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Dear Emilia, you just turned 18.
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So, as your future self,
here is some advice
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that I'd like to give you.
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[Music]
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This particular journey that you're on
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is unlike any one of your friends'
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that you are with right now.
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What they're doing
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is gonna bring them
joy and happiness;
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and what you're doing
is also gonna bring you --
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maybe a little more struggle,
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and some joy and happiness as well.
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There are gonna be times
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when someone says
that dream that you've had
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your entire life?
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The moment when someone says
that's not possible,
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it is.
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I know you didn't get into drama school
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this time around?
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But
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you will.
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You have the strength to overcome it.
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And, you can go to the parties.
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And you can have fun at the parties.
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But you don't need to do
everything that everyone is doing.
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You know, ain't nothing wrong
with a Diet Coke.
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[Laughs] Ain't nothin' wrong.
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18 year old Emilia,
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I'm gonna quote "The Sunscreen Song"
at you.
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I know you know it.
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"You are not as fat
as you think you are."
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"There are some women who look one way,
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and there are other women
who look another way."
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"Like, a whole other way.
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And the way that the other women look?
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People love, because
they look like women."
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So, when it comes to relationship advice,
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there's other things that come along
with relationships.
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You think that they're, like,
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inspecting everything...
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you know, and, kind of looking at you
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in a way of, sort of,
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that makes you feel uncomfortable,
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or judged, or whatever it is.
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Chances are, they are not.
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Chances are, they are just
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super happy to be there.
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You are gonna feel
some serious heartbreak.
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You're gonna feel, like, some proper...
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some proper things.
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And the reason why it's gonna hurt
so much,
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it's because that heartbreak
is gonna make you doubt yourself.
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You put yourself out on a plate.
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And, you bare everything.
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And, someone says that they --
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they don't really like that.
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So, that makes you feel...
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like you're not worth it.
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But, you are.
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And there are lots of people
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who are going to tell you
that you are worth it.
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The people in your life
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when all the lights are off,
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the real people, who
you really love?
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Just hug them, like, every day.
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Okay, so. Parting words.
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Little Emilia. Littler Emilia.
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I'm just gonna say that, um,
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you know, it's...
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it's autumn right now.
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Because it's October.
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But, uh...
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"winter is coming."
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[Music]
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And "wear sunscreen."
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Love, Emilia.
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