Jeff Explains the Essence and Practice of Mindfulness Meditation
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0:00 - 0:03>> This is a great way to get
into the second practice set -- -
0:03 - 0:06we're going to do which is
mindfulness, the practice of mindfulness -
0:06 - 0:09which is really the practice of being more
aware of what's going on in our experience. -
0:09 - 0:13Mindfulness is the kind of fashionable word
for it right now but call it awareness, -
0:13 - 0:17call it objectivity, call it -- it's
there in every tradition and every -- -
0:17 - 0:20lots of human beings and cultures
talk about it in their own ways. -
0:20 - 0:22It's just being aware of what's
going on in your experience. -
0:23 - 0:28And it turns out that there's
layers and layers of stuff going on -
0:28 - 0:33and that we're often ping-ponging
around automatically with stuff. -
0:33 - 0:35So patterns are being activated,
and we don't really realize it. -
0:35 - 0:38We're kind of walking around in a bad
mood, or we're walking around [inaudible] -
0:38 - 0:40on something, going around and around.
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0:41 - 0:45And when we're inside these loops,
these loops of behaving and acting -
0:45 - 0:48and responding, what does it feel like?
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0:48 - 0:49It can feel like fate.
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0:49 - 0:51It feels like we're always going to be here.
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0:51 - 0:52We've always been here.
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0:53 - 0:57It feels -- it's so sticky, it's
hard to kind of get out of it. -
0:57 - 1:02And there is truth -- the reason it's
sticky is because you're deepening a pattern -
1:02 - 1:03or a groove that you go in a lot.
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1:03 - 1:09You're like training your body and mind
to continue on in that kind of a pattern. -
1:10 - 1:13So that's the sobering part.
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1:13 - 1:18Mindfulness practice is really a beautiful
practice for kind of working with that, -
1:18 - 1:21understanding, and noticing how that works.
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1:21 - 1:25That is the work of a practice so that's it.
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1:25 - 1:30The work of a practice is you have an idea that
you want us [inaudible] and meditate and focus -
1:30 - 1:34on your breath but you have a life
and your being triggered in your life -
1:34 - 1:38and you have shit that's going on
and stuff that's happening at work -
1:38 - 1:41and in your relationship and in your family
and you're thinking and worrying about it -
1:41 - 1:44because you're trying to sort
it out and that's totally fine. -
1:44 - 1:49So the first thing is to say this is
completely natural that I have this pattern -
1:49 - 1:52that I'm inside, that this is just how it goes.
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1:52 - 1:54So you first except that
you're having that experience -
1:55 - 1:58so that the concentration we have working
with that is just to go back to the breath -
1:58 - 2:01and let it -- and do your best
to let it be in the background. -
2:01 - 2:04Eventually you get pulled up with
it again but you notice it happens. -
2:04 - 2:05You go back to the breath.
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2:05 - 2:09Eventually the breath starts
to become richer and fuller. -
2:09 - 2:13The real estate of the breath gets larger
than the real estate of that sticky pattern. -
2:13 - 2:15And you can sort of shift ratios that way.
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2:16 - 2:19But the mindfulness way of
working about it is to say okay. -
2:19 - 2:21Well, actually I'm going
to look at this pattern. -
2:21 - 2:22I'm going to actually go into it.
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2:23 - 2:26Instead of just being automatically inside
it, I'm going to start to explore it. -
2:26 - 2:30So I'm going to -- when I'm in this thing
-- and you can explore it different ways. -
2:30 - 2:34You can -- one of the most constructive ways
is just to kind of see what it's made of. -
2:35 - 2:41Like generally you'll find it's made of body
sensation, so emotional feelings and tugs -
2:41 - 2:45like anger in the jaw or like
heartache through the chest -
2:45 - 2:49or vibrating agitation or whatever it is.
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2:49 - 2:52Like the body sensations are
really providing the juice of a lot -
2:52 - 2:54of our emotion and thinking patterns.
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2:54 - 2:56So you can just stay with
the feelings in the body. -
2:57 - 3:00And we'll kind of do one like that
in a moment, a practice like that. -
3:00 - 3:04You can also work with the head
part of it, the thinking part. -
3:04 - 3:05You can go in and go okay.
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3:06 - 3:09Can I actually just notice what
images are coming up right now? -
3:09 - 3:13Instead of just being in the images, can I
kind of have this objective witnessing thing? -
3:13 - 3:18Can I disembed from this trance
and just notice the images, -
3:18 - 3:22the face of your disappointed
mother or whatever it is? -
3:22 - 3:24Or can you notice the talk?
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3:24 - 3:26So that's another component.
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3:26 - 3:31The voice in your head, the narrative you're
telling yourself, the criticism, the -- -
3:32 - 3:36you know the voice of the other person, whatever
it is just -- and you kind of tried to -- -
3:36 - 3:41it's this weird move of just like the act of
noticing it means you're no longer inside it. -
3:42 - 3:46So this is the single most
important thing a human being needs -
3:46 - 3:47to know in their life, I think.
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3:47 - 3:49You know, probably there
will be a few so it's not -
3:50 - 3:51that the single most important
but it's an important one. -
3:52 - 3:55That is that you -- you're not
fated to repeat these patterns. -
3:55 - 4:00If you can notice the thing is happening, the
active noticing it means you're not inside it. -
4:01 - 4:06You're now outside it because the crazy
punch line in the contemplative world, -
4:06 - 4:10in the Buddhist world, in the Hindu
world, in the Taoist world, and even in -- -
4:10 - 4:14talked about in different ways in the
Abrahamic traditions, the crazy punch line is -
4:14 - 4:17that you aren't -- like that's part of you.
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4:17 - 4:21That's the process of your personality
but the act of being aware it self, -
4:21 - 4:25the knower is the same knower in everybody else.
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4:25 - 4:25It's empty.
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4:26 - 4:27It has no material.
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4:27 - 4:32The act of knowing is this act --
it's this expression of your freedom. -
4:33 - 4:36So it's different than -- knowing
is different than thinking. -
4:36 - 4:38This is what people don't really realize.
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4:38 - 4:40It's like you're thinking about something.
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4:40 - 4:41Thinking is tractable.
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4:41 - 4:41It's images.
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4:41 - 4:42It's talk.
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4:42 - 4:43It's a little bit of tension in the face.
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4:43 - 4:44It's all this stuff.
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4:45 - 4:49The knowing is just the knowing but we think
knowing and thinking are the same things. -
4:49 - 4:53But a mindfulness practice basically lets you
disembed from the thinking so you can know it. -
4:53 - 4:56So the knower is here and then
that thinking is happening here. -
4:56 - 4:57Does that make sense?
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4:58 - 5:02Okay. Because it's kind of a weird thing
to get around but that is the experience. -
5:02 - 5:06The experience is that you can pop out and
start to observe the thing from outside. -
5:06 - 5:07And then guess what?
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5:07 - 5:10It turns out that process
just keeps going on and on -
5:10 - 5:14and on because the place you're noticing
from, which at first seems like oh, yeah, -
5:14 - 5:18I'm noticing it as this empty
knower then gets slowly coagulated -
5:18 - 5:19into being another thinking process.
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5:19 - 5:20And then you've got to pop out of that.
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5:20 - 5:22So you've got to -- and then
you've got to pop out of that. -
5:22 - 5:23And there's always another layer to pop out of.
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5:23 - 5:26It just is like turtles all
the way down basically. -
5:26 - 5:32But that's okay because it's like it's about
getting free incrementally or continually moving -
5:32 - 5:34into a more spacious perspective
and then getting caught up again -
5:34 - 5:36and then more spacious perspective but over time
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5:37 - 5:39that perspective becomes the
place you take a stand in. -
5:40 - 5:43So I'm going to make that
more tangible for you guys. -
5:43 - 5:45Let's actually try that as a practice now.
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5:46 - 5:50In a very uncomplicated way, it's just being
aware of what's going on in your experience. -
5:50 - 5:56And as we start to look, it starts out kind
of crude like we can't really detect it. -
5:56 - 6:02It's sort of murky but the longer and more
patiently we are -- that we spend investigating, -
6:02 - 6:05the more subtler qualities
begin to get teased out. -
6:05 - 6:12So there is this detection and this quality
that emerges, this quality of clarity, -
6:12 - 6:15and it's like we start to become more
and more transparent to ourselves. -
6:15 - 6:19And you can think of it as -- it's like
the conscious mind is starting to seep -
6:19 - 6:22down into the unconscious or the subconscious,
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6:22 - 6:27these sort of subterranean levels were all
the turbines are and all the machinery. -
6:27 - 6:31It's like it can start to get down in there
and like, you know, walk around on the floor -
6:31 - 6:34of the factory and, you know,
take a look around. -
6:34 - 6:41So hopefully that metaphor won't be -- it will
be helpful and not disturbing so let's try it.
- Title:
- Jeff Explains the Essence and Practice of Mindfulness Meditation
- Description:
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Jeff explains the essence and practice of mindfulness meditation (Vipassana) and how it differs from a concentration based practice (Samatha). This clip is from Jeff's new online course The Elements of Meditation in which he teaches 4 distinct styles of meditation, helping you to build a solid foundation and framework for your practice and discover what style works best for you. To learn more click here: http://bit.ly/2xWQSmJ
More on Jeff here: http://jeffwarren.org/
- Video Language:
- English
- Duration:
- 06:42
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