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Friday Night Guided Meditation | Ajahn Brahm | 31 January 2020

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    So now we do our meditation session.
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    So if you'd like to close your eyes.
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    With your eyes closed it's like you're not
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    drawn out into the world, you can stay
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    home in your body and in your emotional world.
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    Just in my position I have to do
    lots and lots of work
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    I'm really welcoming the help from the committee
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    and operations manager and other people
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    for next year, it's just what we have to do
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    but when I meditate I can close my eyes
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    and forget about all of that and just go
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    inside - first of all go inside my body,
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    I'm aware of how I'm sitting
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    to make sure it's a comfortable posture
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    as I feel it, not according to any books or
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    any recommendations by other teachers,
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    to be able to know yourself what you need.
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    And then I become even more specific.
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    I ask my legs - "legs, how are you?"
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    When I ask a part of my body how it is,
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    I'm more mindful, aware, so I can be very
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    conscious of any feelings in my legs and
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    if I need to move and adjust,
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    out of kindness I will do so.
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    And after I move I have mindfulness of
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    the new positions, see if it's better.
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    This way using the feedback
    for mindfulness
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    and the kindness and care I have
    for my own body,
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    I make sure my legs
    are in the best position.
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    Not only does this mean
    for a comfortable meditation
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    it's also most important
    development to get peace
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    inside the mind as well.
    Awareness and kindness.
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    Then I move up from my legs once
    they're comfortable
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    to my butt and once again
    I haven't got
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    my cushion in the proper position
    so I'm going to now
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    adjust the cushion underneath my butt.
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    That's good.
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    And once that's adjusted it feels good
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    then I go to my back,
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    give it a stretch as I usually do
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    and ask my back does it need
    any more adjustment.
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    Sitting on a chair you can lean back if
    you wish or you can lean forward
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    whichever is more comfortable for you.
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    It doesn't always need to be the same
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    every week or every time you meditate.
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    I ask my back - "back, what do you want?
    how do you feel?"
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    That's mindfulness, that's
    being sensitive to your back right now
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    and following those instructions until
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    you get as comfortable as you can.
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    You can't get full comfort but you
    can get pretty good.
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    And then to be aware of your shoulders,
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    and to relax your shoulders
    however you manage to do that.
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    And one way is to imagine
    those shoulders like a
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    bunch of strings on either side of
    your top part of your spine
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    and then be pulled, stretched,
    by invisible monsters.
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    Now you relax, let go,
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    nothing is being pulled or squashed
    or stretched,
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    the stress is going till the shoulders you
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    can feel them change and the awareness is
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    in one part of the body, you can see the
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    feelings change there and soon by
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    experience, often by trial and error,
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    you learn how to totally relax
    feelings in your body.
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    And then I go to my hands.
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    Where my hands are
    just defines where my arms are
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    so I look at my hands,
    make sure they're comfortable.
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    If anyone watched every week
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    my hands will be in a slightly different
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    position because every week is different
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    every time is different so make sure my
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    hands are okay, then I go back up to my
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    shoulders and on top of my shoulders
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    my neck, making sure the head is balanced
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    on top of the neck, not too far back,
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    not too far forward,
    not too far to the left or
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    the right and as often happens wearing
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    these robes sometimes I get the cloth
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    a little bit too tight
    which it is right now.
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    I'm just going to adjust my robe.
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    That's that much better.
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    Well also I'm aware of inside
    my neck in my throat,
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    I do have hayfever and every now and
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    again so I make sure that everything
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    inside is nice and relaxed
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    so I don't need to cough.
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    Just learning how to relax
    one part of the body
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    I use my mindfulness,
    I'm aware of just that
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    one area and see the feelings change.
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    I know what to do through experience
    of how to relax.
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    And then I move my attention to my face
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    especially the muscles around the eyes
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    and the mouth, sometimes they are tight
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    simply because they're expressing the
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    emotions inside - it could be tiredness,
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    it could be fear, could be anxiety,
    whatever,
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    could be happiness,
    but your face is what
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    shows other people your emotional world.
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    So I make sure everything is relaxed
    on my face.
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    Muscles around my eyes
    are just totally loose.
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    Around my mouth is also loose.
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    Been doing this so many years
    I know how to relax pretty quickly .
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    Muscles around my face.
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    When I do that it means the emotions are
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    also relaxed and positive, at ease,
    loose, free.
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    And before I leave my body I just watch
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    the whole of it, not as parts
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    but as a unified one organism
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    nicely relaxed as I check
    from the head to the toe,
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    from the toe to the head,
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    is anything in there which is tight,
    I loosen it
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    until I can feel what every
    Friday I teach here,
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    I call the delight of a relaxed body.
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    It's not 100% relaxed but it's so
    relaxed that my body feels at ease.
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    While you stay with that relaxed body
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    for a few more seconds
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    when my body is at ease
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    then I can let it go
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    and go to my emotional world,
    the world inside.
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    I look at what I call my peace-o-meter:
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    how peaceful am I right now?
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    I had quite a bit of work for
    the last hour and a half
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    so my mind is a little bit tired,
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    so my peace-o-meter is a bit
    not as peaceful as usual.
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    So your peace-o-meter, give it a
    reading from one to ten.
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    One is really peaceful, ten is agitated.
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    So you know where you are,
    how peaceful you are,
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    and now find out what is
    necessary, what is the cause,
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    for lowering the reading of
    your peace-o-meter?
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    For me it's just letting things be.
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    Giving up all past and all future
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    and being kind in this moment,
    allowing this moment to be.
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    When I smile at the present, the now,
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    the now smiles back.
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    I'm happy to be here.
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    And I know from so much experience that
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    now is where my future is made.
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    If I want to give a good talk later on
    I don't think about it,
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    instead I stay with this moment
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    be so kind to this moment,
    called now.
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    My peace-o-meter goes down more
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    more peaceful, more more relaxed,
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    more and more at ease.
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    I know a lot of the time
    it's not what I say how it is said,
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    where it comes from.
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    I make sure there's peace inside,
    acceptance, kindness.
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    Staying in this moment..
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    Sometimes I've seen people
    carrying heavy bags,
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    one in the left hand,
    one in the right hand.
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    Bag on the left hand, on the outside,
    most shopping bags have got
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    letters on the outside.
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    This shopping bag has the four letters
    P A S T. Past.
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    Because in that shopping bag you keep
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    all of your memories from the past,
    you carry them around with you.
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    No wonder you're tired.
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    In the right hand there's another
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    shopping bag with the letters F U T U R E.
    Future.
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    You also carry that bag around.
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    Those hands carrying really
    heavy loads,
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    no wonder people can get
    angry and negative.
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    Just tiredness that's all.
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    So now feel that shopping bag in the
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    left hand - that's the past.
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    Imagine lowering that shopping bag
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    to the ground - when it meets the floor
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    there's no more weight.
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    You can uncurl the fingers of your
    left hand and move them
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    up to your side so you can rest and
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    regenerate, have some peace.
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    The shopping bag in the hand hand,
    the future,
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    all your worries and concerns
    and anxieties,
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    also your hopes and dreams as well,
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    carrying them around incessantly,
    sometimes day and night.
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    Imagine lowering that to the ground.
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    When the bag of your future worries and
    concerns and hopes,
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    when that meets the ground,
    the weight disappears as well.
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    You can move your hand away,
    let go,
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    until your right hand and arm is
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    loosely by your side, relaxing.
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    When you let go of the past and the future
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    it's like you're standing in
    its place between them
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    with no weight, no burden.
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    Relax, you can pick up the past and
    future whenever you want
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    but not now during the meditation.
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    This is free time, because you deserve it.
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    We're staying here, opening the door of
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    your heart, your mind, to this moment
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    no matter what it is,
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    because the most important thing is
    to be here - right now -
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    keeping the past and the future
    on the ground.
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    You're in the present moment.
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    Your peace-o-meter should give a
    very low reading now.
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    And for many meditators,
    once they let go
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    they become aware of their breathing,
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    one thing which is always moving.
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    But as you are watching your breath
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    just imagine, visualize,
    as you breathe in,
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    breathe in peace, or health,
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    whatever you want to breathe in,
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    good spiritual peace, health, kindness
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    As you breathe out,
    breathe out, let go,
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    any attachments, tiredness, worries.
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    Let your out-breath carry it away
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    out of your mind, out of your body.
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    Out, breathe in peace, happiness, health.
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    Breathing in peace, and feel it come in.
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    Breathe out - let go.
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    Breathing in peace,
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    breathe out - let go.
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    Breathe in, no controlling.
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    Breathe out, letting things disappear.
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    I'm going to be quiet for five minutes,
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    when I start speaking again it'll be
    close to the end of meditation.
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    Sot it's getting close to the end of the
    meditation now.
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    How do you feel?
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    What's it like inside?
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    How peaceful are you and how relaxed is
    your body..if you can feel it?
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    Sometimes the body gets so relaxed that
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    it just disappears, it is with your mind
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    and that relaxes, it gets so peaceful,
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    so free, not a thought in your mind.
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    How blissful is that..
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    And also know what works,
    what works for you,
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    because every time you meditate
    we learn,
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    we learn and get better
    mindfulness and kindness,
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    for the feedback until we
    become in our own ways
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    expert in meditation.
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    I'm now going to ring the gong
    three times.
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    When the gong finishes sounding
    for the third time
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    please come out from the meditation.
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    [gong 1]
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    [gong 2]
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    [gong 3]
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    It's nice..
    yeah..
Title:
Friday Night Guided Meditation | Ajahn Brahm | 31 January 2020
Description:

Ajahn Brahm guides a meditation for approximately thirty minutes. Please support the BSWA in making teachings available for free online via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BuddhistSocietyWA

Recorded at Dhammaloka Buddhist Centre, Perth, Western Australia.

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Video Language:
English
Team:
Buddhist Society of Western Australia
Project:
Guided Meditation
Duration:
25:58

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