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How to handle nightmares?

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    Dear Thay,
    dear Sangha,
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    my name is Julie and
    I am from here in San Diego.
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    Two years ago, I received
    the Five Mindfulness Trainings
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    and since then I have been studying
    for the Fourteen trainings informally.
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    One thing that has been holding me back
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    is because I have suffered from
    Post Traumatic Stress Disorder or PTSD.
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    And over the past few years, this practice
    has brought me a lot of peace
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    and help me live in the present moment.
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    The one that has been holding me back from
    taking the Fourteen Mindfulness Training
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    is that I feel I need to get
    completely past it.
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    And one of the things I am still
    struggling with is nightmares.
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    If you hear it, beautiful dear friends, I
    have nightmares and fears in the evening.
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    So, my question is, is there a practice
    or something I can do to help
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    with staying mindful even
    when we get up from nightmares
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    so that I can continue
    the experience of peace?
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    Every time you wake up from nightmare,
    you feel so happy.
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    (Laughter)
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    And that happiness cannot be
    without nightmare.
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    (Laughter)
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    And if you know how to cherish
    every moment in our daily life,
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    not only we enjoy our daily life
    but we are awake
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    but we are indirectly reduce the amount
    of nightmare during the night.
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    Because I myself have nightmare
    from time to time.
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    Because our consciousness
    carries within itself
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    the collective consciousness of society.
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    My generation has gone through two wars -
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    one with the French and
    one with the Americans.
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    And there was a lot of death,
    destruction, despair
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    and with the practice,
    you can reduce slowly and heal
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    but you cannot heal completely.
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    And the suffering can also
    play a positive role,
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    provided you look like yesterday.
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    Yesterday I was sitting on the mountain
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    and saw a young American sitting
    meditation up there, I felt so wonderful,
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    it's completely different with the time
    when young Americans went there,
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    killed and get killed.
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    So we are able to do this today,
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    young Americans and young Vietnamese
    are sitting together,
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    producing compassion and joy.
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    It is very beautiful, it's exactly the
    opposite of what we had during the '60s.
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    And that is when the healing
    process continues
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    so that the nightmare
    can still be helpful for us
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    to treasure, to appreciate
    what we are able to have today.
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    Each moment can be
    a moment of happiness.
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Title:
How to handle nightmares?
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05:12

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