Empower a girl, transform a community
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0:01 - 0:02To empower girls,
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0:02 - 0:04you need to educate them.
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0:04 - 0:06That was my dream.
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0:06 - 0:07And so I built a school,
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0:07 - 0:10and in the process,
I learned something much bigger. -
0:10 - 0:13When you empower a girl,
you transform a community. -
0:14 - 0:16School is just a start.
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0:17 - 0:18I grew up in rural Kenya
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0:18 - 0:21in a small village called Enoosaen.
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0:21 - 0:23I was the first of eight children,
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0:23 - 0:28and I spent my childhood
helping my mother cook, clean, farm -
0:28 - 0:30and take care of my siblings.
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0:30 - 0:32Like other Maasai girls,
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0:32 - 0:36I was engaged from
a very young age to be married. -
0:36 - 0:38But as I reached puberty,
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0:38 - 0:41I underwent female genital mutilation,
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0:42 - 0:43known as FGM.
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0:44 - 0:49This picture shows some of the tools
that are used to perform FGM on girls. -
0:51 - 0:55FGM was supposed to mark
the end of my childhood -
0:55 - 0:58and, by extension, my education.
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0:58 - 1:02But I negotiated with my father
in order to stay in school -- -
1:02 - 1:04even after going through FGM.
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1:06 - 1:09Years later I went to university.
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1:10 - 1:14And in order to get
my community's support, -
1:14 - 1:18I promised to come back one day
to repay that support. -
1:19 - 1:22But years later,
when I went back to my village, -
1:22 - 1:24not much had changed.
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1:24 - 1:27Girls were still going through FGM,
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1:27 - 1:29still leaving school,
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1:29 - 1:32still getting married
to men older than their fathers -
1:32 - 1:37and still having children
when they're teenagers. -
1:37 - 1:41I did not want to see
any more girls go through that. -
1:41 - 1:46That's when I knew what I needed to do
to give back to my community. -
1:48 - 1:51I built a school just for girls
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1:51 - 1:54so that they can be free from FGM
and early marriage. -
1:55 - 1:57At my first enrollment --
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1:57 - 2:01(Applause and cheers)
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2:03 - 2:05At my first enrollment,
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2:05 - 2:07I had hoped for 10 girls.
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2:08 - 2:09100 came.
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2:09 - 2:11(Cheers and applause)
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2:11 - 2:15I started to realize
just how big this dream was, -
2:15 - 2:19and soon I learned that my school
could be the foundation -- -
2:20 - 2:22but it wasn't going to be enough.
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2:22 - 2:26So that first year,
I enrolled these 30 girls. -
2:26 - 2:28Some had been abused, others were orphans,
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2:28 - 2:31and some came from families
that are very traditional, -
2:31 - 2:33that had never sent any girl to school.
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2:34 - 2:35So school started.
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2:36 - 2:38Though the girls
seemed excited to be there, -
2:38 - 2:41they were having difficulty staying awake.
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2:42 - 2:43What was going on?
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2:43 - 2:45They had a teacher, they had books,
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2:45 - 2:48there was a new classroom on the way,
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2:48 - 2:49but ...
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2:49 - 2:53They were determined to be there,
but they had no energy. -
2:54 - 2:55Then I realized they were hungry,
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2:56 - 2:59so I quickly found a cook and food.
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3:00 - 3:04Soon thereafter, I learned
that a classroom was not enough. -
3:04 - 3:06I needed a boarding school.
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3:07 - 3:11Not only were the girls tired
and hungry from chores -
3:11 - 3:14and long walks to school and back home,
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3:14 - 3:16they were also not safe.
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3:16 - 3:17It's a sad truth,
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3:17 - 3:21but girls are often assaulted,
raped and even kidnapped -
3:21 - 3:23on their way to school.
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3:24 - 3:27So before a girl
could learn math or history, -
3:27 - 3:29she needed to feel safe,
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3:29 - 3:32she needed to be rested
and be well-nourished. -
3:33 - 3:35So let me tell you about some of my girls.
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3:35 - 3:37This is Faith.
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3:37 - 3:41Faith comes from a very traditional
family in the community. -
3:41 - 3:46Her older sister had already
gone through FGM and already married, -
3:46 - 3:48but Faith was so determined.
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3:48 - 3:49She really loved learning,
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3:49 - 3:53and she wanted to come to my school
when she heard about it. -
3:53 - 3:56So she asked her father, her mother --
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3:56 - 3:58anyone to bring her to my school.
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3:58 - 4:00They all refused.
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4:01 - 4:03Faith did something very brave.
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4:03 - 4:06She stole an egg from her mother's house,
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4:06 - 4:08went to the market,
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4:08 - 4:10sold the egg and bought a single pencil.
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4:10 - 4:12Then she walked five miles,
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4:12 - 4:14clenching that pencil, trying to enroll.
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4:16 - 4:17She arrived --
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4:17 - 4:19(Applause)
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4:19 - 4:22She arrived tired and hungry,
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4:22 - 4:24but determined.
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4:24 - 4:28I listened to her story,
and we enrolled her in my school. -
4:28 - 4:31But getting into my school
was only just the start. -
4:32 - 4:34Faith needed food, she needed medicine,
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4:34 - 4:35she needed counseling --
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4:36 - 4:38all of which we provided.
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4:38 - 4:42And she also met adults
who already believed in her. -
4:43 - 4:45Supported by this community,
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4:45 - 4:47Faith was ready to learn.
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4:47 - 4:49This is Faith.
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4:49 - 4:51Six months of schooling,
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4:51 - 4:56now she's a happy sixth grader
who dreams of becoming a pilot someday, -
4:56 - 4:59and her family now supports her,
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4:59 - 5:00and best of all,
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5:00 - 5:03her younger sisters
will follow in her footsteps. -
5:03 - 5:08(Applause)
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5:11 - 5:16Child marriage is expected to cost
the global economy trillions of dollars -
5:16 - 5:18over the next 15 years.
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5:19 - 5:21We can talk numbers,
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5:21 - 5:22but in a real lifetime,
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5:22 - 5:28what child marriage will cost my village
is the doctor, the teacher, -
5:28 - 5:29the entrepreneur,
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5:30 - 5:33the true partner our men
will need in the future ... -
5:33 - 5:38real ways women can help us
lift out of poverty. -
5:39 - 5:42So I came to realize once again,
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5:42 - 5:45as I did when I needed help
to go to university, -
5:46 - 5:49that while I could dream or have a dream,
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5:49 - 5:53I could not make it come true
all by myself. -
5:54 - 5:59So I went back to the elders
who helped me more than a decade ago. -
5:59 - 6:03I needed their support once again
if I was going to be successful. -
6:04 - 6:08So I formed a community board
with religious leaders, parents -
6:08 - 6:12and some teachers from other schools.
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6:12 - 6:15I needed allies in the government
and in the community -
6:15 - 6:18to help advance my goal.
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6:18 - 6:21I needed especially
the support of the chief -
6:21 - 6:24to help me enforce
the no-FGM policy in my school. -
6:25 - 6:27At first he was resistant,
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6:28 - 6:29but I persisted --
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6:29 - 6:30(Laughter)
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6:30 - 6:33and now he's our greatest ally.
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6:33 - 6:38(Applause)
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6:38 - 6:41I also needed the fathers.
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6:42 - 6:44That brings me to Linet.
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6:44 - 6:49Linet's father, Momposhi,
did not believe in the education of girls. -
6:49 - 6:52In fact, he himself never went to school.
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6:52 - 6:56But Linet's mother believed in Linet
and brought her to enroll in my school, -
6:56 - 6:58and I knew she belonged with us.
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6:58 - 7:03I just had to find a way
to get Momposhi to believe in Linet, too. -
7:04 - 7:08So I used the pretense
of revealing Linet's grade -
7:08 - 7:11to get Momposhi to come.
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7:11 - 7:16He came, and he started noticing
his daughter being promising as a student. -
7:17 - 7:22With each visit, he built
a strong relationship with his daughter -- -
7:22 - 7:25noticing not just her grades
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7:25 - 7:28but also accepting her
as someone with full potential. -
7:30 - 7:33So when Linet was accepted
in one of the top national high schools -
7:33 - 7:35after eighth grade,
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7:35 - 7:38Momposhi was bursting with pride
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7:38 - 7:39and went around the village
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7:39 - 7:43telling everyone how proud
and how smart his daughter was. -
7:43 - 7:44(Laughter)
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7:44 - 7:45Can you imagine?
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7:45 - 7:48He brought Linet
to the new school himself. -
7:48 - 7:52It was the first time either of them
had ever been to Nairobi. -
7:52 - 7:57Today Linet is studying
at university in Australia -- -
7:57 - 8:02(Applause and cheers)
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8:02 - 8:05and Momposhi is our greatest
advocate in the community. -
8:06 - 8:09I also brought mothers to the table,
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8:09 - 8:10including my own.
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8:10 - 8:13That's my mother
in one of our training programs. -
8:13 - 8:16And our mothers are involved
in the education of their own children. -
8:17 - 8:20I also brought grandmothers into the mix.
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8:20 - 8:21(Laughter)
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8:21 - 8:24In my community, grandmothers
are the proud keepers -
8:24 - 8:26of our stories and cultures,
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8:26 - 8:31and I wanted my girls to learn
and embrace our rich Maasai culture. -
8:31 - 8:34Today, grandmothers
do story time with the girls, -
8:34 - 8:38and it's a beautiful way
our community remains connected. -
8:40 - 8:41I also ...
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8:42 - 8:43started working with the boys!
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8:43 - 8:45(Laughter)
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8:45 - 8:46What would happen
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8:46 - 8:50if the boys grew up with the same
mindset as their fathers before them? -
8:50 - 8:53I'll tell you, not much will change.
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8:54 - 8:59So I enlisted support from an organization
called I'm Worth Defending: -
8:59 - 9:03a group of young, progressive leaders
led by Alfred and George. -
9:03 - 9:07Together we created
a training program for boys and girls -
9:07 - 9:09who could not attend my school,
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9:09 - 9:14sharing vital information
about gender equality, -
9:14 - 9:16health and human rights.
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9:16 - 9:22Today we have reached
over 10,000 boys and girls and counting. -
9:22 - 9:26(Applause)
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9:29 - 9:34It turns out it truly does take a village
to make this kind of a dream come true. -
9:34 - 9:35(Laughter)
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9:35 - 9:37That's what you're seeing today,
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9:37 - 9:41where nearly 400 girls
have not gone through FGM -
9:41 - 9:43in my village,
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9:43 - 9:48in a region where nearly 80 percent
of women have been cut. -
9:48 - 9:52Believe me, these girls,
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9:52 - 9:54they are sharing their experiences
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9:54 - 9:58with their sisters,
their cousins and their friends. -
9:58 - 10:00They're so interested.
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10:01 - 10:04Over time, this is becoming the new normal
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10:04 - 10:07and it's being embraced
by the same, same community -- -
10:07 - 10:09my community.
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10:10 - 10:14So what does transforming
communities mean to Kenya? -
10:15 - 10:18President Obama visited Kenya in 2015,
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10:18 - 10:22and he met with representatives
from organizations -
10:22 - 10:25trying to help improve communities.
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10:26 - 10:27Guess what?
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10:27 - 10:29He met Linet!
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10:29 - 10:30(Laughter)
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10:30 - 10:34(Applause)
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10:38 - 10:40Together they talked about a Kenya
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10:40 - 10:44where all girls
have the same opportunities, -
10:44 - 10:46where Linet is a leader
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10:46 - 10:49and where communities
like Enoosaen are thriving -
10:49 - 10:51because its members --
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10:51 - 10:53all its members -- have opportunities.
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10:54 - 10:58Helping the communities see
that each daughter is a treasure, -
10:58 - 11:00every sister is full of potential,
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11:00 - 11:04and helping every single girl
see that value in herself. -
11:05 - 11:08There is no limit
to what that future will cost. -
11:10 - 11:14Not every girl who comes
to my school will be a PhD, -
11:14 - 11:20but every single one of them
will achieve her full potential -
11:20 - 11:23and will become an advocate
for her children -
11:23 - 11:26and her grandchildren for years to come.
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11:27 - 11:31Today my dreams are informed
by what I learned from them -
11:31 - 11:32and what I've learned from you.
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11:33 - 11:36My journey led me
out of Enoosaen and back again. -
11:37 - 11:39And in the process,
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11:39 - 11:40I was embraced by the world,
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11:41 - 11:43and you have become my village.
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11:43 - 11:46So I make a new promise to you,
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11:46 - 11:49my elders, my sisters and my friends,
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11:49 - 11:53that I am going to keep
dreaming and keep going -
11:53 - 11:58until girls like Linet and Faith
achieve their dreams -
11:58 - 11:59and I see mine:
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12:00 - 12:05that all communities
give every single woman -
12:05 - 12:06and every single girl
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12:06 - 12:09their dreams come true.
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12:09 - 12:10Thank you.
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12:10 - 12:12(Applause and cheers)
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12:14 - 12:16Thank you, thank you.
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12:16 - 12:18(Applause and cheers)
- Title:
- Empower a girl, transform a community
- Speaker:
- Kakenya Ntaiya
- Description:
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Kakenya Ntaiya turned her dream of getting an education into a movement to empower vulnerable girls and bring an end to harmful traditional practices in Kenya. Meet two students at the Kakenya Center for Excellence, a school where girls can live and study safely -- and uplift their community along the way. "When you empower a girl, you transform a community," Ntaiya says.
- Video Language:
- English
- Team:
closed TED
- Project:
- TEDTalks
- Duration:
- 12:31
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