen
probably realize you'd actually think

sandra others who think it's a

weighs about returning back to a game

cabinets for a long time i first heard
of actually other this is ridiculous is

absurd

these guys just doing like

visiting a pick up anymore this is just
a bunch of guys is going out to me about

how they want to pretoria

but when i realized is that it's not
retarded because

which started having is and i realize
that like it's more about pinpointing in

your own head lead that s it infected
conditioned interview so i'm sure they

did a mormon right before you say
something to getting the negative

response that your being with all of the
these girls too hot to lose it but i

think i think recycling frauds like
withdraws super track is to and admitted

that's what my head we all out of school
the school so hot on the server anne

what day and we ought to be a bit of
cities empire is one night absorbs

the starter pipe

one ridiculous and we're talking he was
going so well should certainly she said

also

we wanna or by return what would you
want and where it was really really high

and clog the drinks like twenty dollars
an aggressive not arriving should never

say i want to put what you want to know
i i i don't project

and in my head at time of the puzzle
editor wanted regardless of my head was

really thinking bilateral aid

was an invitation to micro i don't think
that

i was worth twenty hours of the specs
loading dock road had to spend the body

traditionally other like-minded iphoto i
wouldn't mind buying new car around a

drink at that time and all of my caloric
what holy normal doing that

but the fact that you can buy major i
did feel worthy of that

and that was a problem and that's and i
realized stressed right now people

filled with change it was hit by a den
applying it and so that whatever process

in a bali by drank a much like top shelf
of still you know i hope that uh... that

that that that by the yeah i mean i like

you know you have to be like that were
the days you know as it was like a

receipt or a bigot blown out being
myself at those being myself by saying

no

what really what was really happening
was that that that that that kinda bed

believe

keep my head at the at that right before
it happened

and that will happen throughout the
draft should be no it'll be like on

leaves of the event of a open agrawal
and i think myself all she's so hot

or all this in your really hard
situation

is open stocks

you know that's it's going to it's going
to alia many point out what are you to

receive your whether it be myself and
that it's more of electric leakage of

itself

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appreciate a reply no it's early but the

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