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Empower a girl, transform a community

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    To empower girls,
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    you need to educate them.
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    That was my dream.
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    And so I built a school,
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    and in the process,
    I learned something much bigger.
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    When you empower a girl,
    you transform a community.
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    School is just a start.
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    I grew up in rural Kenya
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    in a small village called Enoosaen.
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    I was the first of eight children,
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    and I spent my childhood
    helping my mother cook, clean, farm
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    and take care of my siblings.
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    Like other Maasai girls,
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    I was engaged from
    a very young age to be married.
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    But as I reached puberty,
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    I underwent female genital mutilation,
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    known as FGM.
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    This picture shows some of the tools
    that are used to perform FGM on girls.
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    FGM was supposed to mark
    the end of my childhood
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    and, by extension, my education.
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    But I negotiated with my father
    in order to stay in school --
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    even after going through FGM.
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    Years later I went to university.
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    And in order to get
    my community's support,
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    I promised to come back one day
    to repay that support.
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    But years later,
    when I went back to my village,
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    not much had changed.
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    Girls were still going through FGM,
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    still leaving school,
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    still getting married
    to men older than their fathers
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    and still having children
    when they're teenagers.
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    I did not want to see
    any more girls go through that.
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    That's when I knew what I needed to do
    to give back to my community.
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    I built a school just for girls
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    so that they can be free from FGM
    and early marriage.
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    At my first enrollment --
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    (Applause and cheers)
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    At my first enrollment,
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    I had hoped for 10 girls.
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    100 came.
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    (Cheers and applause)
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    I started to realize
    just how big this dream was,
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    and soon I learned that my school
    could be the foundation --
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    but it wasn't going to be enough.
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    So that first year,
    I enrolled these 30 girls.
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    Some had been abused, others were orphans,
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    and some came from families
    that are very traditional,
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    that had never sent any girl to school.
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    So school started.
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    Though the girls
    seemed excited to be there,
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    they were having difficulty staying awake.
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    What was going on?
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    They had a teacher, they had books,
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    there was a new classroom on the way,
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    but ...
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    They were determined to be there,
    but they had no energy.
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    Then I realized they were hungry,
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    so I quickly found a cook and food.
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    Soon thereafter, I learned
    that a classroom was not enough.
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    I needed a boarding school.
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    Not only were the girls tired
    and hungry from chores
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    and long walks to school and back home,
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    they were also not safe.
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    It's a sad truth,
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    but girls are often assaulted,
    raped and even kidnapped
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    on their way to school.
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    So before a girl
    could learn math or history,
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    she needed to feel safe,
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    she needed to be rested
    and be well-nourished.
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    So let me tell you about some of my girls.
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    This is Faith.
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    Faith comes from a very traditional
    family in the community.
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    Her older sister had already
    gone through FGM and already married,
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    but Faith was so determined.
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    She really loved learning,
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    and she wanted to come to my school
    when she heard about it.
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    So she asked her father, her mother --
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    anyone to bring her to my school.
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    They all refused.
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    Faith did something very brave.
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    She stole an egg from her mother's house,
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    went to the market,
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    sold the egg and bought a single pencil.
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    Then she walked five miles,
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    clenching that pencil, trying to enroll.
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    She arrived --
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    (Applause)
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    She arrived tired and hungry,
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    but determined.
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    I listened to her story,
    and we enrolled her in my school.
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    But getting into my school
    was only just the start.
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    Faith needed food, she needed medicine,
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    she needed counseling --
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    all of which we provided.
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    And she also met adults
    who already believed in her.
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    Supported by this community,
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    Faith was ready to learn.
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    This is Faith.
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    Six months of schooling,
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    now she's a happy sixth grader
    who dreams of becoming a pilot someday,
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    and her family now supports her,
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    and best of all,
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    her younger sisters
    will follow in her footsteps.
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    (Applause)
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    Child marriage is expected to cost
    the global economy trillions of dollars
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    over the next 15 years.
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    We can talk numbers,
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    but in a real lifetime,
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    what child marriage will cost my village
    is the doctor, the teacher,
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    the entrepreneur,
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    the true partner our men
    will need in the future ...
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    real ways women can help us
    lift out of poverty.
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    So I came to realize once again,
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    as I did when I needed help
    to go to university,
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    that while I could dream or have a dream,
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    I could not make it come true
    all by myself.
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    So I went back to the elders
    who helped me more than a decade ago.
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    I needed their support once again
    if I was going to be successful.
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    So I formed a community board
    with religious leaders, parents
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    and some teachers from other schools.
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    I needed allies in the government
    and in the community
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    to help advance my goal.
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    I needed especially
    the support of the chief
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    to help me enforce
    the no-FGM policy in my school.
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    At first he was resistant,
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    but I persisted --
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    (Laughter)
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    and now he's our greatest ally.
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    (Applause)
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    I also needed the fathers.
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    That brings me to Linet.
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    Linet's father, Momposhi,
    did not believe in the education of girls.
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    In fact, he himself never went to school.
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    But Linet's mother believed in Linet
    and brought her to enroll in my school,
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    and I knew she belonged with us.
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    I just had to find a way
    to get Momposhi to believe in Linet, too.
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    So I used the pretense
    of revealing Linet's grade
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    to get Momposhi to come.
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    He came, and he started noticing
    his daughter being promising as a student.
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    With each visit, he built
    a strong relationship with his daughter --
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    noticing not just her grades
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    but also accepting her
    as someone with full potential.
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    So when Linet was accepted
    in one of the top national high schools
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    after eighth grade,
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    Momposhi was bursting with pride
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    and went around the village
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    telling everyone how proud
    and how smart his daughter was.
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    (Laughter)
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    Can you imagine?
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    He brought Linet
    to the new school himself.
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    It was the first time either of them
    had ever been to Nairobi.
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    Today Linet is studying
    at university in Australia --
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    (Applause and cheers)
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    and Momposhi is our greatest
    advocate in the community.
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    I also brought mothers to the table,
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    including my own.
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    That's my mother
    in one of our training programs.
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    And our mothers are involved
    in the education of their own children.
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    I also brought grandmothers into the mix.
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    (Laughter)
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    In my community, grandmothers
    are the proud keepers
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    of our stories and cultures,
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    and I wanted my girls to learn
    and embrace our rich Maasai culture.
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    Today, grandmothers
    do story time with the girls,
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    and it's a beautiful way
    our community remains connected.
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    I also ...
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    started working with the boys!
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    (Laughter)
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    What would happen
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    if the boys grew up with the same
    mindset as their fathers before them?
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    I'll tell you, not much will change.
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    So I enlisted support from an organization
    called I'm Worth Defending:
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    a group of young, progressive leaders
    led by Alfred and George.
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    Together we created
    a training program for boys and girls
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    who could not attend my school,
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    sharing vital information
    about gender equality,
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    health and human rights.
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    Today we have reached
    over 10,000 boys and girls and counting.
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    (Applause)
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    It turns out it truly does take a village
    to make this kind of a dream come true.
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    (Laughter)
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    That's what you're seeing today,
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    where nearly 400 girls
    have not gone through FGM
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    in my village,
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    in a region where nearly 80 percent
    of women have been cut.
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    Believe me, these girls,
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    they are sharing their experiences
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    with their sisters,
    their cousins and their friends.
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    They're so interested.
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    Over time, this is becoming the new normal
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    and it's being embraced
    by the same, same community --
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    my community.
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    So what does transforming
    communities mean to Kenya?
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    President Obama visited Kenya in 2015,
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    and he met with representatives
    from organizations
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    trying to help improve communities.
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    Guess what?
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    He met Linet!
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    (Laughter)
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    (Applause)
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    Together they talked about a Kenya
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    where all girls
    have the same opportunities,
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    where Linet is a leader
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    and where communities
    like Enoosaen are thriving
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    because its members --
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    all its members -- have opportunities.
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    Helping the communities see
    that each daughter is a treasure,
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    every sister is full of potential,
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    and helping every single girl
    see that value in herself.
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    There is no limit
    to what that future will cost.
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    Not every girl who comes
    to my school will be a PhD,
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    but every single one of them
    will achieve her full potential
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    and will become an advocate
    for her children
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    and her grandchildren for years to come.
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    Today my dreams are informed
    by what I learned from them
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    and what I've learned from you.
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    My journey led me
    out of Enoosaen and back again.
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    And in the process,
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    I was embraced by the world,
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    and you have become my village.
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    So I make a new promise to you,
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    my elders, my sisters and my friends,
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    that I am going to keep
    dreaming and keep going
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    until girls like Linet and Faith
    achieve their dreams
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    and I see mine:
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    that all communities
    give every single woman
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    and every single girl
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    their dreams come true.
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    Thank you.
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    (Applause and cheers)
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    Thank you, thank you.
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    (Applause and cheers)
Title:
Empower a girl, transform a community
Speaker:
Kakenya Ntaiya
Description:

Kakenya Ntaiya turned her dream of getting an education into a movement to empower vulnerable girls and bring an end to harmful traditional practices in Kenya. Meet two students at the Kakenya Center for Excellence, a school where girls can live and study safely -- and uplift their community along the way. "When you empower a girl, you transform a community," Ntaiya says.

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Video Language:
English
Team:
closed TED
Project:
TEDTalks
Duration:
12:31

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