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... proposthumous. Man is proposthumous, ok?
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And essentially, if you sit back, and say, "well..."
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"So, yes, what are we going to do with him?" We can't do a fucking thing.
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And so history moves to that point
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whenwhere people undergo that change.
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Let me say it another way. The sailboat will come when it comes.
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You know what I'm know or not? A lot of people rolling a boat, isn't it?
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"How long are they going to row?", "You have any other suggestions?"
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"No", "Well, keep rolling"
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While you're in a row boat culture instead of saying
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"Don't people realize they're driving themselves to nuclear war?"
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And your mother says "yes, it is true."
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But she has no investment in American radiant corporation, you know?
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And she doesn't own any sophisticated metal plants where she sells space age metals.
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She doesn't give a shit. "Stop making weapons!", you know.
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But if your grandfather dies and leaves her a half interest in titanium.
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Then she says "where's titanium used?", "in submarines, space vehicles..."
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"When is the next space program coming up?"
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Because she is involved.
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And that is why, I mentioned that students were pretty good,
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because they don't have any investment when they're going to school.
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"Stop the war now!!", once they get in school may work for a law firm.
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Titanium Incorporated. American Titanium Corporation.
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Dow chemical. They now have a vested interest.
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They have a home, a car, and a kid going to school.
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Their community they belong to the elks, they appear before people.
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So, all of those things reinforce their existence.
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The things I teach take a away from your life.
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Everything I try teach here takes things away from you, in the normal world.
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It makes it tougher to get along with people
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It makes your income lower.
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It makes you more disagreeable.
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Not a fucking commodity. When I had to sell here, that's any good.
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And people wonder why this system isn't successful.
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Let me say. Once someone said to me, "What is Sociocyberneering?"
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I said "a non-profit organization", They said "Who's the president?"
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I said "I'm", "Not possible."
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The whole idea is, if you want to make money
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There are books like "How to Make Friends and Influence People"
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"How to Get Along with the Joneses"
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If you want to do that, that is another package.
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That's we call that living a lie.
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We smile on the outside and ulcerate on the inside.
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We have palpitations and temple beating
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but you get up and you smile.
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When you go to the right schools, when you live with the bentleys of Long Island,
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and they send you to finishing schools, a little girl.
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You might be at a party and your husband might, tip over bowl a smile.
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When you get at home you chew it. Whatever.
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Uneducated people and sophisticated people, they ball each other out.
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Then you go to a Greek party, Syrian party, and a Turkish party,
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And it say "Stu, and do you do is a nice house?"
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"It is not a nice."
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And they bother you right now, and you say sure, that is not a nice what you do.
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But sophisticated people smile.
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And they always, "If your wife trips or...
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and you walk out and then you beat her up...
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normal people think everyone gets along so well.
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"Why can't you be like that?", to return of the wife.
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See that couple always smiling,... along so well.
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Whereas rude people down at earth, and they manifest their anger right away.
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They have less ulcers.
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But the finishing school people have lots of ulcers,
psychological problems, you see?
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So, if you don't understand what we need is not to go finishing school,
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and no to be so simple as to ball people out in the presence of others.
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What we have to attain is a point of view that doesn't lead to the balling out.
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You know what that mean.
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That means you give somebody something that they think they want,
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they try to assemble it, it's beyond to their experience.
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Instead of saying, "I got you something and you can't even put it together"
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"If don't, I should have given it to your older brother."
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This is the normal world, so what if you, if you do it yourself,
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and you say you didn't believe assembling our system,
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whatever it work in a way you can't, if i'm able to.
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And if you can't put it together, that is no use for anything for you.
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It is just you don't have the ability.
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Don't conclude. You do it, act that way.
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Now, you are going straight on that teacher, if you did that.
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If you always were identical, meaning, if you only have to behave with that person, that is enough.
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Let me say again, if you love your students that you work with.
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And you found to hurt them. Like i said yesterday.
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You hurt people because, whatever you instruct people,
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they, in the beginning, they don't come up with some levels of instruction,
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that they might think their us.
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I would say that their umbrella, you vanish and point which was too close.
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Now that was associated with criticism.
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Your life were shaped, it is too abrupt.
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And that is not a criticism.
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That is a, there are limitated a pencil,
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and showing that you attained that in fact, or a private.
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But it is not criticism.
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It is a clarification of insufficiency. That is quite different.
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That criticism is something like this.
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I took their escape and becomes and touch,
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and embarrassed me in the brain, you see? That is sick.
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You thought that was criticism, and it is sick.
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So, there is no sense for us to point people think,
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allowing that she do stupid thing in Wednesday, along the domes.
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There is a price doomed, you see?
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Now, that we got to understand that a person making their announcement has a low self sufficiency.
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And declines up when you are back.
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That is a way to get a self suficiency.
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You see? There is a key that is laughing.
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And he find it on his bag, you see?
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So, there are people that have no existence.
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And they must prevent feel sorry for them.
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And in order to that, a very interesting thing is to do
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sometimes if you do it right, is when the person stares on you.
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You might hide on you too? No. And they stared on you.
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And then you say now, that i feel 6 times in third grade.
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And you go on, and see, and then they go on, and you mean,
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another things to do, you are not that bad.
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You are that capable, you see?
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And you go off, laboring. Sometimes that they might get that message.
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And the idea is, that kind of conversation
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generates morbidity, depression, anger, hostility.
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So, normal people that come to me, that used to have therapy sessions, you see? Personal therapy.
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Becomes into another problem, they will always have a problem.
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As long as the language they inherit and hope, and surely has.
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I'm not that successful that i might be.
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I can't see and learn as fast as George.
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As long as we have comparative values, they will always have problems.
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All the voice are carrying books in stores.
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Now that you have in system became, they are carrying verbal system from school.
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All you bought is a pretty nice, and that prettiness and getting older over there.
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I thought that, and i get a nine shift, you see?
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In order to call all of those values, that you see emotions, depressions.
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You know, the years, the rolling goes so fast, like you want to go back to the old days.
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And the Saturday of the future is looking to the future.
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Because as the computer get bigger and wiser, it is more valuable.
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What i see if i can't explain a theological difficulty in this kind of subject,
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they have great difficulty...