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Am I A Lesbian Or Just Lonely?

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    Welcome to Just Between Us
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    I'm sorry that I'm wearing the same shirt
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    that I've worn before.
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    Nobody noticed.
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    I have felt the pressure to buy
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    more clothes since we've been
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    doing this show.
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    Right?
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    Like maybe like a velour jumpsuit.
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    Well--
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    What if every episode
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    we just wore jumpsuits?
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    Like a uniform!
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    Like a basketball team!
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    Oh if we had a uniform
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    that would be interesting.
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    We had uniforms at my high school
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    and you just knew who the
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    rich kids were cause their
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    uniforms were laundered more often.
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    You wore your uniform
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    dirty everyday?
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    Are you about to break out in hives?
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    A little.
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    I barely wash my clothes now!
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    ♪ (groovy music) ♪
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    This week
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    we have an international question
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    regarding love
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    from Tony in Dublin.
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    Oh my god! International!
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    But it seems like
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    everywhere people have the same problem.
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    Wha?
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    How do I know if I'm a lesbian
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    or just lonely?
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    How many cats do you have?
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    You have to be true
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    to yourself.
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    If you wanna be with someone else
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    and you fall in love with them,
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    gender is just
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    part of the package!
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    Sometimes I'm incredibly lonely.
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    And yes,
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    Gaby presents herself to me.
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    But that doesn't change
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    my sexuality.
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    (sigh)
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    Although it does make me change
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    the lock on my bedroom.
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    At what point do you think
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    you would get lonely enough?
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    Like what if we were
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    in a desert island.
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    If I was paralyzed
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    I would be with you sexually.
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    What if we were in prison?
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    -A: Oh no.
    -G: Why?
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    No one's clean in prison.
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    You don't have to define yourself
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    as lesbian or not lesbian.
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    You can be bisexual
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    you can be someone who
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    falls in love with one woman
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    and then never again.
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    You can be someone who
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    falls in love with one man
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    and then never again.
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    If you have actual
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    sexual urges
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    then you know that that's real
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    and that's a thing
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    you should pursue.
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    But if you're just bored,
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    don't fingerbang
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    your best girlfriend.
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    I think it's okay
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    to spend some time
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    alone with yourself.
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    Get to know yourself,
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    be single,
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    learn how to masturbate
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    There are so many
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    different ways to do it.
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    Just uhh,
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    try all the different ways!
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    I'd say
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    call your parents more!
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    Cause you don't ever think
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    of them as friends but
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    they really can be.
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    Not while masturbating!
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    Would your parents know
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    if you were a lesbian?
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    They might!
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    I feel like if I asked my parents
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    they would be like
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    "yes probably"
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    and it would've saved me
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    like 5 years.
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    ♪ (groovy music) ♪
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    That's the Allison Raskin story.
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    You think it's so sweet,
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    and then it's so dark.
Title:
Am I A Lesbian Or Just Lonely?
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Video Language:
English
Duration:
02:35

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