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I'm Josh Aronson
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and in 1999 I made a film about the
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Artinian family of Long Island,
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called Sound and Fury.
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That film was about two
brothers in a battle.
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One is hearing, and one is deaf,
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and they both have deaf children.
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The hearing brother, Chris, and his wife,
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find out about a new technology, called
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the cochlear implant, that can help
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their deaf baby to hear.
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But the deaf brother, Peter, like many
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people in the deaf world, doesn't see
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deafness as a handicap.
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He likes being deaf.
He likes his deaf world.
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So Chris' choice to implant his child
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offends Peter, but when his own child,
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5-year-old Heather, comes to him
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and asks for a cochlear implant,
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Peter's world is really shaken.
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Sound and Fury is the story of Peter
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and his wife, Nita, who go on a painful
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search for information about the
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cochlear implant and what it means
for their daughter,
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and what it would mean for their family.
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Peter ends up at war with his own parents,
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who want Heather implanted more than anything.
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But in the end Peter and his wife choose
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the deaf way of life for their daughter,
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and ultimately they move the family away,
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leaving the Artinian family deeply divided.
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From the moment that Sound and Fury
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came out, people asked me, "What happened
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to Heather? What happened to the family?"
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Well, it's now six years later, and I've
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gone back to the Artinians to find out.
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The first few minutes of this film are
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scenes from Sound and Fury, so if you
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haven't seen that original film, this will
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give you a sense of the characters
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and the backstory.
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Chris's implanted son is 7 now, and doing
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quite well, but they decided not to
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participate in this update.
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So -- Sound and Fury: Six Years Later
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(Nita, via interpreter)
Why do you want a cochlear implant now?
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(Heather)
Because I wanna hear everything!
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(Nita)
Everything?
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(Heather)
I need to hear alarms,
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smoke detectors, for fire and what else?
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(doctor's voice)
The younger the person who
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receives a cochlear implant,
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the more likely they are to develop
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clear, understandable speech.
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Children who are implanted at one year
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of age develop language skills that are
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very similar to normal hearing kids.
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There's always a slight language delay,
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which you can't seem to erase, but in a
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one-year-old, that language delay
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is just a matter of a few months.
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The older the child gets, the greater the
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gap there is between a normal hearing child
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and a child who's profoundly deaf.
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(music)
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(laughing)
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(woman's voice)
Shelby wants to sing to you.
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(different voice)
OK, go ahead!
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(singing)
♪ Wheels on a bus go 'round and 'round ♪
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♪'round and 'round, 'round and 'round ♪
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♪ The wheels on a bus go 'round and 'round ♪
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♪ All through the town. ♪
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(woman) Give it to Heather and let her
read like you read, okay?
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Heather, why don't you sign?
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The interpreter will speak. If you sign,
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then she'll voice for you.
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No, I don't wanna sign, I wanna speak!
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Sign the story, it's your language!
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No!
- You sign, she'll speak.
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Just leave her be.
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Now come on, I want you to sign
the story, Heather.
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I wanna speak.
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All right, all right, let her be.
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All right!
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(sounds)
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The idea of this cochlear implant surgery
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is so scary. It's so invasive. They drill
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through the skull and have to go very
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deeply inside. I'm afraid that cochlear
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implants are going to create a bunch of
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robots. It just doesn't seem right for a
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deaf person, because our natural
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communication is signing,
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and being in the deaf world.
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(music)
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Ma, I know how you feel about the cochlear
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implant, but I don't want the implant for
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Heather. That's it!
That's my final decision.
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(Nita)
We're a deaf family. Peter and I grew up
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deaf. We know what it's like growing up
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in a hearing culture. You don't understand
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deaf people --
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(Marianne)
You only want to accept one way, deaf way.
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There are both worlds here! You only want
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deaf world for your children. You are
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limiting your children.
You are forcing them --
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(Peter) Ma --
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You are forcing them to live only in a
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deaf world. You are not --
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(Nita)
That's not true, Marianne.
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When we decided not to do the implant,
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everything was so messed up.
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My mother-in-law was angry, my deaf friends
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were angry, I was angry.
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And I just said, "That's it!"
I just had to drop it.
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That's why we moved to Maryland.
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I needed to get out.
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i needed to protect myself. We wanted to
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be with deaf people who understood us,
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who were like us.
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(music)
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After we moved, I had to stay working
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in New York four days a week, and
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commuting to see my family on weekends.
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I thought we could do this
for at least a year.
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My wife said she was happy living with
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the three kids in the deaf community
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in Maryland. She thought she could be
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happy there. It really sounded great.
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But I was in New York most of the time, so
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it was hard on all of us.
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(music)
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(children's voices)
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(teacher)
Heather, are you ready for speech? Yes? Good.
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(girl's voice)
My turn!
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(teacher)
Your turn, good!
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(animal sound)
Who is that? Who is it?
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OK, in a sentence please. Heather, tell me.
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(sounds)
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(teacher)
One more time, please, please, tell me.
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(sounds)
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Wonderful! Thank you! Whose turn? I forget.
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They were very upset with us. They got
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very involved in the deaf community
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down there. The children were put into
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Maryland School for the Deaf,
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and really at that point I backed off,
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'cause I really felt like, this is it,
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they'll never be back, because they all
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seemed so comfortable down there.
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I had no idea that, while they were down
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there, there were a lot of problems going on.
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I was really alone. Alone with three kids.
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I felt like a single mom because my husband
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had to go back and forth every weekend
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pretty much of the year.
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By the third year, I started to really
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miss everybody back in New York.
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My mother-in-law, and the rest of the
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family. I really felt my children needed
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to see their Grandma and Grandpa.
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We were so disconnected.
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I was really depressed, and then finally
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I had a breakdown. They gave me some
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medication that did help me a bit.
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You know, I really wanted to stay in
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Maryland, but we just couldn't.
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I had no help, no family that was close.
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Nita missed the family and everything was
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just falling apart. Plus our kids missed
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the family, my sister's and my brother's
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family, so I decided then we had to move
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back to New York.
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(music)
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Nita still wasn't well, so we moved in
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with my parents. But then it started all
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over again. We argued over the cochlear
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implant. My parents were just pushing.
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We had a long talk, and I basically said
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to him, Look, you've got two roads to go:
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one is, if you don't help your children
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to do the right thing, I'm not gonna
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put up with it. So, if you want to do the
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right thing for your children,
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then get them implanted. Take care of
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your wife and your children properly,
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I'll do everything I can to help you,
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in every way, so it works.
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I don't think he really trusted
the implant.
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He wasn't sure it was going to work.
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But I think the biggest thing he was
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worried about, he was losing his family.
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That once his children didn't
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communicate the way that he wanted to
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communicate, through ASL, and they became
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part of this hearing world,
he would lose them.
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Tough, very tough on Peter, because this
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was totally against everything that he
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believed in and he fought for, but I also
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believe that during that four-year period,
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somehow some lights went off.
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When I first heard about this new
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technology, I was against it. I didn't
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want to know about it, but within a few
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years I calmed down and I thought about it,
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and realized I had to do what was best
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for my kids. That's really why I changed
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my mind. I wanted to give them the
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opportunity to be happy.
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(music)
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(speech language therapist)
Is your processor on?
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Yeah.
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OK, you gonna go Yeahh or Yes?
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Yes.
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Thank you. OK, you tell me:
(makes various sounds to copy)
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- kk, kk
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-mmmm
-mmm
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-shh
-ff
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-oooh
-ooh
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-Hello.
-Hello.
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-Today's Saturday.
-Today's Saturday.
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-OK. Yesterday was Giovanni's party.
-Yesterday was Giovanni's party.
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OK, what did you eat?
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Pizza. Chips. Hot dog.
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-OK. Peet-za.
-Peet-za.
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Much better.
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OK, what do you like on top of your pizza?
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Nothing.
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Would you eat a pizza if I put
an anchovy on top?
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Absolutely not!
(laughs)
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It was like throwing a light switch on.
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And she blossomed from the time she heard.
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She wanted to live in a hearing world.