Peter & Bethany Secretly Share Both Sides Of Their Love Story

-Um... my arms.

-Hey babe.

-I'll have you know that I'm really good at lip-reading.

-Okay, then I'll just talk like this [laughs].

-My name is Peter Sudarso. I am 26.

-And I'm Bethany Struble and I'm 25.

1, 2, 3

-6 years. -Almost 7 years.

-Yeah.

-Can you hear what I'm saying?

You can't hear-? She just responded!

Turn it up.

-[whispers] I can't hear anything.

-Oh you can't hear anything!

-Uh, the first time I saw her was actually on the Internet.

Yeah, I saw her on a website called lookbook.nu

and I think she commented on one of my pictures

so I clicked on it and I saw her, and-

My goodness, I mean...

-[laughs]

-Don't point at me. It makes me nervous.

-The first time I met her, I was- we met for a photoshoot

and we were just hanging out and as I was leaving,

she offered to cook for me.

When she was like, "I'm not gonna let you leave on an empty stomach"

I was like, "That's the one!"

-Oh, my ears are ringin'.

-Yeah!

-We were both doing this site called lookbook.

I liked his outfit and then I think I commented or something?

I thought he was cute. I don't know.

Yeah, he came over to do like this photoshoot or something,

and like I invited this random guy to my house and-

-What are you saying?

-What?

We had been talking for a while and

I was slow to make a decision or even think in that way.

It took me a few months to like really think that

"Oh, maybe I do want to be with this guy."

-Uh... I wasn't sure if she liked me or not,

because I told her like a week before that I liked her

and she just kind of like, "Okay."

And acted as if nothing happened.

And so I kind of just, like, made the leap to try to kiss her.

And as I went in, she like -whoop!- dodged it.

And I was like "Ooh. Wrong. Did not read the signals right."

-He went in for a kiss. Then I was like, "Oh God!"

And, like, really freaked out at first.

But then I kissed him so it made up for it.

-Did you?

-What do you mean?

-I don't remember that.

-I dodged it, and then I was like, "Okay yeah."

Then I kissed you.

-What? I honestly don't remember.

All I remember was, like, I went in and you were like-

I always thought I made the first move.

-You did!

-I kinda technically did.

-I guess it's not really an insecurity.

It's more of a fear that he will be taken away on, like, a really long job away.

If he gets like a big movie or something, I don't know.

-She was the first, I guess, non-Asian that I've had a relationship with.

And at first, that was something that I was, like, really insecure about.

-We haven't really gotten into, like, a really bad fight.

Um, parenting together is sort of difficult.

-She has a daughter so, um, I think the hardest part is the way people look at us.

-More than anything, like we personally don't have a problem with it.

I got into the relationship knowing she had a kid.

-I was 16, so you can imagine there were hard times

but he was there like about a year after she was born.

And he's been there ever since, so.

-Uh, she doesn't wash her dishes.

I always have to wash her dishes.

And if you ask her, she's like, "I'm working on it. I've been washing the dishes for the past 2 weeks."

And she has been, but still.

-If you said washing dishes, I'm gonna be upset.

I wash my dishes.

-See? I told you she was gonna say that!

-I wash my dishes.

-Yeah, you do. Sort of.

-He's actually a really great dancer and I never really tell him that.

But he is very sexy when he dances.

But as for personality-wise, what I find most sexy is his honesty and trustworthiness.

-I really like her shoulders. I don't know why. I know that's a weird, weird thing to say.

But I love her personality. I think that's the sexiest thing about her.

The fact that she could do those stupid faces and do little jokes and-

Like that!

-He did. He said it first.

-I did. I thought she was sleeping and I said to her

"I think I'm falling in love with you."

I think she pretended to be asleep for that whole duration

because she didn't wanna say it back.

Yeah, and you admitted it a week later. Remember?

That time I said "I think I'm falling in love with you"?

-Oh yeah, I do. Yeah. Well, I didn't know what to say!

-I know, so you just pretended to be asleep.

-Yeah.

Maybe I don't tell him enough, but I have told him that I'm really proud of him.

Just proud of who he is. We've been together for a really long time.

And I'm really proud of him.

I've never felt this way about another person, so..

He is my home. Wherever he is, I'm 100% comfortable and I feel safe.

-Yeah, actually. I wish you would love yourself like I love you.

Or at least you would love yourself like you love me.

I chose you because you are the purest human being I've ever met.

You always make things lighter for me.

Whether I'm sad, anxious, stressed, you're always there for me.

I need you. I actually need you.

-You got so serious. I almost cried.

-I know. I saw that. I was like, "Why is this getting so serious?"

We were just talking about things.

-Oh.

I just said that I'm proud of you, but I do tell you that. But maybe not enough.

-Thank you.

-All I said was I wish you would love yourself as much as I loved you.

-"Loved"? Past tense.

-As much as I love you.

-Okay.

-I love you.

-I love you too.

-That's it.

-You could tell me all the bad things you said when we get in the car.

-Or you could watch it on YouTube.

-I'm not gonna wait that long.

-We didn't cry!

-My mic fell down.

-Thank you!

-Thank you for having us!